5 UNBELIEVABLE INFJ STRENGTHS

[@Wenzes]

What are some of your favorite INFJ strengths?

[@robin15092]

I sure would say detaching from reality. Being able to partly live in a alternatively constructed reality can feel pretty damn nice when you need it. But being an INFJ with autism, I think I might be entering this realm a bit too often, which can be a barrier for connection in real time. Also, beacause of my autism, strength 1 is actually not applicable to me. Sometimes misinterpreting body language is the reason for this. Can be a bit frustrating at times.

[@Braden_NTC]

Mentally resilient, been through a divorce and quitting my career and bouncing back from depression. Working on loving myself first right now.

[@johnmichaelrichards]

My ability to recognise BS when I encounter it.* [*I am not being monetised for this comment]

[@joyleencamiellegreene]

My strength is the ultimate power. Similar to a movie called Matrix… I can watch and read and listen to others with experience on a difficult skill like driving or target shooting, then imagine myself having that experience and I use the knowledge from others to create results in days that take others years. It’s not fake it till you make it it’s actually making it from experience of others

[@why55555]

Not letting other's opinions about me interrupt me from my purpose & moves in life or offend me because I can see where their personal issues are keeping them from seeing me clearly has been a fantastic blessing.

[@jendrikschmidt]

The only people who get mad are the ones who cant control you

[@thetruthspeaker1978]

And that's the truth ❤

[@Cee0215]

🎯

[@obadijahparks]

So... many people.

[@adammcallister9675]

They’re not people. They’re demons.

[@DearYoungerSelf111]

5 Strengths: 1:08 INFJs are aware of hidden agendas 4:06 INFJs are incredibly aware of trends 9:13 INFJs can make people feel seen 14:42 INFJs are incredible at detaching from reality 18:35 INFjs are incredibly mentally resilient

[@JB-gq9ed]

Thank you ❤

[@jessmason2112]

💯🎯

[@kacake]

Long term vision is non negotiable, short term is adjustable

[@nyidamarsagiri9300]

Thank you I love you ❤

[@AliseIam]

6: we love to get to the point w/out commercials

[@randymayer2903]

I was a homicide/SVU detective for 11 years and always had great success with my interviews without ever having attended an interview class. It all makes sense to me now!

[@johncohan.mosh.5403]

Not surprised randy we seem to spot bullshit a mile away Especially when street smart. Were great investigator I wasn't in law enforcement, but did such in similar fields my brothers in law enforcement also a seasoned detective/investigator.

[@jessmason2112]

You can smell murder a mile away. 💯

[@bumblebee_ms]

I'm impressed!!!

[@markshishnia520]

I want to start out by letting you know how your coaching for INFJ's has changed my life. My ISFP wife when she sees I am struggling will say, "You need to watch a Wenzes video" lol! My favorite strength (which I have learned so much about Here as well) is Intuition. I have had it all my life but only in the last couple of years have come to trust it like a fine tuned machine. Thank you Wenzes for all you do!!

[@PenelopePitstop0078]

Well said and I relate.

[@MENTALHEALTHWITHLUKE]

Resilience. When people think you're broken, you suddenly wake up and take em by surprise. Spotting agenda and flaws. The look on faces when you point them out. I love that feeling. Knowing exactly how it's going to pan out. Even when you tell them, they act surprised when it happens, but the strength in that is, we're not the type to say "I told you so". Feeling other people's pain. But knowing it's theirs. It's not ours to take to bed. Awareness. Noticing the neglected. Emotional intelligence. Knowing the difference between sympathy and empathy.

[@chetanbodapati9874]

It's as if we are the greatest limits to ourselves as we hide all our strengths by making ourselves invisible for others..

[@susanpauli3719]

To quote my daughters description of me....."to my mom who sees the good in everyone and the beauty in everything "...her understanding of me teared me right up....!

[@satyapriya6464]

I can understand how painful it is for both the mom and daughter

[@carolinekeane_05]

What a lovely thing for a daughter to say to her Mother-you must both be very close+what is so beautiful is that she recognises your true INFJ nature-too often in this World we are made to feel bad for being"too sensitive"-through Wenzes videos she has made me realise that this is a lovely character trait to have+not a weakness!-much love to you+all of my fellow INFJ's!😀👏🫂

[@susanpauli3719]

My daughter is an INFJ too...!!!

[@IndigoChild60360]

The first one saved me from the clutches of a covert narcissist. You are a brilliant life coach. ❤️💕❤️

[@O.NeilAl]

Can you, please, give some examples?

[@roberttrough6439]

Reading people. I choose who I want to help anymore. You know people need to learn and change bad habits on their own. I don’t feel compelled to jump in and fix stuff. I ask women do you want an answer or do you want me to listen? So great to say No now. Not being mean. Detaching from reality is such a relief especially in a crowded room. I don’t give a rip what other people think anymore. I’ll listen to them if I think their wrong then their wrong. Hahaha so relieving.

[@wilfredosaenz7755]

"Yes I agree to what you've said, the only people who get mad with me are the ones who can't control me and I know what is their true intention on me, they want me to join to them but I dis agree and rejected what they want, I have strong principle hold on to what is good and hate what evil and I believed there is God above the sky!"

[@Roltereen86]

5 UNBELIEVABLE INFJ STRENGTHS 1:04 STRENGTH #1 The INFJ is aware of hidden agendas 4:04 STRENGTH #2 INFJs are incredibly aware of trends 9:11 STRENGTH #3 INFJs can make people feel seen 14:36 STRENGTH #4 INFJs are incredible at detaching from reality 18:30 STRENGTH #5 The INFJ is incredibly mentally resilient

[@user-vd4sw8ww8n]

I popped out of trap after trap after trap the more I leveled up the more the traps , so I defeated the enemies and booked a Grey hound bus which I'am on now will be in Phoenix arizona in the morning! 3000 Mike jump!! New start new chapter ✨️ and left all behind and shut the doorr! Yahooo FREEDOM 🎉🎉🎉🎉

[@ashleylarsen5294]

I feel like I’ve grown with you Wenzes. It’s like you’re narrating my life the past year I’ve been listening to you. Thank you for speaking my mind and sharing it!

[@O.NeilAl]

This comment is for both: Wenzes and INFJ viewers. There is something more, above our personality. (I am an INFJ too) You associated intuition with recognizing patterns, trends, but it is not the same thing. We are always falling short when it comes to our visions/ideals. There is a way that brings us better results than we can imagine (and you know how good we are at imagining). I promise you. Take it as a contribution and not at all as criticism. I have been observing my life for years and I can guarantee that there is more. I asked in a separate comment about private video call. I am willing to offer you my knowledge and I would gladly pay for the session simply to support your wonderful work. Thank you

[@sterlingpg]

Agreed. Your comment immediately resonates with my own transcending awareness and abilities that are augmented by 'sigma infj' mind template.

[@bumblebee_ms]

My nickname is "THE PREDICTOR"...I've always had this ability. I see micro-expressions easily, and I love it. Well, this makes so much sense with the trends, I was a Fashion Designer for a long time and always wore things way before others. My friends always looked at what I wore so they could too.

[@Johnnyo1300]

Facial expression, it says more than words it doesn’t matter what’s coming out of somebody’s mouth if you watch their eyes and their mouth and don’t listen to the words, it doesn’t take long to figure out if they’re telling the truth or not whether they’re an old friend or a stranger it’s like playing poker. You know when to fold them and you know when to raise spot on again, young lady, me and the girls appreciate you 🐶😎🐶✌️

[@illssolution5720]

Because WHAT and HOW I am didn't make my parents feel important, I WAS never important. Just a source FOR them...therefore for all others...NOT ME. Until now! Thank you, Wenzes!

[@darlamerrill8052]

Trust is a big thing sometimes.

[@samwong108]

The external observation is that I have seen growth in myself and growth in Wenzesin the last year and a half. Coinencidence? Everything happens for a reason. Wenzes, thank you again and again and again.

[@debrarouse2794]

THANK YOU! Thanks to YOU...I finally understand myself...lol😀

[@TheWisdomOfTheAges_PsyM_Revd]

18:35 INFjs are incredibly mentally resilient This is sooo very true!! 14:42 INFJs are incredible at detaching from reality. This is soooooooo very true!! 13:52 since I neglected myself for others for decennials - this is how I was trained by my parents - then I decided to make a 180 degree shift many moons ago for the remaining decennials I have to live on this planet and the heck with whatever else for the simple reason that most people don't deserve anything from me. And it is not negotiable.

[@Mcky-lw1zb]

It's always nice to touch base with my INFJ cult.

[@elizarosalie15]

Wenzes is a gift for this world ♥♥♥you helped me so much by this video. I wasn't even aware of these strenghts existence ! And in no time, I made a huge, and remarkable improvement , because of your advices . THANK YOU SO MUCH ♥

[@Breeze2423]

Wow that strength #5 is sooo real I tried to hide this fact from myself...thank you for bringing this up for my conscious consumption...I prioritize myself to a point but then I realized that I do dim my light in ways to have that balance to be "equal" in those manners to others...i felt it makes me more relatable...but then at the same time I show my strength and it encourages others to step into theirs...thanks Wenzes!

[@laurie6644]

Thank you for helping build taking 'Action' and suggesting looking for 'Externally Observable Facts.'. I am using this and several of your other ideas.🎉

[@normallamaz2816]

How do you not feel guilty when you know what somebody's going to do and you don't help them? I find it so frustrating when I see the same patterns over and over and over and they don't change it.. It makes me want to beat my head against the wall.. I know ultimately we are all responsible for who we are and what we do but my friends are like yeah I know that you know but I'm still going to do it this way and I want to tear my hair out

[@angelalabauve9131]

It’s helping people who don’t really want to change that is the biggest frustration. We can see the long term solution but it’s not what they want. Sometimes I feel like a gimmick, or entertainment. They just want attention. The problem for us is that we see where they’re heading and want to save them from it. 😢 It’s all very draining for us especially when they cry about the outcome we tried to save them from. So now I know who really will listen and who won’t. I just can’t be available to those who won’t listen. It’s too hard on me, and they don’t care about the toll it takes.

[@salamand3r__]

Thank you for continuing to share your gift and inspiring other INFJs to do the same 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽❤

[@Tified967]

Hold onto that Fi authority vision folks but don't forget to maintain a critical mind & engage with this content critically ESFPs 😊. It's a misnomer Se doms have a lot of physical agency as Wenzes states; no NiFi subtypes don't as much but Wenzes energy is very clear in this video.

[@adammcallister9675]

I read souls. And it freaks people out that do not want to be seen.

[@food4444lyfe]

No.1 is actually kinda scary and causes a ton of anxiety.... 😭😭😭

[@ssummers9541]

Only the truth can set you free!

[@JuvilleSB]

High value , integrity

[@ChelleLlewes]

I identify with everything except the guilt. I don't do guilt. Not for decades.

[@PenelopePitstop0078]

Definitely pattern recognition and intuition.

[@5nixie]

Not putting in action the strengths, especially, the trends, has really cost me a lot in the past... not any more...

[@darlamerrill8052]

Sometimes because of this ,allowing people to be seen makes me not always trust what the other person is really doing.

[@denvercolorado811]

I just give you likes

[@paulh6949]

1:11 pm xo

[@matef2010]

I have INFJ personality

[@matef2010]

You are a great person

[@yogassima576]

So informative. Powerful stuff 💯💯💯💯💯💯💯

[@Clevelandsteamer324]

Really good at poker

[@matef2010]

Thanks for sharing information

[@just_exo02]

Sometimes i don't like being myself or being a INFJ.

[@matef2010]

Thanks for your advices, you are so awesome

[@nyidamarsagiri9300]

Loooove looovein this .... Thank you wenzes ❤

[@BabyBoomersDoomer]

The great skill I ever learned was body language

[@nicolezlateff3740]

Thanks!

[@kababudas4157]

Yada yada hi dharmasya , ( bagavath Geetha )

[@juliusmuhumuza3018]

I love you wenzi

[@Bl636_]

New follower and Thank you so much for this content 🙏🏻❤️

[@amyj.4992]

If you do some weird shit, I will pick up on it. Especially, if it's outside of your typical and normal routine.

[@amyj.4992]

Thank you for pointing out, how this isn't an esoteric thing

[@amyj.4992]

It's natural for us

[@amyj.4992]

Most people have not been willing, even with my consistent attempts of expressing myself. Certain people are allowed access to me, and some are not. And some, I take breaks from

[@amyj.4992]

Awww my black girl magic mother, was my INFJ coach unintentionally then. Growing up with her neurodivergent self

[@amyj.4992]

Oh no.4 is definitely the one that resonates the heaviest

[@johnmichaelrichards]

Each time, another five this or five the other that INFJs may be good or bad at and which might equally apply to any of the other 15 Myers-Briggs Type Indicators. I do not let my disabilities or Myers-Briggs classification define me. I get on with being me and leading my life.

[@chiefbeef5590]

Did you say equally applies to all other personality types? this how I know either you are unintelligent or just very ignorant

[@Infinitesimal-ho7it]

This channel has more to do with how people react to INFJs, which happens to often be negative because we tend to see things they don't think are seen.

[@ronnie_mukherjee]

Pattern recognition and intuition absolutely do not apply equally to the other types

[@Tified967]

We're all pattern recognition machines all of the cognitive functions are predicated on it. With regards the actual cognitive INFJ NiTi pertains to conceptual cerebral pattern recognition not as Wenzes describes pertaining to people; INFJs are logically, and yes from Carl Jung himself, not emotionally predictive. Intuition is not how Wenzes would describe it as gut instinct that's in fact her NiFi divergent ESFP pairing speaking...Ni is simply the macroscopic perception of internally perceived reality. In order to ascertain your true cognitive type & move beyond a pop psychology understanding I'd highly recommend checking out Jung's original work & Cognitive Personality Theory. Wenzes is espousing pseudoscience as per usual. ESFPs can have a well integrated Ni contingent upon the fluidity of their axis & extensive cognitive development. Wenzes Se-Te is very evident in her level of attunement to the actual context & being highly attuned to her target audience.

[@Tified967]

Ps the last comment was not a response to you & I applaud your Fi authority for your singularity of a response it's refreshing to see someone actually critically engaging with the content for a change. The reason most people on here relate to the content is because Wenzes describes ubiquitous behaviours that are applicable to 1 in 5 people and people of a similar ESFP cognition (of course there's a lot of intratype variation). The content is certainly NOT predicated on Jungs work however.

[@elkape1841]

I already told some people: If we continue close, we are going to start a war, so I do preffer to get appart to keep peace... The answer is "nono, all is ok! keep by my side!!" but later I have to force the other to door slam me because to protect myself I just have to rip the liar's mask from his face... But behind the mask there is no face, but another mask!! Anyway, Im not doorlamming, is the other who spill blood!! The worst thing is watching the other's masks ripping appart, but not bleeding at all since is unable to feel any pain over that fake personality! This way is the other who doorslam for me, then I dont spill any wine. Sorry but that way im not feeling guilty, but lot of pain, but I may keep forward in pain! But the liar cannot recover from that, since all lies are weaknesses since nobody may lie forever.

[@infjthoughts8861]

❤❤❤

[@wilfredosaenz7755]

"I know what going on around me, and I know what types of people around me so I'm aware of them because I don't understand why their behaviour are not good towards me even though I treat them good. This situation inflict me pain and heart ache that's why I end showing kind for them if they bullied me I bullied them also that's what happened since the very start untill now. Speaking of direct confrontation I think is not good because I tried that but the consequence is big trouble.Now I'm looking another option how to stop them in gentle and good way!"

[@mansiarora996]

Insightful video. Can you make content on infj LGBTQIA’s? Their unique struggles and strengths.

[@GODHATESADOPTION]

Delusion is a weakness

[@O.NeilAl]

Hi! Where do I find info about private sessions?

[@themountainsandthesea4121]

❤

[@alfabethev2.074]

Well, how about if it's the other way around ? and people are afraid of you ?

[@jendrikschmidt]

illusions

[@everything_from_cartoon]

Why do I have all of infj weakness but no strength?

[@mridulaism]

😍

[@chrislim7976]

Yeah we can read people. And its depressing.

[@rudysdream]

THEN, We Should Be Able to invest in Trendy / ideas Right? (i am / we should be able to be rich bc of our pattern recognition ) What is stopping us?

[@GODHATESADOPTION]

Gamestonk

[@CelesteL]

What does INFJ acronym stand for? 💡Suggestion: It'd be helpful for all knowing it from the start. Thank you.

[@bingbong7316]

Google "16 personalities".

[@maritrasmussen9023]

These videos are obviously for people with basic knowledge of infj.

[@Tified967]

Loved how my most damning & NiTi predicated comment got deleted 😂. Duh we're all pattern recognition machines that's the nature of, you know, cognition which yes, we all have. No doubt this was pulled from some novice comment off Quora or Reddit. If ya like 'yes, yes, yes wow Wenzes gets me in a way I never understood' that's unconscious NiTi, congratulations you're an ESFP, no shame in that. When Ni isn't fully integrated the ESFP has a tendency to believing all kinds of pseudoscience & conspiracy theories. Seriously my head hurts it's like bashing my head against a brick wall trying to get through to people that dining refuse to think for themselves or consult trusted academic legitimate sources. Dear Lord most people can read peoples complex motivations it's called, you know, being human no cognitive type has the monopoly on this although I'd push some to shove state that the ESTP has the most natural aptitude given their NiTi divergence/matrix simulations. Noooo the INFJ is not best at applying pattern recognition to emotional states, NiTi remember not NiFi!!! No how you described intuition is gut instinct - that's your ESFP SiTi dip function. Trends to move forward & utilising a skills set - clearly convergent SeTe.

[@bingbong7316]

"trusted academic legitimate sources" are rare. A lot of people trust Fauci, but in reality, he's projecting.

[@kgtramp5904]

Not sure im believing all this....i was told i was an infj from a briggs Myers test...as i listen to this woman talk saying we should do this and we should do that....she aint an infj...she talks too much

[@radhey_87]

what are you doing here?then

[@YaisaRivas]

She’s making a video so she has to talk 🤷🏻‍♀️

[@kgtramp5904]

Who is y'all??? I'm here looking for answers...not doctors...why is this person romanticizing an obvious personally defect

[@Tified967]

She's a cognitive INFJ. If you want to see a real cognitive INFJ watch Michael Pierce or Harry from CPT - the true NiTi abstract conceptualises; it's not the fact she talks to much but rather her cognition does not align with that of an INFJ given her very novice understanding of typology. Tests are invalid as they're predicated on ubiquitous behavioural stereotypes and suspect descriptions of the cognitive functions. She's way to SeTe present to be an INFJ however; there are certain vultological signs that can be used as an adjunctive...as a typologist I'd say she's an ESFP

[@user-bl8pj9gi5e]

Maybe you are the infj that's why it doesn't resonate, perhaps mistype.

[@tanjabelegisanin6156]

Hvala za javni zločin prema meni, da bih znala da ste ludaci koji verovatno su i tajni zločinci.

[@Joohee4]

Your videos are transformational for me, thank you ❤

[@everything_from_cartoon]

Why do I have all of infj weakness but no strength?

[@everything_from_cartoon]

Why do I have all of infj weakness but no strength?

[@everything_from_cartoon]

Why do I have all of infj weakness but no strength?

[@laurie6644]

Like Repetitiveness... Like Repeating one's self... Like saying things over & over?