5 Unattractive Attitudes Women Secretly SENSE in Men but Will Never Admit

[@doovy3]

Attraction develops through conflict. Agreeing with everything a girl says is a fast ticket to the friend zone.

[@jimjamm9318]

Conflirtation is funnnn and def works. Great point!

[@jasocaf557]

indubitably

[@thejamescarringtonpodcasts3509]

Yes indeed. I did a show called “don’t give your wife marital bliss”

[@silkroad1201]

I don't care enough about what they're saying to disagree. Whatever gets them to stop talking faster

[@rjbecks7160]

Shout out from Toronto 🇨🇦

[@ChrisYoutubization]

This is one of the most honest, no bullshit advice channels i've seen in a long ass time. Most women are really uncomfortable talking about stuff like their submissiveness and sexual fantasies. You're exposing them lol but GREAT content

[@ChrisYoutubization]

@@mynonleatherlife Oddly enough i think the feminist movement although helpful also had a negative impact on the female perspective. Like being a ''strong'' woman and don't let a man control you it almost makes women feel insecure about having submissive fantasies and creating a false identity and that if they do have them they are deemed as ''weak'' what do you think?

[@Fitszn]

@@ChrisYoutubization I could never speak about this. I am glad there is this channel

[@EpicurusWasRight]

@@ChrisYoutubization Feminism has taken away the power of the nurturer/caregiver in the public opinion

[@elenchab2164]

Oh, @Chris we *want* you guys to have this information. We just don't want to give it to you for myriad reasons ranging from we're too shy to something like explaining it ourselves to a man in which we're interested or potentially interested would wreck the dynamic as surely as explaining a joke kills the humor. I'm loving this woman for doing a service to both man and woman kind. @MyNonLeatherLife Thank you, sister. 💗

[@nicholaslucas5183]

@@EpicurusWasRight I think she was saying let woman be a feminist in the workplace but at your apartment treat your girlfriend like a princess.

[@williamkoscielniak820]

Asking for too much consent is a problem that I've had since I've been a teen (I'm 36). I've never been a feminist, so it's not that. I just have had a fear of coming on too strong or invading someone's space. Women seem to like it when you just "take it" and of course I don't mean rape, I mean take it when they obviously want it. But then you have to read their minds and risk sexual assault. It's fucking confusing and scary. Thank God I'm in a great relationship with my fiancé and don't have to worry about this shit anymore, but back in the day it was such a mind fuck.

[@dobi287]

Alot of women secretly do fantasize about rape no lie no joke If you get them comfortable enough to be that honest with you you'll see.

[@iittssmmee2239]

No bro it's your confidence man. You need to be confident in yourself that when you go to touch or kiss a woman that you are the shit and she wants ypu too.

[@pcost]

Sir... I am 28 and I am exactly at that crossroads, when too much is too much? When softness is not welcome? Those days are so damn complicated that you can literally end up arrested because you do not know when no is actually no or she just wants you to keep going "rough". Insanity describes what it is to be in the dating market nowadays.

[@gilgamecha]

Totally right, it's a minefield and a constant stress

[@gilgamecha]

@@iittssmmee2239 yeah and then she gets you charged with rape because you didn't call her or she just changed her mind after

[@JoseGonzalez-rs9og]

5 unattractive things men do 1. Being too feminine (looking for approval) 2. To take a feminine sexual role (not having a hunter-like attitude, to take her, being agresive ) 3. Being too femenist 4. Not to realize your masculinity 5. To be too reactive (not to have mental strength) In conclusion be the man, not the princess , develope mental strength and testosterone

Thank you! Usually I do this stuff in certain videos but you beat me to the punch! Many THANKS!

@Kuba P Are you confusing aggressiveness with anger? If so they are not the same. Aggressiveness is in a mans DNA at his base core due to how a man is built. Channeling aggressiveness in positive things in a good way is actually good. Doing it in a foolish way to get yourself killed is a different story entirely.

[@JoseGonzalez-rs9og]

@Kuba P I don't mean to be aggressive on its more radical way, what I mean is to not be cute and nice, as a man you have to inspire respect and fear, just as the shaolin philosophy dictates " Is better to be a warrior in a garden than a gardner in a war "

[@JoseGonzalez-rs9og]

@Kuba P ok, it's good to be nice as well 🙂

[@ReyesRP]

I think you're confusing aggressiveness with assertiveness.

[@swirvfly]

men don’t recognize their raw masculine power because of....women. constant rejection from makes you feel like you aren’t good enough and the woman holds all the power.

[@qua7771]

There must fucking with you. Its a game they play. A shit test.

[@hurdyu4146]

@Prabhat shrestha facts he giving them too much credit lol if anything it’s really the men’s fault, we talk for generations about how women are and how they say they want something but actually want the opposite so why did we start listening to them if what we was doing before wasn’t broken and still worked? But then again I can’t say females don’t hold most of the power these days, all it takes is an accusation and that man might as well be dead

[@Singandrapaholic24]

There is no such thing as rejection. Change your frame of mind. That mindset is a mainstream media programing forced upon men to keep us losing in the dating market. These are some good frames to have when approaching women. 1. I either get what I want or I learn what I need to get what I want. 2. I am having fun and unconcerned with the outcome. 3. I never get rejected I only dicover if the girl has good taste or not. 4. I never take a women's first responce as set in stone, It's almost always a projection of how she's feeling or thinking in that moment, and is almost always subject to change. 5. At the end of the day, she's a human being with emotions, pain, trauma, and a list of other things and I will have compassion. All these frames/beliefs are just a nibble of what my mentor Ross Jeffries has offer as a seduction teacher.

[@qua7771]

@Jon Smith I noticed that. There has to be boundaries. I don't have time for games.

[@gb5634]

ill put you up on game so you will never have this mindset again. only deal with women that show attraction. these are known as choosing signals. if you are on youe A game you will get chosen on regularly. If youre obese, and poor, dont dress well, dont smell good, poor posture, no swagger, no confidence, women will not choose you regularly. Once you have these in order women will not be able to help but choose. And never say women hold all the power ever again. That is far from truth. An emotional being will never be more powerful than a logical one its impossible.

[@Ommarrie]

Lol man it feels good to be single not dealing with all this foolishness

[@kiellivancleef5278]

amen

[@jazzyfruits]

word, I'm still watching these though lol

[@lifeisastruggle5517]

single for a while is okay but not in the long run because a man needs a woman and vice versa.

[@kevinurielfonseca]

Amen

[@starfoxx3398]

THANK YOU 🙏 I thought I was the only one 😂 Love being single

[@CaseyZander]

Crazy watching you take off! I refresh the feed and there is more subs every hour!

[@mynonleatherlife]

it is mind boggling

[@juanzavala9023]

Uncle C? No way.

[@deandreSupreme]

Uncle C's back in the office

[@thebondvillain4920]

Uncle C 🔥🔥

[@believer1028]

Uncle C, BEST in the office!💯

[@connor43057]

As a dude this is inspiring. Masculine guilt is very real and needs to be put to an end

[@johnnyxmusic]

It’ll take a generation or two… When women are allowed to actually say they like men.😮

[@Akcd11r2002]

Masculine Guilt… that’s a key term. Where does it come from? Abusive mother, abusive teachers, abusive media? All of the above?

[@PunishedKenny]

@@Akcd11r2002 All of the above. The entire society throws so much gaslighting and negative reinforcement at boys it's insane.

[@CellGames2006]

@@Akcd11r2002 I'm an erotic artist. Social media and art sites are crazy biased against men... On Deviantart, you can display breasts but not dks, on Instagram supposedly you can't show sex, but still there's tons of fitness girls and models showing their stuff and being complimented. If you try to publish NSFW content anywhere, it's instantly flagged while cute cat and non threatening scenery pics go through. People don't even want to see shocking art, just feel good stuff or things that doesn't make you feel anything. How do you think that affects people's encounters?

[@lamborghinicentenario2497]

Guys, don't shower a girl with attention It's a huge trap

[@albertsantos9966]

Yes!

[@hagenanon9484]

can confirm. the assumption might be that you give a woman what she wants (attention) so you should be getting along better. but thats not how it works. either she will become more arrogant and think she deserves better than you, or she will get angry that youre giving her too much attention and should focus on yourself etc etc. you cannot win.

[@doctorskull8197]

Absolutely, which I learned the hard way ‼️ Ha !

[@luketimewalker]

SPRINKLE her with attention

[@huss1836]

​@@hagenanon9484this woman in this situation doesn't deserve to be a partner, so it doesn't matter what you say or advice

[@brandonbluegold]

I’ve never heard a woman keep it so real.. she is a blessing

[@Ryukikon]

7:26 is how you get a rape or harassment charge. A guy does not have to be feminist but wise to understand that feminist women have created this and are angry about what they have created with weak men. The stronger you are as a man the more she will later strike back when angry at you to pull you down. This is for you to overcome and the more you are worth the less reason to even put yourself in that position. Strong men do not want to be with unsure women.which is why many women are unhappy that they can't be with attractive and strong men.

[@spikeboy101]

Yup. Women dug their own grave

[@daze77gaming]

They confuse and contradict everything

[@whisperedtales9925]

I know right. PLEASE dont take this seriously. Guys- just be your own authentic self and if she ain't going for it, then she ain't the one, save your energy and move on to someone who will like those attributes. Also- try not to punch above your weight . Yeah we would all like a supermodel as a gf, but be realistic- for nearly all of you (and me too) it aint gonna happen

[@droptopfab9162]

@@whisperedtales9925 gave you a thumbs up at first but your last sentence ruined it my dude, had to thumb you down but any man can get a supermodel

[@thegreat9481]

@@whisperedtales9925 i want no parts of a supermodel being my girlfriend. Is looks all you need? And you also don’t believe in yourself.

[@TheInsomniaddict]

"There can only be one princess in a relationship." Funnily enough, I think this describes why I'm not relationship material. I was brought up to believe there shouldn't be a princess in the relationship, period.

[@TheBeaver50]

It’s a game . It’s nature . It’s animal instinct . Do you want to get to the box or not bro

[@TheInsomniaddict]

@@TheBeaver50 Depends what the cost of the box is. If it means having to treat someone like a princess and always kowtow? No. The fact that it's animal instinct is the reason why the terms of that kind of relationship are so shitty to begin with.

[@TheSpecialJ11]

I was raised to want an equal partnership where many things were split along male/female lines, like me doing the yard work while she cooks, but ultimately we make our decisions together as equals, buy each other cute gifts, go to battle for each other. But now that I'm older I keep seeing women don't actually want that. They want me to take the lead, take care of both them and myself, and fight for the both of us. The thing is, I don't want that. I'm cool with being a man and masculine, but I'm no longer attracted to a woman who wants that from me and doesn't actually want to reciprocate and be a partner. I guess I internalized the indoctrination and they didn't. I think this is why I dated so many lesbians when I was younger. (they didn't know they were lesbian yet). The love I gave and expected in return worked well for all aspects of our relationship outside the bedroom. The ongoing joke is I'm a butch lesbian in a man's body. I think there's a lot of truth to that actually. I'm a masculine person, but in ways that aren't stereotypical for a straight man who dates straight women.

[@bazookacat8421]

There are only 43 monarchies in the whole world, so there's not a lot of room for real princesses treatment. But you gotta pretend to get by in girl-world.

[@paulgoogol2652]

What's wrong with 2 princesses together anyway? We're not living in the Dark Ages anymore. So there should be no monarchy but that's a different story.

[@haskellbear]

To give you perspective on why a man might not feel attractive even though he receives signs of attraction: my story is that for most of my life from growing up until a few years ago women never showed signs of attraction. Or at least, they didn't admit them. So I internalised deeply the fact that women don't find me attractive.

[@YesPlease1]

Regarding number 1, I think women in general need to be more aware of just how little compliments/validation the average man gets compared to the average woman due to how society and like you said, expected gender roles makes it play out. If he's exhibiting behavior that shows he needs a boost, be open to the idea of simply giving it to him without judging him for it and without treating it like some red flag and dismissing the possibility of a relationship with him. Everyone wants to feel valued and appreciated. It might not be a personality trait that will always be there...it might just be a backlog of genuine unmet human need that needs to be handled first. And then of course make sure to give him enough validation along the way that from that point onward that he doesn't become self-conscious and lacking again. Do this for him knowing that he's probably making 5-10x the effort to do this for you.

[@YesPlease1]

@@damiencruz6747 It wears on any human, regardless of genitalia, not to receive positive feedback. If you go through life not receiving much positive feedback you're going to start thinking, at least subconsciously, like you aren't good enough. Literally zero reason for women not to compliment a man she's interested in. Takes a few seconds and zero dollars. Only takes making a small effort.

[@paulmunro3175]

@Jon SmithAND ALL THAT VALIDATION HAS MADE THEM WHAT THEY ARE TODAY. FREE IS A NON WORD WHICH SHOULD NOT HAVE BEEN BIRTHED INTO EXISTENCE, AND SOCIAL MEDIA IS THE PROOF.

[@marlonmoncrieffe0728]

🤗 Aw, you're so sweet! Thanks!

[@marlonmoncrieffe0728]

@Shoaib Sheikh Personality makes people more attractive.

[@rogueguru2509]

I as a guy mock my own appearance, but that is because I don't take it seriously and am cool with humour, but some take that as lack of confidence strangely, when really it is more lacking if you are sensitive about your appearance. I am fucking amazing, but I like to make others laugh, as it means I can induce good vibes.

[@Joseph100x]

"Not realizing his masculinity: Does he not realize he's a man and has that raw attractive power." The Best!

[@ropafadzomanyowa8349]

I can’t tell if you’re being sarcastic

[@Joseph100x]

@@ropafadzomanyowa8349 I was actually quoting her. It's my best line from the video.

[@Joseph100x]

@@uhno827 I think you misunderstand her

[@EvansdiAl]

i feel like im in the congo in the middle of the jungle and i literally stepped on a diamond mine. wow. subsctibed.

[@mynonleatherlife]

hahahahahah

[@n-9249]

@@mynonleatherlife Thank you for responding. You are wrong, that is feminist drivel. Men and women have the same value, both has humans and "on the sexual market place". The difference is simply that most of women's value is "used up" the first 40 years, and man's value on market is spread out to all his life. Hence, women age like milk and men age like fine wine. Edit: Please do not delete my comment again.

[@lukenemabote8750]

She said guy's are too feminist because they ask for too much consent. Women are funny man honestly #MeToo

[@valeraanovsk1468]

@Seven Inches of Throbbing Pink Jesus how long is your sentence now?

[@TheOneTrueNoName]

Yea shit now days I need written consent before I make a move 🤣🤣🤣. I ain't got time for the foolishness.

[@renegadezen7841]

Usually you never wanna take advice about women from a woman...but she secretly seems like she is a good one to listen to.

[@SoCal9705]

She didn't get the memo from the Sisterhood!

[@hurdyu4146]

@@SoCal9705 facts sounds like she wasn’t here listening to what other people said she is explaining from actual experience which once a woman gets older they realize all the bs they learned when they were younger is all lies

[@steviepigford2356]

She does have ..., SOME GOOD POINTS... however..., You gotta look out for no#1 . Remember she jus giving advice maybe for subs too.

[@ShepardJ23]

Isn't it the other way around? I would rather a trusted woman in my circle like Mom, sister, or close friend give critique for my potential partner rather than a guy friend. There are things about women that I, as a guy may not pick up on right away. I'd also prefer to critique a man as a potential partner for my sister or any female friends since I am a guy.

[@renegadezen7841]

@@ShepardJ23 how old are you?

[@i.p.freely1405]

A lot of innocent men in jail tried to be dominant..JS

[@Lost_In_Translationnn]

Yeah once I was just hanging out with this chick at her house, we’d be getting to know each other for a while. After her inviting me over one night pointing out that she was home alone I went over. Anyway saw an opening and went in for the kiss before she stopped me, and said that I had to ask permission first.... talk about killing the mood. Anyway she was a crazy lefty turns out so reckon I dodged a bullet. Just can’t be sure these days when it comes to that shit...mad world.

[@achilloste6265]

@@kinimediagroup LOOOOL that's brutally savage

[@breakingthemasks]

@@kinimediagroup .. good job mate. She earned that rejection.

[@rockyp32]

in a imbalanced way

[@patrickturner7683]

Pffft naw

[@RS-xo7rd]

Good to know that we guys have so many expectations loaded onto us! I can't cope with this lot, but thanks for telling us.

[@jaymcd8577]

Hilarious, this is the complete opposite of what guys are being told to be to women today!? and the behaviour feminists get triggered about!..ladies ffs!! give us a break and make up your damn minds please

[@mynonleatherlife]

Yea check out my vid on why girls say they like the nice guys for an explanation on why I think that is

[@alleras46]

@WINDOWS MINUS lol never heard it so accurately described. This is definitely what has happened

[@mosthated.e.2422]

@Sez B believe it or not feminism/metoo were made for beta males

[@tlewis84able]

@Sez B wow that really opened my mind

[@johnbockmann]

The point is, men need to make up their minds. Women will always be like this. But they'll be better if we lead as strong, masculine, good men.

[@TobyKral007]

You’re basically saying women are children, to be taken care of and guided and “showered” with love but they would never admit it

[@sonmohikan5964]

Thats why tousands of years they were in under our protection.Actually still they are but you know...Stupid feminism and all stupid movements try to hide it. Like even if girls can work now, they still want man to provide. Even if they try to make masculanity look bad, girls still attracted to the dudes that have masculine frames or the bad boys or the men that have power. Nature cant be changed, maybe they can make you believe that it is changed but at the end , it is not and we men need to know it.

[@mynonleatherlife]

I think they still have some of those desires romantically...in the rest of their life though they are often more in a parental role

[@Royalxy53]

Yes of course, why do you think her dad suppose to give her over to you in marriage? You're taking his place, protect and take care of her to the point she can feel comfortable enough to live out her princess fantasy

[@Dorian-Grey]

@@mynonleatherlife First, I love your videos so dont get what Im about to say next wrong. I think you do have very good information you give from a womans point of view that only a woman does can see. You provide women goggles for men to be able to see what men cannot. Second, Your not a feminist! Not even close! What the feminist movement has done is place legislation, laws, on the books on what men cannot do or act. You cant tell a guy, hey no mean no. Did the woman you were interacting with give you a clear yes? If the answer is no, that is now considered RAPE! You go to jail. On top of you now get rewarded forever with the label Rapist for the rest of your life! A man cant get ride of something like that. Women dont go through that! I know what your saying in this video. I understand the beautiful chemistry and the beautiful sexual tension or build up that we both crave when in that moment. However, you can thank feminist for putting in established law the rules of engagement. So its both hypocritical on feminist part and not fair to us men for you to want desire what is now criminal to us men. Last, I dont think your being fair in reading into a guy your interested in and making a unilateral decision without his knowledge, without giving him the chance to make the choice to correct himself. Like your boyfriend said, even he makes mistakes with you. Its not until he is able to acknowledge what happen before he can make a determination on whether to correct himself or make the decision to walk away and engage with another woman. What are your thought on this?

[@whisperedtales9925]

@@Dorian-Grey LOve this. And no. She speaks for herself only and not all women, in fact, very few women. Gah- hate this form of 1950's toxicity. She's a subby. Get a Daddy Dom.

[@ahrengroesch8774]

This is gold. It's all the advice we get from men's groups but from the horse's mouth. Hearing it from a woman really helps it sink in.

[@voidwalker9223]

@Carl's Brother that doesnt matter the point is to talk to enough and experience and learn from mistakes. You eventually get to a point where you GENERALLY know what to say and what not to say. Millions upon Billions of women but in the end 98% of them are wired the same but with different triggers because growing up everyone has different life experience so everyone cant emotionally be the same. In the end they want to be treated like princess, they want attention but not clingy and they want someone strong to lead them and make them feel safe. Its up to you to figure out how much and how little YOUR women wants those things. It does not matter if they get mad at you, as long as you keep those general principles in the right direction they will never leave....unless you start turning into a bitch.

[@xXavorx]

@@voidwalker9223 I agree. Every woman is different- every person is a different set of combinations that makes them a unique self which means you will always have different experiences, but the principles will always live. @ Carl's Brother what are your thoughts now, friend.

[@spikeboy101]

Carl's Brother is right. She doesn't know what she's talking about. I've talked to women who've been the dom and their bf be the sub aka the feminine role. Men and women's taste arent black and white. Plenty of men like tomboys aka masculine women and plenty of women like feminine guys. Michael Jackson was feminine as fuck and all women wanted him, BTS is filled with men who look like chicks and women simp over them, chicks dig guys with painted nails. Lots of women like feminine men

[@emmsgoon5216]

@@spikeboy101 no brother, you gotta understand.. a lot of woman just want you because of your social status.. because other people like you. Women like this love pleasing you in any way possible.. as long as they get an experience from you

[@renaldsunset]

@@spikeboy101 You’re a bit right but mostly wrong. You can’t compare feminine CELEBRITIES with feminine everyday Joe. And you don’t make an exception the rule. For example I like tomboys but I’ve never ever met a guy who liked them too.

[@Quentin217]

One of the aspects of the courtship game that this lady reveals is how hopelessly complicated it is. The rules are different for every woman, and a man does not know them until he breaks one of them. Too often it is damned if you do or damned if you don't or both. You will never know unless you try. There were long stretches of my life when I just did not care to approach women at all, especially young ones.

[@patoloco1000]

As a guy, my biggest turn off is her being a feminist. That’s the ok, have a good life zone for me.

[@ciufuvictor8566]

Agreed, mostly those women just like to receive without giving stuff in return and are just wasting your time

[@bakersmileyface]

I'm cool with them being a feminist as long as they hold true to it. But the majority of women that claim to be feminists aren't that, they say they want equality but then complain when they get it. They just want all the good stuff and then don't treat men like equals.

[@gumdeo]

@@bakersmileyface Feminism was hypocritical from the beginning. They wanted the vote, but without the draft.

[@bakersmileyface]

@@gumdeo Okay?

[@dewaynecollins4728]

👍🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

[@waynetrenton2310]

I totally disagree , treating a women like a princes, buying her stuff, spoiling her, giving all her attention, I guarantee she will dump the guy, unless she is divorced and needs a beta guy to take care of her. Here is the bottom line with women, 1. Women will only be happy if the guy that is higher in status. 2. The women must be physically attracted to the guy. 3. There must be a challenge, the woman must chase the guy. I know so many men that have treated their wives or girlfriends like a princess, all the flowers, jewelry, and bs, all got divorced or dumped.

[@madhanmedappa8898]

100%agree

[@mr.optimysticprime7013]

Facts!! Not falling for the feminist crap from anyone. If y'all want us to be so masculine then stop trying to be masculine aswell with all this feminist junk nature don't work like that.

[@coreysrevenge286]

Did you watch the video... did any of y’all

[@pranavs14]

@@mr.optimysticprime7013 "Nuuuuu the feminine females are trying to be more masculine than me, what do i do!!" Obviously woman are not going to be submissive to a man they dont respect. Stop complaining

[@Woeisme2]

Sad world we live in

[@GoldGn111]

I like you . If I ever met you I would rock your world just because of the honest content you are putting out . I can tell you actually care for men . I wish you success .

[@mynonleatherlife]

Haha thank you Jorge

[@seek2]

I think that having Severe Social anxiety, ptsd, childhood trauma, learning disabilities, avoidant personality, boys being raised mainly by women, absent fathers, emotionally absent/uninvolved fathers etc the list goes on.... these can all have an effect on shaping a boy into a “ Proper Man “ and is something that I believe needs more discussion. I realise that it’s called “ Life “ but that shit ain’t easy to work out on your own it takes immense courage to battle through and to work on yourself. I believe these aspects are a big piece to the puzzle, among many other obstacles that men face. But these can destroy the pillars of his confidence from the inside out if not dealt with. Even though in certain other settings and situations he can be unexpectedly/spontaneously Assertive & Strong.

[@mynonleatherlife]

thank you for sharing ur interesting thoughts about the obstacles men face. I appreciate your commenting and learn from comments like this. I also had severe social anxiety.

[@ilqar887]

Excatly

[@zoransimovic6416]

@@mynonleatherlife this guy knows what he's talking about, especially the part about being rased by women. If you don't spent enough time with a father (or a father figure) and spend too much time, you tend to pick up a lot of feminine behaviour. The upside is, you can learn a lot from female psyche this way.

[@kubasniak]

For many issues and struggles I had to face, still do and will I decided to take things into my hands and count absolutely on no one for outcomes, even god himself, he can actually go fk himself if there's one for all the abandonment and neglect I had to face. I gave in emasculation by teachers and religious preachers and weird hypocritical social pressures. I betrayed myself because I didn't know better and had no one to tell me like father, any family member or stranger... and for that I hold resentment and mistrust towards others. Fking lies everywhere.

[@Shoegazebasedgenre0.]

@@kubasniak yeah dont respect seniors and old people. i got "scammed" by this kind of morality too.

[@Phoenix-pm2qr]

I think in modern times when being a man is bad by the media, it ruins our self confidence and we don't realize women really do want us in a masculine role and find us attractive despite what feminist say.. this video really helped

[@KPpivot]

Men like brutal honesty it helps you grow. in fact, everyone probably does. it's ignoring the fact that you will be hurt in the short term but become better as a person in the long term, I like really like that as a man, and with that said I wish that other people would be more honest around me.

[@KPpivot]

Tiptoeing around the truth does not help you and If someone was doing that to me as a "friend" then I would wish they would be more honest instead.

[@mynonleatherlife]

I really like how you explained it helping u grow and hurting in the short term but making u better in the long term. I totally agree although I gotta brace myself for it.

[@philosophyjunkies6693]

I think the big key is just continous personal development -- because we agree on this -- however good you are at man stuff, your weak points will cause issues at some point. For example my buddy who was the actual best at getting girls -- really struggled with self discipline and holding a job and maintaining frame once he got a woman. And then there are guys who crush it in bed and being dominant but can't do the emotional stuff at all. And then there are guys who crush the emotional stuff but can't do the masculine stuff. There's a time to dump compliments on a woman and tell her she so sexy it's overwhelming and there's also a time to be a bit Colder and distant, no woman wants a guy who can't do both, not really. Your weak points will emerge at some point, you just gotta be ruthless and commit to being committed to this.

[@mynonleatherlife]

that is a really great point.

[@mateaukalua4426]

No man or woman can be perfect we all have weaknesses.

[@lifeonamarble961]

So how is this full time gig going for you LMAO. Good luck guy. You must be a glutton for punishment. Surely you can see the foolishness in all of this. Hey, I sure do and did and am.......

[@eta_carithebrightlord3396]

When are times you give her the cold shoulder

[@joshuaquilliam2887]

@@eta_carithebrightlord3396 When she goes cold or starts playing games.

[@philosophyjunkies6693]

How to do this: pursue deep spiritual happiness and self connection so you feel deep calm and peace but then connect with your animal primal desires and masculinity so you can be chill like a monk but still RAWR and GRRR like an animal.

[@mynonleatherlife]

For sure. That would be an incredible and winning combination.

[@domani3388]

Nofap

[@donjtrump]

@@domani3388 nofap is the source of all masculinity i believe.

[@iamwhole8910]

PERFECT BALANCE. We SENSE THIS.

[@Devb0mb]

Deep personal honesty with oneself is a perfect practice for that that can actually be "spiritual" On on the one hand, you stop pretending to be something you're not and align with what you really want and operate from a "deeper more powerful and straightforward" part of yourself (which could be that raw masculine power she talked about) and from there can seriously come this assertiveness and willingness to get shit done and not let anyone step on you or hurt anyone you love, cuz fuck that. And on the other hand, from that letting go of patterns and reactivity and shit that is painful or ineffective, from here can really come some inner peace and "CONFIDEnce" and stability. Not an angry or insecure person, but a mature, relaxed man who cares for and would protect his woman and is satisfied in life

[@jeffreystevens8042]

I think the reason why a lot of men don't own their innate attractiveness is that they have been previously put down or rejected by women. Out of fear of rejection, some men may not even pursue women or attempt to explore their sexuality at all. It feels like there's almost a biological depression that builds a wall in your mind when you get rejected as a man and it won't let you try again.

[@juancalvache2043]

Relateable

[@victorvaldez760]

Feel sorry for you bro 😂

[@dustybryan91]

Honestly, that's where I'm at in my life. I just turned 31 and have all but given up. I have had a horrible experience with women up to this point and can't find any motivation to put myself out there again. Even today I'll occasionally meet a girl and she'll give me certain looks or say my name a certain way and l'll think maybe she is interested, but I have been burned too many times to trust those subjective signals. Women like to play games and always behave in ambiguous ways that give them plausible deniability.

[@amalksuresh286]

Real men don't quit

[@maynx2743]

@@amalksuresh286For real.

[@kingbaboon1145]

I have been hurt by life and women too much. I don't want to approach them or show these attitudes in front of them as to not please them. Thank you for your video anyhow. It is honestly appreciated.

[@mynonleatherlife]

I'm sorry :( I can understand that

[@victorvaldez760]

Feel bad for u bro 😂😂

[@kingbaboon1145]

@@victorvaldez760 I don't think you do. You are mocking me.

[@alecfleming373]

Everything you said has been in my life since #MeToo. I can't stay within the law and sexually please her. Facts. I hit on a bitch/get understood the wrong way and I could see a cell for it. So sick of the social justice bullshit. So been thinking about it last night and reminded here, men fall in love with their cars not because they're not ever let down, no it's because a car doesn't just vanish for no good reason.

[@homiesenatep]

I display alot of these attributes, I do like a giving woman. It shows that she desires to be with me. Although I do give back I am aggressive too, but I also seek if she also meets my level of aggressiveness too I mix masculine and feminine energies to maximize my potential If these are unattractive to some women, it wont matter. There's so many variety of women, just like theres more than 1 type of man

[@iamwhole8910]

One is for sure that natural energy of yin and yang does not care about pathology. Those 2 energies come together for the purpose of harmony in all of the universe. The bodies they inhabit is irrelevant.

[@69birdboy]

You want an award if what. Just be yourself

[@homiesenatep]

@@69birdboy lol yeah But seriously yes, that's the summary of everything, be urself

[@rileycoyote211]

No one can truly love, just for being. Always has to be doing this or doing that or acting this way or not acting that way. Screw it.

[@PunishedKenny]

I feel you man.

[@Teamshmo]

Damn, you give the most serious advice ever. Most other channels talk about guys wearing the wrong shoes lol

[@mynonleatherlife]

lols! Girls are pretty into shoes so sounds like a good topic

[@jcvr732]

Women are so difficult. No wonder I get more misses than hits .

[@captainbook3456]

That's why you practice with waifu pillow first, yes

[@vaderetro264]

They are not difficult. We men are equally complex, but in different ways.

[@i1bike]

install the aimbot

[@RR-et6zp]

nah, they are just opposite

[@RR-et6zp]

@@vaderetro264 nah, women are just opposite, men just arent honest

[@christopherlundberg976]

In the era of ME TOO, taking? a woman is dangerous. Stoicism, indifference, and vagueness is what you get until I'm comfortable. Since having dealt with women for decades I'm not shy about hurting women's feelings. Having said that your not pretty enough for my investment. Rejection has taken me from a good man to a concrete ass.

[@WelcomeToOversoul]

MSHOW/Man sent his own way... Gotta hate to see it.

[@Clinueee]

It's like you are deliberately trying to be as unattractive as possible

[@LeetMath]

i don’t want to be in a relationship with someone who i don’t genuinely respect. i don’t want to pretend to not respect someone who i do respect. i might have to just stay single forever. and i’m okay with that.

[@luckystone2293]

I agree.

[@sohaibahmed2483]

Generally we should respect everyone but would you respect someone when they are disrespecting you?..is the real question and where the actual problem lies...

[@gilgamecha]

This is the modern dilemma

[@lijh]

Why would you respect anyone who would ONLY date you for your income & protection Alone. The most moral & virtuous church wives question their husbands & weigh their monkey branching, hypergamous options when he wavers from top stats in provide & protect. No one was there for the build up of the income & the body/skills for provide/protect why respect the trophy that tarnishes too fast?

[@scottlee8324]

Ditto

[@davidchorney8740]

If a guy doesn't get enthusiastic consent he can be jailed for rape in some states.

[@ShazzyJ]

Not encouraging the act of literally asking consent to have sex doesn't mean encouraging the opposite extreme of raping her. It's somewhere in between in the subtle attitude and treatment a guy gives to a woman that automatically makes sex happen

[@theguyinblacktux]

I guess you meant each and every state of this world 🤣

[@an.d.m.a]

@@theguyinblacktux depends on the country...

[@clairemondemanseau1250]

You dont seem to have a problem with raping woman since consent os too much too ask jee just say is it okay, do you want it, do you like not hard not wierd....

[@Stephen-bq4nq]

Guys these days are so concerned about getting in trouble they are really worried about having consent. As for masculinity men are being told it's a bad thing

[@mynonleatherlife]

I am learning from people like u in the comments telling me about this

[@Stephen-bq4nq]

@@mynonleatherlife it's bad for both genders. Woman are told if they like sex they are a sl.t/wh..e If a guy wants sex and looks for it it's toxic masculinity.

[@bipolard00d17]

Because you saying that thing about girls needing a way to say, "oh I didn't want to have sex, it just happened." That sounds like a fucking nightmare for guys. Guys actually today need for you not to be able to say that. Theres too much on the line. Like, it's not a game for us. Y'all need to understand that.

[@Stephen-bq4nq]

@Bobs Slong no it's not bullshit there is plenty of judgement placed on woman as far as sex goes and men also. I agree men have it worse because they are judged on their looks and body but also their finances. Woman don't get judged by their earning power.

[@thesweetprince]

@@Stephen-bq4nq Yeah, I swear the far left's future is asexual

[@NateTheNoble]

To answer the last one “not realizing your masculinity” and why a lot of men can’t see how attractive/manly they are A lot of it has to do with social expectations and childhood trauma…men handle this differently than woman do. Most women have safe havens they find in other women….but men are often left to handle this alone or face possible ridicule from other men for being seen as “soft” etc… Add social media to the picture and you have men who have misdirected egos Me personally I’ve been called very handsome all my life. I have broad shoulders and a good looking face…a “pretty boy”….but I also have a very self-assured attitude which may make other people see me as “cocky/arrogant” even when I’m not trying to be. My father told me I get it from him lol By the time I graduated high school I’ve had to learn to NOT GAF what other people thought and recognize it’s their problem and not mine. The world shows no mercy. I also encourage ALOT of young guys to take pride in the fact that they are simply men (a lot of insecure men dealing with their demons go to the gym often and I’m a trainer)

[@lsporter88]

Sometimes feelings must be bruised (even in a nice way) for the sake of learning. This video is very interestingly addressing the issue of Gender Roles (and yes they are different). It's also an illustration of the fact that perhaps the, "Me Too", movement has had some unintended consequences for Women (perhaps the Feminist Movement as well). There can be too much of a good thing, or maybe things have just gone too far in one direction. Great video.

[@lsporter88]

I applaud your honesty. Very Brave.

[@lukasthomas267]

I love the raw, authentic, uncensored, truth of it all. Really gets down to the point. You have the best channel I have been to, for that reason. Thank you.

[@mynonleatherlife]

wow thank you so much for that compliment Lukas

[@lawrencequan6857]

Not bad….yes/no on the first point, right on the remaining four….so many guys are clueless that it’s laughable.

[@swavy.gino1]

She ain't lying be masculine guys... Be unpredictable... Listen to what shes saying guys...🤝🏾💯

[@nikomyshkin942]

tren up bro's

[@Tubes12AX7k]

My dad was Very predictable, secure job, not running around with other women, knew how to be presentable for formal things... and these are the things she liked and admired about him. They were married for 50+ years.

[@eta_carithebrightlord3396]

​@@Tubes12AX7k The women now are dumb

[@coalyounger5630]

I can cook, clean, do my own laundry, have a successful business, own my house, put my kids through college, have 3 cars and a boat. Like all men, I can even take care of myself sexually if needed. For me, a woman has to bring more to a relationship than sex. We have to compliment each other emotionally and intellectually. I would rather be with the one that does, than the many that don't.

[@steviepigford2356]

POINTS 👍

[@jeanjacqueslundi3502]

@Heru Jr. of Kemet that's One hell of a projections assumotion.

[@another_Sapien]

Yes my man. Tough to find that woman. Better remaining single than picking the wrong peach

[@juanedoses8715]

LMAO intellectualy!!??

[@mitragyninethespeciosa6891]

So you're forever single than? Lol

[@humblemumble1591]

As a man whose getting red pilled, im fascinated to hear a woman whose perspective is compliant with the attitude im looking for. The unseen obstacles women have, the things that turn women off about blue pill men and cant or won't vocalize to them.

[@MG3887Griff]

Tbf I think it's cruel not to tell someone about a potential problem they don't see. By withholding that you extend the pain a person will go through

[@davidmc984]

This is soooo refreshing to hear a woman talking honestly about what women want and feel

[@mazklassa9338]

Brilliantly candid. It is so magnanimous of you to divulge what the dynamics are or should be for male-female synchronicity.

[@Jokestrap]

So on point ... so wise!! I LOVE IT! 😀😀

[@mynonleatherlife]

Thank u!!

[@danjames1922]

This channel is great - so refreshing, especially in 2023 with all the alpha/sigma/man-v-woman youtuber bullshit going around.

[@Bscaller]

Wow, your channel is bringing me back my sanity. So much things are falling into place when you’re explaining this basics but unspoken truths. Thank you so much 🙏

[@bjaxfl]

I love your honesty and self-awareness! You're literally the only fish on KZbin that admits how to ACTUALLY Catch Fish. But see this is the problem with feminism a lot of these traits you mention as attractive are programmed out of us at a young age by our(in my case) Feminist dominant mothers and the blue pilled society. Because my mom was the bread-winner in our family dynamic working in a high position in a company I was raised to revere and look up to women. This made me shy around them, intimidated and energetically small in their presence because that's how I was around my 6-figure mom, who as a woman beat the odds and progressed to where she is today. I remember growing up I'd get rejected and laughed at by girls and even beaten up by guys because I was a little Bitch. My Dad nearly abandoned me because I was so soft and girlish and my Mom did everything in her power to ensure I'd never become as aggressive, dominant and direct as he is because I was taught by her these are the traits of an evil man. This killed my masculinity and now at 20 years old I'm fighting this battle with low self-esteem and trying to regain my masculine power. Its difficult but thanks to women like you REAL WOMEN who are strong enough to admit what makes them vulnerable, I can finally kill the Beta and embody my power. You are doing Gods/Sources/evolutions work and women like you are are essential to the revival of the Divine masculine and the death of the Beta male pussy drying plague. I know it got all artsy poetic post/apoc like at the end but that's just me I'm an Artsy land. Thanks again subscribed :]

[@comprehendsirlgarbagedispo1495]

What if it's hot for a guy to look up to girls

[@superuberjedimaster]

My pen is ready, let's start the class Professor!

[@mynonleatherlife]

lolol

[@Ekam-Sat]

... is

[@dreday77764]

Women want to take feminine role in relationship however in the west women continually act like men. Relationships have become a power struggle. The dynamics have changed. This is the product of feminism and I see many men out there acting very “beta” like because of it.

[@sonmohikan5964]

Funny thing is that they say men are bad and masculanity is toxic. But they try to "emprove" by imitating men, how funny!

[@dreday77764]

Son Mohikan Spot on. On another topic, I laugh how lesbians don’t like penises but wear strap ons and use didos that resemble a penis haha

[@TRFAD]

Indeed. It's irritating af. Fighting your nature baby

[@Airmaster360]

Women are confused too, they end up being a cat lady playing the victim card

[@yassinetalbi5884]

so basically feminism is a trap ?

[@Yarblocosifilitico]

guys, notice how she said "that's also attractive too, a guy that provides" at the end of the video, as a last minute thing to add. If you're the provider, you're the second option (at best).

The thing about consent is easy to say when you are a woman, so all risk (like in BDSM) is put on man. Did you think about it?

[@mateaukalua4426]

Nope they never think about that.

[@livestrong296]

Thank you. Was Having a hard time in between not offending and at the same time being masculine

[@jgonzales912]

It’s a slippery slope...that’s for sure.

[@noahpatterson19754]

Thanks so much for these videos! I feel like what we’ve been told by a lot of mainstream culture nowadays can make guys confused and reject their gender roles, and consequently display the behaviors you mentioned, myself included. Which is probably why there are more incels than ever. This video really helped clear things up on the things that women implicitly want but don’t say out loud.

[@YourFearIsReal]

Trust me, the programming is deliberate and intentional. Weaker men are easier to control.

[@paulwilliams3846]

You continue to amaze us with your honest insights into male/ female relationships and sexuality. I'm watching all your previous videos because they help soooo much. SO healing. Can I keep saying this? They are pure gold! This one point made me laugh - 'being too feminist' I know guys like that (me for example!).

[@mynonleatherlife]

thank you Paul!!

[@musicalfringe]

I genuinely appreciate the good-faith attempt to explain these things. It's valuable. On the other hand, I'm listening to this and thinking "Christ this sounds complicated. I have things to do!"

[@dinerosuave]

Yk your growing cuz your real asf and women now in days aren’t

[@titilili88]

This was excellent! It tooks me 60yrs to encounter the truth! Now I'm ready for battle. I love women!!! Thanks so much!

[@mynonleatherlife]

This is like music to my ears, I love ur attitude!!!!

[@upstar21t]

Number one on your list leaves out this: only if you're Chad/Tyrone do your praises towards a woman count. Being flattered by a Prince differs from being flattered by a peasant. If she's the princess, the man has to be a legitimate prince, otherwise if he over-compliments her it's repulsive to her.

[@tamarasophia6145]

This is true. If she finds him sexually unattractive, even repulsive, no amount of flattery, compliments or attention is gonna change her mind.

[@dangerousman4071]

Guys be yourselves. Just be confident about what you want and what you are.

[@52rojemle]

Jeeeezus!! I did all those things with my first gf when I was 21. She cheated right away that stupid b... now I cringe remembering how I used to think and act around girls.

[@FreeWifi1984]

You live in you learn; assemble a character you look up to and become that. Guys are flimsy because of ignorance. Get on your feet and start watching reality.

[@macvena]

Straight up, you're very honest and astute. You're observations sound dead on point. Keep it up.

[@mynonleatherlife]

Thanks Mac Vena

[@foilster1]

Number 1 is bullshit, every time I’ve done that I got shit on and played, but when I acted like I was the prize girls flock to me. Idk man...

[@loganedwards4272]

Agreed a lot of girls like to hype up there man and if there isn’t an equal hype up ratio I don’t want it lmao

[@steezytaegan4612]

I think she meant when guys talk about themselves to much or bring more attention on them on purpose, it shows females that hes fishing for validation which shows hes not as confident in himself, but also gaining attention and acting like the prize without saying it which shows confidence

[@kylel7158]

@@steezytaegan4612 be a quiet stoic who shows through actions his value, not through seeking validation or impressing others with words of your success

[@steezytaegan4612]

@@kylel7158 u couldnt have said it better

[@valeraanovsk1468]

@@kylel7158 i pretty much agree, but also we have rappers who get a lot of chicks, while they are mainly making songs talking about how tough, cool or successful they are 🤔

[@intricatic]

I have a terminal problem; I refuse to date anyone because all the games and signaling pisses me off. I've basically decided I'll stick to escorts. They're cheaper than a relationship anyway.

[@CrisisHipHop]

How do you avoid law enforcement

[@jhernan594]

😂🤣😂 good man!!! any recommendations

[@coachphil5331]

@@CrisisHipHop 😂 Yes. How do you avoid law enforcement? I'm asking for a friend. 😂

[@intricatic]

@@jhernan594 tryst.link already met one from there. Hella cheaper than a date.

[@simonemontelaghi362]

that escalated quickly lmao

[@jeanbaptisegrenouille5774]

This is one of the most honest channels i've seen in a long time, no ads, no presentation...just sharing your own views and opinions. In love with your content

[@mynonleatherlife]

thank you very much and thank you for subscribing

[@BenjaminTapia1]

Yet women have like 60 red flags stuff they need to work on lol

[@csakzozo]

Whataboutism at its finest. Feminine behavior.

[@freddiebuddie8325]

Great advice , to build on what you were saying it’s vice versa for men. We do not like women who are competing to be the man emotionally, physically. Being in competition and not just taking the role of a woman and it causes conflict. Letting her be feminine and all women , letting the man fulfill his role without confrontation.

[@mynonleatherlife]

Can u elaborate on what u mean by competing to be the man

[@terryquinn7347]

Most young woman these days think sex is like a porno men do the same thats where they learn these days then they find out its not all that its an act instead of being natural

[@rezphilosophy]

2:42 sounds like she forgot to upgrade her self to the 2021 version

[@mynonleatherlife]

lmaooo

[@u235u235u235]

this is all first year stuff. after 10 years in a relationship it's about friendship, companionship and achieving goals.

[@ganymede242]

Just discovered your channel and I'm working my way through everything! Thanks for being honest. Everything you say makes sense. Unfortunately in the "Yes means Yes" #MeToo world I'm not sure how wise it is to implement.

[@Ace.0.0.0.]

True that. Too many women want plausible deniability. So if things go south they won't be left holding the bag.

[@balwgar92]

Unfortunately I'm legally obliged to get clear non-duress consent before i can make a move, but sadly I'm also aware that this will 100% kill any mood and chance with someone, so all I can do is try to coax the women to make the move or risk punitive action. Quite the conundrum we guys are facing these days.

[@Hugex97]

Basically, be a loving, caring sweet MAN, not GIRL. It's not hard boys, in fact, everybody has this in their genetics. Just let your masculinity flow and them ladies will get crazy about you

[@DJFreeway-DJExit-DJInCrowd]

The only people worth my time are the ones that chase me and I simultaneously like them also.

[@ruisousa7967]

Kind of agree with everything she said. However in this crazy times of false accusations and proud on destroying lifes of innocent men based on everyone should believe woman. I think its safe to say that some man are overprotective on asking consent on everything based on beeing afraid of beeing accused of harrasement or rape or whatever she wants it.

[@tomau3946]

The term about when you want to pretend to yourself that "it just happened" is called "deniability." Because as my late mother would say, "a lady wants to, but she doesn't want to want to."

[@petroglyph79]

nah that sounds childish

[@mynamesNev]

Right, plausible deniability

[@mateaukalua4426]

Yep that way they can always falsely accuse you of grape 40 years later.

[@manuelpanisse5991]

Right, women always tell themselves "it just happened" with their bf, when in reality the guy was thinking about having sex with her/them being together the first time he talked to her. He was already thinking about it, thats what he wanted from the start.

[@conradlewis5689]

The school girl fantasy is a really common one.. I just hated it because the skirts never really fit me.

[@wayneronaldo7679]

🤣🤣

[@techguyjoe1]

Great video and so on-point. For me, this is how I summarize this video. Be a man. Take charge. Be confident. Push the action. An alarming number of women have told me that there is a shortage of take-charge, masculine men around.

[@PrimordialWaterPracticalMatter]

Your channel is one of the best red pill channels there is. I’m subscribed!👍👍(“red pill” of course meaning waking up to a different perspective of looking at things from out of the matrix program.)

[@mynonleatherlife]

thanks for subscribing! I appreciate that definition of red pill, thank u

[@goofytuber9011]

And i just learned im gonna stay single for a long long time

[@CHRISTIVN.OFFICIAL]

In short, be masculine as a man. Assume your role and walk your path. She will be naturally drawn to you once you tap into your masculine energy and being. It’s in her hard wiring. Just as it’s yours to be attracted to a soft feminine woman. Learn how to talk to these woman. And don’t try hide yourself or who you are. Say things as they should be said (be direct).

[@Gigaamped]

thank you so much for talking about this i feel like i’ve been needing to hear this for 28 years of my life

[@anthonymcneal9838]

Watching these videos are getting me depressed because I realized I'm the exact opposite of what you saying women want but that's just who I am so yeah I'm content on being alone for eternity I guess

[@mynonleatherlife]

So what are you like and what do u want?

[@jibcoolio7]

She responded dude!?!?

[@whisperedtales9925]

Just be your authentic self because anything but that will fall in a heap a few weeks later. No one can consistently lie about who they are and maintain it long enough to have a rship. If she doesnt like who you are, stop wasting your energy on her and find someone that does.

[@anthonymcneal9838]

@@mynonleatherlife literally as I said above. I'm not confident, I'm very in insecure and I have no talk game. Like literally nothing good to say about myself in any aspect. It's cool tho

[@anthonymcneal9838]

@@whisperedtales9925 no one like the real me, so yeah I'm just such on being content

[@bhangrafan4480]

Face it, sex has become a very dangerous minefield for men. Of course a wise male asks for lots and lots of consent because recent history shows how treacherous women can be. She will want something sexually but later feel ashamed of herself, then it becomes - "He made me do that! I was abused." That man is now socially and professionally destroyed. Sex is getting just too dangerous for men.

[@mynonleatherlife]

Convenient excuse for those who have a terror of making a move tho right

[@bhangrafan4480]

It is terror. In the 21st century consent has become retrospectively withdrawable. BTW while you are here I want to praise your channel. It has the potential to do more to improve male-female understanding than most of the other similar channels put together. Keep it up (!) @@mynonleatherlife

[@mynonleatherlife]

Thank you!

[@pdlrkpdlrk9971]

Very happy I found this channel gonna fo through all the videos now u seem very genuine.

[@mynonleatherlife]

Thanks a lot

[@MollyMcBooter]

I personally love it when my guy sends me a photo of himself because I miss him when he’s not around and I think he’s very handsome. Unfortunately, through my own experiences with men, I have learned that no matter how much you compliment them and give them any free time you have, they still want compliments and time from other women as well. Super freaking insecure and need for validation left and right is a HUGE turn off for me!

[@willvrtist]

The fact that you have a guy that is treated well by you and is missed by you but STILL goes off and gets attention from others is absurd. Especially when you look like that, cmon.. what is going on here? The fact that so many women like you say this, never fails to confuse and amuse me.. like where are you lot finding these men? The dumpster? TikTok comment sections? Granted they're indistinguishable from one another but still..

[@maroufali7925]

I've experienced problems in one of my relationships because I was too afraid of disagreeing with her and hurting her feelings, I had her, and her priorities before myself every time, and it was draining, never again, in my current relationship I speak my mind freely and my gf stands by me, even if we disagree on some topics,but we're both honest with each other all the time, and I've never been happier.

[@antonioneal7680]

Dam!! This Victoria has no secrets!

[@mynonleatherlife]

Trying hard to give it all away

[@EL-ERIC]

In my experience most woman are very aggressive when it comes to sex..keep up the good content

[@mynonleatherlife]

You’re right... they can have a sense of entitlement when it comes to the bedroom which can cause them to be very aggressive. For example if u have ever seen women with male strippers or even female strippers anyone will see how aggressive they can be.

[@69birdboy]

The past 10 years I've dated a lit. Like loads..I'd say maybe 50 percent of women have been raped, coerced or controlled and followed after break up. You might wanna check your generalisations

[@mynonleatherlife]

@@69birdboy I agree with your comment but it doesn't contradict what I said. People whose boundaries have been violated a lot often don't know how to respect the boundaries of others. Any female stripper will also tell you women customers are some of the most aggressive and I'm sure around 50% if not more of those female customers have been violated by others in the past

[@69birdboy]

@@mynonleatherlife you really want to see women as the aggressors here. There is no comparison between the misery inflicted on woman by men and those inflicted by women on other women. I suggest you may have a leaning towards seeing men as your safety and protector. Which is fine but you're ignoring the larger realities of rape, coercion and violence. Society is geared towards men.even things like car seat belts use male sized crash test dummies..many "women's diseases" are ignored in science, often leading to women suffering and even dying..I mean I could go on and on.. You have absolutely no proof about your claims about female abuse in strip clubs.strip clubs are mainly for men. A few women go but if you can't see the widespread abuee of women by men, I don't know what to say

[@mynonleatherlife]

@@69birdboy I worked in a strip club so I saw it myself and experienced it myself? But I agree with the rest of your comment about abuses against women. Again I don't think it contradicts what I said.

[@willvrtist]

That video glitch at 2:43 is just priceless 💀

[@reyhassan3111]

Victoria your brutal honest and candor is refreshing. Many thanks. Rey

[@mynonleatherlife]

thanks rey

[@alexbell8865]

Number 4 is my biggest issue. So much shame. For what reason? I don’t even know.