How To Know When Your Ex Is Truly Done With You

[@shelly4012]

I’m not interested in trying to read signs, if a person who broke up with me can’t make real communication with me, move on!

[@msanonymous704]

Why are you watching this video?

[@DIHIAIMAZIGHAN-jx7pn]

@shelly4012... and yet you are here

[@ApostleThe344]

If you're in no contact you should never know if you're blocked

[@GiorgosYfa]

There is also a percentage of people getting unblocked because they feel nothing towards us anymore. They just don't care for us. They aren't curious. They are just indifferent.

[@mr.fettesq.7705]

The "being there" method?? Jesus...what terrible idea. It's just giving your ex everything they want without giving u really anything. Just building their ego and letting em have their cake and eating it too. What rubbish. Quick way to more heartache.

[@atty.veronicainoturanosg3487]

AGREE 100%!!!! It seems so degrading. Better to cut all contact & ties. BEST to let go & move on with your own life.

[@preciouspayne723]

My ex chose another girl over me thats not cool he can have her i don't have anything to do with him anymore

[@EmilyGloeggler7984]

You forget the two final things - your ex got married and they get a restraining order against you. Self explanatory. However, I will clarify that there are cases where all of that can be in place, but you can still get an ex back. With that said, if they haven’t come back after what I said or what you said, then it’s game over, and it’s time for you to forgive them, wish them well, and heal and move on.

[@jonathanvasquez5754]

Why take someone back after months? You think them hooking up with other people is gonna fix the relationship? Relationship is about momentum, you’re either moving forward or backwards. Don’t be a door mat

[@sarahsbakingcreations]

When you find out he was already in a relationship with someone else while pursuing one with you and he lies about it

[@hazalaldm2905]

Chris, you are gorgeous! I have been coping with a breakup for 2.5 months and following the whole online stuff about getting back to an ex. Without any doubt, I want to state that you are the best supplier in this field! The first reason is that you approach the topic extremely empirically. The second reason is that you taught me my value and the fact that seeing the blessing sides of the breakup. The other one is the fact that you devote yourself to your content and give some super details. Though I still want my ex back, I am aware that it is just because of my feelings and they’ll pass eventually. Thanks for everything! You changed me in an extremely good way!

[@hazalaldm2905]

Update: it has been nearly 3.5 months and I no longer want him back because I have seen the negative points clearly. To say, he has undervalued me during this process and there is nobody to whom I can give more value than the value I give to myself. Try to focus on the things you are going through and differentiate the partner you deserve. There is always someone who can give you more. Since the breakup, lots of guys have been turning around me rather than taking me for granted. I am not saying these words without empathy. Believe me, I had one of the worst breakups ever since he was my 5 years long boyfriend plus being my fiance. So, folks life is good with lots of opportunities out there!

[@junteddycatalo3023]

Did he reach out with you even once to make it work?

[@Scheherazad100]

If you are in no contact as is recommended, how are you having so many conversations and insight into your ex.? This video seems to be counter to the no contact rule. One conversation asking no contact yes. Repeated breaking of no contact?????to figure out your ex???? Doesn't even make sense????

[@traelmate37]

what I really appreciate in all your videos is the telling of the hard truth. Yes, you might do everything right in ex back, yes it is hard work, yes it can mean swallowing pride, BUT still there is no guarantee - and sadly, that is life. We need to ask ourselves, are we willing to risk it all for the biscuit?

[@NASILELE754]

My ex girlfriend blocked for over a year ,i reach out with another line , we're together now .

[@MM-zt9tf]

How long have you been broken up? My dismissive avoidant boyfriend for 14 years, is with the girl he cheated on me now and I blocked him everywhere after 6 months I tried to get him back but he didn't. I found out that they actually were still dating and that crushed me so I blocked him.. I doubt he will come back after I rejected him

[@leegibbs1727]

What if she is friendzoning me? She's happy to hang out but puts up boundaries and is seeing other people...makes me feel so inferior

[@Watts24fps]

Dealing with the same issue. Everybody I talk to including coaches/therapists says we need to tell them what we want and walk away. Until they know you have moved on, they won’t feel any sense of loss or pressure to realize the only way they can have you in their life is on your terms. It’s extremely difficult and I’m struggling now to “cut the cord” constantly looking at social media, responding to texts, etc. I know what I have to do but it’s the hardest thing ever.

[@mr.fettesq.7705]

You gotta bail bro. Otherwise you just look low value and pathetic and she wont want you while that's going on

[@mmbovilladardh]

What about when they don’t block you or even remove you from anything, read your messages, view your stories but are still ignoring you?

[@ghiepasionista6352]

My ex bf tell me he dont want to be in relationship again with me,but I dont know why he always keep calling and messaging me,and still hes very caring on me..if he dont want me anymore why he still care me?

[@ivy3839]

He does notwant you but wants access to you .

[@ghiepasionista6352]

@@ivy3839 he keep calling me...asking what I'm doing..

[@ivy3839]

@@ghiepasionista6352 don’t reply , he does not asks you out or to meet you or making future plans . He just want his cake and eat it . Start no contact immediately

[@ghiepasionista6352]

@@ivy3839 I will do my dear,even so hard but I try my best 🥰

[@ivy3839]

@@ghiepasionista6352 you have to. I am doing it as well... So join the club 😊, very hard at first but then gets easier.

[@beverlygarcia6475]

My boyfriend has not blocked me and still have me on his page as in a relationship. The only thing I have noticed is that he just sent me a text if we are done . And he didn't respond.

[@brianrhodes8369]

Ex ignores you. How about that one? You have 2 text exchanges and then they ignor.. you do NC for 19 days and try again on their birthday and get ignored again.. How about that one? I am apart of this program as well and before I did NC we at least would talk and text.. then I did 45 days NC and now its beyond dead.

[@mr.fettesq.7705]

Because it's done bro. Just accept it. Continue NC and if she wants you she will reach out to you at some point. Otherwise, NC except for her B day and important days just makes u look like u still think about them when they clearly arent doing the same. Just bail and make you the best you ya can.

[@alayiahwallace2269]

What if I canceled with him and he becomes cold and brings it up in every conversation he started becoming distant and throwing it in my face than I eventually splurged on him and he told me he was done the cancel I did really upset him badly

[@AugustusTiberius-tq1gw]

I'm done with my X after she left me for a rebound guy after a few years together. So she can kick rocks

[@alexandercoll4863]

Does this methodology apply to avoidant though?

[@isismorin9724]

What if we were on a situationship, and we didn't actually break up, but he keeps texting every day saying at least good night and an smilie emoji? I'm confused and I wonder if he wants me to cut all contact... Any clue? Anyone?

[@coreybeckman2837]

How long do I wait in NC? She hasn’t talked to me in 20+ days. I blocked her and then unblocked her on all social media’s because I wanted to give her space and not look at her pages

[@coreybeckman2837]

She won’t talk to me. It’s been 20+ days and I haven’t heard anything. I blocked her and then unblocked her to avoid looking at her social media’s. Should I reach out after 30+ days or should I wait longer. I’m in full NC now. I took the quiz and I got a 72. Will I lose her if I don’t act on anything?

[@coreybeckman2837]

@@eseneebosetale7459 yes

[@BledaRassmar]

The one who left or who ended it has to be the one to break no contact.

[@-1nterruption-960]

Chris my ex blocked me immediately at the breakup almost like she was just putting up a wall to protect her own emotions and keep me from contacting her. I didn't do anything needy or pushy for her to do this. What is the reason for this? She said I was a good boyfriend and we had a good relationship but there was just alot of habitual bickering. I don't understand this block. Could you explain. She was extremely attached to me. Texting me and calling me all the time and we share 2 years and 3 months of amazing and loving experiences together. This doesn't make sense

[@yan.l.1092]

Does she find someone else ?

[@-1nterruption-960]

@yan.l.1092 no. She has a kidney surgery also. That plays a big factor. No she hasn't found someone else me and her will get back together again soon

[@TSWaves1]

This is me. I got dumped and blocked immediately. I was told "I have a lot going on in my life and need time to heal" I still have no idea what she is going thru.

[@CarolRosenblum]

He's sort of left, but still communicating. Advised me he was going to a 3 day wedding this weekend. That's enough of a clue for me. However we are supposed to go to an event in October. I don't want to go but don't want to communicate that. I guess I should anyway. That will complete the official breakup....even though he started it.

[@milagrosrodriguez4136]

He jumped ASAP in less than 3 weeks post her on fb in relationship

[@DaveSustain]

I just want to convince myself that listening to break up content online is not going to bring her back. 😂

[@CynthiaWithLove]

Sign 4 is actually me in the dating world 😅

[@vorbis4860]

Looks like I AM the one that got away.

[@l.moor9052]

What if you only dated for a short amount of time but you know it was you who sabotaged the potential relationship out of fear from past trauma and heartbreak. They still have you on every social media platform ( Insta, Facebook, Snapchat) and when you said your side of the story, they said they were sorry for whatever they did to upset me, but the way they said it seemed very short and brief. How are you suppose to know if they would still be interested or not when you have distance between you and all of your communication is text. Even when they’ve said some hurtful things to you and seemed pretty sure it’s the end. Should I give them space and try to see if we can start something again or just leave them be and move on.

[@Adler911]

Srry if is late... but how is it going ?

[@reeieeros1214]

I have a quite similar experience, what happened with you two

[@CarolRosenblum]

Too old to block. Who cares. Not on FB, Instagram. Just no contact

[@therealkeinemoniker]

uh, this is incredibly generalized and takes no account of attachment styles at all lol

[@sproonianlitch8232]

I got 71% what does it mean?

[@Slomountainbiking]

I got 73 percent. It means they might come back but you have to put in the work

[@cosmospray]

What about if he unfriended me in Facebook 1month after i broke up wit him?

[@cosmospray]

@@clayandrews4028 no thanx

[@chrisprova2558]

He probably just doesn’t want to see you or hear from you, it’s part of the healing process. If he was hurt by why you broke up with him, he wouldn’t want to see what you’re up to anymore. I’m debating wether or not to just unfollow my ex on everything too, it messes with you when you see them posting and stuff. But doesn’t mean it’s the end

[@cosmospray]

@@chrisprova2558 I dont post anything, maybe react to pages, in comments, but it's rare, and mostly in private groups. I am not sure he really understood why it ended though we discussed hours and hours about it all. It's his right if he doesn't want to change his ways, i can totally understand he isn't obligated to change, cause know it's been 6 months.

[@cosmospray]

@@chrisprova2558 i would unfollow in other social medias but not unfriend on Facebook if I were you, but depends on why you 2 broke up and when

[@chrisprova2558]

@@cosmospray i dont use facebook lol, but yeah eventually might do so. Broke off on the best terms possible, she said she wanted to stay frineds cause she thinks im a great person and didnt wanna completely lose me. I told her i dont wanna be friends with her and then i shipped back all her belongings lol