5 Ways to Manipulate a Narcissist (Keep Peace With a Narcissist)

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5 Ways to Manipulate a Narcissist (Keep Peace With a Narcissist)//Narcissists are masters of manipulation. And if you have one in your life, you know how difficult it can be to keep peace. But there are some tricks that they don't expect that will help you maintain a good relationship with them. Rebecca Zung, author, lawyer, and narcissist negotiation expert, shares five tips on how to manipulate a narcissist and keep peace with them.
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✅She is the author of the bestselling books, Negotiate Like You M.A.T.T.E.R.: The Sure Fire Method to Step Up and Win and Breaking Free: A Step-by-Step Divorce Guide for Achieving Emotional, Physical, and Spiritual Freedom, and is a sought after major media contributor.
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[@RebeccaZungEsq]

Learn the most effective strategies when dealing with narcissists in this 100% free webinar. CLICK HERE TO LEARN NOW:👉 www.rebeccazung.com/live

[@RebeccaZungEsq]

Can't wait to share tips and tricks with you!

[@krisquigley4497]

Oh Ms. Zung, you are a wonderful teacher. I have learned so much and am currently in the process of becoming unreachable to my narcissist friend. It's a fascinating process really, and you have helped me to navigate it. I wish you the very best of this world.

[@vinceraver7764]

I got this

[@butterfly7624]

I have a question. Do people usually have more than 1 supply?

[@vanessamorey3812]

Always. That's all people are to them. A stadium filled with 10000 people is just a shelf of Duracell to a narc scumbag... No joke

[@evelina787]

“A narcissist paints a picture of themselves as being the victim or innocent in all aspects. They will be offended by the truth. But what is done in the dark will come to light. Time has a way of showing people’s true colors.” - Karla Grimes

[@evelina787]

“Some relationships are like broken glass. It's better to leave them alone than hurt yourself trying to put them back together.”

[@maryizm]

But what if you have no other choice and you wanna end the relationship but you live with them

[@evelina787]

@@maryizm Are you able to recommend he finds a new home, if you're wishing to st@y in what is your mutu@l home🤔🍀🙏

[@user-yy8px3up5v]

I got this

[@scapps8173]

You always have a choice. Fix you.

[@eiehe93-]

Being with my ex narc for the past 6 yrs. made me observe this very pattern. I think they wanted to feel very important in a way that is disturbing. Instead of building trust with their intimate partners, they destroy the trust that they built with you (in that case lying when they tried to put you in their pedestal). Once they have a committed partner, they can’t stand being loved authentically by one person. Instead they go on and prey on other women that is susceptible to their love bombing. My ex narc was a compulsive pursuer in a relationship. He would go back and forth to the women he were involved before or try to meet women in complicated situation so that going public isn’t an option while having you as their main supply. In the end they destroy the very person that loved them. They are like toddlers testing your love for them. Showing and telling them you love them isn’t enough, they will cheat on your face to make you feel inadequate even if you are more than they deserve. They want to test your love for them so they keep hurting you and when you have enough of their abuse, you leave. Then they tell you, ‘you never loved me because you abandon me’. Well in fact it’s their actions and narcissistic behavior that made you leave or in other cases they discard you and will give silly reasons of the discard. Mine would use, ‘she’s crazy’, ‘she’s a nega-star’, ‘she insults me’, ‘she cheated on me’ et al. So with this pattern of infidelities and emotional abuse (who knows what else) it’s better to walk away. I did walk away and is now rebuilding my life with our daughter. We are struggling financially because I’m not earning enough to provide for my daughter but now we get to laugh and bring with us sunshine every day. No lies, no abuse and no fake love. We only live once, forgive yourself and move forward but never forget the lesson that narc abuse taught you. That is to respect yourself to walk away from what’s hurting and destroying you. That you deserve a life of solitude, happiness and love. Hugs*** :) Additionally I hired a private detective Metaspyhub@gmail. com. Once I knew what the narc was up to, it got easier to get over that lying, cheating, sack of doo doo, loser. I didn’t need closure from the narc, I paid for it. Best money I EVER spent!

[@hibiscushoney3759]

I am very happy for you escaping and gathering yourself to leave. I wish you and your child peace healing and happiness. I left my ex abusive narcissist 8 years ago. After 16 yrs . It was a grieving and rebuilding process. My child & I were better off without the chaos,disregard & dysfunction he brought. It is harder on some days than others. I promise you did the best you could do. Ultimately leaving. Never look back. They don't change & are severely humanely bankrupt in their relationships. This chanel on yt is excellent to guide through dealing with Narcissists. Also Dr. RAMANI & Dr. Carter. All of them helped me heal & grasp reality of what is the monster that unmasked himself. I am grateful to them. Don't blame yourself or think you could've gotten better outcome. Get strong stray & no contact . Your lives will improve with peace& love.

[@jackjyoung]

you cannot barter with a narcissist. they will always take but never give what they promise. they will laugh at you behind your back and think you stupid.

[@askew9976]

I know that I’m made fun of, it happens to my face, so obviously it’s behind my back too. Yet I continue to keep contact.

[@LONEWOLF-tn7kd]

Actually this is more like a psychopath

[@beaulieuc8910]

Yes

[@beccavry]

"If you need to go shower or vomit later..." I'm laughing so hard I'm crying! Your delivery of wisdom is so refreshing! I GOT THIS!

[@clarissagiles734]

😂

[@sherita4404]

That part was funny 😂😅

[@beaulieuc8910]

Lol

[@jennyjose8440]

🤔😃✌️

[@heaven-is-real]

Just attempting to keep peace with a narcissist is a big mistake.

[@jeanbroese3945]

Agree

[@kattackett9087]

Sometimes your married to them or a living with an elderly parent who's narcissistic & you have not many choices except learning to live in peace by manipulating them back. As smart as they think they are, at times their own self absorbed arrogance makes them dumb as rocks 😂

[@SolomonSage]

Not really

[@janettekreulen54]

Pig wrestle..you get dirty to

[@heaven-is-real]

@Mr Orange don't do it the narc will sacrifice your kids without hesitating

[@renztaylor5904]

Needless to say I GOT THIS!!! It’s hell now but I know I’m smarter, wiser, the truth alway prevails.

[@danbride9407]

Or honesty

[@RebeccaZungEsq]

this might help you better as well slay.rebeccazung.com/home

[@virginial7533]

“They get supply from jerking you around” - yes. Needed to hear that. Thank you. It’s one of their less obvious tactics.

[@askew9976]

I 💯 % agree with this. I experience it on the regular. I’m getting tired of it. He’s noticing 😊

[@balancedfreedom4116]

Identifying my own weaknesses and triggers that the narc targets has been essential! Now when the narc goes after that area, I’m able to catch it and laugh in my head at the attempt, maintaining confidence. It is baffling to the narc AND allows me to grow in that area of weakness!! I appreciate your wisdom and advice so much!!!

[@afcafavec]

That's the best thing really. Know yourself v well, self preservation is key.

[@irina0808]

To make long story short - just behave like them. Be like their mirror. Narcissists are used to cheat normal people and they expect you not to lie and behave properly, so just mess them up by behaving like them because they are not expecting to have someone like them on another side.

[@beaulieuc8910]

It's funny when you play with at their own Game

[@firstnamebunchofnumbers3738]

Just my opinion, but doesn’t that lower you to their level? If you mirror bad behavior you are acting like an empty vessel. Just waiting to be filled with whatever nonsense is being poured into you.

[@democratictotalitariansoci1462]

@@firstnamebunchofnumbers3738 Being quiet is way lower than mirroring.

[@jeffwhitehead2328]

My situation has been very tough . My son died in a tragic accident 4 years ago. Leaving my daughter in law and baby grandson to live with us. My daughter in law has managed to manipulate me into raising her son this whole time . Besides making our home a war zone. She is always causing problems for everyone. Sh has never taken any wise advice because she thinks she already knows everything. Our family is just about to be freed. From her web. We started charging a small amount of rent and now she is leaving to another free source. Thank you for all the help. In my heart I knew something was very wrong but I needed the knowledge behind it. Thank you. God bless you

[@ammararafique5237]

Sorry for your loss.

[@kuttingcolors1775]

Thank you for your videos I actually won spousal support today with no lawyer listening to you gods angel sent from heaven next is house and the amount I will receive thank you thank you keep doing videos !

[@kuttingcolors1775]

I got this 👍

[@shawnyvillaintawny3549]

They lie about everything all the time but can’t hold track on their lies so it’s easy to trick them with the same question over and over again you get two hundred different answers on the same question . Best if you already know the truth then u stay confident . I have a 5 minute long conversation with my narc ex fiancé after he hit me quite bad . I would like to show it ( no faces are showing ) but it is in Swedish . I think a lot of woman would have reqonize themselves listen to that .

[@tammybrasel2951]

You are Awesome! Thank you Rebecca!! Needed that!!

[@skinfanatics719]

The best video I’ve seen on how to deal with a narcissist. Thank you so much 😊

[@wjdyr6261]

The best way to manipulate them is by not even doing it. Let them think that you're manipulating them and they'll keep themselves in suspense

[@buildingshousesinteriordes8980]

Go no contact and don't play a manipulation game back with them. It is a waste of time.

[@silviac221]

Oh yes.

[@balancedfreedom4116]

😂😂😂😂😂

[@RebeccaZungEsq]

How are you doing now? Hope you're feeling well and getting your power back! 💪 This might help - slay.rebeccazung.com/

[@beaulieuc8910]

Exactly

[@suejohnson535]

I got this ! Thank you for your videos ,it helps me alot ! Hope you have a safe & blessed day.

[@rekhaahluwalia2439]

Boom … Awesome .. Rebecca you are amazing amazing ! Thank you for all the brilliant stuff …!

[@leooja4055]

I got this! Thank you for making it clear to me what has worked in the past and why I should be moving forwards with your pentapartite.

[@lizzysbeautyshowetc.6895]

They are different types of narcissist I don't think this will work well with narcissist who lash out at you and scream at you for no reason so in my case my best solution is no contact, and stay away from toxic people.

[@xsrtovys800]

Thank you Rebecca... God Bless you..

[@yukio_saito]

05:25 2. Stay confident 06:14 3. Allow them to keep talking 07:01 4. Give them room to hang themselves 08:41 5. Ask them for their advice or thoughts on things Actually, those ways worked really well when I dealt with a toxic ex-coworker. I didn't get manipulated, and I controlled him successfully.

[@yukio_saito]

06:14 3. Allow them to keep talking 08:41 5. Ask them for their advice or thoughts on things Just let them talk. You don't need to follow what they say.

[@cassidy-beaukitt1972]

Thank you SOOOOO much

[@jacquelinegrace3]

Bravo!!!!👏👏👏👏👏

[@biztab593]

I got this ya heard me 😅

[@durelltrago62]

Very good advice here. Thanks!

[@howardgilling3255]

A very good thing I learned. Thank you.

[@TheCm1546]

This was so awesome ❤thank you! Breaking up with a narcissist I live with now and it’s during my initial phase of sobriety so I am all over the place and can’t be in conflict all the time.

[@angiecajka6712]

Always appreciate your advice. I GOT THIS!!

[@RebeccaZungEsq]

How are you doing now? Hope you're feeling well and getting your power back! 💪 This might help - slay.rebeccazung.com/

[@marlenepoulin9554]

Awesome advice!! Certainly I got it! Thank you Rebecca!❤

[@RebeccaZungEsq]

How are you doing now? Hope you're feeling well and getting your power back! 💪 This might help - slay.rebeccazung.com/

[@40Marise]

Brutally honest, thank you

[@TheManWhoDraws]

Your awesome, thanks for the help!

[@scentsbda]

Thanks for this! It just gave me the confidence to face my narc 🙏🏾

[@RebeccaZungEsq]

How are you doing now? Hope you're feeling well and getting your power back! 💪 This might help - slay.rebeccazung.com/

[@brucefrazier9051]

Wow..you are nailing my situation. Thank you so much

[@RebeccaZungEsq]

Stay strong! ❤

[@user-qe2fh8uz4b]

Thank you so.much for sharing this. This is.my first time visiting and I did subscribe. I can really say I learned a lot from this thank you so much for sharing

[@theresamore5567]

I am ready and I totally got this.

[@josee-karineanglade2]

It's also a method to get rid of that parasitic relationshit. Thank you Ms Zung!

[@RebeccaZungEsq]

Proud of you! You got this ❤

[@GloriaGonzalez-zz4wp]

🎉🎉🎉🎉 Thank you for this video Recbeca Zung

[@mistiwjordan3268]

Thank goodness for you, you are truly a gift for those who need it the most, like myself! Godbless you and thank you so much for all you do!

[@asteriamariambereshu3927]

Thanks Rebecca, this msg blessed me alooot.👏🏼👏🏼💞💞

[@RebeccaZungEsq]

I'm glad to be helping! What is one point that you start using today?

[@kimt8162]

I so understand this; My ex, still is just so argumentative over EVERYTHING. I've had to set boundaries. SHe's so right. He has gotten controlling. I GOT THIS.

[@seancassidy9771]

God bless you.i got this!!!

[@annekenney6914]

I agree with some things, but I'm not going to boost their ego. Done with that.

[@debbiesheehan6904]

😂😂😂

[@user-of9bx1uk3u]

Ahah 😅😂🤣

[@carlarm1896]

@@annekenney6914 It’s not about building their ego, it’s about being wise enough to use their ego for your benefit. There are no benefits with a narcissist except for their own devices.

[@angiedjukic8884]

Thanks Like this video Stay safe

[@j.d.b.pennamesonofharraant3367]

THANK YOU

[@karenbernstein5603]

I see so much more now. How do you know so much about this? I’ve felt exactly what you discuss in your videos. I don’t understand why it is that, having reasoned out these facts about the narcissist in my life, I can’t simply walk away? I’m overwhelmed

[@kavitaarora1]

Thank you Rebecca. I GOT THIS ❤️

[@RebeccaZungEsq]

Stay strong! ❤

[@stephaniegarcia-hb9mb]

Love this video

[@kadelu1137]

Thank you

[@nikkikruz8458]

#4 is the one!!!!!!!

[@patrickenck9541]

got this, Rebecca. thank you!

[@RebeccaZungEsq]

I'm glad to be helping! What is one point that you start using today?

[@conniewheeler962]

Thank u. Am listening.I

[@stephaniegarcia-hb9mb]

These videos are helping me

[@christinaackerman7734]

Thank you so much 💓

[@RebeccaZungEsq]

How are you doing now? Hope you're feeling well and getting your power back! 💪 This might help - slay.rebeccazung.com/

[@TerryJacksonEl]

I got this!!!

[@socialpoint2415]

Narcissists are very gullible. They’ll believe anything you tell them as long as it boosts their ego.

[@CLHS1944]

I thank God for you and your advice! Wow you have help me incredibly! Slaying the ex a narc!🔥🔥🔥

[@RebeccaZungEsq]

How are you doing now? Hope you're feeling well and getting your power back! 💪 This might help - slay.rebeccazung.com/

[@user-ps9kk9ql8d]

I got this!

[@chrisbernal1120]

Thanks for helping me define the Narcissists. My neighbor is a smart guy and can be pretty cool, but he’s a raging narcissist. His favorite trick is to say “I know” as soon as you open your mouth, then proceed to tell you his life story. Luckily, I have thick skin. For me, it’s mildly entertaining. He’s love bombing lately.

[@kamicrum4408]

Take what you want ignore the rest!

[@clarissagiles734]

My mom does the “I know” bit 😂

[@butterfly7624]

Reminds me of my old landlord.

[@fidelmashelton9491]

I got this Rebecca.

[@bohochic2459]

I GOT THIS! 💗

[@chrisgreen5346]

the thing is they always believe there lies it`s like there truth hi i am from nz yap we get those lovely people to thank you for the video enjoy your day. sigin yours Chris

[@vincentshoultz5305]

I Always Enjoy Your Videos. I Learn so much from them. I Learned a lot about my marriage, wife and myself. I wish I would have started watching your videos B4, I Got Married.. Probably wouldn't have gotten married. Keep Up The Fantastic Work, I encourage You Too. GOD BLESS YOU.

[@RebeccaZungEsq]

How are you doing now? Hope you're feeling well and getting your power back! 💪 This might help - slay.rebeccazung.com/

[@frankeydaniels]

The narcissist i dated i belive theres absolutely nothing you can say to change her mind about anything. Shes a die hard confidence person like you've never met. And when you meet her you will think shes the most sweetest charasmatic person youve ever met. Shes really good and smart!

[@user-of9bx1uk3u]

I got it!💕

[@lenaleong4894]

Thank u

[@beaulieuc8910]

Great video. Bartering is an interesting idea though some narc will not keep their side of the bargain

[@michwashington]

I got this ‼️

[@pe2914]

I GOT THIS!!

[@jacobl7451]

There’s no way to win. You have to sever contact so that they are alone with nobody to fuel their ego

[@UCFXFOREX]

I got this.

[@mistiwjordan3268]

Best advice out there for someone fighting this

[@RebeccaZungEsq]

How are you doing now? Hope you're feeling well and getting your power back! 💪 This might help - slay.rebeccazung.com/

[@Krystal620]

“I GOT THIS!” 🙋‍♀️

[@staceywilliams8847]

I GOT this!

[@Jamesaro]

I got this 😊

[@pe2914]

I GOT THIS!

[@debramarshall4293]

That's exactly what I do. I give them room to hang their own selves. Also they are very very lazy. So true. They always mess their own selves up you don't even have to do nothing to them but ignore them like I do. Love your channel.

[@butterfly7624]

Exactly! The more you ignore them the more they show their true colors.

[@beaulieuc8910]

Well said

[@daulee09]

Tksssssss 🤟🏻

[@gj5689]

I've got this!

[@seancassidy9771]

I got this Rebecca

[@susananderson1209]

I got this!!!!!

[@innafurman3732]

I git this!

[@user-gv4ch1zk3h]

I got this

[@vincentshoultz5305]

I GOT THIS!!!!!!

[@Indielizard711]

I got this! I have narcissistic roommate and omg! I am so sorry to anyone with a narcissistic family member or partner.

[@tchrisou812]

What is that experience like?

[@kiwicreation5931]

I got this!!!! :)

[@tinakelly668]

I GOT THIS

[@vitamix3676]

1. Get them to do chores for you hahaha nice. I will enjoy this.

[@bellamichelle22]

i got this

[@j.d.b.pennamesonofharraant3367]

Cleaning my KZbin ... I was being spammed and my Facebook was messed with ... I have not been on facebook since mid last year ... I meant what I said ... You are my Manager

[@edwardshepherd5275]

I got this with out hesitation! Use what they say against them like the police!

[@RebeccaZungEsq]

I'm glad to be helping! What is one point that you start using today?

[@ritadavey9891]

I go them!!

[@mreous333]

Asking specific questions can make it easy to catch them in lies.

[@delorestaylor8114]

It is always damage control.

[@dawnviereck2537]

I got this ❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@carolcoates3750]

After 60 years of having a narcissistic sister, I watched your videos and suddenly realised that is what she is, to a T. I was beaten, asked for loans and drive her five children and their children away. She's only capable of 'using' one member of the family in her life. I walked away from her four years ago after paying for eight family members to holiday in Wales, the other side of England. They all decided to take several of their children without a thought of the cost to me. My sister got very drunk and I started putting my a few bits in my car to leave the next day. When I tried to get back into the villa, she had locked up and told everyone NOT to let me in. My dog and I slept in my car in freezing temperatures. In the morning, they had left without me and my belongings. After eight hours trying to get home, I was so stressed and emotionally drained. It's been four years but she on the odd occasion, she will try and contact me via message. Last week, she got 'shot' all BS. Today, I received a text 'I know you hate me but would you do me one favour?' So hard to ignore but I've promised myself I will not respond. Because of that text, I've locked my door and it will stay locked. She has made me imprison myself and my little dog. Never let that happen to you, they will destroy your life as she has mine. I was 65 when she beat me, while drunk and no family members came to my aid.

[@RebeccaZungEsq]

How are you doing now? Hope you're feeling well and getting your power back! 💪 This might help - slay.rebeccazung.com/

[@debramarshall4293]

I Got This.

[@jeffreybaier5312]

That's the difference, you have ethics and morals, thanks Rebbeca.

[@dudinka777]

I got this 👍 💪 👌

[@marianperron9219]

I might have been able to stay married if I heard you decades ago. As it is, I’m so very glad I left and saved my “self.”

[@JasonBlack66]

That's the thing. I don't want to manipulate anybody. but I need peace with my narcissist because I love my narcissist. I genuinely care for my big N. I hope this video shows me how

[@kattackett9087]

Same boat here. Love them but so very drained, weary, depressed. Just don't know how to live with them or without them.

[@terrispencer2026]

Understand that completely

[@carolinekamya2339]

Waste of time AND ENERGY- BOTTOMLESS PITS FILLED WITH A lack of self love -

[@rekhanahar3253]

I get that