5 Signs You're NOT a Narcissist

[@narcabusecoach]

Betrayal Trauma After Narcissistic Abuse: www.emotionalabuserecovery.com/livevent

[@Megha-v8f]

Please Guide me to want to be a Certified Narcissistic abusive recovery Professional

[@mariellarobles3372]

Narcissist hurt to destroy. The pain is repetitive and intentional. Defending myself or voicing my feelings is not allowed. Intimidation, insults and trying to destroy self esteem and no real affection is how they destroy. I used to read books to save my relationships. Now I am learning to heal and my conscious is at peace.

[@cindys.9688]

I agree. They only want to hurt us. I'm so glad you're on your healing journey. Wishing you the best!❤

[@mariellarobles3372]

@@cindys.9688 thank you very much.

[@Me_di]

Badoo the app used me to make their entire app make songs for kpop an amedicans and now blocked me coz i started weeding out narcissist

[@febee5285]

I don't understand why...this makes them happy……?

[@carparthero]

you don't lose real friends when you unapologetically set and enforce boundaries. you lose abusers, users, manipulators, narcissists, control freaks and mental health destroying leeches. cheers from southern ontario, canada 🍁

[@reneeallison9184]

I needed to hear this. Thank you.

[@bathoroy]

periodt

[@marilynbrowman5520]

Yes i agree. U lose anusers only. Not caring people

[@stephanieorme2950]

So true!

[@Shve18-o6x]

Exactly... every survivor behaves when pushed by the demon

[@txknitnurse]

Great information as usual. The gaslighting caused so much confusion on my part. Then I realized what they were doing and it all made sense. And I agree about the intentions. There was a time I thought I had narcissistic traits but it was a reaction to long term abuse and my intentions were for improved quality of life and healthy relationships.

[@mandalovescatspandas1781]

I've found that they like to be accused of something because it makes them think that you care, in some twisted sort of way. How exhausting

[@Tcr0087]

Nice point

[@khrabbiyakhrabbiya7176]

Exactly 💯💯💯💯💯

[@chitramarathe7619]

Truth always wins

[@LS-fs6nc]

💗

[@chitramarathe7619]

But it takes a lot of time

[@chitramarathe7619]

True..... but the winning matters

[@ianstewartorr8455]

I’m on no contact with my mother and brother right now I don’t feel bad at all because I’ve had enough of them relief is my feelings greetings from Scotland 🇬🇧🇬🇧🇬🇧

[@StarrSun]

I have no contact with most of my female siblings and I gray rock my brother.

[@KrishnaMusicAcademy]

I am also on no contact with my mother and I am on my way to heal 🙏🏻

[@a.williams9]

Reasons and intentions are the difference. They exploit, abuse and hurt victims while we guard, protect and defend ourselves. Great explanation, Danish. Helpful content. Thank you 🙏🏻

[@imsaltylit3101]

Exactly, they twist words, language matters… we CONFRONT them, they ACCUSE. They accuse us of accusing rather than confronting. My husband always says I’m accusing him. It’s an absolute lie, delusion. Made up. Tired of it. He’s getting nervous lately because my mind is made up FINALLY after 24++ years. 😩

[@CynthiaSteele-o2g]

So sorry you’ve suffered so…❤

[@1948rambo]

Intention is key!!

[@AnaamFarishtey]

Danish brother I feel it's war between angels and evils 😈

[@angeldee7287]

It’s literally a defense mechanism one developed as a survival strategy. ❤ Danish! You’re awesome 😘!

[@cindys.9688]

I agree to all of your points made!😊

[@cindys.9688]

Wow, Danish! This was SO important for me today. As I've recently been ruminating over past scenarios, some things get stuck in my head. "Was I acting like them when I said that?" is a common thought. You're exactly right - it all comes down to intention. I truly, 100%, just want to make them stop. To throw the truth in their face so they know I'm not afraid to and would do it again if I think it's necessary to shut them up.

[@lucyt-c8092]

beware of throwing anything in a narcissist’s face - they will back ti hurt you even worse… get away… the truth will not change them… they CANNOT change… it is like asking a snake to be a tiger… just not possible

[@chitramarathe7619]

Thanks so much Danish ❤

[@amywuester136]

I was stuck in that 3rd point with my mom for MANY years without even realizing what I was dealing with. Now that I'm fully aware and setting boundaries her hoovering no longer works. Baby steps in progress, but so much freedom even with the sadness of grieving what should've been.

[@cindys.9688]

My mom was a narcissist, too. Gosh, my whole life was a battle that I couldn't quite understand since I'm not one to cause trouble. She hated me but wouldn't admit she did. She just acted like she did. Didn't understand me. Didn't accept my choice in a career - which was in education, so an honorable job. Still, I wasn't following in her footsteps, so according to her, I'd made a lousy choice. I wish you the best in your healing journey. I know it's hard to come to the realization that your mom, of all people, could have it out for you, but it's the best thing for you to heal when you accept it. Peace to you!☮️🌼

[@amywuester136]

@@cindys.9688, thank you. And to you as well.

[@user-ov4wr5yu4r]

You only need one. 👉 Genuine EMPATHY.

[@natashahall2134]

One thing I would find happening with me is every little thing that went wrong it was a total meltdown for me. I was so stressed and confused, I felt like a caged animal 😮all that had to happen was I misplaced my keys and couldn't find them in 10 seconds 😢

[@charlie-girl72]

Destroy the evil is a delusional thought. They Won't change. And everything you've said is true. It hurts so much but good to hear.

[@lynnkliewer7201]

When you believe in yourself no codependency not relining on others to fill great then your free.You had this in you the whole time but you bought into the manipulations.

[@NIKKISNOODLE]

Thank you so much for this video. You’ve just answered some questions. Questions and comparisons I’ve been concerned about for myself. I was beginning to wonder if I was turning into a narc. I do silent treatment but I don’t do it to hurt him, I do it as self preservation. As long as keep a poker face and keep my mouth shut it takes away his satisfaction of getting me upset.

[@terriarnold4364]

Truth is Powerful,and they can't handle Truth! Going back under the grey rocks!🙀

[@Amanda-ev3lg]

I had i self talk already, I WILL NOT stoop down to his level. I am ME and will stay ME..i dont care if he hates it though lol

[@donnaT-ti8vj]

Very insightful, Danish. From being around narcissists during my lifetime, I understand why I ws always running. Ur right, I check myself so that I am not becoming a narcissist & realized I don't hv the same intentions as this demon. Thank u; you are a godsend

[@sandradorsey5001]

Thank-you so much , great advice and good too know these things in order to protect yourself from these 💀 monsters.

[@AG-in6pi]

Hi Danish Your v logs are so helpful and explained in layman terms that very nominal person can easily understands Is it possible to get appointment with you to discuss things more details ? Please let me know in case if it’s possible Many thank and kind regards

[@laralexa454]

thank you Danish! This helped me greatly. I need to do a search of your vids to see if you’ve spoken about the narcissist using their flying monkeys to flip the narrative, even after you’ve gotten away & it’s been years, to accuse their victim of being the abuser/narcissist. (in my case, it’s my narcissistic ex & our eldest two adult kids who still believe his narrative.) I don’t see any point in arguing my perspective, & feel it would only make things worse, not change the view they’ve been steered into for years. To me, it feels like second-generation gaslighting. It separates them from me, & is heartbreaking.

[@lucyt-c8092]

well .. I can see that you don’t want to wrestle with pigs in the ( pig likes it and you get dirty)… BUT … if your heart is broken, and your kids only have the narcs point of view… how will they ever have a glimmer of truth ? or you a chance of a relationship either way them? Do you have any old proofs ( nasty letters for example)… that you could send to them ? something that you could prove was not you being bad - but the narc ?.. I say that because my father was a terrible narc and my mother ( they divorced) never said anything to counter his abuse and lies , in general… and I realize in my own middle age , that my whole family allowed my father to scapegoat me and one other sister, and we suffered greatly from his abuse and her silence… I am going through it kow with a narc daughter ( grown) and her abuse of me and her own son ( a child )… I am not ranting and raving.. BUT I have truthful conversations with the non narcs in my life - that same grandson - so that he will know enough to protect himself from his own mother… if I am silent… and his father also… what perspective does he have ?… Please consider giving your kids a little bit of your point of view… maybe just once.. if it goes badly, step back again…

[@shinymadhavan292]

Wow...ti's is my life....I get hurt...get abandoned....again get in touch ...get hurt....perfect cycle going on...

[@melaniehudson8659]

❤Love you 😊 Ty 😊 I am not the abuser. Gods BLESSINGS 🙌 🙏 ✨️ Gods grace 🙏 🙌 ✨️ 😊😊😊😊😊😊

[@nursejackie4454]

Thank you Danish. Intention makes the difference.

[@rdblal05]

after arguments that involve name calling, gas lighting, manipulation, just plain rude and disresept......it goes kinda like this ..... "hey baby" "you look so amazing today" then some positivity. "I love you" I say nothing bc i feel like if i say that then its kinda accepting an apology. after a while of love bombing and another I love you. I cant help but say.... you dont love me... you love what i do, to you and for you! i kinda makes me sad. then i feel bad and give in. 20 year relationship. wish i noticed it sooner. i thought that if i just keep loving you even tho you are a total a$$/jerk (in the beginning not to me) you would see the positive and not the negative. I do still see 👀the positive in people just not to the man i been with for 20years (which he hates bc i give people the benefit of the doubt, hence i have no friends). 😞😔 p.s i also do not hate him BUT feel sorry for him bc how could anyone be so mad all the time and not see the good through the bad. i see good in him but unfortunately the bad wins his attitude most days. (walking on eggshells)

[@MelW669]

You can’t have a relationship when you’re grey rocking them. It feels terrible, but it’s necessary. I turned his stonewalling into my confirmation that he can stay out of my life permanently. I will never speak to him again.

[@baisalimitra4865]

Thank you 🙏 I was questioning myself the same thing and got the answer from your very informative and assuring video. Thank you again❤❤❤

[@annaburns2865]

That you so much for this video. I know I’m not a narcissist, but it’s like you said, I act in ways that I know I shouldn’t. I can be selfish or feel vulnerable. The most important thing is too have a relationship with Jesus Christ. You can’t be putting the responsibility on others.

[@DMKey-r6g]

Beware of Jon Clement's KZbin channel. Classic narcissist. Claims to be chosen one.

[@AmirthamAmir-c2g]

Danish tqvm for this video because it eases my mind and gave clear picture of myself. I was so worried when I am pushed to the walls I don't know what further I can do and almost loose my mind.

[@Sally-ih6ls]

How do we know there intention if they just walk away with no closure, just cause their r mad? Th

[@phylliskamau4203]

Thanks I appreciate you.i watch your videos everyday and I'm sure it really had helped a lot be blessed.

[@fizzafaizanfarooqui5060]

You know you're too good. And you've helped me a lot in my recovery journey after coming back from my ex

[@Angel-td3kt]

More information about narcissism please 🙏 thank you

[@lucyt-c8092]

also… in the beginning… narcissistic men are CHARMING !!!

[@avivabillington5514]

💯 in my experience, yes!!

[@Tcr0087]

Hi danish why does a narcissist hate truth

[@lucyt-c8092]

because they are demons . Their master is the father of lies .. they LIKE lying… it’s a hobby for them …

[@isidorsiata]

This is what I needed. Spot on the intention. Thank you 🙏

[@terryfbro]

Very helpful thank you so much

[@DrWisteriaRose]

Your videos are so good, they make so much sense.

[@CatherineTaliaferro]

My narc husband likes to tell me that I have anger issues and that I'm verbally abusive. He antagonizes me to the point where I explode. The things he does and says are so infuriating and hurtful. He loves to use triangulation as well.

[@MelW669]

I’m watching this happen to my coworker. She tells me things her ex has done/said and they are very similar if not almost the same as to what my ex has done or said. They don’t know each other. So how are they playing from the same rule book? Think about that one…. They are sick, dark, and evil. I would not set out to purposely hurt anyone. But they purposely provoke you to act poorly and then shame you when you do.

[@chitramarathe7619]

Great content!!!❤

[@JmaysinEsquivel]

I been called a narcissist when I’m far from one what does mean

[@dakoderii4221]

Projection aka Confession

[@VanessaWills-u1f]

Me too! He is a textbook narcissist . I mean it’s so true I was like wow I cannot this has been 14 years like this . I was utterly amazed . I have the temperature regulation issue even It’s like 100percent. Explains every little thing.!!!!!

[@VanessaWills-u1f]

Yep he just hovered last year after I got a restraining order - well he promised to go to therapy and on and on . Oh and I love you. But none of it lasted - 2 days that’s it , the names started !!!

[@VanessaWills-u1f]

Me too! He is a textbook narcissist . I mean it’s so true I was like wow I cannot this has been 14 years like this . I was utterly amazed . I have the temperature regulation issue even It’s like 100percent. Explains every little thing.!!!!! He has so much cell phone video footage of my reactions He threatens to send them to people or to like the court when he was arrested for DV

[@sonyac5653]

💟🙏💟

[@dalebattaglia]

Thank you, Danish ❤

[@fatimaahmed445]

Thanks you danish ❤

[@makeupbykhadijakhan2257]

❤

[@donna-colorado8443]

I can’t say the man I was seeing is narcissistic but my truth never mattered to him. He would just brush off my truth like it meant nothing.

[@rdblal05]

context matters...... thank you so much for saying this!!!!!!! ❤❤❤

[@cletiawilliams1436]

Thus is spot on...💯💯💣 experienced all of this I was going nuts.

[@ClaireGraceMarshall-jr5mm]

I have a mother who has tried to convince my children that I'm.a narcissist and she's caused ao much trouble. I have been in tears because of her and i know i will never forgive her or forget what she has done.

[@kamillaparker4159]

Thank you so much for all the information. ❤ It brings clarity in this storm of confusion.

[@1948rambo]

Excellent!!! ❤

[@jhansidurgavallabhareddy39]

Ilanti vallaki help chese vallani am anali I don't know

[@AnaamFarishtey]

I bow my head in front of your effort and strength during your journey

[@namratakesharwani9633]

I am going through the same word to word

[@darlenemc3586]

thank you and God Bless!

[@carolynbennett2735]

Thank you!!!!

[@karishmagodage284]

Danish❤

[@Sports590]

Women like Narcissistic Men 😂

[@cocoaocean]

Women like hard it's in our nature to like hard;) It's in our nature to care too much. That's why videos like this could possibly save the new generation. So they don't have to suffer as much. These are tools not available in our toolbox. The new generation of women will be able to spot these games. See the previous generations' mistakes, and hopefully, they don't think they could get it better with the narcisstic person.💐

[@_iam1533]

Its because of the toxic family upbringing

[@Dj.D25]

A lot of women, especially in the USA seem to prefer being with someone abusive or narcissistic because stable, kind hearted men appear boring. It’s as though there has to be drama or something to complain about to have an interesting life.

[@cassiebennet4262]

Women who grew up narcissistic families of origin do.