5 Things Men Would Love For Their Woman To Do... but Most Likely Won't Say

[@SealztheMan]

Hey Beautiful People, if you liked this video about what decent men want from you, check out this video about what Serious men do for their woman: "7 Things Men Do When They’re SERIOUS About You" Peace & Blessings 👑

[@kiranholt3296]

I am an affectionate woman. I am a positive woman. I am a supportive woman. I have done and will continue to do all of these things, but only to a man who is faithful to me.

[@Coloradohunni9589]

This right here!!

[@thelordisgood1619]

Agreed

[@Olivia-hb5yp]

❤❤❤

[@adriennerobinson1180]

Truth Indeed AMEN 🙏

[@julesa1754]

Literally. If that emotional trust and security ain't there, neither am I

[@Tiara71783]

Been with my husband 21 years and I make it a point to hug and squeeze him for a few minutes everyday. I grab him, close my eyes and silently pray protection, good health and prosperity over him. He is an entrepreneur, a wonderful father to our boys and a great husband. I'm so proud that I am his and he is mine. Thanks for the validation!

[@thejourney4445]

Thank you so much for your words of inspiration in regards to your marriage. Thanks for sharing the words of encouragement for those of us that are still on the market lol… You are great

[@ChialukaGold]

He’s lucky to have a good women like you . Hope y’all last forever

[@dorcaswodera6564]

Thanks for this one as il have leaned something and looking forward 😊

[@JLOVE7779]

That is so beautiful ❤

[@cuprunnethover2509]

Thanks for sharing! Congratulations on a great marriage!

[@delphinekongnyuy9119]

I have been all this and been treated like shit but I won't back down because I know God still have someone special for me

[@robertessex6833]

You go girl, hoping you find your special someone

[@reclaimingminds2811]

You Will! Ask for the man you want, be very specific, height, race, economic status then you Will meet him. I did this two years ago and met my partner after I did this exercises. Bliss ❤❤

[@redaharriswalker7718]

This whole teaching is Awesome a 5* teaching

[@CutiePatootie-iu9xj]

Amen❤

[@Whatuniverse]

Chile forget these patriarchy warlocks. They been trying to control and compete with us since the days and fall of the SYBILS and still they're not being real men...Like telling the government to give us our sovereign life back, or fighting for their own manhood power against another man of rulers. They have Words without worth always needing us to help them be great WEAK baby boys and not do their MANLY duties in the world. 🙄 I close my ears to these media ninjas. Every 7 yrs theyre resetting this nonsense. Weak egos. Smh.

[@florencegmunyeneh8811]

I have been doing this for the wrong person for so long I had to step back now I'm sought after by this Man. I ain't going back!

[@3twoody]

1. Hug/embrace him 2. Tell him the good job he is going 3.Dont judge him when he tells you the trust 4. Ask him to do something that will showcase his strengths and abilities 5. Be everything he isn't

[@IdeaMindsetResetau]

Be him

[@nofybn7794]

tells you the trust? Huh?

[@ajjajk]

That’s a lot of Ego boosting.!!

[@CalineBRUNO]

@@ajjajk what is it when he got to tell you your nails and hair nice !? That your 5h makeup is been seen …

[@southernfriedpeaches]

@@IdeaMindsetResetau lol

[@tdones-mf9lz]

I do these things, been married 25 years strong!🙌 Communication and God are key!

[@lt3074]

Amen 🙏🏾

[@ifyousayso9392]

Right! 🙏🏽

[@offendedcitizen4075]

😔 😟 😅

[@jammyettehunsinger2221]

I've done ALL of it. And more. Naturally. It was how I saw him. Then he started seeing me as being beneath him. I learned discernment after that relationship. Some aren't healthy enough to see value in good women.

[@peacefaith560]

exactly- they take advantage

[@tellistalks5428]

Right girl, with wrong man...

[@cassandrafleming7123]

I agree with you 100% amen amen I mean cuz I got two little girls but then I got a grown daughter and her father and I we are just cordial we're cordial because of our grown daughter but she's very smart doing her clinical and another city and we're proud of her but I don't think I think what he did was start taking me for granted and always assumed I will be there no because I have two little girls with a guy that I care a whole lot about and I don't want my little girls to grow up and go my mother never took the time to be in my life both of us want to be there for our little girls you know what I'm saying I got the grown daughter she can take care of herself but the little girls two little girls they need their mother and father around I mean family members help out but we want to be a part of their lives and that's right when a man start devaluing you I'm not talking about them little petty arguments but when it's consistent and there is no peace but you still love each other but there's no peace this is my motto love is forever even if you're not sharing the same space you always have some love in your heart form but you have to know when it's time to go amen amen

[@valariepigletpeairs888]

🎯🎯🎯🎯

[@beautifulsoul7446]

That’s me rn. Got treated really bad for being too loving. I think some are genuinely not used to it and they’ll push love away. It’s super sad to experience though, I’m still working everyday to remember that it wasn’t anything I could do to fix a broken soul.

[@DukeLemonade]

My queen is consistently on point on all points, and I make sure she knows how much I appreciate her for it.

[@tamaralandreneau8005]

I wrap my arms completely around him and I lovingly, embrace him. It makes him melt. I affirm him. He's insecure about his body, but, I love his body ! He argued with me about his body and I told him, that he doesn't see the man, that I see! I kiss him passionately and very slowly. He melts. I build him up. He has a hard time believing it, but, I'm slowly, convincing him, that I truly mean it. Ooooh, I tell him, that he makes me feel so safe with him. I tell him, how much I adore his manly, personality. I feel so feminine, because he's so manly. I don't feel weak; I feel very feminine ! He makes me crazy, because we have so much chemistry. ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@kay4742]

Married 50 years, nov.25 , 1972, wow, with God s help and love. All day and this video was very well said.

[@kp1266]

FACTS - Men need inspiration from their woman. We are our best versions when we feel love.

[@ndubuisi-evansblessing8645]

Hey I think I like u already

[@gracystorytv5034]

Oh ye,do like your woman squeezing you too?😜

[@cefarther3945]

You missed a step...Always be genuine. When you give affection, do it because you like him; when you give a compliment, be genuine, mean it, find the best in the man; when you give him care and attention and listen, be genuinely interested. Be genuine, don't play games, no appease like you are with a child, be genuine with love. I've had too many men fall in-love with me because I was genuinely in-like with them.

[@MsBee-oz7vd]

Sealz dear, as an older woman of 60 who just came back on the dating scene last year and found a good man, I find your advice invaluable to me. Been out of the dating scene for 5 1/2 years. You are a sweet young man and I love listening to you and your advice dear! Thank you so much sweetie!🤗

[@SealztheMan]

This is truly appreciated 👑

[@janicescott9209]

Ms bee,. You are so right. We are in very similar places in life. I loved reading your comment. And he does have a good point of view.

[@meemeethecat7391]

I'm sorry but 60 ain't old let's say 80 and 90 that's old because you than live to be almost a hundred. But a blessing tho.

[@meemeethecat7391]

I'm sorry but 60 ain't old let's say 80 and 90 that's old because you than live to be almost a hundred. But a blessing tho.

[@MsBee-oz7vd]

Hi Janice! Thank you dear. I am looking for new friends, I just moved to Florida, where do you live at dear? Have a blessed day!

[@hondaking5608]

Well…this explains why he proposed after 3 months!!!! I was doing these things already so this is just validation ❤️ 16 yrs strong

[@shawshank6015]

Everything you mentioned here is Correct & True. It's Our Anniversary tomorrow 12July married 38yrs together 43yrs ain't nothing getting between us this team is solid.. I won't bore anyone with details, just follow the advice given here, and throw in some extra common sense things. God Bless You All.

[@fredziffle5219]

👍

[@sherrblessedmorningtoonean3652]

Wow congratulation to you both , i pray that God will countinue to bless your union with a life time of togetherness 🙏🙏🤗❤❤

[@m4mforever23]

This is wonderful. As a married woman, on my second marriage of 12 years, I'm always looking for ways to be better for my man. We can always improve on our relationships & continue to learn as we go! Thanks for your insight!🥰🔥

[@aliceabellaneda9226]

I really love your vlogs. Learned so much lesson...esp on my part ldr. Tnx. God bless...!!!

[@MrsCaviar]

We are works-in-progress! 🥰

[@brendarewan7441]

I hope he is doing doing the same thing for you. 🙂

[@elliebrowder4746]

Yes I like the advice 😊

[@valentinamakor9025]

I like the advice

[@MrsCaviar]

I'm watching you for the first time. LOVE your openess/honesty. 👊🏾👏🏾👍🏾 I'm 73 and getting married for the first time. I'm wanting to be the best wife I can be--no experience with that. Such wonderful advice [aware of some] will keep these "5" in my consciousness. He is a wonderful man. I tell him: "you are going to be my FIRST and ONLY husband". 💕

[@lindawhite4683]

@caviar You give me hope!! God Bless you and your future husband! I pray your life together is more than you both imagined!!!💞

[@PucciNYC]

Congratulations 💕

[@imaginelovepeaceandhappine3281]

My uncle was first time married last year at 68. He had a big wedding. His wife, it was her 2nd marriage. She did not want a big wedding. I thought it was alright for him to have his wedding. Congratulations 🎉🎊🎈🍾. Wishing you all Love, Peace and Happiness.

[@MrsCaviar]

@@imaginelovepeaceandhappine3281 Thank you so very much! 😊

[@MrsCaviar]

@@PucciNYC Thank you! 😊

[@dluxeevents2327]

Ladies listen to this man! I wish I was given this information 10+ years ago when I got married. It took many years for me to learn that he needed these things.

[@texasllcoriginal7351]

Nice for toolbox: Thanks for sharing men are not open to say what they Want or Need A. Touch: squeeze or hug B. Affirm with words how he's on his grind C. No judgement: speak truth his perspective or feelings on anything D. Allow him to Showcase his ability to be their for me regardless... E. Balance : opposites attract, show support I have experienced all #5 just this year and was blown away to see him step up to the challenges without me asking or persuading him; he volunteered immediately! Therefore, it's easy to comply to his request!!!! 💕 Love the consistency& partnership established

[@susangetz9202]

I have told women I know to treat their men like dogs, hug them, praise them, compliment them and tell them when you appreciate them, etc.

[@missydazywolf9933]

just not to give that notation in voice or they think its not sincere

[@deborahhenry219]

🍑GA: In the words of my Pastor, Rev. David L. Massey, thank you, thank you, thank you!!! I wrote these five things in my journal. A saying, if you want to know about a man's behavior, actions, ask another man. You did that today!!! First time viewer of your videos. Will be a life~time fan. ❤️❤️❤️ And, I was just KZbin surfing!!!🤣

[@JessicaAnotii]

Wonderful video My partnership of five years ended a month ago. When my true love decided to part ways with me, it truly is the only thing on my mind. I can't fathom my life with anyone else, and even though I've tried everything to get him back, it's all in vain. Despite my best efforts to put him out of my thoughts, I can't help but miss him and think about him all the time. I could not really tell you why I am saying this.

[@Shanieceflordi]

It's hard to say goodbye to someone you love; I experienced this when my 12-year relationship ended. However, I couldn't just let him go; instead, I tried everything to win him back. Eventually, I turned to a spiritual counsellor for assistance, and he was able to help me win him back.

[@JessicaAnotii]

Interesting! How did you locate a spiritual counsellor, and how can I get in touch with him most effectively?

[@Shanieceflordi]

His name is Father Obah Eze, and he is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.

[@Shanieceflordi]

he is father obah eze, he has great powers, he can help you.

[@JessicaAnotii]

Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked him up now online. impressive Wow I just looked Father Obah Eze on the net he’s very legit thanks once again ❤

[@MrsPetal]

I also get crazy nervous when I’m around people, baby holds my hand and I slowly see the light again. When I meet him he was really insecure and unsure and now 1 1/2 years later he’s more confident, he’s kind but firm, he’s devoted and loving. He’s over come so much, I’m really proud of him.

[@seekeroftruth1484]

As a 45 year old woman in a 8 year union, I concur. A lot of us we’re not raised or coached on how to vet or treat men just like males are not raised or coached with the knowledge of how to vet or treat women.

[@lindachew3929]

This just saved my relationship. It made me watch my partner and understand why we clash. I expect feminine energy from him. He is a man and has to be a man,not think like me. We truly do balance each other now that I have the tools you gave me.

[@AnnaMaeBullock]

That's awesome!

[@vivhiggins5656]

True but some men dont know how too open up,

[@fayegriffith3059]

Mothers should teach boys how to be a man

[@tyronelorenzovalentio3414]

@@fayegriffith3059no

[@Lmitdditin]

@@fayegriffith3059some aren’t given the opportunity by their mother to be shown how to be a man … as well as some didnt have their father. So can’t judge a person on what they lacked in childhood.

[@lous2308]

The one about letting him be able to trust you and tell you anything is mega important. The judgemental face thing is something I took heed to that I did, in previous relationships,after I watched this. I corrected that and it made a massive difference in the communication/trust level

[@juneanderson2834]

I’m watching for the first time and appreciate the words of wisdom and sincerity. At age 57,, it’s quite refreshing to see that there are still real men out here willing to share their softer side with their women. It’s up to real women to embrace these brothers. In this chaotic World , they need more peace and genuine Love waiting for them when they get home.

[@mattiebrandon3742]

This is so wonderful to hear this and even a testimonies I am in a relationship and I pray and I won't to do everything is possible for me and my fiance in this have really helped me listening this night be blessed thank you

[@adriennerobinson1180]

Truth Indeed AMEN 🙏

[@KarenKavete-f7h]

Me too continue men, love from Kenya

[@ebonibebahini6236]

Can you do it for 3 hours or even 2 hours after you've gotten old and have to take Cyalis or Viagra

[@realestatecoach8626]

57 here as well

[@iamtrinajones]

Thank you so much. #3 is really important. I hate being judged when I share something personal with someone. Makes me regret sharing it immediately.

[@SealztheMan]

Exactly, it only takes one time. That’s why it’s so important for ppl not to judge

[@ruthchefe6857]

OMG I judged him today 😂 should I explain to him and make up an excuse???

[@anitabouldin6602]

I learned a long time ago to just listen! No judgement just hear the entire situation. If asked for my opinion later, then I will honestly give it. But not while I am being shared with.

[@tymakaeli1480]

@@ruthchefe6857 you can apologize and try not to do it again 🤷🏾‍♀️

[@bridgettkyle5818]

We as females love that kind of encouragement as well , just being ur mates cheerleader is so important to ur relationship, period

[@littlelady520]

So nice to see a handsome young man give great advice. I’ve been married for some time and this young man is absolutely right

[@elled.anderson176]

I can't wait to run into a man with this thought process. I haven't experienced a real man my whole life. But now I know that I have to do the proper work within to be able to attract said man. It just gives me so much hope to know that there are many good men out there.

[@jameswashington4493]

My Brother! I enjoyed your commentary. I am a pastor and I have taught on relationships and marriage for many years and have covered some of the same things you gave to these good people today. In fact, I just performed a wedding 4-weeks ago and gave much of the same sound advice to the couple at the altar. Keep up the good work, a lot of people really need it believe me. By the way, I had the greatest grandparents in the world just like you. They were married almost 60-years and were Pastors my whole life, so much of my wisdom comes from that foundation and model and I can hear much of that sound wisdom coming out of you from your grandparents. Keep it up, Brother! Grandma & Grandaddy are proud of You! Pastor James

[@brendarewan7441]

You sound like a wonderful pastor with God given insight. Members are going through stuff and don’t want the “church “ to know. Keep paying attention. 👏🏽🙌🏿🙏🏾 and praying.

[@corgi-time6770]

Oooppooooooo

[@tymakaeli1480]

🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

[@missware2677]

Thank you 🙏. When I asked my boyfriend to bring me lunch at work I thought he would say no because he did double shift and also lives outside my state ….but he brought the lunch with a big beautiful flower 🌺 to my surprise Ladies don’t be afraid to ask, they want to be ‘used’

[@rayj.9568]

@Miss Ware, He lives outside of your state and he brought you lunch? Do you and you boyfriend live on the borders of two adjourning states?

[@missware2677]

@@rayj.9568 yes we live in two adjoining states but not on borders. It’s a very long drive . Not every guy would do that but a good Scorpio man in love can do more than this and I appreciate him.

[@iwhippedcreamcode4642]

@@missware2677 Congratz!

[@gistwithgeraldine]

@@missware2677 he did that because he loves you

[@missware2677]

@@gistwithgeraldine that’s so true honey. FYI Next weekend he’s taking me to Las Vegas on a vacation and I’m grateful After twenty years of marriage to a narcissist I never thought I would date again, but here I am with two kids and dating a guy who’s two years younger than me with no kids and rich 😃 My ex hubby said no man will ever love again . THAT WAS A LIE 😂

[@NaturalTk82]

The golden rule would be to treat your person how you want to be treated 🧐 #be the example you want to see. It is not fair when people try to make you guess their needs. It’s an impossible task as we are not mind readers. Grow up and say what you want and if that’s too difficult… be the example. I’m sure it will be reciprocated in most cases.

[@jody-anndean-smith8697]

My partner does relay to me how he feels, and what he wants. No relationship is easy but we've built such a strong communication and bond. I do let him know how appreciated he is, I tell him everyday how amazing he is and how much I love him. And he reciprocates. One thing I know, once a Queen be her King's peace, she'll see sides of him he doesn't show to the world. No matter how egoistic or macho they seem, once a King chooses you, he's gonna give you all parts of him. He's gonna see only you! And....healthy patterns must be made. Icing on the cake is when both your Energies attract and you're both connected spiritually,physically, emotionally, mentally and sexually. This is my truth. I wake up basking in an amazing God fearing King's love everyday ,we balance each other out. ♥️

[@n.b.0212]

Beautiful!

[@hauwauyakubu-wokili5239]

Happy for you

[@hthomas9891]

Sounds like a blessing that only a few of us find. But it inspires me to know it’s still possible. 😇

[@jody-anndean-smith8697]

@@hthomas9891 it is possible. A Queen conscious woman when she becomes more aware of her worth, love herself more and knows that she's top tier, will stop settling for mediocrity and the bare minimum. Before I met my partner, I had already set myself up while waiting for my King. I was ready to receive what and who I've prayed for. He ain't perfect but he possesses those Kingly values and morals. And every single day, we make sure we tell each other just how blessed we are to have each other. Its hard work though but we've made that commitment to each other.

[@hthomas9891]

Ok, you have a way with words. That’s what I have work on, communication.

[@elishajanine]

The appreciation I have for you for making this video is unmatched! This is the first time I came across your content. It's more than refreshing to see manhood and masculinity embraced and upheld - fortified even. It's warfare! Who you are and what you carry will band relationships together (husband=houseband) Your counsel will turn the hearts of the fathers back to the children. You are a blessing to generations. Thank you, Sir.

[@phyllishenderson2704]

Appreciation!!

[@tinamcbride1736]

Thank you. I enjoyed your vlog tremendously. Keep up the good work advice it is appreciated.😊

[@CrystalBlake.Official]

Great video ❤thanks brother

[@tinamcbride1736]

Amen and amen! This world needs more men like him!

[@folukebady5573]

How refreshing it is to hear more positive contributors on relationships as yourself than these wounded presenters speaking from an angry unhealed place. Continue the great work.

[@butterfly4610]

I so agree

[@thejourney4445]

Oh my gosh that is so true; there are so many bitter angry women and men that are making relationship videos and unfortunately they are destroying black relationships. It is refreshing to hear words of wisdom presented in a non-angry way. Much love to you… Have a great day

[@Mindyzzzzz]

There’s nothing weird about expressing what you need, that’s exactly what we want too. Appreciate the video very helpful ❤

[@weekendnomad5038]

I rub my husbands back not like a massage .. just rub his skin and he MELTS. Same with the nape of his neck or his earlobes lol

[@SealztheMan]

We looooove that

[@suzanntsala4566]

Thank u,,, looking for a partner,,, I'm in South Africa,,, I'm 61yrs

[@outthebox5690]

I appreciate how you deliver your messages (content) it's very sincere, humble and honest. As a woman you don't make me feel like I need to understand/master men and their ways, your message doesn't come off as arrogant. And I appreciate your relationship advice 🙂 looking at this list, I think I've been doing good so far ☺️ Thank you Sealz ❤️

[@SealztheMan]

I really appreciate you saying that! 👑

[@iwhippedcreamcode4642]

Alphas CARRY OUR OWN BAGS!....... AND GIVE OUR GIRL EVERYTHING!... Asking Women to coddle/rescue You ISNT ALPHA!.... (I DONT WANT THAT!)

[@royaltruth7814]

No other human being can make another human being whole it is God who makes a person whole, that's God's territory. Be a compliment to your partner yes,but please find wholeness in God.🙏🙏🙏 Get in the Word people!🙏🙏🙏

[@franny5295]

This is actually why relationships fail so miserably. We grow up with so much unfulfilled need and attention from our parents, so detached from God in our daily lives, that we have such a deep need for connection and so much hurt, and not even necessarily crazy stuff, that is too much for any romantic relationship to meet. Most adults should go to therapy before they start dating and have already established a relationship with God.

[@janie5364]

Being in the Word is very important. The Word says the Man and Women become one flesh in marriage. The word also says to love your wife like Christ loves the church and gave his life for it.

[@brucefrasier1475]

All of these replies 'validate' that the hole in our hearts can only be filled by God!...Then, and only then can we establish a meaningful relationship. We're constantly l👀kin' for love in all the wrong people, places and things. If we can have that 'special' love of God! Son! & Holy Spirit, then it would be given in the 'proper' way to our significant other🙏🏽!

[@claireredfern5880]

Surely our God is big enough to be here .We all need to get out more ladies

[@silverfoxx8115]

@@brucefrasier1475 Say it louder so the folks in the back can hear you! ❤ I chose the wrong men to be in my life and blamed THEM for not doing right by me until one day my aunt said to me, "Why blame them, YOU chose them, they only did what YOU allowed them to do! And it was then that I realized that I did not allow God to do the choosing, the scripture tells us do not become unevenly yoked. And this is the reason why most relationships don't work, we look for love first instead of compatability and then after the marriage feeling unhappy because we feel our needs are not being met. Put God and his Kingdom first and all else will be added to you. Be loyal to God and God will certainly be loyal to you! ❤

[@reginamcclay6701]

I'm watching you for the first time and it's no coincidence I'm seeing this. I asked my husband if we can give our marriage a second chance. My youngest is turning ,21 years old today. We separated for a minute, but are dating each other to get things back. All I can say is right on time. Thank you ❤❤

[@ebonyessence8]

I love the story you shared about your grandparents. I realized a long time ago balance was one of the most important things I wanted in a relationship. All the advise was great!

[@SealztheMan]

I appreciate you saying that and what you said is so true, thank you.

[@carolynbarkley8997]

Thank gou for caring enough to enlighten women on the truth about the things men really want and are looking for. I hope this information is used to make relationships better.

[@allinministries4948]

Oh my God ! I love you even more (my internet son) 🤩 You are soooo on point. My husband passed away years ago but I did all of the things to him that you talked about. Of course he was spoiled rotten but We loved it all. Thanks again son !

[@SealztheMan]

This made me smile and my condolences maam. But what you said definitely inspired me, you're awesome

[@allinministries4948]

@@SealztheMan OMG, you are so adorable. I could pinch your jaws. You are very wise beyond your years to be such a young man. It's amazing and I know that all the glory belongs to God. This is His doing ! Yes !!!!

[@adeleneguzzo7468]

Awesome information that gives motivation 😉

[@adeleneguzzo7468]

@@SealztheMan wish our Lord would open more hearts and minds because the strength comes from inside us only if we let it out.....SEALZ YOU ARE BLESSED!

[@leahhonore3505]

Sexual sin is not the same as other sins as it is done with he body, all other sins is done outside of the body. Our image is important as God created us in His image. Cursing is not the same as fornication and the world do not like that response but it is true.

[@catherinecurtis2865]

You are right on! I have been married almost 40 years to a wonderful man and we have a great relationship because we both realize and appreciate the differences between men and women. This is Nature and when it is followed life is so much better. After all we have eons of history to prove that this is the way to live. I am so grateful that I had a good, strong father and a good, strong mother to raise me and my siblings. It is sad that so many young people today do not have those examples and are unhappy and confused about sex and relationships.

[@carolinekpaduwa9814]

Bless you, young man. You give me hope for our men going forward! I am 70 years old and you brought joy to my heart tonight.

[@LG-mk5xd]

How, He has shown NO proof that he’s in a healthy , married relationship and making a woma happy!

[@carek5294]

Your video is an eye-opener to me. I've decided to make some changes. I also appreciate that you said that a relationship should be reciprocal and not one-sided. Thank you.

[@everythingcuteandwhimsical]

Oh wow! I'm glad to know that my husband enjoys my squeezes. I do it on occasion as a way to communicate how I feel inside. It usually means I'm excited to see hm, I miss him, and I appreciate him. What this man is saying is true!!! Now for the men, a woman loves a nice sqeeze of admiration too. Not just a slap on the butt, which is fine when you are in a committed relationship. But a warm hug and a kiss from the front or the back speaks volume.

[@ulrikasoderlund]

Hi i have been married 4 34 years and it has been ups and downs he even left me but came back, He treated me real bad calling me well everything bad there is but when he left he realised what he had missed and today he respects me and treat me so good and honestly i deserve it:) I have always loved being his wife and would never cheat because i am a deep christien beliver thats a sin for me, but i would not have done that anyway. I love to be a mother to our children and taking care of my husband. I never yell or disrespect him , And u are so right that men need hugs and TLC is so importent and i think that comes from when when they were a boy and the mother hugs and comfort and makes them feel safe. And a bond between a mother and her son is very speciell i have a very speciell realationship with my dauther to and i love them the same but my son and i are so alike and i have never raised my voice to them so they have never done that to me, no cursing just respect and love , u get what u give. Men love to be men and i and many women love to be women:) I love to make my man happy when i have baked oh his smile is the best :) he is so grateful and its so giving i love making him happy and i am so proud of him , I wished that he would be proud of himself 2 as much as i am, But as u said balance we do that i am calm , easy to laugh very positive and he is more quiet and likes to sit and he does not need a lot of people around him and i belive space is good. And we always everyday tell how much we love eachother . I am so blessed to have a man that loves me so to give is the easiest way to show love. To learn eachothers way of talking to eachother is so importent and really hear what he is saying and sometimes men does not think that if a women does not look she does not hear what he says, wrong! as a women we can make food ,take care of children and be in focus at the same time if the children doesnt make a lot of noise offcourse:) I want to tell you what a women need most, A women always feel that she has to be very strong emotionelly and atleast i am that way . But we really need to cry out in our mens arms sometimes when we are tired without a man feeling its frustrating that they cant do anything about the issue . We just need to cry and be held until we stop crying its that simple. My husband always tells me i am beautiful even if i look a mess , then one knows he loves u . The most beautiful thing my husband has ever told me that is you are such a good mother to our children:) That made me so happy:) And i am happy i do all things that you said a man needs , you are a wise guy :) Please i dont know if u are christien but i am and our children are saved to and baptised and i pray everyday 4 my husband 2 be that, And he is so near so if u would please give him a prayer. God bless u and keep u safe. Sorry 4 writing wrong words here and there its just because i am from Sweden. Rika.

[@delores1790]

Very good advice. Also, Mutual Respect. Married 35 years and still in love with one another.

[@cuprunnethover2509]

Congratulations Mrs. Delores!!

[@illmaticwear]

Being his peace is essential. #5 I do agree with. I feel that goes both ways.

[@Cadillac46]

I doing a great job ‼️I do all 5 )13 years of marriage and 18 years together and I am still in love 🥰

[@lianna8574]

I always love your videos of wisdom. I found a good man, getting married in June and we balance each other. Your advice is priceless. Everything you said here is true. I’ve done all 5 just naturally and you are right. Thanks for your videos!

[@k.6072]

🥰This is my first time hearing and seeing you, and I am like wow, this is so refreshing. This message is much needed because many black women forget or just don't know that a man also needs affection and knowing how to demonstrate it on a dime is gold. Pure & wholesome message. Thank you💯💝

[@yekarahanne6200]

@K. I agree!

[@dorothybrown3234]

💯

[@teshatyson5932]

Same here!!!

[@patiencemtetwa]

I hear you, but I disagree when you say most black women. I have seen worst on on some black African man 😬🤦🏾‍♀️

[@jadajadamoats5567]

Why do men not find very affectionate women that attractive or do they?

[@gospelician]

Great information! 26 years married, and this is on point. You are wise beyond your years.

[@Trysaratop]

As a 32 year old you have gaven really good advice in the video, I especially enjoy how sensitive you are to all viewers "I know there are responsibilities that should be done without a pat on the back" you aren't putting women down as a whole, sincerely giving constructive advice and making it clear not to tolerate bad behavior as well. I'm sure make viewers also learned a lot in this video as well. Thank you!

[@gingerscloset]

Gaven?

[@haydeerodriguez5095]

You hit the nail on the head..hug, kisses feeling close to one another, don't judge him listen to him.when he wants share his honesty😊

[@madib.2567]

So glad that I found this channel. It’s the advice I didn’t know that I needed. My husband will surely love these gestures of affection.

[@jou3507]

This was the best 5 things men want on youtube!!! So pure/honest/raw/genuine! The best things in life are free of cost but love & loving ways are priceless. Their value is immeasurable. The glue that holds us together. I appreciate you brother. ✊🏽💐😘

[@sandrineperso6546]

This video is so powerful for real, especially the last advice when you spoke about your grandparents. ❤️

[@Zefana_Dube]

Wow I love this, as a well taught African lady, I relate very much ❤️ ❤️ ❤️ I'm single but I'm a good woman who loves to make her partner feel appreciated. I love your advice. Thank you.

[@onwukaebukacollinsebuka2331]

Really woow I think am interested in u

[@jacquelinecalhoun6303]

You remind of my son sooooo much. You are absolutely correct and I love the way you clean up the small mishaps. This is a great advice video and will help relationships survive the tests of times if ppl take heed.

[@meekashabazz6135]

Is your son locked up too? Ma’am

[@MUJERD]

the sad reality is that this does not work for everyone. Many people out there are broken. many do not understand THAT type of love. Many do not know how to receive it even. Many do all of those and get taken for granted and abused.

[@royalqueen2434]

I did all that. He still cheated. Now divorcing after 33 years.

[@kidneycarecoaching3766]

He was for the streets…

[@ahealingplace7350]

How are you? Its been a year, hope you are feeling better. Sending hugs ❤

[@refiloediutlwileng5169]

😢😢😢

[@carmenwhite8744]

Wow😢

[@royalqueen2434]

@@ahealingplace7350 Hello @healingplace just saw this message. I left I'm in a beautiful new home. Building a new life finishing up my masters degree. I was able to leave it wasn't easy and l do understand why women stay sometimes.

[@suzaviver]

1. squeeze us - touch of aggression, it’s loving their body. 2. Tell him how much of a good job he is doing.- compliment him, your vision is no one. Feed his ego.a pat on the back. 3. Refrain from judging him when he tells you something about him.- make him feel free to tell you things. 4.Ask them to do anything that makes them manly and masculinity. - they love to flex their muscles and proof how good of a man they are. 5. Be everything he lacks.- the ying to his yang. She is his balance, fill the void that he lacks.

[@camillemoore2461]

Man You Are Right On Point : Many of Us Just Need To Humble And Be That Person Of Which You Speak.Especially us Independent Women ❤💯 Well Said

[@Resilientbeauty1111]

Love this ❤️. It’s no 1, some of our legs bigger than the man whole body for me lol. Overall this helps a lot though. As I go through this self love journey, eventually I will be open to having male friends. I’ll definitely keep these things in my mind for the right man that’s good for me

[@daisylee298]

Loved hearing what makes relationships better - coming from another man’s point of view. Thank you .

[@Mccalldiana4545]

I love that help around the house helping fix the place up doing things like that

[@rochellegibert2336]

Teamwork and opposite attraction is also important. Judgment I never do anyone wrong bc I wouldn't want to be judged if I disclosed some privacy about myself. Watching you for the first time AND young man I love you sprit and message. I'm an OG 60s married and divorced. Those are thing's especially a nice squeeze or hug that's me.

[@victoria_luv]

Thank you. This was so well done. Simplistic, to the point and very useful information. Well done. 🙏🏽

[@milliyamill.6452]

Not All Men Like This... Sadly. Your Honesty However Is Admiralable ❤️

[@mimiallen7873]

FRFR These things don't seem like they are always appreciated. Interesting though.

[@cosmicqlioness2586]

We need & want that & thrive on it Affection, trust, love ,& respect... Truth, no deception... We do all day!

[@evasccl7846]

You got me giggling with joy 🤭🥰 You guys are so beautiful deep inside... we see that and we love it! The squeeze hug made me laugh, because that really seem to touch some kind of place in your heart and that is adorably sweet i love to acknowledge.🤗 Acknowledging the good things you do for us and how good you do them... is wonderful for both parties, it just fires up a common desire to do more and be more grateful ❤ I dislike being judged and hence i dont judge, there is a unique storey behind each one of us with good and bad, both of which have contributed to us becoming who we are and we cant pick choose bits of people, that is cruel in my eyes. So not judging but understanding, is such a beautiful trait to have and live by.😊 Hehehehe this one i learnt 4 years ago, simply because i had been forced to have to do it all on my own for so many years... it is so refreshing to simply ask and allow a man to do something for me and show appreciation... i get some kind of high by doing so, and i wholeheartedly and graciously receive the help ❤ We are bound to be different, that is unavoidable and beautiful too when shared core values, principles and standards... it just makes the magic happen as in we both grow in love and loving one another ❤ I am so proud of you guys, and grateful for all you do to make this world a better place... i love you and your videos always ADD joy, peace, wisdom and goodness overall. Thank you for such great job!! 🤗😊

[@chai848]

This was awesome. I feel like I need to meditate on this daily for at least a month and engrain it in my soul!

[@machelljohnson7208]

I think that would be good. This guy is right on point, so amazed

[@cuprunnethover2509]

Right me 2.... Along with my Bible scripture!

[@krissysandley]

I'll gladly give you a squeeze night or day to show my appreciation for your views, your perspective. I value you and your knowledge so much!!

[@SealztheMan]

I really appreciate this and your support, truly humbling 👑

[@julijopeterson7096]

While I don't see myself in any more romantic relationships in the future I think the information & advice you're talking about & giving is really quite good. Nice job!

[@theservinggirl]

Really good! #5 is definitely something I recently started understanding 💯

[@SealztheMan]

#5 is a gem! Appreciate you

[@MrsPetal]

I’m already squashing my man with smooches and hugs on a daily basis. My guys never said that to me, I love hugging, I don’t hug strangers but we’ve reached that level of family then you getting hugged.

[@yellowrose2779]

New Sub here and I'm really enjoying all the Gems you are dropping. We women need to hear what's on a mans mind and a male perspective on what men like and how to treat them. I'm loving this session. TEACH my brother 💜

[@janicemartin3012]

My heart breaks for Regina! I cannot even begin to fathom her pain! I wish her love, light, grace, and mercy! She is loved!

[@goziedabere2116]

Which Regina?? Yes,I am an Amebo!!

[@victoriacutshall7170]

So good.. so true...thank you.. we are your rib... you need us.. and when a woman knows that ...her affection to you in every area will be the ultimate...

[@SealztheMan]

So true 👑

[@TiffanyLadyStar]

That was a good example of your grandparents. Great example of our purpose of being a help meet ❤❤❤

[@youandmeequalslife3466]

Squeeze us … 😀, love this . I laughed the whole time watching this video. I have been married for over 13 years and I must say I totally agree with all your points, great one . Greetings from Austria

[@lillianfriday7863]

I am appreciative of this, because I now see, I thought, things I was doing for my man from my heart, was showing and helping him, but now I see, I was perhaps, making him feel less than a man, thank you, I've got to let him be the man..Thanks

[@michaelclarke3707]

1. Hug/embrace him 2. Tell him the good job he is going 3.Dont judge him when he tells you the trust 4. Ask him to do something that will showcase his strengths and abilities 5. Be everything he isn't...PERIOD>>>>>

[@elviredesormes1046]

5:56

[@karlawright71]

Add to #3. Don’t hold receipts on those truths. It’s weird because all of these apply to me as well, as a woman. I’ve told and shown my boyfriend my true self, he has recently begun to use my truths against me. Saying things such as, oh, you’re going back to when you did, blah blah. Receipts suck on truths, especially when they’re used for pay back.

[@tembiefeti4467]

I love your video yo! My husband loves when I complement him a lot and he feels so happy and motivated.. I will try out the other points. Keep it up man!

[@ItsSoarTime]

i NEED to get back to my work, but i canNOT stop watching this MAN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! THE KNOWLEDGE HE IS IMPARTING IS UNREAL FOR ME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! SMH!!!!! THIS is ONE of the MANY VIDS i KNOW i will save by him on my private playlist and listen to over and overandover and overand over and over and over and over and over and... THANK YOU, BROTHER, FOR THE STRENGTHENING!!!!!! PEACE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1

[@shai3580]

💯💯💯💯💯💯💯 I have and got some reason they run away as it’s too good to be true. But he just wasn’t ready I assume. But all facts I love those same 5 things. And thanks.

[@afrolatina7626]

Dope video, King!been married 23 years next month and you are on point with everything. 🎉

[@sco3202]

This was such wisdom. Thank you for this. My heart was so convicted and I understand clearly now. You answered the questions of my heart and my prayers regarding understanding what a man needs. I despised his ego and worked against it and I never ask him for help. I have been so independent that I would grab all the bags out of the car and bring them in myself. I love the story about your grandfather and grandmother because I really am everything he isn't, but his ego was so big that I felt I had to knock it down sometimes. But, today I realize how to move forward and stroke the good parts of his ego and allow him to showcase his strengths. Thank you!

[@brendarewan7441]

I heard you sister. I am the same way. I WANT to try his advice. But I don’t know if I can.

[@allen8iluminada]

Brother, I am so happy with all the points you mentioned, because I'm doing them all! My husband is a blessed man!

[@janettemccuien4249]

TRULY SEAL....I HAVE BEEN A WIDOW MANY YEARS. I AM A CHRISTIAN. THE THINGS YOU SHARED, GOD KNOWS I DID THOSE THINGS TO THE MAN I WAS MARRIED TO. YOU ARE SOoooo right! I HAD 10 BROTHER'S. MY BROTHERS SOME OF THEM WOULD TELL ME THAT THEY WISH THAT THEY HAD A WOMAN TO TREAT THEM THE WAY AI TREATED MY HUSBAND. A FEW TIMES IN JAMAICA AND IN THE USA PEOPLE HAVE STOPPED US IN THE PASSED AND TOLD US THAT THEY LIKED THE WAY WE TREATED EACH OTHER. BEING SINGLE HAS BEEN MY GREATEST TEST AS A CHRISTIAN. YET I DON'T MIND WAITING ON THE ONE GOD HAS FOR ME. BROTHER'S HAVE BEEN INTERESTED. I MUST WAIT FOR CLEARANCE FROM GOD. I ENJOYED YOUR MESSAGE.

[@SealztheMan]

You said it perfectly. Wait on God and be of good courage! You got this

[@janettemccuien4249]

@@SealztheMan THANK YOU. I DON'T MIND WAITING. I KNOW OUR HEAVENLY FATHER KNOWS WHAT HE IS DOING.

[@adriennerobinson1180]

Wow

[@angellicaferguson-word2114]

This was a really great video. I've been with my husband going on 18 years - I'm 32 and I still have work to do.

[@angiebas7]

Thank you so much for this great advice! My ex would tell me that he really loves the way I touch him and said there was something about how I did it that made him feel special and great and it’s that ‘squeeze’ that just does it for them. I can’t wait to find my person that I can bring that balance to but one day it should happen. Wish you were single and in the DMV 😂

[@badgyalgab]

thank you for spreading positivity! in a sea of toxic masculinity, you are a life raft. your take was so honest, real, and communicated with kindness. a lot of what you expressed enjoying, women enjoy too. but it hits different to hear it from the mouth of a man who is level-headed and seems like a caring, supportive partner seeking the same in his partner. love!

[@terrystaples2086]

I'd say after my break up this most of this applies to women also

[@raquelwegesa7224]

This, you meet a good guy but they are absent but still claim to love you.