How To Make Narcissists MISS YOU After Yo-Yo Discard

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Michele Lee Nieves Coaching

Michele Lee Nieves Coaching

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@jowiens32
@jowiens32 Жыл бұрын
I don’t want them to miss me. I want them to go away and forget about me. 😢
@kimgordon3695
@kimgordon3695 Жыл бұрын
That's PROGRESS! 🙋
@ladanmoosavi1283
@ladanmoosavi1283 Жыл бұрын
👍 ⭐ 🌟 ⭐ 🌟 ⭐ 💯
@tinyblondie6226
@tinyblondie6226 Жыл бұрын
Yes! I feel the same, i love them but i cannot do this any longer its been 15 years..there is only so much someone can be pushed and i never thought id ever break this trauma bond but its finally happened. It doesnt mean i dont wish it could of been different im just ready to let this go, i loved him so much and we have 2 babies but im a shell of a person and im ready to be happy again. I agree’d when he discarded me a few weeks ago that it was over and straight away he obviously didnt like that he wanted me to beg and plead for him to not end things..i didnt i shifted something in my mind and was ready for this to be over but then the stuff he did after, the love bombing, the toxic awful stuff, he began doing anything to make me come back round where i just felt like i just had to go along with it to stop him being in this reactionary mode. What now?
@susannay.3437
@susannay.3437 Жыл бұрын
Me too! 🥲
@jamieleigh807
@jamieleigh807 Жыл бұрын
You’re not getting the point silly
@SuzyQ-v1p
@SuzyQ-v1p 11 ай бұрын
Knowledge is power. Do I want them to miss me even though I never want them back? Absolutely! Tables have turned!
@tamikajames3829
@tamikajames3829 8 ай бұрын
This!!!!
@digdug9275
@digdug9275 7 ай бұрын
They always think the grass is greener. Lol!!!! NOT!!!! It's brown n dead😮
@LeahScott-p8q
@LeahScott-p8q 3 ай бұрын
@@digdug9275hahahaha❤😂 right!!
@makisnerantzis8427
@makisnerantzis8427 Жыл бұрын
No contact at any cost!!!📵🔥
@KillMooseKill
@KillMooseKill 5 ай бұрын
I think stay in contact and make them believe you are still under their thumb so they don't try to sabotage relationships around you.
@jacksaintjack2844
@jacksaintjack2844 8 ай бұрын
If missing me brings them pain.......I'm all in !
@tamikajames3829
@tamikajames3829 8 ай бұрын
Also this
@cristylea80
@cristylea80 6 ай бұрын
Thats narcissistic! Lol...
@LeahScott-p8q
@LeahScott-p8q 3 ай бұрын
That’s what I said😂😂. First it was heck no I want them to go away why would I want them to care.. but I’d rather Them have pain too.. while my number is changed and everything
@watermelon520b
@watermelon520b 2 ай бұрын
@@LeahScott-p8q yes revenge is a dish best served cold, and on blocked haha
@venicer772
@venicer772 Жыл бұрын
Them missing me is the last thing I would care about.
@J2-pe6wz
@J2-pe6wz 4 ай бұрын
You say....watching a video you searched for to answer the question. Come on be honest with yourself at least! [I want mine to miss me]
@sassygirl7817
@sassygirl7817 Жыл бұрын
After 7 1/2 years I don’t even know who I am anymore. I can’t remember the last time I laughed
@SquishyGrayMatter
@SquishyGrayMatter Жыл бұрын
@@ashx2643same
@javieracuna8180
@javieracuna8180 9 ай бұрын
I know what you mean. I wish you all the best. You deserve it
@sassygirl7817
@sassygirl7817 8 ай бұрын
@@javieracuna8180 thank you. I want to leave so badly, but am paralyzed with fear and a huge lack of confidence
@Oceansgreen
@Oceansgreen 8 ай бұрын
It’s difficult, I’m the same, I feel so lost at times, so alone, so worthless!! But, at least we have peace, no more being scared to say anything, scared to do anything, scared to disagree with them…. Scared to be yourself, that’s why we don’t know who we are at times, for so long we havn’t been allowed to be ourselves, we’ve lived their lives, did what they wanted, agreed with them, although in our minds we didn’t. We’ve been so used to being what they wanted us to be we lost our identity, lost our personalities, lost our voice. I’m hoping all these things will eventually come back but, after being with ex narc 37 years, it could take time, how long? Only time will tell. I wish you well🩷
@tbjorns1153
@tbjorns1153 Жыл бұрын
I think they also miss the Empath especially since they are devoid of adult empathy... the miss someone like an empath and their unconditional empathy, they kniw as well its not likely they will find it in new supply....
@benwil1715
@benwil1715 Жыл бұрын
Somehow i always maintained "a sense of self"!!... Thank god
@Freethnkr
@Freethnkr 11 ай бұрын
Here's 1 of the many things or (POB) that I've paid attention to with them...As long as you go, DO YOU, & live your life unbothered, what ever or whom ever they are giving their time & attention to will not last but so long, be it a week, a month or a year, they knew when they discarded you outta spite that they would possibly need to come back, that's why they never lose your number, never give closure, never completely close the door, narcs don't know if "the new supply" will work out or be a flop...And that goes for any new supply, be it me you or the next person...But they will miss you because they know just like you should know, you were good to them & did not deserve to be treated badly and truth be told, they didn't deserve any of us...
@helenesjoli
@helenesjoli 5 ай бұрын
It depends on what the need the narcissist has for you if she/he uses you to be the one to find new narcissistic supply but don’t want you back in
@paulnothnagel2136
@paulnothnagel2136 9 ай бұрын
Thank you. You are so exact. It outlines exactly what happened, and allows me to realize the truth of it; rather than the dillusion. I do need therapy, many people don't understand that it was a truly traumatic experience that changes your life.
@carolinetrowe
@carolinetrowe 10 ай бұрын
Im embarrassed to say he discarded me and blocked me but i did send him many emails. I finally stopped but im on day 4. It has been 1 month since the discard. He went back to his ex whom he has treated horribly and she took him back. Its so sad how broken we are that we allow this to continue. I just want to heal, move on and never go back to him.
@amandacelestine3835
@amandacelestine3835 3 ай бұрын
I am in the same boat. He discarded me and it’s been a month and I was reaching out nearly every day. Today is day one for me doing no contact. How has your healing been since you made this comment?
@kalena26
@kalena26 Жыл бұрын
This video is such a blessing. Thank you. Recently was discarded for the 4th time, (18 year on again / off again). After the first 3 discards I always felt like it was my fault, and carried so much shame. So when he would contact me again I would always go back and try to 'make it right', or 'make it up to him' in some way. This time is totally different. "You have no power over me"! I love at the end of the video when you say the person you miss the most is yourself. So true! I truly feel like I need to now protect and get to know my younger self, and bring her in to the now with my current self, whoever that may be. For the first time in a very long time I feel empowered. Thank you.
@ladanmoosavi1283
@ladanmoosavi1283 Жыл бұрын
👍 I liked this part: "you have no power over me." 🙏👌💯
@LoveDancingLoveSinging
@LoveDancingLoveSinging Жыл бұрын
Honestly after watching this, if have to say that what you explained is all so true! I wish that I could like this video with 100 likes! 😊❤️❤️❤️
@kimgordon3695
@kimgordon3695 Жыл бұрын
It's very freeing! We are each at the helm & need to choose wisely. 💞
@reettaelina
@reettaelina Жыл бұрын
Yes I have seen this happening they get worse every time so calculated and discusting
@chrysatsrp12345
@chrysatsrp12345 Жыл бұрын
I N E V E R thought I would ever get out of this yo-yo narc nightmare with my mother and my ex. Always craving for them to validate me and miss me. I'm so gratefull that I'm now at this point of awareness, self healing,self discipline and self love that I don't really care even if they will even contact me again.Pure neutral grey rock. And I feel only pitty for any new supply human being that will come in their way.Not them,as I also gave up the fantasy that they will change. Thanks to Michele and her Thrivers School. Thank you!❤
@erickbenjaminperez3131
@erickbenjaminperez3131 5 ай бұрын
Many ppl would want them to miss you "not" to go back with them but to have the satisfaction of knowing that it will be impossible if not a very long time to meet the type of person they lost. Its almost like a needed breath of air to ego and identity of the victim.
@lemagloria
@lemagloria Жыл бұрын
yes I'm watching this without wanting him back :)
@gestfue432
@gestfue432 Жыл бұрын
Excellent video and information!thank you Michelle😊
@Angell_Lee
@Angell_Lee Жыл бұрын
You are so beautiful and amazing that it makes me cry, just knowing people like you exist brighten my life. I wish lots of love and success, thank you love. I hope you are so proud of yourself, even do I'm just a username to you, I hope you know you make a Huge positive impact to many xo
@zion367
@zion367 7 ай бұрын
Just keeping it real here... It strokes my ego if I know they miss me and I like that feeling.
@sheriMonforte
@sheriMonforte 4 ай бұрын
Omg Michelle your before pic, so telling. Thank you for your heart
@PanchoLippincott
@PanchoLippincott 9 ай бұрын
Marvelous. Full of wisdom. Do what she says, folks!
@EQ-dc8tq
@EQ-dc8tq Жыл бұрын
Yes I was thinking of that labyrinth quote when my heart finally cut the cord on the narc! ❤️
@efrenjf7685
@efrenjf7685 10 ай бұрын
Yep, it just happened to me last week EXACTLY as you said. He went nuts because his brother added me on facebook (like he was scare that I was going to realize of so many of his lies trought him) and he said stuff and I gave him that asnwer, without knowing. I said, "You know what? I think you should just delete me and move on" and yea, he went more crazy, trying to made me feel like I was a very bad person and he couldnt trust me anymore but saying passive-aggresive things like "I am not doing this to hurt you its just that I cant trust you anymore" and then he blocked me from everything. So i will admit I fall for that and I begged... a week later, last friday, I started to feel better and I send him a final email just saying "Hope verything goes well for you, bye" and now I am moving on =)
@benwil1715
@benwil1715 Жыл бұрын
The only trepadition i have is "true love" is something that has to be maintained,and sometimes down the line the heart can stray.... Thats the hurt part of loving to deeply....it takes work and thats why falling in love is bittersweet 😅....
@historyacademy
@historyacademy 11 ай бұрын
This video really helped me understand the final discard with my Dad this Christmas and with a former friend. I watched it again afterwards with my wife and we were both stunned with how accurate your analysis was. Thank you, you have helped to change my life x
@hulady27
@hulady27 4 ай бұрын
Its been 2 years since it ended. I still miss him but I do not miss the abuse. I am certain that I would not have been alive if I had stayed. He gave me what I wanted emotionally and psychologically and romantically and then took them all away.
@LeahScott-p8q
@LeahScott-p8q 3 ай бұрын
Reading comments about “I wouldn’t have been alive”… would’ve made me think people are being dramatic..but now I see and think quite literally we wouldn’t be alive.. I’m going through it but haven’t officially broke away from
@_iam1533
@_iam1533 Жыл бұрын
I am so stuck between these conflicting thoughts. I am not able to get out of it 😭 Sometimes I feel like giving up my life. I feel so suffocated 😭
@WTFYMTV
@WTFYMTV 8 ай бұрын
it's going to b ok take your space
@kelseymills5271
@kelseymills5271 6 ай бұрын
9 years in. Yes it makes you wonder if you’re just crazy. You’re not. You just need to stay away and you will realize quickly you trust your judgment again ❤
@kisik-f7o
@kisik-f7o Жыл бұрын
With any other video you are becoming more and more beautiful ❤ I am watching you from the almost beginning of my relationship with an horrific narcissist and you did helped me a lot! Thank you so much! Now i left him finely but still miss this times i was with him, i don't even know why, just i know i wouldn't go back, bc i know he will destroy me completely.
@Tokolos
@Tokolos Жыл бұрын
Thank you, it's something I needed to hear right now. Amazing.
@GJCHSMM
@GJCHSMM Жыл бұрын
Respectfully...why would you want a demon to miss you? These people are not to be played with. Rather...one should be grateful if they leave and never look back❤❤❤
@TheDevineFempress
@TheDevineFempress Жыл бұрын
Right ….once you know they’re a crazy person that can never be fixed what’s the point
@ninath13
@ninath13 Жыл бұрын
Absolutely Dangerous I know
@HeyImLin
@HeyImLin Жыл бұрын
In the video the woman Just keep saying that the title is a kind of methaphore n it is not to go back. That this is the question one must ask starting for a point of anger n how to use this point do go forward n go away
@giatasha2181
@giatasha2181 11 ай бұрын
Good idea to watch the first 30 seconds of the video before commenting
@lauralittle6899
@lauralittle6899 9 ай бұрын
It's because of Cognitive dissonance and trauma bonds. You can look them up and it will explain it better. It's kinda crazy sounding I know .
@benwil1715
@benwil1715 Жыл бұрын
Even if my shortcomings dont trip me up,i will only blame "myself", if im responsible!!... Its important to me "to own up to what "im" responsible for..and also what im not in my life!!!
@VeronicaUSA
@VeronicaUSA 10 ай бұрын
Thank you it is helpful ! I was discarded by a narcissist a month ago
@lukeskywalker6641
@lukeskywalker6641 Жыл бұрын
Thanks Michele this video was so helpful! ☺️
@Onebutterflyrose
@Onebutterflyrose 2 ай бұрын
This is def crazy im glad i came across this video because you are now showing me something i didnt see until now i mean i did but didnt want to see it ig. So at least now i know how to prevent giving my mother power and my husband is now past away and this all is so important. However i did feel the love my husband had but i think he had the love of the actions i gave him.
@mickeyme6341
@mickeyme6341 11 ай бұрын
Hi , Everything you described in the video explained what I went through. I've walked away from the toxic relationship 7 weeks ago and moved to another state and just about to be Myself again. I feel so free and not so tense anymore, the detachment feels great! Thank you for revealing what I already knew but couldn't figure it out. I'm healing and moving on to a happier life. 👍
@cherieharris125
@cherieharris125 5 ай бұрын
5:52 I'm just astound about this narc disorder all together I have never felt so much pain the day I finally decided to leave after being married 3yrs. It's felt like a pair of old tennis shoes that was worn out so I threw them out and went looking for a new pair. But today I 🎉😂 . Never going back. Never even heard of this ,how can someone be so cruel to a human 😔.
@Engr.Soleha-px7nc
@Engr.Soleha-px7nc 6 ай бұрын
I too miss myself and want to regain. This was really helpful in knowing that I am actually not hurting my narcissist relationship
@bravewoman23
@bravewoman23 Жыл бұрын
I dont want they miss me. I want they are away and never come back to my life.
@DrMG-tk8uc
@DrMG-tk8uc 5 ай бұрын
Thank you! A very good one. Useful, totally true 👍
@CarlMassop
@CarlMassop Жыл бұрын
I feel like you made this for me Michelle 💚✌🏿
@OutlawJoseyWales71
@OutlawJoseyWales71 8 ай бұрын
Wow is this woman ever sharp. I'm at least twice her age but she has helped me so much. I am still reeling from a discard by a narcissist. So few of her generation have such insights. You go, girl!!
@ivyhill34
@ivyhill34 9 ай бұрын
Preach! 💯💯💯
@wendyapfeldorf2120
@wendyapfeldorf2120 Жыл бұрын
The narcissist will say they want to break up just to hear you say that you want to stay together. When you agree to the break-up, then they will say that they want to stay together. They will increase the level of abuse to the point where you leave them, and there will not be a talk about it because it is non-negotiable. THEN they will miss you, but it will not matter to you because you know they are not safe. There is nothing any flying monkey can say. to change the situation because your safety is truly what matters, and what a toxic individual thinks of you does not matter. Surely they did not appreciate you and your sincere efforts to love and connect with them. This realization about them can be used to validate your assessment that they are toxic, and you did the right thing by distancing yourself from them.
@tinyblondie6226
@tinyblondie6226 Жыл бұрын
How do you get them to walk away themselves?
@Nyumc99
@Nyumc99 Жыл бұрын
Give them zero supply. They will move on.
@crishuez
@crishuez Жыл бұрын
I have a family member who is slowly closing in on everyone around me by buying them gifts, taking them out to eat, and when I am not invited she will casually act concerned about me asking why I am not married yet, why Im struggling with parenting, and so on. She does this with every family member but me around. It's very bizarre and I have had to delete all social media because she comments on my father's posts (this is his sister) and mentions me in such a strange way. It's almost like an obsession. The more I try to distance myself from her, the more she talks about me. This is a 60 year old woman. I'm to the point where I am about to stop speaking to my own father.
@simonschneider5913
@simonschneider5913 Жыл бұрын
thats posing a very difficult question...in my situation...i am not sure yet...but i thank you very much for highlighting a very dangerous probability.. i just stopped contact with my father. but theres a worry inside of me...if he is really the perpetrator, or maybe the biggest victim? my mother hasnt yet made clear where she stands...and thats whats goint to seal the deal. I am so much worried about taking the wrong decision....
@kimgordon3695
@kimgordon3695 Жыл бұрын
Triangulation
@benwil1715
@benwil1715 Жыл бұрын
I realized that a person CANNOT have "everything" in life
@LoveDancingLoveSinging
@LoveDancingLoveSinging Жыл бұрын
I think that I should get a point that it doesn't matter to me.. 😊
@CarlMassop
@CarlMassop Жыл бұрын
Ok Michelle I’ll implement those changes
@burnthepalo9416
@burnthepalo9416 10 ай бұрын
This video is like whoa! Thank you!
@queenatavia1
@queenatavia1 4 ай бұрын
Incredibly great video!
@jamieleigh807
@jamieleigh807 Жыл бұрын
Excellent advice Michelle you ROCK❤
@BarddTieman
@BarddTieman 3 ай бұрын
I agree: don't post negative emotions! Don't let them feed on your wounds! In a way, you create a void for them and that is an awfull place to be especially for a narcissist!
@simonschneider5913
@simonschneider5913 Жыл бұрын
youre a special one!
@craigcarey-g5e
@craigcarey-g5e 11 ай бұрын
I was about to leave a comment without watching but it was cleared up in the first minute.
@benwil1715
@benwil1715 Жыл бұрын
Cause thats something their "successful career money hooked lives", will never attain...."revenge is a dish best served cold",:and best be for the greater good....not the "revenge satisfaction"... Ive learned one thing so far in all this....."i value living a genuine life"!!
@edgarphillips1047
@edgarphillips1047 4 ай бұрын
Amazing advice 👏 👌 🙌
@hadiaagha2417
@hadiaagha2417 7 ай бұрын
This video is an eye opener.Thank you
@georginal5322
@georginal5322 8 ай бұрын
We have to remember not to blame ourselfs for acting crazy and stupid ,with them the nervoussystem act That way. Forgive yourself and move on ❤️ We can do this We are Good persons the Good things Will come to us
@e.kupfer8631
@e.kupfer8631 9 ай бұрын
Yes, it's the back and forth yoyo business that leads to a person getting stuck. But it is that back and forth cycle that needs to be broken and *trying* to make her miss you isn't going to do that.
@JoseGonzalez-n2i
@JoseGonzalez-n2i 6 ай бұрын
I love it.thank you very much ❤
@susannay.3437
@susannay.3437 Жыл бұрын
Just need a job and enough finances to get away. 😢
@WTFYMTV
@WTFYMTV 8 ай бұрын
that's the normal
@Oceansgreen
@Oceansgreen 8 ай бұрын
I started saving many many years ago because I knew the day would come when I would need financial stability.. after being discarded by narc after 37 years, thank God I did save… I’m now on my own but at least I’m able to manage financially… not able to save near as much as I did but I try and put a little away when I can. I really sympathise with people who aren’t able to leave their narc because they have no income but, there are other ways if things get really bad, please don’t feel you have to stay, where there’s a will, there’s a way🩷
@jennifercross65
@jennifercross65 6 ай бұрын
🙏 FOR YOU
@LeahScott-p8q
@LeahScott-p8q 3 ай бұрын
RIght😢. I have a job but not enough sources
@susannay.3437
@susannay.3437 3 ай бұрын
@@LeahScott-p8q Prayers for you, Leah.
@Shadowman...
@Shadowman... Жыл бұрын
The OVER explaining thing I did so much before I knew all this~ There need for control is sooooo sick. My mother used to love to act like she didn't hear you when you said something ~ no response ~so naturally you would repeat yourself, just to find out she would answere your original question before you could repeat it. I guess these narcissist don't know about KARMA and REINCARNATION ~ because if you act like you cant hear people just to push there buttons ~don't be surprised your born deaf in the next life.
@tiffanyvanlengen
@tiffanyvanlengen 6 ай бұрын
I am stuck. Stuck for 2 years. Ty!
@richardlenz2655
@richardlenz2655 Жыл бұрын
I am only PinPonging if I have nightmares in dreams. Otherwise my brain is razor blade sharp and clinically clean on what to do with a narcissist: run away 🤭
@wtcmedic911
@wtcmedic911 Жыл бұрын
Know what you mean about the dreams. Only had one but it was wnough
@richardlenz2655
@richardlenz2655 Жыл бұрын
@@wtcmedic911 Yes, I am sorry. Everything goes over. In a few years you will see things differently 🥰
@_iam1533
@_iam1533 Жыл бұрын
My nightmares are not stopping 😭 Its been years
@richardlenz2655
@richardlenz2655 Жыл бұрын
@@_iam1533 I can feel your problem. I knew only since 0.5 years that my wife is narcissist. Before I was only wondering why I have so many troubles. After that, I was studying all about narcissists and how to navigate in this situation. Of course, all situations are different. In my case I am not naïve anymore. I do not tell her how much money I have, and I insist on having my own space for meditation and making music, without her being around. But of course, I am 70 and do not need sex anymore and still have a few good friends and teachers. I am certainly now an expert for my case, but I know it can be really tough and might even need some help 🥰 Good luck. I was watching just today a video from Shiviani with the title: “1 Way to not get affected by negative people”. This might also help🤔
@richardlenz2655
@richardlenz2655 Жыл бұрын
I was watching just today a video from Shiviani: “1 Way to not get affected by negative people” This might also help 🤔
@TheLordsbattleaxe
@TheLordsbattleaxe Жыл бұрын
I have said this before on a similar video in the past and that is why on earth would you want to make them miss you?
@EsotericOccultist
@EsotericOccultist Жыл бұрын
You broke it down and explained this perfectly. I totally get what you're saying and it makes sense. Been following your channel for years and I still think you're the best in your field.👍♥️
@neeruahuja2014
@neeruahuja2014 Жыл бұрын
Thanks
@yumildarodriguez1175
@yumildarodriguez1175 5 ай бұрын
Excellent ❤
@christopherchristy6328
@christopherchristy6328 6 ай бұрын
Excellent !!
@meenabath6564
@meenabath6564 6 ай бұрын
Thank you for this
@Shadowman...
@Shadowman... Жыл бұрын
Michele, when you don't give in to there tactics of trying to extract emotional supply, do they know at that point your on to them?
@ninath13
@ninath13 Жыл бұрын
Yes and their brewing with anxiety
@JoseGonzalez-n2i
@JoseGonzalez-n2i 6 ай бұрын
God bless you 🙏
@OlgaLNahorny
@OlgaLNahorny 8 ай бұрын
They finally discarded me when I not only found out about them but took them to court. Manipulation was there tactic . Flipping it everytime. I was not neutral unfortunately I cried and there was no reaction. I spoke the truth and no response and lies lies lies. I finally have no contact with my sister. But still am bruised
@hazelmarieb9934
@hazelmarieb9934 Жыл бұрын
I recently had the final discard with someone and went no contact. The first two discards were heartbreaking for me but this third and final one I had done so much work on myself and was better educated on emotional abuse and was more like Spider-Man in Far From Home, I just blocked the sneak attack and "You can't trick me anymore." So a similar thing to the Labyrinth metaphor.
@LydiaKettle
@LydiaKettle Ай бұрын
I shut my entire social media down to friends only and he's not on my friends list, he can see nothing.
@kristinmeyer489
@kristinmeyer489 Жыл бұрын
I don't understand why anyone would want to get dragged down again by a sadistic person. Why would you want this? I get the addiction part, but I still don't get the intentional masochism.
@samxsara
@samxsara Жыл бұрын
Maybe because we need to consciously integrate without being emotionally invested. It frees us to know we can see things for what they are and forgive ourselves at the same time.
@benwil1715
@benwil1715 Жыл бұрын
No matter how much of the monopoly board they own,... Life doesn't work like that!!
@ChristopherSmith-cn9uo
@ChristopherSmith-cn9uo 3 ай бұрын
I broke up with her but now I regret it, but of course she tells me she just needed a few more days of space and then everything would have been fine...is she just making me think that, I feel like she wanted me to break up with her...
@benjaminmoser5669
@benjaminmoser5669 8 ай бұрын
This discard was the worst. She blamed me for everything and said I am insane for wanting her to talk to me and tell me what is going on. Which I did get mad when she would just ignore me for hours. Or disappear then act like I’m wrong for getting upset. I love her and I’m confused but this was the worst she’s ever said stuff about me. I think she resents me and is gone for good. She found someone else I’m sure and that hurts.
@deanshort9011
@deanshort9011 Жыл бұрын
I am a survivor of a narc abuse. So happy that I escaped the abuse she would spew on my daughter and me. I still have a molten-core happiness, a center that belongs to only me. I really appreciate what you said about re-wiring the brain from the impact of the narc. I have my sense of humor, I retain my empathy, my humane vulnerability w/others. That’s my superpower, my triumph, my equalizer, that frustrates and dismantles the narc in their attempt to alter my mood, push outcomes that are unhealthy, or pursue a manipulative path w/me. My narc radar is turned on not looking for but if & when encountered I know exactly what to do. Ask a narc this one devastating question. Ask them innocently, nonchalantly, what’s one thing they might do to improve themselves? Sit back and watch the fireworks. If this is a first date then their reaction tells you everything about their 🚩 red flags. Look for the green flag person instead. They’re still out there. All the best to narc survivors. 🎉😎 Forget them & Celebrate YOU! 🫶🫶
@benwil1715
@benwil1715 Жыл бұрын
Plus the gang of salivating blood relative narcissist 's , that in reality should love you unconditionally,GET REAL TIGHT!!!!
@BassmanDan66
@BassmanDan66 3 ай бұрын
When they lure you back in.... And you're just about to Let down that boundary ......And Bam! They reveal to you once again the other side of the coin.... which is actually "the crazy"! The result is a panic attack for the one who almost took the bait.
@juliadalziel8422
@juliadalziel8422 2 ай бұрын
Please know the only way they miss you truly is they miss having control of you. Run.
@René-d7d
@René-d7d Жыл бұрын
Just had an encounter with a narc woman stranger with a dagger stare and i ignored her and she went back to her flying monkey friends. It was like being in kindergarten again. 😔
@wtcmedic911
@wtcmedic911 Жыл бұрын
I hope mine will one just to hear from her. That I even cross her mind. I have no idea if she’s watching me online. Not heard from her in over a year other then to be angry when I sent her back her things as she requested. She was quite angry because her countries customs wanted 10.00. lol. Wouldn’t mind something
@SandeepSinghCreator
@SandeepSinghCreator Жыл бұрын
1. Does this happen in a parent-child relationship? I guess it does. 2. What about in the case of a narcissistic friend? Like someone who calls themselves an empath but is getting narcissistic supply in subtle ways?
@LPD15ponce
@LPD15ponce Жыл бұрын
A marriage has been on a downward, unhappy track for a couple of years. One day the wife, in anger, says to the husband, "I hate myself, and you made me this way". Later, when a separation has been decided upon, but before the house is sold, she can't help herself, and adds to the husband, "You wasted eight years of my life", or, "You're going to die a lonely old man". Honest question: What are the chances that she might be a narcissist?
@kelseymills5271
@kelseymills5271 6 ай бұрын
Awareness!!!!!! It’s the only cure.
@mams631
@mams631 Жыл бұрын
I'm 75% in... between your last two videos. I started writing a song 😅 made some lyrics ❤😊. Then sung a song to myself about myself😂. I did a few voice impressions during he song 😅. My name is Maria 😀😅. I used a Italian voice something that would be sang to any Maria in a Italian restaurant. Used little frank Sinatra singing through myself song. If I love you more than spaghetti and galric knots you got me lol. I maybe smoking Mary Jane. Tap in if anyone is interested in making self songs to yourself 💜❤️😅.
@chocolatecookie8571
@chocolatecookie8571 Жыл бұрын
What’s the point to miss someone who has cheated on you multiple times in all kinds of ways shapes and forms? Yes, I miss her like nothing else but that person is gone and will never come back in my life again. It is an eternal pain.
@stephybobo1991
@stephybobo1991 Жыл бұрын
Mine absolutely HATES my best friend
@mariechampagne932
@mariechampagne932 9 ай бұрын
I dont want them to miss me either, i want fox news to turn more into a monster instead of helping them find real friends
@mariechampagne932
@mariechampagne932 9 ай бұрын
I don't want them to miss me either, i want fox news to turn more into a monster instead of helping them find real FIND FRIENDS and THAT'S what I want to do WITH my family MEMBERS and I want to be able to do WITH MY FAMILY and friends ARE FOR them TO MISS ME TO be challenging my life I am concerned about the MONEY IS THE opposite of what I WANT to do WITH MY FAMILY MEMBERS AND I WANT to DO WITH MY FAMILY MEMBERS AND I WANT fox NEWS to TURN MORE INTO A monster INSTEAD of HELPING THEM FIND REAL ways I can get A lot OF attention WHATS going on WITH THE Russian government AND the beast of the world TO be challenging MY LIFE I AM concerned about THE MONEY IS THE opposite OF WHAT I WANT
@LaPinturaBella
@LaPinturaBella 2 ай бұрын
Don't even think about it. Run, never look back. Pray they never think about you again. You don't want them to miss you.
@Mere571
@Mere571 6 ай бұрын
I want as far off his radar that I'm just a distant memory to him. No missing me necessary!
@l.f.84
@l.f.84 5 ай бұрын
I am so fortunate..in less than 2 years I could spot the NPD in her..profiting a conflict when she said "never call me again" I just found the best moment to leave her forever.. After that no turning back..now she is after me...but can never catch me😂
@Fish-pi6my
@Fish-pi6my 11 ай бұрын
What happens if she already have a new boyfriend? We were married for 20 years and she cheated on me with an acquaintance of mine. Then I was mad and left her. She now is dating many men but now she picked one guy! Therefore she has a steady boyfriend now and we’re officially divorced. I miss her and my family I once had. It hurts still. I’m seeing a psychologist.
@markallen5764
@markallen5764 4 ай бұрын
That's there problem Becky 🇬🇧 🇬🇧
@benwil1715
@benwil1715 Жыл бұрын
If i have nothing to show for my life,i refuse to die a liar and a fraud,like my mother chooses!!
@MarcusBurwell-mu1nu
@MarcusBurwell-mu1nu Ай бұрын
What if it a woman going a guy like that ???? What to do
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