50 singles speed date follow up with Reno and Finney | tea for two

[@Mm12u]

Do this with the girl who stole her roommates man pleaseee I really wonder what happened and how they are now

[@teehee.1862]

They said in the comments that Carson, Isaac, and the two roommates were friends and planned the whole thing lol

[@abcdefg2174]

​@@teehee.1862Ooh I need to find that comment

[@evap.5121]

@@teehee.1862 it was obvious

[@Shawshank00]

He saw the video of her and Will + the revelation that she was with him the day before = him being triggered by his recent trauma from the previous relationship. So he chose self-preservation, which i totally understand. Last thing you want is a girl flip-flopping between you and another guy. Especially after you've recently been betrayed.

[@petermoczar]

im agree i think thats the answer

[@talstoic]

Yep based on personal experience this was the reason for sure.

[@ibsawado8282]

Based

[@kco1165]

Yet it didn't sound like he was offering up a relationship or commitment in the first place, so of course she's not going to limit whoever she sees. As far as it sounded, he was only offering friendship from the jump. Friends aren't given romantic commitment or monogamy.

[@Goodvibesaround3]

@@kco1165EXACTLY like yes obvi we can see he was triggered by it maybe, however, she did not inflict that original trauma. Again if he didn’t have that honest and open line of communication… then what? She’s supposed to wait around till he’s ready?? Absolutely not.

[@Annitah]

I think he changed his mind when she said she went on a date with another guy yesterday. Even though he admitted that it was fine in reality he does not think so.

[@nielsbishere]

based

[@scarletwilson2562]

Yeah

[@itshippolover2xd808]

I was thinking this 😂

[@tfkdandsvkc]

I caught on that she went ona date with will and she said she was seeing him it kinda turned him off

[@peachnecctar1658]

my thoughts too

[@protonbruh3360]

He’s so emotionally mature for a raver and a guy in general, damn

[@tela2171]

And cold! She has a warmer vibe

[@voyance4elle]

@@tela2171 Probably because he was hurt badly and still processing his past relationship..

[@tela2171]

@@voyance4elle cant argue with that

[@d1hzw]

ravers aren’t any less emotionally mature than normal ppl

[@sagelyden]

@@d1hzwFacts

[@yamilexrodriguez4337]

When Reno said every day is a celebration of life because of how she chose not to give up...I felt that

[@peachy1309]

I didnt recognized Reno until they showed the flashbacks. This style suits her way better, so pretty

[@johnnytimestamp8224]

you mean the very first thing in the video, that flashback? lol 0:01

[@Batman88071]

she looks like jade from victorious

[@AubreyJ12]

Melanoe Martinez is what i was thinking

[@evap.5121]

I had the same thought

[@Blueeyesinthesky]

I thought the same thing

[@Leon059]

literally yes omg my thoughts throughout the whole video

[@tbrown9328]

I was genuinely shocked by that outcome.

[@daniellelake7889]

The vibes were immaculate when they described their hangout and she has such an engaging personality. But he seems like the type of person takes great lengths to not be misconstrued and he was giving honest, not emotionally involved

[@drdratini2005]

I think he' s still emotionally recovering from his previous relationship that scarred him bad.

[@josepapiii]

You could tell he was putting up a wall I feel

[@GirlDo3]

I haven't watched the whole vid so im guessing he's not interested and she is... He doesn't seem into her imo. Like she really liked the date and not him.

[@myriadsofstarstarot9287]

I knew based on their body language. She was into him - you can see her body was leaning towards him. He was leaning back in his chair, emotionally withdrawn and hesitant.

[@KatekyoKen]

The outcome was expected the fact that she was still seeing that other guy and said that she was a 'rotational dater' 17:16 was very telling. You don't want to involve yourself with someone who dates around and you can tell that his last break up was very hard on him if he was going to commit he had to be sure that she was the one so I'm glad he stuck to his gut.

[@tanaka9617]

Word. I did think he was agreeing with everything to be a good sport

[@romf1810]

@@tanaka9617 that ´´its fine´´ after she told about Will´s date was a clear out of boundaries for him

[@lonewaer]

Good for him. I hope he's going to have better luck with the other girl.

[@kco1165]

You want her to commit before they're committed? Make it make sense. So was he committal before she said that then, or...?

[@jassenalexis]

@@kco1165 I don't think they're saying she's wrong or anything. On the assumption that this analysis is true, neither parties are wrong for their decision, just Finney decided towards self-preservation.

[@22jp]

I just saw 50 and clicked. thought it was a new 50 swipe again..😂

[@Jadiexox]

They need to make this a Netflix series

[@chooselife8527]

@@Jadiexox why? they should keep it free for everyone on youtube

[@deelosupreme5630]

lol me too

[@user-ym8kd9cs5f]

Same i was disappointed when I realized it wasn’t

[@toufjs]

real

[@Firefoxy11]

“Do what feels right, as we’re all brand new to each other”

[@ricerocketeer9855]

She wasn't ready for a relationship. Dude clearly was but also looked out for himself and not fall into it.

[@cophs]

"i just want someone to stick around cuz i have a lot of love..." that hit home

[@chooselife8527]

I think both of them are gorgeous and have cool personalities. Finney is careful, thoughtful and selective with who he dates and Reno is indecisive and unsure of what she wants which i feel could have lead to breaking Finney's heart. He made the right decision.

[@tsubakikunn6163]

It was kinda heartbreaking watching Reno at the end, but I could see this outcome coming. There was really no spark throughout the video, and it just didn’t feel like they were a good match. I wish you the best Reno, you’ll find your person soon:)

[@Sukinero]

What about you tsubaki

[@tsubakikunn6163]

@@Sukinerowdym?

[@Sukinero]

@@tsubakikunn6163 like did you find your person

[@FreeJidion6969]

not sure why everyones acting like he called it off completely. He literally said it takes a while for him to build that emotional connection with someone else, which is understandable from his hard breakup he mentioned. Reno should understand that. Was so weird how her whole attitude changed at the end

[@lorena.e]

@@FreeJidion6969it could be what he wrote in the actual letter that made her react that way. We’ll never know for sure though

[@ally2756]

I got the chills seeing him come to leave the note on the chair. I did not expect that

[@maialowell7894]

Reno looks amazing in this video! Love this look so much more

[@randomrey002]

yes

[@Bommelle]

She looks so much better here I think!

[@ginger2586]

It was def the bangs. Love this look 💗

[@tfkdandsvkc]

Her makeup and outfit

[@deagle7776]

Cuz she was caked up with makeup

[@scarletwilson2562]

She seems like she wants fun, and he seems like he wants something serious.

[@clairemargolis1816]

nah the other way around

[@ays7466]

Yeah 100% Good for him

[@wasteewalker]

@@clairemargolis1816😂😂😂

[@voyance4elle]

I don't think so. She also wants something serious. But he didn't catch any feelings for her yet.

[@SincerelyYours_Rebekah]

24:05. She did say at the end she wants someone to stick around and that she has a lot of love to give. I think both of them want a serious relationship but they just wasn't right for eachother.

[@doodlebugprincesss]

I wonder what would have happened if they made them pick BEFORE watching the past video and after watching the past video. There was definitely a vibe switch after that.

[@oniduncan6311]

Their looks are so Jade and Beck from Victorious omggg

[@isa640]

Temu version

[@AlzMarioWolfe]

@@isa640LMAO

[@J.LS.]

It was because the date with Will.

[@petermoczar]

I think it's more complicated and not because of a date

[@Yooonat_]

Lowkey thought that too, and he saw she said she felt friend vibes. He probably was getting mixed signals...he def looked interested in the beginning of the video, then not so much in the end... They don't even follow each other on insta anymore

[@tfkdandsvkc]

And when she said rotational dater his face turned cold he didn't like that at all

[@J.LS.]

@@petermoczar agree. It seemed like it triggered something

[@grey_f98]

he has a lot of trauma from his last relationship, makes sense why he would want to start off as friends instead of diving into something romantic straight away, you make it sound so simple as if it was just one thing

[@JenM-x2o]

I felt his demeanour changed once Reno mentioned she saw Will the night before.

[@Chaeyoungsnr1fan]

I was actually really rooting for them,like they actually looked like they would get along really well

[@you2495]

But Finney looked better with Veronica

[@whatsername7]

2:57 Would you change anything about the way you were raised? 4:15 CHALLENGE CARD ( 1-10 attractiveness rating) 5:16 Last time you really cried? 6:47 CHALLENGE CARD a song that reminds you of the other person 8:44 Share each others 3 positive characteristics 11:26 Greatest accomplishment of your life? 13:48 Watch and react to your original video clip 18:58 look into each others eyes for FOUR MINUTES

[@kayo3847]

I think her history with mental health was a bit of a scare for him and then finding out that she went on a date the NIGHT before was the end of things for him and rightfully so. Good for him, good luck to her.

[@vanessaaac]

Lmy thoughts as well

[@Kittycakes22]

She seems messy

[@LoniL]

Getting rid of the bangs was a good decision I like this look a lot better

[@Firefoxy11]

They’re both so well spoken and so attractive

[@resq2nick]

wait, so she originally matched with will, then stole that date with finney on that episode, then ended up with will in that episode still, then went to the festival with finney, then went on a date with will literally the night before this, and then chose to do this episode with finney? yeah finney made the right choice

[@kaliyahp.1971]

I saw this coming from 100 miles away lol. Throughout the whole thing his body language was very guarded and apprehensive and right when he got comfortable she said she went on a date with someone else 🙃

[@kco1165]

Why shouldn't he expect her to date other people if he's going to be standoffish and give mixed signals?

[@tekqist28]

He really fumbled the first girl, she was amazing!

[@JR-nz2cm]

I think her disclosure of her struggle with MH was a flag and then The Will drama also may have sealed the deal for him. He’s so positive that truly being with her * to me* appears to be almost too much. He’s so grounded that it seems a lady with a similar vibe could be better. Watching the video of the other date and they’re already texting/talking. He seems particular and definitive in what he wants or at least doesn’t want. Props for not leading her on maybe did just for the cameras but appeared genuine.

[@banana_dino]

She handled it really well! Obviously, there's someone more suitable for you, girl!

[@fbspin]

Finney is very handsome and has a very cool vibe

[@dakotawinchester]

He's just a mid average white dude, bro.

[@subaschen8595]

@@dakotawinchesterNo homo but this dude falls under the handsome man category. He seems chill, although his mannerisms are a little robotic

[@kco1165]

@@subaschen8595 I swear, a guy dresses himself decently and does his hair and people act like he's a model, yet a beautiful woman at her peak (ALOT more attractive than him, ngl) and people undercut her. SMH.

[@ERENSTITAN]

@@kco1165bro, why are we still doing these “wars”? Like pls calm down and WE should all respect every gender and their ideas and what they choose to do :)

[@dpfljr]

He made the right choice! There's too much to say in an online comment to clarify

[@shadowscribbler6100]

Wow, she looks totally different here. Mad makeup skills.

[@Yooonat_]

She seems like the kind of girl to get jealous easily. He said he talked to his match, and she almost had to 1 up him and say she went on a date with will..

[@versatileveritas]

His hair man, chef kiss 😘

[@dakotawinchester]

No, it's very 1960s for me. Very old-fashioned!

[@EmperorWasHere]

@@dakotawinchesterokay lol?

[@dakotawinchester]

@@EmperorWasHere Lol?

[@Mayyia254]

Lol

[@chrystianaw8256]

He's got a got a good hairline

[@R-Moneyy]

That guy made the right decision the fact that Reno went out with another guy the day before is a huge red flag, but I hope she isn’t too hurt by his decision because she seems like a genuine person

[@plus7560]

Why is that a huge red flag? She shouldn't go on a date with another guy at the same time? Why? It is not always that people like this aren't looking for something serious.

[@xomnipresent8913]

@@plus7560your a “girl power” person. I’m going to tell you now that’s not healthy

[@lonewaer]

@@plus7560 If you go on a date, be _properly_ single. It's not difficult. Don't be talking to other people, don't be sleeping with other people, give yourself some time to be alone and comfortable being alone. Then you can actually give a fair chance to someone. She's not doing that.

[@Mayyia254]

​@@plus7560dating multiple people equates to promiscuity.. and loyalty is always in doubt

[@teehee.1862]

@@plus7560It’s a red flag for him and any other person who wants commitment when dating someone. Red flags are personal; you don’t have to agree or think the same

[@KrazyLikeKi]

Not enough people talking about Reno’s beautiful energy! I love the way she spoke and what she was saying.

[@shupiii]

He seems so sweet and mature. I like his vibes 😢❤

[@PearlwiththeSwirl]

we got to see this with lotus and isaac

[@nadinemuckerheide8180]

YES THEY LOOKED SO CUTE

[@raidtheairwaves42]

This is what the nectar app SHOULD feel like. It would be nice to ask questions in real time and reveal photos and opinions after, optionally of course

[@bbychilly5090]

These people are beautiful and softly broke our hearts lowkey

[@Theautography]

The reason the guy left the latter was because she saw the other guy the previous day

[@MaxTheDestroyer707]

Yup he got jealous!

[@ricerocketeer9855]

Its a clear red flag to me. She wants fun.

[@plus7560]

@@MaxTheDestroyer707No, he didn't😂

[@MaxTheDestroyer707]

@@plus7560 I think he did

[@simonmarcu01]

​@@plus7560you can see him moving his body uncomfortably after she said that. It's one of the reasons.

[@fashionspy96]

I want to hug them both, they're so precious

[@HeisenbergFam]

"im so sorry" sounds like she's absolutely not sorry at all

[@C_In_Outlaw3817]

Lmao yes. She in fact likely wasn’t sorry

[@ohhhbirdy5975]

boohoo

[@Sukinero]

When did she say that

[@simrdownmon6431]

I think what you did there is called 'projection'. Either that or you're super insecure.

[@jorrdan.]

Yall read too deep into things like chill omg

[@Sukinero]

I feel like a lot of the time when they say “I don’t feel a romantic connection” on speed dating not this they don’t really know that for sure. Also I feel like Reno doesn’t know how she feels either saying that she saw will but didn’t feel a romantic connection and then at the end says that will is the choice

[@TheKawaiiDango]

24:05 Sis he didn’t want to stick around because you weren’t sticking around

[@shake4259]

24:05 "I want someone who wants to stick around" then stop flip flopping between multiple dudes

[@aptdccvii]

omg hes so pretty ?? like his face is so statuesque

[@s.mcgirl]

Tbh the end results aren’t a surprise at all and I’m glad she knows that she’s worth being loved wholeheartedly and for the guy he needs to process his emotions cause you can tell he still has a lot of hurt and I think it’s unfair to himself and others to put yourself back in a dating scene when you clearly aren’t ready for it

[@theself7139]

He clearly had a romantic interest in the beginning. Hes big family person but shes not really. That coulda been one of the factors. During watching their videos too, she was really flip-flopping(til the end of this). The dealbreaker right there was her telling she went on a date with will last night. While he admitted he only texted and never went on the date with his match, shes out here literally seeing her date before meeting him. So, any guy would be turned off by that. No matter how big the spark was. He also said when asked abt 3 good things, he was like shes a very easy to connect and have fun. Hes basically saying shes hoeing too much. Reason he said he understands the rotational dating is cause hes mature and accept ppl can go whtever they want but that doesnt mean it would sit right with him. U can literally see him turn cold after she told her she went on date with will. LAST NIGHT no less.

[@jonathanmorales6972]

i cried for reno because i know the feeling personally but like how both mentioned it’s the best and most mature option to leave things where they are if there is mixed feelings or neutrality on continuing a relationship

[@hannavandersluis9648]

I loved these two new videos with tea for too, and also the 50 speed dates. These questions were very good and thoughtful. I also like that there was an option to leave a letter if you would chose to leave!!! More of this

[@anju2592]

Seeing multiple people at the same time shows a serious lack of commitment. How can you want something serious yet be so indecisive?

[@jennywill6088]

i expected this kind of outcome

[@fryeesaucee]

i honestly thought the ending was going to be the other way around...i am shocked....

[@ays7466]

He's way too mature for her I felt

[@shallowwatersoriginal]

The guy is insecure and smells when he is not all your world. To me He is up for manipulation and wants simple headed women...

[@Marcus-gw4bb]

@@ays7466 I too feel the same way. The way he carries himself and the choice of words he used to explain and articulate certain thoughts just further reinforce that notion.

[@WorldsGreatestVidiot]

I am probably reading too much into this, but he was leaning back during the four minute stare.

[@MA-yq6xs]

continue the series pleasee

[@sophiaodegbo-olukoya7324]

plssssssssssssss

[@KeepCalmEden]

What the fuck she literally just went on another date last night that wouldn’t sit well for me

[@jonathanduran-wq1ou]

Lmaooo what is she talking about he told her how hard his last relationship was and she came here to see if she liked him but hung out with the other guy the night before ??? What did she expect that was the last straw for him completely triggered him and brought trauma back

[@jayptodd]

Finney is so adorable!

[@NerdyMeathead]

"it makes my dilemma easy" Just let Will know he was 2nd choice lol

[@Jadenicoleluna]

Omg she went out with Will the night before the date omg..:( she already hurt in him a lil. He genuinley seems like he was raised so right❤ such a family man

[@SoooVids]

She had a glow up lmao

[@HYDR0C0D0NE]

Yeah I like this look better she just has less makeup and no bangs

[@jorrdan.]

I think she looked cute before and after, just different vibes

[@HappyBird-xi7vb]

Nahhh his answers were better than chatgpt like damnnnn

[@xomnipresent8913]

Your asking a man clearly with morals and intimate values for a poly relationship then tell him you met with the guy you picked first last night and expect him to stay?? She is in between and need to make her mind up im glad he left and she showed up so she can see how to not play with peoples emotions while only looking out for yourself. Should have been all in or not at all because i know for sure he would of stayed but good for him for leaving. Then at the end she says he don’t deserve her love? Lol if that’s her way of love nobody wants it.

[@Snooploops97]

I'm convinced that this is the real life equivalent of Barry Allen meeting Sam Manson from Danny Phantom

[@CaptainCJ97]

Foreal

[@gnamaryarisirem]

I love the new look, she has cute eyebrows

[@ryanrowe1975]

Reno looks amazing on a date of hanging out on the episode

[@jasminemullen881]

I could feel that they weren’t a romantic match

[@darrylt8502]

He looked away when he said he finds her "very attractive."

[@klever2183]

What it means?

[@darrylt8502]

@@klever2183 It means he thinks she's good looking but he's not into her.

[@teehee.1862]

Lmao

[@tristanromanoski9864]

his voice makes me want to clear my throat

[@GallardoFreak888]

I felt this one wasn’t sticking their energies weren’t lining up even though they both are in the music industry. Definitely agree that as a rotational dater vs someone that goes all in that’s not a compatible thing unfortunately. They could just be friends though

[@theshredlord666]

I really feel like they were genuine with each other.

[@alexandriabrown3427]

I think she is so real for this and I now have so much respect for Reno. I don't just want her to find a wonderful partner but I also want her to live the best life that she can.

[@Cierra_yo]

I can actually see them dating in the future 🤔

[@sukiyoki]

he didnt want to commit to having a bf gf situation he wanted to take a friendship slow and see where it goes. but that set the tone for her and probably isnt what she was hoping for.

[@Keeping.it.real01]

Had she not said she went on a date with Vinny yesterday, maybe his answer would’ve been different but it changes his body language when she said it. It would’ve made me back up away as well if I was Vinny.

[@Xiaox93]

the odesza song they played was say my name, absolute classic banger

[@Summitic]

Reno...i am here for you !

[@alancobain9508]

God, protect this man!

[@ytzpro]

24:05 this is what I think about EVERYDAY. ❤

[@tfkdandsvkc]

What happened to Paris and Amare??Mylynn and Samir we never got their follow ups

[@tayr3836]

Samir is an f boy lol he was literally just in a video about guessing who’s an f boy

[@grace.k.77]

I need a follow up on Paris and Amare they were SO cute

[@boop2612]

I was NOT expecting that

[@AnaS-of8ri]

Love Reno! What a beautiful soul! I resonate so much on the part about listening to your intuition!

[@theshredlord666]

Both of them are clearly madly in love with each other...

[@Summitic]

12:22 Reno... I am here for you ! ❣

[@tfkdandsvkc]

I hope she sees this it's so cute how you like her

[@Summitic]

@@tfkdandsvkc yes ! How do you always find my comment ? 😅🙏

[@chishh2554]

Finney reminds me of Barry Allen (The Flash). You see it too??? 😂

[@roguemystique7]

I'm confused by her response at the end. She friend zoned him in her answer previously, then said she went on a date the night before. I don't think it would be smart for him to go all in on her. He made the smart decision in my opinion. No one wants someone who second guesses them and is a second option. You normally can tell if you click or if there's sparks. Idk I also wouldn't want to pursue someone who said that and then get my heart broken. To many people in the world for that.

[@ays7466]

Good for you Finney

[@ChelszXx1]

I feel sorry for Reno being afraid to follow her heart immediatly, I think because of insecurities in the past. She tries so hard and really felt a geniune and safe connection with Finney to explore that side of her, it must've felt painful. I feel like she tries to hide her emotions sometimes, because she doesn't wants to be a burden. Mabye that's also why Finney kept saying that it looks like she's honest, but also felt there was something else hidden inside. But she's very strong and beautifully open-minded the way she took it. I really hope both of them can find a good match and the love they deserve

[@DarthDimple]

She's 100% here for the clout and not the connection. He deserves better.

[@cecil3602]

You guys will find your partner it will take time . Just be patient 🙏🏼

[@GenericGoon95]

Reno was anti-grind but then 5 minutes later got exposed for seeing the other guy the night before. Lmao she finna get wit 2 guys at once whilst telling Finney to ease out on his work ethics. Glad he walked and knows his worth. And her reaction says it all: she's just going back to Will.🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩

[@Sukinero]

Tbh seems like she lied about not feeling a romantic connection after hanging out with will yesterday

[@ays7466]

YEP

[@Tiphuhnee]

What does being anti-grind have to do with dating around

[@myathemango2936]

Calm down

[@BondofOblivion]

She didn't get exposed. She said it herself. And there's nothing wrong with dating. They are not in a relationship.

[@babyclown]

Too early for the comments yet :( nothin to scroll through

[@spiolata]

I don't like either of them for some reason... It feels like they're not comfortable with themselves somehow, but I might be completely wrong

[@miguel_7515]

I will say no if she's talking to someone else

[@victorious_3d]

He doesn’t seem like to type to be so well spoken

[@erinfield1943]

Finney and Reno, go get back in there and get through this weirdness, you just need to have a talk. You can get through this. Go do some activity together or go out for supper. I think you can make it work if you just talk it out.