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@Portia6205 ай бұрын
What if in the moment you say it but that’s not what you meant…like oh boy not sure how to explain! Yikes. I made a fast correction as I don’t want to say something I don’t mean and not sure why I said it..why did I say it? O tell my friends I love them .. sooo help me understand this!
@SharieFoster3 ай бұрын
Refreshing!!!!😂
@angelm6497Ай бұрын
@@Portia620 If it helps, I inadvertently verbalised something while half asleep, he'd called me and woke me up. I can't say it was that romantically stated as the phrase start with F I've fallen for this guy, but generally people don't say what they don't mean unless being manipulative. Maybe your in denial and need to work through why your freaking out. If a man doesn't love you back, you just walk away, heal and then move on. A new phrase circulating is rejection is protection and having just rejected a very nice but troubled young man, understanding it was due to my issues, not his, rejection isn't always a poor reflection of yourself. Sometimes other people need to heal. The heart and body wants what the heart and body wants, it doesn't mean they always get what they want. It's part of growth and learning self love and value.
@angelm6497Ай бұрын
I hope this helps someone at least.
@JulieC-r2w11 күн бұрын
I don't believe in love anymore. My kids love me. But I don't believe we ever are not replacable
@PAL-CAN6 күн бұрын
I knew my guys love was real when i moved to a new apartment that needed work. He took a week off from work, refinished the floors and painted the apartment for me. ❤❤
@vickiortega80345 ай бұрын
The key is: Does his actions match his words?
@nancyclaypool2925 ай бұрын
EXACTLY
@ronihyndman6785 ай бұрын
Do*
@sophieroberts79204 ай бұрын
I do enjoy you program. It the appropriate time in my life!!!!
@melaneysolatorio68064 ай бұрын
Yes....
@Okoye19643 ай бұрын
🎯
@tereseday40602 ай бұрын
Love is an action, not a word. It's a verb.
@amyshomesteadanimals2 ай бұрын
It's also words. I need the words, lol.
@angelm6497Ай бұрын
@@tereseday4060 it can also be deemed a mental illness. Sorry but sadly that phrase can be so true.
@sophiabertron13712 күн бұрын
It's not always used as a verb.
@chriscampbell62725 ай бұрын
Words don't mean anything to me. They can tell me all day long but I won't believe a word of it. Now if he SHOWS it I know.
@Portia6205 ай бұрын
Yep and when they say they will do something and don’t that’s big!!!
@annebowles5505 ай бұрын
So true...
@nancyclaypool2925 ай бұрын
YEAH! IM DONE WITH THAT NONSENSE
@jenardus26674 ай бұрын
I agree. Ppl can say anything. It's the ACTIONS that count.
@mjeanhibbs32723 ай бұрын
I agree 100%!! Action speaks louder than words!!😊
@learntocookketo4 ай бұрын
We got married within 6 months. The marriage lasted 48 1/2 years until his death last year. I believe it’s all about your attitude towards marriage. If you think it is disposable, you will probably not stick with it.
@roselyons14353 ай бұрын
Maybe however some people misrepresent themselves and only after marriage do you meet the real person.
@lanasawyer98122 ай бұрын
@@roselyons1435 that was the point of the comment "about your attitude towards marriage. If you think it is disposable, you will probably not stick with it." therefore, people who misrepresent themselves did not/ do not have the right attitude towards marriage.
@angelm6497Ай бұрын
@@learntocookketo it needs commitment from both sides. I married for life but came to understand the vows only went in one direction, in his favour. Once I fully understood this, the marriage was over, I was done.
@chefmerry1006 күн бұрын
❤ congratulations
@amiealexander64115 күн бұрын
@@angelm6497 same here, I told my friends or people who asked “I got married, but he didn’t”
@staceysyvarth44523 ай бұрын
I passed out after donating blood. My guy told me "I'd be lost if anything happened to you" he had tears in his eyes.
@leahv.25373 ай бұрын
❤😊
@mentoncouve3 ай бұрын
I passed out too when I gave blood long time ago.Sadly, I didn't have such a nice partner by my side.
@cindy65763 ай бұрын
I’m scared to give blood but want to. I’m more scared I’ll never have a man with tears in his eyes saying that to me.
@staceysyvarth44523 ай бұрын
@@cindy6576 if you give through the red cross, they are very good at what they do. It doesn't hurt a bit.
@mihibernicedelamere78432 ай бұрын
That’s beautiful 😢❤
@deannaedmondson19633 ай бұрын
No man is responsible for any woman's happiness And no woman is responsible for any man's happiness My husband died suddenly 3 days before our 39th anniversary of course I'm devastated I thanked him for sharing his life with me. Love is an action word not a feeling 💖
@Sigbuddy2 күн бұрын
I remember my first husband telling me it wasn't his job to make me happy and I said it wasn't his job to make me unhappy. This was after I stopped saying I love you to see how long it took for him to say it to me first...3 days later I knew he didn't. He only loved what I did for him but not me.
@MeloneeRouse3 ай бұрын
Him saying, "Together we can Overcome and Accomplish Anything. "My family and friends are gonna love you"! These show that he truly loves you. ❤
@RoseSimpson11113 ай бұрын
Wow im at the point in this that you talked about giving up their bachelor lifestyle, combining yours and his lives and finances it really hit home. My late husband and i were 18 and 22 when we got married. He didnt even go out with the guy's for a bachelor night. I trusted him and was fine with it but He said no he wanted to see me. We always had combined finances for bills. Savings for future and our own individual savings and credit. Had two children and still bought our first home 4 yrs later. 44 yrs together. From what i see out there most men would'nt even consider this kind of commitment these days.
@RhondaStevens-t4l2 ай бұрын
True
@MarcellinaMoon2 ай бұрын
I’m 48 and just now learning what a truly healthy man is like and how he will treat a woman. I dealt with childhood sexual trauma and family dynamics that didn’t show me that and therefore, I did go my whole life thinking men are to be feared and are out to hurt me/women. Just wanted to share to remind people than some of us (a lot of us probably) are having to undo years of trauma and bad teachings in order to understand and have healthy relationships. Thank you, I appreciate this info so much.
@heartbeyond73423 ай бұрын
I love you is the easiest words to say and thrown about but how many can say "I see you". Soul level.
@angelm6497Ай бұрын
@@heartbeyond7342 actually that's a good one, in Avatar they say "I see you" but maybe it should be "I see you and love or accept every part of you". There's always more to it than just words. Men say it to get sex, some men will do pretty much anything for sex.
@mark-cherylfeinberg27113 күн бұрын
My husband of nearly 40 years couldn’t say he loved me until he was sure he wanted to marry me. Unlike me, who expressed it as soon as I felt it. We were different, but we worked,
@brigittes8733 ай бұрын
I accidentally said it to my guy after we had been together for 7 months…was on phone with him and I said…okay, see you soon..love you bye and didn’t even realize I had said it until that night he said…I love you too…been together 6 years now and still Going strong
@angelm6497Ай бұрын
@@brigittes873 pretty sure he heard it. They don't always say it and it's a common saying. I actually said this to my electrician but I am pretty sure he understood it was not romantic love, just appreciation for what he'd just done.
@verlaamos921022 күн бұрын
Wow.. good thing he did feel the same way !! Good luck with ur future !!!
@user-fy3mh3yj9y26 күн бұрын
It's common for relationships to encounter obstacles, but there is always a solution. My own marriage faced considerable issues, but with appropriate guidance, my husband and I worked through them and deepened our connection. Solutions are achievable if you're ready to work together. Stay hopeful-there's always a way forward.
@Hazelsparks-u7y26 күн бұрын
I'm facing significant relationship problems and can't stand the idea of losing him. My love and longing for my partner are profound, and I'm ready to do anything to restore our connection. I would greatly appreciate any advice or help you could give.
@user-fy3mh3yj9y26 күн бұрын
Parting with someone you love is always a challenging process, but in my experience, I had the guidance of a spiritual guide who prevented my marriage from collapsing. His name is Father Akunna.
@Hazelsparks-u7y26 күн бұрын
I'II quickly search for him online. Thank you. I'm optimistic that taking this approach will yield results for me as well; his absence is keenly felt.
@user-fy3mh3yj9y26 күн бұрын
I promise you will not regret it.
@Hazelsparks-u7y26 күн бұрын
I just searched for Father Akunna online. impressive thank you so much one again ❤
@dragonfish8885 ай бұрын
“I love you.” “I got you.” Uses “We” and “Our”. Agrees to combine bank accounts. Talks about the future. His actions match his words.
@Portia6205 ай бұрын
Actions matching words is big and it’s the little things they do t do.
@angelm64974 ай бұрын
combining bank accts isn't always a good thing. Me and my x had a joint accts, but we also had individual accts in our own name only. I was never allowing him to say he didn't have funds to leave me; that he was being controlled financially. I never gave up my financial independence. He refused to sign a pre nupt.
@boxesbinslidsllc3 ай бұрын
Combined accounts should only be for married people.
@angelm64973 ай бұрын
@@boxesbinslidsllc exactly, which is why I am concerned my son has a joint bank acct with his gay flat mate. Arguably a civil partnership in the UK, and a clear message to others, "Yeah, well if we aren't in a relationship, then why do we have a joint bank acct?"
@alomaalber65143 ай бұрын
do NOT combine bank accounts! NOPE. maybe after a Wedding! Also you are CORRECT on the "WE" rare to hear that. Married people should and do say "WE".
@pamelabough20084 ай бұрын
My second husband never said it until after we were married. But he didn't have my back. I've not had a man say or even give an impression that they had my back. Taughtvme to stand alone.
@leahv.25373 ай бұрын
Aww, I'm sorry you have not had a reliable man. I've fortunately have had guys SHOW me they had my back. They didn't have to say it though.
@janetkendle20732 ай бұрын
Never could count on my first husband for anything. We were married for 25 years until his death. 2nd husband never said the "I" in front of "love you" and ended up ghosting me after 8 years and have never spoken to me again. Last I saw him was on a computer in a virtual courtroom. I finally have a husband who loves me and shows me and tells me.
@aniabrandt75 ай бұрын
When u have a right women she will help u multiplying whatever u have, your finances. Women is a multiplier
@ginaglasgow82364 ай бұрын
Every man is different. I've been with one for 2 1/2 years. He was the first to say I love you. To say he would take care of me but his actions never met up to his words
@verlaamos921022 күн бұрын
☹️ sorry to hear that
@corneliuscoble62973 ай бұрын
My guy said it to me...after about 3 months....first man to ever say I love you. To me.i love him deeply to this day!
@Loony-fj2yu2 ай бұрын
This is literally my situation tonight, ere not in a relationship,(just yet) but tonight he hugged me so tight and told me he loved me. I felt the pureness. I wish you all the best with your relationship
@verlaamos921022 күн бұрын
@@Loony-fj2yuawww that's awesome !! Said I love u before the relationship?
@mariakupsch35855 ай бұрын
Yes even short together ...there are exemption..I got married in 12 days... but we last 30 years till he rest.
@annebowles5505 ай бұрын
Really lucky and beautiful but rare xx
@julieaskingforafriend4 ай бұрын
That is so lovely!
@verlaamos921022 күн бұрын
Awwww
@1tommyday16 күн бұрын
What
@carrielemasters52172 ай бұрын
My ex told me he loved me constantly, said all these words and made all the promises. Then he showed he didn’t, but insisted I believe his lies. His favorite was I love you, but... (insert some imagined negative thing about me to make me feel bad.) But, my current fiancée Shows me he cares deeply in every way about me. Actions are more important than just these sounds coming out of your significant other's face.
@carlafast63585 ай бұрын
My boyfriend said he loved me first. We have been together for 4.5 years. I go to his family Thanksgiving and Christmas. He helps me and I help him. When he was sick I was there for him and when I was going to the doctor he was my ride.
@MichelleKotler5 ай бұрын
Personally, I wouldn’t stay in a relationship where he hasn’t asked me to marry him, especially in 4.5 years.
@centpushups5 ай бұрын
That's a long time to be a boyfriend. You better start talking about marriage or get out.
@brendacook51034 ай бұрын
Carlafast6358: Sounds like he is ready to take the next step to get married.
@leahv.25373 ай бұрын
No, she shouldn't through the baby out with the bath water, y'all! And don't criticize her either. Sounds like a healthy relationship where you work well together and reciprocate genuine care for each other, that's beautiful. 😍
@leahv.25373 ай бұрын
@@MichelleKotler what if it was a healthy, loving relationship though, you'd toss the guy out anyway?! That's literally insane. And what about actually communicating that you want to get married before calling it quits?
@angelaroberts11283 ай бұрын
My boyfriend has said all of these. But he also backs it up with his actions. He was also the first to say I love you.
@kazzana90134 ай бұрын
I wanted my husband to listen until I had resolved my own problems in my head. I am not a child. If I needed my husbands input I would ask directly. Most of the woman I know, want their partners to listen, whilst they work their emotions to balance the empathy we feel with the practicality of life. I also made sure I often acknowledged all he did for me, and how he made me feel secure and protected. Men are a blessing in our lives, but we woman are adults, just with a different skill set usually.
@Musicismylove8885 ай бұрын
Combine your banking accounts? I believe it's healthier to have mine and his but to have to also have an "us" account.
@maggies885 ай бұрын
That's what we do. We very rarely fight about money.
@scorpification4 ай бұрын
Yes! This prevents sooo many disagreements and resentment
@tatianakooks82024 ай бұрын
So easy and it gives boths side a safe feeling
@leslieschott7543 ай бұрын
If we’d combined accounts (I had much more then him) we’d be living on the streets! Second husband, owned his own business but it put him in bankruptcy. Separated; he’d been in bad health but refused to take care of himself. Passed away 2 years after separation. I was paying to transfer him to assisted living because he was so ill, passed before he got settled in. Also took care of his cremation & burial.
@Cgggg68763 ай бұрын
Never ever combine - they can sue you later and make up any pretend reason you “stole” from them. Don’t do it.
@sunny14333 ай бұрын
My ex husband, after a bad car accident in which he was pretty busted up asked to see me. When I went to hospital he said “I didn’t really know it, but I’m in love with you, I just haven’t known it all this time” I just laughed , actually roared laughing. (I’m a retired nurse,, he needed someone to care for him ). We have been divorced 16 yrs, we’re only married 6 mths before I filed as he showed very quickly that once married, he had no concern for me nor did he plan to be a partner looking to the future , in the same direction., so I filed & ended the farce.
@TahoeSnowbird3 ай бұрын
You are smart to have discovered his true character and taken action to cut your loss quickly.
@verlaamos921022 күн бұрын
Wow.. and he thought it would work 😂 well gotta give the guy some credit for trying
@empea44035 ай бұрын
It takes a very loving confident man to sincerely say to his upset wife, ‘Tell me More’. Now that I know that it’s possible for men to be this way I will not settle.😊
@EstherPillay-zp6tn3 ай бұрын
Im crying here from happiness bec my guy has spoken all these things .n I'm the one keep doubting him...I need to value him....thank u❤
@PetsNPatients5 ай бұрын
I think it is better to keep finances individually. As a older, independent woman, I didn't follow my own advice, paid big time. I think enjoying each other's communications, calls, texts, outings, etc. ,is really what it is all about. Younger couples are in a different space.
@pamelasimone50845 ай бұрын
A friend did that and was stuck with a real p***k. It ended up that they were living on her salary. He was taking his money and had hidden accounts. If she left, she would lose more than half of all the things she paid.
@Sharon-jg9ls5 ай бұрын
Totally agree. I’ll never combine bank accts. And “us” acct for vaca etc…yes, but separate accounts eliminates money arguments.
@58breezing3 ай бұрын
When I was a kid, I saw every woman in our family get mistreated by their man. Husband or boyfriend. The pain these woman went thru removed any interest in seeking a man. It was heartbreaking. I feel like I got lucky. No drama. Yeah... not living the fullest, but I dodged nonsense. With that being said, I think men are cool. I appreciate their perspective.
@pamelamathis89243 ай бұрын
My love said it to me first, it was out there he said I’ll catch you when you fall I love you !!! I truly felt it from him
@denisehaines5482 ай бұрын
This is my second husband to a tee. Except I did not want to combine finances bc I knew he was still supporting his 24 year old daughter. It was “his” thing. He passed away innJuly. It was a good thing we kept everything separate
@junelledembroski91834 ай бұрын
I hope we're not both so broken that we can't do it. I'm going to give it my all!
@missmiss402583 ай бұрын
I love you doesn't mean more to me than... I love being around you. It's not a romantic feeling. Or a sentence that cures all
@daisie22674 ай бұрын
Note on trust: it’s earned, not freely given so if men can be patient, we can relax and trust. If a woman can’t be vulnerable after he’s demonstrated trustworthiness, then she has healing work to do
@waterlilynymph5 ай бұрын
I dated a lot of players in my life before, and they never talked about marriage or kids right away or ever. They were very sure of themselves to not talk about those things to get into my pants. I don’t think men use those words to get women, that’s a hypothetical idea that just doesn’t exist. Cause players don’t really want the drama or to be tied down so they would never say they love you or want to have kids with you. That’s just my honest observation of over 40 years dating many player or non-committed types. I don’t think you have to warn women about that. I have learned with only a very few men telling me they loved me or wanted kids with me that they meant it, even earlier on. This was a lovely video of confirmation of when to open up and trust a man when he does say some of these things.
@Portia6205 ай бұрын
Not my experience as they tell you asap I love you to get sx from you!
@christinerodriguez39764 ай бұрын
"I got you," I'm not sure. I've heard that, and he really didn't. I've heard "I love you" I was married for 17 years. I feel actions speak louder than words.
@Peggy_Lyons-tu1sj2 ай бұрын
I'd say new relationships are all about applying common sense, and taking your time. I've found that nothing is better when rushed, giving things time to breath and develop always produces the best results.
@toniweston43302 ай бұрын
The other day my guy brought home some organic milk I like. When I said WOW thanks! He said yeah! your welcome, I love you. The inflection in his voice was so sweet. He had me!
@Teresa71318 күн бұрын
This depends on his level of emotional maturity and amount of trauma blockages he carries. Those things interfere with his capacity to communicate effectively and hold space for the emotions of his counterpart.
@AmayaMontemayorАй бұрын
My guy just told me "i wish my mom still alive, so i can tell her about you. " He hates assumptions especially making ourselves as an example for future problems, he will say "shut up, that will never gonna happen." He even told his friends about me and he is so excited to introduce me to his uncle and cousins. Unfortunately his parents are already in heaven. I love him so much and i am so lucky that i found him and with him now. I swear i will never break my guy's heart. I am all he has now.
@carolejackson83574 ай бұрын
So don't settle for less. I've got that part down well.
@Whatyousayin2413 күн бұрын
I said to my guy, “I can’t help but love you”, not expecting him to tell me he loves me. I was just feeling it and had such the urge to tell him. He completely opened up about his feelings after that
@nancyclaypool2925 ай бұрын
Im over 60 & am too old for these games men ovee 50 play by saying I love you first but cant back up those words with mature actions. Seems men these days no matter the age think its okay to play games with a woman's mind & heart causing emotional trauma that makes us suspicious & guarded with every man! I for one am sick & tired of men over 50 playing high school games with me! DUDE!? Grow up! You're almost dead!
@kathycoker77634 ай бұрын
Well said!! I had the same thing happen to me.
@christinedewitt38263 ай бұрын
Because theyre still little boys!! They just play you for sex. Too funny, grow up, you're almost dead lol😂😂😂😂 @kathycoker7763
@RoseSimpson11113 ай бұрын
Since being widowed 2 yrs ago I've met a man in his 50s that doesn't play games. He was also widowed but at a much younger age. Spent time raising his teenage kids, healing and putting himself back together again. He rolls his eyes when we are out or around friends that are still playing games. Men as well as woman. He's a few yrs younger than me and I know he wants marriage, but I still need time and he's very patient. For now it's just a committed relationship. Not marriage.
@old-soul2 ай бұрын
@@RoseSimpson1111❤❤❤
@happygirl42182 ай бұрын
Men equate love with respect.
@misslucky935 ай бұрын
My boyfriend told me when we getting to know each other what he had (assets/possessions) Right after, I was confused as to why he told me about future plans with me, he always says "WE" Marry me, have children. save money and build a house for us. He even gives me his salary. So, this video is facts!
@Portia6205 ай бұрын
I noticed the we talk and that too. Safety also
@amuzzing673 ай бұрын
I swear I want to believe you guys. I want to believe that my husband wants the best for me, but it’s really hard to reconcile that when I tell him what I need and he dismisses me or just doesn’t want to do it. He’s an obstacle to common things like me fulfilling my education or growing in my career. He’s the one who asks me to stay home when I’ve already dressed up and committed to meet the girls (with his prior approval). If actions speak louder than words, wouldn’t it seem that my husband doesn’t in fact love me at all? If he’s the one hurting me, consistently, but says the words I love you, what am I to believe?
@wendaworkman80653 ай бұрын
You need to leave him. You do jot need his permission to go do anything.
@TommyangieWhisnant-ok2ujАй бұрын
Sounds to me like your husband is BPD. It's not that he don't love u it is that he fears being abandoned I am a 57 year old woman and I struggle with BPD and no we are not evil, we are not controlling and we are not pretending to want u to stay home,we are not pretending that we are hurting or scared we have a disorder and we very well may tell our partner it's fine for them to go places without us but when that time comes especially if there has been a minor disagreement or some other upset when it's actually time for our partner to leave it triggers our disorder alot of us actually feel physical pain,have anxiety attacks etc.... so we try to avoid that pain by doing the only thing we know how and that is getting our partner to stay home
@cheryllewis1697Ай бұрын
Believe his actions, not his words
@AZRose2375Ай бұрын
You know the answer. You can find someone better than him and do better on your own. My sister was married for 12 years to a man who was emotionally unavailable. She divorced him and is happy on her own. You're in charge of your happiness and your life. Be happy and be free to live your life on your own terms. Good luck and God Bless.
@cherylsimpson58995 ай бұрын
His eyes 👀 are so dreamy 😻. One of the most beautiful eyes I've ever seen on a guy...
@kristabland16573 ай бұрын
I'm listening to this for educational purposes 😅 I'm settled in on this Friday night, comfy on my couch, and listening with an open mind 😊
@TianieMitchell4 ай бұрын
Yes you should never tell someone you love them just to hear it in return that's a needy type of love. men or women should never expect things from their boyfriend and girlfriend. When you speak to someone about your truth you should never ever expect someone else to do the same that's pressure for anyone male or female
@sebclay15265 ай бұрын
This was great. My man has expressed a lot of these qualities. I feel safe and very cared for. He says he loves me ❤ once ot twice throughout the year but his actions speak much louder. We're both divorced and we both have kids from 14-40😂😅😢😅😅 10 total 5 him 5 mine ❤❤the kids get along as well as the pets. So far so good. Not sure if or how we marry. Pre numps and all that is going to be interesting. Will see. ...may wait till the minor grows up. 🎉🎉🎉🎉loving ❤️ the journey. Oh by the way. I have my own house 🏠 and he has his.. We go from home to home. Same city. Having a blast. Just came across your site. Excellent both of you.🎉🎉
@anouckgiraud21 күн бұрын
Sounds perfect, love and freedom. 🌸
@cherylgero81613 ай бұрын
I feel a prenup is real love. Trust wil will grow and be real.
@barbara-annperry59414 ай бұрын
Can you tell by how they cuddle you. Long and strong hugs 🫂
@sherriepolensky3742 ай бұрын
I also understand that I need to contribute financially to our relationship and keep him safe too
@vaksehund23 ай бұрын
Sometimes online fishing will ask as the 1'st question if you're married & say they want to marry you, not asking but say they want to.
@pricesunbury595 ай бұрын
My man already does it without any prompting from me. ❤❤
@AmandaSendy-rp5pm4 күн бұрын
It comes down to trust and safety...that eliminates the field
@tawnyaabel95902 ай бұрын
You guys seem very respectful Thanks for sharing your thoughts
@MagnetizeYourMan2 ай бұрын
Our pleasure!
@campbell14463 ай бұрын
Father Anthony de Mello said, "You are never in love with anyone. You're only in love with your prejudiced and hopeful idea of that person." That doesn't mean love does not exist; it just means we say we love someone when we haven't a clue what it means. Read "Awareness." Or watch his videos on KZbin.
@MagnetizeYourMan3 ай бұрын
Yes love his work!
@julietruesdell.3714 ай бұрын
I am super emotional especially during the beginning of a relationship and feel the anxious about it all. Im happy to hear that the right man will stay in the fire and help you dim your fire instead of spreading a wildfire. You guys give great advice. Thank you.
@sherrikins35572 ай бұрын
What happens when one get sick or something else. Do you stand by them? Things can change, but the love has be really be there.
@magnaajube77845 ай бұрын
It’s always lovely to listen to both off you! The relationship check in is the anti divorce strategy excellent!
@Bluewave7103 ай бұрын
Awesome conversation and topics! When men and women have been burned in the past, they are feeling scared to share finances, but have to overcome that. When they realize not everyone is out to hurt them.
@kathrynsrice16263 ай бұрын
You guys are good at explaining how men's valnerabilities show up to the significant women in their lives. On this episode you mentioned that a man that truly loves and wants to build a life with you wants you to be happy and needs to be able to play an active, if not majority, part in their role to help that be the reality. I agree that men want the women in their lives to be happy. Of course that should be reciprocal in a healthy relationship. But we are not always going to be happy. Nobody is. Navigating those times in life with strength of love, patience, and belief that bad times will pass and things will change - that is the real difference between 10 year marriages and 30 year marriages. But I often read in books and watch male characters who, when they are sad, feel empty, or are just generally not ok, especially if they have no idea why, don't share that with their wives maybe because they don't want them to worry or think that they are the problem some how because "we talk to each other. If it were something other than me he would just say so." I don't think these things begin deceptive but they often seem to become deceptive. So can you talk to us about what men go thru during times like these and what are the best ways to be supportive and yet maintain our boundaries as to what we will forgive and what we will not accept in our marriage. Thanks for the insight you help provide.
@LydiaKim-e9o5 ай бұрын
My man said all this and we are together a year now
@Bluewillowskys682 ай бұрын
It's only been a few weeks and we've said I love you. After a week he started saying I got you. I had no idea what all that phrase meant though it did warm my heart right away. We had a disagreement of sorts yesterday, now hearing this video makes me think more. I don't want to lose this so I will trust him on hiw words until he can make them in action.
@VlckieDavis-uw1tj5 күн бұрын
Actions always speak louder than words
@MeloneeRouse3 ай бұрын
When I'm told "I got you," that means as much to me as I love you. ❤
@PattiDarlingPage4 ай бұрын
He respects my beliefs not to have sex before we are married We have known eachother 6 months now.
@PattiDarlingPage4 ай бұрын
Now, another person (a long time male friend) has lied a out me and caused drama. He hasn't given up on me and I haven't given up on him .He had talked to his pastor and told him he was in love with me . He wanted me to meet with his pastor for counseling. WE were making plans. The lie was of serious nature. I don't know what to do. Please help me !
@sophieroberts79204 ай бұрын
@@PattiDarlingPage feel for you. I would tell my new friend the whole story!!!!! otherwise it will always haunt you. Good luck
@carolejackson83574 ай бұрын
🙏. In the end, slander tends to come back and bite them. A person who will slander will show their true colors at some point. I just held my peace. In my situation, I got the pastor involved to warn him, given that he was doing it in our singles group where I was well known and respected. When I hear people trash talking others, it lowers my opinion of the one giving bad reports. My slanderer was seen close the flame that he was rather quickly.
@danaday17823 ай бұрын
I love you. I got you.
@irenalincoln38603 ай бұрын
My man ,when i upset or angry cuddling me strong and saying : you write darling ,that taking me from anger to love
@ginnyd240Ай бұрын
Respect is love so I think we all want respect
@laurieellis23785 ай бұрын
Is i've got you and i'm here for you in the same strength ?
@magnaajube77845 ай бұрын
The relationship check in is the anti divorce strategy excellent!
@Portia6205 ай бұрын
Agreed!!
@margovallen4 ай бұрын
When a man goes into a relationship with a "what if it doesn't work out" mentality, that's a deal-breaker for me. A man like that is not ready to give his all into the relationship and then I am not able to give my all because he knows more about himself than I do. I would never consider signing a prenup.. as that falls right into the same category of "in case it doesn't work out." In my opinion, such a relationship is doomed from the get-go. Having trust for one another is a thing.
@bhagavatilad3268Ай бұрын
A man was saying and doing all of these things for me and I fell for him hard but it was in a work environment I was so dumb and never figured it out until one day he looked at me like that and I knew instantly how much he loved me but the situation went from beautiful to bad really bad my heart broke and I ran away from him he has no clue why he probably thinks it was just work related I’m still recovering over a year later
@angelamaezgurich36744 ай бұрын
This video was extremely helpful to me in Being able to know how to trust a man again in my life and I want to thank you so much because you helped clear a lot of things up in my mind that I have been afraid of as far as a relationship goes thank you❤
@sandralogue17744 ай бұрын
The only time "we" or "our" ever came into the equation was when he needed help with something.
@Isaiahch35vs84 ай бұрын
Fab. Probably the most honest insight into the male perspective on commitment I’ve seen.
@rebeccanestor45882 ай бұрын
Thankyousoooomuchh!! Never stop learning ..
@rebeccanestor45882 ай бұрын
U guys are AMAZING!!
@MagnetizeYourMan2 ай бұрын
Welcome!
@belenward11211 күн бұрын
That's true, my boyfriend hasn't said I love you but says, I got you.
@elainemcgee908019 күн бұрын
This was absolutely amazing 🔥 Thanks guys.. You have really given me an incite into how my 'man' s mind works ' I am definitely going to try the quiz now ❤
@SylviaMetos12 күн бұрын
Thanks guys! It was interesting to hear from two men about love!
@deirdreday87312 күн бұрын
Actions always speak Louder than Words !
@ndnalleyАй бұрын
Great insight and feedback, thank you for making this video. It’s nice to hear that confirmation to know someone loves you. ❤
@candymiller80232 ай бұрын
Hello!!! I like these videos! Thank you so much :) I’m so shy and I love learning the things you teach
@MagnetizeYourMan2 ай бұрын
Glad you like them!
@a0shikin0a11 күн бұрын
how long should you wait before getting married in order to get to know the other person?
@sellysnyman294Ай бұрын
The words can be said so many times and quickly and he doesn't mean it, what shows me if he really love me is the words tofether with his actions and doing for us ❤
@sabat80683 ай бұрын
Im seeing a guy and he never told me he loves me, but i feel so loved with him. Before him, i was seeing a guy who told me he loves me 2 days into meeting me and kept declaring his big love, said he'll never leave me. After 5 months he went and ghosted me. Some men are just... I don't understand some men...
@sandrah17793 ай бұрын
Thanks for this video you don't find very often. What if a man says I love you too soon into the relationship? Should I trust him?
@HolliePledge-g8j3 ай бұрын
You can set up a medical power of attorney with your partner. You do not need a government issued marriage license to be there for your partner in a hospital.
@doraev20555 ай бұрын
Thank you. This provided a lot of clarity. He says these things and does these things and I had no idea what it meant. I appreciate your guidance very much.
@MagnetizeYourMan5 ай бұрын
You are so welcome
@StephanieCarrell3 ай бұрын
So this guy and I was hanging out just as friends I thought one day driving down the road he just looks at me and and say I love you
@denisesantiago74262 күн бұрын
What if he brings up a “hypothetical “we’re married” scenario/question. Is that a good indication? I’ve known him many years. But haven’t been in an actual relationship with him.
@aramreyem66755 ай бұрын
What if he is saying “you are my all” ?
@MagnetizeYourMan5 ай бұрын
Good sign likely
@Belle-e5h2 ай бұрын
"I've got you" sounds nice in calm waters. Yet, if you have an estate plan or are an attorney, you may understand that certain events can prove the truth about verbal promises and commitments. Illness, injury, traumas ... happen. Seek professional therapy "before" making promises, rather than bailing when things get tough. Relationships include imperfect life occurrences where someone has no control or fault for the complex issues, such as infertility and why someone may not want the marriage certificate, but may want you.
@CassieLassy9 күн бұрын
Being with an older man they tend to have an avoidant personality. His actions mean more than the words. When he does say “I love you” it means so much more.
@reginaowens77546 күн бұрын
If he loves you he won't want anyone else to have you.❤
@LaibaRafiq-ts5qr3 ай бұрын
What if he told her that he wants to marry her for her personality and chatacter but dont have any feelings for her or love her? Please answer that question🙏🙏🙏
@americanpatriot72473 ай бұрын
LaibaR..... If he has no feelings for the woman and does not love her.... then it would be only casual friends with 'privileges'.... NOT a successful marriage. He will cheat and there will be no loyalty or respect. The woman will feel empty. Major red flag here! The response to this proposal should be "No, but thankyou. I deserve better than that. Appreciate the compliment but that wouldn't work for me." Best of luck for finding the man you deserve. This selfish man is not him.