6 Signs You’re Burnt Out, Not Lazy

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Psych2Go

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@Psych2go
@Psych2go 3 жыл бұрын
What would you do differently if you can start today fresh from scratch without any burden or responsibilities?
@SpookCheds
@SpookCheds 3 жыл бұрын
Don’t move. The IRS can’t do anything if I don’t move
@tutorialbot1668
@tutorialbot1668 3 жыл бұрын
that would be really easy if i could figure that out
@lightrobotCoromon
@lightrobotCoromon 3 жыл бұрын
Just Go for a walk at night
@DeadMemeMan
@DeadMemeMan 3 жыл бұрын
eat a burger and maybe some grapes
@whoisryerye
@whoisryerye 3 жыл бұрын
Same
@HAITANNIES
@HAITANNIES 3 жыл бұрын
i'm so burnt out that just hearing my mom call my name or hearing someone telling me what to do makes me so angry it could ruin my day. i just wanna sit and do nothing.
@jennypr1260
@jennypr1260 3 жыл бұрын
Same here!!
@jellybean4526
@jellybean4526 3 жыл бұрын
yeah true and they will always going at you like "its just the dishes so just do it" ugh...that irritates me the most🙄
@majRFan
@majRFan 3 жыл бұрын
Holy sh*t, dude.. I thought it was just me, but reading all these comments including yours is so relatable, like, you all feel the same as I do… Ooo man… I have yelled at my mom many times and also cried for yelling like a baby, I didn’t wanna shout at anybody, but I can’t control it, I can’t control anything. I try not to talk, there are days where I didn’t said a word to anyone, all day silent, no talking. I’m such a mess.😭
@HAITANNIES
@HAITANNIES 3 жыл бұрын
@@majRFan EXACTLY like im a huge family person but i get irritated when our family members visit us. i think its cause ive gotten overwhelmed with our family problems and seeing them EVERYDAY, and i need time to heal and take a break but they just wont let me catch a break at all 😭😭
@majRFan
@majRFan 3 жыл бұрын
@@HAITANNIES Trust me man, your family love you man. They want you to be happy, but they might not have the knowledge to treat depression or burnout. They might not know how bad having depression and burnout feels like. I told about my condition to my father and even though I didn’t know what words to use to describe it, I just said what came at the moment, he kinda understood me. He took me to a doctor, but it didn’t helped me. But I’m thankful, he did what he can. I think you should talk about this to someone you trust and feel comfortable with the most. Maybe ur father, mother, sis, bro, cousin, uncle, or a friend, anyone. Don’t hold all to yourself. It might not cure and fix everything, but it’s just the right thing to do. Don’t give up. There are so many things in life that we didn’t get to experience, I wanna experience them all, I’m not gonna let me die before that. Life is a beautiful mess… it’s difficult but it’s beautiful… it’s worth suffering for. Live…….
@yam7881
@yam7881 3 жыл бұрын
This is like, the worst thing to have when you have responsibilities that have time frames, like work or school...
@bellabukuru
@bellabukuru 3 жыл бұрын
Yep. I’m thinking about going into a mental facility just because I’m too ashamed to go to back to my parent’s house
@littlebag3l
@littlebag3l 3 жыл бұрын
it really is..
@anonymouss5661
@anonymouss5661 3 жыл бұрын
Me who has exams in 8 days😔
@vvantae_1903
@vvantae_1903 3 жыл бұрын
@@anonymouss5661 goodluck, i have 4 exams in 2 months
@anonymouss5661
@anonymouss5661 3 жыл бұрын
@@vvantae_1903 best wishes ❤️
@ariana.3182
@ariana.3182 3 жыл бұрын
My parents don’t understand how hard I try to push myself but sometimes I just can’t mentally. Life just isn’t the same anymore and I miss when I was younger. This video helped me a lot❤️
@macom9932
@macom9932 3 жыл бұрын
don't worry brother you'lll get better ..watch great shows for motivation they add a perspective ...even a temporary one still something is better than nothing
@Sean-xz9kp
@Sean-xz9kp 3 жыл бұрын
Hope you straight fam my parents wont get it too they think im just running away from everything which is makes it 10 worse
@ariana.3182
@ariana.3182 3 жыл бұрын
@@macom9932 thank you I’ll do that ❤️☝🏾
@jocelyng17
@jocelyng17 3 жыл бұрын
I’d like to say life gets better, but that’s not always the case. The only thing we can do it ride it out until the water gets clear again, I hope you can feel better soon, stranger 💕
@spacey492
@spacey492 3 жыл бұрын
Yeah..
@FDiego-iw5zw
@FDiego-iw5zw 11 ай бұрын
I’ve just been diagnosed with depression due to burnout. Understanding that it’s not my fault or a failure has been liberating. Being able to talk about it without being judged helps a lot. Let it all out, people.
@seaweedbrain2933
@seaweedbrain2933 7 ай бұрын
In my case it's probably my fault because a lot of people advised me to take breaks and not be fully immersed in work all the time, but I thought I'd be fine Turns out I'm not 💀
@fewfwefwfwff
@fewfwefwfwff 6 ай бұрын
bro i pee in a bottle. dont want to bother to go out, open a door... pee and flush.
@atv22345
@atv22345 6 ай бұрын
@@fewfwefwfwffyeah you’re just disgusting
@miguelvazquez7941
@miguelvazquez7941 6 ай бұрын
Go touch grass
@K20-mbvn
@K20-mbvn 4 ай бұрын
i crave for that feeling.it scares the hell out of me
@emilywillis9912
@emilywillis9912 3 жыл бұрын
Having an existential burnout has cost me everything.. my old passions, some friends, self worth and happiness.. I hope whoever reads this knows it's not your fault and you're not alone ♡
@ashleydevlaminck9430
@ashleydevlaminck9430 3 жыл бұрын
@peniseater8052
@peniseater8052 3 жыл бұрын
Your mom
@Sanncheztv
@Sanncheztv 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you ♥️
@XxFuntimeWolfxX
@XxFuntimeWolfxX 3 жыл бұрын
Cringe
@AkkKkk1010
@AkkKkk1010 3 жыл бұрын
Emily i think youre just lying no body talks about it.
@milanlx
@milanlx 3 жыл бұрын
that wholesome moment when people in a youtube video's comment section understand you more than your parents:
@skillcrafts7349
@skillcrafts7349 3 жыл бұрын
Yes
@Jz-kc9rg
@Jz-kc9rg 3 жыл бұрын
😭😭Ur right
@autocorrectisreal4546
@autocorrectisreal4546 3 жыл бұрын
Its becouse these strangers had experience with such things in person, like from them selfs or a friend, parents mostly dont understand becouse they either dont listen , make it about something else or just start yelling (with a few positive exeptions )
@samiksha111
@samiksha111 3 жыл бұрын
Yes😢
@adorned.rednight
@adorned.rednight 3 жыл бұрын
Yeah. I consider everyone who is subscribed or follows Psych2go my friend, even though they are strangers
@cmsnt9942
@cmsnt9942 3 жыл бұрын
1. You feel disconnected from everything/depersonalisation (almost like you’re on autopilot, watching life from outside of yourself) 2. You used to be motivated/high achieving 3. You used to be passionate but may be lacking interest in what you used to find fun (eg sport, talent) 4. You’ve become moody/irritable/Snappy, trouble controlling emotions 5. You’ve neglected self care and socially withdraw, changes in sleeping/eating patterns 6. These changes happened gradually in stages
@mcbuffin3113
@mcbuffin3113 3 жыл бұрын
I have them all except 4.. I’d say I am kinda moody but I hold in my feelings usually I never care about what I think. That would be the last thing I’d do.
@cmsnt9942
@cmsnt9942 3 жыл бұрын
@@mcbuffin3113 what do you mean you don’t care about what you think? Do you mean something like you don’t care about your own opinions or you can’t be bothered to voice them?
@mcbuffin3113
@mcbuffin3113 3 жыл бұрын
@@cmsnt9942 I don’t care about my opinion really
@dont_talk_to_me5723
@dont_talk_to_me5723 3 жыл бұрын
I have all of these. I'm actually being serious
@koreanpop1651
@koreanpop1651 3 жыл бұрын
I have the number 1 ‘ 2’ 3’ 5
@pixie4lyfe
@pixie4lyfe Жыл бұрын
This video really spoke to me. Before my burnout I was extremely motivated. I had just started a new relationship with my current partner and it was going amazing. I was also fully recovered from my eating disorder and my depression and self harm tendencies were going away. I was meditating every morning, frequently journaling, making my bed everyday, eating well and doing things that made me happy. I was finally cleaning my room and taking care of myself and even my parents noticed the drastic change. All of a sudden I started feeling so tired and demotivated. I stopped meditating and journaling, my room started piling up with dirty dishes and my clothes are everywhere in my bedroom floor atm. Im not cooking for myself anymore and just let my body starve cause I’m too tired to get up and cook. I’m crying everyday for reasons I don’t even understand, and I just feel so annoyed and numb. My exams were going on at the time that I was really motivated and I think that led to me stressing a lot, so now I’m here. I really hope I can crawl myself out of this pit again like I did before. I hope I find the motivation to take care of myself again.
@emmau.4284
@emmau.4284 Жыл бұрын
Same here, I did go to my doctor and told her all the stress I was having. I’m starting therapie next month, and just going there, and feeling some understanding, did already really help. because when you’re at that point of no going back, everything just feels like a huge task, even showering, or brushing my teeth. Life just, hit us sometimes. Don’t let it get to the point of no turning back. Ask help
@doja6753
@doja6753 Жыл бұрын
I feel the same but it happened to me after quitting a very stressful job in the same day my ex broke up with me and I'm living abroad far from my family and friends, it's has been now 4 months I'm still crying everyday, overthinking about my family how I push and I work harder to support them while I'm still only 24 yo and I have this responsibility to send money to my family, I'm feeling overwhelmed and sad. I used to be that brilliant person full of positive energy happy motivated and all people around me feel inspired, but now I'm so down , I hope I can over all that. I can't even afford to go to therapy
@hiiloveyoursmile1164
@hiiloveyoursmile1164 Жыл бұрын
Oh dear, I hope today will be brighter than yesterday! Try to change smaller things like getting up, making yourself some good breakfast, etc. Treat yourself with small steps first and validate your feelings. Im not a therapist or anything near to it, though, but i myself (i mean yesterday) has been sleeping for hours (from afternoon 4+ till) and getting up just now (6am), feeling clueless on why I'm like this. I try so hard to finally get up and put on the lights and get myself an easy breakfast (bread). But of course, I'm not feeling entirely ok now. So yeah, small steps and small targets🚶‍♀️. Try it!
@hiiloveyoursmile1164
@hiiloveyoursmile1164 Жыл бұрын
​@doja6753 oh I forgot to tag u. I believe in you, so please believe in yourself okie. Things are hard now but remember that it will pass 🫂
@doja6753
@doja6753 Жыл бұрын
@@hiiloveyoursmile1164 thank you I appreciate that 🤗
@user-ue2cl2yu8i
@user-ue2cl2yu8i 3 жыл бұрын
I don’t like the fact some parents calls us lazy but we did what we can and We *need* REST. Parents should give some advice or comfort the child to improve their stamina and get comfortable with their surroundings giving them confidence.
@gay.man.Dexter
@gay.man.Dexter 3 жыл бұрын
I know right its like I'm doing the best I can and you're over here yelling at me because I forgot to do something you think that's going to help with my stress and depression
@0Morey
@0Morey 3 жыл бұрын
Well, our parents never received the advice or comfort. They probably don’t see us other than lazy. They did not receive comfort so they don’t think we need it either.
@linze1928
@linze1928 3 жыл бұрын
@@0Morey Sadly true, but also as a parent infact before you become one. One of the most important thing I think a parent to be should do is research. Not paper/Google/writing down research but go over their OWN lives and see what their parents did (with comparison to now days resources/research/findings) Then they can be able to be better parents than their's were. Improving on their parents parenting,
@17eventeen80
@17eventeen80 3 жыл бұрын
The thing is parents have already experienced it so they’re are gonna look at from their point of view. So they think of it like, why are they having such a hard time why don’t they just deal with it.
@linze1928
@linze1928 3 жыл бұрын
@@17eventeen80 I do understand your point But that's the thing, with the information available to us they should be able to see what went wrong before or what wasn't the proper way to deal with it before& correct it
@nicholasnash1571
@nicholasnash1571 3 жыл бұрын
I literally cried watching this. I wake up everyday just to do the same things with negative people around. I need to make this change I don't want to be burned out and depressed forever. Update : I’m starting a new job am getting away from toxic people. You all can do it too !!! Choose happiness loves :) . We can all do it together
@nskskdk52
@nskskdk52 3 жыл бұрын
I cried too. I never realised that I am to this point of life
@Ivyworld44
@Ivyworld44 3 жыл бұрын
That’s so crazy I cried watching this too because you right waking up doing the same thing is depression being around negative people will drain u
@skillcrafts7349
@skillcrafts7349 3 жыл бұрын
Same
@NoName-yi5cs
@NoName-yi5cs 3 жыл бұрын
But how? I don't feel like doing anything. I'm just doing things that I'm responsible for. I don't want to be like this anymore but idk what I should do to make things better.
@lindabbz3518
@lindabbz3518 3 жыл бұрын
That’s crazy me too 😂 I miss my energetic and happy self Hopefully I can snap out of it soon ✨
@justinalexander5959
@justinalexander5959 3 жыл бұрын
It's even worse when after you come out of the burnout feeling, you think of all the "wasted" time and wonder why you couldn't do more with it. Thank you for this video, it really spoke to me and comforted me
@2xshadowx253
@2xshadowx253 3 жыл бұрын
Bro am 20 almost 21 years old, I never go out of my home and feeling so depressed and faded, i lost intrest in life, i dont know what to do Am afraid of the moment when i get out of burn out it'llbe too late, I never lived my teenage time like my friends there is so much to say no one to....
@justawhisper1169
@justawhisper1169 3 жыл бұрын
@@2xshadowx253 I totally understand how you feel, but believe that it's never too late. Better now than ever, right? If you lost your interest in life fight to get it back, you only live once. Find new hobbies. Music, Art, Photography, or anything that you feel deep inside you are connected to. Step by step and you will gain your interest of what's around you hopefully. Try to do 1 new thing at least everyday. And once you feel comfortable enough, try to meet new people and hang out with your friends. I really wish you get through this and i believe in you. Good luck mate.
@deatheffect575
@deatheffect575 3 жыл бұрын
so true. the last 3 year have been a blur to me. just work eat and sleep. with the book of world knowledge at our finger tips learning things are somewhat simple but watching everyone's "life moments" make me reflect on mine. and the "what ifs" or "why didnt i do this". i've come to the conclusion those are their lives and not mine. i think we all try to put together the perfect life with all these moments we see. but we cant do this because these are just mear moments in many lives on many timelines.
@2xshadowx253
@2xshadowx253 3 жыл бұрын
@@justawhisper1169 @Deatheffect thanks for the kind words.
@jestnutz
@jestnutz 3 жыл бұрын
@@2xshadowx253 forgive yourself brother, you're young and have more years ahead of you than behind you. Learn from why you are in the state of mind instead of fearing about the time wasted. I hope you get better and become better. One day at a time.
@kiyokomiyazaki
@kiyokomiyazaki Жыл бұрын
Chapters ♡ 0:19 what is burnout 0:52 you feel disconnected from everything 1:35 you used to be motivated 2:01 you used to be passionate 2:32 you've become moody and irritable 3:02 you've neglected your self-care 3:31 these changes happened gradually 3:56 five stages of burnout
@justanothermortal1373
@justanothermortal1373 Жыл бұрын
Does everyone feel like they're staring into a blank nothingness, devoid of meaning or hope at times, or is it just me.
@bobmike-d1l
@bobmike-d1l Жыл бұрын
its you, and me@@justanothermortal1373
@Imakeawesomeeditsforreal
@Imakeawesomeeditsforreal Жыл бұрын
I definitely feel that. Sometimes when things get overwhelming and people around you just drain you out, you cannot keep up with the facade anymore and you finally give in and just stop caring. Then you began to lose sight of your work and your relationships/responsibilities.... Like all you really need right now is a getaway from everything or just a small vacation to relax for once.
@achattyindividual
@achattyindividual 8 ай бұрын
Ty
@kiyokomiyazaki
@kiyokomiyazaki 8 ай бұрын
@@achattyindividual yw!
@datboi6954
@datboi6954 3 жыл бұрын
1. you feel disconnected from everything 1:06 2. you used to be motivated 1:47 3. you used to be passionate 2:14 4. you become moody & irritable 2:45 5. you've neglected your self-care 3:15 6. these changes happened gradually 3:45 I hope I could help!
@MukeshKumar-kv1wk
@MukeshKumar-kv1wk 3 жыл бұрын
Bruh timetraveller
@ThePochiGamerPochi622
@ThePochiGamerPochi622 3 жыл бұрын
How tf did you post this 3 days ago when this just came out today??
@mini4940
@mini4940 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you Time traveler!!🍀
@Monkejjj
@Monkejjj 3 жыл бұрын
How did u comment 3 days earlier ?
@clouds4800
@clouds4800 3 жыл бұрын
Hello time traveler!! ✨
@kaethegae
@kaethegae 3 жыл бұрын
I never knew laziness and being burnt out had so much differences. Mentally and physically, I just can't anymore. Everything said about being burnt out described the state I've been in this whole summer mainly. It's already been a month since I wrote this and watched the vid. Thanks for the likes ig
@tyizrandom8670
@tyizrandom8670 3 жыл бұрын
Sameee.. it’s crazy😔
@maple_aeri6111
@maple_aeri6111 3 жыл бұрын
Summer are depressing 😭
@kaethegae
@kaethegae 3 жыл бұрын
@@maple_aeri6111 yes, yes they are.
@tmxss_2263
@tmxss_2263 3 жыл бұрын
I hope you all get better :(
@sylaineressel8162
@sylaineressel8162 3 жыл бұрын
Same here.
@elijahcooke3513
@elijahcooke3513 3 жыл бұрын
I cried during this video I used to be so passionate about playing my instrument getting school work done and making good grades but know I just feel detached from everything
@CarolineForbesAndTaylorSwift
@CarolineForbesAndTaylorSwift 3 жыл бұрын
I know
@gabrielladuarte8550
@gabrielladuarte8550 3 жыл бұрын
Me too
@alanmartinez3444
@alanmartinez3444 3 жыл бұрын
It’s not you it’s the energy around you always remember that
@tyizrandom8670
@tyizrandom8670 3 жыл бұрын
Sameee.. I just wish I could feel like myself agin😔 just know ur not alone I exactly how ur feeling
@cleoaptrajones2691
@cleoaptrajones2691 3 жыл бұрын
me too.
@natalieyys
@natalieyys Жыл бұрын
as a medical student, I'm glad that I came back to this video. I have been going through a packed crazy schedule. I started to feel extremely tired, lost my motivation to study. No matter how much I want to review my materials that I have learned, I just couldn't make myself to do it. I think i have been burning out for a while and yea, I am going to take a break from my school stuff by extending my exam time. It is important to do self care once in a while.
@myostar7
@myostar7 7 ай бұрын
Keep your eye on the Carrot. You will make it if I did it 38 years ago you imagine completing your task at hand and soon you will be in residence and then the real training begins! Good luck!!!
@ill_insect
@ill_insect 3 жыл бұрын
I’m on autopilot so often that whenever I’m doing something, it’s so automatic that I forget that I’ve done it and have to check multiple times to see if I have.
@thatrandomcockroachunderyo2167
@thatrandomcockroachunderyo2167 3 жыл бұрын
Same. Like i do/say things i dont know im actually doing/saying. I will be walking in and subconsciously shut and lock my door and then i forget i did it. Its hard to actually do stuff on my own anymore tbh. I dont feel like myself. Ive never called myself depressed but im worn out. I may be depressed idk anymore but im not sad. Im not happy either. Its just like “a day is a day. Nothing new, nothing changed.”
@ill_insect
@ill_insect 3 жыл бұрын
@@thatrandomcockroachunderyo2167 honestly, I relate to this a lot
@Pudding_zip
@Pudding_zip 3 жыл бұрын
It's like we're slowly turning into robots-
@Gloc8
@Gloc8 3 жыл бұрын
that is exactly how i feel.
@aslunas
@aslunas 3 жыл бұрын
@@thatrandomcockroachunderyo2167 sounds like you’re numb
@panlover8734
@panlover8734 3 жыл бұрын
This moment, when you start crying to just...listening...because you just become even more aware how it fits...
@mrenikareddy5935
@mrenikareddy5935 3 жыл бұрын
omggg i started crying right away
@honeybee2644
@honeybee2644 3 жыл бұрын
Same here
@sunsetcruise6890
@sunsetcruise6890 3 жыл бұрын
Exactly...
@br_nothere
@br_nothere 3 жыл бұрын
😃I have anxiety
@br_nothere
@br_nothere 3 жыл бұрын
I barely had sleep last night
@goldsonic210
@goldsonic210 3 жыл бұрын
Part of me is trying to tell myself that I’m actually feeling this way, but another part of me is saying that I’m just overreacting and I need to stop being lazy. Thanks for the video though. It brought some light on what I might’ve been feeling. Much love.
@keithpeddle227
@keithpeddle227 3 жыл бұрын
I feel that way too. Like I am a grown man feeling like I have done this to myself
@rujimer1992
@rujimer1992 3 жыл бұрын
I suffer from paranoia so may of Psych to go’s videos I see I’m over reacting. I know should see a therapist but, I’M BROKE WITH NO CAR AT THE AGE OF 27!
@chaser_id
@chaser_id 3 жыл бұрын
Can relate.
@kasius7768
@kasius7768 3 жыл бұрын
Ayy u actually described it perfectly
@muningmunimuni
@muningmunimuni 3 жыл бұрын
I feel the same way as you do and still ongoing...
@wemawambui2090
@wemawambui2090 Жыл бұрын
I feel encouraged to see i am not alone in this,i just want to cry😢...i feel seen and understood,i am happy to know i am not lazy,i was starting to beat myself alot for thinking i could actually be lazy,but i tried pushing myself but still thought i was just being lazy, having people around you who doesn't have the slightest idea of how much energy i am using to just stay alive makes it even harder...this video has helped me with my first step in healing... thank you for the video
@katieeee6404
@katieeee6404 3 жыл бұрын
It doesn’t matter if I’m burn out or being lazy when the outcome is the same : we failed the tasks. If it’s not a medical condition, it will just be an excuse in the eyes of others. No exception or care will be provided by others esp. school or workplace. It’s a cruel world and it also shows why mental health problems are so devastating. There are always blames on the victims.
@rabiia_art
@rabiia_art 3 жыл бұрын
Ikr..
@sriku1000
@sriku1000 3 жыл бұрын
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@cloverfrost5967
@cloverfrost5967 2 жыл бұрын
My psychologist said that there's talk of burnout being classified as a diagnosis soon (not sure if she was referring to the next update of the DSM). Hopefully things progress and society accepts it as a real thing soon.
@trueRocc
@trueRocc 2 жыл бұрын
That or now adays docs and NP's do a 'call this number' rather then seeing about recommending proper help. I hate talking on my phone.
@heolelavara8340
@heolelavara8340 2 жыл бұрын
Aren't you detached enough not to care about their opinions? What do they really know after all? Personally i feel sorry for People who can't discriminate laziness from mental health issues. I find them very cruel, uneducated and stupid af to care about their opinions.
@bansipatel6984
@bansipatel6984 3 жыл бұрын
“That thing that you once passionate may be the reason of your burnout and you might even hate it” This 'quote' hits hard, the things that once made me happy now it just....there.
@yourekindagay4180
@yourekindagay4180 3 жыл бұрын
Honestly same. I used to have such a love for drawing and now It's just there.
@gee1716
@gee1716 3 жыл бұрын
The moment I saw this comment I immediately burst into tears because I used to be passionate in accounting but now I'm starting to hate the course itself 😭
@alexbhunter3892
@alexbhunter3892 3 жыл бұрын
same. I had so much passion for creating music, writing stories and poems, drawing... now it's just there. Even reading ( I am a total bookworm) became a chore. I am slowing trying to get these passion back though. It is hard to do it atm.
@mcbuffin3113
@mcbuffin3113 3 жыл бұрын
I used to love drawing, reading, and english (my class) but now its just there, I’d do it but I wouldn’t show any happiness doing it because I know I’m gonna fail at it.
@wasabi8120
@wasabi8120 3 жыл бұрын
I have a talent in drawing and alot of people said that and I really liked it but now it’s just there like most people say it. It is enjoyable sometimes but not like it was once.
@SpacePianist
@SpacePianist Жыл бұрын
I seem to fluctuate between the third, fourth and fifth stages weekly. I can go from feeling fine, a little lost but functional to so unmotivated my body refuses to move. I hate having such perpetual burnout but it seems I can’t stop the work I’m doing or else I’ll fall behind in my schoolwork and miss opportunities that help me for my ambitious career of choice. It’s been going on for so long that I can’t remember what motivation feels like…. Anyway, thank you for helping me recognize my situation, keep up the great work
@elvirabergquist8774
@elvirabergquist8774 3 жыл бұрын
me: *fits in with all the criteria* also me: "nah lol i'm just exaggerating, i'm lazy with a tad bit depresso on top"
@darkwolfiegaming3954
@darkwolfiegaming3954 3 жыл бұрын
Me too I always think im just exaggerating because it had happened so much i cant even differentiate if im exaggerating or if it is an issue:(
@ambercasey9160
@ambercasey9160 3 жыл бұрын
@@darkwolfiegaming3954 me too
@9e05cherianpadipurackalvar6
@9e05cherianpadipurackalvar6 3 жыл бұрын
@@epicgamerHemorrhoids thx. U somehow helped lol.
@ancienclochard9501
@ancienclochard9501 3 жыл бұрын
@@epicgamerHemorrhoids Hi Sir, you actually helped a bit. I can relate with most of your thoughts and ways of approaching those sensations. And hearing about other's experiences, it strengthens me to be more relaxed about it, and about to forget the problem more easily to go on a little longer. Of course the problem will eventually show up again in the future, but at least I've got some tools to fight it by reassuring myself. Thank you again, thank you guys and thanks for the video Psych2Go.
@aroinperil
@aroinperil 3 жыл бұрын
Meeeee being kind and understand to myself? Could neva be me
@KeidBoi
@KeidBoi 3 жыл бұрын
Guess Im burnt out… sucks because its near impossible to fix at the moment it seems.
@LollipopPlayz
@LollipopPlayz 3 жыл бұрын
u can do it man, I believe u. U have good content
@odinfrysa2331
@odinfrysa2331 3 жыл бұрын
Just give it time, and treat yourself. It takes time, but what doesnt kill you makes you stronger. :D
@Invisiblechi
@Invisiblechi 3 жыл бұрын
kzbin.info/www/bejne/bJOqqGCqnamdfK8
@TheHotBlade
@TheHotBlade 3 жыл бұрын
"I can fix it!" - Fix-it Felix
@popcattubbo6870
@popcattubbo6870 3 жыл бұрын
Yo keidboi you can do it your content is sickk man
@alissahasded158
@alissahasded158 3 жыл бұрын
School has definitely caused me to suffer from burnout, I can’t even remember when I really started feeling it
@violacera
@violacera 3 жыл бұрын
You're not alone... Nowadays most teenagers(including you & me) are suffering from this burnout due to academic pressure... But don't worry... Life goes on...
@smoke9939
@smoke9939 3 жыл бұрын
yea same, I used to take good care of myself but now..I barely get sleep
@violacera
@violacera 3 жыл бұрын
@J.K.M You're not alone...
@Psych2go
@Psych2go 3 жыл бұрын
What do you feel about school that is making you burn out? The early wake up? Exams?
@fwncytv
@fwncytv 3 жыл бұрын
Wait for college buddy
@_lamaraljanabiii
@_lamaraljanabiii Жыл бұрын
Ive just started school like 4 weeks ago, and the amount of quizzes and assignments I keep getting are too much, and even when i study so much, i still get bad grades, but when i complain to other people like my sister, she compares me to her and says how her life is way harder than mine, and how im just being dramatic and over complaining and just being lazy. Now that I’ve seen this vid, now Ik im not lazy.
@nabilahzaini8644
@nabilahzaini8644 3 жыл бұрын
Honestly, burn out has never crossed my mind when I started my final year of degree. I always thought "Why are you so lazy and unmotivated?! You were never like this before!". I simply brushed it off and got irritated, it made me more mad when all the things I enjoyed before no longer give me a spark of happiness. My mood was all over the place and there are days I feel like crying but I physically can't. Taking breaks was sacrilegious; all I could think is the outcome. I just wish I listened to my body cues more, maybe if I did I won't feel like this. I hope everyone experiencing this gets better (as I hope I would too), I couldn't stress this more but please GET SOME REST AND DON'T FEEL GUILTY ABOUT IT. IT IS OKAY TO TAKE A BREAK. Take care.
@BulgeUhBasic
@BulgeUhBasic 3 жыл бұрын
dang those were some very good words. I really relate to that crying thing it sucks :(
@casualtake1497
@casualtake1497 3 жыл бұрын
wow i can relate to this so much, im in my last semester now
@makia7001
@makia7001 3 жыл бұрын
I relate to this so much❤
@freshempire7477
@freshempire7477 3 жыл бұрын
I tried snapping myself out of it for yearss!!! But with a lil patience n understanding and.prayer i can definitely get through this
@qingyuli5460
@qingyuli5460 3 жыл бұрын
@@casualtake1497 good luck!!
@JackyTheFrand
@JackyTheFrand 3 жыл бұрын
The "losing interest and motivation in things you used to love" hit me like a rock. This just makes me realize how fast you can get into this black hole. My 2 year relationship endet and I pushed my interests I loved so much to a limit where I just feel empty and don't feel like doing them no more. I work with one of my passions and I slowly gain my motivation back. It's a hard way and it also shows how easy it is to just burn out. Take care of yourself everyone. You're worth it, don't work yourself over your limits. ❤️
@notgoodenough7055
@notgoodenough7055 3 жыл бұрын
Saaame. I broke up with my 2 year gf and started doing hobbies I really loved. Suddenly, I just felt I will never be as good as I thought at them and lost all motivation to improve. I'm not an english speaker. Srry if you didn't get something I said. Hope you're doing better though!
@JackyTheFrand
@JackyTheFrand 3 жыл бұрын
@@notgoodenough7055 I'm not an English speaker too. German here. Your English is great I understood everything you said. :) I'm doing better and I hope you do too. Go back to your motivations if you feel like it. You don't need to be perfect at them. If you love them it's the right thing to do. :) I had that with online video games. People like to make you feel even worse if you're not good. But I switched the chats off if that's possible and I feel now better again while gaming.
@cyrelltolibas6287
@cyrelltolibas6287 3 жыл бұрын
damn... i personally lose interest and passion for a lot of things may it be my fav song that i used to listen every day or my hobbies such as editing meme videos or working out. I always felt that i was being lazy and being burnt out didn't ring the bells. I always thought that this happened probably because I'm used to CHANGES. (Growing up we used to move a lot, this affected my social relationships with people, my personal development and ect. since i adapting these things when i was little.) Through those changes i was able to adapt more quickly to new things and just lose interest to the things i love. And today is one of those days. Thanks for hearing me out random internet person! I hope everything will be fine so we could all breath feely!♡to
@notgoodenough7055
@notgoodenough7055 3 жыл бұрын
@@JackyTheFrand Nice! Now you inspired me lol. I hope things go well for you. I started doing gaming as well but, you know, it's not commonly supported by your family and you are always pushed to get good grades and be nice. You must keep on grinding no matter what's thrown in your way, like a machine :/ I'm happy if you are in the opposite side and you got your motivation back, you should tell me your secret.
@freshempire7477
@freshempire7477 3 жыл бұрын
Rapping is my last thing im holding on too
@PhilMante
@PhilMante 3 жыл бұрын
I just like hearing this ladys voice. Its calming, peaceful & friendly.
@-holisitica-242
@-holisitica-242 3 жыл бұрын
Yeah her voice is so calming ☺️✨
@SoradaServalY2K
@SoradaServalY2K 3 жыл бұрын
It's a nice break from all the screaming that goes on in my house
@riasb
@riasb 3 жыл бұрын
This is it!
@-holisitica-242
@-holisitica-242 3 жыл бұрын
SM ؟
@Psych2go
@Psych2go 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks Phil! Are you subscribed to Amanda's channel too!?
@thienkhantrannguyen2643
@thienkhantrannguyen2643 Жыл бұрын
Sau khi xem đc video này mình mới nhận ra được đúng là bản thân đang nhẫm lẫn giữa “ lười biếng” và “ mệt mỏi”. Cảm ơn video đã tiếp thêm động lực cho mình, ít nhất mình cũng hiểu ra đc bản thận không “ lười biếng” chỉ là đang “ kiệt sức”. Ngừng trách móc và cảm thấy thất vọng về bản thân hớn, cố gắng nỗ lực nhiều hơn. Everything is gonna be ok❤
@SueCarrero
@SueCarrero 3 жыл бұрын
“That thing that you once passionate may be the reason of your burnout and you might even hate it”. This made me cry because i never thought id hate it. I miss loving it.
@Bella-tr8cy
@Bella-tr8cy 3 жыл бұрын
same,I ususally love watching my idols but now I just don't feel anything...:( I miss having things to love
@gay.man.Dexter
@gay.man.Dexter 3 жыл бұрын
I know I had so many things I used to love but now all I want to do is lay down and ignore everything
@foxfire5092
@foxfire5092 3 жыл бұрын
@@Bella-tr8cy maybe you just outgrew them. There’s only so much love you can feel towards celebrities bc it stops at a certain point...they’re still strangers
@Bella-tr8cy
@Bella-tr8cy 3 жыл бұрын
@@foxfire5092 yeah,i always realise that😔🐧
@edthetransformer69
@edthetransformer69 3 жыл бұрын
Same
@SwitchandClickOfficial
@SwitchandClickOfficial 3 жыл бұрын
So glad this showed up for me when it did. Being a creator has ups and downs, and it's tough to tell when you have burnout.
@neverburstx4638
@neverburstx4638 3 жыл бұрын
Same 😔
@AndrewFioretti
@AndrewFioretti 3 жыл бұрын
Betty hope you’re ok.
@SuperkickStampede
@SuperkickStampede 3 жыл бұрын
Hang in there friend. Sometimes life gets hard and we have to remind ourselves we are only human. Everyone who sees this, I wish you all the best in life. Take care of yourselves 😎✌️
@caslynwhiteheart4572
@caslynwhiteheart4572 3 жыл бұрын
Exactly
@bcob8989
@bcob8989 3 жыл бұрын
Only burnouts I have are in my srt🤣💯🤑
@PitBoss_ZA
@PitBoss_ZA 3 жыл бұрын
Explained everything I was experiencing at one stage. It started causing health problems. I quit my job as a result. I'm feeling much better now. Found a new job and my health is improving.
@ray2shifty769
@ray2shifty769 3 жыл бұрын
Happy for you man blessings from my sides 💯
@Irisgomesjmjfaith
@Irisgomesjmjfaith 3 жыл бұрын
Same. Still need to get away from the toxic person who started it all.
@edith-jj2su
@edith-jj2su 3 жыл бұрын
that’s great man!
@REALmknj
@REALmknj 3 жыл бұрын
"Health"
@settratheimperishable4093
@settratheimperishable4093 Жыл бұрын
I have now discovered that not only am I lazy, I am *also* burnt out. Neat.
@laurenanaseng111
@laurenanaseng111 4 ай бұрын
Same
@_quixote
@_quixote 3 ай бұрын
@@laurenanaseng111we’re finished
@jakephillips6906
@jakephillips6906 3 жыл бұрын
This video made every bit of sense to me. Im 17, i dont go out, i dont party, have very little friends, and already work 5 days a week, every week. My parents say I am depressed, but “burnt out” is exactly what I am feeling right now.
@kendrickfootballchelsea799
@kendrickfootballchelsea799 3 жыл бұрын
Ok you need someone to talk 2 and support you in life like someone who can do favors help you something, motivate you like an older cousin or a friend who you know you can trust with you're life.i wouldn't recommend your parents because sometimes they can be the main reason for your stressing.You can even be close with your brother or sister depending if you have 1 and tell them what you want and need so you don't have all the pressure on you alone I'm 19 I'm just giving you advice Because I had the same feeling 👍🏻
@jakephillips6906
@jakephillips6906 3 жыл бұрын
thanks for all the nice comments guys💯
@ThuHa-hd6cx
@ThuHa-hd6cx 3 жыл бұрын
poor you:(( keep your chin up !!!
@ankitaarora7621
@ankitaarora7621 3 жыл бұрын
Hey child..talk to ur family and friends..face it like any other bad phase of life..trust me..it will pass.
@shmilyfischer
@shmilyfischer 3 жыл бұрын
The first thing you need to do in my opinion is to start from fresh in a new place with new people that don't know you from before. That will for sure help you with friends and partying which will make you much happier. Talking from experience, feel you 💓
@sshee_L
@sshee_L 3 жыл бұрын
Me: **having a burnout** My parents: *"it's probably just a phase and it's probably bc of your devices"* **KZbin being my therapy** **online friends understanding and making me feel better**
@XKeizakaX
@XKeizakaX 3 жыл бұрын
♥️♥️ i feel you
@LOSSYLADYBUG
@LOSSYLADYBUG 3 жыл бұрын
Same here
@ghostlygod2023
@ghostlygod2023 3 жыл бұрын
Same here
@emoshawn8751
@emoshawn8751 3 жыл бұрын
Sameeee
@theintyadanarsoe4429
@theintyadanarsoe4429 3 жыл бұрын
same here
@FakeOutReads
@FakeOutReads 3 жыл бұрын
The issue I have is I get stressed because I work myself 14+ hours a day. I also get stressed if I’m not working for every available hour because I have the thought that I *could* be working. So if I get stressed because I’m working and I get stressed because I’m not working, how do I not be stressed :/
@FatherHerrmann
@FatherHerrmann 3 жыл бұрын
for me i’m less stressed when there’s a good balance of work and leisure. Don’t overwork to exhaustion, and enjoy your time not working by looking at it as a reward for the hard work you put in. Good luck bro
@spammiboi2323
@spammiboi2323 3 жыл бұрын
Well the thing is that uh, your not even lazy. Your hard working and stuff. Your already burnt out and you cant do anything about it other then make your upload schedule a littler late so that you can actually rest
@westvirginity4602
@westvirginity4602 3 жыл бұрын
Smoke some weed bro
@babyyoda7749
@babyyoda7749 3 жыл бұрын
Shit you ok man?
@DeepFriedWxffles
@DeepFriedWxffles 3 жыл бұрын
Take a break from work
@RecruitGamer395
@RecruitGamer395 10 ай бұрын
I usually never comment on vids like this, but this honestly explains a lot about how I've felt, especially with my art. Through 2016 to early 2022 I was super motivated and passionate with drawing, and while I've had moments where I'll do a decent amount afterwards, there is a lot of space in between with me not even touching my sketchbook. I'm still dealing with the burnout so hopefully I'll get myself motivated to draw more consistently again
@007Agate
@007Agate 3 жыл бұрын
A lot of the time, I would just skip out on my home chores to just sleep. Skip out on my homework to just sleep. This was never an issue before, but I see myself just wanting to sleep more and more often. And when I can’t sleep, I just lay awake in bed. It just feels like sometimes I need a break from life and sleep is how I do it.
@smoke9939
@smoke9939 3 жыл бұрын
yea.
@Yzellya
@Yzellya 3 жыл бұрын
Same
@preston2472
@preston2472 3 жыл бұрын
yea
@cessieamethyst4779
@cessieamethyst4779 3 жыл бұрын
Same 😔
@lilylamelas2057
@lilylamelas2057 3 жыл бұрын
this.
@demonspykz6613
@demonspykz6613 3 жыл бұрын
I nearly cried watching this because they all describe me. I used to be a passionate, excelling, and self-confident boy and now I'm just not. I'm not sure if I'm depressed or just burnout. Or even both. I'm just different from who I used to be because my life went through some rough scenarios. To everyone reading this, have a wonderful week. Edit: I never expected this to get over 100 likes. Thanks so much to everyone, and I hope everyone has an insanely great life.
@rey7184
@rey7184 3 жыл бұрын
im so sorry:( I really hope you feel better soon and things go back to normal for you, have a great day.
@sushih3302
@sushih3302 3 жыл бұрын
I hope your life gets better soon :) As someone who is going through the same thing, I hope you and I can leave this cycle 😔
@demonspykz6613
@demonspykz6613 3 жыл бұрын
@@sushih3302 Thank you so much, and I hope several wonderful things happen in your life that outshine all the negativity. Have a great day.
@demonspykz6613
@demonspykz6613 3 жыл бұрын
@@rey7184 Thank you very much. You're a blessed person. Please keep on spreading this positivity. Have a fantastic day.
@dann3bro412
@dann3bro412 3 жыл бұрын
My experience to yours is pretty similar. A couple years back I was the same outgoing person, and after dealing with a lot of stress and other negative emotions for years straight I’m almost the exact opposite or at most 20% of that same outgoing and enthusiastic person I used to be years back.
@i2misa
@i2misa 3 жыл бұрын
6 Signs You're Burnt Out, Not Lazy 1:05 - "You feel disconnected from everything." 1:47 - "You used to be motivated." 2:14 - "You used to be passionate." 2:45 - "You’ve become moody & irritable." 3:14 - "You’ve neglected your self-care." 3:45 - "These changes happened gradually." To the person reading this, please take care of yourself! if you’re feeling burnt out, try a relaxing activity or get some fresh air. Don’t exhaust yourself too much because it’s not good for your health and body.
@aldreisenpai.2474
@aldreisenpai.2474 3 жыл бұрын
@Xeno_Genesys
@Xeno_Genesys 3 жыл бұрын
I wish i could do that without getting grounded.
@Battlebot111
@Battlebot111 3 жыл бұрын
@@Xeno_Genesys I know exactly what you’re talking about
@bread8364
@bread8364 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks
@loriza1970
@loriza1970 3 жыл бұрын
thank you for this 💬
@damian928
@damian928 Жыл бұрын
Currently a high school senior right now applying to college and juggling 9 ap courses. My motivation went out the window which is strange because I am usually a motivated student. Thank you for this video.
@mitchhills1244
@mitchhills1244 3 жыл бұрын
“You used to be motivated” hits home for me! I genuinely like to work, I’ve been a hard worker my whole life but lately, I just don’t want to do anything. Time for a break!
@AviationVlogger
@AviationVlogger 3 жыл бұрын
Me too... I've always loved working and had a specific schedule I would stick to that made me happy. But now I find myself trying almost every day I work to get the day off. It feels like laziness, but it's more of the fact that I am just exhausted and need time to myself.
@djay00009
@djay00009 3 жыл бұрын
You probably deserve it
@cxkietxa
@cxkietxa 3 жыл бұрын
I need time to myself but I don't have the time
@benjaminkoh3923
@benjaminkoh3923 3 жыл бұрын
Me too T_T Last time during my secondary school, I take part in a lot of activities like running, chess and piano. I even make a schedule for myself to balance out my academics and the activities. But now, I literally give up on all the activities I loved and left behind feeling exhausted. My mom said she don't understand why I give up on those activities I loved. Hopefully I can regain my motivations and passion.
@rashiagarwal3113
@rashiagarwal3113 3 жыл бұрын
Yes me too
@peighton1268
@peighton1268 3 жыл бұрын
I wish that my family would understand. it's so hard to move on / keep living and yet to be called "lazy", "ungrateful", and "selfish" every day is so tiring.
@jezstxp4188
@jezstxp4188 3 жыл бұрын
Your none of these things, family don’t understand who you really are and they don’t try to. They will try to come at you when they can so they can kill your feelings even deeper and, It will hurt more then ever, just know they are people who feel your pain and those are the people who love you more then anyone, and I’m sorry people treat you this way I can’t relate so I can’t say I will but I’ll send caring things to others to Cheer them up I guess :D ! Your an amazing person who deserves all the love ❤️❤️
@fahlse5106
@fahlse5106 3 жыл бұрын
sadly, since I've heard this so many times, I've learned to ignore it. But sometimes it's just too much and it hurts you know? I literally failed one class during one quarter and my mom acted like I was a disappointment, a failure, and no longer needed. I try my best in school, since it's hs. I'm slow at doing homework, I just can't keep up. after that happened, my mom acted like I never existed for like 3-6 days and constantly saying to my younger brother, "you're my only hope, don't be like him." like it just hurts to hear someone say that, especially when I'm doing my best.
@vuklazic3620
@vuklazic3620 3 жыл бұрын
Maybe you should just change your profile picture
@fahlse5106
@fahlse5106 3 жыл бұрын
@@vuklazic3620 I don't think pfp has anything to do with this 😕
@gmortyyyyy
@gmortyyyyy 3 жыл бұрын
literally tho
@zavaraninoveuhorky
@zavaraninoveuhorky 2 жыл бұрын
1) you feel disconnected from everything 0:55 2) you used to be motivated 1:35 3) you used to be passionate 2:02 4) you became moody or irritable 2:33 5) you neglected your self-care 3:03 6) theese stages happened gradually 3:33 As someone who´s burned out because of school can relate, all you need to do is just stop when youre feeling overwhelmed
@Deleted_Cat
@Deleted_Cat 2 жыл бұрын
Hello
@HHMOON
@HHMOON 2 жыл бұрын
I try to stop like you say but nothing change??
@shadowking278
@shadowking278 2 жыл бұрын
I just hope it gets better. I have been feeling depressed and burnt out for a couple weeks now. I want to try and do things that cheers me up like playing my guitar but my siblings don’t really help out much with the house and my parents are oblivious to how I’m feeling because they think I am being lazy. I’ve been moving for too long. I haven’t gotten any good sleep. And I can’t say anything because I don’t want to upset my parents.
@donnamariedavidson5065
@donnamariedavidson5065 2 жыл бұрын
@@shadowking278 I encourage you to talk to your mom or dad and start off by saying how much you have appreciated them in all that they've done for ya you. Then, genuinely say you don't want to be a burden because you care for them. But that you need to talk to them. They'll listen. I wish you the best!
@melodium10
@melodium10 Жыл бұрын
@@donnamariedavidson5065 telling parents your problem is like adding another problem to your life
@SillyGoose-hp6zi
@SillyGoose-hp6zi Жыл бұрын
I wish I saw this sooner because I’m already suffering from anxiety and depression.. and i can’t really find a way to get help because there’s no one to really trust
@misscrazy1016
@misscrazy1016 3 жыл бұрын
I feel like the most tiring thing is the fact you feel *horrid* for laying around, for not always be working and running around for everyone’s praise and approval, even yours. You get upset with yourself, you resent yourself for being unable to get up and work, how tired you constantly feel despite how bad you feel the need to work. Sometimes it feels like there’s no worth to you if you don’t work hard and have get noticed for it, you existing wouldn’t be near enough for you, and you get sick of being burnt out, but that whole thought process is burning you out even further and you don’t know how to stop it. (Personally, another reason I’ve been stressing is because we’ll be starting physical school very soon, something that I’m personally not ready for, ive been finding myself just wasting away this month just stressing it instead of enjoying it, and I hate that I don’t have enough faith in myself to pull through school this year)
@MatearlFort
@MatearlFort 3 жыл бұрын
I know how that feels: you’re tired and a part of you wants to take a break. But that other part is so loud and is telling yourself to push through and to get things done. When you do take a break, you feel awful, almost like you don’t deserve this break because you’re not doing anything. If you think of taking a break as a necessary part of working in order to work at full capability, it may not feel as guilt-wrenching. What has worked for me is taking more and more breaks. The more you do something, the easier (or less anxious-filled) it gets. You got this~
@jayders1
@jayders1 3 жыл бұрын
You got this, I love you
@misscrazy1016
@misscrazy1016 3 жыл бұрын
@@MatearlFort THIS, YES! And I have tried, but it always feels like you have to EARN a break to rest
@misscrazy1016
@misscrazy1016 3 жыл бұрын
@@jayders1 thank you, I love you too
@safarinuggets9388
@safarinuggets9388 3 жыл бұрын
You and @Matsarl Fort both hit this exactly on the head! I feel like I always need to be working because I enjoy working, however I’ve gotten to a point where I am too tired and such. Then I get disappointed in myself for not working…
@kiranhamza8107
@kiranhamza8107 3 жыл бұрын
"The mirror is my best friend, because when I cry, it doesn't laugh"
@jadencabrera7809
@jadencabrera7809 3 жыл бұрын
Relatable:(
@_moochaa
@_moochaa 3 жыл бұрын
It's just true
@tmackfn3125
@tmackfn3125 3 жыл бұрын
No it mimics you even worse lool
@dztroyer1153
@dztroyer1153 3 жыл бұрын
r/im14andthisisdeep
@shahidsuleman7427
@shahidsuleman7427 3 жыл бұрын
Mine broke 😔
@Name-nx6ef
@Name-nx6ef 3 жыл бұрын
I'm more comfortable talking with random strangers who are willing to listen. Cuz sometimes they may understand you more than you expected from your relatives
@greenbanana1001
@greenbanana1001 3 жыл бұрын
All my relatives say “back in my day” it’s like well have you tried raising kids in a pandemic no? So don’t keep saying to me back in my day this is my day and I feel down and stressed I’m allowed to have human emotions without someone comparing
@pluutoop
@pluutoop 3 жыл бұрын
Yeap.
@dragonballz2560
@dragonballz2560 3 жыл бұрын
I felt that too. No judgment. Just ears.
@Kirbyman1223
@Kirbyman1223 3 жыл бұрын
My mom gets offended by the idea of me relying on my internet friends for support instead of her even though she sometimes makes me feel irritated
@ryannechvatal9888
@ryannechvatal9888 3 жыл бұрын
@@Kirbyman1223 you disrespect your mother by relying on other people family members.
@leveece
@leveece 8 ай бұрын
Whoever is speaking in this video, their voice is very calm and inviting. My children, when they heard her voice they stopped what they were doing and listened to the entire video. I know the animation had something to do with it too. Great video 😊
@mythical_vii5573
@mythical_vii5573 3 жыл бұрын
I thought I was just lazy, and this helped me realized that I'm not lazy. I've been on stage 5 for 5 years and I've always felt hopeless about my personal life. I'm glad I came across this video because I can somewhat see a way out of this life but I'm still discouraged to do so. I hope I can make it out and be the person I once was 5 years ago. thank you Psych
@fumomofu
@fumomofu 3 жыл бұрын
After seeing this one and the depression one I feel like I might have some issues but tbh I still think I’m just trippin Mainly because I relate to all the signs
@julitimev8680
@julitimev8680 3 жыл бұрын
i agree, i was like how am i tired, i know i have to do it but i dont want to, i always said to myself that i am an expert procastinator
@wishtheworldwasdifferent8235
@wishtheworldwasdifferent8235 3 жыл бұрын
Me too. You are not alone.
@micahbell1009
@micahbell1009 3 жыл бұрын
Your jus lazy
@appysharma6238
@appysharma6238 3 жыл бұрын
Same here ..ur not alone...hope you do well in future ...best wishes...
@maikelbond7
@maikelbond7 3 жыл бұрын
People don’t just click on this video for no reason, I hope everyone is doing well❤️
@ABexLaHex
@ABexLaHex 3 жыл бұрын
Its interesting
@PlatnumTrigger
@PlatnumTrigger 3 жыл бұрын
number 5 on the list hits me hard, even tho there is a girl texting my phone alot, i still cant take my self to bother to reply, an d the simplest work gets me exhausted, im scared man
@PlatnumTrigger
@PlatnumTrigger 3 жыл бұрын
not to differ from the fact that have a crush on her i just cant, do anything, what if im actually separating myself from everyone until its too late for me to turn back man
@hotdogdude5932
@hotdogdude5932 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks man
@Rxdemption-wv1yb
@Rxdemption-wv1yb 3 жыл бұрын
I'm not
@kovumari
@kovumari 3 жыл бұрын
Why did I start crying when you mentioned of how motivated I was before It litterally hurts I can´t motivate myself or have a passion for something
@woo69
@woo69 3 жыл бұрын
:((
@kingakrisztinaszekely4977
@kingakrisztinaszekely4977 3 жыл бұрын
It's not your falt. I feel like that a lot and the only thing you can do is trying to do your tasks slowly and rewarding yourself when you do little things. :) hope you'll get better
@Glitchedchannel230
@Glitchedchannel230 3 жыл бұрын
yea... that one strikes you in the heart like a knife when u realize it.
@mcflycraze7061
@mcflycraze7061 3 жыл бұрын
Me too
@shellafransisca2760
@shellafransisca2760 3 жыл бұрын
I thought I was the only one who cried watching this video because of how much I can relate to the signs :((
@tilleisbaer3560
@tilleisbaer3560 Жыл бұрын
Since I started working as a teacher, I developed every single sign that were mentioned in this video. In addition, the only thing I see during the week is my work and worst of all, it feels like a vicious circle. Even in the weekends I catch myself thinking about my students, how to improve my lessons, how I can achieve further education for myself, the list goes on. I love my profession, but currently it makes me feel like I chose the wrong path.
@HocineLemlikchi
@HocineLemlikchi 11 ай бұрын
Teaching is a profession which burns you out.
@1p1rn1pr1dh1n
@1p1rn1pr1dh1n 3 жыл бұрын
I am pretty lazy but when I have something important like exams and assignments I give my all. I am having exams right now and the past few days I was fine and doing my best but nowadays I don't have motivation to do anything like studies and grooming myself.. My everyday routine is a mess. I thought it was all my laziness getting over me but now I understood that it was something else... I was really blaming myself for being lazy and whatnot but now I know the real reason... Thank you so much psych2go.
@anagha.s9445
@anagha.s9445 3 жыл бұрын
Same situation here🙌
@kelvinsmixtape2839
@kelvinsmixtape2839 3 жыл бұрын
I guess I'm the only one who have never done any assignment and Graduated...
@1p1rn1pr1dh1n
@1p1rn1pr1dh1n 3 жыл бұрын
@@anagha.s9445 hope you'll feel better soon and good luck for your exam or assignment or whatever important stuff you have
@lebogangkgwatla3381
@lebogangkgwatla3381 3 жыл бұрын
Xe
@stonkthak3685
@stonkthak3685 3 жыл бұрын
i am just tired
@lauryw
@lauryw 3 жыл бұрын
as a Lazy person, when im usually "being lazy" is to gather/recover my energy to do stuff, but now it feels like i cant gather anything at all, it feels like my energy never "fills up" and im just surviving instead of living
@oheyimviktoria3673
@oheyimviktoria3673 3 жыл бұрын
it’s the same for me
@astro-lj4re
@astro-lj4re 3 жыл бұрын
lazy from being lazy ???
@TheLocknesss
@TheLocknesss 3 жыл бұрын
you wont be good at using your body if you never use your body goes for the same with anything in life
@thomasduarte2260
@thomasduarte2260 3 жыл бұрын
@@astro-lj4re No they’re saying they used to be lazy to fuel themselves to be productive. Now when they are being lazy (decompressing) they don’t feel that same energy they got from being lazy.
@Djlukz
@Djlukz 3 жыл бұрын
Sounds like your being extra lazy
@QueenMellon
@QueenMellon 3 жыл бұрын
This hit hard, I've slowly lost interest in everything throughout my life, and now I feel like I'm existing for no reason. I've been diagnosed with severe depression, but it just seems like everything is getting worse.
@SteffOrSomething
@SteffOrSomething 3 жыл бұрын
hey your existence is important, never doubt that. everything is gonna be okay. try finding smth new you like, take your meds and drink lots of water♡
@mrunalpatil7323
@mrunalpatil7323 3 жыл бұрын
Plzz...don't think that...even I am going through the same stage in my life..but I am trying to cope with it and get out of it.so don't think that u r alone
@amoghtripathi3466
@amoghtripathi3466 3 жыл бұрын
@ابو رايش he was able to express what was going through his life and a fly can't. He can get help from people who care about him, a fly can't. A person talked crap about him on youtube(YOU), a fly can't
@JDP5058
@JDP5058 3 жыл бұрын
@ابو رايش The difference is that human beings are able to change and become something great, they're able to change themselves to be great people. Let me put it a different way, imagine someone you love or care for is going through the same thing, would you still have that attitude? Everyone matters to someone, and if you're basically saying he's about as valuable as a fly, you clearly don't understand that fact.
@Praneshpm23
@Praneshpm23 3 жыл бұрын
@ابو رايش ,yes probably life has no meaning..but just live..one day you will die ...just survive untill that
@aura_studio_
@aura_studio_ Жыл бұрын
This video really saved me. I am moving to Europe next month, but instead of being excited and preparing for the move, I have been laying around doing nothing. I was also feeling emotionally quite unstable. I thought there was something wrong with me or that I really did not want to move, but now I realise I was just burned out due to the high stress of all these changes. Moving to a new country and leaving your whole life can be overwhelming and I guess I was not coping with it well. Psych2GO you are a saviour
@Haurent
@Haurent 3 жыл бұрын
Basically how I feel whenever I wanna draw. Gladly I'm a way calmer person now and I can move on from my burnout slowly but surely
@bladeofSteele
@bladeofSteele 3 жыл бұрын
You could ease yourself back into by trying some no-pressure drawing. A couple ways I do this are by using a buddha board to paint with water and it dries so fast without a trace and I know that so I can't hold pressure over the outcome. Another way is to draw with pen on cheap paper. You can't erase it to fix it, so let the mistakes happen. It's on bad paper (napkin, notebook, sticky note) so you're not going to do anything special with this drawing, so just play around with forms and techniques without pressure.
@nasimgddadi1804
@nasimgddadi1804 3 жыл бұрын
I like small girl . How old are you
@obamarequiem7703
@obamarequiem7703 3 жыл бұрын
@@nasimgddadi1804 what.
@jaylenackerman9349
@jaylenackerman9349 3 жыл бұрын
@@nasimgddadi1804 lmao
@nasimgddadi1804
@nasimgddadi1804 3 жыл бұрын
@@obamarequiem7703 are you girl
@jxmiea9808
@jxmiea9808 3 жыл бұрын
I never realised that people other than myself felt somewhat detached from their lives, I always felt as if I was alone whenever I thought that I wasn't who I am. It's somewhat nice to know I'm not alone in this
@Mrwisterks
@Mrwisterks 3 жыл бұрын
Boi yah ain't no main character
@johnathan7050
@johnathan7050 3 жыл бұрын
@@Mrwisterks boutta say that too 🤣🤣
@gukoshii
@gukoshii 3 жыл бұрын
Yeah same
@darien8360
@darien8360 3 жыл бұрын
Everyone at times feels disconnected from themself, or unmotivated. You aren't alone in your stress, anxiety, and so on. There are many people out there who relate and feel the same
@Georgiee_619
@Georgiee_619 3 жыл бұрын
Same here but now I'm worse with a girlfriend and a daughter but I do r regret my daughter just I wish I could of waited I didn't really wanted to be with her mom and now it's hard to leave my girlfriend like one of my friends said no matter how lonely I am never gonna catch me on dating sites
@jasminefilmslol9901
@jasminefilmslol9901 3 жыл бұрын
This has now only randomly come up on my recomended but by listening to this I’ve only now realized that a couple months ago what I thought was me being dramatic was just me being burnt out. I’d often feel what you had perfectly described a feeling I could never put my finger on (depersonalization) I felt this very often and would never have an appetite. I was like this for a pretty long while and yes now I have gotten better it really does make me realize how I even pulled through…. I hope everyone takes the time to take care of themselves :))
@Acelyn_11
@Acelyn_11 3 жыл бұрын
I feel like I’m just being dramatic. I mean there are so many other things I could do but I just lay in bed all day feelings sorry for myself
@janewinchester570
@janewinchester570 3 жыл бұрын
I feel I'm in the de-personalisation zone again. Annoys me that im fully aware I am, but I don't want to leave it right now. Feeling melancholic, neither here nor there....is comforting for a short while. I've got to that point where I'm so stressed, upset, anxious, worried, determined, motivated, unsure, self criticising, devoid, miserable, positive, tired, irritable, ecstatic, hyper.........I'm just tired. I like the middle ground. Burn out finally gives me a moment of nothing. Brains suck.
@janewinchester570
@janewinchester570 3 жыл бұрын
I feel more aware...self aware, awake and here in burnt out. It's the worst. Self reflection. I try start again, but mostly enjoy it for a while and dive back into groundhog day. Its very hard to choose.
@lostfire4556
@lostfire4556 3 жыл бұрын
Same here bud
@mathildahinape4215
@mathildahinape4215 Жыл бұрын
Never thought of Burnt out...I thought I was lazily hardworking or such a lazy person myself... Thank you so much for this..
@abmmm9949
@abmmm9949 3 жыл бұрын
I realized my room is like my life. When I was down in the dumps, my room looked no less than absolute dump. It was disgusting to look at. Yet I slept in it. As I pushed myself to work towards being better, my room started becoming spacious. Doing sheets everyday, placing bags and shoes and books at a certain place. It's a hard struggle still, burnout is intolerably frustrating Edit: Wow, I didn't know so many felt the same. It's kind of warming to know I'm not alone in it. Hope you all always have a clean room 😊 !
@EmanNagi
@EmanNagi 3 жыл бұрын
Same. And besides my room, I eat very very little these days although I suffer from Anemia and lack of Vitamin D which I spent days without taking. God!
@grimreefer2329
@grimreefer2329 3 жыл бұрын
@@EmanNagi try getting sunlight more, might help
@chxrlzchucky7509
@chxrlzchucky7509 3 жыл бұрын
I keep losing interest in things I loved to do at first I thought it was just me growing up but I don't feel like that's what is happening
@SuperSaiyanScandinavian
@SuperSaiyanScandinavian 3 жыл бұрын
this is so true. im still pretty down in the dumps and i dont care of my room or myself. even my damn hygiene has gone to shit whenever im not going out in public
@Mary-Ann_B_Mabaet
@Mary-Ann_B_Mabaet 3 жыл бұрын
This felt nice to read. I made an Architectural Thesis on the Chaotic Semblance of Life and Room back in College. Who we are, or what happens to us, is both reflected and maintained, or not maintained, in our Home.
@technicaldifficulties2206
@technicaldifficulties2206 3 жыл бұрын
I’m not even like sad or anything remotely negative, I think it’s just the fact I’m far too comfortable being by myself than with others, if anyone can relate then don’t worry you ain’t alone :)
@boozxyy
@boozxyy 3 жыл бұрын
same
@gabyzz1331
@gabyzz1331 3 жыл бұрын
I like to be alone But sometimes I feel kinda numb
@LucianaCalderón-e5k
@LucianaCalderón-e5k 3 жыл бұрын
@@gabyzz1331 same
@samanthakim5035
@samanthakim5035 3 жыл бұрын
@@gabyzz1331 Same
@renewoodward793
@renewoodward793 3 жыл бұрын
Yea I like to just listen to music and read I don’t go out much BC I hate being around people
@gsen952
@gsen952 3 жыл бұрын
Even if I tell about this to my mother she wouldn’t even believe me . She would just say I’m lazy and making excuses .
@junemarieweaver974
@junemarieweaver974 3 жыл бұрын
You’re mother doesn’t sound supportive. Sometimes we don’t have to confirm our beliefs through other’s opinions; sometimes you know something for yourself. You have to be your own advocate in life.
@gsen952
@gsen952 3 жыл бұрын
@@cleanwalrus actually I have to see a therapist , I did go to one once, but I didn’t feel comfortable so I didn’t continue .
@Kali-8
@Kali-8 3 жыл бұрын
Same bro
@GlowVolve
@GlowVolve 3 жыл бұрын
@@Kali-8 subah jaldi uth te jaa aur phone use karna band kar
@theinnovativebuddy4790
@theinnovativebuddy4790 3 жыл бұрын
@@cleanwalrus yeh u are absolutely correct
@nicoler9522
@nicoler9522 5 ай бұрын
Your videos are so helpful. I recently mentioned to my husband that I feel so lazy/unmotivated. To which he replied that I'm clearly not lazy, I'm just dealing with stuff right now. He listed all the things I've done and like doing (hikes, gardening etc) and said that a lazy person doesn't do those things. I really needed to hear that. I've been so emotional/moody/anxious lately and can't seem to shake it. I feel defeated, I hated the idea of taking meds but have a doctors appointment booked. I've also talked to HR at work about taking leave for a little while to get this under control. Sometimes you just need someone to say 'its ok to take a break'.
@atlantica4009
@atlantica4009 3 жыл бұрын
I seemed to have burnout during this past school year. It was so hard for me to transition from being motivated for school every day to sitting at my computer day in and day out. It was disappointing because I went from a straight-A student with so many hopes and passions to feeling as if nothing mattered anymore so” why even try”. I'm glad you're sharing this message and I'm not alone in feeling this way. Thank you so much.
@PikanationStudios
@PikanationStudios 3 жыл бұрын
Same
@AerisaNaeva
@AerisaNaeva 3 жыл бұрын
I can relate to you
@FabianRuiz-cf7bz
@FabianRuiz-cf7bz 3 жыл бұрын
Yeah in High school I felt more committed, but now with online class structures I can’t really see what’s the point.
@snigdhasinha8527
@snigdhasinha8527 3 жыл бұрын
I relate to this so much. My parents just won't understand why my marks been degrading. It's honestly good to know that I'm not alone.
@BLACK-H4T
@BLACK-H4T 3 жыл бұрын
Same.
@darrelarno9151
@darrelarno9151 3 жыл бұрын
Back then I was so passionate about fitness, I can do more than a hundred push-up. Now just twenty is a chore, this video brings to light what I've been went thru, thanks!
@ItsStribe
@ItsStribe 3 жыл бұрын
On god
@alijaafar1753
@alijaafar1753 3 жыл бұрын
Me too
@sujal6345
@sujal6345 3 жыл бұрын
Same but now I am a fat f***
@sujal6345
@sujal6345 3 жыл бұрын
@@tuxedocream I don't what is happening with me.My height and weight are just increasing and increasing.
@navidmehdi6
@navidmehdi6 3 жыл бұрын
If only you kept it up you could become saitaman
@thefrootloop9408
@thefrootloop9408 3 жыл бұрын
I live in a very toxic household where my family just doesn't understand how hard I push myself and how hard it is for me to get out of bed in the morning. It's gotten to a point where I've lost my sense of purpose. I'm tired and it's getting harder to stay conscious...
@bentalize110
@bentalize110 3 жыл бұрын
I’ve lost all sense of purpose and feel the same, trying to get out of bed this morning literally felt like being hit by a car. I wanted to cry but couldnt
@thefrootloop9408
@thefrootloop9408 3 жыл бұрын
@@bentalize110 I understand that. Thanks for responding 😊
@supercandygamer18
@supercandygamer18 3 жыл бұрын
I have a toxic father who'd I've been dealing with for four years. And since around October of 2020, he'd become more harder to deal with and I am drained emotionally, physically, and mental. I'd neglected self grooming myself, my hair's always messy and my face is dry and has acne. I would randomly have these episodes where it feels like my mind is malfunctioning and I would feel depressed and lonely since I don't really any friends that I talk to that aren't from discord. I use to be so passionate about my KZbin channel, now I can't even work on a one minute video and as a result my channel has slowed died. It honestly hurts a lot since it's my dream becoming a KZbinr and I feel like that's being taken away from me. What really sucks is that despite me and my mother having a close relationship, it's hard talking to her about how I'm feeling now because she doesn't understand me and she is sorta old school. (Back when mental health wasn't taken seriously) I'd just turn 17 but I really want a job and learn how to drive so that once I turn 18, I can get as far away as humanly possible from my father. I will be taking matters into my own hands and finding me a therapist and I don't care if my father gets mad at for not telling him.
@LucyWest370
@LucyWest370 3 жыл бұрын
Those white eyes mean positivity ahead! Fellow gorillaz fan
@thefrootloop9408
@thefrootloop9408 3 жыл бұрын
@@LucyWest370 ✌️😁💙
@aalice5217
@aalice5217 Жыл бұрын
After watching this video, I cried and realized I did not become a lazy fraud but rather I am feeling burned out. I used to be very passionate about my academics and some kind of an overachiever, over time I started to feel a sense of dread and detachment from everything and now it all clicks. I am still crying because I don't know what is the next step for me to take and I still feel so stuck but I will try my best to get out of this situation
@syedasara7214
@syedasara7214 Жыл бұрын
Same! Used to be so good in academics but now i just can't concentrate plus exams are in just 4 days.. and worst part is that no one understands.
@JonSudano
@JonSudano 3 жыл бұрын
I struggled with my weight my entire life and my job stress compounded my emotional eating habits. I've gotten surgery and extensive therapy for my depression and anxiety medication and life is much easier to navigate, but there's still lots of work to be done until my goals are realized. Life isn't perfect and you'll never have 100% control over the things that make life suck. Small, easily achievable goals on a daily basis help set off a domino effect, combined with self care and self forgiveness. "Today, I'll make my bed. Tomorrow, I'll walk to the mailbox. You didn't do the dishes last night but that's fine. You're not any less of a person for it." Motivation doesn't just materialize out of thin air when you're depressed and you don't give a shit about anything anymore. Therapy works wonders if you let it, followed by surrounding yourself with people who love and appreciate you for the things you do. Anxiety is a bitch. It tricks you into thinking you're not doing enough to accomplish the goals you set for yourself. Pace yourself, life is extremely long and it's not a straight line towards success.
@loref4200
@loref4200 3 жыл бұрын
@kirsten9407
@kirsten9407 3 жыл бұрын
thank you king 👑
@ratnaumiazizah2974
@ratnaumiazizah2974 3 жыл бұрын
This, Idk why I shade my tears after reading your opinion. In fact that now I'm doing my thesis that already change it's title for 5 times because my lecturer really don't like about my working, when my friend alredy done with their work, I'm just starting all over again from the first step. I really can't tell to my family about that, because I don't want to worried them. So that every night I just deep down my stress in my room, and feels like gonna end everything in not a normal way. To think about injured myself is the fastest way, but then I remember a lot of motivation and problems that I've been through but I can still stand as the way I'm now, really give me small strength and motivation to continue my live by facing those problems that standing right in front of me.
@sandscrapper8320
@sandscrapper8320 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks for this totally useless information
@jaycub4573
@jaycub4573 3 жыл бұрын
@@sandscrapper8320 why did you feel the need to comment that?
@ognjenpopovic2637
@ognjenpopovic2637 3 жыл бұрын
This voice sounds so comfortable and relaxing i could listen to it for hours
@pants5482
@pants5482 3 жыл бұрын
Yeah that's Amanda Silvera
@lasse9252
@lasse9252 3 жыл бұрын
I actually kinda hate it
@dangerstranger4128
@dangerstranger4128 3 жыл бұрын
@@lasse9252 wow ur so quirky. We totally care😄
@doogsniffedcocaine
@doogsniffedcocaine 3 жыл бұрын
Nigga Shes tellin how to slove Burnouts while you flirting?
@ogi618
@ogi618 3 жыл бұрын
sta se radi
@UberTankred
@UberTankred 3 жыл бұрын
I believe that the construct "laziness" is bullshit, because it doesn't answer why a human being - born with the drive to be active and curious - would choose doing nothing over doing something. I believe that this drive is systematically killed by society and it happens by forcing people to do stuff. It kills their motivation!
@zero.9803
@zero.9803 3 жыл бұрын
i have always been lazy because i never really found any meaning in so many things that make up "life", so why bother? why stress myself out for things that dont make sense for me? i'd much rather spend my time enjoying myself
@forsak3th
@forsak3th 3 жыл бұрын
@@paxrek I think this is true. Who can sustain the type of energy that is needed to be successful in this modern age? You usually can be success in one area of your life with the price of neglect in the other ones.
@crispydrag00n77
@crispydrag00n77 3 жыл бұрын
What the heck dude yes. BEING FORCED TO DO THINGS OVER AND OVER JUST TIRES PEOPLE OUT MAN SUCH AS WORK SCHOOL AND SIDE STUFF. I strongly agree with this comment.
@mellanycs4090
@mellanycs4090 3 жыл бұрын
You’re so right. You should read the book “The laziness lie” by Devon Price👌
@texasgent4694
@texasgent4694 3 жыл бұрын
@@forsak3th Yes I believe that's the price we pay for this "Go Go Go!" Culture that we live in today
@0-Mochi-Chan-0
@0-Mochi-Chan-0 Жыл бұрын
I've been feeling this for about 6 months already and I feel like my habits and behavior downgraded alot. I know I'm still young since I'm just 12 but this video really helped comfort me. If I didn't watch this, I may have just been thinking "You're overdramatic." "Stop the drama, you don't even have mental problems." as a way of comfort since my parents think I'm okay, but I really love your videos. They really helped me whether its about love or depression or laziness I'm concerned about. Thank you for helping me. I really appreciate it, and I think you helped many more people like me, no matter what age they are.
@hellenetyang7752
@hellenetyang7752 5 ай бұрын
You'll be better
@jetpackdino5703
@jetpackdino5703 3 жыл бұрын
I was getting better with my mental health late 2019, but then covid happened. All of that work just washed away. I'm only now getting my life back on track.
@MARK-dn2zm
@MARK-dn2zm 3 жыл бұрын
Yesh the pandemic had an strong influence on out physical and mental health
@Psych2go
@Psych2go 3 жыл бұрын
It's great you're making progress. :) Keep it up JetpackDino!
@Sigma3095
@Sigma3095 3 жыл бұрын
Same here. Life fell apart like lego blocks. But its ok we will get through it and come out stronger! Cheer up! ❤
@spacegirl226
@spacegirl226 3 жыл бұрын
Same here.
@bunnyboo6295
@bunnyboo6295 3 жыл бұрын
Sounds like you bounce back fast share some of your secrets.
@savannah284
@savannah284 3 жыл бұрын
Lockdown has made me suffer even more than usual, i've been losing more sleep and not eating enough nutricious foods, actually im not eating enough. I used to snack every now and then, now i rarely grab a snack, i look for snacks but never end up getting them. yes i still eat but i dont eat enough, and its clearly not healthy for me. I have been told im lazy and it hurts so much, I have had signs of many things, depression, anxiety, and being burnt out. the average time i go to bed is maybe 4am, while i should be asleep at 9pm. its currently 2am and i feel like crying. Edit: Thank you for all the support!
@shanicebrown7681
@shanicebrown7681 3 жыл бұрын
Hush 😞 I have a idea how you are feeling and it is frustrating that I can not give you any advice to make you feel better . Because I am going through something similar , but I don't have a eating problem.
@LovelyMelody_5696
@LovelyMelody_5696 3 жыл бұрын
I have the same experience, I only eat when my parents make dinner and sometimes I skip those. I have to wake up at a certain time and with me going to sleep at like 5am I only get a little over an hour of sleep. I end up falling asleep later in the afternoon, which causes my mom to reprimand me for sleeping during the day. I’ve joined cross country to motivate myself, but with my mental and physical state I can’t handle it. I already have really bad anxiety and stepped out of my comfort zone to join, but it’s more running which my body can’t handle. It’s cross country, so the activities that they do is much harder for me. It’s honestly too much, but I can’t quit because everyone is proud of me for joining. And really if I quit now I’ll just be seen as lazy, and that I quit without even trying. I know the coach and he really wanted me to join, and the senior that motivated me at the start will be leaving next year so I can’t just say that I’ll try again next year. I can’t handle all the pressure my mom and dad put on me. I can’t even tell them anything because I don’t trust them. I’m sorry for ranting about my problems, but I really have no one to talk too.
@savannah284
@savannah284 3 жыл бұрын
@@LovelyMelody_5696 I'm so sorry for that, it's really difficult to run when you're so tired and less motivated, I will be cheering you on behind the screen although i don't know you.
@savannah284
@savannah284 3 жыл бұрын
@@shanicebrown7681 well I'll be hoping for the best for you! I'm sure you'll get through whatever is happening.
@savannah284
@savannah284 3 жыл бұрын
@Darth The Wise thank you for all those kind words, I'm so glad you survived through one of the toughest places to get out of. Its so hard because it feels like you're trapped inside a bottle and cant share your feelings
@xx_nzgamer_xx3783
@xx_nzgamer_xx3783 3 жыл бұрын
Depersonalization: It's good to finally put a name to that feeling I had for sooo long. Thank you.
@kokonut4012
@kokonut4012 3 жыл бұрын
i thought it was an emotional numbness but it is what it is that empty feeling
@hi-ts2bp
@hi-ts2bp 3 жыл бұрын
@7ony yes
@ExoLeo
@ExoLeo 3 жыл бұрын
@@Awgieable you just do it
@drone2936
@drone2936 3 жыл бұрын
@@Awgieable Idk. I honestly don’t. For me, one morning I just woke up sick and tired of being sick and tired. That morning I went for a three hour walk. I walked until my legs hurt, and then walked back to my house. I’m still not sure how to get out of it, but I’ve been exercising 5 days a week. It gives me something to build upon. Sometimes I get suicidal thoughts and I have to yell inside my brain that I like being alive. But I don’t have the answers. I don’t know how other people cope, I just try to focus on the positive. I’m grateful to have roof over my head when so many people are homeless. I feel grateful to have food in my belly when so many people are starving. I feel grateful that I have downtime to relax, when so many people have to slave away just to keep the lights on. I feel grateful that my biggest problem is my mental health, not some life threatening situation that I can sit myself out of. Idk if that helps, but I feel like I’m slowly creating a better life for myself, one brick at a time.
@drone2936
@drone2936 3 жыл бұрын
@@Awgieable You literally just have to force yourself to do it, one step at a time. I know it may sound pathetic, but sometimes you need to count each tiny action as a success. I’ve gone two weeks without leaving my bed and not showering. At that point, just getting out of my sheets was a victory. Add those up. Maybe one day, just uncover your sheets. The next day, sit up straight on your bed. The next day, walk around your room for one minute. The next day, step outside your house and feel the air. It’s tiny steps in the eyes of other people, but you have to force yourself. Do it for yourself. You know that this isn’t a life you want to live, so make an effort to take a step towards the right path.
@lisas3050
@lisas3050 2 ай бұрын
I'm crying over all your comments, everyone. You are guys so relatable. I can't carry this anymore. I'm a science student, and of coz, I need to study. Sometimes I can't focus at all, I push my limit, I wake up at 4 am, and I sleep at 1 am to study, I have 3 hours of sleep every day and now I have a lot of tasks to do, doesn't have enough time to study, and here I am "burnt out"
@lolwutman
@lolwutman 3 жыл бұрын
I wouldn't feel so awful about burnout if I wasn't so painfully aware of it Watching my mental health crumble, seeing opportunities wane and disappear, all while feeling no motivation to seek any change to it, and feeling anxious to even mention it to others
@dlhafuckingcrusader9515
@dlhafuckingcrusader9515 3 жыл бұрын
Being overtly self aware sucks…
@tln_greks2896
@tln_greks2896 3 жыл бұрын
You just gotta up that grindset, it personally helped me
@gymbruh1824
@gymbruh1824 3 жыл бұрын
It's the worst when u see a opportunity sail. Away for. Good
@kawaiisenpai4866
@kawaiisenpai4866 3 жыл бұрын
@LMTV you judge others way too quickly yet advice most of them too seek a therapist, you're just here to troll and it's apparent 💀
@gymbruh1824
@gymbruh1824 3 жыл бұрын
@LMTV I'm wealthy
@KaitoGillscale
@KaitoGillscale 3 жыл бұрын
I love that this video doesn’t portray lazy as a negative, but as a differing behavior from productive/energetic. I often see people who have a lazy mindset shown in media/news as a vastly undesirable trait, but it’s shown a lot of respect in this video. Thanks for that. :)
@akid6524
@akid6524 3 жыл бұрын
Being lazy is a negative behavior.
@Tick10tack
@Tick10tack 3 жыл бұрын
'Lazy, isn't good though tbh
@Phoenix-mn2yt
@Phoenix-mn2yt 3 жыл бұрын
kzbin.info/www/bejne/Y6GrmZVql86Fb80
@realXVI.
@realXVI. 3 жыл бұрын
@@akid6524 I was just abt to say that
@deviousmiscreant4662
@deviousmiscreant4662 3 жыл бұрын
It is definitely an undesirable trait, people who are productive are way more successful in life
@Harajukubarbie333
@Harajukubarbie333 3 жыл бұрын
I called myself lazy and so did my dad but my mom told me it’s ok since I’m depressed and it’s not anyone’s fault especially not mine. I’m so happy to have an awesome mom like her
@kermitcult4845
@kermitcult4845 3 жыл бұрын
Aww
@Harajukubarbie333
@Harajukubarbie333 3 жыл бұрын
@@kermitcult4845 ?
@kermitcult4845
@kermitcult4845 3 жыл бұрын
@@Harajukubarbie333 I’m saying aww because it’s cute how supportive your mother is
@Harajukubarbie333
@Harajukubarbie333 3 жыл бұрын
@@kermitcult4845 I got it after a while but yes it’s cute :) I like your name and pfp btw
@kermitcult4845
@kermitcult4845 3 жыл бұрын
@@Harajukubarbie333 aww thank you!
@anthophila_
@anthophila_ 7 ай бұрын
i watched this video and within the first few minutes i began crying. ive been experiencing these things and never knew what was going on, and tried to do research but no results. im so happy ive found whats been going on so i can fix it and go back to normal.
@passerby9991
@passerby9991 3 жыл бұрын
What surprises me the most about myself, is how I continue to keep on moving and doing my same daily routine. All awhile feeling physically and emotionally drained, no matter the amount of sleep I get. It's as if there's a little optimism in me left, considering that there's no motivation going on.
@renjiaow3742
@renjiaow3742 3 жыл бұрын
Yup.. life on auto pilot sure is fun. Also more fun when you can't connect with anyone no matter how hard you try.. oh and also as you mentioned feeling drained of life no matter how much you sleep :^)
@hannyfadia2246
@hannyfadia2246 3 жыл бұрын
@@renjiaow3742 relatable
@renjiaow3742
@renjiaow3742 3 жыл бұрын
@@hannyfadia2246 Then they tell you they can’t help you just because you express your thoughts about it. Feels like no place in this world for people who have this.
@christopherpnnington2130
@christopherpnnington2130 3 жыл бұрын
I'm so drained
@mukuro8033
@mukuro8033 3 жыл бұрын
Things like that just kinda become 2nd nature to you and people around you that it becomes a norm until It's too late.
@blazepile
@blazepile 3 жыл бұрын
I've always been told I'm a perfectionist and I tend to get frustrated with myself for not achieving goals the first time. I used to try to be a good student, and actually enjoyed drawing and reading. Over the past year, my lack of interest and care in my favorite activities and schoolwork have become more apparent. Also, I just realized of been experiencing depersonalization. Its frustrating when I feel like no matter how hard I try, i can't do something right, when I'm already pushing myself super hard. I thought i was just being lazy, but i think i might just have burnt myself out. Thanks Phsych2Go for making this video, its helped alot
@nia4172
@nia4172 3 жыл бұрын
Im the exact same way. I’ve always been a perfectionist, and I can tell that I’m burnt out and have lost all motivation to do well in school. Thing is I’m so aware of it that it feels like I’ve lost all power to hold onto the motivation I once had. I can see it getting farther and farther away from me, and I can’t do anything about it. Its an awful feeling…
@ignaciomendozagonzalez6067
@ignaciomendozagonzalez6067 3 жыл бұрын
Damn, that makes 3 of us, I’ve been told too that I’m a perfectionist, yet throughout the pandemic I’ve made few productive things that I’m proud of. I thought I was just being lazy and exaggerating so I tried to push myself and practiced playing guitar a lot more but I didn’t get anywhere, I tried doing exercise but just stopped after 3 days and wasted a LOT of time so that just made me more frustrated. Lately I’ve been really irritable and my desk already has a few holes I made with my scissors just cause I got really angry at my computer because it was going way too slow, oh and don’t even get me started on school, but now that I’ve seen this video, then read your comments and seen the similarities, I think I might have burnout haha Thank you though for sharing your experience, it’s great to at least know that I’m not the only one who feels this way ✌️
@iloveme3649
@iloveme3649 3 жыл бұрын
This is exactly what is happening to me, no matter how hard i studied for tests, I would always get bad scores, and I felt like i can't do anything right
@a.198
@a.198 3 жыл бұрын
My exams are so near and I know that I might fail but I have become so demotivated that I am behaving like I don't even care and not studying ( even now I am procrastinating when I am supposed to study ) . Till last year I used to be the class topper. It was just the last semester that I scored bad ( despite of doing hard work) and now I don't even feel like moving forward. For me it has become like either do it the best with full perfectionism or leave it and I am doing the latter one and I hate it here.
@gaaraizallmine
@gaaraizallmine 3 жыл бұрын
Exactly how I feel, but “I have no reason to feel this way”, and “It’s just an excuse to be lazy”, and “It’s my fault.” I find it hard to find joy in what I used to love. I’m not motivated to do what I used to love, I’m just a mess.
@motivation-ish4261
@motivation-ish4261 3 жыл бұрын
Try not to compare yourself and progress of others, you are on your own adventure.. kinda like Bilbo Baggins :)
@semendemon5471
@semendemon5471 3 жыл бұрын
This shall pass too
@motivation-ish4261
@motivation-ish4261 3 жыл бұрын
@@semendemon5471 You sir, are a fking LEGEND!
@path1024
@path1024 3 жыл бұрын
@@semendemon5471 *This too shall pass.
@fernandomaron87
@fernandomaron87 3 жыл бұрын
I love skateboarding, but other stuff happened in life, and i've quit it for a few years, didn't feel as good anymore, as i couldn't find the same happiness while skating, the act of skating didn't change, i did, i was totally burnt out and always worried about money and appointments, that even the stuff i love to do, wasn't the same anymore. After taking a few years off, i've started it back again, and it felt better that ever, now i've been back for 2 years and i don't plan to quit it again anytime soon.
@Luka_3D
@Luka_3D Жыл бұрын
Setting goals and rewards for said goals is i think the best way to counter burnout. Whenever i feel burnt out I come up with a reward for myself if i complete something.
@plasterxkillua8088
@plasterxkillua8088 3 жыл бұрын
This hit hard af. Especially the motivation,and the negative physical,emotional,and mentally- And the moodiness and iritation,it’s been with me almost my whole life
@InshasChoice
@InshasChoice 3 жыл бұрын
Hugs. Who are you giving your energy to? Surround yourself with people who are upbeat and positive, try to be that person yourself. It's a journey but once you change your mindset...
@NoName-yi5cs
@NoName-yi5cs 3 жыл бұрын
@@InshasChoice Sadly I'm leaving with those who doesn't care about me.
@Qwerty-wk3jy
@Qwerty-wk3jy 3 жыл бұрын
I felt it with the upset and the depersonalization part
@plasterxkillua8088
@plasterxkillua8088 3 жыл бұрын
@@InshasChoice I try but I’m just a pessimist. Most of my friends are optimists,and they r nice,but yeah. Thx for the advice 🖤💜
@somudii
@somudii 3 жыл бұрын
@@InshasChoice its genuinely hard to change your mindset when the people around you are always condoning it. No one just seem to cooperate with each other and then you feel like "why tf do I have to change if they don't even try changing themself" but then when you do change you feel like your being too nice for them like my decisions are always clashing.
@allazwawi9586
@allazwawi9586 2 жыл бұрын
I cried watching this. I have always been a highly motivated achievement-oriented person. I'd excel at school and any job or task I was given. but since 2019 I started getting demotivated and felt "trapped" in a perpetual state of inability. it didn't help when I started working in 2021 at a workplace with a workaholic culture. It was my last semester at university and I messed up my grades I felt so guilty about it for months and blamed myself. often when I would be emotional at work my coworkers and supervisor would tell me I am being dramatic. I am very glad I realized I was burnt out and I LOOK FORWARD TO GETTING OUT OF THIS STATE.
@maiageia1240
@maiageia1240 2 жыл бұрын
That's why vacation only lasts for 2 months cuz if longer you'll get Rusty.
@CappuccinO80
@CappuccinO80 2 жыл бұрын
@@maiageia1240 2 months? I wish.
@ryan1993ish
@ryan1993ish 2 жыл бұрын
@@CappuccinO80 ya totally, I feel like they may have meant summer break from school tho
@meyemzrditi2041
@meyemzrditi2041 2 жыл бұрын
Same here, i messed up my last final.
@mikemyon3570
@mikemyon3570 2 жыл бұрын
My dear brothers and sisters, As someone who graduated myself and also messing up here and there, let me tell you that in the end, it DOESN'T MATTER if you messed up that grade! When you look for a job, a life partner or new friends, it will be always you as a person with all your resources & experiences that will take on that challenge. The people who want to hire you/love you/become friends with you will always want to know who YOU as a person are and not what grade you had in a certain class. Remember that. :) So got a bad grade? Whatever. You cannot rewrite time, so let it go. You may still have learned new skills through that class, didn't you? So take the skills & the learnings and incorporate them within you, becoming an even better and even better equipped person than before! You still learned, you still faced the class, you still invested time and effort, you still showed up for the classes & exam. Would you be as harsh on your friends if they would have gotten that grade? No? So why should you be even harsher on yourself? Treat yourself as if you would be your own best friend. :) We all go through things like that, I also did and I also do. Even when I know the things I just wrote for you. We're all humans and in this together. So support will help all of us and that's why I wanna support you. All the best!
@zylafaith9593
@zylafaith9593 3 жыл бұрын
When you are burnt out but people from the old age in your family just labels you lazy and proceeds to tell about how they were raised as hardworkers and productive people during their hardships back in their days
@ED-gw9rg
@ED-gw9rg 3 жыл бұрын
For me, it's always been my parents saying stuff like "power through it," "work harder," "just focus on your work," etc. They probably don't care about my mental health, but are just insisting they do and that I don't have any big problems with mine.
@Psych2go
@Psych2go 3 жыл бұрын
@@ED-gw9rg Yeah, the older generations are raised differently and had different circumstances.
@sriku1000
@sriku1000 3 жыл бұрын
A Very calming Video On, How Your thoughts control your life without you knowing about it kzbin.info/www/bejne/iHLaaYKues9giMk"
@osirusj275
@osirusj275 2 жыл бұрын
Well tell ur older generation ppl do they know how to use tech...twitter,fb,open Gmail etc... Whatever pressure u have put it on them and see how they faces it... Their work in the past is mainly physical now is mental.... Are they expected to score straight As, did they?are they having a good job, good salary? I would burn them with these if I were u.....
@heolelavara8340
@heolelavara8340 2 жыл бұрын
Uneducated and tough people, like my parents. I feel pitty for them. Please don't take them seriously when they talk like that and if you still care about their opinion keep telling them about your achievements, in order to understand that something is wrong that it wasn't before.
@PleaseForgiveYourself
@PleaseForgiveYourself 8 ай бұрын
When you got depression, anxiety, substance abuse issues, and are also a full time caregiver...this does and will happen eventually. Remember to take care of yourself folks, rest when needed or you'll crash n burn.
@TheTzmnian
@TheTzmnian 3 жыл бұрын
Currently crying in my car on my lunch break because how true and relatable everything in this video is.
@RS-uv4uz
@RS-uv4uz 3 жыл бұрын
Whoever or wherever you are, I hope that soon enough you'll be able to remember the cool, the fun, that loving or caring person that you once was again. I hope and know that you'll come back to be the best version of yourself, just like you once was. I'm glad you are facing your emotions and just know that whenever you feel down, the paradox of the negative emotions is that they are the fuel that will push you back into a positive space. A fellow caring stranger.
@TheTzmnian
@TheTzmnian 3 жыл бұрын
@@RS-uv4uz Thank you, I really needed that! I hope you're having a great day!!
@ariellalicht
@ariellalicht 3 жыл бұрын
Me too
@Bad_At_Parties
@Bad_At_Parties 3 жыл бұрын
I definitely relate to that, and have been feeling burnt out lately too, like the universe picked me as a special plaything. Lost some close people recently, watching other close ones die, work a 12 hour shift at work and have to do mandatory overtime while trying to balance my first relationship and my own personal obligations, and it's all starting to stack up on me badly. It's important to try and take the time you have to decompress, as hard as that time can be to find, and to do something to help take your mind off things so that stress isn't a constant weight on your mind. As humans we are so good at taking a stressful situation and making it ten times worse just by letting our brains dream up even more negative thoughts and outcomes because we already feel so suffocated by negativity and it's hard to see a brighter path out. I'm trying to get out of my own head more, relax and not let anxiety and depression get to me, though it's hard sometimes when you have so many reasons to think the way you do. Just have to view your obstacles as challenges to overcome for the betterment of yourself and those you care for, so that your burdens are easier to carry. I hope life turns a kind eye to you, and things get easier for you. I'll be thinking of you and wish the best for you.
@kurtisdeakin
@kurtisdeakin 3 жыл бұрын
*hugs* hitting me the same way
@raedkbaish
@raedkbaish 3 жыл бұрын
After Burnt out, The Good news is u can now rebuild a much fine character of ur self that is highly motivated, focused and disciplined. Hard but possible :)
@pickymonster4307
@pickymonster4307 3 жыл бұрын
How did you do it ?
@paulocostaaaa
@paulocostaaaa 3 жыл бұрын
@@pickymonster4307 nice point
@assclown452
@assclown452 3 жыл бұрын
No that's crap you won't because you'll get burnt out again
@4kday743
@4kday743 3 жыл бұрын
That’s a lie
@Kaiser8361N
@Kaiser8361N 3 жыл бұрын
Is it possible to learn this power?
@colin-7711
@colin-7711 2 жыл бұрын
Just wanted to say that for all burnout people out there, the fact that you managed to recognise that you are burned out is the first step to recovery. Always remember the way to break free is to face the problem and break them down logically and resolve it one by one, step by step. For things that are irresolvable, don’t worry about it since there’s nothing you can do 👍🏼
@jessgeorge5030
@jessgeorge5030 2 жыл бұрын
I need to start that.
@siddhisoni1731
@siddhisoni1731 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks
@chiliiCh
@chiliiCh 2 жыл бұрын
I don't even know why I'm burnout rn huhu
@Th2WolF
@Th2WolF 2 жыл бұрын
no i just want to sleep
@redditors_are_fggits9607
@redditors_are_fggits9607 2 жыл бұрын
Feel burnt out too. I started taking adderall, and it's been somewhat helpful
@cherlynk.8403
@cherlynk.8403 Жыл бұрын
This is truly me. Thank you for letting me know that I'm not lazy. Things have felt like they are falling on me, especially health issues that I've suffered since the murder of my son, and I just can't seem to get it together. Now almost 70 with no family close by, I just don't have any energy.
@mhlaclase178
@mhlaclase178 7 ай бұрын
Good 😊
@justsomerandomguy7693
@justsomerandomguy7693 3 жыл бұрын
School: Have you ever had burnout? Kid: No School: Would you like to
@Psych2go
@Psych2go 3 жыл бұрын
Meow!
@youateeoalt
@youateeoalt 3 жыл бұрын
lol
@greenapple7197
@greenapple7197 3 жыл бұрын
@@Psych2go Well to be honest, I've suffered from burnout and I think I'm improving a bit right now. Not to blame anyone but I'd say my whole burnout that lasted a long time was actually caused by the school. No joke
@Thejoshua_record
@Thejoshua_record 3 жыл бұрын
@@greenapple7197 yeah tbh, me too. same things happened tf T-T
@greenapple7197
@greenapple7197 3 жыл бұрын
@@Thejoshua_record get well soon
@riich.586
@riich.586 3 жыл бұрын
Jesus christ you literally hit every single point like what ive been feeling lately... i think sometimes im also lazy to do stuff because "surely ill do it some other time" but for most of it i think im just burnt out. Thank you for making this video ❤️
@gracefuldice1956
@gracefuldice1956 3 жыл бұрын
Burnt out? There's another word for it- depression. They literally described depression in this vid.
@Someone-n2v4t
@Someone-n2v4t 3 жыл бұрын
Same!
@Jasturtle
@Jasturtle 3 жыл бұрын
Im depressed asf, I've never remembered a time i felt motivated, im just tired about everything, from socialising to doing my work, or to even give a damn about what i used to love. Tl
@pradaprada6259
@pradaprada6259 3 жыл бұрын
@@Jasturtle no kizzy boutta rope myself
@cloudyxjp6775
@cloudyxjp6775 3 жыл бұрын
@@pradaprada6259 same 24 seconds apart
@Figureitoutthen
@Figureitoutthen 3 жыл бұрын
That painful moment when people in your inner circle makes you feel you're a terrible person, Everyday you're in pain and it's no different in being tortured, yeah I'm currently experiencing that😓
@samiksha111
@samiksha111 3 жыл бұрын
Yes they made us lost our self worth and before i felt like i am a bad omen but since i started watching some band group. ..they really helped me just know my self worth
@Figureitoutthen
@Figureitoutthen 3 жыл бұрын
@@samiksha111 Don't worry we'll get thru this, just like they say there is a sunshine after a storm.
@adorned.rednight
@adorned.rednight 3 жыл бұрын
Heard of school? Yes. And lots of competitions and extra classes and co-curricular activities? Yes.
@Figureitoutthen
@Figureitoutthen 3 жыл бұрын
@@adorned.rednight Oh you hate school too? Same here I've never loved school, and I only go to school cause I have too not because I wanted too😓
@yasmineho
@yasmineho 3 жыл бұрын
This
@charispetropoulou2696
@charispetropoulou2696 Жыл бұрын
This video made me feel so much better all this time I thought I was the only one going through this but now I know that I am not alone
@mhlaclase178
@mhlaclase178 7 ай бұрын
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