5 Signs He'll NEVER Lose Interest In You (Going The Distance)

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Jonathon Aslay

Jonathon Aslay

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@JonathonAslay
@JonathonAslay 4 жыл бұрын
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@zoraidacastro5403
@zoraidacastro5403 4 жыл бұрын
Do you suggest the singles edition of 5 love languages??? or the couples???
@NazKam
@NazKam 3 жыл бұрын
1. both speaking each others love language / emotional connection 2. economic agreement 3. social activities, hobbies and mutual interest 4. spending time with family and friends 5. intimacy
@summerhunt77
@summerhunt77 4 жыл бұрын
summary: 5 sings he will never lose interest in you, takes time to build trust, roots: 1. you both speaking each other love language ( book: 5 love languages: words of affirmation, physical touch, quality time, acts of service and gifts) 2. economic agreement, money is one reason people get divorce (book: eight dates) 3. social activities hobbies and mutual interests, doing things together, face to face communication, 4. spending time with family and friends (book: getting the love you want), love on yourself (book: what the heck of self love anyway), don't depend on men for happiness ( book: eight dates), don't invest any time in anyone who doesn't want to live together or get married, 5. intimacy, emotion intimacy, physical intimacy, not afraid of sharing your vulnerable side, women should take the lead in relationship
@JonathonAslay
@JonathonAslay 4 жыл бұрын
Thanks for the summary...
@outbackgypsy7140
@outbackgypsy7140 4 жыл бұрын
I actually did try talking about feelings and where the relationship was going after 4 months of not speaking my mind about a few issues. I never even got to bring them up because he got very upset/defensive and walked out on me when it came to talking about emotions. I was blown away. 2 months later nothing improved so I moved out. He now wants a long distance relationship. Haven't seen him in 4weeks but stayed in contact. He's coming up to visit next week and I'm not even sure how I feel anymore. Very happy I moved out and started living my own life again though...major communication problems here.
@santhakelly3503
@santhakelly3503 4 жыл бұрын
Love you too much. Thank you Your a lifelong Lifesaver.🌳
@LisaGemini
@LisaGemini 4 жыл бұрын
@@outbackgypsy7140 Kudos for taking control of your life, girl. Good luck to you.
@winsomereid5349
@winsomereid5349 4 жыл бұрын
@@outbackgypsy7140 well done for moving out. For the fact that he didn't stop you says a lot.
@minty000
@minty000 2 жыл бұрын
You are a genuine authentic soul. Don't let keyboard warriors get you down. One needs a thick skin on You Tube. I don't often leave comments on people's channels, but wanted to send you a kind word. Thanks for your work!
@carolb6581
@carolb6581 4 жыл бұрын
“Two lane street, it goes both ways...” Yes, I do indeed get it. I appreciate your kindness in sharing these five signs. 😊
@JonathonAslay
@JonathonAslay 4 жыл бұрын
You are so welcome
@darcimackey516
@darcimackey516 4 жыл бұрын
Loved the “Intimacy”-=In- to- me-u -see👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
@JonathonAslay
@JonathonAslay 4 жыл бұрын
Yes 👍
@nietzschesmuse
@nietzschesmuse 4 жыл бұрын
I think guys who prefer overnight gf's are the player types they come across as fearful or dismissive-avoidant. It takes me a long time to feel comfortable to have sex with a guy usually that is enough to scare them away, thank god. Thank you for your videos.
@cyn5962
@cyn5962 3 жыл бұрын
I totally get it. I'm the same way.
@tinalopez8207
@tinalopez8207 4 жыл бұрын
Love yourself FIRST!
@nathalie5238
@nathalie5238 4 жыл бұрын
Yes building trust... and it takes time... And I screwed it last weekend with a high quality man... we let our instinct, attraction lead us we were intimate. We had emotional connection yet not strong enough... now he feels weird about it... won’t see each other anymore. Aaaahhrrg, why couldn’t I stay my ground and say NO! I just felt dizzy in my head and get along. I don’t regret the sex, I regret the consequences. Very sad cause he is a HV man, working on his self development, self-love..., Ok back in the saddle, licking my wounds I am gonna bingewatch all your video’s cause you have so good insights.
@trinijoyl1720
@trinijoyl1720 3 жыл бұрын
Everytime i listen to yr videos. I feel hopeful. Ab life .myself. covid has taken over the world. WE NEED TO LAUGH. U inspirer me so much! Thank u!
@freespirit3818
@freespirit3818 4 жыл бұрын
One of your best yet! All the 5 things have made me think hard about future relationships. I was seeing a guy early days before lockdown. We are meeting again next month as we are in LD. This video has given me food for thought. Main question will be can we blend lives. Keep up the great content many thanks for your advice.
@JonathonAslay
@JonathonAslay 4 жыл бұрын
You are so welcome
@jennysilver2577
@jennysilver2577 3 жыл бұрын
You are always so brilliant. Your information is life changing. Thank you thank you 🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻.
@summerhunt77
@summerhunt77 4 жыл бұрын
Happy birthday to you. Wish you all the best. Too many immature, emotional-unavailable men these days. I am happy to be single.
@JonathonAslay
@JonathonAslay 4 жыл бұрын
Yes, and the same cam be said about women. Emotional mature seems rare and yet there are plenty who are...
@JonathonAslay
@JonathonAslay 4 жыл бұрын
Awe... thank you for the 🎂 wish. 🤗
@w.a.9655
@w.a.9655 3 жыл бұрын
It's SO awesome to 'Treat Yourself' ‼️
@cherylyeo5609
@cherylyeo5609 4 жыл бұрын
Totally agree on point no:2. Equally important with the rest. And I was being advised, when you marry your spouse, you also marry into his/ her family. (No. 4)
@JonathonAslay
@JonathonAslay 4 жыл бұрын
👍🙏🤗
@charp558
@charp558 3 жыл бұрын
Amazing topic! Thanks again for the great content!!!! I'm here learning more about myself and I'm loving the self discovery. 🙏🙏🙏
@vanessabrandow7052
@vanessabrandow7052 4 жыл бұрын
You have a crazy likeable humour, i see u enjoy who u r.
@JonathonAslay
@JonathonAslay 4 жыл бұрын
Awe... thank you, I think. Lol. Much appreciated 🙏 ☺
@jewel6612
@jewel6612 4 жыл бұрын
Great content again, Jonathon! Thank you for sharing. 👍🏻😁 My boyfriend of two months took the love language quiz virtually while we were in a video call (we are in a LDR). I actually took the quiz for him - I read the questions to him and he chooses the answer. It was fun. 😁 Since I have already taken the quiz ahead of time, I shared with him the result after he took the quiz. Now we know what our primary love language is. Since then, I feel more loved by him as he work his best to provide me my primary love language, and vice versa. He is also open to any relationship tips I shared with him recently. He even agreed to read the book Eight Dates as soon as it gets to him (shipped it to him few days ago). We are both showing vulnerability recently and always enjoyed our conversations - laughters are always present in our conversations. We plan to see each other in person as soon as it is safe to travel. 😁😊
@karenwilliams2068
@karenwilliams2068 2 жыл бұрын
Where is the love language test
@knichols9086
@knichols9086 4 жыл бұрын
I value your insights: clear, concise, caring and humorous. I have read and am reading several of the books you suggested also VERY helpful. Growing up is so very random and often hurtful without practical guidelines! BTW, I'm 68 and happy to be just getting started !
@JonathonAslay
@JonathonAslay 4 жыл бұрын
Happy to hear my content resonates with you, thank you so much.
@SatumainenOlento
@SatumainenOlento 4 жыл бұрын
Oh Gosh, I am 37 and have been feeling so LATE in trying to mature. Thank you most kindly for sharing your age! It changed that image about myself...I have still time to catch up in life with relationships...Thank you so much!!!
@kj5205
@kj5205 4 жыл бұрын
You're such a leo ♌ Jonathan. My birthday is in a few days. I totally get the words of adoration. Lol Great content!
@JonathonAslay
@JonathonAslay 4 жыл бұрын
Awe... thank you and yes, I'm a total Leo. Happy birthday to you 🎂
@kj5205
@kj5205 4 жыл бұрын
@@JonathonAslay Thank you🤗
@SatumainenOlento
@SatumainenOlento 4 жыл бұрын
I like more the expression: "words of adoration". Affirmation feels a little like wanting constant validation of the relationship. Adoration is better, when you adore somebody, you do give those affirmations effortlessly. (And who would not want to be adored anyway? I feel that we should be. We all are pretty adorable in our own ways 😊)
@josiegomz2350
@josiegomz2350 4 жыл бұрын
Bear hugs to you. So glad I found you today!
@JonathonAslay
@JonathonAslay 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you Josie... :)
@tracysilcock7418
@tracysilcock7418 2 жыл бұрын
I feel very fortunate to have come across your sensible practical wisdom. I’m not so bad after all it seems just bad vetting .I’m out and working on myself now mostly due to your wonderful delivery.you rock!
@mjdancefanatic3538
@mjdancefanatic3538 3 жыл бұрын
Jonathon Aslay, this is one of your BEST videos.
@jessicadepue78
@jessicadepue78 3 жыл бұрын
Hey Jonathan! Been placing some comments lately! I wish I could privately message to *sort of* apologize for a tipsy message I left about a Katherine Woodward’s book/work. Its great and everyday I look straight at the sun, stretch my arms out and repeat that I am open to give and receive love! Lol! I laugh because its wonderful- absolutely wonderful. I feel that your attitude and messages are as well. This particular video is insightful and I look forward to “joining” you in a longer video. I would LOVE to see about personal coaching and maybe that will happen- I’m currently set on saving to move (long distance *game plan*,) because things are going Quite well! I love your love of your t- shirts! 😂👍💯
@elizabethfclark03
@elizabethfclark03 4 жыл бұрын
I just found your channel. I love it! I can’t wait to learn more....
@JonathonAslay
@JonathonAslay 4 жыл бұрын
Awesome! Thank you!
@kristinej.4182
@kristinej.4182 2 жыл бұрын
This was an excellent video, Jonathon!! Great content! I learned a lot! 👍🏻
@celiaescalante
@celiaescalante Жыл бұрын
Stable ambiguity 🤔. Good thing to look out for. Thanks, J 🤗 🙏 👍 I didn't want to love bomb, but since he liked the books I sent him, I sent him Self-Love and a bunch on my favorite philosophers. I'm 🤞 crossing my fingers. Distance relationship and limerence with an avoidant isn't easy, but it's worth it.
@marisabevilacqua6291
@marisabevilacqua6291 Жыл бұрын
Such great advice! Really helpful to make sure the relationship is on a good starting basis.
@JonathonAslay
@JonathonAslay Жыл бұрын
Glad you think so!
@jenniferwillis4658
@jenniferwillis4658 4 жыл бұрын
I needed to hear this one today. We hit three of the five. The two we are lacking is the time with family and friends and sharing the emotional intimacy. I share mine openly but he still guards his pretty heavy. I want this to work but like you have said before Jonathan we both need to meet on the 50 yard line and I feel I keep pushing to the goal and not being met in the middle.
@pennyjackson1699
@pennyjackson1699 4 жыл бұрын
Stable Ambiguity...um. That,s where I am.... 64 & widowed w/68 divorced...families are mostly dead, kids all over the country, my friends are mostly up north, his wife claimed most friendships - otherwise we managed all other steps...no clue where this is going tomorrow & we ve been together for over a year
@flowerchild3312
@flowerchild3312 4 жыл бұрын
Good Morning Johnathon ☕And happy Saturday to you. Great and helpful topic this morning, Emotional maturity seems to be rare as so many men and women have some sort of emotional pain whether it stems from childhood or adulthood . As you mention all these things that help build love and trust with one another can also help build emotional maturity, in turn can build a lasting relationship
@JonathonAslay
@JonathonAslay 4 жыл бұрын
Good Morning to you too... Thank you!
@flowerchild3312
@flowerchild3312 4 жыл бұрын
@@JonathonAslay 😘
@shelleylund612
@shelleylund612 4 жыл бұрын
Hey Johnathan Gotta say l loved your video. Just kind of fell onto it. Here's a big bear 🐻 hug for you. You are very honest and forthcoming with your views which is very refreshing. And your views are also very easy to incorporate into your daily life. So there shouldn't be any problems for the average person to be able to follow them. I would love to have a chat regarding my 38 year marriage but l am all the way up in Northern Canada. Not sure if you do calls way up here. Yes we do have phones in our igloos...lol..anyway God bless and keep doing what you are doing because l have no doubt people will resonate with you !
@JC-lx8hb
@JC-lx8hb 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for providing us valuable information! I was married for over 20 years to my college sweetheart. I feel like I'm having to learn all the rules to this game of dating.
@JonathonAslay
@JonathonAslay 3 жыл бұрын
You are so welcome!
@missc6273
@missc6273 4 жыл бұрын
I just ended a relationship. He was an avoident.. . Not going anywhere
@Forexroadrunner
@Forexroadrunner 4 жыл бұрын
We are in the same boat my dear
@christinacowherd9790
@christinacowherd9790 3 жыл бұрын
Love the t-shirt! Yes~ I remember and used to watch Speed Racer 🏎
@Wendy-mh9dx
@Wendy-mh9dx 4 жыл бұрын
A little over 11 years we never lived together or married. We were together daily though. Recently passed away.?!? so its hard getting used to.
@bjklein444
@bjklein444 2 жыл бұрын
Wise advice, thank you! 😊
@YessiWaters
@YessiWaters 3 жыл бұрын
Can you do a video on dating while abstinent please🙏
@JonathonAslay
@JonathonAslay 3 жыл бұрын
I'll talk about it in future videos
@cynthiadealba3600
@cynthiadealba3600 3 жыл бұрын
Yes I’d love to hear a video like this
@lornarichardson2162
@lornarichardson2162 3 жыл бұрын
Yesss, definitely need video on this PLEASE And thank you 😊🙏🏽in advance
@Claribel42
@Claribel42 3 жыл бұрын
Yes yes please!!🙏I was dating for three years and we had an agreement to not have sexual intimacy and we were great together having soo much fine together and what we enjoy to do. But when I came up with the question where are we gonna to do in the near future, he started to getting distance and left me😭 But I just want to share that we did not have sexo at all and he respect me on that position🙏
@sylvianealy1826
@sylvianealy1826 3 жыл бұрын
I HONESTLY believe this video is warranted!
@ancoisnaude4087
@ancoisnaude4087 3 жыл бұрын
You and my brother in law trained me, I must just make myself happy, goes a little bit better, thank you🙏💛
@LynnB61
@LynnB61 3 жыл бұрын
Great info!!
@LisaGemini
@LisaGemini 4 жыл бұрын
More wisdom from Uncle Jonathon! BTW how do you keep your hair so gorgeous? Kudos to your barber. I enjoyed your Self Love book and reviewed it on Amazon. I notice you have some awesome reviews there; so much love and adoration from us ladies. You must be flying high. I gotta find that When Harry Met Sally video because that's my fave romance movie of all time. It's way more REAL than The Notebook. One more thing: BE INTERESTING and he won't lose interest.
@JonathonAslay
@JonathonAslay 4 жыл бұрын
Awesome! Thank you!
@julieb8445
@julieb8445 4 жыл бұрын
I bring up the 5 languages of love and guys look at me like I’m crazy. They just can’t talk about this stuff. Or I’m attracting unemotional men 🤔 lol where are these men that are open to these conversations?
@JonathonAslay
@JonathonAslay 4 жыл бұрын
Sounds like you're choosing emotionally immature men... mature guys have no problem talking about the things you like.
@julieb8445
@julieb8445 4 жыл бұрын
Jonathon Aslay Pretty sure I am.. this is why I’m on your KZbin channel 😉
@JonathonAslay
@JonathonAslay 4 жыл бұрын
Awe... honored 🤗🙏
@Michelle-qq4sd
@Michelle-qq4sd 4 жыл бұрын
I loved Speed Racer as a kid! Lol. It’s why us kids begged for cable tv.🙈
@Linda-td5si
@Linda-td5si 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you, Johnathon! A poignant video packed with so much information. I have been caught in the anxious/avoidant trap for 6 years. Time to release him. It is the hardest thing to do.🙄 Enjoy your day!😊💚🌿
@JonathonAslay
@JonathonAslay 4 жыл бұрын
Glad it was helpful!
@cindyk2902
@cindyk2902 4 жыл бұрын
My boyfriend of three years is unfortunately in the stable ambiguity stage. Not sure if he will ever get out of it😔
@31Alden
@31Alden 3 жыл бұрын
Brilliant video. Stable ambiguity … ah, yes. Thank you, Jonathan.
@carolinew9964
@carolinew9964 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you. I think it's romantic when a man pays at first when dating but yes I agree a women should also chip in and organising some events too for them to do together
@MariaTUKTUKinPORTUGAL
@MariaTUKTUKinPORTUGAL 2 жыл бұрын
Great Jonathon! 🙋‍♀️👋
@hamptongal62
@hamptongal62 4 жыл бұрын
Jonathon, I remember Speed Racer, lol. One of my favorite shows as a youngster! 🚘
@JonathonAslay
@JonathonAslay 4 жыл бұрын
Awe... that's 😎
@margomazzeo1680
@margomazzeo1680 4 жыл бұрын
Speed Racer was a very cool show .💝🎈
@arielsimone8909
@arielsimone8909 4 жыл бұрын
Seriously Jonathon you are incredible
@JonathonAslay
@JonathonAslay 4 жыл бұрын
Awe... thanks 😊
@mayapanayotopoulou6645
@mayapanayotopoulou6645 4 жыл бұрын
No leaning back 😂! Jonathan ur great 👍! Big hug 🤗 from me watching you from Greece 🇬🇷👌
@JonathonAslay
@JonathonAslay 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks! 😃
@ancoisnaude4087
@ancoisnaude4087 3 жыл бұрын
Trust very important yes, open books, my phone is in my hubbies hands also, he is looking very good after me😂👌
@SatumainenOlento
@SatumainenOlento 4 жыл бұрын
I laughed so much when your book cover matched with your T-shirt....Talk about coach "walking their talk" 😂😂😂 Literally. It makes me still giggle, the multilayerness of it! 😁😁😁 This was my second video from you and I was very impressed how much care was in that forceful expression: "Women, don't give your happiness to the hand of a man. Empower yourself". Loved it!!! Thank you for it!!! 💖
@SatumainenOlento
@SatumainenOlento 4 жыл бұрын
You know that the youtuber is seriously checking the comment section when he has "liked" your comment while you are still in comment section. Love it! Rised my respect again. Yes, I am going to check this channel out 😉
@JonathonAslay
@JonathonAslay 4 жыл бұрын
Glad you liked it!!
@JonathonAslay
@JonathonAslay 4 жыл бұрын
Can you elaborate about YT checking comments?
@julieh7953
@julieh7953 3 жыл бұрын
Jonathon I think she means that YOU liked her comment while she was on. She said you tuber. That’s you. That’s my take.
@karenKristal
@karenKristal 2 жыл бұрын
omg, the money thing is so tricky. I was with a man who constantly sponged and would never pay back. The more upset I got the more he accused me of being mean. I dont think its fair to make men pay for loads of initial first meet ups with women (e.g. if they doing online dating and just meeting to see if they want to do an actual proper date) but BE AWARE of how he wants to deal with money with you from the get-go. I admit I would only be happy to go on, and pay for, a proper second date if he had paid for the first and I could trust him to be fair.
@shess1640
@shess1640 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for such excellent content. Stable Ambiguity.... that term will stick with me. I appreciate your thoughts and how you share them.
@JonathonAslay
@JonathonAslay 4 жыл бұрын
I appreciate that!
@sierrarosethompson1053
@sierrarosethompson1053 3 жыл бұрын
If I was a man having a woman say we need to talk everyday would be annoying. It takes all the spice out of things and the mystery
@carriesweeney1873
@carriesweeney1873 4 жыл бұрын
Great content again. Thank you for sharing
@JonathonAslay
@JonathonAslay 4 жыл бұрын
Glad you enjoyed it
@ahleybihop2496
@ahleybihop2496 3 жыл бұрын
I can’t thank you enough. I feel better
@faa1412
@faa1412 4 жыл бұрын
Great content as usual!
@JonathonAslay
@JonathonAslay 4 жыл бұрын
Glad you enjoyed it
@maribethcharles
@maribethcharles 4 жыл бұрын
SOOO true!!!! Thank you for the wonderful video. You're right! 👍🙌❤️
@JonathonAslay
@JonathonAslay 4 жыл бұрын
Thanks for watching!
@natashamelissa__
@natashamelissa__ 4 жыл бұрын
I stumbled across the 5 Love Languages by accident and introduced the idea to my new partner. It sparked some really interesting conversations. We understand now what both of us need in a relationship from each other but also what we both like and feel comfortable to do for one another. Now I can identify something he does for me to show me how he feels about me and vice versa. And like Jonathon says, if he likes you enough, wants to get to know you better and wants to be in a relationship with you then he won’t mind you bringing these sorts of conversations to the table, if anything he’d love you to!
@kes1582
@kes1582 4 жыл бұрын
I'm so glad to hear a dating coach speak about marriage. BTW...I dumped a guy last week because he didn't return my "good morning" message, after a beautiful night together. My internal alarm was ringing and my gut was in knots.....
@JonathonAslay
@JonathonAslay 4 жыл бұрын
Oh wow!
@MissSarahGM
@MissSarahGM 4 жыл бұрын
Kes I can be as hypervigilant to little cues like that, and when I overlook them, it usually turns out something was really off.
@janiegibbons919
@janiegibbons919 3 жыл бұрын
Great video
@jennifermartin4629
@jennifermartin4629 3 жыл бұрын
Jonathan thank you so much for all these videos & all your wonderful advice. What’s the name Of the video u have accepting the relationship has ended? I thought I saw it but can’t find it. Thank you 🙏🏻 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍
@judithgilkison8604
@judithgilkison8604 4 жыл бұрын
WOW!!! Haven't thought about Speed Racer In ... y e a r s... My favorite cartoon
@mayapanayotopoulou6645
@mayapanayotopoulou6645 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you Jonathan for your great advises ! U are amazing 😉 the way you describe everything so clear so warm ! It wil help me fir sure to see things clearly ! I’m in long distant relation ! I’m trying to work it out since I see he’s backed away 😔
@JonathonAslay
@JonathonAslay 4 жыл бұрын
You're so welcome!
@ladyj8878
@ladyj8878 3 жыл бұрын
I knew there was something. You're a leo too! ahhh. Thanks older brother Jon. :)
@cassie372
@cassie372 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much
@JonathonAslay
@JonathonAslay 4 жыл бұрын
You're most welcome
@taniaioannou6507
@taniaioannou6507 4 жыл бұрын
You made it clear as usual! Thanks!
@JonathonAslay
@JonathonAslay 4 жыл бұрын
Awe... thank you.
@tynaturkova361
@tynaturkova361 4 жыл бұрын
Great content and great book tips. Thanks a lot and one friendly hug to You from Europe too. :-)
@JonathonAslay
@JonathonAslay 4 жыл бұрын
Awe... thanks. 🤗
@lauriesimonds9229
@lauriesimonds9229 4 жыл бұрын
I loved Speed Racer growing up!!! 😄
@JonathonAslay
@JonathonAslay 3 жыл бұрын
Me too!!
@lyndylou3642
@lyndylou3642 4 жыл бұрын
Here he comes, here comes Speed Racer!! 🎶
@JonathonAslay
@JonathonAslay 4 жыл бұрын
👍🚘😎
@anajacobo4071
@anajacobo4071 3 жыл бұрын
Good Advice! Move on my self
@eva-nr2bs
@eva-nr2bs 4 жыл бұрын
Have a good day Jonathon. Thank you.
@JonathonAslay
@JonathonAslay 4 жыл бұрын
You too!
@bellakeen6336
@bellakeen6336 3 жыл бұрын
Gotta love a Leo!
@JonathonAslay
@JonathonAslay 3 жыл бұрын
😁🦁🙏
@lynnemarhong8813
@lynnemarhong8813 4 жыл бұрын
Wow good info
@JonathonAslay
@JonathonAslay 4 жыл бұрын
Glad you think so!
@jessicasmith7102
@jessicasmith7102 4 жыл бұрын
The Mach 5 is an excellent vehicle.😁 #zoomzoom Go speed racer. Go speed racer. Go!
@JonathonAslay
@JonathonAslay 4 жыл бұрын
Amen!
@sparkleinureye
@sparkleinureye 4 жыл бұрын
Wow! Great stuff ♡
@JonathonAslay
@JonathonAslay 4 жыл бұрын
Glad you like it!
@bethanyeast1012
@bethanyeast1012 4 жыл бұрын
Happy Birthday handsome I’m a Leo myself! We do use words of Affirmations. I’m 39 btw 😘
@JonathonAslay
@JonathonAslay 4 жыл бұрын
Love that!
@catalinaherrera2870
@catalinaherrera2870 4 жыл бұрын
Thanks Jonathan! I bought the Eight Dates book.
@JonathonAslay
@JonathonAslay 3 жыл бұрын
Hope you enjoy it!
@kwedje
@kwedje 3 жыл бұрын
Loved Speed Racer!
@K6MM18
@K6MM18 4 жыл бұрын
EXCELLENT video, Jonathon!!! What exactly do you mean when you say it's harder for couples to break up if family & friends have been introduced/involved?? Ummm, that covers about 95% of the dating population and, especially now days, family (including one's kids) & friends are often introduced very early on in dating ... and often it's simply because they meet them in passing ... or at a mutually-attended gathering/event etc. -- and not because it signifies the 2 are necessarily serious, or that it's a "formal, roll-out-the-red carpet/meet the parents" deal. I'm quite certain that as far as all these breakups -- and, WOW, let's consider the large influx of breakups during this pandemic -- that those folks knew & had hung out with their partner's family/friends socially. I don't see how doing so makes people stay together longer, or changes the outcome. If a person isn't happy or the relationship/FWB situationship is not working ... or they're just biding their time but actually better off just being friends etc., the fact family & friends are in the picture ain't gonna change the outcome. When 2 people reach the end of their journey, that's it. It's syanara, baby!!! Please enlighten us. Love your channel so much, by the way!!! 💙💙
@JonathonAslay
@JonathonAslay 4 жыл бұрын
When couples get rooted with their family and friends, it's a strong bond to help the relationship. It's not only thing needed, and yet it helps for those who are not fully emotionally mature. Immature people though can break up on a dime...
@K6MM18
@K6MM18 4 жыл бұрын
@@JonathonAslay This makes perfect sense!!! 😄
@abeach5420
@abeach5420 4 жыл бұрын
📣📢 You chicks in USA, esp. those close to Jonathon's local, need to scoop him up...what is wrong with y'all, haha. Helllloo look up how great Leo's are, haha. To share J. .... I wanted to share I used lots of your empowering tips in a moment... that seemed rather like a lifetime, but alas only 4 minutes... just yesterday. After an expansive open ocean swim in the great big blue (incl. with lovely local seals}, I emerged back to shore in my fav time of the day...golden hour. Standing right there, in an organic unorganized moment, was a pivotal & very important 'him/he' in my life. Just like a movie of sorts that you hope will never happen to oneself and shouldn't in a large urban city. In any case I was glad to have lots of empowering tips to get me through & not be steeped in emotion. Congrats on your book. Happppppy Birthday to uuu ya spring chicken.
@JonathonAslay
@JonathonAslay 4 жыл бұрын
I'm blushing and thank you... 🤗
@c.j.mclaughlin5363
@c.j.mclaughlin5363 4 жыл бұрын
I am a 73 year old woman who is not interested in living together with a man and definitely not interested in marriage. But, I would like a companionship/sexual monogamous relationship. You seem so sure the relationship goal should be living together and/or marriage. What do you think?
@JonathonAslay
@JonathonAslay 4 жыл бұрын
Let me clarify... i believe people are better served choosing partnership type relationship...
@SatumainenOlento
@SatumainenOlento 4 жыл бұрын
That can be still very committed partnership what you are looking for even if you aren't living together. You can be living very close by. Even you can move to live as a next-door neighbours. I feel it is mutual commitment and building of intimacy what matters and part-taking to each others lives as much as it is comfortable for both. Essentially what matters is that it is built TOGETHER and that is the definition of a relationship, no matter what it looks like for others. And I also agree that people fare better in deeply committed relationships which grow better and dig deeper. Because the love grows there and not in commitment avoidant-environment.
@c.j.mclaughlin5363
@c.j.mclaughlin5363 4 жыл бұрын
@@SatumainenOlento Thank you for your comment. I totally agree. Actually I am currently in such a relationship and it's working well. We've been together for six months and both like the no living together premise. Neither one of us want to ever marry again.
@karenfischer
@karenfischer 4 жыл бұрын
Very informative and on target. Thanks Jonathan..... & Go Speed Racer!!!
@JonathonAslay
@JonathonAslay 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you and yes... go Speed Racer 👍🚘🤗
@julieh7953
@julieh7953 3 жыл бұрын
I watched Speed racer too. I’m 51
@chicagoresident973
@chicagoresident973 2 жыл бұрын
Great 👍🏼💯
@kimberlynguyen9296
@kimberlynguyen9296 4 жыл бұрын
I love your advice
@anitarentenaar6821
@anitarentenaar6821 3 жыл бұрын
Hey there Jonathan, i looooove your video's, they make perfect Sense to me. But what if Both the man and woman do not want to get Married, of live togerher, because of our past Married lives. We are together now for 7 months, in our beautiful 60ties, and Both committed to make this work.....its difficult sometimes, i agree, Any suggetions for Books for us?? Kind regards from the Netherlands, love Anita.
@cyn5962
@cyn5962 3 жыл бұрын
I asked a man I had just started going out with to read the book "Eight Dates." I had bought a copy of the book and offered to buy him one. He made up excuses not to read it. I didn't want to be with a man who made so little effort and was so closed minded. We didn't go on a third date. I moved on.
@w.a.9655
@w.a.9655 3 жыл бұрын
I WILL NEVER TRUST AGAIN IN THIS LIFETIME 🤐🤖
@millerlauraj
@millerlauraj 4 жыл бұрын
I loved Speed Racer!!
@hamisisalmah8764
@hamisisalmah8764 3 жыл бұрын
I love your advice it's very eye opening it's non bs like me iam straight forward and Ithot this was a bad thing bit now I'kw being avoidant will keep me single for ever in sha Allah
@keffi285
@keffi285 4 жыл бұрын
Hey Jonathan love this video as always very informative. Can you do a video on stable embeguite? 🧡🙏
@JonathonAslay
@JonathonAslay 4 жыл бұрын
Great suggestion!
@laurai2599
@laurai2599 4 жыл бұрын
Speed Racer!! Haha- “Chim, Chim!” Thanks for a great video
@JonathonAslay
@JonathonAslay 4 жыл бұрын
😁
@santhanamery5523
@santhanamery5523 3 жыл бұрын
Hi there, thanks. Anyway you look like my man from Switzerland it's a long distance connection.
@JonathonAslay
@JonathonAslay 3 жыл бұрын
No way!
@totallychillgirl8072
@totallychillgirl8072 3 жыл бұрын
I remember Speed Racer! 😂
@ilariacataldi6111
@ilariacataldi6111 4 жыл бұрын
Your laughther is contagious😊👋Thank you for your advice💖an italian follower
@JonathonAslay
@JonathonAslay 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you! 😃
@ethelpuetz3049
@ethelpuetz3049 Жыл бұрын
I can't find your books anywhere please let me know how to get them they're not showing up on my phone
@joangavitt4956
@joangavitt4956 3 жыл бұрын
Love the Speed Racer t-shirt
@joangavitt4956
@joangavitt4956 3 жыл бұрын
Jonathon I want to thank you for the commitment you have to helping other people. I have learned so much. Thank you, thank you thank you!
@marlena7198
@marlena7198 4 жыл бұрын
What about the opposite? Some men fall in love on the first date. Last evenings date was him expressing his fear of remaining single. (I hope I never did that, but could’ve) Then, he tells me he loves me! I’m dating for the practice while learning a lot about men and myself, BTW, your recommendation. Thanks for all you do!! This post could belong to one of your other video. Oops
@JonathonAslay
@JonathonAslay 4 жыл бұрын
A person can fall in lust on a first meeting or be very infatuated but I highly doubt that they can fall in love and if it does happen it's extremely rare.
@musicjunkie4800
@musicjunkie4800 4 жыл бұрын
Haha speed racer I use to watch that too!! You just took me back!!
@JonathonAslay
@JonathonAslay 4 жыл бұрын
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