The worst thing is that it's not seen as a serious addiction
@daftchunk_ Жыл бұрын
it is probably the most addictive thing out there besides nicotine and crack cocaine.
@matejmotuz108 Жыл бұрын
@@daftchunk_ on par with sugar
@leonardijeanpierre6438 Жыл бұрын
@@matejmotuz108 it’s far more easy to quit processed sugar then fap/pron since you can just not buy sugary expenses when shopping, but pron is directly on the device you use for work, talking to friends, informing yourself, etc.
@Denmosocial Жыл бұрын
it is bro
@TheVladacar Жыл бұрын
@@matejmotuz108 I actually managed to quit eating sugar, didn't eat anything sweet for 5 years now and don't even feel like it. Everyone knows how hard that is cause sugar is also addictive af but it doesn't even come close to fapping, I've tried many times and failed each and every time, I get on a couple months streak and come to the point where I think about sex literally 24/7, see nothing but sex in girls I see both online and in real life with the ungodly amount of horniness that wouldn't go away unless I fap so no, sugar doesn't come close to pron and fapping
@nathanm2993 Жыл бұрын
I can attest to the “porn makes you weird” thing. Instead of facing my fears in middle school and asking that girl out, I discovered porn. I’ve tried to get out of it (went 150 days on nofap) but I just feel so disconnected from normal people and society after eight years of this shit. Porn is the only intimacy I’ve ever known and I just can’t build myself into the man that would attract the woman I desire. I feel lost at this point.
@geralt4101 Жыл бұрын
You just probably think to much and do nothing. Just go out and practice whatever you want. If mistakes happen then learn from it. Dont try to be like move character that never fails. It wont work that way. Instead go and do dumbest things. People will care like 10-30 seconds maybe and then they wont care for the rest of their life
@bradastra6111 Жыл бұрын
@@geralt4101 agree. and nath go 150 days with no fap it aint good at all. just cut off the porn, you dont need it to masturbate, well at least i dont. use your head. dude sex first time/times is supposed to wierd, just talk with who every you with. just go for it, when you can, and forget how you performing!
@JG20204 Жыл бұрын
Step away from intimacy as a whole. If you are using porn that much, it’s a sign that something is going on mentally. Focus on what causes you to use it ( iE: feelings of loneliness, anger). That’s part of self improvement. When you deal with your mind and the filth and pain that comes from it, you defeat the porn at its source. Moreover, focus on building habits that are positive. Learn to journal when u feel negative. Learn to sit with those uncomfortable feelings. Learn to workout. Pray for guidance. Strive to be better. Take care of things the self development and you will see that you slowly are getting your power back.
@blinkwin Жыл бұрын
go pound hookers at first, this might sound.... but you will have more confidence after you get real pussy, and will eventualy get you a GF, also dont make a habbit out of this, it's also not good, but at least is the real deal.
@goldenwraft5362 Жыл бұрын
First thing is that everything that is built in the current climate is made to make us addicted to it, the most common one is porn, to get rid of the addiction completely, you should cut of the source, and that is the Internet. Most of our problems come from the internet and our solutions, but cut off both and you have no problem that needs solving. Get off your arse and get that chick, if she is taken go for her sister LOL. But seriously
@willolol3353 Жыл бұрын
6. It can kill a current fulfilling relationship with the girl you have right now
@geralt4101 Жыл бұрын
yeah, especially when you cant get hard with your gf. It makes her feel bad asf
@Yeshua_is-Cool Жыл бұрын
Haha jokes on you I don't have one
@ip96.7.21 Жыл бұрын
If you jerk off while in a relationship you are just a loser and you need serious immediate help
@Denmosocial Жыл бұрын
missed this one lmao
@tentaplayz3691 Жыл бұрын
@@BossGucci-uv4qb BRUH😭😭
@jasonbracamontes5169 ай бұрын
I broke my addiction ✊🏻✊🏼✊🏽✊🏾✊🏿
@lemarmoda1816 Жыл бұрын
I’m 7 months no fap & it’s been actually life changing. Stay strong brothers 🤙🏾
@landonion19 Жыл бұрын
help please how i actually need help and its sad and i know it but like i cant stop
@ahem4969 Жыл бұрын
@@landonion19 just don’t think about it seems simple but it helps
@ooooo799 Жыл бұрын
@@landonion19 Understand that temporary pleasure will always lead to long-term pain
@brianle562 Жыл бұрын
@@landonion19 go to the gym and work out to replace it, u have to start somewhere to begin
@methodz5982 Жыл бұрын
@@landonion19 when i have the urge to masturbate I just play games to avoid it
@CuriousSloth Жыл бұрын
feels so good to watch a video like this after being porn free for so long now. Really can be a horrible addiction.
@Denmosocial Жыл бұрын
my man
@expressclasses2910 Жыл бұрын
How to get rid of porn ? 😢
@Mr_Nixi Жыл бұрын
@@expressclasses2910 are you Christian?
@HristinaNicole Жыл бұрын
@@expressclasses2910 change it with a good habit. Like at times you used to watch porn go for a walk
@MyBallzInYourJaws Жыл бұрын
@@expressclasses2910 Just stop it man, slap yo face if you decide to open your browsers. Make some plans for training your body and mind. It's easy, you just have to make it happen.
@dillonc7955 Жыл бұрын
As someone who used to be addicted to pron at one point, befriending the girls who look like the pronstars but are actually wholesome friends to have is an absolute win.
@fogdood6868 Жыл бұрын
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@nocapnobs7845 Жыл бұрын
I bet that sounded good in your head.
@Denmosocial Жыл бұрын
bruh what this comment confusing af
@lelele1408 Жыл бұрын
@@nocapnobs7845omg fr💀 what typa comment even is that
@KleWdSide Жыл бұрын
So, you quit porn in exchange to be in the friendzone all the time? Fascinating.
@daniell7198 Жыл бұрын
Mad respect for this guy making a video where I feel like a homie is talking to me, not some jake that's talking like he's better than me or a scientist. And the discord accountability?? This is inspiring and actually helping. Thank you
@jasonshih3633 Жыл бұрын
Been quitting porn since 2021, and I finally got a 6month streak, but acicdentally broke it a 3 months ago, h, so I gotta get back. For my English essay, I decided to write about why pornography is harmful and bad, and man, the guys in my class were shocked to say. Most ppl wrote about LGBTQ rights and crap, but I wrote about smth nobody would ever want to write about.
@coollittlebinch4689 Жыл бұрын
Wow that would be an awkward presentation... but good for u☺
@sushitrash-dj9vq Жыл бұрын
Essay about LGBTQ rights is something I never expect students to write
@jasonshih3633 Жыл бұрын
@@sushitrash-dj9vq its a pretty common topic to write about in college
@cpt_lando6292 Жыл бұрын
@@jasonshih3633 college makes sense. Most colleges are so cucked now and that’s all they care about
@NonSpiceyBeans Жыл бұрын
@@sushitrash-dj9vq they can get extra credit for writing about the “current popular thing”
@geralt4101 Жыл бұрын
Defeated massive urges today. My tip that i think is nr 1 to win with PMO is being mindful of everything you do in your life. When i feel urges and at same time my conscious brain knows exactly what is going on, then im never gonna do it. Practice meditation mindfulness and do less brainless activities like swiping apps and binge wathing videos. Then brain naturally rewires to be more mindful.
@Denmosocial Жыл бұрын
good man
@ac.4420 Жыл бұрын
It's such a good feeling when a denmo video no longer applies to you because you've been putting in work 💪
@BluegrassBriar Жыл бұрын
Atta boy
@Denmosocial Жыл бұрын
god bless
@dylanwatts8818 Жыл бұрын
Same feeling here bro 💪 keep it up
@lookinlikegeo1825 Жыл бұрын
Im a week n a half in, no fap not sure i can go longer than 2 months at a time but def gonna keep the frequency down 🫡
@PurpAddict Жыл бұрын
don't let him get to you brother, do what ur heart desires
@superdupper1211 ай бұрын
After a 15 year porn addiction, I was Blessed and saved by Jesus Christ, and he helped me break the porn chains, and I've been free for over 60 days, I fight my cravings by faith and prayer, and in his mighty name I will never go back to porn, until i parish and die. For an ex porn addict like me, what i find to be the hardest and most difficult part to overcome when we talk about porn, is the simple fact that it's a negative and bad practice that you have with you 24 hours per day, it's just always there if you don't have your thoughts straight and in the right way, you fail and fail again and again into an infinite loop! Looking back 15 years has been forever long of constant habitual porn in my life, 3-4 days per week, 2-3 times per day. It's not easy, but you will find your strength with faith in Jesus Christ, let him help you obliterate that sin in your life!!!!! So you may never again do it again.
@The1stPresidentWashington Жыл бұрын
8 months no porn, I completely leveled up my body and improved everything. I guess I started watching after this girl I liked rejected me, but after a few weeks I realized that this is not right. After I quit in October, I started working out at home and I am no longer fat and even a girl flirts with me everyday. Keep your head up brothers!
@xxxxtentacion9931 Жыл бұрын
reply when you get a gf
@hurtheworld Жыл бұрын
"We are all going to make it"
@paromita_ghosh Жыл бұрын
I think you shouldnt actually aspire gf everytime
@paromita_ghosh Жыл бұрын
@@xxxxtentacion9931I think you shouldnt actually aspire gf everytime
@Skyrdt Жыл бұрын
Whot? How do girls flirt you EVERY SINGLE DAY?
@xxczerxx Жыл бұрын
My big one is that it DEFINITELY causes a general anxiety. I think it's a subconscious shame about doing something a bit degenerate, mixed with something more physiological, but I can categorically say I don't feel anxiety when I do nofap.
@sacrilegiousboi978 Жыл бұрын
Frequent PMO *in some people* causes excessive histamine release as well as other immune, hormonal and neurobiochemical changes that can contribute to anxiousness and other things like low mood and energy. Frequent orgasm/ejaculation is a stress on the body and some are more sensitive/affected by it. Abstaining for long periods of time will allow your body to focus more resources on regeneration, healing and health which in turn makes many people feel more confident, happy and grounded.
@العقيدمعمرالقذافي-ح4ف Жыл бұрын
do you still feel the same knowing literally everyone is doing it ?
@stevekook-xw3is Жыл бұрын
@@sacrilegiousboi978 The almost endless army of soldjas getting wasted in socks after all. Doing the real deal is vastly more satisfying and for a period of time there is a feeling of no desire to fap again.
@henrykite-lk3mx Жыл бұрын
So there is hope 😢 I have massive anxiety and I Fucken hate it
@ShadowBotboi Жыл бұрын
Nah bruh thats just u 😂
@philoni5368 Жыл бұрын
Use me as an "I didn't fap today" button
@Channysupreme Жыл бұрын
It was a wet dream dude so idk
@RealHomeRecording Жыл бұрын
@@Channysupreme that doesn't count, you're good.
@kidenigma1400 Жыл бұрын
1 week strong💪🏾
@reformed_attempt_1 Жыл бұрын
@@Channysupreme well, did you fap? It's a simple yes or no question
@HAMRADIO-w3g Жыл бұрын
I am about to fap.
@bertugali Жыл бұрын
I quit today. I'm 14. It's awful. I lied to myself for the first couple months, but after that, I hated myself whenever I did it. I could've done better, I said to myself everytime. I'm happy I took this decision today and not years later. Wish me luck. May God be with you for reading this.
@michaelmmyers4943 Жыл бұрын
Practice meditation, sit down quietly, close your eyes and don’t respond to your brain you just want to let your thoughts flow, focus on the breath if your mind wander lightly focus back on the breath it’ll build up will power to fight against urges and there’s a point you don’t really feel urges. And your 14 you have plenty of time, at least you admit you have a problem
@michaelmmyers4943 Жыл бұрын
There’s guys that’s forever watch porn for the rest of they life because how addicted they are, you on the Right step.
@suppotaalasmaa4675 ай бұрын
Please quit early i was addicted since 2017 i was 11 then now im 18
@jsewell26 Жыл бұрын
I had a porn addiction all through high school and most of college. Fortunately because of my mentors in my life as well as focusing more on college, I was healed and eventually learned how to build intimate relationships again. I was able to be married a few weeks ago. I thought once I got married that my temptation of porn would be over. It does NOT end there. Always be on guard and never give in. Listen to music, find a good book, or meditate. If that doesn't help, reach out to someone you trust. It's nearly impossible to do this on your own. Good luck gentleman. May you find peace in breaking the "unbreakable" cycle.
@nsplay1574 Жыл бұрын
I'll do it by myself 😈
@shxtgunsxnny8886 Жыл бұрын
I thought marriage would do that too lol.
@ichangedmyusernamebecausei2551 Жыл бұрын
I used to be very addicted. But luckily this year I’ve been able to go 2-3 weeks without doing it again at least 1-2 times and then stopping. It was really hard for me. Girls at my college wear skin tight clothes revealing their body. Same thing at the gym. And sometimes when I’m scrolling through Instagram and Snapchat, the same things happen. Even in video games. Girls post pictures of themselves showing off their body which really messes with my mind. But I’ve gotten it under more control. I remind myself that this is a normal part of society now and I just have to deal with it. Also that whenever I play with myself, I’m gonna make a mess and have to clean after myself which can be a nuance at times. Whenever I get the urge, I just put on some music or grab my headphones and go outside right away and buy myself a latte and take a long walk while listening to music or a podcast. I know I’ll permanently stop one day. Hopefully within this year or by next since I made major improvements. My goodness with the amount of times I’ve done it throughout my life, I could repopulate a small country
@JC.-.999 Жыл бұрын
I’m also addicted to Pron, haven’t been able to stop, longest I’ve gone is….2 weeks 😅 the urges are so strong, the worst part is that it’s so easy to access, it’s free, and you have the device with you every single day, I also go to the gym, and woman be having crop top shirts and skin tight shorts, it’s so hard not to lust, I want to stop, it’s gotten so bad to the point where I can’t go through a single week without doing it, probably almost everyday. It sucks… I need help, I need God to help me get away from this sin
@UltimateD755 Жыл бұрын
I can’t stop
@stevekook-xw3is Жыл бұрын
@@JC.-.999 Try lowering the level from vids to just pictures and then just under shower. The psychological urge diminishes and is far less when u do it under shower since there has been no proper stimulation but whatever I may imagine in my mind.
@tarot1919 Жыл бұрын
You are blaming your natural attraction to woman on porn. Have trying to suppress your natural hormones and feelings for woman and being an emotionless husk
@eirikhalvorsen_volvo Жыл бұрын
@@JC.-.999 I will pray for you brother. I have the kinda same problem. I was addicted for over 2 years, kinda quitted now, but still get tempted sometimes😢 Its so hard cuz I want to be a Christian, pron addiction should be more talked about ngl. Good luck everyone ❤❤
@xavsthoughts Жыл бұрын
As a former addict i can say there are no good feeling after watching porn it makes u feel bad about your existence u promise yourself your gonna stop and you come right back to it. It tortures you mentally and hurts your well being thank u for this video. You have my utmost respect.
@waiz0231 Жыл бұрын
Sounds exactly like coke comedown 😅
@Whitestone2785 Жыл бұрын
I was affected by p0rn around the ages of 13 and 15, it affected me my dad and mom but not my family because they don't know. My mom beat me because I don't know any better but I still kept doing it over and over and over and over again because I don't know any better but after school ended, on my vacation I told my mom that I did again and she wasn't Angry and didn't beat me but talked to me of how I was standing too much time on my phone and because of it I was doing these things over and over and over again and she told me that maybe it's best to put your phone down and go outside and Take a walk for a while and after it happened it worked. So my friends if you are affected to p0rn and it's affected you and your family or your gf, just put anything down and go Touch some grass or walk around to see the blue sky. Please my follow men, stay strong. Love your friends and family with all of your heart and have a good day.
@joemade7071 Жыл бұрын
Stay strong my brothers! Currently 20 days clean and still struggling to cast the hub demon out but everyday that I don’t succumb to my lizard brain I feel better and less hardwired to my disgusting ways. Sincerely praying for those of you still digging your way out of the whole.
@rewriter789 Жыл бұрын
5 days in doing amazing also this my fourth attemped to quit
@bIlybounce Жыл бұрын
7 days in rn 😂
@talhanasir8679 Жыл бұрын
4 months clean🙂
@rewriter789 Жыл бұрын
Im not doing so well now
@maratonlegendelenemirei3352 Жыл бұрын
@@rewriter789 Spend as much time with your Mum and sister. That should make it less convenient to spank one off?
@twowheelmowgli4222 Жыл бұрын
This video is so true, Im 18 years old and haven't watched porn since 2 years, Trust jack guys, it really makes you look at women in a different light, and doesn't make you put women on a pedestal
@Bluzian74 Жыл бұрын
But if they're not on a pedestal, why on earth would they even be remotely worth screwing? Im 48, and have been jerking off to porn for... oh geez... 36+ years. Porn is way better than sex. Why fuck girls if you don't have to? I've had plenty of sex with lots of different women, but, it's NEVER as exhilarating as porn. Screwing women is like duty, or taking out the trash or scrubbing the cat litter pan. You do it because she' a bitch if you don't. Personally, cutting the grass or washing the car is way better than sex. To be sure. Good luck dude.
@renttojo Жыл бұрын
ngl i never really put nothing on a pedestal unless it has value to me the only women of value in my life is my mom and its cuz she raised me and took care of me and usually unless i really like something its not on a pedestal
@Sgregory22 Жыл бұрын
I think the problem with these types of videos is that they try to get people to stop watching porn by telling them that if they do, they're going to go out into the world and have all the sex they want... when that shouldn't be the motivation to do it. Casual sex is ego masturbation, because you are doing it with a real person, but it is totally insignificant. Is like taking the addiction to another level. In my experience, stopping watching porn and compulsively masturbating is just the first step, getting past the idea that unrestrained sex is an ideal and focusing on building truly meaningful relationships with women who are genuinely important to us should be the real goal. Keep up the hard work guys and stay strong!
@FryedCat0 Жыл бұрын
like how God designed sex to be within marriage
@kyran7565 Жыл бұрын
jack my man definitely resonate with this message. i first discovered porn and masterbation when i was 11 shortly after my parents divorce. i do think it can cause people to be complacent and among other things plays apart in self isolation. i’m going to go deep here. my stepdad was molested as a child. as a result he has developed a sex addiction. he attends SA meetings 3x a week and is often reading about sex addiction. he has a lot of insecurity stemming from childhood and also being teased as he had a brain tumour and it is noticeable on his head. he lets little things bother him and takes critical easily for example my family could be talking about some random thing (not him) and he overhears and asks ‘what are you guys saying about me’ but through SA he’s been able to mitigate this problem it’s been easier to be around him as he’s less triggered through his life which makes him more happy. it has been a meaningful journey for him and i’m proud of him. anyways, i haven’t had a relationship with my biological dad since 2017 i by my own choice stopped seeing him when i was 16. he has an alcohol addiction. through my short life i have really seen the dangers of suppression and addiction. i think my biological dad suppresses alot of his childhood feelings with alcohol. he was also sexually molested as a kid and physically abused by his father. my dad’s side of the family is built on secrets, lies, and suppression. which i’ve learned just like addiction gradually destroys you. that’s why unfortunately i don’t have a relationship with them currently. i discuss this through therapy twice a week and am working on myself. i care for my dads side of the family i wish them all the best and hope they can learn not to suppress things in a way that’s comfortable for them. i have seen the dangers of addiction through my life and feel like i moderately struggle with porn and masterbarion addiction. but i don’t know. i don’t want to let things in life control me though which is why i haven’t watched porn since early february. i also recently began a 30 day NoFap challenge and am on day 6. i’m only 22 but i believe moderation is key but i don’t want to let things consume me i’m open to being able to enjoy porn in moderation in the future but i’ve lost a lot of interest in it through this journey. thanks for all the content you make i can tell you’re grinding hopefully this resonates with someone in some way.
@101CssGamer Жыл бұрын
thanks for sharing bro. Keep on the good work, you are appreciated ♥
@Sc9cvsd Жыл бұрын
I'm not sure how many guys can enjoy pron in moderation. Maybe some can but most cant. I think girls can but they are wired different. I'm guessing its between alcohol and heroin. Many if not most can enjoy alcohol in moderation. Few probably none could enjoy something like meth or heroin in moderation, too addictive maybe like 1% of people could. I'm guessing pron is between where most cant but probably 10-20% can
@kyran7565 Жыл бұрын
@@Sc9cvsd OP here, currently on day 15 of a 30 day nofap challenge. I would classify my porn usage as moderate addiction. Haven't watched porn since early feb and past 15 days no masterbation either. Previously, when masterbating i'd say it was about 50/50 with or without porn. I don't feel like my withdrawls since February have been too substansial, between early feb and when i started nofap masterbating without porn was just as pleasurable if not more pleasurable than with porn. Withdrawls from porn aren't substansial but I do think it's something that I gradually noticed disincentivized me to put more effort into the dating area of my life. since it did negatively effect an area of my life I consider it a moderate addiction. I have lost interest in porn big time since Feb. I think I have a long-term mindset and knowing how it has been and has potential to be consequential long-term it's like why bother even if I could watch it in moderation. Never been a gambler I have probably spent around $100 total in my life on sports betting. but I remember last year I was putting in just a $5 ticket every week on NFL. you can box up to 4 games for $80. (e.g. if you box Packers vs. Colts then no matter who wins you get that one right) I never actually boxed anything for $80 a ticket but did write in my phone what I would hypothetically box for a few weeks that year. 4 weeks straight I didn't hypotethically box green bay. I felt confident they'd win 4 weeks straight and they lost 4 weeks straight. While I never put in $80 just seeing that I was like if i was to do that it'd be $320 down the toilet. I saw there was potential danger there since I was thinking about boxing so I just stopped gambling even $5 tickets altogether. In both cases I realized that while this can be fine in moderation it can be addictive so I choose not to even expose myself to that risk. Hope that makes sense!
@keton-ex9fp Жыл бұрын
Good but I ain't reading allat
@Maximillian_04 Жыл бұрын
I went on no fap for 3 months and I finally got past plateaus in the gym as well as progression in my social life, I then knew straight away that this addiction was the only thing holding me back
@fabulous9502 Жыл бұрын
its not about not jerking off, its about jerking off to pron. if u cannot masturbate without porn, then u know u got a problem. jerking off once a week to ur "imagination" is totally fine and doesnt kill ur testosteron
@tintakur9686 Жыл бұрын
I quit porn 10 months ago, and I didn't fap 8 months. I feel amazing, and everyone needs to do that.
@ueztwvfdsffyx Жыл бұрын
in what way do u feel amazing? :)
@AMAli-ct5df Жыл бұрын
Share bro
@moahmedosama3147 Жыл бұрын
How
@AMAli-ct5df Жыл бұрын
@@moahmedosama3147 never giving uo
@vtggas_2958 Жыл бұрын
Are you still no?
@fishb0y-i3v Жыл бұрын
I love your channel bro it helps and educates people in a understanding way. Today was the first day of school and I asked a girl for her insta she said she had a boyfriend but it surprisingly wasn't that bad. I now feel good after stopping its a life changer. hang in there brothers 🙏
@stranger2035 Жыл бұрын
Imagine shaking someone's hand and then telling them :"this is the same hand that has faced over 500 loads"
@rixyz7013 Жыл бұрын
Man I’m stoned rn, saw this in my recommended. I’m not compulsive about masturbation, it happens maybe one time a week if I’ve had a rough day at work. Video is super good, you made me laugh a lot, the little jokes and stuff. I don’t normally get many girls anymore because I’m still tryna get over my ex from 5 years ago, she messed me up bad mentally. I subbed, this video was entertaining lol
@AKfromNY_ Жыл бұрын
bro 5 years???? she forgot about you after 6 months bro move tf on , im sayin this out of love
@rixyz7013 Жыл бұрын
@@AKfromNY_ i think I’ve already tried moving on, it’s been 5 years. Better off single
@guhadabdulghani8695 Жыл бұрын
@@rixyz7013 bro there is always a better woman out their go get yourself a nice girl not one of these hoes
@BigLezz Жыл бұрын
@@rixyz7013 Bro, self improve your ego got bruised and now you gotta fill the void with self love. Heartbreak is mostly ego damage for men. Trust me I've been through it twice second time was over a 3 year relationship i'm only a month in and already starting to feel good. That's because I've focused on the root issue my ego. That's what you gotta go after. Buy some fresh clothes hit the gym get some sunlight hang out with old buddies stay moving!
@zaydkhfr Жыл бұрын
No cap I was just about to fuck up. Thanks for this video. 31 days strong and I promise I’m not going back.
@thevoid7248 Жыл бұрын
Discover pron 16 years ago at age six, the past 3 years I’ve slowed down watching it a lot. I have a lot more confidence in myself and have no problem approaching or talking to anyone anymore. I wish I quit sooner
@musikinspace Жыл бұрын
"Naked chicks" was literally what I looked up first time I had Google all to myself
@elvararchfeld9734 Жыл бұрын
This video was very eye opening for me and I thank you for this. Watching the first minute of this has confirmed to me beyond a shadow of a doubt that I do not have a porn addiction.
@Denmosocial Жыл бұрын
glad it helped bro
@suhrab7123 Жыл бұрын
I really appreciate your supportive videos and the way you are explaining them.
@mr.finesser6303 Жыл бұрын
Everytime I get the urge I come back to this video so far my self control has improved thanks to your content
@Denmosocial Жыл бұрын
good man always come back for the same message
@thughunter3728 Жыл бұрын
I feel like porn is a insecurity. Like, if you have something to hide and you're insecure about it outside thats whats damaging you. When you quit you don't worry about that crazy insecurity anymore and have a increase in confidence. That's the simple way I always believed in and i'm doing good for myself
@Slick_Shot_Sam Жыл бұрын
This was a difficult video to get through but I was still able to rub one out. Good content!
@saintkevinofficial Жыл бұрын
😂😂😂same
@IIIISai Жыл бұрын
wtf
@corbinmiles5677 Жыл бұрын
Rope gang
@Denmosocial Жыл бұрын
lmao
@laszlonagy02 Жыл бұрын
nice
@Zeka_KNN11 ай бұрын
This man is telling everything right, it's been 1 month since I left those things, I can tell you it's going well, it's getting better meeting people in general, I don't have a girlfriend yet, but I have female friends, which is also great... Listen to this man, the internet is not reality, stay strong, I believe in you 💪🏻
@Itsmattwong Жыл бұрын
“Guys like me are clapping your future girlfriend’s cheeks” I died bro 😂😂
@Son.1 Жыл бұрын
This is like a new drug and nobody really knows how horrendous all of us are gonna end up
@username9210 Жыл бұрын
All the benefits of nofap start to show up after 3-4 months of practice, but I can say that it's worth the price, it completely changes your behavior and really reduces your anxiety a lot. It`s hard path, but you don`t have any other ways to deal with this addction.
@timothorydev5924 Жыл бұрын
I’m 15 right now, and I do have a porn issue I’ve been had one since about 10-11 this video helped me realize I need to stop so thank you truly for making this video for many young men like me, now every time I get bricked up its 10 push ups. Imma get my skinny body in shape and take of my self. See y’all when I hit real progress cuz I’m just gonna start 🙏
@amqs6273 Жыл бұрын
If u rly wanna quit, read easypeasy method and u good to go bro, helped me quit without willpower fr
@Demomanteamfortress Жыл бұрын
make it 20 and youll really be dedicated
@mylifeisover493 Жыл бұрын
Stop now please
@samox5471 Жыл бұрын
@@amqs6273Bro you literally changed my life with this advice. THANKS
@badboyquinn9947 Жыл бұрын
@timothorydev5924 very motivational 👏
@Goldrush452 Жыл бұрын
I didnt search for this but it came up as reccomended. I'm so glad this came up though cuz ive been clean for a bit now and everything he said is so fucken true. From being a loser to now being Regional competitor for my school tournaments, using that time now to get in the best shape of my life, and actually approaching more girls and pulling more of them too. Thanks for doing gods work and exposing the devils work. Amen to you Brotha❤
@ADMICKEY Жыл бұрын
Kinda isn't true for me tho, I find women attractive, but I'm not emotionally ready for love right now and would rather be friends with everyone. "art" would allow me to go to a place where my life wasn't terrible.and whenever I was with the character in the "art" it would be me just hanging out with them or playing Minecraft
@JACKSPARROW-wp7pb Жыл бұрын
bro its so hard because it feels good and it releases tension
@Chunkyjalapeno Жыл бұрын
That’s masturbaition, not pron lol.
@memouiiss Жыл бұрын
As an autistic young man at 25, recently I accepted that it's OK to get a girl, you do not have "feel" intimacy with the only source being the internet. I personally was convinced that I will never get a girl, because autistics just do not get social cues and game. Everything I ever wanted from life is fulfilled, I have amazing friends and family, I have opened my mind far beyond what I thought I could do and money are on their way. And now I am saying F that, I will get at least a girl by my side. I think to myself "you'll die anyways, and almost certainly I will suffer, experience pain and loneliness, having said that why not make some efforts, it's not gonna be that hard probably. Life is certain suffering but not certain joy, why not put some of it in life"? And I will make it, I do not care how hard, my boners are harder that the effort. That's what I learned when I learned to never stop trying.
@CommandoMaster Жыл бұрын
The reason why guys fap is because getting girls/modern dating is too hard nowadays with women having super high standards and options due to social media/dating apps. Either guys are too scared to approach and talk to girls irl or they have, but they keep getting rejected/ghosted and the interactions seem to go nowhere. It's a massive waste of time/money to some guys that are putting in effort, but aren't seeing any results with girls. They think they aren't good enough. She's gonna have a BF most of the time, so why bother anyways. It takes too much effort to improve your social skills, looks, status, confidence, charisma, humor, etc., and you're still not guaranteed to get those 8s, 9s and 10s, so fapping to some hot girls online is just easier.
@memouiiss Жыл бұрын
@@CommandoMaster yeas exactly, that does not have to be the only reason, it is indeed tempting to fap, but anyone who respect themselves to a higher degree will find more reasons to avoid fap an do the work
@anonymous6045 Жыл бұрын
Hats off to this man, We all need this mindset.
@kutayuk1704 Жыл бұрын
As an autistic guy at 22 (my exact diagnosis was Asperger's), I definitely feel you brother. I have beautiful friends who are sincere with me and always accepted me the way who I always was. I don't talk much, gotta admit; I have a panicky personality but that's a rare case to deal with recently. I dated a few times but almost all of them didn't work out, I perceived the rejections personally offensive and somehow I have gone into a bitter mood which includes the desire to avenge. All of these happened a year ago, I got rid of the childish and selfish desire to avenge and accepted the fact all of the girls I've dated or at least asked them to go out were really good friends of mine. Rejection is as natural as acceptance so if I have gotten rejected, I don't ask them for a date again. I don't suffocate myself with the thought of valuelessness. P.S: Guys, rejection is always better than regret and the pain of uncertainty such as "Would she go out with me?" You'll suffer a week at most unless you have invested emotionally A LOT! P.S II: I'm not a native so my English might not be that good.
@viggos.n.5864 Жыл бұрын
Didn't know autistic people could be such wonderful philosophers
@Joey666mu2bc11 ай бұрын
Lol when you said "gay" I was like I'm out, I quit.
@westoncroye643 Жыл бұрын
I am glad I never suffered from feeling disconnected from women and feeling attracted towards them. I could also control my urges and go a while without the need for it. But It is definitely something I need to stop now.
@kkoreaxo Жыл бұрын
i feel like if u not really experiencing none of the points that hes emphasizing in the video then its not really bad for your mental or health
@absolutetuber Жыл бұрын
i was exposed to porn around age 8-9. i never "got addicted" but definitely went through waves of looking at it a lot. it also permanently skewed my viewpoint on sex and my perceptions of it. i've been porn free for many years now and couldn't be happier. happily married and things are great. i have 5 kids and my biggest fear is them being exposed to it. we frequently remind them of the dangers of pornography. i'm sorry, but the "porn is normal and safe" crowd are seriously misguided.
@conjunctionjunctionwhatsyo985 Жыл бұрын
You can have a marriage and have kids and still enjoy pornography at the same time. That's going to be what me and my woman enjoy. It's something to spice up the bedroom and it's completely harmless.
@absolutetuber Жыл бұрын
@@conjunctionjunctionwhatsyo985 sure thing man. you do you (and your woman, too)
@conjunctionjunctionwhatsyo985 Жыл бұрын
@@absolutetuber BTW this ain't a lesbian thing I just have my woman as my profile pic. But exactly everyone has the freedom to enjoy whatever they want to enjoy.
@Real_Uniblade Жыл бұрын
I've discovered it when I was six (I got my first device) and I clicked on bot link in a KZbin comment section.
@user-xf4yl6vw9x Жыл бұрын
God bless ur family
@ningenshikkaku8577 Жыл бұрын
Denmo actually uploading every day wtf hardworking gigachad
@Denmosocial Жыл бұрын
not messing around bro. Show your loyalty invite your friends!
@irmavep9917 Жыл бұрын
I just relapsed really hard today and now I am watching this video. I truly never want to indulge in this addiction anymore. I greatly appreciate you making this
@danny.golcman6846 Жыл бұрын
I did nofap for 2 years and my lofe changes for the better, u got this bros!
@rogueapache6467 Жыл бұрын
I was an addict, but ofc been through on and off relationships which tore me down. I decided it was enough, I literally have given up porn and focused on myself by working out, studying for my tests, and helping out with chores at home, and I realized it took a lot of weight off me and it's been 6 months since I've last seen porn.
@ErnThaGAWD Жыл бұрын
Alright. You've inspired me so much man. I'll take your word and quit porn for the rest of the year. I'm looking forward to what's gonna happen next. Thanks Denmo!
@Denmosocial Жыл бұрын
good man see you in the discord
@kevinyounger-m5t Жыл бұрын
how are you doing currently terrell?
@hanskazan7403 Жыл бұрын
@@kevinyounger-m5t he is prob watching some pron
@geraldthebusdriver3491 Жыл бұрын
I quit Porn 2 1/2 years ago, boy there was a period in my life about 4 months after where life just felt numb and I just felt loveless. Things even to this day still have not been easy, when that stuff is a part of your life for 5 years. I do put myself out there to try and get girls and it usually never works, but I don't stop trying. I go to the gym too to work on my physique, so I don't think I am things unimpressive little coomer who just blames all women for being sad and lonely saying that they are all the same. I don't do that anymore I just go out in public and do my business just workout, go to trade, do my best to be sociable, be positive despite me not having a girlfriend.
@miniotgf25 ай бұрын
Every man should watch this
@wesleylittle9395 Жыл бұрын
clean for 2 weeks and im a monster now so confident, so much energy, it's unreal, one the worst habits to have, you'll feel incredible when you break it
@ivyx7346 Жыл бұрын
I’m coming up on a week myself, I don’t ever wanna go back
@koolkoop3100 Жыл бұрын
I'm not even sure how long it's been, at least 2 weeks, maybe 3.
@commentate3652 Жыл бұрын
Keep it up gentlemen. I'm on week 3 and feel much confident as well. Meditate or do some push ups if you get intense urges
@lilbensolo9001 Жыл бұрын
I’ve had this addiction since 7th grade. I was expose to it by one of my friends and at that point I haven’t stopped to this day. I’m going to promise myself to stay away from the temptation from now on.
@trnksu Жыл бұрын
you got this bro
@jt-nixon2102 Жыл бұрын
I haven't watched porn in over 8 months. God delivered me after 10 years.
@eddiemattison77929 ай бұрын
Good job, man. "In your face video". I needed that.
@kanyewist Жыл бұрын
its been 7 months since i last did the delirious thing, and i can say that moving on from it is the hard part, when you move on you get a sense of freedom, open yourself up and improve your social skills, go to the gym, talk to women and have best confidence at most, when it comes to quitting the funny, the outcome is the best thing
@layoramirez4993 Жыл бұрын
You irked me so bad calling it “the funny”, but good for you man
@kanyewist Жыл бұрын
@@layoramirez4993 youtube wont allow my comment to go through for shit man
@layoramirez4993 Жыл бұрын
@@kanyewist MASTURBATION JACKING OFF MASTURBATING BEATING MY DIC
@psyduckseggs391 Жыл бұрын
Only #1 doesn't sit w me. I see cute girls everytime i go out and fall in love if we exchange glances. Its so depressing cause 20yrs of pron has robbed all my confidence w women and i keep putting them on a pedestal.
@CommandoMaster Жыл бұрын
Girls have too many options nowadays with social media. Even approaching and talking to them isn't good enough. They will reject u for any reason they feel like. Most of BFs anyways.
@discontinued1824 Жыл бұрын
Is ur pfp from porn
@mathsmanm2880 Жыл бұрын
114 days of monk mode.
@Denmosocial Жыл бұрын
guys nuts must be full rn
@flos9400 Жыл бұрын
@@Denmosocial XD
@Evanesce13 Жыл бұрын
Damn go smash real quick & go back to monk mode! You deserve it
@Soekdndei Жыл бұрын
@@Evanesce13 no
@AtlantiXYL Жыл бұрын
So my porn addiction started back in 2004, so it was destroying my brain this entire time? holy shit
@GeorgiSins77 Жыл бұрын
since 2004 Damn that almost 2 decades
@AtlantiXYL Жыл бұрын
@CUM GOD back in the day I had to print images to jerk off to
@yung_Latios Жыл бұрын
Same I first saw it when I was 12. Some asshole in 8th grade told me about it. Being the dumb naive kid with a curiosity that I was, I snuck a peak at it. I'm 27 now and it's stuck with me ever since. It's near impossible to quit. I'm also not as mentally sharp and don't have much energy to do anything outside of work. I'm pretty sure my addiction is a contributing factor. It sucks. I don't know how to stop watching it and I don't know who to talk to about it. It's so embarrassing I literally feel subhuman. Like I don't want to look myself in the mirror at times. Makes me think that I won't ever be desirable to anyone. I feel your pain bro I really wish I never looked at it to begin with.
@Mr.Player98 Жыл бұрын
I started back in 2008 . And same of you bro. Stay stronger!
@Yusa_Beach Жыл бұрын
It also prevents you from growing.
@glowgirl8171 Жыл бұрын
I was addicted to opioid prescription drugs .Trying to quit while having a pocket full of pills on me wouldn't have worked. Same thing here. {I did go into treatment and am 13 yrs. clean now} It can be done. Never give up hope!
@ivangaspar3949 Жыл бұрын
I watched some this past weekend. And I bounced back by approaching girls right away.
@teopazdrijan1008 Жыл бұрын
Where you approaching these girls?
@aabahdjfisosososos Жыл бұрын
@@teopazdrijan1008 Anywhere bro
@teopazdrijan1008 Жыл бұрын
@@aabahdjfisosososos On a tram, bus?
@enemy1191 Жыл бұрын
@@teopazdrijan1008 at funeral
@JefferyBihh Жыл бұрын
I’ve had this addiction for the past 10 years bro you just made me delete all that shit I’m starting fresh rn keep me in your prayers…
@aymanardo1322 Жыл бұрын
I always say this but i keep losing again and again
@JefferyBihh Жыл бұрын
@@aymanardo1322 we must stay strong bro… honestly just find a girl you can mess around w that way you can lose the urge to do it yourself it’s better that way
@aymanardo1322 Жыл бұрын
@@JefferyBihh thats the problem i cant find a girl my social skills are extremely bad
@devindevinksi8014 Жыл бұрын
As a person currently struggling with a porn addiction and trying to change his life Thankyou I think I needed this now more then ever
@AJK1DD Жыл бұрын
This used to happen to me a lot. Whenever I went out or talked to a girl I genuinely felt aroused to the point where I got aroused by a hug. Been a while since and now I'm chilling, still watching some stuff from time to time but I have more control over myself, doing it when I want to. I still need to improve and grow in order for it to not affect the way my brain sees certain things. Other than that, the situation has definitely improved over the last year. I'll just keep it going! 👍
@timmenhoff11 ай бұрын
"doing it when i want to" so in other words you have zero control
@AJK1DD11 ай бұрын
@@timmenhoff Sometimes I don't want to do it, so I don't. Other days, I don't do it at all. Either way, I do have control mate
@jokerfc5218 Жыл бұрын
It’s actually crazy. Because I definitely feel drained after porn. People don’t realize the actual act is energy draining. But on top of it, the dopamine from it drains you just like using tik tok would. If your gonna do it, do it at the end of the day. Like the last thing you do, and only if you completed your daily tasks.
@LK56835 Жыл бұрын
I'm actually more motivated and full of energy after jacking off the next day. It's empowering. train your mind the other way.... but you have to think positive about it
@apollo-aries Жыл бұрын
you feel drained just from pron or beating your meet to it too?
@CommandoMaster Жыл бұрын
The reason why guys fap is because getting girls/modern dating is too hard nowadays with women having super high standards and options due to social media/dating apps. Either guys are too scared to approach and talk to girls irl or they have, but they keep getting rejected/ghosted and the interactions seem to go nowhere. It's a massive waste of time/money to some guys that are putting in effort, but aren't seeing any results with girls. They think they aren't good enough. She's gonna have a BF most of the time, so why bother anyways. It takes too much effort to improve your social skills, looks, status, confidence, charisma, humor, etc., and you're still not guaranteed to get those 8s, 9s and 10s, so fapping to some hot girls online is just easier.
@gamercreature2587 Жыл бұрын
@@CommandoMaster I also heard that some girls would rather be single on a study they found that girls were more happy single then men of course obviously not all of them their is a huge portion that wants to be a relationship but you also have to understand not every man or woman either is not ready for a relationship or they just have no desire to be in a relationship.
@Qwertyuiop-bt3ut Жыл бұрын
Agree if I do this in the morning it really bothers me especially before the gym
@landonmorin7994 Жыл бұрын
This couldn’t have came out at a Better time I literally watch the hub last night after 3 months of not touching it and Jack just had to put the nail in the coffin for me
@cigh7445 Жыл бұрын
Shame!
@benjohnson6438 Жыл бұрын
What do you do in your free time? I'm bored out of my mind right now
@landonmorin7994 Жыл бұрын
@@benjohnson6438 I usually workout, visit friends/family and do work on my car most of the time
@jakek8051 Жыл бұрын
I can relate, I just did it after 3 weeks clean
@CursedMemeist Жыл бұрын
i do once a week or if im in pain, jerking is a good stress/ pain reliever tbh
@kalybyohe Жыл бұрын
I remember 2 years ago I approached my first girl, I was extremely nervous to ask for her number. I went up to her and tried to speak to her but the only thing I could do was say Hey and then an uncontrollable nervous smile happened and I couldn’t talk to her and it was extremely awkward and felt very embarrassing. I used to fap a lot and I can definitely see the negative impact it has had on me. I used to talk to girls and people in general very easily and then I started watching porn and the more porn I watched to more out of touch will society I became, I used to not be able to really talk to anyone without being awkward but I’ve grown more confident but I am still awkward at times. on. So for any of you that watch porn whether you just started watching it or have been doing it for year stop immediately, it is the best thing you can do to better yourself.
@rggsf Жыл бұрын
How's porn related to you being awkward around people? Just wondering
@cdjthg9516 Жыл бұрын
@@rggsfprobably cuz it’s just weird talking to people after glazing your hand
@MaRgEd.ZamaSU Жыл бұрын
@@rggsf i heard faping drain most of the things from body. And also confidence.
@2:23 I’m the opposite; I am at the desperate/addicted point where whenever I see just an average girl, I think of really impure and perverted thoughts. It’s tiresome😢.
@z02f42 Жыл бұрын
Personally I did it so much it ruined my first time with a women but luckily I never developed that mindset of thinking I'll get a 9 or 10 and I still checked out average women constantly. The only thing I will say is social anxiety as a whole can destroy being able to talk to just not women but people in general. From here on out I hope this video will be enough for me finally stop this decade long addiction and wish me luck brothers.
@treystephens61669 ай бұрын
9s & 10s won’t be 9s & 10s forever.
@ajaxxx5552 Жыл бұрын
You don’t even have to go to porn to have it destroy you. Now days it’s projected into our imagination.
@toby1439 Жыл бұрын
That's true.
@joshuarexrode8533 Жыл бұрын
Anyone have a "bro" counter for this video?
@jonasbevers772 Жыл бұрын
These types of videos just make me realize that i seem to still have a pretty healthy relationship with porn
@artiomvv569 Жыл бұрын
I stopped watching p0rn 7 years ago, just a bit before getting married. It's a gradual process but you can get there with hard work and dedication.
@MCEdziits Жыл бұрын
Use me as " I'm in a healtly relationship button"
@NateUnderZion Жыл бұрын
The worst thing for is that I'm also a recovering addict and I'd end up watching for hours
@Dylosophy Жыл бұрын
Everything you said was super relevant and real. Haven't done PMO since December 30th, 2021. It's worth it, especially in high school
@millenniumgojira2024 Жыл бұрын
the weirdest thing is is that I genuinely don’t have a problem with this sort of stuff anymore.. somehow, i managed to completely get myself off of it, which I’m proud of. Still annoyed at that one kid in high school who told me to type this thing up in school, and me not realising it was sus website, did this but managed to not get caught. I just wanted to watch this because it scares me out of doing it again lol
@turtlesarecool1488 Жыл бұрын
Everything you said is 100% correct However, once you get older you realize we are cucking ourselves through casual sexual encounters with other women. How many times has a girl turned you off due to their sexual past with people you know? No amount of personal sexual encounters with other women can shake that feeling of disgust.
@chowder8274 Жыл бұрын
That’s retroactive jealousy brobro
@ITZAJ_ Жыл бұрын
Imma take this as a sign bc I just did it the other night and now I’m seeing this. Thank you so much and god bless you for saving lives. I always knew it was better if I stopped but I just thought it didn’t matter. But I lose myself the more I do it. So again thank you!
@_mg-rwby-man_1806 Жыл бұрын
As someone with autism, I cry a bit when I see this. It's just hard for me to look at reality. Not that I don't want to socialize. I absolutely do want to. But it's just the way some things are making harder to do all this like Tik Tok and Hook Up culture. I'm also a gamer, but I least I want to get a job and make friends and talk to people. 😢
@Jarl_egbert Жыл бұрын
As a fellow autistic person, don't let this label control your life, and define what you should and shouldnt be. We observe the world from a different perspective, nothing wrong with that. Anything in life, is just as attainable to you and i, as it is for others. Some people get there faster than others, but we can still make it over the finish line.
@janistorlopare Жыл бұрын
autistic and 20 years single 🥲👍
@ENERGYMAXXING Жыл бұрын
looking at fit girls in the gym is annoying af😂😭. Yet, I barely watched any porn for the last year...
@teamofwinter8128 Жыл бұрын
I hate it when others try to guilt me into something. you don't have to try and insult me to make me do something or make yourself feel better or worst force me to support your little courses and shit. I appreciate your advice and all but what I don't appreciate is your methods and I literally have a friend that motivates me to go to the gym with the same bullshit and I don't listen to him instead I go to the gym with a better friend that actually supports me and makes me feel like I am progressing and doing something right but at the same time we are having fun there and that's the core of it
@christiangilbert1625 Жыл бұрын
A slave to sin rather than a slave to righteousness.
@Cantguardzay Жыл бұрын
The biggest thing that made me stop this is noticing that I couldn’t get aroused by my girl. It’s the worst feeling when you got a beautiful girl in front of you and you can’t get up.
@laszlonagy02 Жыл бұрын
That can be from a lot of other things too.
@mariahellis4095 Жыл бұрын
As a girl who went through this, I promise you, you are making her hate herself and thinking she's ugly
@CursedMemeist Жыл бұрын
@@laszlonagy02 yup like anxiety, trash diet etc, pron is not to blame here 🌚i mean u could just objectify her to make it easy to get it up tbh, you’re probably thinking bout it too much
@young9534 Жыл бұрын
Nutting causes a spike in prolactin. Higher prolactin means lower dopamine. Lower dopamine means its harder to go do things that don't give instant gratification
@conor8299 Жыл бұрын
Honestly feel like the biggest loser for the past year and a half. Used to have long streaks, now I'm barely going 3 days. I hate how this shit has been robbing me of my potential for so long..
@benjohnson6438 Жыл бұрын
Being bored and horny at the same time has to be the worst combination in existence
@K__kelly Жыл бұрын
I feel you brother
@Gabriel-142 Жыл бұрын
I saved this video a while ago and every time that i struggle i come back and rewatch it
@muundus7 Жыл бұрын
This gotta be the best and funniest nofap video I’ve seen 😂
@qlutchh Жыл бұрын
As a guy who used to be addicted, I can tell you Starting NoFap was my best decision, I was on NoFap for a whole 3 months, I became more comfortable, Felt better, Actually talked to girls, But then I started doing it again. I'm not addicted anymore tho, If I want to stop I can stop, I do it like once a week.
@Ultra. Жыл бұрын
You gotta quit is fully bro...No backsies
@qlutchh Жыл бұрын
@@Ultra. I'm not addicted and it doesn't effect me, I have confidence and everything.
@qlutchh Жыл бұрын
@@Ultra. And also science says that gives you good benefits when you mastur*** so...
@blakehoule6698 Жыл бұрын
You sound addicted if you have to do it once a week. But you said you can stop.
@qlutchh Жыл бұрын
@@blakehoule6698 I don't "have" to do it, I just enjoy it, I can stop whenever I want to as U said.
@decxphvr Жыл бұрын
I don't think I have a sex drive anymore because my porn addiction was so bad
@jadon1400 Жыл бұрын
Idk how this got recommended to me or why for that reason but some reason I just stayed and watched
@doublehd159 Жыл бұрын
The truth is porn is the EASY way out. You get to see beautiful women naked doing the thing that you want to do with them. It's a quick dopamine hit but after you probably feel like shit, which is what normally happens to most guys. You remember that it isn't real and you're back to where you really are in life instead of actually LIVING that life. The more you give in to the temptation, the more you are softened from your ambition of actually going out there and succeeding in life and with women. Falling into this cycle is vicious and a complete waste of your time and energy. I used to struggle with giving in to the temptation even though I knew it was wrong. I've gotten better at not giving into the temptation and understanding that it is the weak version of me wanting to take over. Instead, I've started focusing my energy to working out, working on my side hustle, reading, and meditation. I feel so much more free knowing that I am able to channel my energy towards the right places. And you can do it too. Take control of your life! Make succeeding in life more important than some cheap, temporary pleasure.
@twilightgarrison3671 Жыл бұрын
I still watch it but I force myself to get out and talk to people and include myself into social situations. Going to a Bar, going to after parties, forcing myself to learn how to make people laugh, forcing myself to become a better listener instead of it being all about me. Or I’ll be making up events in my life just to force myself to learn how to keep conversations going and interesting. (I lie just to force myself to talk to people more) I think you can still watch porn but still make yourself balance things out. I notice I don’t play video games nearly as much anymore as well. And I now crave going out and seeing what everyone else is doing. I’m trying to train my brain into getting stimulation from other Human interactions rather than just porn and video games. Not gunna lie it’s also pettiness. I want to improve myself and become more valuable to that one girl I liked who moved on from me. I do everything I can to be as attractive as possible because I just want her to feel like I got away. Its very toxic but whatever is helping me push myself.
@Bunniekiss Жыл бұрын
Even though I’m a girl I’ve been watching nsfw since I was 11 because I was groomed and he showed me the hub videos , I’m now trying to fix my mindset and life from all that time and energy wasted that I could’ve spent on a hobby, and I’m happy to say this video kind of helped my perspective 😊 ( I’m gonna get a app that helps addiction, watch more videos that explain why the hub is bad and try meditation/ journaling, I’ve heard it helps!)
@Eliza3eth2 Жыл бұрын
Omg that’s horrible :(( , Girl if u need anyone to talk to about it I’m here 4 u❤️
@chlorophyll6154 Жыл бұрын
Pretty horrible for a girl
@NavoTheTrueGod11 ай бұрын
u should watch more it will make u shammrter
@judge83110 ай бұрын
I'm only watching this because it was recommended by KZbin