You are more attractive than you think

[@Denmosocial]

You cannot possibly know if someone finds you attractive or not until you speak to them. Remember that www.socializer.school

[@SunshineSuperstar]

You say men persue women and women don't persue men... This is untrue. Women persue men far more than men persue women. The difference is men persue women in an overt fashion whereas women do it subtly. Traditionally women, specifically the female elders, were the ones whose roles were to pair different youths together! Boomer women, if you ever talk to them, will be kind of focused on relational ideas. It's only the young modern women that don't give an "F". Females already paired up were ALWAYS the ones that would introduce their single friends to each other, arrange singles events, casually mention her friends singleness to eligible bachelors that they were introduced to etcetera. The role of pairing everyone up was always a female role, traditionally speaking! Women think about people and men think about things!

[@caballerotemplario6734]

​@@SunshineSuperstar Totally agree. If a women finds you attractive she will slide in your DM or she will send a friend. She will find the way. We all know guys in this situation. If you never got a girls sliding into your DM, if you never got a girl sending a friend to introduce her, if you never got a girl coming to you to ask about some BS stuff. Then you never attracted anyone.

[@MikeJensen-w2v]

you can tell off body language alone if a vvoman is not interested in you will there will be obvious signs lol her not looking at you at all looking at her phone theres just so much more i could say but who cares

[@sebastianleyva8925]

@@Denmosocial Exactly Denmo

[@djocharablaikan8601]

Its true, before i started approaching women i thought i was attractive because i was getting ton of attention from women, when i actually started asking them out i found out it was all just silly games.

[@mrslightflex691]

you mightve saved my bloodline with this one brotha

[@Denmosocial]

gotchu bro

[@avih]

Sheesh that's a real one

[@omri10011]

lmfaoooo

[@Manni0105]

We keeping the bloodline alive with this one🗣️💯💯

[@peteypete9357]

Not even man, just go passport bro and date dozens of actually TRADITIONAL women instead of the 304s in the west who will just act more entitled the more charismatic/successful you are (because it'll feed into their ego even more)

[@justincase1481]

"The absence of evidence is not the evidence of absence" 😄

[@whiteajahni]

Type shit.😅

[@Straga_Severa]

Yes, but it correlates.

[@DisRespectoids]

Known UNknowns!

[@Lobo-g4k]

The absence of absence doesn't mean it's absence from the absence it is the absent absence that absence is absence from

[@dawidwojacki5049]

Just like with God

[@A-man-in-the-box]

This guy is single-handedly fighting the male loneliness epidemic

Because too many males are too dumb to fight for themselves. I mean, it is because of society and capitalism that has a monetary investment in men being passive and women being... Like that. To be clear, im not saying socialism would solve these problems, but capitalism definitively makes it worse.

[@lavatr8322]

Although I am single but not lonely

[@knightmer3645]

Damn straight brother ! I've arrived here after getting bored of Redpill content and this is just like redpill but with ACTUAL processes to go through that you don't have to be "lean,rich or 6 feet" to pull off

[@A-man-in-the-box]

@@knightmer3645 yes fr

[@jbbeats2042]

He really is dude is hard

[@PaulDuVall]

A few months ago, I was approached by a woman at a restaurant. It was simultaneously a strange and good feeling. She came over to my table, sat down, and we talked for close to half an hour. She was gorgeous too. I was so shocked it even happened that I told all my friends afterwards. Pretty sure other guys in the restaurant were shocked too lol 😂

[@FirstnameLastname-pe5ib]

Had this happen over the winter. Honestly euphoria better than any drug.

[@thepotatoes7124]

Did you get her number ?

[@adikonet]

Had a girl invite me to dance with her at the party. Then she seemed very interested in me. We went to two meetings and then she went radio silent. I still don't know why the hell she did that but who cares

[@Rico401Prov]

Big 🧢

[@PaulDuVall]

@@FirstnameLastname-pe5ib it's a wild feeling, right? It goes without saying, but my confidence got a major boost after that lol

[@theosebes9975]

So good. I approached my first woman and some groups with my friend the other day, I sweated like a racehorse, heart pounded, was awkward and got a few compliments from girls and some negative ones from others. But, I planned it, told my bro he had to go with me, and we did it. I approached my first woman.

[@yannikmeister]

Go on brother. You are on the right path

[@joshuadunham3018]

Awesome bro. You've started building that muscle. It won't always be easy, but it won't get harder, either.

[@MMA-CLIPS2]

One thing I learned this year is that if average girls notice and stare at you, that's a sign that girls in general think you're attractive. Hot girls don't need to stare, or even look. But you will catch them sometimes, at least I do. Maybe only 1 in 20, but still. That's why you need to take a leap of faith and appraoch a girl when she initiates eye contact.

[@balancer182]

Same, I would catch a few try to sneak a look at me, when I catch them, they would look away immediately, some even smile then look downwards. And the more I interact with girls or at least be in their presence, the more I'm aware of how girls behave when they are interested in me. The more I also realize the kind of girl I want. Some girls have a nice personality, some have a nice voice, some are very agreeable, etc. And 1 in 20 sounds like the success rate of pick up artists too. It's a numbers game, go through as many women as possible until you find that 1 in 20.

[@Zbomb96]

This is how you know your finished when no girls ever notice you even the “ugly” ones

[@nekow1785]

I don’t think I’v ever seen any girl notice me tbh

[@GorlockSlayer]

@@nekow1785​​⁠Then you’re just not paying attention my guy. Not gay so don’t worry but you look good if that’s you in the pfp and I wouldn’t say that if I didn’t mean it. Be confident first and then all you have to do is just be yourself.

[@KaushikBala333]

​@@balancer182the agreeable girls are a dream, so feminine and intelligent at the same time, they can make you chase them in your mind.

[@MawbNaw]

Denmo the type of guy to approach my great grandmother

[@karna5998]

Is she still alive?

[@umutmithat7274]

😂😂

[@michaeldundas6620]

I just need to say, your value as a man doesn't depend on how many women you sleep with. As a man, I don’t need to sleep with women left and right to feel complete. I am content with the amount of women I've been with, but even moreso with my other life achievements, like buying several homes and getting a great career. There's so much more to life than sleeping around people!

[@Drikkerbadevand]

Guys only say this when they've had enough sexual success to where it no longer matters to them. It's like sitting in an oasis telling someone in the desert that having water to drink is nice and all but it wont fulfill you. Easy to say when your thirst has been quenched of nice cold water. I dont mean to be overly negative, I feel fine with my sexual experience too, but that's bexause I actuaææy have some lol

[@MrJuan_Vzla]

Kind of unrelated, but I find funny how men open a vid about approaching women only to comment: "I wOn't aPproAch wOmEn iT's a wAsTe of Tiiiime/moNeyy".

[@Denmosocial]

kills me every time hahaha

[@jonathanwilliams365]

Denmo vids always drop when I need a reminder or Im going through challenging times

[@senshai1267]

Late 20s and never been touched by a woman and i can relate to this video. Kinda feel like shit surrounded by people . Much more comfort living in antartica

[@Sh0ckmaster]

Denmo your comments about dating apps are on the money. I only ever managed to get to the stage of getting a date using the apps once, and that was when I was traveling in a different city in Europe. However, I met my last girlfriend via a cold approach, and have had way more luck making approaches in person than any swiper app could ever give me. I'm currently packing up my life to move to a new city, and I can't wait to start making my approaches and see how I get on.

[@simond1055]

So in the beginning of this year I challenged myself to "put myself in front of women" on purpose. Did it for like 3 months and approached 300+ women in day and nighttime. Got rejected 300 times. Lesson learned, now I know women don't like me 😊

[@AhmedMourad2022]

Lol come on man I was just going to start !

[@deepaknambisan3251]

🤣🤣🤣

[@Justinian43]

this is definitely true, I once thought I was unattractive, but I was successful in dating, my last girlfriend was honestly the most beautiful woman I’ve ever seen inside and out. Yeah guys, don’t undersell yourselves and when you find that amazing woman you always seeked, concentrate on making that relationship thrive

[@BS_Profile]

The problem is that if it's unwanted, it's not uncommon for the woman to try to label the guy "creepy, weird, inappropriate, etc. etc.". Some women will say that stuff even if a guy just looks at them. Which never made any sense to me whatsoever because everyone knows that guys are generally expected to initiate and do the approaching. So why would they be shamed and lambasted for playing their role in the dating process? Plus when you see the data from dating apps and how women reject about 95% of guys after a quick glance, it seems like they're barely interested in talking to anyone. So the odds of a negative reaction in person seem extremely high. And as bad as the apps are, they're still the only place women will at least show interest in me and maybe even talk to me. It's the only way I've been able to get dates because in real life I'm practically invisible. They never talk to me or anything unless they have to for their job. I imagine this is the case for the vast majority of guys and that's why there's so many more guys on dating apps than women. It would also explain the loneliness epidemic that a lot of guys are facing in modern times. And the "man vs bear" thing. The social climate just seems way too hostile against men for cold approach to be a thing. Thats probably why i see attractive women regularly yet i never see guys going up to them and trying to talk to them. Even if they're by themselves.

[@felinejarofke3557]

I think the problem is that men are too stressed out, because they have to do the approaching and feel a lot of the pressure from society, to notice how the approach makes the woman feel. And because they don’t notice, that it made the woman - for example- uncomfortable, their reaction surprises them and they don’t understand where they are coming from. I can see how stressed you feel and it’s hard to say “just stop stressing about it” because it’s not easy. Maybe when you feel, that you are stressed about it, remind you that everything is ok. Everybody wants to be liked

[@Asaph437]

This as excuse. I’m not even the biggest Denmo fan but he’s right. If you learn to interact with women, you’re not going to be labeled as creepy. Touch grass. Learn to talk to people as people. The apps will destroy your mental health. Putting yourself out there in real life is terrifying at first but you get better at it and honestly it’s a way less devastating because it’s usually a short exchange. Apps feel like constant rejection, real life you take the L and move on.

[@BS_Profile]

@@felinejarofke3557 yes that's a huge issue. We have to approach but a lot of us do understand that we're completely catching the woman off guard in many cases and they don't know if we're crazy so they sort of have to view an approach as an inherent threat. I get that. But at the same time, if we don't approach, nothing happens. I understand we have to be aware of what she's feeling but I think too many people make the guy responsible for however the woman feels. She could be a total bitch and everyone will blame the guy and say that "he has no game" and "he has to work on his social skills". Sometimes that may be true but it's just weird how nobody ever says that about women. Women never have to work on social anxiety or social skills because the guy will always be blamed for how an interaction goes down. That's kinda fucked up and puts even more unnecessary pressure on the guy as if he doesn't have to deal with enough already.

[@FelixLopez-u2v]

10:42 - 10:57 I actually really appreciate the directness. Most advice is put too delicately and doesn't tell me that I'm part of my problem.

[@michaelanderson5650]

Nah facts

[@hihtitmamnan]

This video was much more helpful than I expected. It's pretty good sign when a youtuber says "quit youtube and go outside".

[@Denmosocial]

glad it helped man

[@CarltonVolkema]

Great channel, great input , plus the brutal honesty most men need. Thanks Denmo!!!

[@Denmosocial]

cheers mate

[@Jasiel.95]

This video is awesome! One of those 29 y/o dudes with 0 girls. I haven’t started a business or anything yet but I’m excited to start that and I want to double my income. Going to grab your course when I’ve paid more debt off.

[@CooperNeff]

This was an amazing video Jack. You hit every single important point - love your perspectives dude, thanks for sharing 🙏

[@tunarflashy]

Dude, I can’t stop thanking you enough! The line with “you are where you are cause you constantly wait for the man opportunity to come to you” completely hit me to the soul. Thanks, mate. I will definitely try to move further along from this point on!

[@sebastianleyva8925]

Well in the last three months I’ve only talked to one girl outside my comfort zone. And it was at the gym. Sadly, it didn’t go as I wanted to. She wasn’t interested.

[@adikonet]

But you tried! That's the important part. I could but I didn't

[@eshedguitar]

started doing that everyday (literally) and you will have too many dates to care about the rejections

[@LuisGutierrezG123]

Don't let that make you feel bad, bro. Keep trying you got this!

[@joshuadunham3018]

Proud of you for doing that man. Start asking more girls out, and I bet within the first 100 you'll most likely find someone who's into you too (that's not that many girls! Ask 1 out every day and that's a girlfriend in a few months, 5 every day like Denmo recommends and you've got it down to less than a month!)

[@777_lifeafter]

This man speaks facts take notes... He's right though take a risk cause other guys aren't lifes not easy So don't make it harder❤

[@suriyabharathy7314]

I just approached one woman, but she was scared and left, and that time I was feeling nervous and dejected that any woman is not go on a like me ,after that I stopped approaching, but now by watching this I think I should put more myself in this kind of situations to avoid the fear and be more confident

[@hongjiao7469]

Your videos are like going to the gym. If I stop watching it for a week I can see myself losing results already

[@Robofish12]

Thank you for this. I just started like a month ago wanting to really get serious about getting better with women and I am still in the early stages (have made some approaches at bars, but not many) and I needed to hear this about just getting out and doing it. I've always known in my logical brain that's what I need to do, but I always find excuses or whatever. I've been pretty bummed out the last few days about my dating life as a whole and this really helped. I also live in a very densely women populated area so I don't even have to drive anywhere to go out and do it. Hardest part is just stepping out the door in all honesty. This is very motivating and definitely what I needed to hear.

[@demigod8522]

I had a hot girl message me on Tinder once and she kept responding, but the problem was that her responses was always low effort. In restrospect I think she just used me as an orbiter, but it just sucks, because I was really trying to start a conversation but eventually I just realized she didn't want to put in the effort so I just moved on and blocked her and kinda ragequit dating apps, because it was just making me depressed in the long run.

[@nvlel]

Cus texting should be minimal u should be trying to do less conversating online save that for the in person

[@danb5944]

This is 100% of all girls on tinder..delete it ..only conversations face too face work or like the other person commented exchange a few very short messages and line up a date immediately later the same day if she says no she's not interested

[@Pluttarch]

Don't use Tinder. It's just not natural

[@fuckno.]

@@nvlelfacts he should’ve asked for her # and then cooked from there

[@joshuadunham3018]

I got rid of the dating apps, and now I'm focusing on in person. Sure it's scarier, but it's also much easier to tell whether someone is genuinely interested or not, and so you can drop them sooner if you feel they are just using you for attention.

[@Disaenz10]

Protect this man at all cost. Thanks for making these videos

[@isacciconicclips3993]

Thanks denmo,for being alive

[@dixonvfitness1921]

You have to "manufacture" your self into a good product. Then you must "advertise" yourself as the finished item. If you do not advertise you will not succeed.

[@WheelsOfFreedom167]

May I add that rather than approaching random women, (if you’re totally opposed to it anyway) look for at least 3 activities you already like doing and join a club or get a membership of some sort. Like cars? Join a car club and go to car meets regularly Like fighting? Join a martial arts school Like books? Join a book club If you don’t already have interests like these, then try new things out, simple

[@Narko_Marko]

Cars and fighting aren't really activities where you'll find women.

[@CJ-ld1kj]

@@Narko_Markofr 😂

[@joshuadunham3018]

@@Narko_Marko and if you don't, either you like them enough to keep doing them or you drop them and try something else. Either way you get experience socializing and have started a habit of reguarly being involved in a social activity, which gives you momentum for when you find the right one! :)

[@bachiihd]

best intro to a yt video ive seen. good stuff.

[@Denmosocial]

I hope that analogy makes sense!

[@New_soul.9]

Plz don't take what Denmo is saying in this video seriously about the difference between men & women. Just because another person wants something more over the other, that doesn't mean we denied the other person, but unfortunately we do with all the social construct we created

[@New_soul.9]

And if we go by this logic baby fever wouldn't be a thing...

[@New_soul.9]

And to destroy this whole argument, a bunch of men that are high status or hell even very attractive 9.5 guys don't persuade women...and want women to persuade them showing that just because the sex drive is bigger in the male brain that doesn't mean is gonna default to persuade.😂

[@New_soul.9]

I'll give a better example dummy. Just like I can reallyyyy want ice cream 🍦 but I go out ma way to order it so it can come to me... That should automatically show u really wanting doesn't = one particular action. At times, it can be the complete opposite

[@thevillager8339]

Why do we put love on such a pedestal. It seems to have taken itself as life's ultimate goal. Despite it being just another feeling, an emotion solely there to make us procreate. Sometimes I hate it by cause of it being to distractive.

[@HAWKsHere]

I hate to break it to you buddy , but it is one of life’s ultimate goals my guy , it’s more than an emotion to make us procreate , love is what makes us human beings come together in the end and bond , and as human beings we are designed to found love , not go against it . Yeah sure you can be rich jacked and all that , it requires hard work and you can achieve that over time , but love does not work like that , but you can work your way towards it so that you find love if you’re lucky enough . Loving a person is one of the most ultimate feelings a human being can experience and there are no two ways about it .

[@thecurrentmoment]

Without procreation, there are no more people. So it's pretty important

[@Denmosocial]

@@HAWKsHere well said

[@stuart3808]

Much as though I really hate this being true... without love there is no point in anything. You might as well be a machine. I wish it wasn't that way I really do.

[@rebrandftw]

love & lust are two different things

[@makaveli1108]

I'm 20. Women my age have access to older men who are financially better, better shape, better in almost everything. With all the choices she have, why tf would she even look at me? Like, seriously.

[@aarongonzalez4458]

That is just an excuse bro maybe financially stable yes since they are older and have more experience. But you can be in the best shape of your life at 20. I’ve been working out since 13 I’m 20 now and jacked also 6’2 which plays a role but still if you’re in good shape you can pull an average girl. I’m here just trying to pull some 9s and 10s so I have a lot of competition

[@ikennambelede1998]

Damn this is gold… been doing this during my lunch break and you do get better at it

[@cullenohara3032]

Honestly your message is motivating me in so many other areas than dating. Just great advice for general life. Thank you!

[@wedoalittletrolling-im4ti]

Everyone always says the right one will come when you’re not looking and then lots of other people say you have to put yourself out there to find them so which is it

[@amuseher]

I really like it when a man talks to me. Communication is key.

[@russelllroni]

The funny thing is, I've realized this in my past when I've gotten with women that are absolute bombshells, yet the self doubt comes back after not having interacted with beautiful women regularly recently like I did in my past. Thanks for the reminder brother.

[@glennriley6699]

I go to the gym regularly and work out very intensely. Im at the stage where I am in the best physical shape of my life. I can run almost two hours on a treadmill and still have endurance to work on other machines and weights. The thing is, women tend to scatter when they see me and it is only guys that have spoken to me which I think is because of the competitive dynamics that exists between men. I was told it was the way women probably perceive me, too intense, too focused and the impression that I am completely unapproachable. Add to the fact that I dress up in black with a dark hoodie with my hood always up, it adds not just mystery but creepiness into it. Thing is, my workouts allow me to tap into my superpower and make me come across as formidable, invincible and not some weak vulnerable guy. But the flip side to this I was told is that you got to risk being vulnerable when talking to women. They are not going to approach someone who takes the athleticism too far because maybe they think you have high standards and are out of their league, someone they cannot measure upto and compete. Would be nice sometimes if I get a compliment from a woman instead of guys saying "Hey bro, you're badass on that treadmill. How do you do it?"

[@Slenova]

Some people have this thing called social anxiety. So, having a 3-minute conversation with more 100 people in under 3 months. can be hard or even impossible at times. You make a few good points tho

[@Comand94]

All the more reason to start, and start small. You can work on your social anxiety, and it'll be a lot of work, but it's worth it.

[@AlphaMacho]

@@Comand94atta boy

[@Slenova]

​@@Comand94I wish conquering social anxiety was that simple 😭

[@Comand94]

@@Slenova it is and isn't. Exposure therapy is simple in concept, simple in execution, but not easy to go through with.

[@xLovezzz]

​@@Comand94take it 1 day at the time mate. Momentum is something huge once you get the hang of it

[@eternalxalchemy]

Appreciate this truth bomb bro. I needed it. My introvert self needs it 😅

[@amuseher]

Something to ponder…you don’t find love, love finds you.

[@RussellKlimas]

I've easily talked to 100 women over 3 months but I like to get to know a person first before I even want to consider dating them. You could argue that this is the whole point of dating but having a foundation of friendship first before a relationship is proven to be more successful. I suppose you could let them know your intentions as well and that could potential solve the problem or get rejection, which either is fine!

[@XOTheHosttt]

Ok I gotta start this with a clear DAMN!!! Literally this is my situation right now, being alone for the past 2 years after my last "thing" and trying to get back. But thank god KZbin exist! Cause many of the points here also let me know that I'm in the good path to socialize and get real relationships. I don't really care if I get "something" just wanna know people. I'll keep you posted fam! 💥

[@afxday6830]

Hi Denmo, I don't usually comment on KZbin videos, but I want to thank you for what you are doing. It's been a long time since I was able to even go on a date with one girl, but thanks to your videos I was able to go out with three girls in the space of two months. Yesterday I went out with a classmate of mine and, after taking her out to dinner and taking a walk, we stopped on a platform in a square and kissed and finally I managed to take her to my apartment. We didn't have sex because she didn't feel ready, but I already consider it a half victory in all this. Unfortunately, she is Russian and will be going home for two months and I admit I'm a little nervous about a possible long distance relationship, also because I don't know if it will work, but at least I'm happy that I'm getting back into the game with girls. A big hug from one of your subscribers from Italy💪 Sorry for the papyrus😅, but I wanted to tell what happened to me. P.s: I know a lot of guys on this channel have trouble relating to girls. I suffer from Asperger's and I'm an average dude, if I can pick up, you have no excuses ahahaha😁 Obviously we're joking (up to a certain point😝)

[@Denmosocial]

legendary status glad to hear that man

[@marcusappelberg369]

That is great! Did it happen in Italy? :) I have Aspergers too so I know how that feels.

[@knightsof3hree643]

This is ironically a great message for everything that could be applied, besides trying to cold approach woman. You can look at other videos that try the same approach without any form of actors and it's a eye opening watch. If you're below average, Denmo is arguably average-above average, but once you hit below average I've noticed in videos that men that try the same approach have a astronomically low rate of success regardless of your charisma. I saw one video where a guy tries the same thing with a 1,000 woman got rejected by all of them.

[@TheVladacar]

It's a sad reality, denmo can't tell you that cause it's not good for his business model, guys won't pay for coaching if they know their situation is hopeless and trying to talk with women is futile

[@TheAstonics]

Damn I can’t lie Jack thanks man 😎 dope video brotha 🔥💪🏾

[@EliteExpert]

ngl i needed to hear this one a couple of years ago i would always have a girl or two i was talking to during the summer time ive been on such a dry spell for the last 1.5 years tho that it’s depressing im working 7 days a week so i can move out from my parents and then finally prioritize going out and meeting women the road isn’t easy but nothing in this life worth having ever is, so time to bare down and keep going

[@rodoperez9764]

Thank you! I have the charisma that you mentioned on this video. Now I know what to do. Again thank you bro 😎

[@mikelitorous5570]

This is weird this video dropped. Was out Saturday and tried to speak to two stunning girls who seemed interested and it went bad. Felt down but kept going today, just came back from the gym and I had two staring at me when doing RDL’s lol. Also, had a girl make eye contact when driving home who’s stunning. Also, had my friend saying this stunning blonde girl was looking at me and I don’t remember whatsoever

[@Denmosocial]

atta boy nicely done

[@mikelitorous5570]

@@Denmosocial cheers mate you’ve massively helped my confidence as well

[@equinox2909]

I'm introvert. I usually don't approach anyone without any puropose in mind so I wouldn't just talk to some random girls but I'm not afraid on talking to them no matter how beautiful they are. It's just like for me, it's a waste of energy to talk to someone about random things unless I really like that person.

[@Dudebat923]

I need to talk about my last week. Saturday: Girlfriend (who I met on a dating app) leaves me. Monday: I buy concert tickets because I don't wanna mope around in my apartment anymore. Wednesday: Concert is amazing, but more importantly, I meet an incredible girl (who is so pretty I NEVER would've talked to her in the past) and we make plans to go to another concert. Saturday: I go to a bar and pick up a hot girl. I have literally told people for YEARS that "I will never be that guy that picks up a girl at a bar." Somehow, what should've been a horrible week turned into one of the best of my life. Guys, do it. Take the plunge. Fail a bunch if you have to, but always get up. This is actually possible.

[@sked11]

this is the most obvious shit I needed to hear. thank you brotha

[@muhanadyousef7496]

i have approached alot of girls in my collage and got alot of brilliant results thanks to you bro🌹

[@Denmosocial]

good man proud of u

[@mythicalcontroller2915]

thx for the video man, never thought of it this way bro 🙏

[@Denmosocial]

glad it helped G

[@bobinface]

I found this quite encouraging

[@Denmosocial]

glad to hear

[@cotocoyerakson8195]

Life gave me the brother I always needed and never had, even if I'm not having a girlfriend that is enough for a life or many.

[@Alex-mn5rs]

Forget three months, I haven't met a woman in three years. One hundred is unfathomable. The only women in my life are my mother, sister, and grandmother - and I keep them all at the end of a ten-foot pole.

[@IIISWILIII]

That's just sad, man. Life is so much more interesting, smoother, and purposeful with a co-pilot. Someone who loves you and counterbalances your weaknesses and fears. You got to start by loving yourself first

[@adamsultana8380]

8 years for me, even longer with an actual relationship

[@harrisonbuck2749]

Wont let you down broskis.

[@chevrolet355]

Denmo is always dropping bangers for us. He is a gift from God. I wish my older brothers gave me the amount of advice he has

[@aidenatorx99]

I’ve got a lot of PTSD from bullying all thru school; mostly by boys but very occasionally girls as well. My self esteem has been severely low for almost all of my life and “being myself” never seemed to make a difference. The car analogy was quite interesting. I haven’t heard it before. I was terrified of driving when I was 16 but now I do it for a job 😅 I’ll definitely keep that example in mind. I do want to say that being autistic + ADHD makes socialising of any kind makes things a hell of a lot harder so I’m not sure about 100 😂

[@neededaname4157]

That like and sub in the beginning was smooth.

[@dh8148]

10:53 - goddamn that stung. But I feel like it's what I needed.

[@Denmosocial]

hope it helped you G

[@jazzblue7497]

I have got to share my experienxe here, halfway through the video. To make it short, my first gf approached me and after that, I constructed an online niche micro celebrity persona for the art of memeing, which also ended up getting me laid. Women have been approaching me, but I dont feel like enganging in those fake ways to get there anymore. I would rather meet people in real life, and approach them with interest without feeling ashamed about it

[@d-8664]

Girls do need to approach guys since most men that approach them are not their type. Also, concerning sex women think about it the same as men.

[@DonJam-m7f]

Hey man, I’m 31 years old. I don’t know how that is looked at by woman but anyways today after the gym, I went to grab some tank tops from the clothing store nearby and apparently the most beautiful chick from the gym also happened to be there. I just walked over to her And set a line and then introduce myself shook hands and I told her I will probably see her at the gym again that’s it but I felt like I won $1 million. I don’t know if I will see her at the gym again or not maybe I will, but if I will, I’m gonna go and talk to her, thank you for your help. I was watching your video five minutes before I walked over to her.

[@redhawk7593]

I’m 20 and man, this video has helped a lot and has helped me to look at things from a different perspective. Thank you Denmo for this video, and answer the question at 10:01 - 1. Which is better than normal 😅 but I’m going to be making changes to my life and I hope to have some results from these changes 6 months from now and I’ll give a update if I remember lol.

[@lifeisshort.9869]

Girls DON'T want to be approached by normies, your advice is decent but only for a CHAD that don't know he is a chad yet.

[@kyleh4339]

I know for certain that I'm not attractive to women. Tried dating apps for a few weeks, didnt get a single like (from a non-bot) for 4 weeks. So I deleted the apps lol. Social media and internet completely distorts the reality of women.

[@realthoo]

its not being about a virgin(i still iam) its about not making a deep connection with a woman. im 30 im working out since 7 months and found a job . nothing really changed yet besides my financial situation,

[@ShyamRatanjee]

One of Denmos best video ! ❤

[@KennethSee]

I’m fine meeting them. They just don’t like me after getting to know me.

[@MrANTIeggman]

I used to get girls but no longer do. It's been 6 months since I I've slept with a woman and it started with me trying to keep myself for someone special. Now I just feel like a loser because instead of talking to red flags, I'm not able to talk to anyone. I'm going to go to the bar a bunch if times (by myself) and see if that does something. Doubt I'll find someone normal there but I haven't found anyone normal at church, golf or Badminton.... Soo....

[@prettyboishah2898]

Are you saying you regret sleeping with that one woman?

[@EricBateman0]

I don't think this will work for me. I've reached a point so low that I am genuinely very uncomfortable being around women.

[@oxymarvin]

uncomfortable? why

[@EricBateman0]

@@oxymarvin I don't know. When they look at me, I am afraid.

[@bohemianist2082]

9:56 0,0,0 i need to go out, i was like you and what happened is the journey of universal exploration began and i spent 7 years by myself retreat from society, and now begin to come back slowly and it is so difficult to interaction especially intimate and genuine. like spending so much time with science made so hard to give my attention taking serious the interaction. but i want to interact as well. so i went out today and smiled someone. and she smiled back. this is where i started, for the records.

[@H0NZ3S]

15:00 this resonated with me, did that in the past and it went exactly how you said

[@TheTurbonisse]

Q1 I work in a hospital so i have met at least 40 women as colleagues. Q2 maybe 3 women who i a cold approched and dowtown or work. Q3 zero. Really god Videos as always denmo!

[@stuart3808]

This is exactly the advice I needed 30 years ago.

[@Denmosocial]

all good you are hearing it now

[@jonathancarey3029]

When you've been married 7 years and she decides to leave you, you realize you haven't talked to an attractive woman who doesnt despise you for a long time. I used to be very attractive to women. Now my confidence has never been lower.

[@OGJohnMarston]

It’s true. And once you realize it and get that self confidence, girls will see it too. When you actually are able to start realizing the signs of girls being into you, the game becomes way easier.

[@DrSimonFokt]

Too many guys give up without trying very hard. The convenience culture makes us think we should get everything with no effort. Well, everything worth anything requires effort. Go out and try.

[@KairoGomes-r8m]

Ive tried 14 years

[@UltraCodex66]

I have to confirm all of this for the lads out there, because when I commented some bollocks during a lecture, that “mysterious hot girl” noticed me, started talking to me when I approached my friend who was with her and then when I invited her to a show we put on, she became interested and agreed to go out for a movie right away, where she put her head on my shoulder. If you dont believe me then at least believe in yourself, you CAN fucking do it, all you have to do is - to DO IT

[@jacobkrebs7248]

When you asked about talking to girls like that I'm thinking 2 was probably enough but now I see how silly that sounds 😂

[@DanielDaBest45]

I was thinking about this title/theme and boom jack posted it lol (no joke) W DENMO

[@damaresimms4714]

Been grinding on my business for the last few months, and just realized I haven’t spoken to a woman I didn’t already know for like 3 months.

[@atriafire]

im on it boss 💪

[@easonchao6812]

I won't let you down teach

[@psAIchadelic]

Disagree about deleting dating apps. It can be a nice supplement to IRL, but nothing more than a supplement

[@man7889]

As a 26 year old male virgin who struggles to put himself out there, i needed to hear the points made in this video. Im terrified of making the first step and just unsure how to go about doing it. This has also affected other areas in my life and its definitely created severe frustration in my life...

[@MrJuan_Vzla]

Bro, you can do it. I'm in the same situation and regret not taking action. The difference? I'm 33 y/o.

[@man7889]

@MrJuan_Vzla Thank you brother! Please remember that 33 is not old! I hope you find your peace and accomplish your goals :)

[@orderofshadow]

i’m tryyyiiiiiiingggggg 😩😩😩😩

[@Malice_Knight]

Bros intro is the god damm wisest thing ive ever heard

[@Colombo.s]

As someone who likes playing videogames, watching movies and series, I don't really feel like going out 😅 which is why I either try talking through dating apps and running out of things to say very quickly or simply giving up entirely on dating.

[@BRichard312]

Jack, what you don't understand about single men is that for a man to be successful with women, and by that I mean being able to easily talk to and connect with women requires an energy that is both compelling, interesting, and confident. I've been in the club for 30 years almost every weekend in some years and I've literally seen it all relative to the social dynamics between single and married men and women. One of the things I've learned, among several lessons, is that you've got to "be the happening" wherever you go. I don't party much anymore but I STILL have friends who contact me to this day, principally women, asking me to hang out with them because I make the experience memorable every time. Can you teach what I just wrote to socially awkward men? I don't know - I'm on the fence here because there are a certain group of men who can be taught and others who can't. You have to be very careful when you share such ideas with men because the first thought they will have is "I have to be someone I'm not to get someone I want." That doesn't and will not work. You mentioned, with disdain, how you have to "hold men by the hand" on this issue. Yes you do and even more importantly, you have to show them and even that won't make the appropriate impact with some men. I've been in situations before where I literally brought a woman over to a socially awkward man to talk to and he f%&cked it up. This is after coaching him before I brought the girl over. So, it's relative here - be nice, be compassionate, and most of all you must be patient with men in this area. Your video will positively impact less than 35% of your target male audience.

[@MarioBrosJediKnightXD]

This reminded me of a joke "Here you go, dude i don't like roses, i thought you liked roses, i don't, but all girls like roses, well i like chocolate, all you gotta do is just ask me what i want". The point is, if you don't ask, you are never going to know what a girl wants.

[@ethan-sq6zv]

I actually was just thinking about myself not having enough conversations with women my age today lol

[@morseus7217]

This is all great advice in all, but to have women as that big of a priority to the point where you are trying to interact with over 100 in just a few months and doing multiple dates a week seems more like desperation to me. When you make them that big of a priority you may lose part of yourself, and of the things you enjoy

[@ResistancePls]

I'm 190cm, darker hair, athletic build, I have a secure high paying job, I have my own car, I own an apartment I live in, I wear nice clothes, I always smell nice, but I just simply cannot talk to women in real life. I would go to a bar, see very clear and obvious signs that a girl wants me to approach and I just don't do anything. I don't know what is wrong with me, I don't have social anxiety cause my work requires me to do presentations in front of few hundred strangers once a month, I have to socialize daily with strangers, but I just cannot talk to women I find attractive. Women I know are taken and married or women at work I have no issues with talking, but as soon as I see a cute girl I find attractive I just cannot approach, there is this deep energy in me just holding me and constantly drags me back. I cannot describe the feeling I get when I should approach, something isn't letting me move forward. Whats wrong with me, do I need a therapist?

[@LukeGilroy]

I don’t know if you need a therapist, perhaps you do, perhaps you don’t. But it sounds like nervousness to me, and there’s only one cure for that - you have to force yourself. Now, if you haven’t much experience with approaches, you will probably mess up the first several times - this if fine, all men do it. It’s not life-ending. First start with baby steps. If you make eye contact across a room, hold it and smile then get back on what you were doing - maybe even gesture hello. Once you’re confident with that, try saying something relevant to the situation (the weather, the design of the room, her shoes etc) to her “Hello, my name is…” This is how I learned, hope it helps you. 👍

[@ResistancePls]

@@LukeGilroy maybe im gay?

[@pauligyarto3179]

​@ResistancePls you'd know if you were. Just try to relax my guy.

[@georgesotiriadis2763]

@@ResistancePls LoL dude hell no lol its classic nervousness we all have that when you like a girl lol i even do it you have to find the switch in your mind to stop make this girl you find attractive godness no dude she is not better tell that to yourself when you feel that way. Also the rejection is a part of the game fear keep us from doing great things in life general so an advice of a random guy who thought the same and tries to fix it is you have everything you said use this to gain confidence.

[@tho207]

🎾🎾 take these. next time you'll have to grow your own

[@likhibana]

It's called hyperrealism, the blurred lines between simulation and reality. Women face it, too, especially growing up with Disney movies. When we all realize nothing we perceive online is real, it is the moment we become free of expectations. I wish the best for the guys out there.