6 Signs Your Ex DOESN'T Want You Back (And What To Do About It)

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6 Signs Your Ex DOESN'T Want You Back (And What To Do About It)
In this video were going to talk about;
Sign #1: Your Ex Doesn't Respond To You
Sign #2: Your Exes Responses Are Mediocre
Sign #3: Your Ex Blocks You For A Month
Sign #4: Your Ex Friend Zones You
Sign #5: You Become Friends With Benefits
Sign #6: Your Ex Cancels Dates At The Last Minute
I thought it would be really cool if I put together a video that really taught you what signs to look out for if you think your ex doesn't want you back. It shouldn't come as a shock to you that more people who come to my website end up failing to get their exes back than people who do end up getting their exes back.
So, it was really easy for me to pinpoint the behaviors of people who won't get their exes back versus people who will get their exes back. And that's exactly what I've done.
I've looked extensively at about a thousand different situations and pinpointed the interesting "through lines" between negative behaviors and in all there are six that you really need to watch out for. So, what I'm going to do for you is take the six signs and explain them and give you a little bit of a crash course on each of them step by step.
It's actually quite common for an ex to exhibit one of these signs throughout the process. If you start noticing your ex exhibiting 3 signs or more that we are about to talk about then it's time to start worrying. If he or she exhibits three of these signs then maybe it time to start worrying.
Sign #1: Your Ex Doesn't Respond To You - A lot of people get so wrapped up into a No Contact Rule but this is something that happens common where they reach out and there is no response, and after the third attempt there is still no response its maybe time to move on.
Sign #2: Your Exes Responses Are Mediocre - So, when you do reach out to your ex you get some answer that is so minimal, as low as one-word answers that lead to no conversation.
Sign #3: Your Ex Blocks You For A Month - usually when an ex blocks you, normally you get unblocked within a month without having to do anything there is a lot more about blocking but this is the basic you need to know.
Sign #4: Your Ex Friend Zones You - this where you think things are going well and they are responding to you and you think you are getting somewhere but you’re not getting anywhere because your ex has friend zoned you. If you want to know how to get out of that friend zone head over to the website and learn how to get out of that in more detail
Sign #5: You Become Friends With Benefits - so this is the other side of the coin of being friend zoned, you will never be more than friends, but you have some people who think sleeping with their ex is the key thing to getting their ex back. But it isn’t, if you sleep with your ex without a commitment then they know they can keep going on as they are now.
Sign #6: Your Ex Cancels Dates At The Last Minute - so this seems to happen a lot of the time, where you talk to your ex and you’re getting along but you notice when you make plans and when it comes down to it your ex continually backs out
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[@shawnmichaud62]

People need to stop generalizing. Every couple is different. Just because you had a breakup doesn’t mean it’s over forever.

[@akon9819]

True

[@MegaBrandon3]

@Anna Bella I need someone to talk to.I do not think the woman I was dating is into me anymore...she told me we threw

[@nellietanner8310]

@Anna Bella does ut work?

[@MistSGM]

Agreed. People telling us to find another one pisses me off. I want my ex back, not some copy pasted paragraph about moving on and looking for another person. People should fcking understand that looking for another man/woman is hard to do, and it's mentally exhausting to introduce yourself, try to flirt with other people, try to make them happy, impress them or literally go back from scratch.

[@Pdazarith777]

Yes

[@stefanmolejo4578]

The way to get your ex back is not to *try* to get your ex back!

[@shanadarlington2422]

True

[@thehollyannrose]

That is so true. Every single time I just forget about them, they're back xD

[@judzelriley9448]

Stefan Molejo Periodttttttt‼️👌🏾

[@brecantonwine6645]

Stefan Molejo I don’t I don’t even talk to them we jus make eye contact and I always am the one who breaks it because it lowkey kina hurts

[@김별이-j4u]

Stefan Molejo yess!

[@meritm6852]

If he wanted me with him, he would never have gone. Conclusion: he doesn't want me back. He is happy without me.

[@chrisseitercoaching]

Not necessarily.

[@shelly-annjohn9634]

Yes go ahead eith life

[@takingbackmypower9859]

This is how I’m feeling right now

[@1963zinnia]

It depends on the situation. Perhaps not taking accountability of your own mistake is draining , or lack of communication, etc... It's a team work. Or maybe you are just not compatible.

[@leratoseretsi5603]

Sometimes the fighting and toxicity may have been too much, every couple is different

[@alisaiful6717]

Move on.. Face reality that you are no more in her/his life.Dont waste your time getting stuck in past one side relationship.

[@chrisseitercoaching]

I have seen a ton of people that were actually meant to be together get back together after a breakup and get married. It really depends on if your ex is someone you could see a future with.

[@shelly-annjohn9634]

I agree

[@najmaismail1316]

me too

[@freewave5744]

it’s not stuck in the past if you’ve changed

[@taejo4975]

edgarvlone agreed

[@nimcoolad5931]

I thought my ex hated me but he texted me yesterday after like 5 months and said i love you amd my respond i dont remember you

[@chrisseitercoaching]

Hi Nimco...so clearly he does not hate you. You might want to visit my website and check out my Ex Recovery Progrram - EBR Pro Bundle so that you can tap into a blueprint on how to get him back if that is what you want to do.

[@elesianahdodhia6649]

Wow I like it

[@jovette1166]

Maybe he just realize that u are worth it.

[@blessedfavoured3600]

@Jimah Odianosen how about believing in God than wasting time on Nigerian Juju..

[@pascalinemanzambi4452]

😂😂😂😂

[@swagsukeuchiha7599]

Relationships are a waste of time

[@chrisseitercoaching]

I sure hope you are wrong about that! I think they are very important

[@SnowFoxParty]

Not unless you want to make a family

[@goodvibes2567]

Amen

[@mjmk8928]

Yes

[@goodvibes2567]

I think that’s an over simplified-unhealthy relationships are a waste of time. Most people are unhealthy and unsafe so....

[@Sihara.Liyanapathirana]

3:11 Sign One 4:05 Sign Two 4:47 Sign Three

[@Sihara.Liyanapathirana]

5:23 Sign Four

[@Sihara.Liyanapathirana]

6:33 Sign Five

[@Sihara.Liyanapathirana]

7:41 Sign Six

[@chrisseitercoaching]

Ah, but what about the secret sign seven?

[@Sihara.Liyanapathirana]

@@chrisseitercoaching I think I missed it 😂

[@vambo13257]

It is hard, but you need to WALK AWAY !!!!

[@chrisseitercoaching]

In some cases, that's what it takes to get the ex back. Some people can't fake moving on.

[@trizzmontella1569]

Relationships will either work or they won't, the directive's comes from the universe, and there is nothing anyone can do about it.

[@chrisseitercoaching]

Hi Trizz....Well...i guess we will agree to disagree. I think the directives come from someplace a whole lot closer.

[@minionsattack5700]

We only broke up because of misunderstanding, and her ignorance to my explanations.

[@ruthgoh4869]

Same

[@anthonyjackson1265]

Exactly what happened to me as well

[@supahotfire655]

Same. Doesnt communicate and expected a perfect relationship

[@Squishyw]

Felt that

[@decoloniz_afro]

Same here

[@airzzdesire4318]

I personally think if an ex doesn’t block you they are just mature to handle the breakup

[@Gbb93]

Agreed. It can go both ways

[@derikright9249]

Maybe blocking your ex is USUALLY not a good sign. However, I blocked my ex because I wanted her to know I wasn't playing games. It has worked because she is constantly texting me off other people's phones and telling me how sorry she is. Honestly, I blocked her and I still have feelings for her and want to be with her. I'm just trying not to show it out of fear of being hurt. I have ignored her text from her friend's phones, blocked her, told her I wanted to be friends, etc., and I still want her back. I have given off 3 or more of these signs and I still want her. I just wanted to make it seem like I didn't want her. Damn, I'm a complicated dude.

[@nonyabeezwax8693]

Your going to lose, we do not like games. Life is to short

[@bhargav9796]

Why don't you give her a chance may be she has changed and she'll make you happy from now

[@auds_e7]

Ya u are, wonder if this is how my ex feels. We were together for 5 yrs and he cried twice the last week I saw him then ghosted & eventually blocked me nearly everywhere. Left my messages on read.

[@JC-qg5di]

are you 10 years?

[@echospace7347]

Maybe I should block them

[@f.o.bdavauney1081]

I'm scared if I give space she will absolutely lose all feelings for me man

[@chrisseitercoaching]

That is a common fear but if she really cares for you, then that won't happen.

[@linoweakalilwa4606]

Am experiencing all these signs and the only way to go is letting go.. at first it was impossible but am getting better, healing from the break up day by day.

[@tinaschultz1976]

Time to move on when friend zoned no way of getting out of this

[@chrisseitercoaching]

Hi Tine....yes, sometimes that is the way forward and sometimes its implementing No Contact and allow those forces to work in your favor

[@milanvujcich]

My ex doesn't actually want to be friends because shes scared she'll catch feelings for me again. haha what

[@Mightyyy8]

That's the same thing for me. She said she doesn't want to see me again because she doesn't want to catch feelings nor give mixed signals. 😂😂

[@milanvujcich]

@@Mightyyy8 haha weird right? Luckily we ended up hanging out and she did catch feelings for me again and we are now back together since 2 weeks ago :)

[@izlanaziz6872]

@@milanvujcich I'm in the same situation hahahah. May I know, how long were you separated with your girl?

[@milanvujcich]

@@izlanaziz6872 we were separated for about 2 months or more. One month was no contact :)

[@AngelRamirez-ul3gh]

@@milanvujcich my girlfriend broke up with me a week ago,I'm trying no contact for a month,do you think it'll work?

[@chrissi975]

I'm grinning, because he has been on all of those points even before we broke up :'D

[@chrisseitercoaching]

Hi Chrissi! Sometimes though the person learns later what they really want. Life is in some ways a discovery of who one is and what one wants.

[@vanessaedmonds5747]

He doesn't mean your weight he means your features very handsome

[@cathrineagatha114]

I feel it too! And at the end of the day he put the blame on me:')

[@viviancassel6025]

Wow! None of these signs - ever! He always responds, sometimes with essays. He can’t friend zone me, so he avoids seeing me in person altogether. When he has seen me, he stares and sees anxious. He will not disrespect me by being friends with benefits. Too much passionate emotions for that. He doesn’t make dates, but when we have had to meet, he never cancels and is ALWAYS early. It’s been three years after 23 years together and I hoped that he would be cured enough by now so that we could possibly be friend zoned, but he still can’t do it. I would love for us to be good friends, but it seems impossible - as if there’s too much passion between us. I want my children to have parents who at least love each other as friends.

[@chrisseitercoaching]

I hear you. Your expectations of what you want is very realistic. Your lover should be your best friend.

[@viviancassel6025]

Chris Seiter Haha! He was my lover and best friend for 23 years, but then a midlife crisis brought in a rebound lover - haha! Yes, though! He’s still my lover in both our minds, I’m sure!

[@chrisseitercoaching]

I hear you!

[@ricasuzuki]

I love my ex boyfriend sooo much it hurt me sooo much that he move on 💔

[@chrisseitercoaching]

Time to focus on your healing.

[@nancycarolinemokwana8743]

Askies

[@onlydreamz7340]

Same here dr,,,😭

[@mildredantwi9062]

Dear, he chose another path. So painful, but we can't address it

[@julianareynold5182]

I am very grateful to have met baba shogo who helped me when I was having some misunderstanding with my partner about a year ago he can also do yours just by believing you can contact him via [phone]

[@jenpeter5098]

I just realised that my ex showed all of these signs. I was so stupid to accept everything he did to me. He used to block me anytime he felt like, didn’t respond to my text messages intentionally, cancelled everything at the last minutes and only wanted sexual interaction. It feels like I am the most damb and stupid person in this world for getting used by him.

[@chrisseitercoaching]

H Jen.....its time to start your healing process and it begins with realizing you are not a stupid person. You r ex wronged you in different ways. We all grow wiser over time. Time to turn the corner and embrace yourself.

[@jenpeter5098]

Chris Seiter Thanks for your reply. Every single day when I want to start fresh and look forward, I get trapped in my painful past memories. It’s extremely tough....

[@chrisseitercoaching]

Hi Jen....engage in some physical activities and keep yourself fulfilled with things you enjoy doing. In time, those memories will fade.

[@Oxfordstudios]

Sign one. They tell you they don’t want you.

[@13DarkMelody]

Tell me about the fearful avoidant ex. Who was so needy & clingy in the relationship. Now he’s so different. Like he just shit his feelings off just like that.😢

[@misshae111]

He's about to move away to another state and then by 2020 December, he'll be gone to another country. He said he doesn't want me anymore. 5 years of our relationship is gone. I know he's not coming back. I just gave him the full follow through of our 5 years, and no nudge. And all I want is him. I'm alone. And I don't want nobody else. This is so hard to swallow!!!

[@chrisseitercoaching]

Go into a no contact before he moves away and work on being Ungettable. Posting on social media showing how well you are doing.

[@Troy12-fitnessmodel]

The best relationship is with yourself.

[@reallystephlove]

Not only was I blocked everywhere, my contact info was also deleted from his phone. Guess that’s that 😂

[@leratomafisa6613]

Hi Chris, my ex told me not to contact him coz I'm gonna make him fight with his new partner. We were in a 3 years relationship and lived together. I cyber stalked him and noticed that he is posting pictures of him and the new girl, he posts about how much he loves her. A week after him telling me to stop calling, he came to my house and acted as if we are cool 😭😭

[@chrisseitercoaching]

You should use the being there method. It works exceptionally well if you keep your emotions under control. here's a good video for you to watch. www.exboyfriendrecovery.com/what-to-do-if-your-ex-boyfriend-moves-on-to-a-new-girl-video/

[@mari-ql1on]

@@chrisseitercoaching what if mine is going through the grass is greener syndrome..except our relationship was peobably a 2 in the scale cause well we fought a lot even when he's beung sweet i'd over analyse every word he also said our relationship is stressful and that he's moving on it hurts but he's getting over it..pkease tell me there's a way..can i win him back..? Alsp were long distance and she's there physically with him he even blocked me for her..i confronted him tho he said that himself and that she's better he was crying on our call before saying "you're not worth my tears" And he's rejecting his feelings..what should i do o really want him back..and now he even love or like this girl's quirks he even think that she's cute when she gets insecure

[@ataerabella]

@Adrian Fuentes when it’s over. It’s over.

[@MeowMeow-sy2mi]

I clicked on this and it gave me hope. None of this applies to my situation right now at all.😂

[@ramonaharter6407]

Wow this is the most basic information I can't believe you put it into a video . He blocked you, he doesn't want to talk to you, he's dating someone else now, he told you he doesn't want you back, he told you to stop stalking him, he told you he doesn't want to date you anymore I think that's when you know that he doesn't want you back is when he broke up with you. 😂

[@CatchAChrissy]

Okay whew. Only 2 signs. 5 year relationship. Been sleeping together since breakup (5 months ago!!!!😨) but he deff started acting like my man again durning this process.. he got jealous..texted me all day every day.. basically kept making plans with me an planning trips!! ( he broke up with me..cheated..an couldnt except blame for his actions) he never said sorry..just blamed me for why "he cheated" an said it was not cheating cause we were on our way out "ending".... either way. I went back to school, lost all the weight i put on durning our relationship an found hobbies again. You could say he was RIGHT THERE. Falling in love all over again. I could see it. An then BOOM. Dead zone. Something shifted in his brain "FEAR" what if it doesnt work out..what if we have problems again. So what does he do...acts cold to me for a week. Naturally i try playing it cool...but by end of week...i. cracked. I had a emotional break down over it. All that hard work. For nothing. All the months put into winning each other back. Gone. For what? He says he cant trust me!!!! (What? I didnt cheat..he did) well he basically told me he is going to keep hiding his feelings about me from me an everyone else.. ( wait...did he just admit to having strong feelings for me, by admitting he is hiding them?) He basically says he can not see us being happy together again. Literally the night before he went cold he was saying saying how he loved everything about me..an then a bomb went off in his head. I posted a snap of me looking pretty that day...an i think that is what set him off. He said he cant get caught up ( meaning he doesnt like the negative jealous feelings...so he is doing opposite of what he should be doing) anyway i cant control his free will. He blocked me across the bored. Full block except email. An he told me not to contact him 1 more time. An thats it. I heard he keeps posting single stuff on facebook an asking ppl to go out drinking ( he doesnt drink) soooo yes i know he is trying to move on. Problem is.. he is letting his fear actually ruin a real geniuly love. I forgive his cheating. This time only. I was willing to forgive an forget. In fact i never brought it up after it happen. There is no point. It makes me feel bad an just leads to us fighting. So i dropped it ( but durning this process..right before he cut it off..he brought it up. An basically said he never cheated an i was a pyhsco for thinking that.... ( mind you..i caught him cheating..IN THE ACT. With my own eyes) all that aside i spent years with this man. he is my best friend He is also stubborn as hell. His guilty conscience i think makes him think. That he will come back an i will cheat on him this time. Im not sure if there is a win for me in this situation But i am broken.

[@christinedizon1426]

It's just so sad that you thought that the person you love the most will not gonna change and leave you because he's not just happy anymore with you 💔💔💔💔

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[@matthewtaylor1785]

She broke up with me because she lost feelings because she regained them for her ex, except now they’re not getting back together. And as much as I want her back, I’m not sure she’s right for me because I’m not sure I can trust her. We’re still friends, but man does it hurt sometimes

[@Gbb93]

Never take her back. I agree that you can never trust her again. If she lost feelings for you because of an ex, I’m sorry but she doesn’t see you as a lifetime partner.

[@jasminepatel2102]

Sign #1 we haven’t talked in a while and I sent a sweet message yesterday and he never responded. So I had to unsend it Sign #2 it doesn’t exist Bc every time I talk he be like “stop texting me” or “leave me alone” Sign #3 I asked him to keep me blocked and he’d block me and then unblock in day Sign #4 he tried to friendzone me a month ago but I said no Sign #5 he lied to me and fulfilled his needs (he lied as an he might want a relation, but he wants to sleep first.) I fell for it and then he said “I never wanted a relationship” Sign #6 we have never been on a date after a break up. Your signs don’t quite relate, I am so confused. Do you think that he clearly doesn’t want me and I am wasting my energy after him?

[@Roland464]

I know most people want to get a ex back But in order to do it you need think is my ex the one for me. the best way to get a ex back is move on from her. Find another women to be in a relationship with otherwise you look desperate and obsessed with your ex. Don’t think about your ex. Most ex will try not to lose you permanently they will most likely ask to be friends right after the breakup Like for me my ex was still trying to find a way into her life because I was a part of hers even if it was a small part. I did have to remove her so I can focus on myself. Just note that if she says that she can’t talk to you anymore it not a permanent rejection especially when she know you still hurt she doing you a favor

[@ying5798]

Yes, he replies my every message with only one word "ok.", he blocked me on every social media and he doesn't want to be friends either, he hates me now. But then my friend told me that he still loves me and I caught him keep on looking at me from a far distance. When I'm near him, he doesn't even want to face me (which hurts). Basically I have most of the signs here.😅

[@chrisseitercoaching]

Hi Ying...so sometime its best to give each other some time and space to smooth out the emotions which run high post breakup. Go visit my website as I have tons of materials there that can help you!

[@neupp_xt]

It’s been 4 years of our marriage... and we got separated last 2 years ... he wants divorce...wants a clear way to move on ..doesn’t comes back neither calls or text .. Is he really done for good ... we are not divorced though but he wants .. I am not ready for divorce.. due to that I’m separated apart instead of staying together 😔

[@wijnruit]

My x friend zone me its hurt alot. I better have no contact forever.

[@chrisseitercoaching]

Ummmm...forever is a long long time. Perhaps dial it back a bit!

[@smurfeco2.358]

I think if someone doesn’t want anything at all with you they should just block you in everything even on there phone number .

[@salsabillaserwaasawyer1667]

Smurfeco 2.3 really

[@adhistygenno2398]

But my ex didnt blocked me in kakao app but he already deleted whatsapp, app. Very weird i know. He stil use the picture i took with his dog and him together on his arms. But he stil didnt reply my messages i offered him to be friends but he said NO and cant be the same like before. It hurts my heart. I stil cant move on until now. And i dunno why he stil not blocked me and use the picture from me. 🤔😭

[@solanjedere]

Actually don't. Unless the dumped ex is an obsessive freak that make drama and texts non stop. Let's have some dignity and let them go ;)

[@smurfeco2.358]

Solange De-Ré i never blocked anyone how you said unless they go texting you every 2 3 minutes. Then that changes the story .

[@solanjedere]

@@smurfeco2.358 you said they should block you if they don't you u back, it seems lack of respect with someone who once made part of your life. Ofc I'm talking about civilizated ppl... Lol. I'm not the one who get into the point to be blocked yet a savage ex I had onde blocked me and I was not chasing him at all! He had issues with all his exes LOL. His leaving was really a favor to me 😂😂😂

[@outroseok]

he unblocked me everywhere but said "at the moment he's not open to trying again in the future" so I think it really is over and he just wants to be friends/on good terms... (side note: our breakup was 2 days ago so things may be subject to change but as of right now I'm losing hope and will begin moving on)

[@Americanpatriot-zo2tk]

Well I’m 59 years old I don’t have time to play the ER at games that woman wanna play if you can’t rely on now what are you gonna do when the chips are down?

[@chrismcevoy2503]

I don’t think my ex-girlfriend Tracci Ludwick wants me back.

[@christiehuang5306]

I have been on no contact for 10 days . Our breakup was not bad , he told me to move on and said that one day he will just become part of my memory, he said he didn’t want to hurt me and needed time to be away from me, but then when I gave him my last hug, he said this won’t be the last hug and won’t be the last time seeing each other and he said in exactly one month he will message me to check on me . What is the chance of getting him back

[@moielle5213]

None

[@hellome8899]

Seems like he feels he could walk in and out of your life like my husband. They tell you that you need better. Get yourself better and go get it. I'm in the same situation with 4 kids youngest 4 months. I cry all day. But if I don't start loving myself and being a doormat. Or I'll forever hurt. I love him. Miss him. But if he loved me he would have never left

[@claudiaaraos4841]

Hi! First of all thank you for your time, they help me a lot!! Second: I wanted to say that you look like Mikey from The Goonies :) a young version Sean Astin Keep doing the good work!! ;-*

[@chrisseitercoaching]

Your welcome! haha I get matt damon and brad pitt lot too.

[@briteidea08]

Restraining order is a good way to know also. Lmao 🤣

[@hurryupnow1]

These signs apply to me only because there’s another woman in the picture. I know he still wants me because he’s told me to wait but I won’t . Now I won’t contact him. I don’t want him back. I will do no contact to heal myself only. Good riddance .

[@chrisseitercoaching]

HI Soniya...Good luck with your NC and you are right...this is time now to focus on "you" and your healing and recovery and do some of the things I teach in my Program

[@edward.c7367]

Hello Chris. Great stuff! No infidelity, no abuse, married for 28 years but she over the rebound. She lives separately what I know still single and is communicating via text. She does delay her responses and normally doesn't initiate. Please provide feedback on what is she thinking here? Do I have a chance still?

[@CamillaVikaHgemark]

I’ve been blocked on social media for 6 months now and he’s not responsive to texts, so giving it one final shot soon. Just gotta plan it out a bit with help from your Facebook group!

[@chrisseitercoaching]

We're glad to have you in the group. There's a really great FB live in the group about getting unblocked. I'll tag you in it in the group. :)

[@MichaelGarcia1]

@@chrisseitercoaching what group is this?

[@lubdhadangle3984]

It's been 3 years now.... I still haven't moved on.. please i request you please you to help me... If I get him back I ll be eternally in your debts please

[@sreach93]

If ads were honest. Take the quiz and when you've completed the quiz you'll need to provide me with your email to get the results. Once l have your email, you'll go onto my database and l can annoy the sh*t out of you to sign up for a coaching service.

[@arelibautista8510]

I got 3 lmao And I got the worse combination: no answers, mediocre answers and friends with benefits 🥴🥴🥴

[@chrisseitercoaching]

Hi Areli, it doesnt mean that you cant change your exes perception of you during NC and working the holy trinity.

[@arelibautista8510]

@@chrisseitercoaching thank you so much for your videos. I was reluctant to do the No Contact rule so I tried to get back together without a period of cooling down. Big mistake! Now I'm applying the NC and your advice :)

[@sanjababic7352]

Me and my ex were together 4 almost five years and suddenly 7 months ago he said he lost himself in the relationship just to find out recently he was falling for someone before we broke up and they were together for a few months after that he called me one night and we slept together all the feelings rushed back and I didn’t know what to do . His gf eventually found out and dumped him so we continued to sleep together and next thing you know she was texting and calling him again and they were getting back together so he cut me off again not sure how to feel anymore I know I still want him cause his feelings are there they are just deep down underneath. 😭

[@mrivera8761]

You are right, Chris, even if my ex is wrong. What I mean is that he was a lifelong cheater with personal problems and he's used to messing things up with one good woman after another. So he's an expert in, "breaking up for good" in order to spare his ego and keep up his shallow reality.

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[@sumankumari1847]

Hey coach,my ex boyfriend left me 3 weeks ago.Reason is unknown.He is confused.Sometimes he blames himself sometimes he tells that he was not happy wid me.I begged n pleaded n kept reaching out to him after every 2 days to convince him to take me back.He talked to me politely even liked talking to me.He responded whenevr i reched out But he never reached out first.So i told him to block me on whatsapp so that i could do nc properly. today I m on 9th day of nc.What should i do coach please tell me?🙃

[@김별이-j4u]

Just broke up with my bf cause first we almost broke up because I caught him that he wants to go to his ex’s house then I forgave him after that! Then the second time was he told me he needed time and space so. i gave it to him.. but guess what??? He used that freedom to talk to his ex again 😂

[@chrisseitercoaching]

That is awful, but you should know that you are worth more than that! More fool him for being underhanded

[@ruthgoh4869]

He's been friendly sometimes, cold responses sometimes, no responses sometimes, even sweet sometimes. What does it mean??

[@chrisseitercoaching]

Hi Ruth, look up my video talking about exes who are hot and cold

[@yeetlol8835]

For the first sign my ex responds almost right away like Jesus dude calm down

[@chrisseitercoaching]

I hope the advice was helpful nonetheless!

[@Ricarica981]

Dont do no contact to make a married man realise ur worth. He's married now. So I have to love myself and forget what we've had. Note to self. No contact for me only

[@benlinda3315]

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[@annaog574]

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[@lorrainerodriguez2134]

You take to long to get to the point

[@chrisseitercoaching]

Hey Lorraine....I will work on that

[@blablamoekd6626]

Lorraine Rodriguez agree

[@judorican973]

Just move on ppl!

[@chrisseitercoaching]

Easier said then done Judo.

[@judorican973]

Chris Seiter my ex Gf broke up with me 3 weeks ago. It’s not that easy the pain is real. Why have hope just move out.

[@diamond13130]

I wish it was that easy..

[@milanvujcich]

no

[@xtremebjj8545]

judo 101 what are you doing on this video???

[@butteryfly1234]

My ex contacted me yesterday after 8 months of no conctact. The reason he gave for calling me was that he doesnt want to be the villain of the story.. We talked for some time yesterday..i let him know that i hav been living life and been dating people and even getting intimate when i am interested. Did i do wrong?!.. and he is asking me to meet up though he clearly mentioned that he has no intension to come into a relationship with me again. Please suggest how should i handle this and how should i react?

[@kieraflowers9928]

Jiya Austen what ended up happening ?

[@Gbb93]

What if your ex posts things that you know is an attempt to get your attention?

[@Scorned405]

Why would u want a x back? That makes no sense. Move on, there’s more fish out there

[@cassieaiken2537]

Sooo #2. I get a response, irs not necessarily one word answers, but they are pretty blunt and crass responses, like he doesn’t care to be talking to me. #3. My number is blocked (we broke up two months ago and I can imagine it’s still blocked) but I’m not blocked on Facebook messenger.

[@chrisseitercoaching]

Was it a really bad breakup?

[@cassieaiken2537]

It wasn’t a really bad “screaming, throwing things at each other, I hate your guts, punching walls” breakup. But we were on a trip together, it happened mid trip (he broke up with me during an argument while we were out drinking) and we were still stuck together for 3 more days and a 13 hour car drive. I begged and pleaded for the 3 days for him back and didn’t leave it alone, and he just kept saying no no no. When we returned to Canada, he initially told me he was done and to leave him alone. But then told his friends and family that we will maybe work it out in a few months, and then I think he caught wind that I had been talking to his “people” and a switch flipped and he said he’s completely done.

[@cassieaiken2537]

I’m also on day 24 of not reaching out to him.

[@savorytemptress469]

@@cassieaiken2537 How are things now...2 months later?

[@cassieaiken2537]

Well I screwed nyself over and got myself blocked earlier last month. And I also showed up to his house one night like an idiot. So I’m not exactly the best case to follow. I’m still trying to get him back, just finished my no contact and am supposed to be reaching hut next week

[@Divine_Love...]

he broke up with me after 5.5 years of relationship....I tried hard to get him back.... But he don't seem to want me.... he wished me best of luck to start a new life....and said he has already started....I didn't reply insist I deactivate my Viber account... At last my all hope fade away... I broke into pieces....But I still love him so much.... I am not contacting him... I am so much hurt.... Even his sorry will not work this time... and now I think it's time to let him go.....

[@chrisseitercoaching]

Letting go of the past is important for a happier future, so make sure that you spend some time looking after yourself

[@sweetcake007]

It’s kinda funny that he broke up with me but does not want to cut off our communication completely. When I asked him to just block me, he just wouldn’t and when I asked him how’s he doing, amazingly, he would immediately respond. It’s like a mind games with him. It tooks us 1.5 months to completely cut off communication. Cause I chose to let go instead of holding on. Piece of advice. Move on girls. Don’t feed their ego by begging them to stay. I did it, and it’s the worst feeling ever.

[@TonyMontana-yi8vw]

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[@TonyMontana-yi8vw]

I got my ex back

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[@Strangethinkbox]

Look bottem line! It all depends on how it ended! But also, if she/he is not the same personality or doesn't have that interest it's DONE! Believe me you will find another person eventually, but it won't be handed to you, you got wipe your tears and go out and make it happen. It's not easy, but neither is trying to not care about your ex. The only way to solve that, is to go out and create new memory's, so the old memory's don't haunt you. The thing is, old memory's might never go away completely but they get better to handle if you take in action. Don't pause your life with greef and sorrow, I wish I coulda, I wish I woulda shit. Your heart is powerful! But your mind is the one who chooses what to focus on. if you feel like you did nothing wrong, then it's there lost not yours. They'll figure that out through time. TRUST me! Don't down yourself off someone else's decision

[@chrisseitercoaching]

Hey there...I like that...go create new memories. If one an create a string of positive moments, it creates traction.

[@Strangethinkbox]

Absolutely! Good stuff chris

[@chrisseitercoaching]

Thank you....best of luck to you

[@lupitaj7503]

StrangeBrews4Life lipold your response definitely made me feel better. Thank you for powerful words there is definitely someone out there will value me ❤️

[@dustincurtis5252]

I would take the quiz. But the quiz never covers the crucial part of my break up. So I won't get an accurate score on the quiz.

[@Mixedbeauty11]

Hello, Coach My ex bf doesn't want me back he reached out to on August 25 2018 after that he hasn't made any contact. And I text him last week to see how he was doing I got no response. I stop texting him And deleted his number it made me realize if he wanted me he would have reach out to me in order for an ex to see change in order to start over they have see how you change since the break up.

[@mandakongbrailatpam3433]

But i still love her😭

[@chrisseitercoaching]

Hi again Manda....if this is an ex recovery situation, do you have a Program that you are using to help you improve your chances?

[@itsjustgossip2976]

I’ve listened to your response and u said he needs space I’ve talked to his friends and they said he seems to really like his new gf I’m heartbroken and don’t know what to do

[@chrisseitercoaching]

First step is to focus on you own healing and recovery. Time has a way of smoothing these things out. My Program involves employing No Contact in a strategic way so you should take a look at that.

[@jennyviepineda2499]

The problem with my ex is that we are co workers. So I need to talk to him about our work.

[@chrisseitercoaching]

This is called Limited no contact, where you remain professional but you do not go out of your way to speak with him while in work

[@kajaola3906]

Im friend with benefits with my ex bf but also dating other guys...

[@efybahackah3195]

My ex broke up with me in November 2022 and travelled outside. He came back after two weeks and wanted to see me. I visited and it seemed he was still angry wit me cox of past argument. I left his house that very night and i was blocked . He keeps stalking me and watching my watsapp status but I applied the no contact January 2023. Is there any chance of winning him back? I love him

[@Ckyt572]

He broke up with me because he didn't see us succeeding long term and some other excuses he didn't understand. He said he liked me, he almost cried, didn't block me, we both stopped talking, day 80 of NC. What are my odds?

[@alejandraramirez8408]

My ex said nothing can change his mind of us getting back together. He keeps saying no what do I do !??

[@givegodthanks]

That means it's over that's what I keep telling my ex I will never get back and I mean it.

[@alejandraramirez8408]

@@givegodthanks how long ago was the break up ?

[@givegodthanks]

@@alejandraramirez8408 I left him 5 months now hes still messages me and call but I'm not interested as a matter of fact I recently blocked him. And if you are not feeling them sexually forget it ,its a done deal.

[@alejandraramirez8408]

@@givegodthanks oh okay me and him broke up 2 days ago . its pretty recent

[@alejandraramirez8408]

@@givegodthanks I want to get him back

[@vincentprice9156]

I feel you hit the nail on the head here with everything. My ex has reached out to me over the years but I was lost for words..I wan't her back but I never actually show it. This is gonna sound crazy but instincts are telling me she's the one I'm meant to be with but the timing isn't right because I feel I need to fix the things that split us up to begin with.

[@chrisseitercoaching]

Thanks! Yes, it's important to fix the issues that you broke up over in the beginning.

[@BullMarketBandit]

That's key

[@apollo2646]

What if she blocked me on only one social media? She blocked/removed me on snapchat but not on the phone & she still follows me on instagram. Is that a good sign?

[@chrisseitercoaching]

Its a positive that you can reach out at the end of your No contact when you are ready to speak to her.

[@rosejane4096]

Alessandro Apollo hello do you need help to get her back?

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Alessandro Apollo contact him via WhatsApp

[@Jeanninecomeau]

I blocked him for more than a month and went back.

[@annaog574]

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[@kerizmarolle9710]

Hey Chris I want to know if I still have a chance .my bf or just say x dumped me yesterday after having an heated argument in the afternoon.but that morning he was just telling me how much he loves me and wants to have a baby with me.but long story short.. we had a fight and he told me it was too stressful and that he’s depressed and needs to be alone because of our arguing.. he still hasn’t blocked me on anything and when I tried to reach out a few times..mostly all yesterday and earlier today he kept saying the same thing over and over..he wants to be alone forever.. and no stress..I want know if I still have a chance or is he done with me forever? I’m just so hurt right now 😔😔😞

[@ranimerckx9063]

Well, my ex and I broke up 9 months ago. We had a relationship of 8 years. He stayed in touch, after each month he always text, sometimes with a lame excuse but ends of asking how I'l doing. How life's is. My job, family,.. He also asked to catch up. When I said no. He asked again to catch up as friends. That was a month ago. So we've catched up, and he stayed for 4 hours (!!), we talked al evening, laughed and it felt comfortable. He did not got flirty of touched me. He often made jokes and we still can talk very well. It felt very farmiliar en comfortable. He even asked me what I think about his new haircut and clothes. He didn't asked about my dating life and visa versa. He went his own way and he didn't text me after the conversation. Before we had the meetup he asked to be friends. When I said no, he said he wants to be able to talk to me and ask how I'm doing. On the other hand: he would never ignore me, or block me. I did after the conversation. My friend said that I was he's plan B, in case he couldn't find someone else. And I'm thornes between giving up, and holding on to hope. He's new life sounds fun, very busy. And that kinds of makes me sad. Happy for him, but it looks like he is happier without me. Going to parties, doing a lot of hobby's and jobs... it made me jealous. He's a great guy, although he hurt me massively. I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO MAKE OUT OF IT. help me, Chris please. (I've now blocked him for about 2 weeks, a week after our rendez-vous)

[@chrisseitercoaching]

Did you do a no contact after your breakup?

[@ranimerckx9063]

@@chrisseitercoaching well, in the beginning he wanted to be left alone. Which I did because after 3 weeks he was already dating. After 3 months he reached out. Telling me I'm a great girlfriend and it will be difficult to find someone better. Which was really disturbing. And that time we reached out for a month, then a 2 or 3 weeks nothing and then again. Asking how i'm doing. After 7 months I agreed to see him. He wanted to say goodbye on good terms. I went back to begging trough my celphone because we still had a good chemistry. Then we cut contavt again and then after 2 months he knew I was on a holiday with my parents (normally he would be with us) and texted me early in the morning to have fun and enjoy it and the good wether etc etc. But then he asked to meet up again. Which I did m. And now I havent heard from him for about a month.

[@ranimerckx9063]

So something in me was telling he met someone knew. But wanted to see and feel if the 'thing' we had was really over. And he felt it. But he stayed for 4 hours. Even asked me about his hair and clothes etc. So strange.

[@chrisseitercoaching]

Ah I don't think you should meet up under the pretense of closure but since you did already try to start rebuilding attraction slowly.

[@yafajarrar9627]

We broke up 4 months ago and he is in a relationship now But he still watching my social media accounts and he opens my snapchat alot like almost every day When I asked him about it he got very upset and mad And now i cant understand his feelings

[@yafajarrar9627]

jaybritish actually I found out that he lied to me about his relationship he is single so I need your advice cause the no contact period is almost over

[@aliscia09]

I wish my ex would take the hint, I even moved on with someone, about to marry someone else. He still thinks I am miserable without him and unhappy . I am very happy with my new hubby. Please move on!!

[@aliscia09]

@@keziahelisa995 I don’t need it to be restored, I moved on and very happy. Thank you

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[@marthamiller1319]

My ex has not even tried to make contact for 9 months! I called after 7 months, but nothing! I guess I should give up, but I miss him so much! We were friends for eight years, before he asked to see me as more than friends , and that’s why I don’t understand we were so close,I was in love ! Then all of a sudden he told me he guess he would be single the rest of his life, and to take care of myself!!! The end, nothing at all after that, nothing for 9 months! I love him so much, it hurts like hell. Is there any chance he could change his mind after all those years!! Heart broken, I want to die. Why didn’t he let us just be friends under the circumstances??????

[@chrisseitercoaching]

Hi Martha.....What matters now is taking care of "you", your healing and recovery. That will be important for whatever unfolds in the future. Life is full of many wonderful paths.

[@marthamiller1319]

Thanks Chris for answering !!!!

[@chrisseitercoaching]

Your welcome Martha....best of luck to you. Feel free to visit my website as its full of useful content!

[@dr.crystalspice1412]

My ex would say he loves me so i asked if he wanted another chance..he blew me off and said he doesn't want to make time for me

[@chrisseitercoaching]

Sorry your ex was so insensitive. Perhaps time for No Contact. Hope on over to check out all the resources at my website!

[@richardkohnke9088]

I cannot believe this guy's a relationship coach LOL

[@benlinda3315]

Hello Beloved Seeking help to get beck with your person worry no more I can refer you to Dr Frank The relationship coach who helped me to get back my ex 2 days ago

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[@80sfanjk]

Its a hard pill to swallow to realize He doesn't 4 out of 6

[@chrisseitercoaching]

Watch some of the Ungettable videos and work on yourself so you realise you deserve the best

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[@firimuenjogererevjjuniorro1164]

Interesting, Thanks

[@chrisseitercoaching]

Absolutely! Is there anything in particular you'd like me to make a video on?

[@celinedagher2380]

Chris Seiter hi can you please make a video o what to do if they left you on read and I haven’t texted again

[@blackpinkblinkfam7197]

My ex has this friend she talks to they are close now I’m sure they like each other but I feel no contact will push her into their arms , they talk everyday all day ..I can try no contact but every time I start it she texts me on the same day...I will try it again , will be hard since she has to tell me when she’s coming to pick up something but I’ll keep that short. Any advice?

[@ItIsWhatItIs.645]

My ex just doesn't respond to me

[@chrisseitercoaching]

Have you completed a period of NC?

[@aneleshabangu6710]

Mine is a very funny one. He recently dropped me a WhatsApp message calling me babe and my love but asking for a break. I responded with a short message and went straight into the no contact rule, but he kept commenting to my pics and calling me babe. Still confused. What do I do next?

[@chrisseitercoaching]

Keep to the No contact let him have the break he asked for, let him miss you!

[@gloriahornby2457]

I don't want him back.

[@sanyasuhane6731]

Mine is 1st one , no response nothing , total ignore what to do pls tell

[@destiny-zu1ke]

What if your ex bf text you saying if your single , if you want to be bk together , send him pics , ask me questions while he's in a whole relationship over 2 years

[@chrisseitercoaching]

The fact you've been broken up for so long, and him reaching out to want to know if you are single is going to be more about his testing the waters to see if you were available to him. Now this is where you need to consider if you want him back or not. And learn about the being there method.

[@eggiepacher3773]

I can help

[@yuzinwahengz7097]

After no Nc I started to search her fb account from my frn acc. When she knew I was searching her then she blocked my frn acc but she unblocked my acc on Facebook that time i didn't txt her but after 3days again she blocked me. After she blocked me I send a text only calling her name on whatapp she was seen my txt but she didn't respond and blocked on whatapp also what is she thinking ?? Is she love me or not???

[@화미나]

what if i blocked him first and then he blocked me

[@chrisseitercoaching]

Try using a different method to reach him after no contact.

[@vevera3876]

화미나 any updates? That’s happen to me

[@499120037]

@@chrisseitercoaching and what if he is already dating someone new?

[@itsjustgossip2976]

Chris what should I do if my ex and I broke up last week and he’s now talking to someone else I’ve tried messaging him and he says leave me alone and leave my life alone and stay out of it , I’ve blocked him he’s been blocked 4 days I still hv feelings for him what should I do?

[@chrisseitercoaching]

Sometimes these situations call for some space as that can clear up things after a week or two.

[@savanalazzaro1664]

However for sign 6 what if it is because they are now dating someone new? But you know your ex wants you back because what they have been showing you

[@neressakotas4396]

yes he use to cancel the date very annoying

[@ariyanfazeliyeganeh9161]

My ex doesn’t want me back and I don’t even know why we broke up but she jumped into another relationship straight after and she hasn’t reached out after nearly two month she’s horrible human being

[@chrisseitercoaching]

That's rough I'm sorry, jumping into a relationship from another is not healthy so you working on yourself before you reach out to her or date someone new is a good move

[@ariyanfazeliyeganeh9161]

Chris Seiter I don’t want another relationship but But I hurts straight after me

[@sitinabilaisnkandar6746]

Hi Chris. I reached out to my ex 2 days ago after 3 months of break up. But I did a mistakes after no contact rule with him where I asked for his money. But he gave it to me and still care about me where he said to if I have a problems, need a guidance related to what I’ve been through in daily life, I can contact him. But I do still love him as our break up is still fresh. But he said to me he never will consider to take me back. After what he said that he still care about me, what should I do next? Do I need to contact him as usual, or get back to the no contact rule? But he didn’t reach out to me at all. Even today. Please help me!

[@shiva43057]

Blocked for 1 month ,i really doubt that...i blocked my ex for around 8months becz she want to leave me becz of religion differences...but every day i couldnt forget her.. so blocked for 1month straight is defnitely not true..

[@chrisseitercoaching]

Thanks for you input Shiva