5 Reasons Why Men Are ATTRACTED To Women Who Don't Try Hard!

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[@OnlySupportThoseWhoSupportYOU]

@Stephan Speaks Sex, It doesn't create Love inside of a man. My birthday was yesterday and I stopped having sex as a gift of love to my mental health. No woman should sleep with a man that tells you he doesn't love you after being with him for almost a year 😮😐🫥 ...... If he does not love my cookies but likes having cookies all of the time - I say 🚩! Flag - that's not right. Most women want to be loved and appreciated if they cook, clean and have sex with a man...❤️‍🔥 I'm so done waisting energy...I feel like I stopped living life to be treated like a servant with nothing offered in return and it made me think within - what am I waiting for? That's when I realized there was nothing there but sex and I had played myself. How mad can I be if a man does not reciprocate but enjoys what I offer? I can only stop having sex out of frustration 😂 He could have had more and better sex inside of love and friendship vibrations and frequencies..... the man dumb.....

[@giftytuffour8090]

I have all your books now I want to finish reading them all,and I will get your coaching course,next am taking it easy,thank you.

[@dianaross1055]

@@OnlySupportThoseWhoSupportYOU true that ✊🏼💜🌹👍🏼✊🏼 I so much can relate to that ✊🏼💜

[@julietnalwoga5247]

Mm

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[@dtinymaynartry]

I think the best gift a man can give to any woman or a woman to any man is to allow each other to be him or herself.I love when I can feel free with anyone in my life .Free to laugh ,free to express myself,free to say what hurts, etc.Its a good feeling to have and a good place to be I think

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[@berylsavanah9508]

There's a guy I'm in the talking stage with and he said this exact thing. That he likes how he can be himself with me and that melted my heart. I hope we become more than just friends and pursue a romantic relationship in future.

[@GlendineMPRSSGGlasgow-nq8nz]

All the best hon. Hopefully you and him are fully committed by now

[@leannegraceliberty]

Why do some men pursue, and then as soon as we show interest back, then they withdraw?? Seems like this withdraw-thing is a rather common phenomenon. 🤦🏽‍♀️

[@reginadavis1028]

The interest back might be coming off as too aggressive and may come off as desperate. Might be too willing to do too much too soon. Maybe? Or some guys just like the pursuit. THAT turns them on. Perhaps...

[@Didi-fr5ic]

He is not a man yet but a grown ass boy 😂

[@leannegraceliberty]

​@@reginadavis1028 yeah, I hear you... I think some guys just really love having a string of women interested in them

[@Didi-fr5ic]

​@@reginadavis1028 a woman should show intrest , I think her intrest is great but it will be the right energy for rhe right man , you should always be yourself, i think is she has a strong sense of showing love in that way its great , just close you're legs

[@leannegraceliberty]

​@@Didi-fr5ic ❤❤❤ fully agree

[@starbright2683]

Amen! "Don't lean on your own understanding." I am guilty of trying way too hard with the last man who I liked. Lord, please deliver me from low self-esteem, desperation, hopelessness, and anxiety, as I age without children! ❤ And thank you for sending Stephan to speak into our lives. 🌄

[@Janet1975]

I have the same issues. 😢

[@brunoconceicao4423]

Ámen, kiddo🙏🏼🌼

[@letgowithlisa]

Amen!💕

[@Jordana1917]

This is an excellent prayer.

[@cassandramartin8108]

😢

[@edwa3dj]

When you KNOW your value and you present it in a feminine manner, men SEE your value and we treat you completely differently than all the other women.

[@Thegazelle1000]

Sometimes it's really difficult to understand the nature of some men: - When you make it easier to chase you, they say that you are too easy to get. - When you do the first move, they said that you are masculine. - when you told them that you're not interested in them, they'll not listen and keep chasing you. - when you told them that you're already in relationship with someone else, they'll keep chasing you. Uh!!! Sometimes they said that women don't knkw what they want, but men don't play either!! THEY ARE CONFUSED 🤔🤔

[@beefaye6861]

.....If a man is not interested....he will never approach u......If he want u....he coming for ya!😋

[@denisedee00]

Amen ! So true!

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

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[@IVvOOvVI]

This might be true, but I have an experience where the man come over to give me his number, and never asked for my number. And he was the only man who came over and I was the only woman he interacted with before he left. I never called him because he was supposed to make the plans. When he gave me his number I just had a bad feeling. I’m sure he was just playing a game to see if I’d fall prey. Needless to say, it backfired on him.

[@CJizzy819]

“Let God Guide You.” Amen. God + Discernment will never fail you. Trust your spirit and that first gut instinct. It’s always the right one.💯

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[@tlc6756]

Absolutely!

[@user-es1qt2ib2p]

Love this. It's very true ❤

[@turner2952]

Great vid! If a man is really interested, he will be the one to persue. If the woman is interested, she will respond to his actions in a positive way by thanking him for calling, telling him that she had a great time on the date, telling him how much she appreciated whatever he did for her. IMO, women should never be the one to initiate anything (calls, dates, etc.). The woman should be the "responder", not the "initiator". Call me "old school", but the way I was raised was that women don't chase men. Always great info, Stephan! Keep up the good work!

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[@amerokeewiya1320]

Chasing & showing interest are 2 different things. Nothing wrong with initiating especially when he does it mostly & when you know unequivocally that he’s totally smitten with you. It’s ok dear…

[@user-mb9jx5tx9y]

Nothing yu said was wrong. Sooooo right

[@alihall676]

I spent many years being controlled by a man who only cared about what I provided to him financially. I learned a great deal from that experience. And I lost myself in the 20 years that I was always going the extra mile. I will never be in this situation again. I have a full life with my friends and family, volunteer work that I will never give up because it’s part of who I am. I have time to focus on someone special in my life and I do this with always having balance in my life. Ladies, communicate up front. If you are not being valued, walk away. Do it with grace and kindness, but walk away. Your time will be there when the timing is right!

[@j.jgodismyprotection4296]

Love this Part of Grace and Kindness always Control your emotions. And walk away gracefully.

[@Thegazelle1000]

You said it right Stephan: "if there's attraction, there will not be a lot of work to do." I always put attraction first before i date someone, if I'm not attracted by someone, I'll put him in the friend zone and leave him there lol. When me and my boyfriend met for the first time, we talked for 15 minutes, then he asked me my number and I give it to him without excitation because I was attracted to him and him the same.

[@user-mb9jx5tx9y]

Yes attraction is very important

[@sowo7136]

As a young lady trying to discover and understand the relationships in reference to the men in this world.Stephen you are like a second father or a great advisor,never have I ever been disappointed by your advice its saved and prevented me from unecessary issues.I'm sending God's blessings to you.

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[@Braveh3artGirl]

Highly recommend RC Blakes on youtube to help you also ❤

[@denisedee00]

25:49 💯 This is so accurate ! I have refocus my attention on my ,Health & fitness. I excercise in my gym & spend alot of time outdoor everyday 🚶‍♀️ Walking or running. It's also a great way to meet people with your same Vibe. #leanandmean

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[@comic_life_86]

Just a reminder man so often fall in ima work on myself, and then just go to gym and care about physical health, but guys most of the time that is not the problem

[@ARCrystals]

I have watched 1,000 videos of over 20 dating coaches over the last 2 years and no one has made more sense or given me better advice then you. Thank you ❤

[@Tnc874]

You may need to get a life

[@GuzmAngelica]

Unfortunately, many men just seek attention. Once they get it, they play hard to get, forget it. I know my worth, I thought he was worth my time, I shared my number and he back up, thank God! There’s no way, I will waste my time with someone that’s not mature enough to stop playing games.

[@orarichman9948]

Not only value yourself, do not lower your standards under no circumstances. If he is the right man, he will accept or meet your standards. Pulling away because he pulls away will not draw him to you, especially if he isn't interested in you or attracted to you. If you don't peak his interest in any type of way, you might as well forget it. Don't play hard to get, be authentic AND BE HARD TO GET!!! Why pretend to be hard to get? Pretending is not being honest and genuine.💯

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you for sharing your thoughts, I appreciate hearing from you ❤

[@Pagalchhagal]

The same advice can be given to men. Do not lower standards. A woman who does not try is likely to not feel attraction towards you and is not deserving of your love

[@katied2196]

Yaaasss!! I'm learning how to become a better woman from a real man's point of view.. we were not given handbooks on this! Men and Women are two different species, but similar in other ways, lol.. I just started talking to a new man, for about a minth, after taking time out for myself and not jumping to the 1st interest.. and your advice and knowledge has made me feel like a better woman and sit back and understand his behaviors more now than immediately reacting off emotions.. and I'm a Cancer Zodiac, lol I'm already emotional, sensitive, and can develop insecurities if I don't check myself.. so again, Thank you for all your education on what should be considered from a Man's perspective and my self value perspective Stephan! Your lady is a very lucky woman! 😘

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[@themariamercedez1101]

Why do we make life so complicated? Just be calm, it is what it is, let it go, let it flow... You can buy yourself Flowers and talk yourself for hours

[@angeliquealamer]

😸👏💐

[@heltristan]

😅😅😅

[@CF-wp7xo]

It's not the case for every man. Once I started dating a guy.. he seemed very interested and sweet ... we were taking things slow (i was). One day, he told me that his ex-girlfriend bought him a Rolex for his birthday (a couple of months after he broke up with her).. So, he felt that he should try to go out with her... I gave him my blessings and said goodbye ( I wasn't going to buy him another Rolex 😂😂😂)

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

I pray that you heal from all that you have been through and be able to keep moving in faith 🙏

[@ladyowl9187]

Wtf 😂

[@CF-wp7xo]

@Stephan Speaks I was not upset at all about it. I was just saying that some men are insecure and like women doormat style. Actually, most men do. But it is not for me

[@leahgithaiga2941]

😂😂 I like your humor.

[@tamz-b1h]

Girl he wanted a matching bracelet 😂😂

[@celestinebennett212]

Thank you, Stephan, your teachings are really educative. Some women don't try too hard because they have busy schedules at work, time is valuable here but when she gives you her time it is 100% . And that's not trying hard because you never know when you will have another date ..depending on your work schedule especially if you are self-employed, the more you grow the more you don't try hard your business takes 90% of your time

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[@1bbybl.u]

That’s capitalism talking. No one dies and goes “dam I wish I spent more time working” it’s usually “I wish I got to spend more time with *insert deceased person*”. the way we live our lives in western culture is intended to interrupt our connection to the divine. Our souls and spirits are more important. Material gains are not everlasting, love is. clear ur schedule for love, make sacrifices in the name of love & tune deep into ur personal discernment 😊

[@celestinebennett212]

@@1bbybl.u did you know that 80% of couples break up because of financial instability that leads to cheating .. Love is not enough to put food on the table for your family.. Everyone has a choice ...but choose wisely

[@elizabethcook9443]

This is great advice!! I’m 46 and learning. Thank you!!

[@tweetyb421]

Thank you so much for this word! It is beneficial for any woman to hear…LOTS of good information. I’m just stunned at the “harem” story…I’m stunned because these girls actually know about each other and STILL engage with this guy…no judgement, but women we have to treat OURSELVES better…we’re fabulous and deserve better….❤️

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[@shani-gurlt8397]

Wow! This was very enlightening! Such an eye-opener! Thank you. Stephan

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

My pleasure ❤️

[@veritastold830]

Let him lead. Learn to follow. Only compete with yourself, to be more original, more authentic, with and/or without him.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that ❤️

[@radmilamilovanovic6450]

I'm in love with Stephan's words of wisdom and his closeness to God! Thank YOU 💖

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

My pleasure ❤

[@teshathompson5695]

God chose you for this relationship coach business. Keep up the good work, Sir!

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you very much I'm happy to hear that 🙌

[@vonettaadams8839]

Congratulations on your 1.3M subscribers. Keep reaching for the stars 🤩

[@oliviadimock8202]

Thanks Stephan for this video, I love hearing perspectives from a man rather than trying to figure it out on my own! God bless you brother! ❤💪

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

❤️ 🙂 Thank you very much and may God bless you as well 🙏

[@AudaciousErin82Baby]

Stephan, I just wanted you to know that you're truly a blessing to us-me especially. Thank You so much my Brotha (huge hug) May God continue to bless you in all of your endeavors now and in the future 🙏🏾

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you very much I'm happy to hear that 🙌

[@Mermaid03_03]

This is true. I don’t try at all and post playful toxic things and men seem to flock to me. I just think they’re attracted. It’s nuts to me because you’d think I was a walking red flag lol.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

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[@gi552]

Watching your videos lead me meet the man I prayed for who matches my effort and energy in terms of pouring each others need and desire to strengthen our relationship even if we are miles apart 😊

[@daniellarodriguezperez8079]

Are you in a long-distance relationship if you don't mind me asking?

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Glad I could help 🙏

[@gi552]

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[@gi552]

@@daniellarodriguezperez8079 Yes, Mam 😊

[@daniellarodriguezperez8079]

@@gi552 me too. Hope you get what you deserve

[@krysiadavis7773]

I don't know what happened to me. I definitely tried too hard, I use to do that with all my relationships in general. But then I learned to no try so hard... not I don't try at all!!! I'm not playing hard to get... I'm just not playing at all. Lol I don't like it but I can't seem to change it. I did completely quit dating.

[@laxdidi6300]

I love everything you share & the way you explain. It all just makes perfect sense! You are the best! Thank you! 🌺

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Glad to hear that, thank you for your response!

[@dtinymaynartry]

I LOVE your content very much.If we are not better people in relationships after hearing all this wisdom then......

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you for sharing your thoughts, I appreciate hearing from you ❤

[@JessE-mr4yu]

Hi Stephan, I love your channel very helpful. I very much appreciate you. Peace and Blessings to you and all the beautiful souls out there. 🙏💙🩵🕊🕊

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you very much I'm happy to hear that 🙌

[@meagain9649]

This video of yours (especially this one though others too) HELPED ME SOO MUCH to not only respect myself but also value myself and prevent heartache thanks

[@CyberSecurityFashionDesigner]

Stephan, I think the real issue is how we are made. Women are naturally lovers and love to show it! The issue is men do not yet they are always complaining that they want to be loved but always pushing away the women that do! It is just confusing and a game where everyone is confused and getting hurt! Women have to tone down their personalities to get a man. It took my years to become “neutral.”

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

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[@kdvwusm]

I know :( that’s why I have a roster 😅 I am naturally very giving and love pleasing a man I find attractive.

[@CyberSecurityFashionDesigner]

@@kdvwusm amen to that one! Hard to find that

[@SusieMarie-57]

Thank You Stephan! Yes, Yes and yes to the first 10 seconds!!!

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️

[@SusieMarie-57]

Okay Stephan, so I just found out about You the other week & You Do Know Your Stuff -I’m so impressed! I hope You considering going live sometime soon / because I want to talked back to you from the female perspective! Plus to ask you to elaborate some more on some points! Actually I find myself talking to you - only like men you ignore me and keep going.. ha, ha Your teaching is refreshing & a God sent; love hearing you speak & absolutely love that fact that you are a God-fearing Christian man & come from His truth! I don’t want to listen nor learn from the world; they come from all kinds of wayward, perverted & Lustful perspective! I’m interested in Love! And a fun, healthy, enjoyable, solid relationship with a masculine real man, not a wimp or sissy nor an arrogant power hungry greedy ego manic or chauvinistic pig! And I certainly don’t desire a man that’s prettier than me or one that takes more time primping in the mirror or one that’s covered in jewelry, no earrings, no oh, oh - okay so you have them but I prefer clean skin & No Tattoos or long hair… ha, ha - you’re good though Stephan anyhow you belong to someone else - which is a good thing! Ha, ha And that’s a good thing that beauty is in the eye of the beholder & we each like & are attracted to different features physically & for sure the heart ❤️ & mind of a good solid man -the whole package - Spirit, Mind & Body

[@preciousstone2782]

I ABSOLUTELY AGREE...WOMEN SHOULD SHOW SOME INTEREST ,& MAKE SOME EFFORT WITHOUT BEING A THIRSTY...

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

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[@sonyaellis2059]

Here we go again with some more golden nuggets! 😂Love how you are free to express raw truth, including God. 🤗🙏❤️🌞🌈

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Glad to hear that, thank you for your response!

[@RhondaR4]

Thank you, Stephan for making this video! I'm learning a lot.❤️

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Glad to hear that 🙏

[@heatherceravolo161]

Stephan please help explain why a man wants validation and says he wants to be exclusive but when I start giving him that, he pulls back! Then I pull back to give him space and then he thinks I am messing with someone else. Its a lose lose situation. What is your opinion on this?

[@verasmith1900]

Amazing video! You have help me smooth out some kinks in my energy I am putting out! Bless you!!💯💯💯😊😊💕💕

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Glad I could help 🙏

[@stefanimelcher]

Oh boy, this is the hardest to do! It's hard not to try to make things happen and let God make it happen. Thanks Steph, you rcok!

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Glad I could help 🙏

[@lindazeisky3845]

Thank you, lately, I've been somehow coming across some interesting videos of yours that have made me think of things related to some doubts I've had... Some of it has given clarity.

[@MsLilac88]

Hey Stephan, your relationship videos have been beneficial for my interpersonal relationships & marriage. 👍

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

I'm happy the videos have been helpful to you, don't forget to share so that others can receive love, healing, and clarity ❤ 🙏

[@MsLilac88]

@@MeetStephanSpeaks I hope that more people can gain clarity about the complexities of men’s mind. 😊

[@graciousmurindi2712]

Awesome delivery Stephan

[@sherryporter4740]

This was phenomenal, I truly enjoyed it!!!♥️

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Glad to hear that, thank you for your response!

[@frankyhubiz6861]

Stephan thank you so much for taking your time to explain all this to us I really appreciate the way you calmly explained the difference between playing hard to get and not trying hard I really understand the difference and I learn something from this your video may God keep on giving you the strength and wisdom to keep on putting us through and may God bless you and your job 🙏 thanks

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

I'm happy this has been helpful to you 🙏

[@hateisforlosers6116]

This was awesome!!!!! Information. I have met guys who just want to have fun,i am like God No i dont have anytime for that. I learned to enjoy my singleness and my ever so precious relationship with the Father God.He's right about all 5 points, for the younger ladies listen to this gentleman ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that ❤

[@kourtney101]

Nice, this segment was real talk. Perhaps we need to know the answer to basic questions, like, do I know what I deserve? 🤔 🙏🏿

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you for sharing your thoughts, I appreciate hearing from you ❤

[@B_ready4671]

I am awful at flirtng..I fumble all ovr myself..I get very Lavern & Shirley-ish 😆

[@hmastin]

Thank you for reminding us about not over looking the component of God’s guidance and the importance of it’s role in our lives

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

My pleasure ❤️

[@sharonsithole1888]

Thank you so much🙏🏾 i was really need this

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

I'm happy this has been helpful to you 🙏

[@authorlarhondanfelton9152]

Thank you Stephan! This video answered a couple of questions I was pondering over. 💜

[@fifi5535]

This was perfect timing. God bless you.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

❤️ 🙂 Thank you very much and may God bless you as well!

[@275MsParis]

I’m learning so much from your channel because I had no clue he was a narcissist until I came across your channel. Thank You

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Glad I could help 🙏

[@NatashaGrant-ph9od]

Good stuff Stephan! This was much needed. Thank you and Godbless you 🙏🏾

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you very much I'm happy to hear that 🙌 And may God bless you as well 🙏

[@jennifermbogoKE]

17:22 not the "Thursday Girl"!!!! 🤣🤣🤣 not to be insensitive, but damn! "she was one of the days" 😭😭😭😭

[@Olabim]

Hi.. your videos are amazing! What do you think about different religions getting married? I mean, for example, a Christian and a Muslim?

[@catcat9582]

I can't handle dating anymore. So many things to be and not to be in order for a man to value you

[@TheSunshineplace10]

It's definitely draining.

[@jibarabicha4853]

I think once a true attraction and connection happens, things flow organically and most of this advice goes out the window.

[@anousalis4089]

Very exhausting

[@catcat9582]

@anousalis4089 In some ways the exhaustion is freeing. I don't understand red pill men who say women have such high standards when I see so many women w men who like and act like a big toe

[@CoachSteveJandS]

Reciprocating is essential

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Most definitely!

[@carlatarantino5383]

You are so great at explaining 🎉 thank you!

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

I appreciate that 🙏

[@judithsakala4944]

How do you determine who is got serious intentions as opposed to one ☝🏾 who just want to play around ? So confusing. 😩 Am just loving 🥰 me for the time being. 😃🤷🏾‍♀️

[@23maggiemay23]

Great information. Thank you 🙏 💜😀

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

My pleasure ❤️

[@Christimony222]

I really needed this today. Thank you. So timely.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

I'm happy this has been helpful to you 🙏

[@Mrs.Neves3523]

This is exactly what my husband tells me. He’s never gone for anyone who’s come for him first.

[@KimBritton-i8c]

What a great video.... this helps so much. 😊

[@loridibernardo4926]

Beautifully stated!!❤

[@eb3644]

God has gifted you with such wisdom and the best words to convey the information I need. Thank You so so much.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Glad to hear that, thank you for your response!

[@MmM20978]

Hey Stephan. I appreciate your videos since I recently have been watching them more. I looked back to your videos to see if you have any advice on a Mama’s boy and men who want their Mother’s approval and her competition with you as his wife!

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

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[@MmM20978]

@@MeetStephanSpeaks Ty!

[@shoppernista]

Bottom line - Let God guide you - Pray- Absolutely

[@Judybell1959]

I'm not asking a man for his number

[@beefaye6861]

Me either..... ✌

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤

[@amerokeewiya1320]

Lol I hear that!

[@s.c.h6512]

Lol never have in my 28 years. I'm single though lol. These new generation of men ugh

[@sharonspence424]

EXCELLENT TOPIC AND ADVICE❤

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

❤️ 🙂 Thank you!

[@latoyarichardson2999]

You right if you do less it attracts them

[@lovice43]

Great video. Thanks 👏🏽 💯

[@tishaadams2366]

Thank you so much for this. Whole video. The part of having a life outside of a man. I actually talked to God about this. It's on point for me. Thank you 💯💯

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

I'm happy this has been helpful to you 🙏

[@ReneelovesGod]

Can you do a video on dating for older Christian adults? Yes I have a current friendship with a man and I’m not trying hard at all. He’s definitely attractive to me, it seems.. I want to wait before being intimate. He seems to want to be intimate Ans he says he’s a Christian but he’s unsure how to “court me”. And suggestions or helpful feedback? Thank you😊

[@barbaraalden6013]

I'm in same boat...he's getting frustrated..

[@bevill72able]

Wait. Don't do it. Practice God's commands.

[@reneaconnor6610]

If he is TRULY a man of God, then he should be on the same page as you and abstaining until marriage should be just as important to him. If he is getting frustrated and making you feel like you need to go against your boundaries and give in, he's a wolf in sheep's clothing, plain and simple. You will know them by their fruits. Pray about it and be ready to walk away if necessary. There are a lot of spiritual narcissists out here so got to be careful.

[@barbaraalden6013]

@@reneaconnor6610 Thank you...wonderful advice..many blessings..

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Great suggestion, I will add it to my list to get it done!

[@constanzaserra6406]

Is it possible that this advices also aplies for job relationships? I feel I can also apply this information for a job search 😂

[@dianaross1055]

thank you for the video 💜

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

My pleasure ❤️

[@thespiritualpilgrim]

I have the opposite problem I'm painfully shy and if I spy someone I'm attracted to and I know it's mutual and they like me, I can no longer even look in that person's direction but.. İf the man is confident enough to just come on over and chat it puts me out of my misery, because when the guy is expecting more drawn out glances and eye flirting I get so awkward and cannot deal with it, and I'm now ages 43. Only twice in my life have I been brave enough to be the 1 to start initiating, and if it's someone I'm not attracted to I've no issues, it's only when I'm genuinely attracted to them. Otherwise I love a playful harmless flirt with others even when not attracted just because it boosts their moral and makes them feel good lol I'm a Gemini it's what we do. 🤷🏻‍♀️

[@Applauseify]

I ain't no Gemini but I do this. The recent guy I found interesting after long , I have not gathered to have conversation with him

[@Welcome2terieville]

Can you do a video on issues that arise when a woman grows closer to God but further away from her husband ? Right now I’m feeling like as I get deeper into my spiritually, my husband continues to stay the same & it’s just not working anymore. What can I do to fix this?

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Great suggestion, I will add it to my list to get it done!

[@brittney5771]

Pray...Nobody can change your situation but God. That is exactly why we are to wait for our God ordained spouse and not up and marry someone God never told us to marry. Equally yolked. God knows exactly what he is talking about. We need to simply be obedient and stop finding ourselves in these headache situations. God bless you. Pray about it and that your husband changes.

[@queenkristine9590]

@@brittney5771 did you just shame her for marrying before they were both strong in their faith?? and are you suggesting that marriage is only for those who are well seasoned & established in their faith? because that’s what it sounds like you’re saying.

[@brittney5771]

@@queenkristine9590 Nope not at all what I was saying but I am not surprised you are offended. The bible did say in the last days many will take offense. Stop being soft and taking sensible words for an attack. I don't see any lie in what I said but I am always happy for any correction. Further, if the lady I was addressing is not offended then you have no right to be. God bless

[@HD-Australia]

Keep loving your husband. Keep spending time with him. Keep showing him you love him through your actions. People can become too pious and neglect their children, spouses etc. Remember St. Paul wrote that an unbelieving man or woman is saved by their spouse's faith, and that you should not abandon or divorce your unbelieving spouse, however if your unbelieving spouse wants to divorce you, let them go

[@BrittanniMelissa]

❤❤❤❤❤excellent video. You've helped me so much.😊

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Glad I could help 🙏

[@steeenab2306]

Mannnnnn. I wish I had found u in 2020 😂. Yeeshhh. Lol. I would’ve love to hear this with a certain situation. I would’ve never played the cards like I did. 😂. But I’m good now. Just wish I would’ve seen in that one ;) blessings Stephan. ❤

[@alexisehimen3795]

are you doing a video on online dating soon?

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Great suggestion, I will add it to my list to get it done!

[@letgowithlisa]

Also, it has been my experience that some men will allow you to over compensate as a means of manipulation thereby getting more out of you and never having the intentions to do more than he was already doing which was nothing!❤

[@letgowithlisa]

The best thing I have ever done for myself was to heal! I feel so free and so grateful 💕 💕💕

[@abigalestoll]

I agree with you ❤️, thanks for sharing.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

My pleasure ❤️

[@imvivi3953]

For me i do know my value but sometimes if i genuinely like someone i will do anything for them i understand that man might think that i do not value myself but doesn’t not mean I don’t know my value I’m jus showing u that hey look, i want u . I think these types of men are jus the wrong ones and do not know what they want

[@thisismystone9658]

We even give out our number to guys just to honour his courage to ask sometimes well knowing he totally has no chance.

[@Didi-fr5ic]

I just started seeing someone again now i have completely changed because it took almost 2 years of intense work, it is great so far but i have noticed his texting style has changed my previous self wouldve freaked out but i leave it because now I truly believe in a mans actions overtime is important to me , not his texting style , not his words but his character overtime, i do not double text my message is there he will respond if not then I will be good too, just note i was showing intrest and effort in my messages , i gave him the green light.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that ❤️

[@shantavalentine9537]

Thank you for the video I put pressure on people unfortunately because my family all are married and look at me like something wrong with me. But these guys are nothing now it’s so hard

[@easyblink123]

Hey Stephen, Really appreciate your content it is honestly so uplifting & sound! I wanted to ask if you could do a video in the next few months on embracing love & not running away? I know your answer is to heal - since this is a journey would love a video on what we can do in the meantime to be/remain open to love meeting us as grow & work on our "hurt list" inner hurts.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Great suggestion, I will add it to my list to get it done!

[@bettyvelasquez266]

I love your channel because you always include GOD thank you ❤

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

I appreciate that 🙏

[@kristle_virgo-empathic4683]

You are the best ❤🎉. This waS for me. 444. Thank you!!!

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

I'm happy this has been helpful to you 🙏

[@melissa_rabbani]

I love your enrgy.. And i feel so good ,and i love your soul❤✨

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Glad to hear that, thank you for your response!

[@Marie-vz2qp]

May God guide us in the right path 🙏💕

[@keylathomas1555]

I love how despite discussing serious -real issues, you always find a way to make us laugh 😂... Thank you!💕God bless you brother!

[@latoyarichardson2999]

Thanks for this this was very helpful

[@carolinenakiwala9813]

Thank you so much sir for always improving me.

[@Touchedmymouthministriesint]

I heard a sermon preached once, "If God should go on strike"😊(Mat5:45); Love can never be too much, as a matter of truth, it is owed and, therefore, gots to be constantly paid up: Rom 13:8 Owe no man any thing, but to love one another: for he that loveth another hath fulfilled the law. Another important thing to know about woman is that she multiplies whatever a man gives to her - give her a house, she gives you a home, give her a seed, she gives you generations, a word and she can give you a book 😊 - like this video here got me preaching! Woman can make sense outta nonsense!; Love bomb a woman and you in trouble! - you might have to run outta town! So, men are the reason for their own distress - if you can't put up, then shut up! Women are multipliers! 😅 Go figure! Hold on! Mi nuh finish yet, have (too much) more fi give; Men go around sweet talking woman and firing seed in a 'dem, and a whole lot of children being born, left neglected and abandoned all over the world - men are the reason for the state of the world; The more you try to give woman trouble for what Eve did, the more hell you get, yet Jesus dropped the charges, but no, I guess He gave too much when He died on the cross - tell 'Im dat nuh! Yeah, men, better watch how you come, for then you'll be crying like a little boy, 'too much, too much😢'; Woman is like a sports car, a lot a power revving in her to give; If you don't grow up, don't come behind the wheel, stay in your house and play with toy cars, don't even give a woman a look, for you asking for trouble and, if you give her trouble, you gwe (gonna) get hell! Oh my, was that too much?😅; You gave the video