50 Insane r/AITA Reddit Stories

[@jessicabarnes6875]

As a woman with PTSD, if someone scared me while I'm at my most vulnerable, however I react IS APPROPRIATE. What an awful entitled little boy.

[@Bethsabee_Sheba_Newrose]

Exactly!

[@LanaRedmond13]

He was 22, he’s a man.

[@sophiacalon3463]

This is off topic but I love your hair colour!

[@toxiczombiewolf5692]

Same

[@jessicabarnes6875]

@ haha omg THANK YOU!!

[@jman561000]

Saying the guy was overreacting when he broke up with his girlfriend is crazy. He voiced his problems several times about the sister. It took her sexually assaulting him for them to take it seriously. He WAS NOT OVERREACTING

[@meganreilly9944]

100% he can't trust her to take him seriously or support him

[@meowJACK]

Agreed, it was funny how he called out the double standard of how people weren't taking it as seriously cuz it's a man, but then he turned around and said he was overreacting?? If it was a woman who woke up to her BF's brother naked in bed with her, would be be saying she was overreacting?? Hell no

[@alienchexfiend]

They didn't even take the SA serious! They were just mad at him for standing up for himself.

[@englishteaworshipper6961]

If the bride was found to be kissing another man then there wouldn't even be a debate. Just because she's kissing another woman doesn't mean it isn't cheating.

[@moodycrab77]

1:28:33 ❤ Beans!❤😊

[@liebling4069]

Exactly, that take had me fuming because I know his opinion would be different if gender were reversed

[@katie6731]

Um. Kissing someone else when in a relationship is pretty universally considered cheating. It doesn't matter whether there is malice behind it, cheating is cheating. The bride sent her husband away, and used his absence to _make out with someone else _*_on the dance floor at their wedding reception._* I hope OP can just annul the marriage. He shouldn't have to go through the hassle of a divorce.

[@LordDayehawk]

For the testicular torsion story, if he was in intense enough pain that he is vomiting it feels really weird to judge how he is responding. He is likely not thinking clearly and having the clarity to go "this may not come across the best". This seems like a weird thing to judge him on.

[@jijitters]

No, I'm sorry but texting ANYONE "my balls hurt" would have any recipient thinking it was a joke. No one would take that seriously, ever. The gf should've caught on earlier but seriously? Nearly any other way of saying that would be better. Even just, "pain, need hospital" - same amount of words. Texting someone that your balls hurt and expecting a serious response is ridiculous.

[@sal2cool]

@@jijittershe did say he asked her to drive him to the hospital though did he not

[@seph5911]

Also sounds like the trans brother was upset because everyone in his family still treated him like a woman, so being in that messed up "not a man not a woman a freaky third thing" is probably why there was tension. As a trans man.

[@seph5911]

Okay I actually fucked up really badly here and the trans "brother" is a trans woman who kept getting misgendered and treated like an outcast so following this up I'm sorry I completely misunderstood the story

[@leslie5066]

5:41 I once heard: "you don’t owe people who abused you peace" and even though it’s not abuse per se, more like betrayal and huge disrespect, it kind of fit very well in that situation

[@mikkat8613]

1:16:30 everyone sucks here?? What?? What is wrong with you. If you’re in THAT much pain you aren’t going to be able to think that through and struggle to even type that message. Idk about you but if a partner calls me I’m answering. If I don’t answer and they text me “SOMETHING IS WRONG COME HOME” and im a 5 minute WALK away im already out the door and calling them immediately to see what’s up. IM DAMN SURE, not staying until 3 am, then getting pissed when I smell vomit, not giving a shit that their last text was sent hours ago about them in pain.

[@ukchanak]

Yeah, he's crazy. The amount of pain he was in, he was lucky to be conscious

[@devinhogg3842]

Trueeee. I love these vids but I swear he has some bad takes

[@Lanoira13]

Note on the non-op trans bro and the gendered party: The brother did not "choose to change genders". He chose to come out as a binary trans man and communicate that to people, and set his boundary that he will not tolerate being treated as a woman despite not medically transitioning. He is well within his rights to do that and identify that way. But his sister was 100% just respecting his identity and his boundaries, and he probably would've also been upset if she invited him to a woman only party just because he was born female. He wants to go because he of course wants to celebrate with his sister, always assumed he would as a female, and probably still feels a connection with femininity to some extent he doesn't know how to rationalize or explain as a binary man. So instead of accepting "You can go because you want to and I feel you do have a reasonable connection to these traditions as someone born female that I understand to some extent, that might not apply for cis/other men." he wants to insist it be completely gender neutral, because it not involving other men makes him feel insecure and Other and dysphoric. Which yeah, is absolutely a big tough shit, you don't get to make that choice for HER party. She respected his identity and how he felt at every step. She doesn't have to expand the scope of a closed gathering beyond her comfort to make it so he doesn't have to confront his complicated feelings about his gender and sex. She could've absolutely said "Sorry bro, you're not invited, you're a dude now, the party is GENDERED, not SEXED, that's how I want it." and she would've been 100% kosher, no prejudice present. If anything, her not even thinking to invite him shows how much she does respect the identity he seems to have communicated. He is a man, of course, he wouldn't be invited. It is not her responsibility to know him even better than he seems to know himself.

[@Lanoira13]

@Greatcelestialkaligo 100% Man. Whole milk but if it was a masculine gender identity. Raw Unfiltered Man. Basic Bih Brand Man. Some "We have butch he/him lesbian at home" shit. Probably likes one or more of grilling/cooking, fishing, woodworking, models (interpret however you find funniest), stuff that goes boom, trading cards, or Legos. Never knows what to get you for Christmas, probably just gets you a card but the plus side is the card might have money in it if they like you enough. Can't find the ketchup in the fridge to save their life. Your dad, I know because I asked him when I made sweet sweet love to him last night and he said he was one. Hope this helps. That last joke is going to be really awkward if your dad's a fruit of the nonbinary persuasion but I'm gonna take the risk because I really enjoy parent banging jokes. That's why I enjoy looking in the mirror so much. BOOM! Great joke, I'm killing it today, you're welcome. (Please let me know if that was a genuine question and you're still genuinely confused. I'm willing to explain more if you're inexperienced with these kinds of topics, it's just most people who are experienced would probably get it from "100% man" so I mostly just joked around with the rest.)

[@omgitsyelhsa13]

@@Greatcelestialkaligobinary vs nonbinary or gender fluid

[@GhostofApocrypha]

​@@Greatcelestialkaligo Binary means two; in this case, it's referencing man and woman, as the two binary genders. Being a binary trans man means you fully identify as a man, not just masculine or nonbinary/genderqueer in some way :]

[@Sarbyy]

Saw you commenting on a lot of my videos! Just wanted to say thank you, I see you and appreciate you (:

[@katie6731]

I had the same reaction. Words matter. I get that not everyone has the time that I do (I'm disabled) to sit down and learn how to speak about people who are trans. But, I do think that those who choose to be allies could put effort into educating ourselves. It doesn't take too long to learn that the sex assigned at birth is not the same thing as a person's gender. A trans person can affirm their gender socially, physically, both, or neither, to any degree. The trans person is trans if that's how they identify. There's no requirement for a trans person to have surgery; to change their name; to dress, walk, or talk differently; to use any specific restroom, changing room, or locker room; or to do anything else. Sometimes, making no public-facing changes is due to concerns about safety, employment, relationships, housing, etc. I can only imagine that that's a terrible position to be in. I'm a cisgender woman; I wouldn't want to be forced to live publicly as a man because of the negative repurcussions to being myself. We're not going to be able to shift language overnight, but, the more of us who choose to use appropriate, inclusive language, the faster we will reduce this kind of inadvertently harmful language.

[@bippythechippy882]

24:38 So lemme get this straight. This woman got ditched by her baby daddy, and was a single mother for ~2 years. Then, not only does she get lucky enough to find a man who is ok with you having a daughter, but also one who is willing to be a father and seemingly gets along greatly with your daughter. You date this man for up to 6 f-ing years and you're engaged. You were in an awful situation but you've finally recovered and are about to settle down knowing that your child will have 2 loving parents in her life. *AND YOU DECIDE TO START AN AFFAIR!??!?!?!??!* EVEN COMPLETELY LEAVING MORALITY OUT OF THE QUESTION, THIS IS JUST IDIOTIC FROM A SELF-PRESERVATION STANDPOINT.

[@rebeccawaller3561]

28:46 bawling. That dude did more than my dad ever did. Disappeared when I was 7 and only came back when I was 9 because my mom sued him for child support and he was "getting his money's worth".

[@ezeralantera7527]

Bro I'm really sorry you had to go through that. My Dad was physically and mentally abusive as fuck but he at least had the decency to move close in the divorce and have regular visits with us.

[@katethevampire]

In regards to the 10th story- I've had bad periods, taken medications that caused mood swings, and lived my whole life with a disorder that causes emotional reactions. None of that would excuse me sending someone to the ER! I wouldn't blame the guy for leaving, I don't think I'd feel safe in a relationship after that.

[@ThoughtsonThoughtsandFeelings]

Thanks for being a good role model by taking breaks and talking about your holiday! Hooray for a safe and healthy work ethic.🎉

[@madisonkailee]

#8 is a huge red flag immediately. I am the only girl amongst 4 brothers and they never made me feel I had to "hide" my period or run outside to the trash. Freaks.

[@rebeccawaller3561]

2:11:19, medical professions have state boards that handle complaints and license revocation as well as disciplinary measures and educational requirements for that profession. You can call the state board and inquire about it but the first call OP needs to make is TO THE POLICE. WTAF 2:13:40 yeah, that's sexual assault. CALLTHEPOLICECALLTHEPOLICECALLTHEPOLICE

[@Sparkitto]

I am absolutely terrified for that girl. Not to mention her account was deleted!

[@theMadCEHMist]

The s*x in prenup story is crazy. You cannot legally sign your consent preemptively. Like, hello? You have to be able to give and rescind consent at will. You can promise your partner to do your best to accommodate their needs and vice versa, but if he’s like “I will divorce you and you get nothing if you do not let me f*ck you x many times a week”, that is SCARY. Dude needs a therapist.

[@remylewis8721]

I feel so bad for the guy in the first story whose brother blew up his blew up his relationship because he couldn’t respect boundaries and not prank his brothers GF, I understand why she broke up with him but at the same time it sucks she didn’t give him a second chance since he clearly stood up for her and was ready to cut contact with his family for her and it’s not his fault his brother is an insensitive douche canoe. Also wild the mom is still mad at the GF and OP and not the son who went into a room with a girl who was alone and asleep with the sole intent of scaring her.

[@OpalSpring]

For the younger brother in foster care, I 100% support the sister's decision. If I had a partner that wanted to take in their younger sibling after something like that happened I would have nothing but love and praise for them. And I would tell them so. Even as I was packing to move out. I don't know about the boyfriend, I know that I can't emotionally handle kids. And teens are another level. I don't...BLAME him for not wanting it, but I do disagree with how he handled it. Instead of being upset and pouting and even suggesting the foster system, he should have just say her down and said hey, this is an amazing thing you're doing, but I just can't be apart of it. I'm not ready to deal with kids of any age right now. I still support your decision and I hope you support mine. Because who tf suggests the foster system over a family member that's non-abusive and actually wants the kid?

[@Mistaken_]

I mean it says that she brought up the foster care system as a way to make him feel guilty, it was said that she asked him if he would rather the kid go to foster care and he shamefully said yes. And she then was the one who gave him the ultimatum. From my pov she's the one that handled this immaturely. That being said what he said about the kid being a bastard child of a cheater was a too much, and the kid doesn't deserve that

[@fionna_cool_girl]

29:00 hard disagree. Just because he was in her life for a certain period, he is not obligated to stay. It's awful that little girl carried the brunt of the consequences of the girlfriend cheating, but OP had a life planned with the girlfriend and to be that girls dad, she cheated and he shouldn't have to be forced to see his ex or interact with her just because of the little girl. He has no legal rights to her, he has no legal obligations to stay although in some circumstances, some people have been able to sue for child support even if that person isn't the kids bio parent just because they took care of them for a certain period of time. To me that's wrong. To imply that he has to stay just because he built a bond with her is wrong. That's like saying you should stay with your partner after finding out your baby isn't yours. They have the right to leave after being betrayed and it's the fault of the parent who cheated. He's not the asshole, the ex is for cheating and ruining that little girls life. This is on her, not OP. He is not obligated to stay. He has his own life to live and he shouldn't be tortured to see his ex just to see the little girl. This scenario happens all the time for single parents and they need to be extra careful on how their actions will affect their children when you introduce new people into their lives and your actions rip them apart.

[@MaggieMags1989]

27:24 one of my best friends dated a girl for two and a half years who had a child from a prior relationship, that kid started calling her “papa” and eventually, my friend and the girlfriend broke up but my friend is still regularly involved in the child’s life. The ex and her basically split custody and my friend officially adopted the child so they have a custody arrangement with the courts and such. My friend said that once a child starts thinking of you as their parent, you owe it to them to be that. It’s not about the relationship, it’s about the kid.

[@Lanoira13]

1:43:07 I heard this one in another video already but the more I think about it the more it bugs me. What really makes it fucked up is the "get nothing in the divorce if doesn't mean sex quota at any point". Like usually I would assume that'd mean 50/50 and what they each brought in nothing more, neither owes the other jack. But they already HAVE a base prenup for that, so that implies he means he gets to take EVERYTHING if she decides she doesn't want to fuck him, including during separation/divorce proceedings, maybe even including what SHE brought in during/before the marriage. That's abusive af and a massive BLACK flag, like that man is not "worried about a dead bedroom" he's actively planning to coercive r@pe you and telling you to your face he WANTS to. Most that would be reasonable is adding a clause to the 50/50 prenup that sexual dissatisfaction is a reasonable no fault reason for prompt divorce under those terms, and they'd both be free to see other people during notified separation to satisfy their own needs without adultery violating whatever terms they've set. But she should absolutely NOT stay with that dude after he asked for a prenup to leave her with nothing for not sexually satisfying him. She feels like he's trying to make her a sexslave bc he literally is. That's BEYOND concerning.

[@J3nJ3nl0llip0p]

2:12:21 "INJURED HEE INSIDES"???? I think we know, in part, why he lost his license

[@nonsensicaluniverse4757]

I really love your channel but sometimes I don’t get your ESH verdicts lol 😅Like the guy in pain having to communicate better although he is in crippling pain. Or the dude divorcing the postpartum wife being the asshole until the Facebook post

[@GnarlyRaePepsi]

Same. I’m a Sarbhead™️ thru and thru, but def have a difference of opinion on who is or is not an asshole. But no major ones that would make me wonder… just, not seeing eye to eye.

[@sunshinedani7768]

Because people like this always believe men should be the ones to suffer

[@Kihara.Sedai47]

That dude taking the libido blocker...I feel so bad for him. The only reason she would try to get him to not take care of himself or to not take the medicine makes me think that his suffering was the point or at least something that she enjoys. Like why? She just wants him to miserably pine for her?

[@HooksnBooks]

1:24:00 "I would do anything for her..." Except he'll never follow through. Dude is totes not invested.

[@probablylurking]

I don’t agree with your verdict regarding the divorcing postpartum wife story, she lay her hands on him. he should’ve left the moment that happened.

[@BisexualLizard]

Ikr, the fact that he said there could be an argument for ESH is wild

[@roni9192]

so the last story cuts off but i wanna say my two cents: saying "not consenting to s*x is not the same as not consenting to massages" is a bit wrong. The way op told it, it sounds as if she got sexual satification from it. Which is why he considers it cheating. Also, forcing someone to massage you is in fact assault/harasment.

[@meganreilly9944]

I don't know that the massage itself was sexual as much as it was easier to transition into foreplay. Seems weird it would only turn into sex 20% of the time if it did

[@sarahb.8890]

I think that’s a wild conclusion ngl. I think she just enjoyed massages, and OP turned it into a kind of transactional thing in his mind. In fact, it was OP that tried to turn the massages into a sexual thing, and even then he got turned down most of the time. Unless she went to one of those “happy ending” type massage places, I highly doubt she went for the sake of sexual gratification. And with the tit-for-tat mentality OP had, he would’ve 1000% mentioned it had that been the case. OP is definitely the AH, not because he wanted a divorce; but because he turned to manipulation, rather than addressing his sexual dissatisfaction in his marriage maturely

[@freakillusion]

I also agree. My partner gives me massages for 2 reasons. 1. I have chronic pain and it helps. 2. Sometimes it is foreplay. In this context I would count this as cheating because she gets off on it, it's not the same but it kinda depends on context. I don't think he was wrong for divorcing her though

[@roni9192]

@freakillusion absolutly and he did warn her. Like even if the thing he consideres cheating would've been ridiculous, it warrants a conversation, not doing behind his back (and if there can't be an agreement ending the relationship)

[@madisonkailee]

For the dude being hospitalized, I believe he has cried wolf before. In his post, since the first phone call he said "she didn't answer as expected" so he knew she wouldn't answer since the first call and this leads me to believe he probably contacts her a lot while she's out and she probably assumed this was another instance where he was just nagging her

[@erirosshirt9102]

Did you read the full reddit story with comment replies etc. He never cried wolf. She even agreed he didn't. Her friends were putting that idea in her head.

[@OctoNyan]

THREE HOURS omg we are eating GOOD TODAY friends! Love the content Sarby, so happy to see your channel growing you deserve it ♥️

[@hannathun5099]

2:26:57 Unfortunately I have to disagree... For context I'm atheist but I do accept religious people. My problem however is when they try to force it on other people. Could OP just "suck it up" and put on a hijab? Yes. But if she doesn't want to she shouldn't have to. NO ONE should force someone to have the same religion as you or practice any religious traditions or restrictions just cause you say so. Sorry for ranting but I really think OP had a right to do what felt best for her. Even if you wouldn't do the same in her situation.

[@silvercoronet]

She’s not the asshole for not wanting to wear a hijab, even though that’s such a weird hill to die on. She is entirely the asshole for completely abandoning the man she was supposed to marry. I hope that man found someone who loved him

[@martianpudding9522]

I think there's a big difference between not finding something attractive and something being a total deal breaker. It's normal for any partner to have attractive and unattractive traits. For example I don't find acne attractive, but I wouldn't dump someone over a breakout lol

[@Liodovi]

After many years of listening to Reddit content on KZbin, I thought I had enough-until I came across your channel recently. I love your videos and how refreshing your point of view is. Keep up the great work, Sarby, and thank you for the hours of fun you provide! 😊

[@adrianna4846]

On the last story: I think the bigger issue isn’t even the consent, but the fact that she completely ignored a boundary OP put in place. Her going to a massage parlor to get a massage is consensual between her and the masseuse because it’s their job and realistically she or the masseuse can end it at any time. So it’s not a discussion of consent between her and someone doing their job, it’s a discussion of boundaries between her and her husband that she has decided she doesn’t need to respect. He explained why he didn’t want her doing it and she still went out and did it. Additionally, if you do want to bring consent into it, her saying she will get professional massages if he continues to not give them to her is the consent issue. He said he didn’t want to anymore, and she made a threat to go and get them done with someone else if he doesn’t continue to give them to her. Now, is it entirely within her right to go get a professional massage even with the boundary? Yeah, totally. But then she also needs to accept the consequences of breaking that boundary. Realistically, both of them suck in the situation (with the wife sucking more imo) and divorce is obviously the right direction

[@sarahb.8890]

That’s not a boundary. That’s controlling manipulation. Boundaries are something that you put in place to describe your own comforts, limits, etc. When you set arbitrary rules around what your partner can or can’t do in order to enforce control over them, that’s a very toxic form of manipulation, and it’s very clear that’s what OP was doing. OP didn’t say “no massages” because the idea of his wife getting a professional massage was genuinely uncomfortable to him. He did it because he treated massages as transactional for sex, and he didn’t want her to get massages elsewhere while he was sexually dissatisfied. And OP isn’t in the wrong for being frustrated, but he’s 100% in the wrong for manipulating his wife like that. He should’ve addressed his sexual dissatisfaction head-on, and sought divorce if it was insurmountable.

[@katelynderbidge3166]

@@sarahb.8890thank you for saying everything I wanted to! It is not a boundary to say “you can’t get massages cause I don’t feel secure with other people touching you.” No no nope. She can do whatever she wants with her body. This “boundary” language being used to control other people’s behavior is getting gross

[@ohsarcasm]

@@sarahb.8890 It is a boundary to not want your partner to cheat, it is a boundary to not want your partner hugging and kissing exes, it is a boundary to not want your partner to get really drunk and come home late. All accepted examples of boundaries controlling what someone else does with their body. When you're in a relationship, there will be things you agree to do or not do for your partner's comfort. When you start going behind their back to spite them is when the relationship is over. She didn't cheat, he was pretty childish for having such a transactional idea of sex but boundaries that say what you are and aren't comfortable with your partner doing aren't abusive or controlling to an extent. The thing everyone seems to be missing is that you're not forced to respect them hence you're also not forced to stay in the relationship. You can just leave if you don't like the boundary and can't compromise on it.

[@sarahb.8890]

@ you completely missed my entire point because you’re entire comment is pretty much irrelevant to refuting what I said… OP made it clear that the reason for being against the massage was **because** he treated it as transactional for sex and had nothing to do with having an innate discomfort with professional massages in a relationship. The pure reason he was against it was to manipulate her into having sex transactionally, basically saying “if you ever want a massage, it has to be in exchange for sex with me.” If you can’t see how that’s manipulation and not a truly-held boundary, that’s honestly deeply concerning.

[@roni9192]

@@sarahb.8890 Op didn't stop the massages bc he saw them as a transaction for sex. He stopped them bc he felt that she only cared about her needs being fullfilled. Very different. The whole massage situation was kinda stupid. They should've gotten counseling bc they couldn't manage to get a good balance for both their needs and would've needed help to see/understand their feeling for it. I also don't think he was trying to manipulate her into sex, mainly because he wouldn't have gone straight to the divorce after she went behind his back to get a massage. He would've used that as ammo to get sex

[@AdrenalineElderGoth]

You said you were a short king and my daughter was like "ooooo". Watch out 🤣

[@girlskylark1816]

I just got out of an insane minecraft phase and realized that in the hours I spent building, I listened to over 30 of your videos in the span of maybe a week holy heck

[@acarlo4380]

8 year olds understand a lot. I agree that OP is the AH for just never seeing the kid again.

[@fakeidonthaveahandle]

I'd have to disagree. Think about it. If you were a woman, would you want to marry a man that cast to hang around his ex to be a father to a child that is not biologically his? While I understand it may be beneficial for the child, it would be extremely detrimental to OP. By keeping his ex-fiancee around and a child that will inevitably want them to get back together and rebuild the family she grew up with, it completely eliminates his options to move on to another relationship. I would never consider dating a man like that. Too much drama for no biological or legal reason. If he had officially adopted the child, making it legally is then that would be a different conversation.

[@PhantomShark4]

For the girlfriend ignoring call one, I summarized it to my husband because it was so crazy and he pointed out “if his girlfriend is partying at a club in a walkable distance that she walked to, there is no way she’s not already WAY too drunk to drive him to the hospital” and I didn’t even think about that. Both of them are still the asshole, but man she would have probably stumbled home drunk and called an ambulance anyway

[@candyaxe9761]

i’ve not been able to come to stream recently cos i’ve been so busy so i’ve been binging the videos they’re doing so good recently im so proud of you ben !!

[@9babyblu]

Jesus, Sarby has collected 1000k new subs in the hr I've been binge watching! This is great to watch!

[@dumlesbianwithadhd]

So a million?

[@spiritsfollow4976]

1:39:20 the number of MILs in these stories that get genuinely violent is shocking

[@sydneyturner355]

Thanks sarb. I needed this today.

[@megchippendale529]

I read this post and he said he was in so much pain and wasn’t thinking clearly. I’ve seen males kicked in the balls and can barely speak so you gotta give him a break about his communication… imagine being in that much pain. That’s why he called. He isn’t the AH

[@program.gender_notfound761]

Omg I’m finally here not months after posting. Love the channel! Great background noise for drawing ^^

[@iamacactus123]

Clicked so fast, really love listening to your vibe

[@blastypie]

3 hours?? We’re getting fed good rn

[@zZizify]

love this compilation. Happy new year!

[@canadianfivehargreeves]

i came across your channel just last week and now im watching all your old videos! you are so underrated, keep it up man

[@leftminnow]

Holy cow, huuuge video! Thanks Sarby! Also, blessed and descriptive timestamps in the description

[@sophia111188]

About younger brother: father's sins have nothing to do with the kid. It's extremely cruel to hate the child for the way they were conceived

[@neilcognito]

I don't think he hated the kid, but it's an easy NSH. Boyfriend explains that he doesn't want to take care of a child he has no ties with and also expresses that he doesn't want to look after the needs of him. That's communication. OP set their boundaries (little assholely to give someone an ultimatum on something that they expressed they don't want to do) also seems like OP didn't really love their boyfriend. Basically saying "there's plenty of fishes in the sea" to a man sh acclaims to love. Clearly both of them have different priorities in life and don't need to be in a relationship.

[@Mistaken_]

​@@neilcognitoThis 👆

[@hatchetfieldharpie3276]

Just FYI the g-word for Romani people is a slur. I didn’t know for a long time myself, and I am so glad I found out so I would know not to use it, so I just wanted to pass on that info

[@aaabbb8812]

Ian had NO business in the room with a sleeping girl.

[@katiem5415]

Yay! Got called into work today so this is an amazing surprise!!!

[@ThePlayer4our]

Literally everyone focuses on "My balls hurt" and not the multiple calls and texts begging for her to come home

[@dianecheney4141]

Kid with the mom mentoring the bully. Go to the school guidance counselor and let them know what's going on. If your mom can't make the change they will

[@TheVeggiekat]

There was an update to this story. The kid did talk to his guidance counselor because he wanted to switch from the university track to trade school so that he could support himself and move away and go no contact with the mom. The counselor called the mom in to discuss. Mom did not want to quit mentoring the bully and did not want son switching out of uni track. Principle got involved and bully was moved to a different mentor. OP did have to stay in the uni track but was still planning on going no contact with his parents. Mom never apologized or acknowledged she was hurting her kid.

[@FlaFlavia]

Are you serious about "having to think about" if the wife should get 50% of the company??? That's absolutely a no brainer. She would be giving up all her potential future earnings and career opportunities to stay at home with the kids. My dad did not think twice, my mom has always owned 51% of his company and they have been married for 38 years.

[@Guanglai_Kangyiii]

1:56:25 omg why do you keep saying "they" and "them" constantly? He's a man, the sister herself only refers to him as such throughout the entire post and you de-gender him/neutralize his gender the majority of the time when talking about him. I don't get it. And he didn't _choose_ his identity.

[@fionamorris9634]

Dude, I literally just stumbled across your channel today. I’ve been binging your videos, I’m just listening while I play games, but I love your channel, you’re awesome and I adore your cat. As an aussie. I do appreciate the swearing, although I guess you haven’t been monetise yet which is why you can still do it. LOL Keep up the great work your channel 20k before you know it.😊 PS I totally subbed .

[@selab2211]

We eating so good

[@sarahluise5635]

Talking shit about ex (Barring abuse) is red flag behavior. Why are you jealous of an ex? Unless someone is literally saying abusive behavior is abuse/shitty, keep the ex's name out of your mouth. They already broke up. However it happened, it happened and you shouldn't be talking shit about them.

[@GordonLawrence772]

I needed something to listen to while at the gym, luckily you blessed us with a 3 hour vid🙏

[@candyaxe9761]

proud to have been here since like 5 viewers on stream !

[@terrakeelin127]

So grateful I found this channel❤

[@mirawind9126]

If the lady with the cup gets a freaking hormone panel I think it's repairable, but if that's hormones something is actually wrong.

[@lavitwin]

hell yeah casual sarby setup

[@theMadCEHMist]

The trans brother story gives me the ick. Needing therapy and to “grieve the loss of my sister”? Dude…he’s the same person you grew up with. He’s not dead, he’s just who he was always meant to be now. And like…you could have asked if he wanted to be involved. Men like wedding things too. And if it was a girls only thing, then why not make sure your fiancé includes him in the guys only events? Like it just sounds like OP is transphobic and has never really come to terms with their sibling being different and is now excluding them and saying “isn’t this what you wanted?” as a punishment or something. Very weird. PS, it’s not a choice to be trans or to transition, and bringing up that the brother isn’t on hormones or wants to medically transition as if this matters at all in the context of the story also makes me think there’s more to this that OP isn’t sharing which may explain why the brother is being hostile.

[@lilianebrown]

If someone forces u to give them a massage, lines are definitely crossed...I pictured a man doing to young girl but even the other way its creepy

[@Simply_Audreys]

Ooo my gooooood you are my favorite creator

[@Roman_Adrian]

The "No Sx" lady... did he know about this BEFORE marrying her? Or was this decided after marrying? Wow

[@TheVeggiekat]

I have a feeling he’s leaving a lot out.

[@FiaMadison]

As an only child of a single parent ( my dad was the cheater) I'm gonna say NTA. When you cheat, you gamble your family. She lost. She lost for her AND her kid. It has to be that way, because she was toxic af. And now she gets to win the prize for her stupid games. And guess what, she didn't only hurt herself, she hurt her kid. Maybe next time she will think before she opens her legs that her actions affect more than just herself.

[@tat2dgerl]

27:18 you're missing the legal piece. He has no legal stance as a dad.

[@F0xym0r0ns]

YESS I LOVE THESE VIDEOS

[@imajinallthepurple]

2:42:54 That's not the latest update to the story. Spoiler: It wasn't the daughter, the wife *was* in fact cheating.

[@ajillofmanytrades8638]

Gf ignores calls: dude wasn't clear. Being drunk and hearing that.....would think it was a joke. Two: a drunk person isn't great in an emergency. It's not like she could drive him anywhere.

[@TheIndigoRose]

Okay the boys night: why is this a debate? No transphobia because there IS a trans boy in the group, and the friend is a woman. As a woman, I don't expect to be invited to a boys night. Actually wouldn't feel comfortable with that. That's something men need and should be allowed to have.

[@whitepumpkinenthusiast27]

best 4 hours ever

[@RamonaSchnauzevoll]

this doesnt show up in my subscribed videos, found it in recommended.

[@dianecheney4141]

Go talk to your sisters dr and tell him you don't want to do it and you feel pressured. The dr will tell your family that you are not a match. They can also ask their dr to find a Dr in your town do you don't have to go home

[@rebaynia152]

Nope.. When mom cheated on her fiancée, she took away the chance for her daughter to have this man as her father. This is one of the consequences of mom cheating. He is not legally or morally responsible. The responsibility to be her dad remains on the biological father. Mom cheated her father figure away. He should not have to keep a cheating ex in his life, because she had a kid before they were an item.

[@vampluvrgirl]

lol the husband can just marry cindy bc WTF and the WIFE is the baby guy…..

[@kimbone7366]

The girl that sat on ops husbands lap.....Anyone else picture brynn from rhony when picturing Cindy?

[@Rebesag]

"my wife didn't ask me" broooo try to be a parent to your kids, you are not a babysitter for your own kids.

[@gordonmorgan3131]

Im part of a boys nite group thats mostly nonbinaries and trans mens and its so fucking funny whenever a cis man tries to join and makes a misogynistic joke and seeing the whole fucking room look around and go "theres a woman here ???" But like not joking theyre actually looking for who the woman is bc of how many trans members are in boys nite it gives cavespongebob vibes every time

[@alisonduncan3578]

I really feel nauseous reading this list of comments saying that it's cool to dump your child. The fact that he's not the genetic father doesn't mean anything he took on the role of fatherhood embraced loved her and now he's checking her because this relationship failed. Any man walking into a relationship with a woman with kids who takes on the role of Dad also has chosen to take on the responsibility of fathering for life. It is unacceptable to pull out the foundation from someone you say you love because you can't get along with their mother. It is horrendously selfish and to injure someone like that intentionally selfishly and it's avoidable and you would get great benefit from the love and relationship with that child. I'm utterly mind blown over here 🤯🤯🤯🤯

[@alisonduncan3578]

No hormones don't make you act out of character hormones make you think out of character your actions are a choice

[@meowJACK]

100% agree. I think it's so fkn sick and disgusting that someone could abandon their daughter, their 8 year old daughter who they raised since she was two years old, just because they've broken up with her mother. I cannot fathom how he could view himself as her father, but then suddenly just completely switch off that role. As a father, how on earth can you be ok knowing your daughter is crying and asking "where's dad"?? How can you be ok with watching her bawl her eyes out and begging you to never leave? THAT'S YOUR DAUGHTER. You've been her dad for as long as she can remember. 😭 It's so fkn disgusting to just abandon her like that. Giving her ""closure"" by telling her you have to move away to another country and never come back??? That poor girl is definitely going to have some sort of abandonment and/or attachment issues because of this. I am so sad for her. And so disgusted by OP. Genetics or not, that's your daughter, how can you just stop loving your daughter because of breaking up with her mom? As a father you should still love her no matter what. "I don't wanna have to see her mother" is no excuse. When that's your daughter, having to see fkn Satan himself shouldn't stop you from being there for her.

[@LotlLoafing]

For the trans friend. Yeah they can choose whoever they want to invite, but its really crappy if theyve always invited the trans person in the past that would be really upsetting for your friends to suddenly stop inviting you once you've transitioned. Id be upset.

[@NappyNooch]

First time listener. Last time listening. Not even 6 minutes in….

[@angstydoodles1101]

I still think the guy in the last story is immature and should have gone about it better, but, like... As far as we know with the information we were given, it sure seems that these massages were sexually stimulating for the wife. I can kind of see where he's coming from with the cheating angle.

[@Circletwice]

1:30:40 Hold on hold on, NO UPDATE??

[@J3nJ3nl0llip0p]

2:06:14 the body hair thing is SO ICKY

[@woman_of_mayhem]

I hate the background music you have it sound like a alarm going off. Like your takes tho! 😊

[@J3nJ3nl0llip0p]

W for the Guidance Counselor

[@johnmatters4062]

The last one is very questionable, both are psychical acts of pleasure they did for themselves and each other. At the end of the day they both set clear boundaries and she broke his.

[@J3nJ3nl0llip0p]

2:50:12 This is when you teach your kids Ender's Game.

[@J3nJ3nl0llip0p]

2:49:21 THIS POOR KID! Come here, Sweetie, I'll adopt you. You can join me and my little boy in talking ALL THE SMACK about and to his bullies. Yeah, I have beef with 9-11 year olds. I don't make the rules. You spread lies about my child, you hear from MOM

[@megchippendale529]

It is 2025 but it’s a bit unfair to say if they want a traditional bridal shower means they want too be a stay at home wife etc etc.. like you said it’s 2025 and we all have a choice too live life the way we decide. Just because you want a traditional wedding doesn’t mean everything in your life has to be traditional? And yes that brother was being very unreasonable especially when she said he could come when if being traditional was the be all and end all she wouldn’t. If most of the world agrees with being non traditional then why do so many people still want to be traditional.. it’s crazy how people say not to judge yet they do and it has nothing to do with if your religious or not, non religious people preach just as much about being non judgmental yet are some of the worst. Being an extremist has nothing to do with being traditional.

[@wakaitsu]

IMPORTANT INFO - NEVER BE ASHAMED OR EMBARRASSED TO CALL \ GO TO DOCTORS My luv is a medical professional. The "Three Truths of Medics" she drilled into my head are: 1) NEVER DOWNPLAY THE PAIN If it hurts - that means something has gone south. And while there is a chance you'll "walk it off" eventually, there is also a very non-zero chance you WILL die from it. She used to work in cancer treatment and the main reason she switched the fields was the sheer amount of people coming in with untreatable tumors due to them thinking "oh, it doesn't hurt that bad, it will probably go away on its own" and just not seeking help until the pain becomes unbearable - at which point you might as well cut them in half due to cancer metastasing to literally EVERYWHERE in their body. All doctor can offer at that stage is painkillers to ease your last days. Imagine having to tell that to people 5 TIMES A DAY ON AVERAGE. 2) NEVER BE ASHAMED People in medical field see some sh!t on a daily basis, okay. My luv told me stories about seeing people with literally rotting open wounds coming for treatment, my uncle - a, khem, "private" doctor, also has many stories to tell about stuff they had to remove from people's... um... insides that weren't supposed to be there, lets say that. And sometimes his friend, who now works as a coroner, also has some stories about bodies he has to perform autopsy on and how many of them would've lived had they just called ER \ went to hospital in time. Believe me, whatever sh!t you did to yourself or found yourself in - they've seen worse and probably multiple times already. They won't be laughing. Probably would think you're an idiot, but be honest, if your turmoil is the result of your own actions, then won't you be thinking that yourself? 3) NEVER THINK YOU'RE SPECIAL No, you are not build any different. Yes, you need the damn mask. Yes, you also need a vaccine. No, cabbage compresses and rotting garlic won't save you from tuberculosis. Sure, people are different in many ways, but the basics are the same for everybody, so take the damn prescription and TAKE YOUR FRIGGIN MEDICINE AS PRESCRIBED.

[@MyDarkerSide3]

to be clear, that story about the brother was due to transphobia. the brother was not communicating which is not okay, but his sisters language as well as yours was transphobic. "the gender he decided to be" trans people don't DECIDE to be a gender or another. the "he can't have it both ways attitude" is very gross and coming from a place of bigotry. please continue to work on educating your self. maybe even talk to an actual trans person before deciding you're not transphobic. if someone who is trans is telling you that your rhetoric is harmful it's your responsibility to listen rather than just dismiss the criticism. everyone in our culture is raised transphobic, so we all unlearn our biases, just like everyone in america is raised racist--the system is built that way. we have to work to overcome it.

[@hellsmasquerade]

I'm sorry but everyone in America is not raised racist.

[@RavenPeake]

3:26:22 okay I'm not completely crazy. Not for thinking that anyway.

[@RavenPeake]

2:45:14 Satan is a nicer person than that. Don't do Satan like that.

[@michellebrickner9307]

3:10:35 "You'll never find someone who loves me like him." God, I hope not.

[@dononny3965]

in the case of the trans brother, the way OP talks about her brother, i just get the vibe that she is looking down in him the whole time. i can only imagine that theyve discussed this before his transition? and it feels like she never spoke to him about anything, or just asking "hey what would you want to do?" before its a whole thing. he just wants to feel included or acknowledged. the iranian yoghurt is not the issue here.