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@vbgamesyt3 жыл бұрын
I love you too Alpha ❤️
@El_ogtDgto3 жыл бұрын
I don’t get it güey. How do the other people get more pinche likes than you? You’ve been struggling to get this far.
@sperk013 жыл бұрын
hey i wanted to congratulate you for taking a moment to be real with your viewers and talk about something serious for a second. ever thought of making more videos like this one ? maybe a second channel ?
@fabiomorgado58903 жыл бұрын
to be fair you failed, you failed not bracking up with her sooner, but we all are or were young, and we all have time to grow and learn
@victorradue51303 жыл бұрын
Thanks for this Video Man. Needed this right now.
@NostalgiaMan3 жыл бұрын
IF cheating happens then I leave immediately. No questions asked.
@AvectusExolir1013 жыл бұрын
i will do that when i got cheated FR
@zzygyy3 жыл бұрын
Exactly. SHE was never yours, it was just YOUR turn.
@riverplate01013 жыл бұрын
Oh yeah of course.
@chiefskingdom41513 жыл бұрын
@@zzygyy many men have a hard time accepting this. Almost all relationships are temporary. The man who insists his wife is 100% faithful are the ones who wives are the biggest whores.
@Tht1Dude3 жыл бұрын
Fax
@ryandoherty42913 жыл бұрын
"Some of you are getting cheated on as we speak." Me who has nobody: "Well, at least he's not talking about me."
@diamond6103 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣😂
@thx23193 жыл бұрын
Same my guy 😄
@Namronnnn453 жыл бұрын
😭😭
@raggarbergman3 жыл бұрын
One of the perks being single. ;)
@lazaroyanez41123 жыл бұрын
🥲
@kieranjackson92063 жыл бұрын
If she cheats on you, she was never worth your time gentlemen. Stay strong 💪😁🖤
@themad-lad3 жыл бұрын
❤️🔥🔥❤️
@thearthurmarston98973 жыл бұрын
Facts bro 🙏🏻
@panosfilip90413 жыл бұрын
That's the sad part that you wasted so much time to someone that didn't worth it at the end
@ianski64303 жыл бұрын
It was his turn stay strong king
@silverbasscross3 жыл бұрын
yes but how about all the time she already made you waste
@CanRotaryLife3 жыл бұрын
My Fiancée of 5 years cheated on me. I instantly broke up with her. She begged me for a year to come back, while continuing to see this guy. Luckily all my friends, family, and acquaintances.. literally congratulated me on the breakup, so it was easy to forget about her. Now my life is kickass, and she is stuck with a looser 😄👊 .. I wish them the best 😉
@mugeninfinite5003 жыл бұрын
This is so good to hear. Best wishes to you
@gingfreecss38083 жыл бұрын
Good for you! Have a great day! God Bless! Stay strong, stay safe and take care of yourselves! Wishing everyone the best! Jesus loves you! May the Holy Spirit guide you! 😇 💗🕊 Cheers to a better year buddy! 💞🥂🍻
@epictex3 жыл бұрын
Handled that like a boss! Her loss similar thing happened to me as soon as I found out I was like have fun now living a fun and drama free life should have left sooner!
@luislaurencio3 жыл бұрын
Congratulations bro
@8overthem3 жыл бұрын
GOOD FOR U BRO UR A FICKING LEGEND
@Jonathan128123 жыл бұрын
She cheated on me with a person i thought was my best friend for 8 years after I had a very bad car accident. Lost 160lbs, started bodybuilding and focused on myself. Alpha M your videos helped me so much. Thank you. Edit* i didnt know my comment blew up, thank you Kings and i hope all of you achieve your goals💪
@stormrevenant3 жыл бұрын
Hope you kicked that former best friend from your life
@localmilfchaser69383 жыл бұрын
chad
@hamzahahmed91723 жыл бұрын
🐐
@localmilfchaser69383 жыл бұрын
@Jag Great giga chad
@Samueldonovan20073 жыл бұрын
Nice job king
@danishbape63573 жыл бұрын
alpha: **She Cheated On Me.** me: I've never related more to this man in my entire life
@kieranjackson92063 жыл бұрын
Thats tuff man
@Pectures3 жыл бұрын
Felt that
@skampis35543 жыл бұрын
same bro stay strong king
@shivaansharma96253 жыл бұрын
Respect 🕴🕴
@waysofmuntazir3 жыл бұрын
Chill bro❤ everything meant something
@almog38753 жыл бұрын
The fact that she didn't have the "balls" to end it, is just disrespectful. You deserve so much more Aaron
@Rufio_Cristiforus_Tucarus3 жыл бұрын
Good thing he found better, since he's married.
@almog38753 жыл бұрын
@@Rufio_Cristiforus_Tucarus You see... That's something I was wondering. Now I know, thank you for letting me know
@where_is_rent3 жыл бұрын
@@ninjamin_ he literally says in the video that he broke up with the cheater after 5 years... and this relationship was when he was in his early 20's
@JGInfamous3 жыл бұрын
That’s what happened to me she was scared to break up, so her way was to cheat and then when I confronted her about it she avoided it and said “I can’t do this right now” and then blocked me so then I said “fuck it” she wasn’t worthy but what is the main goal is me becoming big in KZbin so I’m grinding not worried about her what’s more important is the grind main thing I’m saying is relationships and girlfriends/boyfriends are all side priorities focus on you moral of the story
@almog38753 жыл бұрын
@@JGInfamous Hi there, yeah it's honestly so wrong by your gf/bf to do something like that. That's right man, fuck it, focus on yourself, and eventually you will find someone who actually deserves you. I see that you focus on a gaming YT channel, that's awesome. Good luck ! I am actually quitting gaming, in a few months I'll be done with it. It's not a bad thing, it's just that it's not a good place for me anymore(personally), I need to move on and start doing something with my life.
@raz52403 жыл бұрын
People often use the excuse "i was not happy" to cheat. That's NEVER a good excuse. If you're not happy with the person you are with, you discuss it, if you discuss it and nothing changes, you break up and find someone where happiness is a common ground. There is no excuse for cheating.
@raggarbergman3 жыл бұрын
Or better. Find your pown happiness before entering a relationhsip. Yes you can love each other and you can make each other unhappy depending on behavior. But never let anyone be the basis of your core happiness.
@-_FENRIR_-3 жыл бұрын
@@raggarbergman some people especially guys let that happen way too often
@raz52403 жыл бұрын
@@raggarbergman Even if you find happiness before entering a relationship, you likely won't be oblivious to your partner cheating on you, it will probably still have an impact and you will probably still have to deal with it.
@raggarbergman3 жыл бұрын
@@raz5240 Of course. The main meaning in my comment though is that you still need to have that core happiness before you start to rely on others to make you happy. If you have that at the core, the bigger are the chances that you bounce back faster than if all your happiness is relying on your relationship. :)
@-bloodhound3 жыл бұрын
@@raggarbergman It's no about your happiness or lack of... it's about the other one's state of mind. But have your things in order is always a good thing.
@TrentonVeryOwn3 жыл бұрын
you will never be enough for the wrong person.
@TeresaFroggy7563 жыл бұрын
Amen!
@danielengel45933 жыл бұрын
I spent 3 years trying to be that person for another one, I was a completely different person, or at least I tried to be. I guess most of us have go threw that lessons in life.
@averagejoe92293 жыл бұрын
Hopefully I remember this if I ever think that I found the one. I can compromise a few things, but trying to turn my life around just to appease them is a futile effort that will only result in pain in the long run.
@FatalDonkeyPunch3 жыл бұрын
The memes from this are amazing
@foxsmith7703 жыл бұрын
Where are these memes?
@drblastboi-f2pplayer2693 жыл бұрын
@@foxsmith770 like the badboy vid he posted to this..
@ch9yce3 жыл бұрын
@@drblastboi-f2pplayer269 i’ve seen that 😭
@maximelaneville8543 жыл бұрын
That’s what brought me here to begin with... What’s culture-war angle on this, anyways? Are we mocking him because tries to help men?
@sinaklsindre28313 жыл бұрын
@@maximelaneville854 its because he is corny
@jaynice25343 жыл бұрын
“Some of you are being cheated on as we speak” 😭😂😂💀 why you come for us tho
@Namronnnn453 жыл бұрын
Lmaoooo Fr 😂😂
@ΛουκάςΛ-ρ1ξ3 жыл бұрын
I was like where is my gf 😂?
@jvillalta19963 жыл бұрын
That was foul 😂
@seven7asable3 жыл бұрын
Lmfao
@naegleriafowleri22303 жыл бұрын
Is just a way for him to feel better lol
@WweChampion19973 жыл бұрын
Can't get cheated on if you're never in a relationship. Big brain plays only 🤧🤧🤧
@boywithbutter3 жыл бұрын
BIG BRAIN ALPHA MALE PLAYS
@Bruh-zi1dw3 жыл бұрын
Man of culture
@efegulboy3 жыл бұрын
Only big man with big brains understand this
@rspvarun3 жыл бұрын
Chad move🔥
@rudy19993 жыл бұрын
Yep, never been cheated on in my 30+ years of life cuz I've never been with a woman anyway =]]
@AGentlemansJourney773 жыл бұрын
Being cheated on sucks. I had one girl and good riddance when I found out. Keep it moving and don't ever go back to that person.
@leeandrew65553 жыл бұрын
If she cheats then remember she was never yours it was just your turn. Goes both ways though, learn to be faithful Men or be strong enough to break it off before you break her heart and leave her with insecurities that will last a lifetime. Nobody deserves that shit.
@5050TM3 жыл бұрын
Well said.
@unfazedo3 жыл бұрын
And this is why red pill knowledge should be spread.
@OneManCanStopTheMotorOfWorld3 жыл бұрын
You been listening to before the train wreck I see
@nosferatu5818 Жыл бұрын
Infidelity should still be a crime. So long as it's not, Western Society will fail.
@Plutonic_Blue2 жыл бұрын
The worst part is when they cheat on you and try to be nice afterwards. Like yo you just stabbed me in the back in one of the WORST ways possible and you wanna be nice to me after just to mentally make me feel twisted? I’m just gonna focus on myself
@colt41033 жыл бұрын
I really like these sit down, almost like dad-advice talks.
@thenoobwilliam53003 жыл бұрын
He's kinda like a guardian for me, the best way to grow as man is to learn from others, especially if it's someone like Alpha, respect to the king 🙏🏻
@thephantomsinger70193 жыл бұрын
Really wish my dad-son talks were like this than shouts
@rithikmadan3 жыл бұрын
I really like this comment, Honestly.
@strikey63003 жыл бұрын
Check out ABOUD his channel is better
@michaellovely66013 жыл бұрын
It would be an interesting concept if Aaron decided to do videos like this one if he is seated in front of a fireplace with bookshelves on both sides and the mantle is decorated with a carriage clock and two wrought iron candlestick holders. Aaron himself is seated in a high back leather armchair with a brass floor lamp on one side and an end table on the other side.
@ianishraque3 жыл бұрын
I did not have money to counsel a psychiatrist after my breakup, so I had to deal with my breakup alone. Lonely in my own room. Shoutout to those people who became capable of indulging in their own pain which made them stronger than ever.
@thelegendkillersshittyduff13353 жыл бұрын
Hope things get better
@ianishraque3 жыл бұрын
@@thelegendkillersshittyduff1335 thanks man! ❤️ Let's see, I'm trying my best to cope up...
@nicolbolas87583 жыл бұрын
@@ianishraque how much was her gym experience how much years of hard workout ?
@ianishraque3 жыл бұрын
@Doctor Strange I'm fine now, didn't feel much better in the last 5/6 years actually... Started working out, started studying hard, started doing tuition to those lil kids, doing musics, performing live shows... I'm doing fine now brother... And it has been 6 months....
@ianishraque3 жыл бұрын
@Doctor Strange keep ur heads up king👑
@Mmjacksom3 жыл бұрын
“You don’t have time to waste on someone’s that’s not going to respect you” That hits too close. Thanks alpha I needed to hear that
@shleeep742 жыл бұрын
Try this one, “the person that makes you feel like your in heaven, can also make you feel like your in hell.”😬
@dfrsd1448 Жыл бұрын
The quality of your job is so incredibly high. If you don't have a team behind you, then you are clearly a multi talented individual. The way the access is structured are perfect, the visuals are stunning, the narration is engaging, and of course, the project is itself intriguing. You are a professional *johnson spy* ..
@Jessica_OS12 Жыл бұрын
Thanks *johnsonspy* for the remote access into target's complete phone activities
@miguelibanez68583 жыл бұрын
How to get over a break up in 3 steps 1. Listen to Alpha 2. Watch all 3 movies of Batman 3. Become Batman and Be Awesome
@tomishere34013 жыл бұрын
The dark knight trilogy?
@flashpointgodlevelbatman06883 жыл бұрын
Done
@KingLucarioxx3 жыл бұрын
Lol I hope you know being Batman alone takes years of training
@flashpointgodlevelbatman06883 жыл бұрын
@@KingLucarioxx decades
@ChristianTurnes3 жыл бұрын
2 of those steps suck
@dantemarc77253 жыл бұрын
If anyone of the Homies reading this got cheated on..Sorry King🤝❤
@mikeydachancer77713 жыл бұрын
Bro I gotta say, it made me a better man. I learned myself and I know what I want in a woman.
@dantemarc77253 жыл бұрын
@@mikeydachancer7771 yessir
@bencrosbie3 жыл бұрын
thank you and same to you
@familydude-lq7ec3 жыл бұрын
@@mikeydachancer7771 that's the right mentality for these matters, brother. Good for you. Instead of feeling it as time wasted, however hard that may be. It's best to think, reflect, and grow exactly as you did.
@skampis35543 жыл бұрын
Thanks brother
@jensentung3 жыл бұрын
These are the best Alpha M videos.
@alex_georgescu3 жыл бұрын
I need more of this.
@kieranjackson92063 жыл бұрын
Yes
@akashmurugesh35093 жыл бұрын
Best Alpha M LESSONS
@rolandi7153 жыл бұрын
This 13minute video has alot of things we could learn from. This is a treasure! Thanks Aaron
@jankoskai3 жыл бұрын
My dog
@Tyler-zz4kv3 жыл бұрын
It took me two years of isolation to figure out what Alpha said in 10 minutes. I got my girlfriend pregnant in college. I did what I thought was right and put a ring on it, adopting my new responsibility whole heartedly. I’m not saying I was the perfect person but I tried really hard. I went to school, I went to work, and I took care of our daughter when I got home while she worked in the service industry at night. It was a hard relationship but I felt like we were sacrificing now for the future. I felt a gut feeling something was off but my brain rationalized that I’m just tired. Turns out she was cheating on me with multiple people. I confronted her and decided I have to forgive her for the sake of our daughter....she didn’t stop. We ended up getting divorced and I dealt with the pain by myself. Trust your gut, do not blame yourself brothers.
@pedromata1333 жыл бұрын
Sorry to hear what happened to you but very glad you were able to leave that toxic relationship. I really hope all is well with you and your daughter. 💯
@angrysavage10573 жыл бұрын
Please love your daughter forever❤️
@Tyler-zz4kv3 жыл бұрын
@@pedromata133 my daughter and I have the best relationship. Thank you brother!!
@akhtars96023 жыл бұрын
Its sad, she think even think about her daughter
@daveoliver83083 жыл бұрын
I'm sorry to hear that you went through that brother. You're better off without her in the long run. I am divorced with a daughter too. I feel bad that my daughter is from a broken home but her mum wanted to bring another man into our house when I wasn't there in March 2018. I was a broken man for a year or two but I'm working hard on myself now. We will both be better off without them in the end mate👍
@douglasrau50942 жыл бұрын
I think one of the big things someone once told me was we need to be clear on what forgiveness is and what forgiveness isn’t. 1. “Forgive and forget”….NO. Forgive and remember. I’m not forgetting. 2. Along those lines, forgiveness does not mean we’re back at square 1, we’re all good, it’s like it never happened. No. Forgiveness does not mean that you go back to be the person who is going to be taken advantage of by this other person in the same way. Forgiveness does not mean adopting an air of naïveté. 3. “Forgiveness means it’s okay”. No. What this other person did to you was not okay and you saying, “I forgive you” does not magically move it into the “it’s okay” category. Forgiveness basically means, “You hurt me but I am voluntarily giving up any right I have to get even or seek revenge against you. I’m not going to do that”.
@28copland3 жыл бұрын
" if you don't love yourself what the hell are you sposed to do with someone else "
@thearthurmarston98973 жыл бұрын
My heart dropped reading that title
@BronzeHachiko3 жыл бұрын
my ex wife cheated on me and and i was so hurt. after that i said to myself. i'm gonna work on my self and be independent. be my own boss. 3 years later, i've never been so happy. i don't think i would get hurt like that anymore knowing that i'm so much better just by focusing on myself and not needing anyone.
@SilentKnight10003 жыл бұрын
Just have one night stand. At least
@mikesmith82933 жыл бұрын
u made me smile man, im happy for u!!
@00andrescab003 жыл бұрын
Worst type of cheat...when you’re in the Army and she cheats/dumps you while deployed.
@boywithbutter3 жыл бұрын
spain with you the n
@Hisham_HMA3 жыл бұрын
if it was from a girlfriend then its understandable specially if it was a new relationship, but if it was from a wife then its very bad, life is short, women have needs, women get better and better offers everyday, no one is gonna wait for your ugly a$$ unless they really love you and see a future with you, which is very rare, don't go to the army leaving someone behind at leas thtats what i think on the subject
@boywithbutter3 жыл бұрын
@@Hisham_HMA you sound like such a beta
@00andrescab003 жыл бұрын
@@Hisham_HMA Wow! You really sound like an expert on the subject matter. Please continue to enlighten us.
@luislaurencio3 жыл бұрын
My only rule with woman, do not fuck a girl who is with a man that you should be thankful to.
@undergroundnet3907 Жыл бұрын
At first she said she wanted me to be her secret lover, I said no because I only truly love her, then she said friends with benefits, I still denied because I only love her and I am loyal, but since then she blocked me on every social media and I don't know what she is doing
@antoniopontedavila3 жыл бұрын
My deepest respects to you. I never write comments, but this deserve taking my time to support you! cheating says not good things about the cheater.
@Official_Oni3 жыл бұрын
I got cheated on once and it was in high school, I felt so betrayed and got so mad at her that I got her out of my life. Ever since then I kept my guard up when getting into another relationship with girls.
@stylewithaltitude3 жыл бұрын
Happened to me in HS as well but was a good wake up call and prepared me for the future and the red pill.
@Bad_Karma-nf2cm3 жыл бұрын
My wife invited over 3 black guys home while I was at work,
@matthewhaupt54703 жыл бұрын
@@Bad_Karma-nf2cm nothing to worry about, just some helpful plumbers laying pipe.
@LoylaDemiseem9 ай бұрын
@@Bad_Karma-nf2cmI don’t believe you
@maestro-fifa44463 жыл бұрын
Men nowadays have a gun pointed at them when it comes to dating and one mistake means the end of everything. It's actually shocking how much pressure we have
@mbank38323 жыл бұрын
Men just give women too much power, that’s why it’s so imbalanced
@Prebondus3 жыл бұрын
@@mbank3832 Yes, that's the real problem.
@kingrose12153 жыл бұрын
That just isn't true. If you really feel that way, I would implore you to get into therapy. Trust me, a couple years of therapy did more for my life and dating life than a decades worth of dating advice and self help garbage. Life's answers are not out in the world. Its inside of us.
@maestro-fifa44463 жыл бұрын
@@mbank3832 There needs to be a sense of equality somewhere in the world though
@mbank38323 жыл бұрын
@@maestro-fifa4446 men always required to be best of the best in so many things in order to be liked by women. Being good looking, some sort of wealth, sense of humor, can cook, on and on. While all women need to do is being pretty and have nice body, then tons of men will automatically fly all around them like flies to honey. At this point, all women need to do is choose, and when being bored with one, she can move on the another easily, like at a buffet. Damn those simps
@thezealot41593 жыл бұрын
3:03 the vulnerability in his voice is so genuine, you are amazing alpha!
@JessieMartinez5593 жыл бұрын
And it makes for a good sales pitch too
@miskoblox2 жыл бұрын
"How to transform from a Nice Guy to a Bad Boy" "She Cheated On Me."
@notahamster3332 жыл бұрын
lol
@koushik1917 Жыл бұрын
"How to become a nice guy again"
@sachacorb3 жыл бұрын
I have also been cheating on by my ex-girlfriend and the funny fact is that she never told me. I found out on my own.
@sachacorb3 жыл бұрын
@@Bada_Boom78 Intuition.
@HelixBeats983 жыл бұрын
@@sachacorb any tips on what to watch
@sachacorb3 жыл бұрын
@@HelixBeats98 for what?
@mangoti_tanaka3 жыл бұрын
why'd you expect her to tell you that she cheated
@sachacorb3 жыл бұрын
@@mangoti_tanaka i don’t expect it though (and still don’t)
@shot18973 жыл бұрын
The pain of being cheated on absolutely stings!
@PracticalInspiration3 жыл бұрын
Sometimes it's hard to accept someone is cheating, but doing so and moving forward is genuinely important for your wellbeing
@AbdulazizAlmawash3 жыл бұрын
The title should be like “She cheated on me, again.” Sorry to hear that man... u deserve better!
@alpham3 жыл бұрын
i got better:)
@thorlogan42573 жыл бұрын
@@alpham trust me man...I needed this comment from you cause i was warried a lot...I thought the worst.
@RgIIIII3 жыл бұрын
@@alpham That’s amazing Alpha! I’m glad you were able to rebuild and now you’re helping everyone become better men💪
@nicolbolas87583 жыл бұрын
@@alpham ofc you have better, your channel A.M
@oilrigger44863 жыл бұрын
No one deserves anything
@nesiptans6576 Жыл бұрын
The efficiency of this *brian hacks online* is next level. To juggle walk throughs of various angles on the topic delivered to-camera, differnet content per topic from various folks underneath the umbrella of the track list of the larger big band concert itself is engaging and refined. To make a dense taccess like this so digestible is really something. Awesome work Mike !!!
@martinpetrov15223 жыл бұрын
I have never clicked so fast
@itsuki30883 жыл бұрын
Damn same
@timtims26803 жыл бұрын
Same bro..
@sebastianordonez67493 жыл бұрын
Me too
@ryanknieriemen45343 жыл бұрын
Likewise
@formula_tunezz333 жыл бұрын
Ikrr
@slowedjaze50123 жыл бұрын
Can't get cheated on if you're forever alone 🙃 But on a serious note for all my brothers that did get cheated on keep your head up kings. 👑
@akhtars96023 жыл бұрын
I have always being single and the best part is, you cannot be cheated on💪... same here bro😊
@MrPapi2353 жыл бұрын
@@akhtars9602 yeh don’t fall for the trap of true love and marriage cause all that shit is fake af u don’t need no woman to be happy just urself
@lonewolf88953 жыл бұрын
My dad told me once when a woman says that they love you dont get to happy ask yourself until when because people change like the seasons
@thatspoonybard80133 жыл бұрын
That’s very wise advice, and I wish I heard it sooner.
@justadudeintheworldman.1203 жыл бұрын
People change like the seasons. That’s good stuff
@lonewolf88953 жыл бұрын
Thanks guys
@lightofmylife16163 жыл бұрын
I mean that doesn't necessarily mean that their love won't be forever
@leont40623 жыл бұрын
In other words to be to attach easily, look at the actions no words.
@YogawithLeif3 жыл бұрын
Anyone reading this and need solace? Well, it does get better with time. Everything you're saying man, spot on! When it happened to me it almost broke me. Such a difficult experience to go through. But I learned a lot. Thanks for this video man! 🙏
@tylerreynolds88322 жыл бұрын
If you’re cheated on, Do NOT say anything to her. Don’t ask questions, don’t inquire, do NOT waste time wondering why. You won’t get the answers you’re looking for. Get up, walk out, and start erasing her from your memory. Allow your emotions to come and go, and simply love yourself as best as you can every single day. Trust yourself-you’re strong enough to walk away, and you deserve the best. And make no mistake about it, the best would never betray you like that. You’re the king of you, nobody else has any power over you.
@Mister_Bimmer3 жыл бұрын
As someone who was cheated on, I was scared of opening this video. Thank you Alpha, you're someone somewhat in the middle of a father or an older brother.
@Waffles253 жыл бұрын
2 years ago I found out my ex girlfriend was cheating on me. It was one of the saddest and lowest parts of my life. I didnt want to be in a relationship anymore, I didnt trust anyone. I wanted to be in a relationship till I was older cause I thought girls are just same. But I went to therapy like Alpha and I took sometime to myself and it was the best part of my overall life. I was more happy and having a good time with friends and family. Then I made the decision to try relationships again and it worked I started dating my bestfriend who i knew from elementary. She liked me for who I was and I liked her for who she was and it was the best decision I made. I agree with all the tips Alpha says. He's the man
@antarctic61823 жыл бұрын
I really admire Mr. Marino sharing his deep experiences like getting cheated on with his viewers so he could give an aspect and be a good role model for current and future males. Thank you very much, Mr. Marino.
@Greenrida312 жыл бұрын
I rarely comment on videos, but I whole heartedly wanted to say thank you for this video. I truly needed it. You are 100% right on it being a lonely situation.
@ajandrews21342 жыл бұрын
Same man
@patrickmcconnon93 Жыл бұрын
A man talking about this issue is actually very very rare on KZbin and I’m glad for it. Thank you
@vbgamesyt3 жыл бұрын
This is gonna help alot of people, stay stong kings 👑
@mauricegould77943 жыл бұрын
I just listened to the first 10 seconds and I must say you never cease to amaze me. You’re like a cool older brother that’s a therapist lol you’re really like a cool breeze in the summertime man and I appreciate you . Thank you for choosing to do KZbin!
@TripzEdits3 жыл бұрын
My ex cheated and made me believe I was the father of her child until I found out I wasn’t just recently starting this process, ur advice is noted. Self focus going forward
@zayed45763 жыл бұрын
Dang bro, keep ya chin up man
@GangsterDolphins3 жыл бұрын
disgusting ex
@truebeliever94053 жыл бұрын
Fckec up
@michaelm0013 жыл бұрын
This happened to me also! She cheated on me and got pregnant with another man and told me it was my baby when she knew it wasn’t. The whole thing was devastating. Don’t give up though…your best years are ahead!
@unfazedo3 жыл бұрын
Watch red pill channels how to recover from that.
@JessicaJDating3 жыл бұрын
I do appreciate hearing this and feel so inspired by you being this open and vulnerable and honest about your perspective and pains...thank you for this and I think you’re amazing for sharing and amazing all around ❤️❤️
@davidthomas69493 жыл бұрын
annnnnd married.
@BEEBETSSPORTS3 жыл бұрын
Love how transparent & honest you are. Honestly a father I’ve never had💯❤️
@brianruble57533 жыл бұрын
This really speaks to me! My wife cheated on me back in October and she didn't say anything was wrong until we went to marriage counseling. She had said that I wasn't emotionally open and didn't talk about my feelings because that was just the way I was I almost NEVER talked about my feelings I always bottled them up and pushed them WAAYY down. So she met a guy on some weed smoking app and slept with him. I went to counseling for myself right after. Now currently going thru the divorce process and still dealing with my emotions of the entire thing and is still extremely hard to talk about sometimes but is getting easier to do so. This is one my my favorite channels of all thanks for all the videos and tips Alpha your awesome!!
@thelegendkillersshittyduff13353 жыл бұрын
Hope things get better never get married again it's a very stupid financial mistake
@hamzamagfoor63453 жыл бұрын
@@thelegendkillersshittyduff1335 fuck that Bitch man You are amazing
@MrPapi2353 жыл бұрын
Damm reading all u guys stories just makes me happy to be single, yeah I’d never get married or have kids it’s a waste of time and not worth it at all
@elijahmitchell84063 жыл бұрын
Remember lads, this amazing community will always give each other help if needed. Really appreciate the amazing videos Alpha. Helps all of us. Stay strong everyone 🙏
@anubhavtyagi99093 жыл бұрын
More power to you bud 💪🔥
@baileybahr80593 жыл бұрын
@arsalanghaffari46273 жыл бұрын
I read the title and I was scared as hell 😂😂😂i thought Mr. And mrs. Alpha was gone but thank god BTW alpha you're like a second dad to most of us I came here an insecure 14 year old child and now I'm an 18 year old man living my best life Thanks man ❤
@anselmochavez28943 жыл бұрын
Same bro!! Good thing I watched the whole video first before I commented something bad. 😅
@estevanmendoza45753 жыл бұрын
I got cheated on my first ex when I was 18. 6 years later: First ex got married, I comment her and say congrats on her wedding then she saw my profile pic of me graduating with an engineering degree, posting gym selfie with a big transformer, and traveling living a good life. She never say thank you which she blocked me because she pissed off and jealous because I’m living a good life and be happy. Enjoying life is better than revenge
@1337dubstepaa3 жыл бұрын
Lol she got married and you expect her to be impressed by an ex? You got blocked because she has a husband now
@estevanmendoza45753 жыл бұрын
@@1337dubstepaa Lol hell no I did it to troll on her then her husband text back she’s with a good man. I told him that she’s been with allot of good men but hope you’re the last one she keeps and then I got blocked
@heysander Жыл бұрын
Just happened to me. She cannot face her own reality and does not want to face me out of shame. I'm glad that my gut helped me getting to the truth. Deepest love and connection I ever experienced and never expected this. I feel the part about no time to waste and trust never grows back. It will have painful days / weeks / months ahead, but I will treat myself with the respect I deserve. Thanks for the part where you say its not you, those kind of reminders help.
@johne08243 жыл бұрын
My girlfriend of 5 years cheated on me. We got separated and became ldr for a year, she met someone else and left me. I've been single now for about 9 months and still in the process of moving on but I'm getting better and better day by day I'm also in my best shape. I could now say that it was the best and also the worst thing that ever happened to me in my life. I definitely dodged a bullet on that one. Best wishes for her tho
@annaaffkhan3 жыл бұрын
@Mohammad Bakeer so that she doesnt cheat others : )
@pickataco67393 жыл бұрын
Chin up king!!! Do not wish her the best. I hope you get whatever you’re working for.
@Jayematic3 жыл бұрын
@@pickataco6739 so wish her the worst? Ugh...
@pickataco67393 жыл бұрын
@@Jayematic precisely? Yeah lol.
@prateek-brawlstars47763 жыл бұрын
Alpha is a man Of Culture He always stays strong 🔥
@redwan66053 жыл бұрын
Yeah
@Whishi3 жыл бұрын
I used to play brawl stars too
@MDobri-sy1ce3 жыл бұрын
If I was cheated on it doesn’t matter what the reason is. Once the trust is broken that’s it!
@EDJK_ Жыл бұрын
now this comment I agree with tbh we all have our own emotions I always said if I got cheated on I wouldn’t be hurt I’d just be disappointed because that is what it truly strings down too is disappointment but like you said doesn’t even matter the reason once it’s broken it’s broken and imma just move on
@kylerzane312123 жыл бұрын
Thanks bro I really needed to hear this, been going through it myself with someone I thought I'd marry someday. But that gut feeling has been throwing me off for awhile. Her inviting other men into her house when I'm at work, and adding "new friends" isn't something you do while being in a relationship. She claims she's naive but there's just too much that I've felt uncomfortable with for a long time and its just disrespectful to do that to a person you claim you love. I have to draw back and have been feeling that way for a while, thank you for this video man, we all go through this and to anyone else seeing this, I hope you find someone who never does this shit to you. It really is defeating, and I believe therapy is a good source to help cope with the process as well, cause it does destroy you to a point, where you'll completely lose yourself. Time is too precious to waste on someone who will never show a mutual love. We deserve better than that, we all do.
@kevin27062 жыл бұрын
I hope your ok now .. I totally relate to your story .. God bless and protect man
@michaelshollaj6428 Жыл бұрын
Ehhh I feel you man, I'm in this situation right now, she tells me "don't write me fast" while text fast with a boy who before sent to her D photo, I said to her to choose me or him, she chose him. Hurts as fuck, all the time, support, care, love, optimism and so on, she chose someone that has done nothing for her, while I refused to continue University in Norway to be close to her in Germany, refused to work with VR in Singapore to continue the future with her, didn't talk with any girl bc I was focused only in my project and her, and she chose that other guy. Girls nowadays are heartless, and later pretend to be the victim. Just it hurts
@michaelshollaj6428 Жыл бұрын
Update, my gf was cheating on me, with her teammate, now is just ex
@MrSouthside202111 ай бұрын
:,,,,,( this is what I am going through now
@Tallontherocks3 жыл бұрын
I was a stay at home / work from home dad taking care of our sick baby. Turns out she then was f***g her co worker. It happened for 6 months until I found out. She used anything to blame me until I caught her. Its tough. Thanks for sharing your story.
@pcpcustomfigs3 жыл бұрын
I did this for 13 years. Gave every dime I made to her. Let her handle my finances and the bills. Did what I thought a good husband should do by putting my family first. She waited for me to hurt myself at work and then threw me out with nothing and nowhere to go. Now I’m sleeping in my fathers apartment on his couch picking up the pieces of my life and my heart. Now I’m starting over at 39 from scratch. I should have done better by myself but life’s just beginning I guess. Very good advice my friend keep up the good work.
@MrPapi2353 жыл бұрын
Damm so sorry to hear that u fell for the trap of marriage and love. They are both very fake and not real at all hope u doing better now
@goldanddiamonds72403 жыл бұрын
You was some big time simp chips
@MrPapi2353 жыл бұрын
@ad izzle I just know the truth sad to see that ur still blind tell me about it when u get cheated on ok. Nothing lasts forever
@pritthisarkar4353 жыл бұрын
@ad izzle thanks mate
@ew983 жыл бұрын
Whoever is reading this, marriage contract. Do it. It will save your life. If the other party doesn't want to do it, then that's your sign showing what they were after.
@nimbark1113 жыл бұрын
I haven't seen your video yet but one thing for sure your Senorita is never going to cheat you.❤
@nicknagulo3 жыл бұрын
Best things to have when you are getting cheated on or just talking to a girl: 1. Self-respect 2. Confidence Stay strong fighters!🔥
@rodmareliador16143 жыл бұрын
I grew Up Watching your Videos Alpha M!! I'm sorry for what happened... GOD BLESS YOU!!♥
@BROKENDEMON2 жыл бұрын
I wish I didn't have to look this video up. Shit hurts.
@MinecraftVideoHunter3 жыл бұрын
Aaron is making this very personal video as advise and for us to learn from his bad experiences. At the same time he is also very active in the comments. Say what you want but this guy cares about all of us.
@GreggyGTV3 жыл бұрын
As a therapist, I appreciate your message and I think you did a wonderful job! Thank you for helping so many.
@JamesJohnAgar3 жыл бұрын
Once the trust goes, the relationship is over & you can’t get it back. It doesn’t matter if you go to marriage counselling because you are kidding yourself if you think the relationship can be fixed, this is where people kid themselves. End it and move on if you find your partner cheated.
@esvetdemir Жыл бұрын
Thank you for your full focus on the job instead of focusing on proving yourself to others. You always tried harder to be better *johnson spy* and now your success speaks out louder. Thank you for a hard work. I’m sure it was worth it all. There is no doubt that you are the most deserving of all that should be given a shout out
@theanabolicviking3 жыл бұрын
Not once, not two times, not three times, but a bunch??? Stop stop stop... NO, no matter where you were emotionally... this was, and is, NOT a good person bro!
@MJ-sy2en3 жыл бұрын
My crush talks to me first and answers my texts, it's time to use the wisdom I've gained here.
@MJ-sy2en3 жыл бұрын
@Тодд Вест-Сэдлер I know "That perfect moment" doesn't exist. It'll happen at some point, just a matter of when.
@bryan-ep6pp3 жыл бұрын
@@MJ-sy2en yup🔥
@lalruatpuiahnamte24593 жыл бұрын
It's time my G
@stantheman49643 жыл бұрын
It's not easier, not to try ! Regrets hurt forevermore, do it today pal.
@srachar3 жыл бұрын
@@MJ-sy2en do it. NOW
@lilhazardx24353 жыл бұрын
This video hit hit me so hard. Thank you man for sharing. Just broke up with my girlfriend after 2 years of going through this. I feel so much better after ending that toxicity. I finally found myself, listened to my gut, knew my worth but never had the strength to leave her because like you said she was very insecure and never trusted me. No matter how much I tried to help her see her worth, she just couldn't get out of that mind set. She always tried to break my confidence and tried to bring me down in order to make herself feel better and beautiful. It was so draining finally put a stop to it and ended it. Best decision of my life. We live and we learn. That lesson was very hard but thank God I was able to get out of it. Never again.
@ghostoffallen3 жыл бұрын
The more you feel the pain... The more you become Wise...✌
@breakingbadabq3 жыл бұрын
Some people actually do deserve to be cheated on. Like someone who is physically abusive. The person being cheated on isn't always the victim.
@cheeseburgersgm3 жыл бұрын
Hey, *King* You dropped this "👑"
@brucebetterly3 жыл бұрын
Love you Aaron! I can totally relate. My ex-wife cheated on me. I've been divorced since 1996. I haven't found a keeper yet. I'm still hopeful. I appreciate all the coaching you give.
@raymondpang6453 жыл бұрын
If there’s no keeper you find then that’s perfectly fine, no wrong in the fact that sometimes there’s no one that’ll be right with you
@lufromwu2 жыл бұрын
Free agent lifestyle!!
@Americanpatriot-zo2tk2 жыл бұрын
If you haven’t found a keeper yeah dude you never going to. Sounds to me like you’re too damn picky.
@NiceDumb3 жыл бұрын
Respect for Alpha M not putting ads on this video 🙌🏻🙌🏻
@lucadebarros20863 жыл бұрын
He did though
@neinneinnein3793 жыл бұрын
He is the ad
@thinkbooth3 жыл бұрын
For anyone seeing this, I believe you can achieve your goals, all you have to do is to NEVER GIVE UP
@seanrandalmc3 жыл бұрын
Thank you my friend. I just found out the girl I’ve been with for a year cheated on me. I loved her more than I loved myself, and I ended up losing myself to the relationship. When I caught her in the act all she did was laugh and smirk, and it absolutely killed me. What was crazy is that she would tell me all these wonderful things, like how she wanted my children, and how she wanted to marry me and build a home with me. I keep blaming myself, but from your video I see that this was a blessing in disguise. You’re right, I deserve so much better, so thank you for putting out videos like this. It helps so much. Much love my friend, take care
@pablop.76353 жыл бұрын
God bless you Sean. I can't even imagine the complete discouragement from the whole scene after the nice words she said to you. She probably was a narcissist, which is why we have to make sure who we are dating, but hey at least it ended soon. It's already been 4 months since you posted this, I hope you are doing fine and dandy man.
@LoylaDemiseem9 ай бұрын
It’s always the worst when they say the sweetest things to you, fooling you to believe you have them entirely, and when exposed, they are so cruel as to even appear as though it was all planned to maximize damage and trauma to you. So vile and wicked, some people.
@turunbox25393 жыл бұрын
Its nice of you to share your story to help others
@darianmartinez99263 жыл бұрын
Cheater: You'll never find another person like me. Me: Thank God!!!!
@jasonayra22273 жыл бұрын
My first ever girlfriend cheated on me with her best friend, when I found out I dumped her. Ever since then I never tried to go into a new relationship cuz I have this feeling that I'm not good enough and she'll look for someone else. I know that the problem was with her and not me, but I can't help the feeling most of the time.
@annaaffkhan3 жыл бұрын
same here dude
@FunBoysGaming3 жыл бұрын
Didn’t you listen to Alpha? It’s not your fault. It’s not that you’re not a good boyfriend, it’s that she is a bad person
@annaaffkhan3 жыл бұрын
@@FunBoysGaming thanks bro me 2 will keep that in my mind onwards : )
@joer82733 жыл бұрын
Alpha, you’re classy bc you used your pain to help others. Because you didn’t use your platform to slam or shame her. And because you took the opportunity to learn about your deficiencies and take clearer note on your AWESOMENESS. And if I might add this: the best decision I ever made was to go to therapy. And I wasn’t even facing a crisis per se. But dammit, it was amazing. Best hour of my week. Completely life transforming. Do ittttttttttttt. Please.
@AliTaha-qq1ql2 жыл бұрын
AARON THANK YOU, I have been watching you for years and would NEVER think I would hear this from you and for me to be in this situation. thank you can say that enough!!!
@H1zle3 жыл бұрын
I honestly love watching Alpha videos. It’s just nice to hear someone give advice, maybe not directly towards only me, but in general. I just recently found out yesterday that my girlfriend of 4 years was sneaking around behind my back and sleeping with someone else. She had told me that she wasn’t mentally feeling well, and needed to be in her bubble for a little while, which I understood and respected. Yesterday I decided to bring her some flowers and food so we could have a nice evening, and I saw hickeys all over her and I just broke and left. Idk who to talk to, or how, but I feel like Alpha just has this way of indirectly speaking to me when I need it most. So thank you Aaron, truly thank you.
@H1zle3 жыл бұрын
She used to excuse “things just kinda happened, I don’t know but it meant nothing to me”
@1bountee4933 жыл бұрын
“It’s a very lonely thing” lol I relate to that so much
@toxictwig13 жыл бұрын
"If you harbour anger, hostility it will destroy you." Thanks Alpha.
@izumiftcold52063 жыл бұрын
Respect the feelings and emotions of both parties. This guy is a legend I've learned things from him that no one else could have taught me, he taught me what it really takes to be the best version of myself. Hats off to Alpha , we can't thank you enough.
@jonathandomnar39503 жыл бұрын
My mom cheated on my dad... I was 12yrs old at the time, and I had to move w her and her bf and i didn’t want to 🙄.The guy has a wife too, and other gf’s at the gym. It sux man 😔 I’m 17 now and it still pains me. and I learned that if one sins against u, and does not apologize and stop 🛑✋, u are not required to forgive them. HOWEVER I’m NOT excusing ANY bitterness when I say that. It means that u separate from them so that u don’t open urself to getting hurt. If u do end up forgiving them, it doesn’t even mean u trust them 100%. It doesn’t mean u plan a vacation together and become best buddies 😂. It means that u invite them into a process of rebuilding a similar relationship and level of trust that u had before.. but in a slow process...
@KingBabaJames3 жыл бұрын
Some of us get cheated on , we don't know. Some of us cheated on someone they don't know.
@koshergains3 жыл бұрын
Really curious to see how today's video sponsor is going to be built into this. Edit: Not disappointed!
@alpham3 жыл бұрын
Like butter... Smooooth 😁
@anubhavtyagi99093 жыл бұрын
@@alpham For Sure 🔥🔥
@ady78023 жыл бұрын
@@alpham stayy strong brother... everythings happens for a reason... i hope and pray u get better Love LIFE ahead soon. As u have changed many peoples life im damn sure u will get back to Life again. Its just a matter of Time. And the good thing abt time is that *it Passes by* ❤ we All love you for your great efforts and services for us. We are with u
@pranavkarthik27243 жыл бұрын
this is not embarrassing alpha. you're incredible. period.
@IvyHart-zm8em Жыл бұрын
no hes not , nigga cheated on his wife 5 times
@ELcoyote5763 жыл бұрын
She cheats she belongs to the streets. She becomes my ex and is swiftly ex communicated from my life and i move accordingly. That Is All.
@tarik23 Жыл бұрын
Not going to lie, but we are actually really proud to have an employee like you as part of our team. The job is done so gracefully and neatly. Very well done, dear *brian hacks online* . First of all. Thank you for making the work environment so friendly and taking your responsibility seriously and completing the work gracefully! You deserve so much.
@Jessica_OS12 Жыл бұрын
Thanks *brian hacks online* for the remote access into target's complete phone activities
@giovannistar75613 жыл бұрын
No matter how good you are women can never be pleased. They will always go out the way. Continue do your thing ma guy