5 Signs She's Secretly Into You (99% Of Guys Miss These)

[@exothermal.sprocket]

"She will do things to impress you - to make your life easier." I am middle aged. I don't even know what that is. I've never had that happen one time my entire life. I'm not lying.

[@jscotthamilton5809]

LOL yeah. You'll impress me and make my life easier by being direct.

[@zxsavagexz4502]

Make life easier? Myth. I've known quite a few women. None have made life easier. Please show me these unicorns.

[@Ace.0.0.0.]

​@@zxsavagexz4502the best GF I ever had was an asset to my life. She was a Filipina who moved to the West years earlier. This was a woman who wanted me in her life. She willingly jumped from a plane at 10,000ft to impress me, and on her own dime. Unfortunately we wanted different things in life, so I did the tough, but honorable thing and I broke off with her. She set the bar impossibly high for the future women in my life. The only one who came close was one I married in the mid 90s. We are still together.

[@clarenceleyh8315]

Keep looking, they are out there. My first marriage dissolved because it was all about her, nothing about us. Contrariwise, the girl Ihave been seeing has contributed daily. Few weeks ago we were struggling with communication issues, she drove all the way to my house (she lives two hours away) to cook steak and have a sit down conversation just to drive home again. Just after we first met, like a week or two later, she drove up to help me move apartments. I would call that being helpful and impressive.

[@mankybrains]

It's not that hard, it would be kind of the same things you'd do for her maybe. Something as simple as bringing you lunch for work or dropping off packages or even waiting for a package to arrive not knowing how long it would take. I've had a couple relationships like that. But I've never had one take tests for me.. 🤣🤣😂

[@Hiraghm]

If she's checking to see if I "fit in" with her friends... I sense the friend-zone incoming. I'm not dating her friends; I'm not marrying her friends.If she expects me to "fit-in"... moving on... In fact... as the ultimate goal is marriage, at some point I better start coming before her friends. Otherwise she can marry her darned friends.

[@ffarmchicken]

I’m kinda agreeing with this. This is especially true of certain cultures. If the family says no, your out. Her family is more important than you. Avoid this.

[@robinfox4440]

I've been rejected by a woman's friend group before. She turned me down because her friends poisoned her against me. A lot of women do this to each other. It can stem from legitimate concerns about you to just petty jealousy that their single bestie won't be single anymore.

[@DJRockford83]

Yep 💯 if you're expected to "fit in" you're an accessory and can be gotten rid of at any time. If she cares she compromises, if she doesn't walk away

[@glacier1956]

Yes, this has happened to me and it was a definite "friend zone" signal that I completely misinterpreted. I was shocked and confused.

[@whiteknight5100]

Unless they are forward about it, just ignore them

[@joshsmith4512]

he who cares the least, works drives them nuts🤣

[@jasonturner2206]

I think ignoring them in general works..👍

[@whiteknight5100]

@@jasonturner2206 Well, to clarify, don't do it to attract them. Do it to cleanse yourself of the chaos

[@Savvynomad225]

It’s pointless to bring ruin to your life as a man. Worrying about women is the fastest way to bring ruin.

[@whiteknight5100]

@@Savvynomad225 It definitely is

[@jreyesucd]

Thank you Sarah! I can now comfortably let go of a woman I’ve been talking to for a few months now. She’s definitely not showing any of these signs. Oh well.

[@tomdrummy4984]

Men don’t like or see hints. 🙂. Especially a good man……stop playing games. Say it !

[@johnsanabria3279]

Those kind of men are lazy! Women only know how to think by hinting. That's why they are different from men. Once women realize you know something about how they think and react,they tend to open up more.

[@theman2017inc]

AMEN to that

[@keithgraham9547]

Mainly because you guys, like most men, are pretty much dumb. Honestly, it's not that hard to figure women out. Let me 'splain. Women almost never say something directly. They think they are being really obvious, and you guys almost always miss any signals. Women do this for plausible denialability. If she gives you signals, you approach and are a goober, she can turn you down and say "I was just being nice." When interested, a girl will give you all sorts of signals. You best learn how to read some of them. It doesn't matter how much you yell about "just say something!" Not going to happen. I've noticed hundreds of "attraction signals," which means I've missed thousands. You guys need to learn how. If you were a cowboy, you would want to know how to track and read brands, right?

[@jscotthamilton5809]

I have things to do. If you resort to subliminal communications and can't articulate an interest ... next.

[@justacoginthefkery]

1. These are subconscious things women do aka NOT intentional cues or mind games. 2. You do realize you're saying you want women to act like men, right?

[@greenshield1]

Whenever I start getting the itch to get back into dating, I watch these videos. Reminds me what a PIA women are and sets me striaght.

[@joedirt3563]

Same here. Makes me happy I haven't dated in 10 years.

[@1978mackdaddy]

You mean pieces of s***

[@BullishBananaTrader]

You'll know if she likes you. If you're confused, she doesn't or is using you.

[@jamesg1974a]

You will never have to guess when a woman is truly into you. There won’t be a shadow of a doubt

[@fasttrackblastback8286]

Unless she's an overt narcissist that love bombs and mirrors you. Always have a long vetting period, preferably longer than 3 months. It's been proven that people can't mask longer than that

[@kevinuspsa9353]

Amen. I never had to wonder.

[@ashandwit]

...unless she's shy, or neurotic.

[@justinbarhorst5531]

A playful woman is a very special woman. If you find one she is a very special person.

[@chuckcottrill]

Five things 1) Goes out of her way to impress you, impress your friends, make things easier for you, show she is a team player, 2) Let down her guard and be playful and goofy with you 3) Reciprocate quickly 4) Gives physical cues like touch 5) She wants you to meet her friends and family

[@EdwardCisneros-p7b]

Short answer is it comes down to looks and lots of money.

[@keithgraham9547]

No. That's why you are helpless with women. You have no clue.

[@chaoscultus]

Yeah sort of but it’s much more about money or a combination of things that are equivalent to wealth ie social status, expected future potential , family assets to throw out a few.

[@keithgraham9547]

@@chaoscultus Certainly all those things help, but it's not nearly 100% of it. When you were a kid in school, did you get a few dates? Unless you're a trust fund baby, kids don't have big money or high status. By definition, only about 17% of the population is above average, so it isn't all about looks. First rule of anything, don't beat yourself. Most men can't figure this out when it comes to girls. I'll give you an example in another post. Girls really aren't that hard to figure out. A bunch are flighty, emotionally and mentally damaged, or just absolute trouble. Men should avoid them like the plague, but they are mostly easy to identify. The best way to approach make-female relationships is like playing chess. You can't be a good chess player without trying to get inside the other person's head and understanding what they want. Think about that. Take two minutes and write down what you would want if you were female.

[@infectaphibian]

"Don't you know about the new fashion honey? All you need are looks and a whole lot of money."

[@mankybrains]

You have it backwards. It's you have to money and then looks. In the end, if you don't have the money, majority of women will drop you like you weren't even there. Trust me, women everywhere this day and age, north, west, east, south, if you can't provide, you might as well just move on and work on yourself.

[@indianboy72]

I’ve been with my wife for 30 years. She is so much fun . I will be lost with out her. She is just awesome.

[@johnwalsh518]

Believe it or not my wife of 25 years still does all of these things. She isn't a western woman though so this is how Asian women actually are most of the time. This is why men are leaving the west in such large numbers.

[@Sky_Burger88]

The more of these videos we watch, the more we learn what truly odd beings women are. 😅

[@theman2017inc]

Men are logical beings… the fact that women are “odd” is what attract us to them TRUTH

[@ladydi4537]

We all ought to read an old book called "Men Are from Mars, Women are from Venus ". Some explanations of our different ways of communication are in there.

[@theman2017inc]

@@ladydi4537 a great book by John Gray which black and white evidence that men and women are different or at least treat communication differently.

[@keithgraham9547]

You didn't know that by the time you were 17?

[@ladydi4537]

@@theman2017inc Thanks. Hard to navigate this upside down world if we can't communicate easily with each other and understand what the other is saying.

[@GalvatronTypeR]

Two red flags in these tips: -avoid women who have gay male friends. I once dated a lady whose best friend was a very obvious very gay man. She would occasionally bring him along to our dates. He would treat me coldly because I think he was jealous that I was taking her away from him (I also suspected there was an unspoken sexual jealousy where he wanted to get with her). They would say “hey bitch” or “what’s up skank” when addressing each other. They would talk about makeup and hair and handbags constantly. They just had a toxic annoying codependent relationship. Gay male friends = run fast in the opposite direction. -a woman who introduces you to friends and family too soon is love bombing. I would wonder if she does that for all the other guys. This also may show that she will allow the opinions of friends and family to have undue influence on the relationship. Also it is known that many single women will try to passively ruin the relationships of their not single friends because misery loves company (i.e., I didn’t like your guy because he wore white after Labor Day, he’s poor because he paid for dinner using a Discover card instead of AMEX Black, etc.). EDIT: if a guy had a very platonic lesbian friend and he acted with her like she acts with her gay friend (i.e., inviting the lesbian on their dates, confiding very personal details of their relationship to her, letting her have influence on the relationship, talking about auto racing and changing oil with her, etc.), that would be totally unacceptable to the woman. Yet women think they should get a free pass on inappropriately letting their gay friend into the relationship. Accountability is only for men, never for women.

[@LadislausMarguspa]

isnt it better for the family to have strong influence on the relationship? their judgment on who is a suitable partner is going to be better than her own in most cases

[@denny3161]

Also... Gay friend 95% of time right....how many subjects, and bad guy- good guy votes?

[@mrseaweed5587]

100% true. Run. dont look back. ever.

[@denny3161]

I was really more curious about her number of men she introduced to her gay friend. To come up with an average of 95% you would think that would be a lot of test subjects, and why is this guy meeting all these suitors?

[@NeverSarcasticMan]

Avoid all women with male friends period.

[@JackFelker]

If she can’t come out and just say she would like to know me better, she just missed her chance. I suck at taking subtle hints as do all good men.

[@glacier1956]

Totally agree. Why isn't all this just playing games, and we men have to guess all the myriad "rules"? And yet when I am straightforward and tell a woman I am interested in her, that is a turnoff for some mysterious reason and pushes her away. Again - can you say "games"?? It is beyond confusing.

[@tommybronze3451]

There is another aspect of trying to impress your friends: She likes one or more of your friend or she's slipping with one or more of your friends.

[@rampantsarcasm2220]

This has clarified for me that no woman has ever been into me, so...good times

[@justinbarhorst5531]

Invest in the relationship very few do that anymore. You find one she's a keeper.

[@VincentDeLeon-l8s]

In my experience, fellas. This is how you get used by a woman. My best experiences with women were when they came out and told me that they wanted me. Let me clarify when the interaction was sober and not inebriated in a club. That is when you are both on the same sheet of music.

[@6193drizzle]

40 Y/O male here. In shape etc. Had an attractive woman at the gym smile and make small talk (multiple times) to the point I have to remove an ear bud. Another time she asked me personal questions , marital status, if I had Children etc. lastly, she mentioned an event happening locally ( car show) at her place of business and suggested I check it out. I was thinking its in the bag. Then on the way out she stopped by to knuckle bump me??? Wtf.. That signals to me she friend zoned me. So now I don’t even acknowledge her.

[@OSekerO]

Maybe you waited too long to make a move, maybe it's not too late. If you're at all interested it's worth asking her out. Once you make a move there will be no more confusion, either way.

[@MrZipperhead16]

Check out the car show anyway. Sometimes a '67 GTO is better for you than her in the long run.

[@chaoscultus]

I’d pursue her fast. But have no expectation because women use those things to influence us-she might be hustling for attendees

[@cherylhee9762]

Maybe she was sweaty after the gym. After all she did invite you.

[@mikesmith9368]

That's what she thinks she should do nowadays. She was just trying to act cool. Doesn't mean she friend zoned you. Just trying to act fashionable. Remember, women are followers and don't know how to act unless they see another person show them what is cool, then they copy. Yeah, I know. Morons, but hey, they have the goods.

[@edstringer1138]

Women who lovebomb do all this in the beginning , it wont last fellas

[@Hiraghm]

"lovebomb"?

[@edstringer1138]

@@Hiraghm Love bombing is defined as the continuous “bombing” of a person with flattery, compliments, and affection. It comes in various forms-gift-giving, long-winded messages, social media interactions, and passionate declarations of love-and is often used by those with narcissistic personality disorder (NPD). I have a toxic Naracistic ex GF

[@maxsparks5183]

What’s a “love bomb”? Ok I see your response now. Well hell! I just thought she liked me.🤷🏻‍♂️

[@edstringer1138]

@@maxsparks5183 so did I till the abuse started , then she turned into Amber Hurd

[@ericsbraun]

Depends on whether you are good at cooking and licking..

[@jamesmcknight6440]

A woman can dance circles around the man to get him to notice but unless he makes the first move the relationship doesn't start

[@USSResolute]

I've had women do these things and not be interested. Eventually men "miss" these cues because they discovered that women were breadcrumbing them, and we stop reading into things.

[@josephvanlangeveld2216]

This was actually pretty helpful. This woman I’m talking to has done all these things already and I only picked up on half of them and now when I heard you describe this it make a whole lot more sense. So I think I’m on the right track. I really do like your videos a lot and I know they have been helpful for a lot of men. So again thank you and keep up doing what you do because we really appreciate ya!

[@sv650ssuzuki2007]

I like your comments about women keeping men around for personal validation, it seems to be pretty common. I've been caught by that trap a few times too. I agree that if she isn't introducing the man to her friends that she isn't interested. Also, if her friends do not have leading questions prepped in the chamber, she isn't talking about you with her friends. Again, she is not interested. The man doesn't need to cut her off, but his time is better invested elsewhere.

[@edwardramirez9213]

She stands extra close to you. she walks back into you. She put her head on your shoulder to look at what you are looking at and there is room next to you. Her hand runs away from her and hits your back side, and she smiles. Then says sorry. She will lean forwarded and makes sure you get a good look down her shirt. she acts like a trip and sits in your lap. There is a lot more

[@mankybrains]

Pretty much well said. Experienced most of this. The only one was probably not leaning in forward as my exes didn't have too much cleavage. LOL.

[@edwardramirez9213]

@@mankybrains Many ladies did that and they did not have too much cleavage.

[@ClokworkGremlin]

This at least confirms what I've been telling people. I'm not missing hints. The women just aren't interested.

[@MarkUnglaub-g6k]

Sarah Dawn, I want to thank you for your very helpful insights, especially for us men.

[@americanexpat8792]

I liked the comment on ‘leading’. I have really noticed this with the person I am involved with now . She always responds in a positive way after I initiate, but I struggled to know how much she really cared. I always thought it was a lot, but didn’t know it for sure. This confirms what I thought. Culture also plays a role- especially in this case.

[@davidz3879]

I don't want to meet her family & friends - they'll likely interrogate me.

[@j0hnn13K]

Guys can be incredibly blind (if not daft) to the signals women give us, and for sure i'm no stranger to this myself in my younger years. About 20 years ago, i frequented a popular local bar that had quite a few regular visitors, and one was this lovely young woman who'd love to dance and have fun, certainly no wallflower type. One evening we struck up a small conversation, nothing really important, just a few general things like "love the band tonight", "seen you around", that kind of stuff, but no "moves" whatsoever. A week later, same overcrowded bar, i was sitting at a table in the back with a few friends, and she came out of nowhere and "stole" my drink and said "glad you made it" and she ran off again. Some 20 minutes or so passed and she returned and sat down with us, ordered a round of drinks for all, and after receiving the drinks, she left again and smiled at me and gave me a wink. Now, i might have been "blind" before that time, but i was not that green anymore and i understood what was up, so i told my friends "i guess we just met my new girlfriend". Literally all of them were like "yeah... no way, she's just being nice", well... i was not wrong and we dated for about 4 years till life got in the way. (not in a bad way, she had an opportunity she had to take, career wise) So yeah, signals matter hehehe, and most women will not lay it down that clearly as this woman did, but if you pay attention... you'll spot the signals.

[@davidm4566]

Men are not blind or daft. Women give vague, hidden signals because they are afraid to come out and show interest or they are testing. Calling men stupid for not being psychic and recognizing purposely cryptic messages is a form of gaslighting. Please don't be part of the gaslighting.

[@rossnielsen6820]

Your videos give me hope. As a man I feel ignored, and taken for granted every day. I have resigned myself to fulfilling tasks that I do on my alone. It's the best way I've found a sense of satisfaction in life. I really feel for young men. They have it much worse than I did/do, I think. Thank you, and I hope you keep going.

[@typnigerrer]

Thanks. That was useful. Nobody's been into me.

[@Stormcrow_1]

Here's some advise from a man, women don't be secretly into a bloke he'll never know. Just tell him! As it now to risky for a man to make a move on a hunch.

[@jimwilliams4088]

Linda introduced me to some of her family tonight. We had a great time together ❤😊

[@ulfen69]

Those who probably should know this best , our mothers, never told us. That’s why so many guys are not so good at this. And if one is not in the top 20% one doesn’t see much of it.

[@FlamingCockatiel]

1. Goes out of her way to impress you and make your life easier; show she is a team player 2. Lets down her guard and it playful and goofy with you, showing her comfort. 3. She reciprocates quickly with texts and such. She takes the bait of a man who leads. 4. She gives physical cues on dates like touching your arm. 5. She wants you to meet her family and friends sooner, not later.

[@johngertz5377]

I really haven't even had a woman look in my general direction in over 20 years. Nothing at all basically.

[@jesseblackburn8437]

So many are so reluctant to even be personable...its disheartening...im a guardian, protector, hard working builder and lover...so many users out there....its a hard life these days....thanks for youre help Sarah!❤❤

[@_PJW_]

In short, she's stepping into your personal space. Both physically and mentally. Sharing touch and thoughts. Only logical if you need to be at least somewhat compatible. You should however be aware of sharing all personal space.

[@kloassie]

09:14 you don't fool me girl. I *_know_* you know I'm watching

[@redpillredpill3216]

Just because a person is moving is no reason to break up. Loyalty will keep you in a persons life no matter the distance. A long distance is only an excuse to break up over something you don't want to admit to.

[@ffarmchicken]

I’d agree with this.

[@mathius_dragoon532]

You know, now that I think about it, I might just have a custom t shirt made that says something along the lines of "if your interested for gods sake let me know" 😄

[@glacier1956]

Ha! Perfect. And will never ever happen.

[@storeymark]

I wish some woman would have given me at least one of these signs -yes I was looking for them - in the past few decades. I have been without a partner since I was 22.(I am in my sixties now). I have experienced nothing but rejection from women in the past few decades and decided to go my own way about 10 years ago.Its probably the best decision I have made in my life.But I admit I wish had more romance in my life.

[@davidduff9871]

She wants to be involved in your life. I like that. Thanks.

[@OSekerO]

When a woman stares at your lips as you're speaking, that's a good sign. Especially if she starts unconsciously biting her own lip while staring. ❤‍🔥

[@ffarmchicken]

I’ve seen that happen to me. But she was very batshit crazy. Single mom with the father of her daughter in prison and she had a felony warrant out of Arkansas for accessory to bank robbery. I was tempted but the old inner alarm bells were noisy that afternoon. I passed. 😊

[@davidm4566]

Just wanted to put out there that purposely giving hidden or mixed signals and then complaining that someone didn't notice or understand them is probably a form of gaslighting. Even if accidental. Just communicate. You don't have to put out an ad on a billboard, but if your signals rival those of a baseball coach, then maybe it's time to re-evaluate.

[@justacoginthefkery]

Much of these are subconcious though aka just things ppl do naturally without thinking. Also, men say they like direct, but when a woman is, says exactly what she thinks or wants, men often don't trust it, question it or apply their own meaning/ motives which just leads to them screwing up their own chances. I've seen that happen enough times.

[@darrenskjoelsvold]

Honestly if you want to do a 30 minute video I would watch it. You bring good informative insightful content.

[@Bushranger1865]

Where were Sarah when I was building my off-grid studio? 🤩

[@moose6144]

Thank you for clearing this up for me now I know why I have never been successful on the dating scene because I really don’t care what the other person really thinks because none of them have ever gone out of their way to do anything for me like I have for them so that’s why I look at it now

[@user-cw4zj6kc8u]

She helps you big ways, she wants to impress you and your friends with her food, she feels safe and plays with you, she follows you and wants you to lead her, she'll touch you and look at you with puppy dog eyes, she'll touch her hair and her neck a lot, she'll introduce you to her friends and family very quickly, she wants to make sure you mesh well with her life.

[@nickmaddalena985]

I think this a good basic advice. People tend to over exaggerate there emotions and actions when excited. But this is more the pickup and first month dates advise. After everything starts to calm down then the rules change considerably. You should probably talk about the stages of relationship in your videos.

[@theman2017inc]

wat a revelation Ten years too late but as the proverb goes BETTER LATE THAN NEVER Plus you’ve shown us to be super vigilant/ sensitive to a woman who showing genuine interest or the quite opposite. As always many thanks Sarah Dawn 🙏🏿

[@ECO473]

Rod Serling at his peak couldn't write better science fiction than this!!!

[@BigOlKnothead]

I get why they wouldnt let the public know until they are with you. But why wouldnt they just come to you if they like you and tell you they like you?

[@JaceRS3]

Very helpful, scheduled a first date with a woman it took me far too long to ask out. Let’s see how it goes

[@VideoArchiveGuy]

Not missing them, have never had them directed at me.

[@elforeigner3260]

The best hint is the next day after they first saw you, they come back to work in makeup and perfume 😂😂😂

[@rolsonDotcom]

She is absolutely right. Women who are really attracted to you and into you will move heaven and earth to put themselves in your orbit. They will also go the extra mile to initiate physical touch. A forearm, a knee,

[@jasonscala5834]

The moment I notice signs she is interested, I totally ignore her. It's crazy how clingy women can become, they just create a mental picture of the perfect future with you if she find you attractive. Thanks for confirming my understanding of the signs.

[@bernieeod57]

"A woman has already made up her mind weather or not to jump in bed with you in the first 15 seconds of checking you out! So, if you are over a minute into the conversation and feel like you are not getting anywhere, you're not" Paul Elam

[@gooe9561]

If a woman really wants to make me happy, she'll leave me alone.

[@joedirt3563]

And have a meal and cold beer for me when I get home from work.

[@Mikethemerciless11]

​@@joedirt3563No, no, no. Just not even be there. No woman is worth the hassle or your life. They are way too dangerous to associate with.

[@petercalkins245]

Don't think that'll be a problem for you..😮😊

[@aaronosborn7395]

If she keeps showing up at your door uninvited in the night … she might love you or she loves something she is getting from you

[@MD-xb1qw]

The minute she agrees to be with you, her clock to leave you begins. Remember that.

[@petewangen-groovedrummer8083]

Nice work Sarah, super helpful.

[@soudriyami7229]

thanks for your tips Sarah,. but yet women are unpredictable no matter how we try to please them. unless the lucky ones who found their soulmateu

[@iRideuWatch]

What good is it if someone secretly likes me?

[@glacier1956]

Amen

[@byronryan4216]

There are so many kinds of love 🥰, that in order to define it , it’s extraordinary to know which way to direct attention . 🙀

[@tonyheper]

You got it exactly as it it is!

[@philb-akamrcool324]

Our relationship in a study on how to have a great relationship. It includes everything from soup to nuts. Everything you talk about

[@seththomas9105]

6 foot, 6 pack and 6 figure income means she likes you. The rest of us are SOL.

[@jesseblackburn8437]

Great leads as always...love your advice.. Not many real women out there anymore....hoping but not confident anymore...been burnt too many times...thanks for all your help and advice, gives me a small glimmer of hope...❤❤

[@misterabsurd]

Time for that moment of silence, I guess. It's okay tho. I know what I have to do.

[@rogercarmel6619]

Ladies: forget all the clues to the man you’re interested in. Just declare your feelings clearly.

[@glacier1956]

Wouldn't that be wonderful???

[@canadianbacon587]

I’m so tired of being expected to read a woman’s mind! I can’t! Say what you mean and, mean what you say……I’m not a mind reader and HATE playing games! I’m 47 not 17…..this isn’t high school!!!!!!!

[@glacier1956]

Amen to this. I am 68 and even at this age women seem incapable of being direct (or unwilling to be), much less being able or willing to send signals that are clear and straightforward. It is so incredibly frustrating. I have more or less given up.

[@MrOldclunker]

In my twenties it was never about the flirting or games, I just made a move, if it worked, nailed it and if she hung around good, nailed it some more...if not; well...still nailed it. Wasn't looking for a relationship that was going to last anyway.

[@kongvolmerii2683]

I have learned that the following are signs a woman likes you: 1- she calls you ugly. that is a test to see if you are confident and think you are good looking. 2- She says she has a boyfriend. That is a test to see if you are confident, and think you can have her, and can figure out she is single. 3- She accuses you of something illegal, i.e. like doing drugs. That is a test to see if you can in a funny way tell her to stop that. 4- She asks you if you think another woman is good looking. That is a test to see if you think she is good looking. 5- she poors verbal garbage over your hobbies. that is a test to see if you in a funny charming way can tell her to stop that. But please note she can mean 1-5, and then you are in trouble if you think she doent mean what she is saying. That is how women behave. good luck. I am DONE

[@Onnarashi]

You must've met some truly "delightful" women. Yikes! I'm rather "blackpilled" on the whole dating/relationship aspect and prefer to stay single, and I can tell you none of these behaviours would in any way be tolerated. I'd just want to leave/move on and forget about her. No way I'd ever try anything if she says she has a boyfriend. That's toxic for her to expect and would be toxic for any man to try.

[@kongvolmerii2683]

Oh- the "I have a boyfriend" was one, who kept telling me I looked good, and when I at last got that very wierd idea she might be interrested in me, she said she had a boyfriend. And when I just left her alone she came back, and told me I lacked confidence. Last time I tried the shitshow called love, was the one accusing me of being a drug-user. No mercy, she kept on until I yelled angry I wasnt and with a stupid smirk she said "oh you thought I ment it" I dont understand the big deal about relationships with women. But all the best to those who does. they can have them all. @@Onnarashi

[@adamfindlay7091]

W😮w. Ok . Not sure if this's serious.

[@kongvolmerii2683]

all of the mentioned are real expieriences with women. @@adamfindlay7091

[@keithgraham9547]

​@@kongvolmerii2683Dude. Honestly. You're attracted to tramps and psycho chicks. It's you more than the girls.

[@Sky_Burger88]

Sarah Dawn, your hair looks great in that thumbnail picture. ;) Question for you! Why when something is bothering a woman she won't tell you? Why do so many play this silent treatment game? And how to break through that junk?

[@Sky_Burger88]

anything?

[@THEMAX00000]

Agreeable, sweet and kind…. What planet is this woman from? I’d love to go there.

[@backyardrailroader]

Here is one: Yes, when she replys to your texts in a decent amount of time. But every once in a while, she sends a message,"Hey, how are you?"occasionally....not every hour. Then, you got a problem.

[@MapSpawn]

I don't want to meet your gay friend if the entire premise is that he is going to pass judgement on me. . .

[@goldfishy]

6. She posts a video in your feed

[@jaymichael91]

Yep, what happened to me early in my twenties, we had a get-together, and she helped with all the stuff. It was a great time, and she left with one of the other guys. Dang for me, right? The thing that bothered me was that she never thanked me for finding her her soul mate.

[@jacklucas7265]

soul mate

[@jaymichael91]

@jacklucas7265 thank you.

[@feloniousmonk3049]

That, my friend, is using you to improve her social status.

[@thomasgregorovich7976]

Stepped on you to get what she wants. Classic monkey-branching!

[@whynot1548]

Never met a woman like that. All I get are blank stairs, one word responses, showing supposed interest---followed by immediate shutdown.

[@oligoprimer]

To these hints I would add being in a higher state of arousal (in the psychological sense): (1) more animated speaking, often a higher pitch, even sometimes tending to tripping over words in excitement; (2) gross motor movements done with greater energy, such as walking with more spring in her step, more hip sway, and better posture (the male equivalent includes arms held away from the sides while walking, as if the guy had giant but invisible lats).

[@markusbroyles1884]

Signs she's into you in my world : 1 She shows up out of the vast desert alone and naked. 2 She skins and butchers the beasts you kill 3 She keeps the fire going in the cave and fends off the lions with firebrands. 4 She keeps busy all day and doesn't jabber at all 5 She can get the water without being guarded from predators 6 She NEVER talks about her past or family 7 She knows when it's time for sex and when it's not without words 8 Her eye contact is always respectful and says more than words. 9 She never leaves or can imagine being with another. 10 She doesn't mind being alone and follows along automatically when we GO

[@guntertorfs6486]

Most of us don't miss these. They are rather obvious. A majority of women will be very inconsistent though , making us second guess their veracity.

[@justinbarhorst5531]

A bonus if you can find a woman that will cook , clean and set up for a supper bowl party. If you can find one she's special and is a keeper. Do those exist probably but they are very few because finding a woman that will do that is very rare but if you can wow she's a true keeper.

[@joseph.irvin.photography]

Actually a 30min video would be great! The more info I can get is beneficial...

[@JohnDoe-ug7pf]

Hey Sarah...good stuff ...real life stuff that you show up with...how you share yourself..I can really relate

[@craftpaint1644]

Big ladies don't clean houses, it hurts. If yours does, she's not above average, she's a real one - 1%.

[@franklinj1038]

That's the problem all the secrecy

[@industrial-steampunk]

Yes , please ladies GET OUT OF YOUR HEAD you over think it

[@davidz3879]

It's highly unlikely she'll do most/all of those things.

[@MrSetinel]

Most women especially young mothers DON'T know how to make a grilled cheess sandwich. Lmao

[@timbrown9731]

“Thats what she said”

[@jesvans]

your not going to believe this, but i invented that about 40 years ago < fact. my buddy and i were standing looking at something on the ground, i don't remember what is was. but my buddy said "that thing is huge!", it just popped into my head, i said "thats what she said!". we both turned to each other and busted out laughing.

[@timbrown9731]

@@jesvans that’s what he said?

[@jesvans]

@@timbrown9731... what ?

[@soiwasthinking8852]

How to know if a girl likes you: 1. She doesn't. Quit dreaming. 2. NOBODY CARES. WORK HARDER.

[@tankmeister8131]

Putting him in front of your friends especially the gay friend is just another shit test and can be very intimidating, some friends become ruthless and jaded.

[@glacier1956]

Yes - this very thing has happened to me.

[@emergentform1188]

Truth, love it.