5 Signs Your Crush Wants You To ASK THEM OUT

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The Josh Speaks

The Josh Speaks

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@TheJoshSpeaks
@TheJoshSpeaks 6 жыл бұрын
Want to know how to get into a relationship and make it last? Check out this playlist: 👇 kzbin.info/www/bejne/qHmtfHdsr9pmZ68 QUESTION: Are you waiting for the perfect moment to ask out your crush? Share your comments below!
@SmoothJuice-ev1lg
@SmoothJuice-ev1lg 6 жыл бұрын
The Josh Speaks that's what I'm trying to do. Waot for the right moment. Theirs a dance coming up so I might ask her to that
@bacon6403
@bacon6403 5 жыл бұрын
Bro I like this 6th grader (I’m in 7th grade) and she knows I liked her but she thinks I don’t anymore because I lied. TF do I do!?!?!
@is9232
@is9232 5 жыл бұрын
Please answer what the fuck do we say when we ask them
@conormccormick2771
@conormccormick2771 5 жыл бұрын
This video really helped I asked my crush out and she likes me too
@AtharCalief
@AtharCalief 5 жыл бұрын
Im scared btw, but I want to ask her out to a cinema, watch together, and be romantic (friendly romantic) so I dont seem to be romantic by mah parent (🙄), also mah crush already confess her feeling, she likes me, she say it twice, but Im not too sure. I also have wrote 2 letters, one of it include giving a heart Yupi (candy), and also a letter about asking her phone number meh, she's a good girl, she is a nice girl, beautiful girl thats why I like her.
@awkwardfan8216
@awkwardfan8216 5 жыл бұрын
When you’re the one showing all these signs, but your crush still hasn’t asked you out
@Ryukuda
@Ryukuda 4 жыл бұрын
Might have a significant other already though they may be rotten inside
@myflymkultra268
@myflymkultra268 4 жыл бұрын
take the initiative my dude!
@vofant9663
@vofant9663 3 жыл бұрын
Hey just saying I think you should ask them (even tho it’s been a year lmao) bc I asked mine and I mean I got rejected but I finally got it off my chest so I felt so good about it anyway
@ThuggDuckk
@ThuggDuckk 3 жыл бұрын
I have just asked her out, I got rejected but alteast I had the courage to do it and that takes a lot All guys out there I request you do the same. I know a lot of people who don't say anything to their crush and they live with this shyness, life is a lot better when you have confidence.
@gracefulgoombas2703
@gracefulgoombas2703 3 жыл бұрын
You took it like a champ! 👑
@sorunaz
@sorunaz 3 жыл бұрын
i mean are yall still friends tho ? i dont wanna lose that
@dpa2102
@dpa2102 2 жыл бұрын
@@sorunaz you have to have an abundance mindset and not care if you 2 are friends at the end you have to be willing lose that in order to win
@GODGAMER-ss9on
@GODGAMER-ss9on 2 жыл бұрын
dude i'm so ugly, and scared to ask her out, i might just send her an email do you think that would work???
@shelton_causier
@shelton_causier Жыл бұрын
Nah I decided to do the friend zoning
@Slam_24
@Slam_24 5 жыл бұрын
I’m head over heels in love with this girl but I’m soooooo scared of rejection. I’m a super introvert and a good friend with her. HELP i need inspirational comments!
@phoebetaylor4877
@phoebetaylor4877 5 жыл бұрын
im asking out a dude tomozza. gl
@notadrian5711
@notadrian5711 4 жыл бұрын
You're not alone... Good luck!
@dakaden6410
@dakaden6410 4 жыл бұрын
Phoebe Taylor how did it go
@kenjiharima23nep91
@kenjiharima23nep91 3 жыл бұрын
Don't let the rejection get to you, if she no. Just walk away and move on.
@sorunaz
@sorunaz 3 жыл бұрын
@@kenjiharima23nep91 easier said
@austinaaron3396
@austinaaron3396 5 жыл бұрын
I've got 6 months before my friend, who happens to be my crush, moves away for a year. She already has said several times that we should hang out more and that she doesn't know why we already don't. I only see her a few times a week so I don't have much time but Christmas is around the corner so I might just make my move sometime around then. Thanks for the tips, it really helps out a lot especially for a clueless guy as myself.
@Anthony-iv1wj
@Anthony-iv1wj 6 жыл бұрын
All of these tips are gonna be good for the upcoming school year
@TheJoshSpeaks
@TheJoshSpeaks 6 жыл бұрын
Definitely, I wanna get you ready for the next year!
@Desechannsl
@Desechannsl 4 жыл бұрын
So how did that school year go
@nathanmitchell5217
@nathanmitchell5217 2 жыл бұрын
@@Desechannsl he touched 0 blades of grass (probably)
@bruser7770
@bruser7770 Жыл бұрын
@@Desechannsl you Beethoven, how ya doin
@Desechannsl
@Desechannsl Жыл бұрын
@@bruser7770 so shit I wish I could go back 2 years she decided to go out with a genuine discord mod
@hey..mickeyyy
@hey..mickeyyy 4 жыл бұрын
My crush asked me out, and BRO.
@EmmaLangdon
@EmmaLangdon 2 жыл бұрын
Your absolutely right with it’s hard to differentiate nervousness from disinterest. After all you won’t know what’s in somebodies head until someone makes a move.
@parsaolamaei552
@parsaolamaei552 5 жыл бұрын
Why is your voice so calm
@coreym140
@coreym140 6 жыл бұрын
I really needed this. I'm sometimes confused
@TheJoshSpeaks
@TheJoshSpeaks 6 жыл бұрын
Hey I hope this video was helpful
@coreym140
@coreym140 6 жыл бұрын
Yeah it was really helpful. Thanks
@themacplug
@themacplug 6 жыл бұрын
Or they just want you to do their homework mate.
@cutefluffywolf2762
@cutefluffywolf2762 5 жыл бұрын
So my friend told me that my crush really liked me, and she told him I did too. He asked me later today if I actually DID like him, and I told him it was true! We were just playing fortnite a few hours ago, and he straight up asked me if I was gonna ask him out! I’m really happy, and I feel complete! ☺️🥰🥴
@lukesimonelli3275
@lukesimonelli3275 5 жыл бұрын
Someone hire this man.
@vvronce
@vvronce 4 жыл бұрын
don't do that... don't give me hope...
@christiansnaturestudio6599
@christiansnaturestudio6599 6 жыл бұрын
How do I hold an interesting conversation with my crush since I'm usually nervous around and don't know what to say. Sometimes I ran out of things to say. What do I do
@gymdog2170
@gymdog2170 5 жыл бұрын
Christian Castillo I’m a year late so how did it go
@cameronschindler25
@cameronschindler25 5 жыл бұрын
Omg, I used this and she said yes!! Thxs Josh. U probably have the best advice channel.
@ikillerz_uya8664
@ikillerz_uya8664 5 жыл бұрын
I still can’t get a GF no matter what I do 😞
@Your_local_ashtray
@Your_local_ashtray 5 жыл бұрын
Congratulations
@cocoacat.pngggg
@cocoacat.pngggg 2 жыл бұрын
congrats man
@jimwin9611
@jimwin9611 6 жыл бұрын
What if someone tells u they like you but when they walk past u they say ewww
@ilikeicewater
@ilikeicewater 5 жыл бұрын
Yup he definitely don’t like me
@devotedwik797
@devotedwik797 4 жыл бұрын
I really hope my crush watches this video and gets the hint I like them...
@andyrivas3599
@andyrivas3599 6 жыл бұрын
and yes I should definitely wait for the right moment
@ikillerz_uya8664
@ikillerz_uya8664 5 жыл бұрын
The right moment is the moment u make yourself
@taynara8734
@taynara8734 6 жыл бұрын
Hi Josh! I really like this girl, but I only see her at work for 2 minutes as I start at 6 and she ends at 6. I did manage to get her number, but I really don’t know if she likes me. Still with these amazing tips it’s hard to say! She always comes up to me to wish me good luck with work, and we sometimes talk on messages. I’m a really insecure, anxious and shy guy and I’m scared to ask her out, because then I’ll know that she will know I like her.. If you can help me out, it will mean a lot.
@kenjiharima23nep91
@kenjiharima23nep91 3 жыл бұрын
Switch schedules to end at 6.
@jon6309
@jon6309 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much! My situation is a bit complex. I am a gay male interested in other men but I’m pretty conservative and not really all out and about! There is a man I see on my bus ride to work and based on eye contact and his body language towards me there is an awareness and I know he knows I am interested. At first it was akward and he seemed uncomfortable and would avoid me at first but after a couple of years he started trying to come close to me. I couldn’t believe he sat next to me a couple of times on the bus but I didn’t talk to him 🤦‍♂️ he is a shy guy too and there is so much nervousness between the two of us. Sometimes he comes close to me and I mean really close either sitting next to me on the bus or standing right next to me at the stop light to our building for work but sometimes he pulls away so it’s confusing I think in the beginning I would have assumed his body language showed disinterest as he avoided me but over time he became more comfortable but still shy and sometimes pulling away.
@1fes323
@1fes323 2 жыл бұрын
So she has a crush on me at work. Displayed all these signs. And I still have to once again initiate first. 'Beautiful'.
@IamNster
@IamNster 6 жыл бұрын
So I'm having a problem with this girl. Me and her had this sort of falling out a while back because of unwanted advances on my end when she had a boyfriend (note she still does). I've decided I want to try to reconnect with her as a friend. My first step toward that, since I won't have any physical contact with her for a little bit, was to follow her on Instagram. The problem arised when, as I was scrolling through her pics, the feelings I used to have seemed to come back. I really just want to be friends, but I don't want this to get in the way. What do?
@TheJoshSpeaks
@TheJoshSpeaks 6 жыл бұрын
Hey it seems like the best way to get over your feelings is to let her go, at least for now. Following her on Instagram is going to be that constant reminder for you and every time she posts a picture, those feelings will come back up.
@jonathanbasham3356
@jonathanbasham3356 6 жыл бұрын
Kiss her best friend
@jonathanbasham3356
@jonathanbasham3356 6 жыл бұрын
Best advice from a 13 yr old
@IamNster
@IamNster 6 жыл бұрын
Jonathan Sunnasy BOI
@jonathanbasham3356
@jonathanbasham3356 6 жыл бұрын
Nster hey it worked for me last year
@djnate1075
@djnate1075 3 жыл бұрын
Me and my crush know each other well. She always responds to my messages even when it's just a thumbs up or other emoji. But that's all she uses to respond to me. I thought it was because she just has no interest in talking to me, but even after I asked she still wasn't giving me any answer, just more emojis. I think she's just teasing me, but I don't really know.
@Mrcjxd1
@Mrcjxd1 6 жыл бұрын
I asked my ex before to hang out but she everytime say No i was like Wtf. Then i dont care already
@TheJoshSpeaks
@TheJoshSpeaks 6 жыл бұрын
Hmm maybe she wants to keep a distance between you two since you are no longer dating
@BriseayarDudet
@BriseayarDudet 6 жыл бұрын
So I recently told my crush I liked him, but I don’t know if he likes me or I was friend zoned. But I think I am friend zoned because he said something along the lines of “we can still be friends and hang” but yet he still plays around with me (makes lots of jokes and I thing also try’s to make me laugh) this is something that other boys don’t do towards me and idk what to do! Ahhhh
@initiatorhater0688
@initiatorhater0688 6 жыл бұрын
oh well, I have to live with it, but it angers me on how girls almost never ask guys out, even if they have a strong desire or liking towards a guy
@adriansupercars82
@adriansupercars82 3 жыл бұрын
Man I neeed to grow a pair of some solid balls
@mahmudii2081
@mahmudii2081 2 жыл бұрын
My crush's name is Erin and she's in my algebra II class. At the beginning of the school year like the 2nd or 3rd week or so she asked me "hey can I write you a note" and I said "sure" and then she wrote my name with a little smiley face next to it. I'm not sure if that's a sign that she likes me or not but my cousin who is studying psychology says that if girls do that (my cousin's a girl too) it's a way of showing that they are interested in you/"staking a claim" which tells other girls that "oh he's taken." I want to ask you guys to see if that is correct and if she's writing my name on the whiteboard if it's a sign that she likes me. I've known her since last year but haven't really liked her till recently.
@polycarpatalor8109
@polycarpatalor8109 Жыл бұрын
Go for it
@Nice-dg6zy
@Nice-dg6zy 3 жыл бұрын
My crush is so confusing. I have absolutely no idea and I am way too shy to ask her out.
@Nice-dg6zy
@Nice-dg6zy 3 жыл бұрын
Also, Im horrible with 1 on 1 conversations. Especially with girls.
@theswimmingpotato7037
@theswimmingpotato7037 6 жыл бұрын
Alright josh I need your opinion. I got sat by my crush in health and one spot away from him in science. We’re always chatting in class and he usually nervously laughs at my jokes and I’ve caught him staring at me on numerous occasions. In health, He was talking to his friends and they said “hey (his name) how are you and your girl?” He turned bright red and didn’t look at me. Do you think he likes me? And what do you think I should do?
@peachyrxng9542
@peachyrxng9542 3 жыл бұрын
💀A LITTLE SHY U GOT ME MESSED UP IM 100% SHYYYYY💀
@quin10cool
@quin10cool 3 жыл бұрын
One of my friends really likes a girl from our school and I want him to ask her out but he's too scared even though she clearly likes him. I'm gunna send him this video to prove it
@michaelagutierrez1119
@michaelagutierrez1119 6 жыл бұрын
Well I met this girl on snapchat and i have never met her in person but I said we should hangout this summer and she said "foresure I'm almost never busy"I know what to do but it just feels weird cause I asked her out on the internet instead of in person and that's what the problem is. It's easier for me to pick a place to go if I already have met her then it is threw the internet
@dulcevirrueta6816
@dulcevirrueta6816 4 жыл бұрын
Yo we need to get him to 1 mil !!! ASAP
@livviecarter4607
@livviecarter4607 6 жыл бұрын
When back to school season rolls around can you do more of these? Anything involving crushes or friends (how to make them going into a new school) would be awesome!
@sethrollins2517
@sethrollins2517 4 жыл бұрын
Broooo i need help im like sure that this girl likes me because all her friends told me she likes me But im just a shy person that does not know how to start Help
@cody1126
@cody1126 5 жыл бұрын
My crush when I’m in my science class 4th periodshe always turns around and looks at me and smiles for like 10 secs
@slendyabdi1108
@slendyabdi1108 4 жыл бұрын
Maybe she wants you😁
@slendyabdi1108
@slendyabdi1108 4 жыл бұрын
Man you should try and sit with her at lunch if you have her in lunch you two could start a conversation and the two of you could start creating a bond between you two
@hunterfj0428
@hunterfj0428 4 жыл бұрын
Ask her out tell me how I goes she will probably say yes if that’s the case
@milanvujcich
@milanvujcich 4 жыл бұрын
Bro she DEFINITELY likes you/liked
@traegear4374
@traegear4374 6 жыл бұрын
I followed all of your suggestions and all the signs where clear and we both said that we liked each other and after 6 months I finally asked if she wanted to go to the next level, becoming bf and gf and she said no after thinking about it for a day and now we barely talk anymore
@TheJoshSpeaks
@TheJoshSpeaks 6 жыл бұрын
Hey, it sounds like she just didn't feel like there was the potential for a relationship or she may not have been ready for one. There's no guarantee that someone will want to be with you, we all make our own decisions based on our experiences, thoughts and feelings. I think what's important here is what you take away from the experience, what you learned in that process.
@Aaron.T2005
@Aaron.T2005 5 жыл бұрын
Catching your crush looking at you is only a sign if they did it multiple times in a shorter time period.
@watchgiostar
@watchgiostar Жыл бұрын
Same here I got the same problem your the best Josh bud 😎
@Isabella-hc8lw
@Isabella-hc8lw 4 жыл бұрын
I think it's time to ask my crush out-
@augustr4wberry
@augustr4wberry 2 жыл бұрын
how did it go?
@thewolverine8414
@thewolverine8414 4 жыл бұрын
My crush was playing with her hair when she was talking to me but I don’t think that’s much of a clear sign
@tyler1085
@tyler1085 6 жыл бұрын
Watching the Josh speaks
@TheJoshSpeaks
@TheJoshSpeaks 6 жыл бұрын
this is The Josh Speaks, you're watching The Josh Speakssss
@Will-pl4tp
@Will-pl4tp 5 жыл бұрын
@@TheJoshSpeaks We can't tell if you're singing.
@ikillerz_uya8664
@ikillerz_uya8664 5 жыл бұрын
William Murrell cmon man 😂 😂 😂 😂
@fireballmc3284
@fireballmc3284 6 жыл бұрын
This video helped me out a lot Thanks Josh!
@TheJoshSpeaks
@TheJoshSpeaks 6 жыл бұрын
Awesome, I'm happy it was helpful
@bigsmoke1137
@bigsmoke1137 5 жыл бұрын
Do girls only as guys to keep his sweater if they like him? Or would they do that to guys they see as close friends as well? I NEED TO KNOW ASAP
@youngaamez3550
@youngaamez3550 6 жыл бұрын
In my opinion, if a girl likes you, she should be the one to go after you and ask you out
@TheJoshSpeaks
@TheJoshSpeaks 6 жыл бұрын
I would say I agree, I think the person that likes someone should ask, guy or girl.
@youngaamez3550
@youngaamez3550 6 жыл бұрын
The Josh Speaks exactly man
@Nico-L
@Nico-L 6 жыл бұрын
Josh can you tell me how to start the conversation again if the conversation end about 1-2month ago?
@rogue6127
@rogue6127 6 жыл бұрын
I. Am asking someone to be my gf today or Monday
@fray__bond2868
@fray__bond2868 6 жыл бұрын
Josh I need help, I’m going to hang out with my crush soon and I’m not sure what to talk about to her, any tips??
@TheJoshSpeaks
@TheJoshSpeaks 6 жыл бұрын
Hey, I put together a free guide just for that, www.thejoshspeaks.com/ice-breakers
@diyhamstercreations6929
@diyhamstercreations6929 5 жыл бұрын
Does this count for num 1 “do u wanna go to swimming on one day”
@madiha5401
@madiha5401 4 жыл бұрын
My crush asked me for a date And I'm nervous as hell
@jaygo2546
@jaygo2546 2 жыл бұрын
I wanna ask out my crush but I don’t wanna ruin what we already have …. Edit: I think I might ask her soon because some of these signs you stated, she’s actually showed
@person5384
@person5384 6 жыл бұрын
My crush and I both like eachother. Even our friends (we are in the same friend group) are trying to get us together. We were dating earlier in the year but we broke up because her mom was getting skeptical about us. We are going out to watch a movie (with her twin brother and my younger sister) I don't know what I should do. Recently she has been making it obvious that she likes me. On our Snapchat streaks she writes streaks on a pic (which is normal) but over the past few days she has been putting hearts in the pics. She also put a pic on her story that said "if ____ asked me out I would say [yes] [mayve] [no] she put my name in the blank because one of her friends told her too. And she said yes. I put the same thing on my story and she responded saying "can you use my name" I think she wants to get back together but I am a nervous wreck and I don't want to make any moves around her brother
@TheJoshSpeaks
@TheJoshSpeaks 6 жыл бұрын
Hey, it sounds like she's really into you and wants to make it happen! I know it may be weird to do anything around her brother so i would use the movies as a way to get close and talk. You can always ask her out over text if that's easier.
@ikillerz_uya8664
@ikillerz_uya8664 5 жыл бұрын
person how’d it go? I’m praying you did it :D
@kestonbliss1403
@kestonbliss1403 5 жыл бұрын
How do you know if she wants to be asked out if you are picking her up from a previous breakup and she’s scared because of past experiences with other guys
@xpertdelta6264
@xpertdelta6264 6 жыл бұрын
U da best for this kind of stuff like if u agree
@lorinna2198
@lorinna2198 6 жыл бұрын
My crush does everything on the list
@dorianlogan449
@dorianlogan449 3 ай бұрын
I published an entire book about my crush and in the book my character interacts with her. I gave a copy of my books to one of her friends, knowing that she will show them. What should I do next?
@TheJoshSpeaks
@TheJoshSpeaks 3 ай бұрын
There's a few ways she might interpret it. 1. She finds it very thoughtful and interesting. The next thought she might have is why you chose to write the book instead of asking her out directly. That might be the step where you would have to really step up and make your move, otherwise she's going to start to feel weird about it, thinking that maybe it was a stalker kind of move or that you have some sort of obsession about her. 2. She outright thinks it's weird and feels a bit embarrassed about it because it draws so much attention to her. In a situation like that, it might feel nearly impossible to recover. I would say the best way to navigate the situation given that you've already passed the book along is to simply say she inspired one of the characters and then to focus on asking her out. Doing this might make her feel like less attention is being put on her and she might be intrigued by the idea that she had a lasting impression on you to inspire a whole character in a book.
@thisisbiancaornelas7279
@thisisbiancaornelas7279 2 жыл бұрын
I'm so nervous to talk to my crush on text message
@jamesrehan9969
@jamesrehan9969 3 жыл бұрын
The two words that will always stop you...what if
@XxHALOxX425
@XxHALOxX425 6 жыл бұрын
If you are bored out of your mind, please read this and give me your opinion, or you can just laugh at my sad life lmao. Hope she doesn't watch this guy, because this is extremely specific. If nobody ends up reading this, at least it was a good way to vent how I feel, because I can't hold it in anymore. *What I believe happened, give me your thoughts:* Snapchat/social media was the only form of communication (we had one real conversation in real life where her and my best friend basically stalked me and found me walking at the reservoir in my town, so no one-on-one conversations) and she got bored of it, so she moved on. *Short version:* Best friends cousin asks him for my snapchat. We had a 70+ day streak (2 1/2 months of talking every single day) until out of the blue she began to ignore me. After 2 days I was complaining to my best friend and her ignoring me came up. He then told her what I said, and she proceeded to snap me saying "I heard you're upset rn. I'm sorry for ignoring you, you're a great guy, but snapchat just gets super boring sometimes." She then ignored me for 5 days, I then sent her "gimme your # i'd like to talk." (read long version to why I never asked for it previously) She replied with, "nahh." She now has left me on open for 2 weeks. Her and my best friend came to my job the other day, and they didn't even buy anything, so they once again went out of their way to see me. I was also hanging out with my best friend last week and we went to my job to get my paycheck. He thought his cousin was working that day (she wasn't) and he kept texting someone on his phone and looking around. Idk how to explain it, it just looked like he was texting his cousin so she would come talk to us. I'm an overthinker, so maybe that's just me being stupid. I am so damn confused. I've never genuinely liked a girl the way I like her, and idk if I can just "move on." *Long version:* About 3 months ago, my best friend's cousin asked him for my snapchat after looking at some newer photos of me. After a week of snapchatting her, she mentioned to her cousin and I on facetime that I send some really funny snapchats. I can only think of one time where she actually flirted with me, and that was in the first week of talking. She is very pretty, so I flirted back. After a few weeks, though, I noticed that she became very uninterested in even having a conversation with me. She sent me a picture of her in her prom dress after I asked if I could see it *(she wanted to go with me a few months before getting my snapchat, but since I didn't know her, I declined. That legit haunts me now.)* and I complimented her by saying "Dayumm girl ?????? have fun." in an attempt to "flirt". She replied with something like "lol thanks." At that point, I came to the realization that she most likely wasn't into me like that, but I was completely fine with just being her friend. We talked for 2 1/2 months strictly on snapchat *(I was planning on asking for her number, but never saw the point because she often didn't even attempt to keep conversations going)* and I thought we were beginning to get closer near the end. We had a 74 day streak on snapchat, and out of the blue with no explanation, she began to ignore me. The streak died, and she left me on open for 2 days. I *(in hindsight, probably not the best idea)* was complaining to my best friend on how I was bored and lonely (I was going through some shit that week) and I added at the end of it that his cousin was also ignoring me. He then told her what I said & she sent me a snapchat saying, "I hear you're upset rn. I'm sorry for ignoring you, you're a great guy, but snapchat just gets super boring sometimes." Snapchat getting "boring" was a BS lie, but that is besides the point. Me being my insecure self, I told her something like this, "I'm not really upset at you, just upset at the fact that every girl I have tried befriending has ended up ignoring me. (This has happened with 5 girls, 4 of them being back in middle school, where I think everything is going great for about 2 months, and then they end up ignoring me, so obviously there has to be something I'm doing wrong) I had a feeling ***** was gonna tell you what I said, and I was hoping he wouldn't. I just want you to know that you don't have to talk to me if you don't want to. Talk to me whenever you want about whatever you want, but I don't want talking to me to be like a chore to you." We then snapped back and forth for a day, and then she left me on open again. This time it was for 5 days.. Since she was so "bored" of snapchat, I sent her a snapchat saying "Gimme your # I'd like to talk" and she responded saying "nahh," which I then responded with "yikes." I'm sorry, but having a 74 day snapchat streak *(which I assume people, especially girls, only do w/ people they would call friends or something more)* & 2 1/2 months of talking back and forth not enough time to get her number??? She has now left me on open for 2 weeks. I know a lot of you are going to say, "move on!" but it is not that simple. Talking to her just made me incredibly happy, like a happiness I have never felt before, *and ever since meeting her, I have lost nearly 20 lbs and have become way more social. She also works with me at my job. *This is most likely me overthinking the fuck out of this,* but she also intentionally parks her car next to me and intentionally walked by me like 5 times the other day (again, probably just my dumb ass overthinking this). I've been pretending like I don't notice her because I am not sure if I should talk to her or not, since she has no problem ignoring me. As you can tell, I haven't dealt with a lot of women in my 19 years of life. I want to contact her in a week if this keeps up and ask her the real reason why she is ignoring me, but I don't want to come across as super needy and desperate just in case she is playing games with me or something. I've written out the whole statement I plan on sending to her, so if you'd like to hear what I'm going to say, just ask and I'll copy-paste it in the replies. After watching SO many relationship/girl advice videos, I definitely came off as needy and desperate, but I can't stop myself from thinking that maybe I am just incredibly boring, or that there is something very wrong with me. Also, I was never weird/sexual/annoying at any point, so I just can't understand what I did wrong. I just need a 100% real hypothesis/answer because this shit hurts so much.
@Max-dr5wq
@Max-dr5wq 6 жыл бұрын
I’m being honest find someone else people liek that use you for emotion gain and a ego boosts
@theblackbaron2375
@theblackbaron2375 5 жыл бұрын
shes playing with you. you got to get her to miss you and my best advice is go out with mates and have a good time and don't go out of youre way to show it off but do post something because in her mind right now she has the power
@slumptoad5846
@slumptoad5846 5 жыл бұрын
Soooo.. my crush said one day said “ come over here I need help with this” and scooted over for me to sit next to her while she coulda asked anyone at her table the smartest kids in the class were sitting with her I’m confused why she asked me to help Ig there is a possibility they didn’t know the answer, but the assignment was super easy. So ik they woulda known, and also she probably felt bad I was sitting alone. But before we ever talked to each other she didn’t care much where I was. Could it be my personality? Yea this is probably her not wanting to sound dumb in front of other students. Or just trying to be a friend and invite me in on what is happening. Though she even made me read the words to her, she seemed like she rlly want to hear my voice lol. so yeah it’s probably rlly simple but like idk lmao 😂 it’s weird having a crush, you always think it’s a big thing when it could be super small oof. *So help/advice pls lol*
@Handler1300
@Handler1300 5 жыл бұрын
She never talks to me unless i talk to her but we have funny and kinda flirty conversations she always talks to my friends about me sometimes her friends talk to me my friends tell me to just do it but she got a date your videos have been helping me with how i act around her lately thx josh your vids have really helped
@sharkboy8me938
@sharkboy8me938 6 жыл бұрын
Josh thanks I really needed this video perfect timing
@TheJoshSpeaks
@TheJoshSpeaks 6 жыл бұрын
Awesome, I hope it's helpful
@sharkboy8me938
@sharkboy8me938 6 жыл бұрын
The Josh Speaks definitely
@masoncarreiro3412
@masoncarreiro3412 4 жыл бұрын
I had a crush for about 1 month and a half and than i got into a relationship with my friend who is also thier friend and than they told me a few days ago they liked me longer than i liked them i was like act fast dont wait.
@generaldream6206
@generaldream6206 5 жыл бұрын
To put straight out there I met her yesterday at a church lock in and traded Snapchat then today we were chatting then I left her on read after she said “oh” and I had no way to respond then I said oh I’m working on my bike rn. She then said that when I finish working on my bike I should come over to swim. Then later made another comment saying we coulda hung out... dunno what to do gotta think about dis I like her and I think she likes me some of the other guys at the lock in was sorta hinting at the fact that she might like me.
@gioprox5207
@gioprox5207 3 жыл бұрын
Is it good if your crush talks less to you and sounds more timid when doing so than to all her other friends?
@victoriahanson5050
@victoriahanson5050 Жыл бұрын
honey did they like you???
@spectacularvictor650
@spectacularvictor650 5 жыл бұрын
So there is this girl i like but i can't tell if she likes me because one day i was at lunch with my friends and one of them caught her staring at me and smiling for 3 mins and another time i was in class i made a joke and she laughed and in my spanish class i sit in front of her she usually puts her feet on the back of my chair and starts rubbing under my chair but she never talks to me unless i do which is rarely because im nervous around her i think she hates me
@stormvlogz5704
@stormvlogz5704 4 жыл бұрын
Omg I'm the 1k like ! Well done you've helped me alot (yes ik its 2020) well done for 1k likes 👏👏👏
@lbreezy6608
@lbreezy6608 4 жыл бұрын
What if he asked me what do I think of him🤔 I’m looking for the signs if he honestly likes me and I’m waiting to see if he asks me out
@CarloPalenius
@CarloPalenius 6 жыл бұрын
Ye and none of these are true to my crush :/
@LegoGamer5502
@LegoGamer5502 6 жыл бұрын
cool!!! And thanks again your channel really helps me with this sort of stuff :D
@TheJoshSpeaks
@TheJoshSpeaks 6 жыл бұрын
No problem! I'm happy the videos are helpful!
@chick12321
@chick12321 5 жыл бұрын
I have seen my crush do non of these things but now that I hear them I noticed that I do all these thing to my crush without meaning to (apart from the roomers thing)
@taroahagarty4291
@taroahagarty4291 6 жыл бұрын
Thanks Josh this video has made me more confident in asking my crush keep up the great work.
@faithiyanda4112
@faithiyanda4112 5 жыл бұрын
In English my crush sits behind me and his friend sits next to him and basically his friend was like so who do u like and my crush was like me and the fact that he didn't even whisper or say it subtly was as if he wanted me to hear and I did so Idk what I'm supposed to do now does anyone know what I should do??
@phoebetaylor4877
@phoebetaylor4877 5 жыл бұрын
soooo I'm going to ask out my crush tomorrow, I had sm confidence earlier but i just had a mental breakdown wondering what would happen if he says no and now this video has cheered me up. ty!
@CloseTheDoor117
@CloseTheDoor117 5 жыл бұрын
I saw the super hero statues and was like ".....no...just no."
@yd6505
@yd6505 5 жыл бұрын
So my crush does not talk to me about 55% of the time. And when she does respond she says something like cool or nice. Im i in?
@papawuise6820
@papawuise6820 5 жыл бұрын
Im no expert, but those are words that are used when they want to end the conversation. That stuff hurts.
@ikillerz_uya8664
@ikillerz_uya8664 5 жыл бұрын
It doesn’t mean your 100% in but maybe if you can find a way to get something rolling it’ll find its way down the hill
@eventicurse114
@eventicurse114 6 жыл бұрын
Hi Josh, my crush asked me if I’m going to a party this Friday that she is going to, could this be related to point one as a clear indication?
@MohsenTheKnight21
@MohsenTheKnight21 3 жыл бұрын
Even though this video is 2 years old still helpful though lol
@ma1indaa
@ma1indaa 6 жыл бұрын
I’m really nervous to ask my crush out (I’m a girl) And he doesn’t take anything seriously and he does this stuff and we both show interest in eachother. Heck,i even ask one of those spirit board things and i asked “does ______ like me? And it said yes. Should ask or no?
@GOlone9597
@GOlone9597 3 жыл бұрын
If my crush point out where exactly she lives in google maps, is it a sign?
@amin_mk6679
@amin_mk6679 4 жыл бұрын
Hey, what if we both like each other but we both are shy though? 😂😂 I am not shy to talk to her, I just shy about inviting her to a conversation, and I am not going to ask her out before we have a real conversation one time.
@Asmr-ng8xe
@Asmr-ng8xe 4 жыл бұрын
So the other day my crush sent a Happy birthday to me and I replied back with ”Thank you! And he said yea, of course, have a fun day”. What does that mean? And so time went on and today was my crushes actually birthday (our birthday are close together so yea anyway) and I said Happy Birthday to him and have great day and he replied back with ” Thank You! I'll do my best” what does that mean?
@covercentral5290
@covercentral5290 5 жыл бұрын
your channel is amazing thxs
@thatsroughbuddy9294
@thatsroughbuddy9294 4 жыл бұрын
You think he's ever even had a girlfriend?
@lilsypils6579
@lilsypils6579 4 жыл бұрын
ok, i love your profile pic and name. I’m also a huge avatar fan 😆
@danielisthebest3294
@danielisthebest3294 Ай бұрын
chat i’ll ask my crush out if this gets 50 likes
@BlurryRL
@BlurryRL 2 жыл бұрын
i slapped tf out of someone that was talking to my crush lo
@iconicperson5106
@iconicperson5106 2 жыл бұрын
We send hearts to each other and hug all the time and get red when we see each other but she said she wasn't ready a long time ago but she likes me too but I don't know if she's ready and I don't wanna ask
@kylax5566
@kylax5566 3 жыл бұрын
My crush asked me if i would go out with someone who was 'ugly' but had a good personality my friend was also there and he didnt speak to her at all he just said hello but now she thinks he likes me idk what to do @The Josh Speaks
@techtick4784
@techtick4784 4 жыл бұрын
Can someone help me my crush doesn’t really look at my texts but talks to me in school and asks me what the homework’s are she also comes and talks to me at the end of school and when I walk past her sister says look it’s your friend say hi pls help
@Dragnoz2405
@Dragnoz2405 4 жыл бұрын
just ask her out
@techtick4784
@techtick4784 4 жыл бұрын
@@Dragnoz2405 I did I got friendzoned but oh well I’ll find someone else
@Dragnoz2405
@Dragnoz2405 4 жыл бұрын
@@techtick4784 exactly, dont waste time they will come the right ones😂
@charliegreen1697
@charliegreen1697 6 жыл бұрын
I’m going to ask her out on Monday wish me luck?
@derpups3150
@derpups3150 5 жыл бұрын
How did it went?
@R32GT-R_Takeshi
@R32GT-R_Takeshi 4 жыл бұрын
Its 1 year later how did it go ?
@nitrowolfdx1072
@nitrowolfdx1072 6 жыл бұрын
my crush shows off a lot
@leokun4994
@leokun4994 3 жыл бұрын
i haven't talked to my crush or done anything and yet she still sits near me and i just move away. I guess I've changed and find her annoying
@baileymaberry9589
@baileymaberry9589 5 жыл бұрын
I said to them that I don’t have a crush on anyone because I haven’t known anyone long enough and she asked what about me? Does that mean anything?
@mysticacres198
@mysticacres198 6 жыл бұрын
I confessed over text to my crush and he replied saying he liked me to It was akward today for the first few hors then we stryed talking and we didn't mention anything about liking each other My friend asked him that if I asked him out what would he say and he said yes and my friend told me We are going to Paris on Monday till Thursday with or shool Should I ask him then or Friday?
@jadeardz
@jadeardz 4 жыл бұрын
Mine told me he loves me, buuuut I'm just really scared to ask him 😅
@lilsypils6579
@lilsypils6579 4 жыл бұрын
ASK HIM 🥴
@jadeardz
@jadeardz 4 жыл бұрын
@@lilsypils6579 Ik you only commented 9 hours ago, but ty! idk how that lil comment gave me confidence but I asked and he said yes!!!! 😁❤
@lilsypils6579
@lilsypils6579 4 жыл бұрын
@@jadeardz glad I could help! I’m in a similar position, except my crush only likes me, and I asked him out and he hasn’t answered yet
@grognack1817
@grognack1817 4 жыл бұрын
Is it sad that my crush shows none of these signs.
@GyattYachtOffical
@GyattYachtOffical 2 жыл бұрын
I need help. We used to hang out all the time, but we have no classes this year. She holds eye contact, smiles, and is very, very kind. She friended me on Snapchat and I accepted, I've messaged her 3 times over a span of a week saying "hey!". The other two were joking saying hey attempt number 3. She hasn't responded. Should I ask her out, should I wait? Should I just give up? A month ago I asked if she was going to homecoming, the next day she hid behind her lunch box from me and whispered to her friend and her friend smiled and waved at me. I told her the next day I was just seeing if she was going and the next day she was depressed looking. I dont wanna assume she wants me, I haven't asked a girl out since Preschool, PRESCHOOL ME HAD A BIGGER PAIR! I need help, please, give me your opinion.
@jamesdonnelly3687
@jamesdonnelly3687 2 жыл бұрын
yeah bro..
@Tmnt_Fan69
@Tmnt_Fan69 2 жыл бұрын
I don't think she likes you...or maybe she is really shy, I think you should take the risk though.
@GyattYachtOffical
@GyattYachtOffical 2 жыл бұрын
@@Tmnt_Fan69 Honestly I have given up. There is no way I can make the first move. It killed me enough when I tried to start and conversation and she looked at the wall with a smirk. I really don't care. Her friend started snapping me again so that is nice. I'm fine where I'm at, just waiting.
@hiandhello5758
@hiandhello5758 5 жыл бұрын
okay so i have this crush on this amazing guy and the other day he came up to my table (where my and all my friends sit) and he asked which one of us was the smartest and all my friends pointed at me so he said I'll be your buddy then and I don't know if it was on coincidence or not and he is always nice to me when we do sports and never pushes me. I really want to ask him out (with a nerdy pick up line lol) but it will be my first time asking someone out.....I'm really nervous of being rejected. pray for me
@putemongamety4804
@putemongamety4804 5 жыл бұрын
do u u got it... I cant really tell u anything else cuz youll be listening to me, U need to make the option yourself
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