THIS IS EXACTLY What happens when Your EX Wants You BACK (The Mouth Lies but the Body Doesn't)

THIS IS EXACTLY What happens when Your EX Wants You BACK (The Mouth Lies but the Body Doesn't)
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[@mr.g2211]

My ex had no contact with me for 90days, I was confuse how can one disagreement make a person walk away. These 90days been the best because I learned to love myself as a man, and I pray for her and wish her well. Fellas work on self it’s important and let that toxic energy go away.

[@glennkeese7922]

First and only disagreement with my ex resulted in her cancelling wedding and engagement 3 weeks before wedding.. completely cut me off from all communication

[@antonioavitabile7066]

​@@glennkeese7922 how did that go? Did you guys re connected after 2 months? Sorry you went though that

[@MotorcityMadman1984]

@@glennkeese7922How are you doing now?

[@prayingmother]

It was something he wanted to do it wasn't u and I wouldn't took him back..these men these days be really acting like they are they price NOT,ladies always know your worth never allow him to treat u like u are just a door mat!

[@HapsMbambs]

No contact hit 1 month! 👌🏽✨

[@heematara27]

Very hopeful video. My ex and have been official no contact for 11 weeks now. Yes it’s killing me. And yes I haven’t seen any movement. I think the important thing to bear in mind here is that not going no contact wasn’t getting you anywhere. I think what Coach Black is trying to tell us is that it doesn’t matter how long it takes for your ex to come back and be consistent. Those are the only terms you can accept. Period. I work out a lot. I focus on myself and my career goals. I go out and have fun with my friends and also on my own. Yes it’s tough. There are days when you are weak and you want to cry. I finally realize that this is part of the process and that both my ex and I myself are on a separate necessary journey right now. And that’s ok. I am commited to this.

[@champagebabyg]

was it a healthy breakup ?

[@heematara27]

@@champagebabyg It was a civilized breakup

[@MeToo-py1tq]

When you say you are committed to this can you explain what you mean by "this"? This being the process and hope of getting back with your ex or "this" meaning focusing on yourself as you have been doing? Thank you

[@heematara27]

⁠@@MeToo-py1tq Both! I’m committed to NC, to my ex coming back and to focusing on myself as the prize. When you see as yourself as unique and as the best possible option for anyone, it helps you relax. My story with my ex is that he was never “all in” like I was from the start. By going NC you level the playing field but you also go through a lot of ups and downs, releasing your limiting beliefs and affirming your self-concept. I wish much luck to you - whatever you’re going through yourself! I will post my success story one day to Coach Black and then you’ll know! ✌🏽

[@MeToo-py1tq]

@@heematara27 Ok thank you for sharing. Are you a woman? Can I ask you a question?

[@theicewolf714]

You're clients girl , she was seeing someone else and when it didn't workout with the new guy, she went back to him her back up plan B. That totally explains her behavior

[@denisselee6544]

This is my contactless process. I deleted my ex from my social media and took a whole month off. During that month I let my feelings out and went inside. after that month I decided to reopen just Facebook for my family, after 2 months my ex texted me out of the blue. Since then he is the one who texts me and calls me. Last week was my birthday and he texted me again to wish me a happy birthday. Point of my story, no contact work. Whether you want your ex back or you don't, they will contact you. Stay strong friends.

[@officialmr.madness6655]

are you back together? i wish tp have such a success story

[@denisselee6544]

@@officialmr.madness6655 not yet. Honestly right now I want is to heal complete and he needs to heal as well. I’m taking this very slow like the coach said in this video.

[@denisselee6544]

@@Genesis11595 stay strong

[@terezavalencia2908]

At least he did mine hasn’t and idk if he will

[@NatureHealsUs]

Should I put my Instagram on private or leave it public ?

[@joyfullychosen1771]

Just stay no contact. Don't test yourself

[@graceybarra9193]

Hi curious to know what did you meant not to test ypurself?

[@cleanslate2247]

Yep. My wife was always threatening divorce, telling me "why won't you let me go".......So I finally moved out and totally seperated now. We have kids but did as close to no contact as I could. She SAYS she missed me and now SAYS she wants me back but....... She doesn't show that passion, and intimacy is the last priority. She is fine talking and laughing with me, and she'll do nice things for me, but pretty cool in the bedroom. I think I'm just the fallback plan, her plan A dude must have fell through, or something. I am running hot and cold, push and pull on her, which works temporarily but......I'm at the point of just moving on. Sometimes you just accept that someone has changed, and it's not gonna work.

[@alchemicalsoul]

Keep your dignity and go. You deserve better.

[@marguskiis7711]

She wants your money, nothing else.

[@joanwashington1371]

It could be that your ex is truly done and doesn’t want you in his/her life.

[@M00seknucks69]

I’ve never experienced difference. Once they leave they don’t ever want to work on it or come back.

[@marguskiis7711]

Usually yes.

[@FJMay-jx6hr]

some times I thank God for my unanswered prayers....

[@chadgibson1331]

Love your videos! 🙏 Take back your self respect and self worth, don't settle for scraps

[@jeaneengant6771]

See he’s the one doing the reaching out from time to time.. and I keep it short or I don’t respond

[@selfmade8238]

@1:50 he sending letters tho 😂 that’s so 90s not unless he’s in jail

[@bloom7204]

thanks coach for another great video. working on myself + talking w someone new (nothing serious, LD, for 3 months) trying to move on, 4 months into NC… was supposed to be visiting him, my ex, in 2 weeks so that’s weighing heavily on my heart + mind but trying to let those thoughts fall flat + plan other things for that time to distract myself… feeling like my he won’t ever reach out + it still hurts but it’s gotten more bearable… your videos give me hope though I’m not sure if that’s healthy to still have at this point honestly…

[@diesonata8067]

I gotta say I have no clue where I am standing with my ex right now. Like he said let’s stay friends and I agreed to it. There are a few reels coming from him and he called 3-4 times to ask me how I am but I feel like this is not gonna go anywhere. Idk what to do. I’m in no contact but I do like his reels and do ignore them sometimes. It’s long distance and I really want us to fight for each other but he gave up on me.

[@OffTheFlapp]

Was with my girl 4 years and we agreed 3 months ago to a mutual breakup and she is now in a new relationship for 2 months now. I didn’t go into no contact right away and that was my mistake..yesterday was my official day of no contact she texted me today and I Ignored it hopefully this works in my favor I love her but I know it’s unhealthy for us to do the friend bs

[@auralionasol2205]

it shouldnt have been mutual thats the issue...

[@OffTheFlapp]

@@auralionasol2205 what should’ve happened bro I need help? We both just sat down one day and agreed to break up

[@robicelus]

@@auralionasol2205 it's never mutual, someone always breaks up first.

[@Slendy2001]

Yo is your name josh?

[@Slendy2001]

And was your girl’s name gabby?

[@jennifercandelario4198]

Me and my ex broke up because he needed space there was alot going on with my baby daddy. So ex was tired of BS. End it July 6, nc for 3 week. He text me a month later. To say he seeing someone else, for me to move on that i have opinion too 😢but he has all my stuff, even a spare car keys ? We arranged a bate to meet on 01/6/2024 3mo more from know. I just don't know what to do anymore. But just give up hope

[@Drinkydrink]

What if he doesn’t have social media? It’s been two months since he ended things and he didn’t even say happy birthday yesterday.

[@gloriarobinson6820]

He reached out sent me a music video of a song he said remind him of me I left him earlier June this year. He text once or twice a week. I do respond but that's it this far.I don't reach out to him at all.I had to leave him bc things got stagnant and he was taking things for granted.

[@cplcaz01]

Hi Coach, what if my Ex wife lets me know I have mail, and says she will drop them off to me, I’m not being a hard ass with her and ask how she is? And she’s says she’s happy and asks me? I tell her I’m doing good, do I just keep the conversation short? Thank you

[@suppressor8187]

What if your ex reaching out to you during the no contact phase? Do I continue to ignore her, or do I respond back?

[@noel42268]

Never take a ex back! They failed to replace you!

[@andrecrispim3209]

Or maybe ppl are just humans and make mistakes lmao.

[@STAR-kg5ck]

Wow!! GREAT GREAT advice!

[@dillo5881]

Coach blac, she blocked me again. Told me to “find a new girl, welcome to no remorse me, this is the last time you’ll ever hear from me” I been calling restricted and using text apps to try and contact her not gonna lie, feels like I’m dying without her man. I’m so lost on what to do, if I go NC I’m worried she’s just gonna fill her time with someone new. Help brotha

[@basicinfo2022]

Sounds like she gave you many chances and is protecting herself. Take this time to become a better life partner.

[@michaeltolleson2640]

After a month, we started talking again ...But, I'm not sure if I want her back...The time I was free, I started to think clearly. I'm not sure if it now...

[@thomaspengilly9740]

Need what's it mean advice! So back in Nov of 23 was the 1st time I had seen my ex in over a year and Ran into eachother but this time with my new GF & boy was she Sizing her up 🤣🤣🤣. Fast forward its April 24, my ex outta the blue txts & says Hey How U Doing. I respond with the "Think U have Wrong #" mind you this the 1st contact from her in almost 2yrs. She then begins to say, hey I know you have a girlfriend(cause she saw her) but hope your doing well. She then says Lol I know you still love me. I'm like why you asking me this, then asked again. Do you still love me or No, simple ?. Im like why do you care then says she doesn't....So why is my ex asking me if I still love her after all this time. Ex are weird man, they break up with you & date other people and expect you to be OK with them trying to come back after dating other people 😂😂😂

[@ellienolasco9674]

Why does he act like he hates me when he ended our relationship? We were super happy and then boom, just like that. We lived together 3 years and together almost 4. I have been nothing but kind with him because to make matters worse, we work together. Now he ignores me at work and it was not like this the first few months. 4 1/2 months into breakup.

[@surasmitameher]

He is starting to feel the pain of separation, it triggers him. A reaction is driven by emotions. If you have nothing but good to him, that's the only explanation.

[@ellienolasco9674]

@@surasmitameher thank you for your words and taking the time to write to me. It is hurtful but I am trying to move on with my life. I don't cry as much, but I still do. I went from being his everything to nothing.

[@TheOne-bi2gn]

My ex acts like he hates me as well . I really love him we been separated a month . But slepted together since the break up. Which I’m thinking we would get back together but he STILL doesn’t want to be with me

[@uniquecrypto736]

My ex also switched from me being her everything to absolutely nothing. Lol. She speak and reply me with so much hatred. Well I have moved on as she requested. I am the price. I was nothing but good to her. I wish her whatever she wish me. 😂

[@marguskiis7711]

No contact just does NOT work with confident women. Fact.

[@AsiaSamiyah]

Spot on❤😮

[@joaoricardo4092]

You’re a beast brother!!! Keep up the great content.

[@DeepEnd-sm3uw]

Im dealing with a 11yr separation. Its been almost 3week no contact unless it's involving getting my son. . She text me hrre and there but i just keep ignoring her and keeping my responds very very brief. Frfr i think I don't even want to get back in relationship now with her

[@alexsakyiama1769]

How about your ex asking you for the help of looking for an apartment? Should i help

[@eustacesmith9635]

Your video is so awesome

[@blacademic]

Thanks for watching!

[@tubesurf17]

we had 2017 t0 2034. 2022 to 2024 rocky with highlights.{ just great blinding sex]. she was with him last month that overlapped. says go fix drama then find me in 3 months. my bk turned , she beggs please please come find me. im dead seriouse. its not like ill be in rebound{always said that wasnt her style/values. in 3 mounths i come bk with healing, relationship tool box. im ghosted. feel played. feel used . trashed again. these people think they can hurtnanyone as long as they r ok. people that love them and would take bullet. ghosted so one day 3 months after im back i find out she had dude in bed 1 to 2 months after discard me. just typing makes me... forget talking

[@chijiokeike4950]

when you live in different countries and you do no contact even though you got kids involve and still communicate with regularly , do you think it’s going to work out especially when your ex is seeing you’ve moved on with someone else but you still want them deep down do you think it’s possible to get your ex back in this type of situation

[@meganobrien5463]

Anything is possible but you must be honest with all involved. X

[@MrArgosguy]

I've been in no contact for months now my ex had contacted me multiple times I had replied but was didn't over engage them the other night I got told her grandmother was in hospital so I gave her a message say I had heard and I was just checking if she was okay and if she wanted we could meet for coffee, she ignored me and I like this has set me back because I was kinda feeling like the one up no feel like I've gave the power back a bit we've been broken up for about 5 months and this is the first time I've reached out.. what should I do now?

[@justinerasmus5627]

My ex unfollowed me in no contact and I didn’t react so is this a good sign?

[@shivatecs]

Thanks Coach Blac. You're one of the best.

[@blacademic]

Thank you! 🙏

[@jennifernixon563]

❤ t.y.

[@muktabhargava3105]

What type of english you are speaking I can't understand anything

[@Carlos_HD]

I followed this man’s advice and after a year broken up, my ex came back and things are better than ever

[@iammelissamoore]

Way to go, congratulations, I wish you continued bliss and growth with your loved one.

[@vellezivai]

Congrats!

[@RandomUserAct]

Update..?

[@CruzVerdoza]

Hey bro what to do if yk she was messing w dudes like never b4 after the breakup and after the year she hyu. how u go about that. cuz she obsiusly dont want em

[@mrsbossladyjones]

How did you handle it

[@bybyana26]

He wants to be back! I don’t want him back at all 😂He can stay over there 🤣🤣🤣

[@SilentCalligraphy]

I've been in no contact for just over two weeks. I went into no contact straight away and didnt beg for her to keep me in her life. She reached out on my birthday two days ago, sent me two messages and didn't reply. I'll stay in no contact until she reaches out again/ if she reaches out again. I really love this person but I know that my self worth is more important than pursuing someone who said they have lost feelings. I have no idea what's going to happen apart from me giving her the breakup. Stay strong friends.

[@TheOne-bi2gn]

Was in nc for 3 days gave in and it was the worst mistake. He said he doesn’t want a relationship but we can be friends with benefits only

[@MarinaLocust]

Update?

[@li5043]

Update

[@flyboylando312]

Man bro. This video literally just described me and my recent Ex. We dated for 4years. The last 3 months it was so hard to spend time with her all of a sudden. It was something always in the way, she became distant, we argued more than we ever have, and she hung out more with her friends. Said all the lovey things to reassure me but actions never quite matched. She eventually called it quits about 3 weeks ago. I tried to get her back until I got tired of trying. I’m currently on day 2 of full no contact and she’s posting love songs all over her media and is one of the first people to view my story. It may not be a sign of anything. Stay strong my brothers and sisters ✊🏿

[@KingTheJim]

Stay strong man, really actually do no contact. I know its the toughest, but if you do it she will find it attractive that you are fine to be by yourself. Let her come to you. Think about it like this. If she doesnt message you, you will be spending time focusing on yourself (which makes you more attractive) and then when she inevitably will contact you…you know for sure how she feels about you. Dont be breaking no contact, let her come to you. I got blocked for a whole year with no closure. She came back in the end and now we joke about how we both stalked each other for a year without saying any words to each other 😂😂😂😂

[@don4717]

Give us some update bro

[@egiptedowner5107]

So don't wish her happy birthday?@@KingTheJim

[@geoffcooper617]

Tell me about it, my ex dumped me then few dsys later put songs about missing someone on her facebook, dunno what it means

[@MarinaLocust]

Update?

[@anantisocialsinsight]

Damn… 4 days after me and my girl broke up I did NC but she wanted to come over to talk after work. I didn’t know I was supposed to say no and so she came over and it was all cute and lovely buuut after telling me the next morning at 1am that she missed me and again at 6am that she couldn’t sleep because a lot was on her mind…. She disappears. I initiated no contact again because wtf? But honestly I’m bout ready to move on. This playing games shit ain’t for me.

[@rochelletheramine7791]

So what happened?

[@TheOne-bi2gn]

My ex doesn’t want any dealings with me 🥺it’s hard but I gotta move on

[@LIGHTBEARstudio]

Coach, your patience and understanding of relationships seems unmatchable. Thank you for helping - all of us, the sentimental unexperienced souls that are going - through an extremely difficult time. Receive incredibly positive vibes and my best wishes. Peace!!

[@johnfenico4583]

I wish I could triple like this video!

[@vorbis4860]

I especially like the bit about how her unfollowing him was a plea for attention. In a breakup, one person has loss, the other has control. He flipped the script and took control, and gave her the loss. Her unfollowing him was an attempt to take control back from him by making him feel loss. It didn't work. And she couldn't handle the loss. It's sick what people will do for control.

[@senatorarmstrong9459]

If they are in a rebound(mine did in less than two months after our breakup) they sont want you back, grass is greener syndrome. But thats where no contact works. If ya beg, keep it minimal, step away, and heal, evolve to be the greater you are always meant to be.

[@coachfonde]

I'm here again to say listen to this brother. He knows what he's saying...

[@erock1983]

I know it’s hard… been there and done that. NC absolutely works! I went NC the whole summer. It was brutal…. and now my ex is with me almost every moment of the day begging to get back together. NC is amazing!!!! Just spend your time working on yourself, read some books, date, hangout and definitely workout.

[@don4717]

How long does it take for her to reach out?

[@erock1983]

The time goes faster when your busy working on yourself

[@don4717]

@@erock1983 i deletet her number.. was it right?

[@userLifted98]

Yeah well not dating nobody else while I’m doing no contact imma focus on myself and try to fix the things that were negative so when the beautiful spark comes back I’ll be ready but I will work out an work my two jobs, till then it is hard for me but I’m pushing god has my back

[@MarinaLocust]

What’s the story tho? Who broke up with who and how’d did yall get back together?

[@lacreiataylor8838]

Well, it's been about 2 months for me and at this point. Im not sure if i want to rekindle anything. When i think about it i feel like he ll only reach out because he wants or needs something and i dnt want to hear it but i also dnt trust him enough to be back together so i think the damage is done and im only feeling like this because its normal to miss someone.

[@shivanigohil4183]

Thank you coach black❤ your video always helps but this one came at the perfect time..i am in no contact since 5 week and getting anxious and frustrating...but your video is helping to stay the course It's been 10 weeks now

[@hansmartin6053]

You're doing it wrong if you count and wait for them. Let go.

[@smileyjoyswetha]

I needed to read these positive messages about no contact. Was NC for 10 days... Then he contacted me crying that he missed me. But when i gave him an ultimatum... He said we could only be friends. So no contact again. Its been 17 days.. It hurts badly that he could let go off so easily... I don't want to contact him... Because i already know all his arguments... Every counter statement of his...i can predict the whole conversation. He was my source of oxytocin and dopamine... Missing that feeling of being in love... Missing the high that taking care of others gives me...

[@uniquecrypto736]

Come take care of me😂😂😂

[@dougedoug2105]

You gave in way too soon. Men will fake emotions to pressure a woman to break no contact. It proves they still have power and actually prolongs to return to you process. They all come back at some point but whenever you strictly enforce no contact, it subconsciously forces them to hurry up and end the other relationship over fear of losing you. Getting a plutonic, new, and attractive guy friends also helps with this as well He probably had a temporary moment of weakness but had second thoughts after realizing that you were the same woman which only increased the value of the new girl more in his eyes. Which confirms why he dumped you to begin with. You gotta stay strong and convey to him you’re a new entirely woman first, if you want him back. And a new woman never accepts the same old BS. Also, 🙏🏽 please get out of the habit of giving men ultimatums, people in general if you can. Some people can be convinced provided there’s no ultimatum because it gives them the illusion of power. Moving forward in the future, whenever you want to convince a man to do something, you have to learn to convince them it was their idea. Putting your foot down means showing them what they’ll be losing out on when you leave, not telling it to them. Sounds like you might’ve gotten your man back but you forgot to make him feel like he had control. Hope this helps; 🙋🏾‍♂️ My $.02

[@marguskiis7711]

NC works well with men. But never with confident women.

[@childofgod7455]

Mines called me 3 times and text me twice on Sunday morning and I did not respond till the next morning and she did not answer nor respond back I guess she was mad that I waited till the next day 😂

[@BoBosworth56]

Should have responded sooner. Just not right away

[@Sharon-jg9ls]

Yep. I blew it. He contacted me and asked me out and I went….Back to nothingness the next day. My situation is kind of opposite. His actions are sweet and affectionate but he won’t vocalize anything. Back to no contact.

[@jdclaizio6229]

My wife and I have been married five years when she all of a sudden told me she wanted to separate. I believe we have had a very good relationship but she now says she only loves me as a friend. We are still living together in our home. Due to the shock I initially chased her but now have recently told her I will give her space What are your suggestions for no contact as we try and live in harmony together and take care of our four dogs.

[@aquajax9323]

I went off of all social media not to get his attention but to help calm myself from any future pain of seeing something that may feel hurtful.

[@mondeklaas1486]

3 months in a breakup and NC but we have daughter together so I call once or twice a week just to speak to my daughter. This last weekend I asked her if she could drop the kids at my place (she has a son who I really adore) so I can spend time with them and she did. But she stayed too and didn’t leave. We were together for like 3hrs and I didn’t bring up the relationship. When it was time to leave she seemed happy and I gave her a kiss on her cheek and they left. I’m not going to make a big fuss about this but it felt good to have them over😤. I miss my family coach ❤

[@tdo.harlem7245]

I can relate brother

[@bnice4624]

I was in NC for 9mos. He came back but was still doing the same BS he was doing before. It’s been 8mos. now and nothing. I have a feeling he gave up. I’m continuing on my path. I just am still so hurt about the loss of who we were.

[@felicityayala1624]

Dang well I messed up cause when they said let’s meet up now out of nowhere I took the bait and then she went ghost on me after. fast forward a week later she sat down with me and told me how she got her heart broken. I was supportive never said anything negative about her rebound relationship then fast forward a week again and she messaged me out of the blue saying she needs a friend right now. Of course there I go drop everything for her and be there for her. And here I am again a week later realizing the bread crumbs shes been giving me and I blocked her from my phone and social media. I don’t think my ex knows what it’s like to not have me in her life and hopefully this doesn’t sound wrong but she needs to know what she’s going to be missing out on, especially since we been together for 5 years. A 5 year connection is just tough to get rid of for me. 😔

[@shaheershahzad3871]

bro going through the same thing 4year relationship. Stay strong keep her blocked and move on work on yourself. God will send a better women believe in him

[@fitforfreelance]

Stay focused on your growth and improvement, and treat yourself well!

[@kimberlywright4988]

$207.00 just to find out if my ex is coming back? That's too much does that price come with dinner and a movie 🤣🤣🤣

[@BeyondTheMind007]

What do you do if both the man and woman go no contact at the same time? then none of them will reach out despite their feelings?

[@darrelldavies4304]

Biggest warning for all viewers No contact videos give false hope. I abided by doing things myself meanwhile shes been getting with my friend. Leave them go for good, there is someone much better out there waiting for you i promise, just be kind to yourself. Forget these waster videos

[@cynthiaugwoh7916]

The No contact works, but it is basically for you and not for your Ex. If it doesn't get your Ex back, it will help you improve yourself such as, you will notice you are better off without them and it helps you heal faster. I am saying this from experience. No contact is for you, not for your Ex. Butbifnit works on your Ex, then it's a win win. During No contact people focus on getting their Ex back instead of focusing on improving themselves that is where the problem is. In summary, it works. If they don't come back, there were not meant for you. If the person gets into a relationship within 3 months of your break up, then that's a rebound relationship and in most cases, it does not last. So you are still winning.

[@don4717]

@@cynthiaugwoh7916 and after 5 month of the break up its still a rebound rs?

[@marguskiis7711]

@@cynthiaugwoh7916 most of women`s rebound relationships I have seen have worked for years.

[@marguskiis7711]

@@cynthiaugwoh7916 What I am winning? And I am the best version of myself anyway.

[@j.aarongoodwin9898]

You're one of the best Blac. Thank you brother.

[@blacademic]

Thanks for watching!

[@nonenone6884]

I'm doing no contact for like 3 months 5 times in the last 2 weeks just walking around but she never talks

[@suppressor8187]

What do I do if she’s messaging and calling me during no contact?

[@NatureHealsUs]

Should I put my Instagram on private ?

[@blacademic]

Not necessary

[@TheycallmeQuick]

Me and my ex have started communicating everyday and seeing each other once-twice a week. She said I love u to me first again after we have broken up 8 months ago. She went from stalking my social media to now saying we don’t have a label but I can do whatever I want and she’s not doing anything with anyone else. I don’t really trust it but im not tryna be a stalker. How should I go about this? Will we ever date again or should I just end it where it is right now?

[@callme_nursejones]

Can this work after being broken up after 1 years and half since and engagement? We went over 6 months no contact and now that we are communicating he’s saying he doesn’t want a relationship and all he can offer me is a friendship. I asked from time to time can we hang out as friends but there’s always excuses to why he can’t. It comes off as if he’s never going to be interested in getting back together when we do talk. I also noticed I reach out to him and he doesn’t reach out to me.

[@TheOne-bi2gn]

Same

[@MLagarde0425]

Move on and get a life. Leave that bump alone.

[@1stToArriveLast2Leave]

Hey coach black I really love your content and started subscribing I have a question my ex started reaching out after months of getting back into a new relationships and they broke up I made the mistake of blowing there phone up and she has now blocked me on all social media platforms and my number have I cause things to end completely

[@johndevlin7148]

She broke up with her bf n started to talk to me as if Nothing happened between us she asked for help with something i told nope i can't help you with that her bf at the time( now her ex )came to me n told me that that how much his gonna beat me n stuff it shows how much she was talking about me in their relationship ive now heald n looking for a new relationship now

[@ECBSB2013]

So right now i'm in NC with her and I work in the same field with her. Been in NC for 6 mths. I'm proud of myself for bring strong and not wanting to chase or beg. So.... this past weekend 4 days before her birthday this Wednesday, she unfollowed me on social media. (I know she did this for attention). I then found out from one of my friends who was taking to one of her friends that my ex spoke alot about me to her friends. The entire time I've been just doing me and staying consistent and grounded.... my friend tells me the other friend knows alot about me and knows myv ex misses me and that its been bugging/ hurting that I'm not pursuing or chasing..... just give it time. She'll come back.... but you guys gotta be focused.

[@AJtheDestroyer]

Been in NC for 6 months too and bro they don’t come back after this long I’m sorry to say. 90% of the success stories on channel likes these are like 2-3 months max and most of them have tons of little interactions and signs throughout. It’s better to just accept tbh

[@ECBSB2013]

@AJtheDestroyer you never know. Sometimes people take longer...if she does. Cool. If not. She got what she wanted. I found me. She lost herself

[@AJtheDestroyer]

@@ECBSB2013 I feel you man. As long as you’re a better man now because of this experience then it’s a win and she definitely lost out

[@MLagarde0425]

Bunch of Sisi

[@aIejandRaw]

What if my ex was watching my stories consistently and commenting on my stories. I didnt respond and have him restricted, so he cant see Ive read his comments. Now he doesnt see my stories... i have not broken no contact. I would like for him to do more than comment on my stories and perhaps reach out directly to my phone number not social media? Any thoughts

[@johnton6488]

There is very irritating asymmetrical law, that is not possible to bypass. Trust between partners is slow, longterm, everyday work to build a solid, even beautiful temple of their relationship, but just one crack, or "aftershock" from earthquake that happens and trust is broken. Suddenly word means nothing, and even Coach Blac is right that actions are more important then words, if you happen to be in such situation, you can even trust their actions. Awful situation. Simply said, you can prove someone guilty (distrustful), but you can not prove someone is trustful.

[@Eblade19990]

Man this just happened to me. I’m doing no contact 4 months now since last contact she is unfollowing me as well on Instagram and Snap kept me on Facebook but not watching stories now.

[@Aggress1vegg]

I don't agree if exes block you or unfollow it's not for attention its a way to move on or at least try to.

[@davinawilkins2125]

My boyfriend told me he has too much on his plate to be in a relationship.. I told him I’m letting him go and he didn’t make any effort to get me to change my mind. I went nc but I miss him 😢.. last message he sent me was a video of a couple at odds but still helping in the house w the usher Good Good song playing.. 😒.. I didn’t respond

[@Kaycinee]

😂😂😂 WHAT girl I’m sorry like that’s something

[@CeciliaMutunga]

Hey it's so so true what u just said

[@princhipessa1969]

Excellent video!

[@lucerorodriguez6842]

I've been doing no contact. And my ex texted me on my bday and the holidays. But I just want him to stop because I just want to forget everything.

[@ohheynikkiejay5304]

I’ve been no contact with my ex I ended the friendship when he started putting another girl before me it was 8 months after the break up I went no contact I know so late but I had to, it’s been two months and there been no texts or calls but he commented on a post I posted a week ago, and he still watches my stories…but won’t reach out ….

[@JimmyH7]

Hi coach, I was in a relationship with my ex for 3 months which she ended, yes it was a short term relationship, she showed me more in 3 months than someone could in years, could you do a video on short term relationships? I asked if she loved me and she didn’t want deep conversations saying she still cares etc, I could still see the love in her eyes, I said if there is something for the future, but I can’t rely on that, she didn’t say no nor yes. It was left on amicable terms, will no contact still work? As those months were special. I’m so heartbroken and want her back but I pray she can understand my worth, will she come back in time? I am praying over this too that she comes back.🙏🏻🥺💔

[@WillRedzOfficial]

I'm on the same boat, let me know of an update.

[@JimmyH7]

@@WillRedzOfficial keep strong!

[@vaiona5156]

Stay strong men!

[@uniquecrypto736]

It might be you dated a narcissists. It was maybe love bombing.

[@RecioJohn]

Currently in no contact for a couple of days now after a 5 year relationship and being almost 2 months being broken up. I’m moving forward. Stay present fellas don’t worry about tomorrow or yesterday. Stay present and mindful of today and couple of hours from now. Not tomorrow. Things will get better eventually. We’ll get what’s meant for us so don’t stress out and worry too much about the future. Focus on now and everything will fall into place. Much love y’all.

[@marguskiis7711]

I have done it. It does not get better. The utter bitterness and feel of deep disappoitment stays with you forever.

[@achangedmind3594]

Hey coach blac... I want to make sure about something my ex boyfriend from long distance relationship who dumped me... He came this year to my country and we met and even kissed... But I noticed he didn't even bring anything gifts for and I feel like he just wants to use me for the time being... What should I do?

[@Butterflywarrior214]

Girl let him go

[@AuroraRosee03]

My ex told me that he was gonna have me blocked for awhile so he already implied thats he’s coming back so I just deleted social media it has been a week since he left but I’m gonna keep going and stay focused

[@kidprestoco]

When we finally broke up after a year and half of limbo. I finally started no contact after i caught her in some really big lies. We have a child so we have to talk about our child but thats it. Did no contact for 3 months and currently still applying it. Now shes gotta new boyfriend lol.

[@marguskiis7711]

MAny poeple do not have social media, so what about them?

[@jovangarcia532]

I've noticed your battery dies in almost every video bro, charge that mug man! Haha just kidding man. Just ran into your videos and subscribed. Thank you for your info brother.

[@jeaneengant6771]

I know today he sent a picture of us.. then he told me he always thinking about me and he misses me.. but I know he don’t want to be committed again. So I really don’t respond.. his bday is next week.. guess who’s not wishing him a happy birthday

[@MarianoMedrano-hf2cb]

Been no contact for 3 months now and I’m okay. she does look at my instagram stories while she has unfollowed me 👀

[@Mexica_702]

Any advice on how to handle this if you go nc and been almost two months and there’s kids involved and you want to see your kids ??

[@thokozanimbambo50]

thats exactly where I am...

[@NoLimitLegends]

I messed up in the beginning. And begged and pleaded. She was stalking my social media and I messed up again, she told me she hopes that was the last time she had to message me, and never texted me again. Been 5 months since last contact and 10 months since the break up. Caught her at our fav spot with a guy, she and him drove off so aggressively lol 🤷🏿‍♂️. I’m leveling up in life, moved out the country and focusing on my career finally and I know she is watching from somewhere, but I’ll keep growing and focusing on myself. It’s still hard, but getting easier for me now.

[@Dee-O]

If she needs space, she’s getting throttled by another man’s Johnson. You need to include this statistical fact.

[@remyd1984]

More us these but after a rebound relationship 👍🏻

[@CameronLowe-z6u]

The Chinese Bramba tree is the closest analogy to My particular situation because in ignorance and miseducation by way of clergy, I made the huge mistake of wearing My heart on My sleeve trying to be a better man... Now My self worth is reinforced!!! Trust this Man!!!

[@andrecrispim3209]

I’ve made a mistake of leaving my gf. After struggling with the guilt and anxiety, decided to send her an email (only thing I was not blocked) saying how I feel about it, and that I’m trying to be a better man and I’m here for her if she gave me a 2nd chance at our love. After this email, she called me 4 days later to unburden a lot of what’s going on and to argue about all the things that went wrong. Despite calling me 2x in a row for it, she still says a lot during the calls that she will never give me another shot and just wish that she would never see me again. Don’t know what to do and think, because I feel like the calls is some kind of sos for me to rescue her from the hole.

[@RYANWILMOTT-b1k]

Great content thanks

[@marguskiis7711]

But if you just never meet your ex?