5 Things: Cheating husband drama, Wife's breast reduction upsets husband, Man releases dog, and MORE

My husband of 20 years is cheating on me with our son's 18 year old girlfriend.
AITAH for getting a breast reduction even though my husband said no?
My partner released our dog on the side of the highway
Ladies, get just 10% of this ASHdacity!! 😁
More rocking chair conversation

[@kayjeffs3741]

The husband had that girl delete all the old messages before 3 months because he didn't want anyone to find proof that he was probably messing with her as a minor

[@SaintLorena]

If they take it to police they can still get the old messages.

[@monikapp3981]

They should hire the IT pro or hacker whatever, he should be in jail probably

[@XtineJohnes]

@@SaintLorena They should do that, AND sue in civil court. You can take cases to civil court that you can't take to criminal court sometimes.

[@lovelydeath04]

Exactly.

[@SakuraMoonflower]

If the girl was screaming and crying at her old phone being taken away, and the ex was apoplectic about being caught, both are definitely afraid he'll go to jail for pursuing her when she was a minor. 😅❤🎉😢

[@Hopdog230]

Do men who call their wife old not realise they are also old? And the young women who partake in slandering and laughing song don’t realise they will also age?

[@evergreenforestwitch]

I thought the exact same thing. They're laughing at her for being old and he's the same age. She's young and in her pick me era, clearly, but he really should see the irony in that.

[@insideAdirtyMind]

They always say "men age like wine" so men think they are aging backwards and become real men at this old age. They think they deserve a very young woman now. The reality is: These men really look like grandpas in the eyes of young women. I am not even 18 anymore, I am 37 and 50 year old men look like grandpas to me.

[@comkver]

The problem is that the young lady in the this case thinks that since she's younger, she'll always be young and better looking. She doesn't think that he'll always want younger than her because she's already young. I'm young enough until her body is used up by Dustavious like OP. Nothing ages women like being in a relationship.

[@ty.365]

Men don't get old 🙄 let them tell it they get better with age

[@brandy4530]

The men don’t actually know that they are old. They genuinely believe that they don’t get old. They continually say, and tell each other, that men age like fine wine. It’s like they really think bald, pot bellied, and gassy is really attractive to young women. As for young women, no they don’t really get it. I remember thinking I would never get fat. Here I am, after three kids, and I’m overweight.

[@ijustneedausername6742]

If my partner abandoned my pet on the side of the road, Y’all would see my debut on an episode of snapped.

[@evergreenforestwitch]

Same

[@Zelly4eva]

If anyone did anything to one of my precious pups or kittens they’d best pick a god and start praying

[@femmefatale71]

SAME!!!!! And I would make it SLOWWWWWWWWWWWWW.

[@queensavage9896]

I agree. My ex took my dog out without a leash and she got lost in the neighborhood, I was ready to go John Wick on his a$$! 😅

[@EmyN]

Lol, right

[@Panthabear27]

Women, when you decide to leave, please stop telegraphing your plans to divorce to xy's. If they tried to harm your pet, plants, and property, they'll hurt you and the children, too. Move in silence.

[@jayogee913]

Exactly. Act normal, and then one day just be gone.

[@jaeshasway]

Exactly. Let them come home one day to find you, your belongings, pets, kids gone and a bailiff waiting to hand them divorce papers.

[@bidah007]

Cheating is already awful but with your OWN CHILD GIRLFRIEND ???? That’s too much and a instant divorce.He was attracted to her before she turn 18 that’s for sure.

[@DaPhlyymamee]

I agree. Grooming most likely took place. How low down & disgusting!

[@healingonesmindset]

Absolutely DISGUSTING and Amy is also a victim here.

[@aeixoxo]

I don’t think Amy is a victim, I’m 21 and I would NEVER do age isn’t a good excuse

[@aeixoxo]

I think she’s just a future pick me, it won’t be the last time she sleeps with married men.

[@DaPhlyymamee]

@@aeixoxo You may not think so, but she's definitely a victim.

[@Lysistrata2025]

18-22 from a broken home = looking for someone weak, but legal. Dating your son's GF = hating your son and not seeing him as human.

[@TheePrincessBrat]

Also going for low-hanging fruit. It’s easier to groom someone close to you, than find a stranger to victimize

[@ADR-xn6dg]

Doesn’t see her as human either, because if he did he would have never approached that knowing she is from a broken home

[@TheePrincessBrat]

@@ADR-xn6dg he told the poor girl he loved her. Was he also lying about leaving his wife eventually?? Like where was he even going with this ?? She might have saved that girl’s life

[@zenolad.whilder6641]

Here's the thing Luv... this Douche Canoe thought by stealing his son's girlfriend would make him look and feel youthful again because he was jealous of his son's virility. Not to mention he's also kealous that his son is beginning to walk in the world in which hes going tontravel and meet a plethora of young women but at rhe Time he was in love with this young lady Amy his first Love interest. Now what's worse is Amy is with the son and he was plotting on this young lady, grooming her and by her being so young and youthful and he was drawn to that energy because he's feeling old!?! Then to slap a bad enema into this Anus of humanity..he decides ro post messages, to a full blown affair with a child whose mind hasn't developed fully, but her body has (in his eyes), and you not only embarrass and disrespect your wife, you adamantly destroy, disrespect, and dwmolish your childrens trust in you as a parent!?! By the Goddess he deserves all the Hell he has coming to him. I pray the son, Mother, and daughter all the healing from that situationship. I also pray for Amy as well because she has no idea what's coming her way from an Adult situation she has allowee herself to be put in with no understanding of the repercussions coming her way. This will be one extremely harsh and valuable lesson she will learn. I also feel for her parents too! No ow as to him...🦗🦗🦗

[@AskDarlingNikki]

Yes he hates his son for sure. Violating his GF shows he ultimately hates himself. He sees them as what he wishes he could be and really hates them BOTH for that.

[@ButterflyBree]

That first story is so scary and horrific. She's married to a pedo and he doesn't care about how his behavior is impacting his children, the son's girlfriend, and his family. 😮😮

[@XtineJohnes]

I discovered that a guy I was dating was a pedo (he confessed to preferring girls 18-early 20s when we were both 37). I literally never spoke to him again. THIS is what I avoided by doing that.

[@TheePrincessBrat]

@@XtineJohnes disgusting. I think the fact that 18yo are allowed to be in the adult industry makes a lot of this even worse. I (24atm) was dating a guy (31), and he claimed I was the youngest he’s comfortable with…but then kept asking about my friend (21). Asking for pics and descriptions of her (which I said no to) and had weird fantasies. He was really hung up on stuff related to my dad 🤢. I’m not even the type of girl who calls men “daddy” so that really disgusted me. He is blocked now. When I was 17, I was using an app to improve my Spanish. I actually made a long-term friend that way. The idea is you match with someone who’s learning your language and vice versa. One guy reached out to me. I was wondering why he was talking to me since he was a white man from TX 🤔 he did not speak Spanish. Well, he was actually looking for something else. He talked about how he just got divorced (sure wonder why..) and made it sound like now he was ✨free✨ to pursue who he really wanted. Which were teens… he said the reason he was talking to me, was because 17 was the youngest he could go in his state 🤢 These men are so dangerous and there’s way too many of them. You made the right choice leaving that guy. But it’s sad that he’s still out there

[@saidrew1030]

The way he looked so scared when confronted. I wouldn't be surprised if that porn addict had actual pedo content somewhere on his computer.

[@XtineJohnes]

@@TheePrincessBrat I know, this whole time I have had to worry that he's abusing teens. I've been waiting to hear something about what he's doing, but I left his whole crowd eventually so I haven't found out yet. But I'm sure something will come out. I warned as many people as I could about him.

[@TheePrincessBrat]

@@XtineJohnes you did your part. Now they need to protect any kid that might be around him. It sucks that we have to share the earth with people like that

[@jasminebaby3375]

This man is the low down low bottom low. To have an affair with your child’s girlfriend is just wild and disgusting 🤮 😢

[@DaPhlyymamee]

Exactly! I can't imagine!

[@teresamagnusson]

He groomed that girl.

[@Xena395]

The girl is low down too, your boyfriend’s dad. Both of them have no morals.

[@kirawong4629]

It’s actually not as rare as you think

[@Amina679]

He is a covert narcissist the lowest

[@HunterLvyiXIII]

Imagine saying your wife has aged poorly (to the point she's internalized it) y'all don't age like wine neither but will always have the audacity

[@WynnWynn-gl3fk]

Most males age like milk, way worse than women!

[@mmason9836]

That guy that abandoned the dog lied about where he abandoned the dog so she wouldn't find it. He didn't think she'd alert animal shelters that far away.

[@MAPriestAuthor]

That’s what I thought. He probably got off on her pain trying to find it

[@venusretrograde6177]

It really makes me sad that the first woman blamed her marriage problems on “aging poorly”. Misogynistic men will make you believe that any type of aging is “aging poorly”. When you enter into a life long commitment with someone you need to be prepared to love them at all stages of their existence, this includes when they begin to show signs of their age. We’re not meant to look 25 forever!

[@shontoo6979]

"Gold Dig" when he has a part time job and she has two! Amazing.

[@zahraakadhem9913]

Spoiling and blowing money on his homeboys but his BM is the gold digger for wanting him to contribute😂

[@TheePrincessBrat]

I hate when they do the whole, “if the genders were switched” how many women abandon their partners over physical changes?? There are women who knowingly marry men who are disfigured. That commenter must be a “boob guy” It’s not about falling out of attraction. It’s about not respecting your partners autonomy

[@tiahnarodriguez3809]

Men leave at a much higher rate than women, so these men really have no room to talk. Notice how they act like women are equal when it serves them. Apparently women leaving 2-3x is equal to men leaving 6-7x when their partner becomes sick or disabled. Men are also more likely to cheat or leave when their partner puts on pregnancy weight, but women will usually still stay even if their man gets a dad bod/beer belly.

[@MAPriestAuthor]

Not to mention that we all get less attractive as we age. If he can’t handle smaller boobs how is he going to handle crepe skin, dentures, or diapers? If you love someone, then you love the person within, and it doesn’t matter what they look like outside

[@sawyerharris3721]

@@MAPriestAuthorI think we should stop normalizing saying aging makes us less attractive, honestly. No it doesn’t. Men and women who are in their 40’s should not still be fantasizing about having someone “attractive” who doesn’t look their same age. 40 year olds aren’t attractive to young folks specifically,but that’s only right.

[@zahraakadhem9913]

They always have to do the whole "imagine this" and pull these fantasies out their ass to make themselves feel less evil than what they really are. Women don't even come close to the shit men do on the regular

[@WynnWynn-gl3fk]

Women, stop dating down as most males don’t so why should women?!

[@starlingswallow]

1st story: WOW. I'm so sorry for this OP. Thank god she found out her ex is a predator! 2nd: a woman's body is HER BODY. You don't have to ask for permission. Do what makes you feel better physically and mentally ❤ and....get rid of him, he sounds like a King-baby who cares if nothing else but _himself._ 😤😤 Tell him he needs a breast reduction too!! "We can go in together _sweetie!!!"_ 😅 Story 3: Anyone who treats an animal like that doesn't deserve a partner or a CHILD!!! What is he gonna do when his baby isn't quiet? Or annoying? And grows up and won't be a "lap-baby"?!?! Drop the CHILD off on the side of the highway?!?? That lady has a case. Animal cruelty is NO JOKE!

[@DaPhlyymamee]

That first man is the scum of the Earth! He can't get much lower! Betrayal trauma is so awful. I've been through so much that I'll probably never share. This truly pissed me off! I pray they all can heal from his actions. What a horrible soul!

[@zenolad.whilder6641]

This was a trigger for me too Hon so I feel ya!!! Betrayal trauma from three ways and more..1) Trust of his Son and his girl's relationship, 2) Absolute trust , loyalty, and fidelity of his Marriage to his Wife, 3) Trust of his daughter , cause lets just say she was friends with Amy wnd rhey had a Friendly relationship in their own mitual circle, he destoyed the trust as a Parent to his daughter as a Father figure to whom she looked up to as a... You can giess the rest! Anfd the worst he preyed on a girl child for who knows how long to whom seen him as a Mentor before she slept with him!?! Soooo many acts of betrayal. They're all foing to need therapy with that situationship in the end. This is why trusting and being loyal to a person who teyly shows you ro whom they are after how many years is scary when ther reality of to whom what theyvare in truth is scary. I feel for allnof them but they Mrs.'s is wise getting out of that Chaotic sanctuary of Hell and is forging forward wisely dumping that Male, and helping her and her children to heal. Good dor them. May the Great Mother bless and protect them free of anymore betrayals for they are warriors who dealt with a major coward. This lesson will be priceless for that 1st jerk. An Ex I know and knew 14 years ago, had got a young woman pregnant behind my back, ended up on drugs, was an Alcoholic and preyed on Women with children or even in Alcoholic Anonymous meetings on young women or firls in those rooms. He fot caught kissing and drinking among young ladies who came to Ocean City with their sororities to party or the fraternities of young Men buying Alcohol for their parties. I talked ro these kids and rhey told me with all their underage drinking, to whom bought them their spirits..It was Him because many were underage. In Ovean City, New Jersey you have to be 21 years of age to buy alcohol with an ID even with buying cigarettes. Icaught him teying to kiss the neighbor who moved in next door before the summer started, and he had the nerve to pretend like he was being s father figure to this young Lady. Meghan had a lot of spunk about her and thus young lady spurned him because she said he was too old to be acting like he was young. He was 37 at the time trying to fit in. I have a Cleaning in Business in Ovean City, so I got to meet and know some of these young ones parents tonehom would buy them or Rent a property or House just for these kids. Meghan caught up with me when I cught him trying to kiss her and told me the truth as robwhat he would say and try to do with her when I wasn't around and she feared whst Inwould do to her if I found out!?! She teusted her relationship with me and didnt want our blooming friendship to be destroyed because of his drunken stupidity the day I saw them when I was coming home from work. No ow with the other kids I found out later what he was trying to do with rhese young girls. In the end ..it didn't matter. I left. I just be packed my stuff up loaded it into a cab/van and left. No discussion, no discourse, no arguing.. GONE!!! He ended up locked up and out of rhe vlue I het a call from his Mom and a bail bondsman as ro his whereabouts on a three way call to the Community Jail and thats where he was pending trial. I didn't care,but at that time (14 years ago) I had been no contact with him for 3 and a half months and knew nothing until they called me. Ibtried trusting him as a supposed friend/coworker when je jad gotten out 4 years later then. When I felt and saw how je was moving ..He ghosted me( blessing) got a girl pregnant and I havent seen no or jeard nothing about that one in 14 and a half years now. I pity that little girl of his because when I met him he had a son. No he never really tried to reach out to him at that time. I dont bother with any Males/Men period and after being celibate this long Id rather prefer my Peace😊. I do have a gorgeous kitty my daughter got me and his name is SHADOWz. Have a great one ro whomever redas this and may your journey through life brings you much joy,peace, and many beautiful memories 🎉

[@evergreenforestwitch]

I am so glad she found her dog!! OMG what a terrible human being. I think he could be arrested for this - it's animal cruelty and neglect.

[@Dan1ell]

She should report what he did to the dog to the police. Regardless of how strong the animal laws are in her area, having this on his record will help with her custody battle.

[@saidrew1030]

For the first story, I wouldn't be surprised if he feared being investigated for something more serious. He's interest in younger woman or little kids is apparent. I think that porn addict has more files elsewhere

[@lauraanderson8785]

I really hope that the 18 yo son heals from this and doesn't grow up to become a misogynist. He's right now in a vulnerable place and at an impressionable age, if he googles "how to get over your gf cheating" for example and runs into the red pill clowns' teachings he could easily be steered onto the wrong path. Let's hope that something like that doesn't happen. Both him and OP have suffered through a horrible trauma, I can't even imagine

[@onepiecestudio1797]

Story one was a real clusterfuck... what is wrong with these type of men??

[@michaelpierce398]

Once I was complaining about one of my wife's dogs. The guys I were complaining to said I should give her the ultimatum " me or the dog", I said. "So, I'm going to live with you now? I know who she'll choose." 😂

[@catsncrows]

Good luck getting full custody. He abandoned an animal by the side of the road. That's not going to look good

[@evergreenforestwitch]

OMG I'm on story one and I keep just saying gross at every new disgusting revelation! This man is a predator. Poor woman.

[@Lokian_Mermaid]

That first story! YIKES! I met my now ex-husband when we were 20. His parents were in their mid 40's. I absolutely cannot fathom my FIL even thinking such a thing even before I was officially his DIL. He was one of the older male relatives in my life that healed most of my Daddy Issues; due to the abuse from and sudden death of my father. My FIL saw me as one of his own children. Ppl being predators is already horrific but to care NOTHING about your own child so much that you get with their partner is several extra levels of vile. The wife can't keep his kids away from him? They DON'T WANT to be around him. The daughter may not be a legal adult yet but SHE doesn't want to be around him.

[@ADR-xn6dg]

If she’s over 13 or so she can choose whether she sees her father or not as well.

[@Lokian_Mermaid]

@@ADR-xn6dg I was wondering. It may be different from state to state so I didn't mention it. Also, due to his actions, if he tries to force the teen daughter to see him through the courts, it might end up being a waste of everyone's time and money.

[@jaeshasway]

18:44 No way I would stay with this man. He doesn’t just suck. He lied to her about where he abandoned the dog because he didn’t want the dog found. The pure evil that resides in some peoples hearts is just mind boggling. 🤯

[@tashibalampkin8555]

The father cheating with his son's 18 year old girlfriend. Naw. When exactly did this "relationship" start? I would tell the girl's parents. Shout-out to the girl's mother for giving the wife the girl's phone.

[@MAPriestAuthor]

Yeah, he definitely groomed that baby. I hope they eventually find enough evidence to get him on a list

[@TheePrincessBrat]

Before we got to the sick part of the story, I did it quick math on their age difference vs the kids ages. This is the issue with the, not all older men. If a man is pursuing someone significantly younger than them, you should assume that they would go younger. Gross as it is, this isn’t the first time I heard this story. He didn’t wait for Amy to turn 18, he’s probably been grooming her for as long as she’s been in his son’s life This is also why I advise women not to deal with men that have corn addiction. They’re liable to do things like this

[@TheePrincessBrat]

On the bright side, I think her kids will be resilient and it seems Eric is nothing like his father. So proud that he asked for help immediately. They will be okay eventually. I hope the stbx gets what’s coming to him.

[@maam-yj8ph]

So true. Definitely one of my deal breakers. If I catch one beer container or one pornography paraphernalia, I am out.

[@TheePrincessBrat]

@@maam-yj8ph Im very vigilant with xesual behaviors with men. Idc how unserious our situation is. Anything weird in their history or current behavior, I’m calling them out then dipping. Generally, I wholeheartedly believe more men need to have mirror held up to them. Some definitely will make improvements, others are just messed up and there will always be people like that in the world. Any kind of addiction or aversion to therapy is a deal breaker for me.

[@ADR-xn6dg]

Imploding his family for what.. that 18 year old won’t stick around when his health inadvertently deteriorates

[@MAPriestAuthor]

He lost access to her the second her mom found out. Hopefully her mom gets her a good therapist that can help her realize what he did to her

[@TheePrincessBrat]

I just realized the other night, to match with young people, they are literally changing the age filter. No way does Bumble or Tinder automatically put 20s/40s in the same dating pool. Anyway, I matched with one guy, 50s?? At least that’s what he told me. He would always go “you’re so good for my 50-whatever ego” 🤢. Once he got offended by something I said, that it made him feel like a dirty old man….like umm. Who’s gonna tell him? Anyway, got ~$1500 out of that dummy in the span of 2 weeks. Never met in person. Next

[@f1dassia]

Sprinkle sprinkle...

[@TheePrincessBrat]

@@f1dassia lol no more geriatric sprinkles for me.

[@starojunes]

That first story omg. How to speed-run going no contact with your kids. Men will really just destroy their whole lives instead of getting a divorce if they are unhappy in the marriage.

[@victoiagilliad4995]

That 1st story is a crazy reality no one wants to live ! I'm so happy the mother was not niave enough to confront the father in person or before she moved out. Because predators are known to "silence" anyone in their way.

[@pinkplushdino]

"wife appliance" is such a great term. please tell me you have seen the original stepford wives movie! if you haven't, its so worth it (and on youtube as well)

[@patricewhite175]

Regarding the dog abandonment story, I am so glad someone told her to press charges against him for animal cruelty

[@lovelee1772]

Omg my heart couldn't take the dog story, so glad she was found! Omfg.

[@lizzyforevermore4]

Men ruin their own kingdoms.Smfh

[@tiahnarodriguez3809]

Can’t have a kingdom if the man was a court jester the whole time. These clowns really don’t understand how good they have it and it’s why I will continue to advocate for women to have their own, vet at every stage in the relationship, and don’t be afraid to leave at any stage. A home should never be a circus.

[@unpredictable244]

As a woman with a 36G breast size I'm getting that surgery one way or another 😂😂😂😂 F what they think lol I'm tired of these huge things 😂😂lol

[@SunandSunflowers]

My cousin had the surgery

[@shaypope4732]

My sister got hers and lawd the smell from taking care of her and the bandages was alot but she lucky I loved her and did it

[@tashasc1]

Coming from a former 42F, you WILL NOT regret it!

[@liabw05]

Good for you!

[@silververnallbells191]

@@shaypope4732 If there was a bad smell then she probably had an infection from the surgery. Y'all should have took her back to the doctor for treatment.

[@dfya3294]

You spent $2k on your boys but you didn't make sure where you stay at is straight?! That post can't be real smh

[@greenytaddict]

And he said he homeless...like why isn't one of his friends he yoloing with an option to live with?

[@dfya3294]

@@greenytaddict Right!!! This is why I think some of these dudes are in love w/ their homeboys. Thank God she had men to kick his behind out.

[@thesecretshade]

Yeah like he spent so much money on his lover boys but they don't let him move in with them? Lol

[@tiahnarodriguez3809]

@emmadilemma7800 It’s cuz his baby momma has expectations and requires him to be responsible now that they have kids. His boys don’t do that cuz they are just as childish as he is, so they condone his dusty lifestyle, and the strippers boost his male ego. In short his head is in the Oort Cloud, but his baby momma brings back him down to earth and he doesn’t like that.

[@jayogee913]

More and more I ask "why did she have a baby with this so-called man?" Not trying to shame her, really really trying to not shame her, but ...come on ladies! Was he awesome the first six months you knew him? Yeah, okay. STILL DON'T HAVE A BABY WITH HIM UNTIL HE'S AWESOME FOR AT LEAST A COUPLE YYYEEEEAAARRRSSS!

[@videofan1010]

"I've aged poorly, smh."

[@phiakate5921]

So that's all that matters in a marriage? This justification for sleeping with children and spending thousands on O.F.? Was that your point?

[@Flamingmarshes]

But has she actually aged poorly or is he harsh to her since she’s no longer a teen?

[@shanna2.2.2]

@@Flamingmarshesthat was my thoughts, I wonder how much could just be skewed perception from her self esteem being affected by his negative comments over time

[@vladimirazubcekova7727]

so did he most likely yet she isnt the one sleeping with highschoolers

[@masumi1990x]

It's not about preferences but about PAIN. I don't understand how someone, let alone SO, can wish their partner to be in pain just because they like bigger boobs.

[@chanayplease]

That first story is just upsetting for so many reasons, I hope the husband gets some sort of charge like he definitely groomed her. Esp w/how the girl is acting, she sounds just like a victim, her response worries me a lot. Not only that but the daughter's response is also telling, he probably exhibited some odd behavior towards her friends. To know your dad possibly targeted or even hurt your friends is a horrible thing to realize as a teen. I hope she gets help if she feels she may need it, that would be a lot of guilt to carry.

[@silververnallbells191]

No, she doesn't sound like a victim. She sounds like a teen w/raging hormones "You don't understand. We're in love!" - said by every h-rny teen girl who mistakes lust for love. Let's be honest with ourselves, she's no virgin & A LOT of teens start as young as 12/13 these days. She KNEW she was messing w/a married man.

[@arceusinsanity301]

Sounds like Mary noticed some things in hindsight, the mom might want to be contacting her friends parents as well to be having some hard discussions with their daughters

[@TheePrincessBrat]

mary spoke to her friends and they admitted to him being creepy. I agree she should tell their parents. I’m glad she took action, because, unfortunately, there are a lot of women who would’ve turned a blind eye

[@LunaELugo]

I stopped at the dog one. I just can't. Maybe related: my dog was sick once and ex jokingly said he was going to "put the dog down" I then replied, "In that case, don't turn around bc I'll be right behind you doing the same damn thing." For context, we are both gun owners. Just, no.

[@malindaallen718]

Bad joke. Keep an eye on that guy. There's something bad inside of him; don't let it grow.

[@starlingswallow]

The Ash-dacity!!!! 😂😂😂😂

[@ceenichole6866]

I’m utterly disturbed by the first story. Just disgusting on so many levels

[@heyhey439]

The first story was wild but then when she mentioned both her son and her getting tested together I had a full body shudder. Holy fuck that's mortifying. I'm glad she's letting her lawyer do all the communicating.

[@amberinthemist7912]

I would totally rehome that dog. I would say I agreed with my husband. And then I would do everything to ruin him as I moved silently out of that marriage. Then I'd go back and get my dog from their temp foster home.

[@mmck2565]

I didn’t even wanna hear the rest of the first story 😭😭 JAAAAAAAIL TO MY NOT HUSBAND ANYMORE- whom ion even know that man (as soon as they lock him up.

[@SugaRumBrown]

There is no way I would ever again talk to a parent who slept with someone I was dating. That is some vile mess, and for the story about the women's dog, Harlet❤ DIVORCE😡, harming any of Mother Earth's creatures is a no no in my book

[@malenehammersinfokanal1567]

Wtf!! I AM litteraly crying for The dog 😢 how disgusting.. He is dangerous, and Insane and should not be alone with anyone but inmates...

[@notahater3365]

Leaving the dog on the road is evil. Bet he lied about where he dumped her.

[@sully4264]

Thanks

[@BurbNBougie]

Thank you so much

[@beepbopboop7727]

Honestly, I don’t see relationships with men as long term for THIS exact reason.

[@Orb-w3aver]

So so glad I left my ex and I’m glad I don’t ever want one again after all theses stories and what I’ve seen in my own life, you’re sons girlfriend 🤮🤮🤢🤢bye bye men

[@respectabletampodcast]

I’m not even a dog person, but that story was harrowing. 😢 The audacity of that man saving his money for himself while mooching on the girl. I’m so glad her family set him straight. 😂 I love how deeply you’re digging into the rocking chair story. I didn’t even get that far. 😅

[@BurbNBougie]

The rocking chair story isn't my fault. 😂 Ppl keep commenting on it. I didn't realize his issues until someone told me.

[@respectabletampodcast]

@@BurbNBougie Well, thanks for giving us the update!

[@lolabigcups7121]

The dog story, he definitely lied about where he dropped the dog off.

[@cloud9beauty]

Remember the original stepford wives? The main character was physically sooooooo beautiful yet her husband put giant tatas on his robot to replace his wife.

[@X3N14]

With the first story I would get the authorities involved myself. The girl is 18 now but he likely started grooming her and possibly doing other stuff before that.

[@bourgeoiZee]

Cheating with the son's girlfriend is disgusting all around. The story.with the dog bought me to tears. I am a dog mom of 2 and I would be devastated if a partner or anyone ever did this to me. I would immediately fall out of love and into disgust and hate for that person.

[@toomuchsci-fi]

For a half second the first story almost sounded like the tv series Obsession

[@Lysistrata2025]

3rd wife needs to go to the police. If he does something to their child later on, it may help her case.

[@paulaw418]

I swear if these men could they write into their marriage vows "In sickness and in health *_as long as I ain't got to do the dishes"_*

[@paulaw418]

You know what if I was that woman and arguing with her man about the chair I'd be like " Go ahead. Put it in the room. I DARE you. He'd never see that f****** chair again.

[@AndyyWithAY]

He's been married longer than she's been alive!! And, she was his son's GF. Can you say scum of the earth! It's ok to have a preference for something, but breasts are very heavy and can cause back and other issues. I'd think as you age, it gets worse. And, he needs to be exercising to reduce his boobies. The nerve!

[@thiccredgyal3404]

The guy in the second story needs to go on a diet and exercise. It's always the fat and out of shape men who talk like that.

[@silververnallbells191]

I have large breasts that hurt when I was younger, but I work out more now w/weights so it's actually easier than in my teens and 20s. I started working out w/calisthenics in my 30s & now I've added weights & it's even easier. You have to build your other muscles up to support your tatas.

[@Chloenextdoor]

Omfg I am bawling about her dog. That is her literal child & he just dumped her. I am so hurt right now. That man is as evil as the fredo!! 😭😭😭😭😭

[@Lysistrata2025]

Grantavius sounds like a walking mess

[@thinkinginn7443]

22:50 This is a great example of the dynamic dusties really want in the ‘communitah’. He wants the appearance and privilege of being the ‘man’ of the house but none of the responsibilities or expectations of personal discipline that comes with it. I’d bet money it was established that he’d move in and cover half the rent in the beginning. His logic is he shouldn’t have to because she ‘has’ the means to support herself. Not paying any heed to the fact that taking care of him and a whole child would be a financial strain. Saving $2k to throw yourself a party at a strip club while giving the mother of your kids nothing for months is WILD to me. And all while living under her roof rent free (not by her choice). How is her kicking him out ‘illegal’ if he’s not a paying tenant? If his name isn’t on the lease and he hasn’t been paying rent to her she has the right. If his name is on the lease then legally he’s agreed to pay for part of the rent. Lastly I do find it hilarious that he’s upset she’s a Daddy’s girl. Most men in said community like to dog on women who were raised in homes of absentee fathers, but coincidentally don’t seem to like women who have present and caring ones either. All that to say, this hobo-sexual got cocky thinking he can live with his baby momma and be a second child of the house on her dime. Glad she kicked him out.

[@silververnallbells191]

It's illegal to kick him, because he legally lives there whether he pays or not. There's also squatters rights. In some places it's 30days to be a legal resident, but in other places it's as low as 6. "Lastly I do find it hilarious that he’s upset she’s a Daddy’s girl. Most men in said community like to dog on women who were raised in homes of absentee fathers, but coincidentally don’t seem to like women who have present and caring ones either." - He's probably jealous sense he's homeless & his parents didn't take him in.. he's jealous of her familial connections. & what if his mama took him in? Wouldn't that make him "too old" to be playing mama's boy?

[@InimitableAde]

Burb, I haven't even watched the video yet but I just wanted you to know that the Ashdacity had me ROLLING! Good one!

[@CharlieApples]

Chair guy: It says so much about a man when he cares more about a piece of old furniture than about the comfort and desires of his wife and child. He gains nothing by forcing her to sit in a chair she doesn’t like or want, but god damn it he’s going to make her bend.

[@silververnallbells191]

The thing is tho IF she really cared about him then she'd want the chair as it has high sentimental value & family history for him. She IS being selfish here. It probably fits in JUST FINE w/the rest of the decorations as it would be plain wood. IF it "clashes" so much they could probably paint it or refinish it.

[@nigerianwoman24]

Hey wait a minute, what happened to the rest of the update with the slimy cheating husband? It was cut short🥴🤔

[@hippie1252]

Thank you for posting. I needed to meal prep and clean the kitchen 🙏🏽

[@BigBiteDoughnut]

Its called animal abandoning and its a crime. It might even be a felony. She should call the cops on himm file a report. Make him look crazy bc he is.

[@thefeminineeye]

Paul is a narc

[@f1dassia]

... and a pedophilic sociopath.

[@MayaMaya-tj7kw]

Dad isn't even going to end up in the dojo mojo casa house. He's going to prison and he'll

[@EmyN]

Omg, I totally had a deja vu with this bottom comment 29:48 about the chair guy, it’s like I dreamt of this and they ended up divorced, or am I thinking of another similar story? 😂 anyway, if they divorce I’m officially a physic loll

[@annmariegood37]

Disgusting

[@ToniDaniels1275]

No more forgiving tf

[@leona2222]

I can’t believe the number of horrible people that you find on the Internet. I have lost all faith in humanity.

[@Drageisha]

Amy had been bored with Eric for quite sometime, otherwise she'd told Eric & the mom immediately when Paul started being inappropriate.

[@llechatton]

Poor harlot- He won’t get custody after the Judge sees hears the story.

[@user-dq9rr9mv3f]

The 1st story, Kudos to the wife for taking action and divorcing her pedo husband..I know ppl want to hate Amy, Please understand that Amy is also a victim that was groomed by an older adult man… She was a young teen girl from a broken family.. He may have been sleeping with her way before 18…

[@tashibalampkin8555]

Third story: The husband is going to a hot place.

[@faith6575]

The 1st story…. WHAT RHE ACTUAL FFFFUUUUCCKKK??

[@shaypope4732]

So he has 2000 for so called friends but not his kids or where he's living at boooooooooo tomatoes booooo

[@krhoomes22]

I 🤦🏾‍♀️with the baby daddy! The best she’s going to get!

[@malindaallen718]

He told her he dumped HER dog, but the "man" lied about where, so she couldn't find the dog. I'm glad she found the dog. She can get a new man, a better man, an honest man, a loving man....

[@levelupgoddess9289]

1st story: tell your son and file for a divorce. Why protect your husband? Glad she got all the receipts. Ur husband is disgusting.

[@AnusiaLA]

I think some of these posts are women writing their experiences from their husbands/boyfriends perspective. Maybe they show the posts and responses to their guys to show them how insane they’re acting. These guys gaslight you to the point that you have no idea how to feel and think.

[@TheRoseAlchemist]

If that was my pet, I'd be in jail for a long time and Hubby wouldn't be working anymore. End of Story.

[@beepbopboop7727]

Chair; I think there should be a Daddy’s corner. He will be changing nappies and feeding the kiddo too. So he can have his own area to do those things and that should be for his preferences.

[@BurbNBougie]

I doubt daddy would be in the nursery very long. I honestly think it's more practical in a common area.

[@freespirit7878]

Humm, that sad

[@extra_small]

Isn’t this the plot of Netflix’s Obsession…super disturbing

[@jscullyandmulderx25]

The first story was gross but unfortunately not that unfamiliar A lifetime movie. He can have his preferences its that he said no. Belittle or did she want an opinion of other's? The guy and double standards? If it was a husband and he said? If it was a boyfriend goodbye boyfriend! Unfortunately she had a baby with this guy. I don't no it's better to be alone and lonely at times really learn to like yourself and your own company.

[@monikapp3981]

2:20 Paranoia is only paranoia if it's not real

[@caddiewallace-jones7756]

I’m gonna age anyway might as well do it alone instead of falling in love with someone who later throws me away because my age doesn’t start with “20” or “teen” anymore.

[@jasminejeanine2239]

21:07, yes the cops can charge the AH with abandoning animals and animal abuse. No, if you want to get rid of a animal, you have three choices. You can sell it, give it to a shelter or pay for them to be put down. What you're not allowed to do basically anywhere is just drop off the animals on the side of the road. It's a huge safety hazard. No, people are unalived all the time bc they tried to swerve to avoid dogs and cats. Cats are a huge problem and are the main reason so many animals/birds in America are close to extinction. No, you'd be amazed at how quickly dogs and cats procreate out in the wild and no one wants to deal with roving packs or wild dogs like in Latin America. In fact, I've yet to meet a state that wasn't already totally overrun by the number of stray animals they're finding. No, OP really should call the police and especially given the fact that he told you he was going to try and get full custody. You need a official record. Btw, given where the dog was found, the guy went through extreme lengths to ensure you'd never see your dog again. He wanted it to ☠️, not just stop living with you. While I doubt he'll lose custody from this alone bc America is stupid and thinks having a dad is more important than not being abused, my guess is the judge will order that his visits be monitored. No, next time it might be your kid he leaves out in the woods bc the kid made a mess and smeared 💩everywhere like kids do. It wouldn't be the first time a man unalived a kid and then pretended like someone 'kidnapped' them. I could go on forever listing all the family annihilators. No, guys like him will take your kid just to punish you. Please, document and record EVERYTHING from this point on and be careful. Don't go anywhere alone with him and talk to a lawyer and the police ASAP. No, as a woman and a new mom, you can never be safe enough. You MUST prepare for a fight bc hell if this man isn't totally used to you giving in to him. You think he treated you badly before, just wait until he has absolutely no reason to be nice. No, absolutely no peackeeping or sweetness from you, am I understood? It isn't just your life on the line anymore. Get your momma bear suit on and get a 🔫. Keep the 🔫 close to you at all times and don't tell a living soul about it other than perhaps the guy at the range. Only pull it when you're 100% ready to pull the trigger. Men aren't scared of girls with 🔫s. You'd be amazed how fast someone can close 20ft. No, never try and use a weapon to get a man to back off unless you want him to have the weapon and want to be unalived. However in this case, I would suggest it.

[@Niccy26]

The breast reduction. If your spouse/ partner prefers you in pain so you meet their preference, then throw them away. Wtf is that? If you don't care about me as a person, you can do one

[@silververnallbells191]

How is she a gold digger when he has no gold to dig & SHOULD be helping out w/rent & utilities, because he lives there & is also a father. No, the kids don't need to see a deadbeat IN the home. They need a healthy, strong male role model that can pattern a good work ethic for them. He probably doesn't even help with child care.

[@IsThisRealLif]

That first one is horrible! It's a parent that he's been working on her.... It didn't just pop up suddenly when she was 18... It's just that's when the evidence starts... Telling her mom she wouldn't understand but we understand plenty... Cuz what did she think his end game plan was? That they would get together permanently? I wonder if she knows that he is on dating sites with other young people as well? But unfortunately he's been likely at her for a while which is why he was freaking out on the zoom call... She should have left and said that the girlfriend confessed they had been together before she was 18 and see what his reaction was... The part she didn't read at the bottom stated that is daughter has been talking to her friends and asking about her dad and he's been creepy around them... Pedo

[@Srsrsrst]

Wife appliance

[@Holisticallycarol]

Ladies, stop having kids with men you're not married to already. Especially if he makes more, you'll get screwed in the breakup.

[@sagittariansage_2271]

I wish the dog woman wouldve kept her composure and acted like things were ok until she created a plan and a safe out for her and baby and dog 😢