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In this video, we talk about 6 signs to tell if a dismissive avoidant is romantically invested in the relationship. We'll look at behaviors that are hard for the dismissive avoidant but that they still engage in when they are prioritizing their relationship. Hopefully, this video will give you a sense of where your relationship stands with the dismissive avoidant.
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[@0Demiyah0]

1. Consistent initiative of communication & Consistent initiative to see somebody 2. Prioritizing you 3. Willing to work through differences. If you express a need in a healthy way, they will want to work with you through that. 4. Willing to meet your family & friends, introducing you to their family & friends 5. If they are willing to spend extended periods of time with you, like going on a trip or spending an entire weekend together. Thank you, Thais! I have been with my DA for 4,5 years now. In the first 6 months of dating, he checked all of these boxes. It was also my DA who took initiative about living together. It went south for a bit once we moved in, but I feel we are managing it better now as I have healed to SA, and he is showing up more FA now actually.

[@perspicacity89]

Wow. By the end of our "relationship" my DA none of these things for me. Guess she didn't and doesn't give a shit.

[@jeanjessmommysharlyn2771]

My DA best friend we're more than 3 years mostly are check except he never initiates in contact even i did no contact he only kept on waiting for me but whenever i message him his very fast to reply..hmmm what can i do so he will try to initiate? I already told him in a good way, but he said maybe it's my bad habit... idk what to do... or just accept that his like that?

[@0Demiyah0]

@@jeanjessmommysharlyn2771 if he responds fast and he's typically down to talk to you/spend time, I'd just write it off as being a bad texter. You can remind it that it makes you feel appreciated, but I wouldn't consider that the worst if you can rely on him getting back to you swiftly. Everybody has their quirks.

[@jeanjessmommysharlyn2771]

@@0Demiyah0 i guess your right.. before i struggle with him because of phantom ex and whenever he have problem or his stressed he distance himself...now his more open and like to talk what solution we can do ..but now i don't talk about relationships before maybe because idk about this personality development school i was very anxious and i couldn't understand him...but i learned my attachment style is fearful avoidant... that's why i avoid anxious preoccupied man but i feel more attracted to DA lol it's kinda crazy but lil by lil im trying to heal...😊

[@sloveniaproducer]

First two months were great, two extended weekends together, maybe lunch twice a week..then a month of cancelations on plans...is it common for DAs to start off like that then become avoidant?

[@amymjay]

My DA partner after a few weeks maybe a month, text me every morning to say hello! That consistency made me feel so safe as an AA. I would see them 3 days a week consistently and it was really great. We now live together and have been together 2.5 years.

[@amymjay]

@@komatsu8169 They are! 😂 As someone who has been inna relationship with them for 2.5 years, I would know this, and confirmed by Thais.

[@amymjay]

@@komatsu8169 We weren’t technically bf/gf for 6 months. Definite need for alone time, didn’t introduce me to family for 6 months. When we fight they go inward and retreat to solve things alone. They love self soothing. Even in Thais’ recent videos she confirms that if DAs like you they will show it through consistency & time together. But Thais’ personally confirmed it in a webinar early on. ;)

[@vp5134]

@@amymjay that's great... Mine went from texting every morning and every night and throughout the day to ghosting as soon as I told him meeting you once in a fortnight is not enough for me and I want to meet once per week at least...

[@m3llytan]

@@vp5134 Not sure if he was DA or just not into me, but this happened to me! He started texting morning noon and night, and I felt so secure, almost smothered lol as a (improving) anxious-avoidant. He set the pace at 1-2 visits a week, but when I asked about weekends and implied I wanted to see him more because I liked him so much, he went silent and a week later finally answered my text by breaking up via text because of potential long distance next year...So he nope'd out or found another girl to be distant with 😅

[@simeondsharp3569]

@@amymjay q10

[@LiliaSGeorge1]

My ex did all these things but I learned that I need a lot more transparency to feel connected in a rela. I now know he hid things out of shame. It makes me feel so sad for him to feel such shame about his existence. Luckily I also recognize that it's not my responsibility to heal him. There will be someone else out there who is able to open up to me with the same depth I provide & value what I bring to the table.

[@pacs0508]

👏🏿👏👏🏻👏🏼👏🏽👏🏾🙏🏻🙏🏼🙏🏾

[@MJ-od5sh]

Am sure The guy I was seeing was def a DA. He would only see me once a week , in 4 months hadn’t even slept with me . Would text me every morning & maybe once more in the evening. Would never actually phone me . Spent every Saturday night with his friends . Also was a work aholic. He was always laughing & joking to the point I felt like he was so immature. The min I brought emotions or try to talk about intimacy he changed subject. In 4 months we started off I actually felt lonely. I told him how I felt & I felt like I was 5th in his life . Instead of reflecting on how he had treated me he just said it’s obvious we think & feel different and this won’t work and walked away. But he had said the same words before & came bk after a month . He blamed an ex for always wanting to be with him. I think she was treated the same personally & it was really all about him . Honestly good luck to him he will never find a women being like this & I was so patient .

[@pinkaa17]

This is how my DA ex was at the beginning of the relationship and then he wasn't.

[@Tochtlichicahuac]

Thank you as always for sharing your wisdom, Thais. I know that you don't like it when dismissives get loads of flak, but from my experience, the issue is that, as the relationship with them "progresses"... well, it doesn't really move forward, as you would expect from a healthy relationship in which both parts allows themselves to show vulnerability, but they feel less and less compelled to invest in you, and more and more in their career, hobbies, "alone time", etc, since one of their core beliefs is that you'll end up leaving anyway, and so, almost without realizing it on a conscious level, you become conditioned to receive crumbs or nothing at all, even when you are in deep crisis! But ah, if you dare to call this out and set boundaries, even in a respectful, non-accusatory way, they will very probably stonewall you, and pull away further as they will interpret this as manipulative. Such deep distrust and paranoia from being controlled. They don't realize it's them who are being manipulative when they demand love and attention without reciprocating at all. I know it's a spectrum, and that those who are anxious-preoccupied also have selfish motives when they overgive, but sometimes the line between dismissives and neglectful narcissists is a little bit too narrow.

[@gmiller8167]

That was well articulated and you made very valid points. My personal experience with my DA 2 1/2 years in (I’m secure but his DA attachment style when he’s deactivating pulls me toward anxious, but not to the extreme as described as AP). It has been one of the most difficult and challenging relationships I’ve ever been in. Had I know his attachment style up front I wouldn’t continued dating early on. It was only after we moved in together after 9 months, at his encouraging and purchase of an engagement ring which he’s never given me, that all hell broke lose. For a year I had no idea what what going on with his inconsistent behaviors. Hot/cold, say one thing/do another, spent more and more time alone at country cabin than at home, etc. I realized that he never talked about feelings or showed vulnerability. I’m not an overly touchy-feely person but I do like moments of tenderness and affection out side of just sex. I asked him to go to counseling together and he begrudgingly did. On the third visit the counselor gave us some videos and gently tried to get him to realize that he’s a DA. He heard nothing of the “psycho-babble” and so we broke up right there in the counselors office. Broke up for 3 months and I was looking for another place to live but struggling to find something I could afford. Before I could move out we started, in unspoken terms of course, reconciling. We are now maybe 6-8 weeks in again. But now I’m walking on egg shells. I dove into attachment styles, CPTSD, deactivating, activating, etc., spending probably 50+ hours learning every thing I could. It really hit home what you said about their interpretation of being manipulated when you express needs in a healthy way but not realizing how they are being manipulative when they want it from you sporadically without reciprocation. Bit of a rant, but all this to say… unless people with unhealthy attachment styles acknowledge and desire to self reflect and want to get healthy, that the relationship is sure to end and be painful.

[@pacs0508]

You described my seven year rollercoaster ride of a relationship perfectly! I wish I would have known what this was seven years ago. I couldn't figure her out to save my life! Now I know after educating myself. They say knowledge is king! It's almost like loving the unlovable.

[@pacs0508]

@@gmiller8167 I have seven years with what I describe as a DA. I am a PA and it's like a monumental struggle of back and forth!

[@nellautumngirl]

My partner does all of these. I know he loves me but that was nice to hear. We spend every weekend together and I want to spend more time with him, but for him it is a huge step. He sees his best friend once a month and he sees me 2 days a week :D :D

[@disappearingink1354]

Thank you. I was nodding along, acknowledging that my ex did all of these things ... and then you got to "spends extended periods of time with you," which is exactly where things derailed. They did at first but got increasingly and noticeably anxious as time went on and I took it quite personally. They would suggest long weekends together but then be super cranky and it was so confusing. 😂

[@TysonMichael77]

As a DA that I've noticed iv'e behaved as for years, I am ready to learn more to break this pattern and really work through to see who I truly am. Iv'e identified the issues that happened in my childhood that caused that but im realized I may need more help.

[@jeanjessmommysharlyn2771]

Can i asked you as a DA, i had a guy best friend in 3 years we're FwB them i slowly take it like as friends because i feel bad not in a relationship but doing more than that, then this December i told him i need clarity and security so i try to message him but in a good way if he have time to talk about it, he only told me he doesn't have time then he ghosted me and put his profile in private..it really hurts because i feel I'm nothing for him but i kept on watching videos and i guess he was really triggered, but i guess i did the right thing rather than waiting and hoping for a long time...can you give me any advice?

[@Michelle-qq4sd]

When my DA finally wanted to be with me, I was frustrated by that time. But I was having a hard time expressing needs. Relationship died slowly. : ((

[@ShimmerSoulSong]

Aww. The DA I was close with spent alot of time with me for a full one day a week, pretty much every week for years. I so wish I had known all this before. So insightful. Brings in more understanding and compassion and acknowledgement. I think this person is growing out of DA is my hunch. More than half Secure. I, as an FA/Secure... and during pandemic got more anxious... I generally like 2 or 3 checkins a week. I realize how overwhelming I must have been with my need to connect more.

[@rhonnieminnie]

6/6 2 weeks before he deactivated. actually he was the one initiate me spending more time with him and his family, i was actually surprised he let me in that close. i knew he needed his space, and he had tons of it (prior to even knowing about attachment styles). he has not said a single word to me since he deactivated months ago. he has an extremely negative view of me and a lot of resentment from not communicating his needs. it really sucks being hurt because you did the right thing by showing your partner healthy love.

[@Pr_20]

My DA has ticked all 6. We have been together 7 months now but we haven’t had the conversation of officially being together. I’m happy with the way it’s going and understand he needs his time

[@CT-yl3oj]

Shoot you should tell my ex that. 😂 Dang woman is more hard headed than I am. Lol.

[@Pr_20]

@@CT-yl3oj at first I thought it was odd but never mentioned it. I looked more into his attachment type and knew he needed time. Tbh Im happy with the pace, too many people commit way to soon and it doesn’t work out.

[@CT-yl3oj]

@@Pr_20 ya I'm fa da. I wanted to go slow but she kept on. Now we in this boat.

[@komatsu8169]

He doesn't need time, he's like that. They don't like being burdened... The moment you mention lables they will start being distant.

[@FM-zg5hz]

Any update?

[@paris_82]

I truly enjoy your DA breakdown. I am a DA woman. I would love to hear your perspective on a DA is struggling to be vulnerable with their partner, but their partner mocks their attempts (DA that doesn't feel emotionally safe in their relationship).

[@someonespecial581]

Run. If you do not feel emotional safe with anyone, you gotta leave him

[@Seashellsbytheseashore21]

You need to work on yourself and heal the stuff that’s causing you to feel emotionally unsafe. Or if you’re saying you don’t feel physically safe then you need to leave.

[@missbluerain]

Mocking ones partner in a derogatory way is a red flag.

[@jeanjessmommysharlyn2771]

Maybe your partner is an AP and doesn't understand you...try to share some videos so he understand... it's ok for AP to share video they will appreciate that . But if that AP is kinda rude maybe it's best to leave

[@lightofall]

Thats emotional abuse

[@tarannak25]

You are my role model. I have saved my relationship thanks to you.

[@maryamkhan2978]

If a DA takes interest in me ever again, I will open the door very first day and ask them to leave. No more DAss.....

[@MotorcycleMan79]

You sound like a lovely human. Ever thought that people may just not like being around you specifically?

[@banshee3749]

Haha, and you will know he's a DA just by his looks? :D

[@NunayoBisnez]

Loll that sounds fair to me 😂

[@saraachir2051]

Same 😂🥴

[@svendragon8139]

Have a current DA girl. And if this doesn't work out, I will not subject myself to this again.

[@Lidia.Bella.Italiana]

I keep attracting these type of men ... and im a Borderline with an anxious attachment... so when they get too distant for me by not reaching out in a day or two, or more.. then i become avoidant and feel like they can just go to hell then. Borderlines cant be with avoidants. Its torture.

[@marryjane1684]

Exactly 💯 I'm can't I'm over it

[@lisalee6501]

I guess even with DA’s you’ll know if they like you or not. I dated a DA who was extremely scared of losing his freedom and meeting a woman to «take it away», he was rigid and controlling about this and would put up strong bouandries. How ever he would text every week and prioritize me once a week, and was only dating me and being a gentlemen. I did feel he liked me. I dated another DA i was really in love with and he would be love bombing and ghosting me in cycles and ask me out a lot but always stood me up. I guess that’s the DA NOT that into you, lol

[@Gone2war-q3i]

That's a narcissist or someone who's toxic. I'm DA. We don't do it on purpose and rarely ghost and come back. To scared of been rebuffed.

[@leoadventures1050]

They will destroy you in to dust and question about life. Just don't even consider it and smile and walk away from these types

[@0Demiyah0]

I healed from unaware dysregulated FA to SA in a relationship with an unaware & dysregulated DA. I don't share your experience. He is the safest partner I have had, the least toxic relationship of my life, otherwise I wouldn't have become SA and healed relationally next to him.

[@howtosober]

Whew, thanks for the warning! Now I know what to run from.

[@doliva4]

Thank you. I just realized that the person I’ve been with for almost 3 months is a DA. Frankly, I have only been with a hardcore narcissist (married for 18 years and finally divorced). I want to see where this goes because I KNOW the person I’ve been dating is a good person. I like how you frame this is “programming” versus calling it a dysfunction. Very interesting.

[@perspicacity89]

"My" DA did none of these things for me.

[@lightofall]

Same

[@ShimmerSoulSong]

So true. I've witnessed DA willing to show up and communicate and to meet needs. Hmm the buffering. Grouping people in categories. I wanted to introduce my DA friend to all the peoples and places, overall. I guess it's my FA novelty and wanting to include and quality time and to weave together what I love.

[@gillpendleton1197]

He used to care but then he went back to his wife after a 10 year separation. Hurts like hell.

[@daisyaguilar5688]

OMG…thank you so much for this information! I wish I would have found your videos before my breakup because it would have made a big difference. It’s ok because I feel like I’m educating myself now…I will learn more about myself (my attachment style) and others (there attachment styles) so that the day I am ready to put myself out there again I will be better as a person and be able to also know how to be for my next life partner. God bless you!

[@sixfeetunder0105]

How to be ? What about you ? Did he also cared about how you felt and how you were living things? Sounds like you want to change who you are to please him a d thats dangerous gurl

[@liliaaaaaaaa]

Thank you Thais. Your videos are so informative thank you ! I just worked out finally my "partner" is more likely to be a DA! I didn't know much about attachment theory until recently when I started dating him last year, when various behaviours came up! Was very attentive in the beginning, wanting to work through differences and met my family did all the right moves, then once we started actually seeing each other once he told me he wanted to be committed, he started pulling away or withdrawing even when he was with me, at the same time as wanting to be with me all the time! It was very confusing! He was coming round my house eating / sleeping with me every day but then blocked me on FB when I complained he still had a photo of his ex he advertised on his profile from 30 years ago! When I asked why, he said it was about "the music" since they had been in a band together ... but that was 30 years ago! He also kept on idealising different musicians / actors and copying their clothing when he was performing in his own band! We had a break-up in the end for 4 months because I found his hot / cold style difficult to deal with. Now watching your videos has really helped me to understand his behaviour, to understand something about his background and why he is loving and connecting one minute, then withdraws after connection sometimes! We saw each other last weekend and he says he wants to continue with me sharing an allotment we got together for the next year, so that shows he wants to commit for another year and give it another go. Just he's asked me if I can be more in control of my own emotions, evidently meaning that when he shows FA or DA signs, I need to be able to be more objective understanding what he's going through so that I don't react feeling rejected whenever he disassociates or needs space as an Ap! At the same time I also need to get him to admit that idolising his ex or talking about actors too much is not going to help if he wants a proper relationship with me this time! Thank you for your wise words! :-)

[@roshalllambert]

Very accurate points as always!

[@nitacollins3645]

My DA was like that at first mixed with threats and emotional abuse. I don’t have to worry now I found a AP

[@amorsinsufrimiento]

I love your videos Thais! I love your energy. Thank you ❤️

[@theunrealjackson]

My gf did ALL of this...but still broke it off suddenly-immediately after her ex husband started harassing her about me. I'm 6 weeks into no contact, learning about my & her attachment styles, & hoping she reaches out.

[@kimpeters4451]

Hi, i can personally attest that if you stay in No Contact THEY WILL eventually reach out. I was in No Contact with my DA for 9 months after a sudden breakup (caused by his stress and his overwhelming life change). He eventually contacting me using the indirect-direct method. I stayed cool and brief via text and 2 weeks later I got another text and then the flood gates opened. Do as much learning about yourself and them now while you can. I did and it helped the 2.0 part of our relationship. DAs are tough to be with but if you find one that's worth the extra effort you will gain the tools to help them AND more importantly, yourself. Stay on track. Do not cave and focus on yourself! Good luck!!

[@stevensantora2976]

Wow, thank you so much. I truly appreciate it so much. I thank God for you and that I found your channel.

[@zaria5785]

I needed this like a year and a half ago. Still grateful for the info though. Thank you Thais.

[@ArielAriel-rg8ng]

My ex DA didn't want to spend much time with me,like once a week and he wanted to make sex rarely. He tried to get better and to improve but I always felt he didn't love me because I was always the one to tell him what was going wrong and the one who chased him. In the last months of our relationship he proposed me to go to terapy together and I appreciated it.

[@s0clever-qk5xt]

100% spending time with someone means they're important to you, I don't know why anyone would bother with people they don't care about, DA or not

[@karinteeples6517]

I’m now a secure FA after doing a lot of self healing. I’ve been married to a DA for over 30 years now. I love him like I did then! It doesn’t mean we didn’t want kill each other thru the years tho. It’s haaaaaaaard work with a DA, but I’m also have BPD due to childhood trauma. I feel like all I’ve done is self help thru the years just to maybe feel normal with society. I love life! I love my gorgeous DA who never left, but I’m sure he fantasized about often. 🤪

[@Candy_Mountain]

How did you get secure with FA?

[@mizzymann8067]

I’m an FA with a DA. When I express a need he gets very argumentative, and blame shifts. He’s not conflict avoidant. Is he a DA leaning FA ?

[@divyapuliani]

How do DAs approach being vulnerable and sharing the reasons for their deactivation strategies?

[@yamjuice]

Excellent questions, I would like to know that aswell. Do DA’s ever really express their vulnerabilities verbally with anyone? What does vulnerability look like for them?

[@ИмяФамилия-т8б8б]

As a someone with consistent DA patterns who is (on a good day) mindful about it I could try to explain. So first thing you need to imagine is that the base of personality of a DA are shame, fear, avoidance of hurt. Let's say there is some inner pattern I know about and believe it's something nobody in the world would ever accept about me and might only use this info for exploitation. Why would I ever share it in the first place? Okay let's say I realised I need it to be seen in a relationship and I have to share it. But as stated above its something that either won't be accepted or would be exploited. How do I conquer that fear of either being ignored, ridiculed or exploited? Like I'm sure it's gonna happen cause I've seen it before and it can't be unseen. That means I need to be prepared to the moment it happens and my sharing backfires on me. How do I get prepared to it? I make sure I'm not dependent on the person I share it with and they have (ideally) 0 control over me. It's done by either not giving this person any tools to fuck you up (not sharing friends, don't rent apartment together, etc) or being mentally prepared to burn everything you share to the ground and walk away. This is what it takes to be vulnerable for a DA. The sad part is it makes you alone for life. And you might even realise it makes you alone but being unable to brake this pattern. Because it's actually disprovable: for every instance that you can say "I opened up to x person and they didn't fuck me up" you just always add "yet".

[@Lorij24]

​@@ИмяФамилия-т8б8бthank you for this. Very insightful as I (FA) feel hollow and empty with overwhelming feelings for the DA that I've been "talking to" (his words 🤦‍♀️).

[@sarastrange5282]

I was seeing a guy for 3ish months, he was a cancer man, and he was consistent but then would go hot and cold and was giving mixed signals, he had even came out with my friends and even asked me out to dinner with his family, but me being the anxious type was always questioning what was feelings were so I finally brought it up where our situationship was headed and he said he was unsure and that he had a block and said there could be potential but is unsure at the moment, ever since then he's been distant only writes me when I wrote him, I'm not sure if he has an avoidant style and I spooked him out or if he's just an asshole.. help !

[@lightofall]

Cancer people seem to have a tendency to hide a lot in their shells and very inconsistent. Every man ive been with has had cancer energy in their sign and they are very very avoidant and shut down. They also dont know how to express their intense emotions. They are like a turtle hiding in their shell

[@lightofall]

I experienced the exact same thing. He called me everyday and was there for me but would not commit.

[@sarastrange5282]

@@lightofall He just used me, typical avoidant fuck boy, I walked away, he actually wrote me back with a BS apology, saying the feelings weren't reciprocated on his end and didn't see anything we me long term, he said his actions were never meant to be deceitful but if I would've never brought up the conversation he would have continued to string me along 🤦🏻‍♀️ I left him on read (like he would always do to me) the worst part is it still hurts, I hate how he pretended to want a relationship but knew very well he's emotionally unavailable and can't commit

[@lightofall]

@@sarastrange5282 I experienced the same and just realised I was being strung along only yesterday...they are users, and unwell. Consider yourself lucky that you are free from him. I'm going to take mybtime getting to know people

[@JustMeAndMyBoy]

What if there’s lots and lots of messaging but u hardly ever see them??? Are they a severe avoidant???

[@anewlifestirring]

You presentations are wonderful and most helpful, specially now with subtitles, as I still find if difficult to follow your very rapid speech that makes me regret your lovely presentations didn’t go 30% slower and lasted longer 😊 … or are you running away from the nasty wolf?

[@Ana-gq7ce]

You can change the speed in the settings

[@anewlifestirring]

@@Ana-gq7ce thanks for this precious tip; x0,75 is perfect for me

[@laurentaylor6391]

Is this all in reference to the dating stage?

[@devilcat7991]

Sorry, but anyone who wants a healthy relationship should truly avoid an avoidant. End of story. I am no therapist, I am not there to heal another person or accept all the BS that is obviously going on. Any healthy person should really ask themselves if you want to play mama or papa to your "partner!" or if you want a grown up on your side.

[@majahecko6368]

Are you secure by chance?

[@gebronthomasson6960]

Mine spent a lot of time..not at first and really tried to gap the intimacy and touch.. I pushed too hard.. ( I’m AP)and didn’t know our Attachment issues until after the breakup hoping for reconciliation. We were one week from moving in she and her son had spent nearly every weekend at my place and was here 2 1/2 weeks prior to her leaving.she talked engagement. I think it just became too much and she did the DA run..she told me she felt smothered after a week of the breakup and I discovered these videos and i apologized for my part in the unhealthy communication/boundaries dynamic..DA’s are not bad people just f’d up like us other Attachment disorders..( yes I said disorder because we do have a disorder… we’re not secure thus we are not the healthiest in relationships).. but we can change.. my DA( ex) is a beautiful person I got past those walls and she was extremely vulnerable to me… was just the when it got real real she started pulling away and like a “ good little AP” i pulled in.. and thus the problems started….

[@gebronthomasson6960]

She did buffer out parts..

[@theforzator2661]

If DAs had any of these qualities they wouldn't been DAs in the first place 😅😅😅

[@user-j927]

Could it be that they spend the weekend together because they also require companionship but choose to spend it with someone who they dont need to be too emotionally vulnerable with / keep it casual or sexual than deep and serious? Thanks

[@sakutaro3musik486]

my DA did this in the beginning then pulled away 5 days of no contact at all and then he came back sending a meme like nothing happened but since then we haven´t met in person only talked daily online or through phone but I don´t know if he is still interested in the same way, since he doesn´t write me and we aren´t alone only with his friends plaiyng videogames together. I think he likes me and he told me that i´m sexy just last month but he didn´t want to meet again and this is confusing

[@majahecko6368]

He found someone New. Sorry.

[@reesespieces450]

Sounds like everything he gave the rebound instead of me. ❤️‍🩹