Man, there is so much to dealing with women. I probably miss all the signs, because I am not looking for any. Furthermore, I am just naturally me. If she likes me, good. If she does not, good. Either way, I am good. I find that too many women try to bait you, play with you, send mixed signals, etc. I am a guy who likes direct communication. Hey, dude, I like you. Let's expand on this friendship, because I know you are interested in me. The simplicity of it is beautiful. No ambiguity, no guessing, no delay. However, your tips are wonderful. Keep them coming. Thank you.
@apegraham9819 Жыл бұрын
Basically thinking same. If you like me and you don't show or say it but waiting for me to read and decode your actions, then it's never going to work cus i can't read those signs and honestly i don't even have the time to.
@kojo5946 Жыл бұрын
You Will almost never get that kind of direct communication from a woman when it comes to their interest in you😂 this is just them
@_kenothia Жыл бұрын
@@kojo5946then that's simply a sign that she's unhealthy emotionally. When I was younger I thought having patience for it and being there is the way, but as an older boy/man now, it's not. Just walk
@kojo5946 Жыл бұрын
@@_kenothiaI disagree, this is just the way boys and girls are socialized when it comes to how we express interest. You are right in the case where the girl is just playing games.
@justrodger9531 Жыл бұрын
Right
@pontianekakoro1737 Жыл бұрын
Best takeaway for me is: "Life isn't about figuring out science. It's about genuine connections, understanding, and mutual respect"
@TheColtonStreeter11 сағат бұрын
Life is what you make it
@patricksenesie4908 Жыл бұрын
So true and worth . I promise to share it a lot to my friends
@ModernDatingMastery11 күн бұрын
*Subtle jealousy or suddenly trying to grab your attention are classic signs she’s hiding her feelings but doesn’t want to lose you.*
@loveall6198 ай бұрын
Your eyes are completely beautiful . I didn’t listen to a word I just watch your eyes the entire video 😅
Wonderful, you're so right in this video because I've ever noticed some of the signs like teasing her about me whenever I tried to approach her before her friends....
@TheAyanrinde Жыл бұрын
This is so fantabulous...I noticed that ...when I was in a midst of some girls and she walked up to me and told me where i was last night
@romeodavis9957 Жыл бұрын
If the woman likes the guy she should open her mouth and say something it's okay to be scared sometimes men gets scared to reveal how they feel
@TruthTriumphs77710 ай бұрын
I don't know about these signs, but I love spending time with her and she reciprocate well. Idk whether it's love or friendship, but I'm enjoying my time and I guess she's having a great time as well
@mosesgolekwang6435 Жыл бұрын
Jessica the way you flow in your speech,the way your eloquent , smooth !!! It's Beyond Beautiful !!!
@KOOLBREEZE111 ай бұрын
When a woman likes you she can’t hide it they are too jealous for them to hide it one major signs you should look for is she is ignoring you and don’t want to talk to you
@omnissiah724711 ай бұрын
And if she gets a restraining order against you and reports your constant stalking to the police, that just means she loves you even more and is playing hard to get. Don't miss these signs, gentlemen!
@dlxinfinite80110 ай бұрын
@@omnissiah7247 😆😅🤣
@christianhenry417310 ай бұрын
@@omnissiah7247I advise any man. Thank God for protection. "DON'T BE THAT GUY" It'll ruin your life and ruin any chance with any woman if your labeled as a stalker and creep. I'm not a statistic but I've seen this as a security officer. Once your labeled a sex offender it goes on your state ID or driver's license and your almost labeled for life.
@KOOLBREEZE110 ай бұрын
@@christianhenry4173 what guy you talking about explain
@christianhenry417310 ай бұрын
@@KOOLBREEZE1 don't be a troll or a man caught in sexual harassment. That's the point
@kelvinwayne54534 ай бұрын
You're eyes are what keeps me coming back to the channel 😊😍
@snookerchessfanchun3499 Жыл бұрын
Ignore women,focus on your goal,donot chase women,let them chase you,thats the power
@Brandonforever2160810 ай бұрын
It's really this simple but most men don't have enough self discipline to follow this.
@dlxinfinite80110 ай бұрын
You can do both at the same time. Have women and still maintain focus on goals. The High Value men do this all the time. Ignoring women will leave you dry, lonely and socially awkward.
@dlxinfinite80110 ай бұрын
@@Brandonforever21608 Most Well disciplined men are able to do both at the same time. Have goals and have women who admire and love them.
@banderas20002 ай бұрын
u don't ignore women.
@sboneloradebe1929 Жыл бұрын
In this day and age, it is better as a man you ask women, reading signs is a subjective act that might lead you to trouble-jail or canceled. If they do not want to speak leave them.
@brianbrino4310 Жыл бұрын
Thank you sooo much for your lovely and so meaningful video Jessica! Love and light to you always!🙏❤️🍀
@IIkIllswxtch11 ай бұрын
Yeah for sign 1 and sign 2 this girl at work she is 28 or 26 years old I heard and I’m only 20 and almost 21 I caught her glancing at me in situations and I even caught her looking at me from afar and there was a time where I was in the breakroom and her and i literally looked at each other directly in the eyes across the room and yeah that happened and to this day I haven’t spoke to her at all cuz I genuinely don’t know if she likes me or not. I also been ignoring her a lot and when I ignore her she tends to be around me more often
@dlxinfinite80110 ай бұрын
Initially, for 3 years, her glances said "I hate you. I think you are arrogant." Never said a word to me. I caught her secret glances/frowns. Recently, out of the blue, she entered a small convos where Im involved, and she complimented me for being humble and a good listener. Crazy. Make it make sense.
@toksthoughts Жыл бұрын
Nice thoughts Jessica, been a while, I really don't agree with the 5th point, but you are a master in relationships experts, together we are helping the world keep the work up dear❤
@drnockaable29 күн бұрын
I have a sister that mirrors my move and even told me how i move. Told me how i stand ,how i grab my bag. And even grabs my hands.
@moussamamadoucoulibaly662 Жыл бұрын
Indeed women is the most complicated machine in the world.
@mikyl-fo8rh Жыл бұрын
If she's not plain spoken, leave.
@lavatr8322 Жыл бұрын
Nobody got time for this signs and Mind games and attention. We men have 75 things going on. Everyday life isn't easy for us The Least a woman can do is Smile and wave, that is an Obvious & direct sign that YOU ARE OPEN TO BE APPROACHED
@pothiksharif79809 ай бұрын
She showed me all the signs, but when I proposed to her I liked her she told me I was just her friend and she had a boyfriend it told me! But still talks to me whenever we meet. But she doesn't reply me online.
@tonycash5550Ай бұрын
Weighing her options
@madaraindra98159 күн бұрын
@@tonycash5550YUP😂😂😂
@richboyudokah8002 Жыл бұрын
From Lagos ,, always appreciating your videos
@robertfreestone4143 ай бұрын
Wow! Thank you, Jessica, for explaining the rare and unique point of view of Chads and Tyrones.
@digitalboymolloy11 ай бұрын
Yes Jess!!! Everyone should be thanking you
@ItsDItsmeddEveryman Жыл бұрын
Jessica, if I spend all my time in the company of or when speaking to a woman of interest ( or any women ) trying to remember all your tips and advice, I may self destruct worrying about what I missed🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 Nonetheless, I love your videos and heed your advice❤❤❤ Love you!
@ShaunTheNavigator5 күн бұрын
I'm plain spoken. I like my women the same way.
@kudakwashephillie Жыл бұрын
I need it with a Jessica OS logo we need to advertise this platform n how great of a therapist you are 😅😅😅
@legoanimationnation3268 ай бұрын
man I hate having to constantly play blues clues with signals
@hiranom2010 ай бұрын
This sounds unbelievably complex. No thanks. That being said, the effort to put this video together is appreciated.
@PricelessBinkey1337Ай бұрын
The moment you say "this behavior can also be indictive of friendship" is when you lost me. Guys, I'm heading to the red pill. I'll see y'all there ✌️
@AwaGodswillАй бұрын
I love the eye balls of this aunty speaking❤😊
@ShermonHickmon Жыл бұрын
Jessica I really need your help. I've been following your channel and it's very informative to all of us. Keep up the good work sister
@georgefisher8610 Жыл бұрын
Oxford or Cambridge... you are so very deep, mature, intelligent. I detect marvelous and varied accents; I hear experience and sophistication.
@TheExecutiveSuiteV.A.5 ай бұрын
Your Explanation Is Powerful, I really like how you speak and explains it in a different level
@JohnWilliams-qi4dp Жыл бұрын
Love mostly all of your videos you are so truthful.. wow what a Wonderful woman..
@ebonyrushharrington21979 ай бұрын
The person (s) talking in this video (s) beautiful/ pretty
@martykardaseski759011 ай бұрын
Your a great speaker love your voice and your info.
@MagnumVideosАй бұрын
What an enlightening video, Jessica. You are excellent at this and you have a very pleasant voice. I enjoyed it.
@mitchellmashangwa7070 Жыл бұрын
Thank you Jessica, l appreciate you👏👏💯
@JessicaOS Жыл бұрын
No problem 😊
@francisgkmamuzu5048 Жыл бұрын
I met this lady and expressed my true intentions to her. We began so well and genuinely, my love for her increased on a daily and decided to plan for the future with her. It's just fairly a month and I feel uncomfortable. She's changed and I don't understand why. When I confront her in a nice way, she gets pissed. What could be the cause? Do I need to back off? I'm just confused
@benjaminjohn9033 Жыл бұрын
There is a new guy in town
@mitchellmashangwa7070 Жыл бұрын
True there is another guy ..
@MrCoolvibeztv8079 Жыл бұрын
🏃🏽♂️ RUN
@apegraham9819 Жыл бұрын
run for your life 😃😃@@MrCoolvibeztv8079
@albertyeboah2850 Жыл бұрын
Don’t ever force connection
@solomonmichael4751 Жыл бұрын
The first to view and like yay!!! 🎉
@jw-nicholasharper5 Жыл бұрын
I’m jealous!!!🙌🏽
@JessicaOS Жыл бұрын
Lol
@therealbigemmy Жыл бұрын
Nice outro music. Thanks Jess for all your videos ❤
@JessicaOS Жыл бұрын
Glad you like them!
@gidyfx Жыл бұрын
asking her directly is one very big mistake you can do😂😆
@opeyemiodunayo9608 Жыл бұрын
I can never do that
@gidyfx Жыл бұрын
ME TOO IT ALWAYS@@opeyemiodunayo9608 same to me it always ends up you being the silliest
@freetowatchchannel9946 Жыл бұрын
why do you guess right and ask her if she likes you they still say no lol
@JustMalcolm91410 ай бұрын
I rather that
@RonaldHarjers-k1p6 сағат бұрын
Thank you so much for advice. You have mesmerizing eyes
@cyberfist65687 ай бұрын
Honestly, it takes way more energy to discern this than to just ask her out 😂
@emperor2933 Жыл бұрын
Very Correct Jessica
@greglavers8 ай бұрын
a woman at my work place glances at me a lot daily. And if she is with friends she will look at me with a playful smile. Now color this with the fact that she is 22 yrs and I am 60. I'm not her boss.
@greglavers3 ай бұрын
@@xtrm2009 You should in this case mirror her actions. She can't claim sexual harassment because you're not her Boss and she has been doing it to you.
@aparamo18 ай бұрын
3:10 the EYES are the windows of the SOUL. Amen
@Awesam3rd Жыл бұрын
I really feel you sister it sounds the same for men as well🇺🇳🇺🇸
@jorgerios847210 ай бұрын
No point if she likes you if nothing ever comes out of it. One girl I was interested in liked me but never any effort. When I just stopped I explained and she got upset. At the end of the day if she or he give no effort back it’s just words. Better to move on. And if you have to look at all this signs not worth it. If she or he is interested they’ll make an effort not hard fellas and ladies.
@ebonyrushharrington21979 ай бұрын
I really really like the person (s) in the/ this video (s) speaking voice etc …..
@phenomenaljessejosh4881 Жыл бұрын
I've missed you Jessica!!!!
@JessicaOS Жыл бұрын
I'm here boo. Just been swamped lately
@phenomenaljessejosh4881 Жыл бұрын
@@JessicaOS I understand. 😊❤
@80skid83 Жыл бұрын
Number 4 i have had a pattern with women who watch my stories, they will watch for months and months on end and nothing. Then this happens they stop watching , for a month or so and then you think oh this girl is gone , cool. Only to start watching again and then being more aggressive this time round, then start liking my stories which i ignore, then they start messaging and thats when im able to get the girl offline and on a date .Had this with half a dozen girls now .
@pigskinrode09 ай бұрын
So, I'm kind of confused in the girl I'm dating. We got are 4th date coming up this Saturday. We're affectionate, resting hands on one another legs, kiss here and there randomly. Last night we were doing trivia night at a tavern, and she laid her head on my shoulder and held my arm. Even when I drop her off at home we kiss for heavily. Even with all that is there still a chance, she's not interested and it's just a feel-good moment to pass time. She dropped a hint that she's taking her time and not rushing into anything like she has in the past. I asked you me like being hesitate, and she yeah. She said that in her past she's always taken a guy's word and after things got serious it changed and they were got what they wanted and changed, which I could understand what she was talking about. I told her, I'm a man whose actions speak for themself. Anyone can use nice and sweet words, but can they live by those words. I told her in time you'll see I'm a man who actually does the work (The Walk, not the talk) and I just wanted to continue to learn about her and grow from there. I've dated a lot of women and have been in LTR 95% of the time, now being 43. I'm just not sure if all of sudden I'm over thinking which is not normally me, because we have great chemistry (enjoy one another's time), and she seems shy at times. I don't want to waste her time nor mine if she's not interested. A couple days ago she did put in at work to leave 2 hours early so we could get together earlier and have more time.
@emmanuelkumih93 Жыл бұрын
Great education, Sister. Thank you.💯👌👌👌👍👍👍
@JessicaOS Жыл бұрын
My pleasure
@jayhurtcoaching Жыл бұрын
This one is exceptional, Jessica. Appreciate you!
@JessicaOS Жыл бұрын
Thanks man! ❤️
@jamilgonzaga7081 Жыл бұрын
@JessicaOS Question: I have met this girl in church back in 2015, it's just our 2nd time meeting. I remember meeting her first time with just a handshake but with a shy look. On our 2nd time meeting, she the suddenly goes very playful with me like scratching me like a cat, and punching my gut out of the blue once when we were going home. I have developed a crush on her around that time. Some years after, our meeting then became seldom to sometimes, because of our own lives and circumstances in our school. Because of that, I have developed a crush on other girl, and then she had an admirer that I am friends with, but they didn't end up getting together. And another several years went by, I think it's been 5 years since we last saw each other in personal. A lot of things happened during this time, and we're both stuck in respective homes. I didn't even know she was working at home, and only go out of her room when dining. One day I tried to chat with her, talking about our dreams and ambitions. She told me she doesn't have time worrying about her dreams because she's happy with what she's doing on. I also tried asking if she could be part of my dreams. She said yes (which I'm very happy about), and she would support me of whatever I do, because, according to her, we've been friends for a very long time. And I told her I would support her with what she want as well. Lately, she's been drowning herself in her work; I am this guy trying to ask her on just hanging out and catch up on our lives, she almost never replies but when she does, she says she's busy. Do I still have a chance with her? How can I go through this?
@luckymartyr2202 Жыл бұрын
This is Lucky all the Way from South African I've been observing your videos watching them and yeah it's a testimony because I'd ask myself why is it so. difficult to understand relationship and Id even think alot but now I feel like a pro because of you❤❤❤❤❤❤❤😅😅😅😅
@festivalsinafrica9337 Жыл бұрын
Men, in this morden would, just find money and any other thing will come to you.
@dirtydirty58577 ай бұрын
As a man in this day and time fellas do not jump out the window stay in frame
@Davon-sx4zm11 ай бұрын
You said might a lot. I want to know if she is interested 😂😂
@fussballdenkotv24832 ай бұрын
@@Davon-sx4zm 😂😂😂😂😂
@lansdickens1929 Жыл бұрын
I like Jessica's Eyes ..wow
@12345803249 ай бұрын
I love your voice, you a great speaker. I feel you should have your own talk or motivation speech panel.
@shaunkebonang7982 Жыл бұрын
thank you, Jes.
@douglasguiotto5219 ай бұрын
Why can't women just be upfront ?! 🙄 all this bs to know if they are interested in you , hmmn
@xtrm20093 ай бұрын
Exactly. There's this older coworker of mine and i don't know if she is into me. She might be like 60 but she's aging nicely actually. Everytime she sees me, she kinda gets excited and wants a hug. I noticed she always rejects my handshakes and instead walks straight towards me for a damn hug. Until one time, I was minding my own business and tried to ignore her when she kept calling my name, asking me to go up to her. I tried to walk away and there she went again coming towards me and this time she ran her hand all over my ab area after wrapping me in her arms.. and I was thinking "whoa wtf lady?" . I wish I asked her "Is there some interest you happen to have or something??" or tell her straight "Just say you're into me, already". But I would damn get nervous to say any of these.
@macgyver11210 күн бұрын
It comes down to ego and the big fear of getting rejected. That's why plausible deniability is always the safest option because they can just say you were imaging things, even when body language and actions were crystal clear. So when it comes to men who say they saw all the signs but she said no, they were reading them correctly but for whatever reason she decided to say no.
@PrezidentHughes Жыл бұрын
"Might", "maybe"? 👍🏾 Very clear.
@chrism6764 Жыл бұрын
"Women are a beautiful nonsensical enigma." - Me
@drosims79939 ай бұрын
I think you should give more online datimg advice as well since alot of dating nowadays is happening heavily online. This is still great advice but just a thought. I have some of these questions but alot of this advice doesn't fit with online dating
@dresshabt9819 ай бұрын
U are amazing, bright and intelligent !!!
@brucefoley16587 ай бұрын
If she does all of these things, why don't she come out and say she likes me?
@xtrm20093 ай бұрын
I totally agree. There's this older coworker of mine and i don't know if she is into me. She might be like 60 but she's aging nicely actually. Everytime she sees me, she kinda gets excited and wants a hug. I noticed she always rejects my handshakes and instead walks straight towards me for a damn hug. No joke. Lmao.. Until one time, I was minding my own business and tried to ignore her when she kept calling my name, asking to go up to her. I tried to walk away and there she went again coming towards me and this time she ran her hand all over my ab area after wrapping me in her arms.. no lies. and I was thinking "whoa wtf lady?" lmao... I regret not doing vice versa but on the "behind" to see if she liked it, if not then she should keep her hands to herself. Lol So, like you say, these females need to stop giving too much signs and try to say something instead. It's almost taking me closer to the point to ask her if she's interested.......Or just plain the damn mind games.
@madaraindra98159 күн бұрын
@@xtrm2009then she’s not lol you would know
@xtrm20096 күн бұрын
@@madaraindra9815 I mean, I don't give a shit really Lol! ....No need to express your envy, so-called god "faithful" follower..
@madaraindra98155 күн бұрын
@@xtrm2009 not envy lol i’m just telling you but take it how ever you want.
@xtrm20095 күн бұрын
@@madaraindra9815 Oh it is envy alright. I love it when there's always that loon denying it lol!
@riaanadams2579 Жыл бұрын
Hi there...where were you all my life❤ love ur work keep it up....
@humanpsychology.1 Жыл бұрын
💯 Reality
@matusalaalemseged6671Ай бұрын
Body language is telling me "Get the hell out of my face."
@farouksaeed6069 Жыл бұрын
The woman I want to marry she saids she can't marry me without telling me a tangible reason, but she saids she likes me as her boy friend what do you suggest I do or what do u think she is trying to do.
@dr2598 ай бұрын
What I get from this is…you won’t know anything unless you talk to her.
@zamushodge4590 Жыл бұрын
Thanks for the tips coming from your lips
@JessicaOS Жыл бұрын
No problem!!
@LambhKhongfai-oo4hn6 ай бұрын
We will see each other one day 😍😊
@nightrider4370 Жыл бұрын
Love your hat, shirt and watch.
@BekaT60737 ай бұрын
Why don't we just ask if she has any different feelings? Just simple as that. I hate to take time while thinking whether she has interest in me or not..
@mauricegarner-z1w7 ай бұрын
Women without a doubt a unique creature God created. After the initial invite, after you meet. The game continues to new levels, as a chess player, that will make or break
@theworld58813 ай бұрын
I'm cooked, thank you though
@LtVictor8 ай бұрын
She hit 20 out of 20 some of tips and things ive watched in videos recently.. but she sees me as a friend lmao
@EmmanuelKwao-kw5yv7 ай бұрын
Yes l sign 6 for you now❤ 1) l signs for happy😁 2) l signs for happy👌 3) l signs for happy👑 4) l signs for happy 💚 5) l signs for happy 👍 6) l signs for happy🙏♟️♟️♟️
@Now_No_Talks5 ай бұрын
Hello, mem I want to share story of my life that Recently, an month complete I joined new school and a girl (My classmate) she also join that school (That I've joined). Coincidence happened are both's first day was same. Later few days, I joined a new Tuition where she has recently join. We both are 17. In school and Tuition she trys to sit near me, and many times when I ask a doubt to sir. She tries to play with hair and stairs at me and she finds an reasons to look at me. Eventually, for without any reason she also stairs at me when I stairs she freeze and stops staring at me. But, also when i talked with any other girls. She stops starring at me. And again later she continues but that's not problem at all. Problem is, with us (Both me and she) many Coincidnce happening recently. Although, she and mine Tshirt cloth is getting shame everyday in Tuition. The moment i entered the class the next few mins she eneters. The things I thought it's happening and anything she says also happening or she do's happening with me I mean a few days ago our Tuition sir told us that we'll do competition of quiz in that if you win you'll get pizza. And so today i was thinking that "I wonder if sir shall give today pizza ? Nah, not today I think maybe not today. In tuition (Present day):- Sir:- Won't pizza ? Now ? As many students didn't come. So, the budget will less Everybody:- Yes .... She (That girl):- No, sir today not .. today I have faast of eating once in day. Sir:- ... Ok then today we'll not today Later after tuition she drinks an Apple Dink in shop with her friend Meanwhile Today was the day to buy of mine school uniform. I was gone with mom to buy after buying me and mom also drink an apple juice from an shop. Even, without realising that it's going same the way of her. Now, am writing this text at 6:07 pm and now. I've ate, after an whole day without realising that same things happening like I also have done an fast.
@I_am_a_tree11 ай бұрын
Every time I reach out she waits about an hour to respond sometimes she takes about 50 minutes sometimes 1:10 minutes but almost every time around an hour. Could be a sign
@ronaldjoseph9168 Жыл бұрын
Very informative and useful information
@nelsongoncalves5379 Жыл бұрын
Thank you.
@Bielboy618 Жыл бұрын
You look so beautiful
@JessicaOS Жыл бұрын
Thank you 😊
@capncrush672910 ай бұрын
Most modern women are more interested in their phone prospects than in any ONE man.
@timothyemerick154210 ай бұрын
I've tried making plans with her but she makes excuses
@Gods-bondservant Жыл бұрын
Lady Jess thank U
@rahabmugambi7697 Жыл бұрын
I love your explanation.your amazing.thanks
@JessicaOS Жыл бұрын
You are welcome!
@charlesappiahmends9759 Жыл бұрын
There's this girl that we were talking, chatting with on the phone we talked till 1/2 am at dawn till one day I met her on campus and everything changed then I also forgot about her recently she called and chatted asking about me and my health and asking if I'm having enough sleep. How do you see this?
@paulcooper5748 Жыл бұрын
I loved this vid.
@musahkabeeribrahim2741 Жыл бұрын
That's very true
@bish_daddiyao Жыл бұрын
Nice Teaching Classes❤
@martasatgoАй бұрын
I make my left hand more visible to make clear to the man that I've no ring. 😁 ...and I try to look deeply to his eyes to see if his pupils get big.
@kemetichandyman32336 ай бұрын
😱😱😱 why are all the signs of so-called auntie Faye the one who says I am her brother and she doesn't look at me like that but yet introduced me to all of her friends that she knows do not have her stuff together 🤣🤣😭😭🤣 And then the woman that I do want I'm trying to pay attention to detail while going to work taking care of the three kids by myself and assisting family members. A little organization and focus will do me good