5 Ways To Elegantly Deal With Rudeness | How To Keep Your Calm With Rude People

[@orchidbeautybabe3837]

1. Don't take it personal. 2. Set positive example, set tone, be pleasant, take high road. 3. Gather thoughts before responding to maintain composure.

[@alanadonaldson]

I have a 50 year old lady that picks with me at work I checked her before and told my boss as mother gave that advice to and he said he would talk to her about how rude she’s been and the more I ignore her sarcasm and rude behavior it bothers her more lol 😂 and laugh. It off cause she doesn’t pay my bills at the end of the day I go to work to work not be involved in drama and gossip

[@Thislife78-p1w]

Be calm, cool, and collected. It's easier said than done. I guess it also takes practice to deal with unkind people.

[@makedabeavers1017]

Great video!! I love your necklace!!!

[@TheModernLady]

Thank you so much! 🥂 This necklace is one I’ve had for years, it’s definitely one of my favorites!

[@nida1990]

I am addicted to your channel! Helping me professionally and generally in life :)

[@TheModernLady]

Thank you for such kind words! 💛 That is my goal of this channel, I’m so delighted to hear you are inspired by my videos!!

[@stacielivinthedream8510]

You're such a bright young beautiful woman! Love how true to yourself that you are! ❤️ I needed you!

[@shelleygazy2239]

I have a disability that makes socializing difficult. All through my life, I will be 70 this year, I have valued being a lady, but people laugh at me, do unkind imitations of my face and voice and use names when referring to me. I wonder if they see my tears. I want to stay at home alone, but I am lonely.

[@happyfriday607]

Shelley Gazy remain strong , dont take it personally .. really. , the rudeness was a reflection of their personality or past experiences . Smile and walk away. You can vent by telling a trusted friend, pray, and or journal. I believe that this people will soon realize their bad behavior towards you esp if you show your kindness and elegance consistently. Have the aura of Je’ ne sAis quoi. Smile!

[@BrandiShariTV]

Loveee your hair! & the video

[@TheModernLady]

Thank you Brandi! 💛 I’m so happy you enjoyed it!

[@handzeepunicura7557]

I feel ashamed of myself. I recently had a sutuation and did not take the high road. I asked a collegue of mine if she had put an extra case to my workload. She then denied it to a point where, if I didn't know better i'd believe her. The reason I got so upset was that she would not admit that she did it. She tried spinning it and saying that i'm responsible for knowing what cases are on my caseload and that if she sends a notification stating that someone has 'a case', it can mean they received multiple cases. Which is not true because i've seen her state several times that someone received for example 3 more cases. What she says is not even logical. I then belittled her a bit. I asked 'Do you understand the importance of handling cases in a certain period of time?' And saying 'what you're saying isn't making any sense/not logical'. I'm sure i had an angry tone in my voice. She gets under my skin constantly. She's not intelligent in my opinion, however she acts like everything she says is correct. I'll try taking the high toad next time. Greetings from Holland.

[@series7644]

Thank you so much

[@Bella-qu1ki]

Love the video and hair!

[@TheModernLady]

😍 Thank you so much darling!

[@margarethpretty9609]

You look absolutely stunning. Thank you for the tips. Overall I think the common thread in all the tips is selflessness.

[@got2bmetodd441]

Great video!

[@TheModernLady]

😊 Thank you for watching! So glad you enjoyed it!

[@watters96able]

Thx for creating these types of videos. These tips will be very helpful for everyday use but mostly in my career as a flight attendant, since I come across all types of personalities.

[@TheModernLady]

Melinda you’re welcome! 💛 Thank you for watching! I’m so glad you enjoyed it! Yes, I can imagine all the types of personalities you encounter during trips! ✈️🥂

[@candicekirkland761]

Great video pretty lady!!!

[@TheModernLady]

Candice, thank you for watching! 💛 I’m delighted you enjoyed it!

[@americamay4402]

Hello, In a situation where a person said a rude remark how should we respond?

[@TheModernLady]

The best response to rudeness is kindness. You can politely respond by either replying to a question that was made or excusing yourself (if necessary). 😊 You can always find a way to exercise grace to rude people.

[@americamay4402]

The Modern Lady thank you

[@TheModernLady]

You’re welcome!

[@tiashadae1143]

Needed video!

[@TheModernLady]

😍 Tia, thank you so much for watching! I’m delighted you enjoyed it!

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