6 Signs Your Spouse Is Having An Affair

[@ellenvanderploeg0622]

I’m watching this video after I found out about his lying and cheating. Your six clues are spot on - especially the one about his phone. He kept it with him 24/7 and was constantly looking at it. That includes in bed. We’re done.

[@BradBrowning]

Really sorry to hear you're going through this. Thanks for the confirmation. Stay strong!

[@mark.e.p]

Yea phones a big give away for sure. My wife was relentless on the damn thing.

[@sunflower5741]

What if he is not a phone person but still suspect cheating bc of gut feeling and he not caring if i stay or go?

[@rdnkenki]

Idk I'm always on my phone and I'm not cheating.... But in bed? Nah I can leave it alone for that for sho 😂🤠

[@tellmeaboutit9693]

Plzz stay strong, better days for you will come my dear

[@crazzystuff4556]

Once you cheat everything is broken. There is no turn back , trust is gone and without trust there is no love.

[@BradBrowning]

Indeed. By cheating, you're putting yourself at your ex's mercy. Some couples can still come back from it though, if they're both willing to work it out and rebuild the relationship from basically ground zero.

[@crazzystuff4556]

@@BradBrowning I'm sorry but I don't believed in fairytales.

[@mark.e.p]

I'm living a fairy tale!

[@PatriciaMartinez-ty4er]

I can forgive. Will never trust him. Fool me once shame on you. Fool me twice shame on me.

[@joe7665]

Facts! That’s what I say!

[@iamnursejennie5123]

Cheat once….will do it again. Never reconcile. Love yourself and walk away.

[@BradBrowning]

Sometimes that's true but other times it isn't. It just really depends on who you're dealing with and how you two work together to re-establish trust.

[@Lord_darkside74]

Nope lived it been screwed over every time in the past 30 years don’t trust the woman I’m with now yes I’m jaded and don’t want to fix it at the point but Keep up the good fight boss maybe you can see if somebody

[@lyndapeoples8127]

@@Lord_darkside74 you need to fix yourself before pursuing a relationship with anyone. That's git to be agonizing and tormenting for you. You're probably making accusations along the way towards your partner. It's not fair to them. That's a miserable life. Get some therapy, bruh. P.S. Why wouldn't you want to be your best self? Don't self-sabotage your happiness and wholeness.

[@red-sea5099]

what a beautiful lines.. appreciated thanks so much

[@eddyckw2352]

We have been happily staying together for more than 3 years old until recently my found work

[@nintendoneil]

Spot on. I’ve been separated for 2 months now from my wife of 20 years. When she first let me know that she wanted to separate and moved out, it was very hard for me. I had a nervous breakdown at work and was sent to the hospital for two days, and was on the verge of being committed to a mental hospital. The biggest signs I noticed were the change in her appearance (she started walking everyday, lost weight, put more makeup on, and styled her hair like she was going to a club before work) she was emotionally distant - stopped saying she loved me, stopped calling me dear or hunny. She eventually said she “wanted her space” All of this seemed to happen for months. I knew she was unhappy so I tried to get closer. Asked to go on dates but she stopped wanting to go out - almost like she didn’t want to be seen with me. I am currently on stress leave from work. I’m an emergency medical responder so I can’t do that job under extreme anxiety. We have an 11 yr old daughter which I’m even now wondering if she’s even biologically mine. Our daughter is not taking this separation well and my wife blames me for this. I’m starting to feel a little better, counclilling, medication, and time heal a little bit. But I know I’m still going to have bad days. (The day she posts a pic on Facebook with her “new” bf will be especially hard I think) I am starting to come to terms with this. I still love her though despite the gaslighting and neglect over the past few months. (I feel like I’ve been mentally abused) I’m far from perfect but I still think I’m a good person, and a great dad. To anyone else whose going through this - I know the world seems like it’s falling apart. Get some support - you’ll come to terms eventually and go on with living - that scar may not go away anytime soon though

[@nintendoneil]

@@florenceede6227 thank you for your kind words. I needed this today.

[@BradBrowning]

Thanks for sharing your story, man. And yes, it is very tough indeed. I'm glad you're getting the help you need!

[@sumsum620]

I’m so sorry for you, I can totally relate, my husband of 5 years has been doing a lot of these things to me as well and he has a history of cheating. I know the pain and it really sucks and I’m so sorry for you. I pray that you have the strength to move on and that God wraps his arms around you and you don’t deserve that.

[@tolbrenda-fx8qh]

may the good lord give you strength to overcome those pain

[@faroukpaasewe4459]

I am experiencing similar situation

[@Ur2ez4me81]

Don’t get complacent, pay attention & communication is key. Usually when you think everything is fine it’s not 😢

[@BradBrowning]

Relationships do take work. So be sure you do it for someone who's worth the time and effort! :-)

[@flowerpower3011]

YES. Affairs can happen in healthy relationships also. Bang on. Thanks for stating this.

[@toneman335]

If there is cheating then the relationship is over....The trust is gone. NO trust then no relationship

[@BradBrowning]

It depends. Some are able to come back from this relationship-killer stronger than ever before, like a phoenix rising.

[@carmenlombardi5063]

toneman335 what causes not to have trust in someone is when someone is not truthful and all these dark secrets keeping from your soulmate. In order to be happy with your soulmate by vice versa is for the man and the woman to be open and honest with each other to have an open relationship meaningful that you can trust your soulmate. When there's no trust is because there was no communication with each other. No one from either side knows how each other feels. I am so sorry to hear your sadness and I really truly hope that you have a better life then what you have now.

[@buffhotchkiss7400]

They are amoral sex addicts. If they do it once they will do it again. There are no second chance when you took your vows. Fidelity is everything.

[@olabodejohnson1757]

My wife is sending nude to his EX they grown together, my heart as been hurt and damage.

[@jorgenorberto293]

That's exactly my problem. I saw the signs and confronted her. She tried to deny, but before she did I showed her that I saw all the messages, all the story. The conditions on why she did it, aren't usual, after 18 years, I was working abroud and a former high school sweet heart showed up... I've been trying to hold on, but the trust just isn't there. I can't trust her anymore and my gut never failed me, my gut told me that something was going on... And it was. Now it tells me that I can't trust and it's driving me insane...

[@Jimmy-gk4qi]

Here’s a trick. Go to her job, leave a bouquet of flowers on her car. Make sure you’re not seen by anyone, wear a good disguise. (The weather is getting cold so a scarf and a big wool hat wouldn’t be odd) Go home. If she mentions the flowers, she’s loyal. If she never mentions the flowers, she isn’t sure which guy put them on her car.

[@BradBrowning]

lol nice one!

[@thescramble4309]

I’m going to try this. Wish me luck

[@seemrarai128]

What if she doesn't mention it just because she is afraid that you would say her wrong even if she isn't cheating on you? sometimes the partner isn't so close to mention this all

[@josefhospital]

​@@seemrarai128exactly, it's not foolproof

[@fidelitycheckonline2014]

Odd vacation or holiday behaviour is a good sign because they have to keep contact with their lover.

[@BradBrowning]

Roger that! Especially if there's been one too many vacations in a short span of time.

[@lonelypigeon7562]

I got one.....married female asian worker usually parks her car in front of office to go work safely....its 15 footsteps to enter. But nowadays....I often see that asian worker...instead of parking in that area where there IS available parking in front.......she ends up parking NEXT to this white dude worker's truck....almost every chance she gets....unless another worker beats her to the parking stall.....it takes her approx 40 footsteps to enter the shop. Since he comes in early and she arrives about 1/2 hr later, and its still dark......wonder if my work friend would "see something unusual" and tell me "guess what I saw?".....they were pretty CLOSE to each other.... Love to snitch to her old man..

[@bellaandonlini3936]

Another clue is during intimate moments he tries different " techniques " to practice on you, his taste in music suddenly changes, and he suddenly takes up a new sport/recreational activity after work.

[@BradBrowning]

Ah, that's terrible. Are you a firsthand witness of those signs you've mentioned? Sorry to hear that...

[@warrenbeetar2258]

True story. Those are definitely signs of cheating. My fiance is guilty of this. Different my, new clothes, wearing makeup and looking hot. Defensive when questioned about things. Hiding the phone and sneaky the phone and her messages she was getting 24 hours a fucking day.

[@warrenbeetar2258]

Also, being sexually mature, practicing different bedroom tricks, things she never did before

[@jimharris8946]

That’s not always true

[@jessicagarcia7105]

Wow. Im glad u shared that. He has all of a sudden started listening to country music which he said he HATED and we have only made love 2 times this year. When I try to become intimate with him he ignores me. And the 2 times we did make love, he couldnt "finish" so to speak. I feel like a total loser.

[@socialmediaexpert6903]

Some signs : (1) Change of usual pattern (2) Being rude to you and being disrespectful (3) Disappearing from the house not for good reason and coming back as nothing happened. Then, gradually, distancing from you (4) coming home smelling perfume, (5) Sudden improvement of her attention for appearance /make ups

[@BradBrowning]

Not bad! These are valid points indeed, especially the gradual distancing.

[@mark.e.p]

Yep had all these signs from my cheating wife, never ever left her phone either as he was constantly messaging her especially when she was at home with me.

[@noelbeavers2692]

I was totally blindsided by my wife. We were married almost 30 years when she suddenly asked for a divorce. I later found out she was cheating with a family friend. I was away for several months because of my work and her relationship began then. She showed few signs of wandering or I was just too stupid to notice or was away too long. Their relationship ended soon after our divorce. He lied. She lied. I was left sick with three children at home. A very rough time in my life.

[@BradBrowning]

Sorry to hear that, man. Where do you both stand right now? Are you back to communicating or still estranged? It's really challenging for me to know where to give you a headstart, knowing only so little of the situation... Sign up for my Mend the Marriage coaching program so I can help take a look at all the other factors at play and find out what’s really going on, monitor your situation, and guide you on a regular, ongoing basis at www.marriageguy.com/coaching

[@lonelypigeon7562]

should have given her custody of the kids and move on.....let her suffer the burden of raising 3 kids while fkn around.....kinda hard ya know.

[@angelarios8305]

@@lonelypigeon7562 Your comment has to be one of the most abusive things a parent could do to their child. Just shove them off like you never cared at all. I'm sure your kids will suffer a life time based on the amount of care that you would give them.

[@angelarios8305]

@@lonelypigeon7562 10-4 Everyone has their bad days. I hope you are doing better today! :)

[@mrquick6775]

Nah, he dumped after she left you. This is very common. Women are just so messed up that they believe that they can monkey branch to the new guy, but to him it’s a casual thing. This happened to me, but I knew in my gut that she was cheating, I found out that I was right and he dumped her after just two weeks she tried to come back and started calling me EVERYDAY but I told her I would get a restraining order against her. Then I changed my cell number,I saw her ten years later at a funeral and walked right past her. When I found out that a woman has cheated I move on immediately and there is no turning back. The one thing I have always maintained is my dignity and self respect!!

[@allkKhan-tq8iy]

What I learned is, if someone wanna leave from a relationship being a partner (going to be an ex), your job is to make it easy exit for him/her.

[@givetolive198]

I had a girl who says she needed time by herself I told her if you leave stay gone

[@BradBrowning]

That was a bit harsh! LOL

[@darrenmacwhirter1706]

Smart thing to do!

[@darknessswolf7977]

That’s what my husband says but that’s sometimes a sign of stress and hurting or something bad but for me I do it for stress

[@darknessswolf7977]

So if you said that an they never cheated or hide anything from you what’s the point of saying that it is rude to be honest

[@santoparfano1910]

@@BradBrowning Brother he is NOT being harsh but you are being a white knighter. He set what is called a hard boundary. If my wife said that to me I'd tell her to not let the door hit her on the ass!! If a gf/wife tells you they need space they are either contemplating cheating or have already cheated.

[@michaelanderson8464]

also if they ask you if you are cheating over and over they might be the one cheating they want to see if you are too

[@BradBrowning]

Yes, it's called projecting their behaviour on you, which sucks, really.

[@catg8383]

Michael Anderson EXACTLY! YOU are so on point!!!

[@Mzbrownbeauty27]

I'm not a cheater but have been cheated on. I use to ask was something going on and would get no, I'm not. Don't have a reason to blah blah blah. Then guess what, I find out he cheated.

[@MudMuzic]

This is so true. My wife wants so bad for me to be a piece of shit cheater like her and her fruitless searches only add to her psychosis.

[@keithkimmel6638]

Nothing like a pointless spousal argument to make your wife want to voraciously bang the other man! Been there ~ done that!

[@keithkimmel6638]

Cheat on me once ~ Shame on you! Cheat on me twice ~ Shame on me!

[@fidelitycheckonline6601]

Absolutely right Brad, they have to try and keep the secret lover happy while they are away.

[@BradBrowning]

That's so sad to hear. Take care!

[@HighFancyLove]

All of your signs are on point! I thought I was crazy. I was married to a serial cheater for 25 years. I know now in hindsight that he is a a Narcissist. He always made me feel like there was nothing right. So he could leave in a fight. Emotional distant, depressed and sad, He started working ALL WEEKEND FRI through SUN. He asked and took a lot of space. I didn’t monitor his activity. His appearance changed dramatically working out, new clothing style. He changed names on his phone to his Mom and Sisters names. Also, dating websites big red flag.!, no one realizes that these dating sites are loaded with cheating spouses looking for affairs thank you!!!

[@BradBrowning]

That's just sad and I'm really sorry to hear that. How do you plan to proceed? If he's a narcissist, then I suggest you might want to consider divorce?

[@mrquick6775]

Why do women always bring up men cheating when we are talking about women who cheat??🙄 It’s weird and really it’s just a deflection from the reality of modern day women. But women don’t really want me to be aware of their evil deeds!! 😢

[@esmeherrera9204]

I believe some of these signs/changes in personality come before a partner cheats. Usually they already emotionally left the relationship which then in turns moves to a physical leap whether they ask to separate/divorce which would be easier in the long run than cheating. So keep an eye out if they start to do these things because if you want to save your marriage you need to communicate with them before they completely check out of the relationship. If they start to share less of their day with you or they want to spend less time with you then please speak up. Becuz after that its pretty much all down hill. Once they're doing 2 or more of the above mentioned signs/changes then the relationship is usually over for them. Good luck 👍

[@BradBrowning]

Thanks for sharing your thoughts!

[@lynnmeyers10]

Sometimes they really were never in your relationship fully.

[@irinejohnson4858]

If they wanna leave then you got to let them go..

[@lynnmeyers10]

You're telling me!

[@carmenlombardi5063]

Yes Brad, I read what you have written to me and it does make sense. In my life in relationships. I have never cheated and I wouldn't know how it feels to cheat? But I as an individual wouldn't take that approach to cheat. Two wrongs doesn t make a right! I feel if someone cheats one needs to ask the person is to why did she or he chose to cheat? Its got to be a reason for their actions? From there if one wants to save their relationship is to talk it out and work it out. But if one doesn't want to by them giving excuses for their actions and refusing to admit that they are at fault then I honestly feel that it is best to move on!

[@BradBrowning]

Here's what I generally advise: kzbin.info/www/bejne/fH_EaaGPo9Wiqa8

[@wajahatali6649]

Lo

[@meltedblue5284]

What about “emotional cheating”? Hiding relationships on their phone without physical cheating?

[@BradBrowning]

It's more or less the same, especially the first two signs.

[@bobsanderz3005]

Walk

[@fatimamohsin8922]

Just happened to me today

[@lorrainewadsworth9019]

@@bobsanderz3005 want to but im 55 and scared.

[@Ragnar-Viking]

Doesn't count

[@gabrielsanmartin1618]

When a woman cheating is game over, big mistake trying to save the relationship...men just need to move on...that will increase men's value in himself and look for a better high value woman.. don't waste your time never

[@BradBrowning]

I wish it were that simple, but things are a lot complicated than that, with lots of factors involved. Thanks for your input, nevertheless! :-)

[@dsmith7684]

Spoken like a meagerly endowed Eeyore

[@christianlovely1500]

Danielle obviously you've cheated and would like a second chace

[@cassiewui5173]

Danielle Disgusting cheater!

[@canehaultruck]

gabriel san martin Thanks man ! I like that

[@lawrencecutzinger6904]

If you suspect your wife/husband is cheating and you know they are about to "leave for the majority of the evening", go into the car right before they leave and write down the mileage. When they come home write it down again. Then ask them where they went too. You should be able to figure out if they are lying just by the mileage. if you wait for a bit and you see a similar pattern like 42 miles etc every time than you know there's a good chance they are going to the same place (the other guy/gal) meaning the other person lives about 21 miles away. I think you know what I mean. That way if they say they went some where only a few miles away you know they are lying.

[@BradBrowning]

Yes, a drastic change in your spouse's routine without good reason may be worth observing.

[@emersonguhiling3429]

The truth is, a person can still be in love with his/her spouse but still cheat. Love flies out the window. I think the only way to make sure your not cheated on is to marry someone who has a very strong sense of commitment, who makes a big deal about integrity and honor. Fact is, love flies out the window in many marriages but if your spouse is the type who values commitment as much as love, chances are that person will do anything and everything to keep the marriage intact.

[@BradBrowning]

Thanks for your input! :-)

[@buffhotchkiss7400]

Touche

[@gymrat2083]

So basicly if your a man marry another man 😂

[@rolamahmoud8909]

Emerson Guhiling Not necessarily. Men seem very interested in marriage and having a family. Once marriage takes place and a beautiful woman is their wife, everything starts to change. Infidelity seems like a dominant part of most people, nowadays . However, it’s the most valid legal reason for taking a spouse to court for a divorce. But sometimes cheating is so hard to legally prove.

[@warrenbeetar2258]

A cheating spouse does not love their partner if they are easily able to betray them.

[@vrajeshparikh4163]

Best to walk away without saying single word, it will help if you have good / career do keep focused on work.

[@BradBrowning]

Yes, focusing on yourself during this time is a great idea.

[@ruilotz]

Hi Brad! Almost all of these are on point. The only clue i did not notice much was where my wife tries to look good because i thought it was natural of her ever since... But after this, i realized she buys dresses lately that are of more shapely fit and really look sexy on her. Lastly, the gut feel... It is real. If gut feel tells you something, id say its almost always true...

[@BradBrowning]

Hi Rui! Thanks for dropping by. I don't really know your situation well so it'd be wrong for me to confirm that. I suggest you take time to observe just to be sure, all right? Take care!

[@ruilotz]

@@BradBrowning Thanks, Brad! I had already confirmed it actually... She has an affair. I was able to hack her fb messenger and read their messeges, it was even their monthsary when i discovered it (thru their exchange of messages). Im in no contact for just abt a week now... At first i begged at pleaded but i stopped it when i learndd abt your videos.... So thank you... You are an angel to those who are in this situation... ❤️🙏

[@gleeberger8966]

If they cheat, then say "bye bye!"

[@Amanda-qv5oy]

Easier said than done.

[@gleeberger8966]

If they cheat on you then they will do it again! Oh, they will say it will never happen again, but it will. If a man REALLY loves a woman, she is all he can think of, all he wants, he feels he can't live without her! That's how you will know if he really loves you! And the sad part... if he cheats on you, and if you stay, he won't respect you, and then the next time he is tempted it will be easier for him to cheat again!

[@BradBrowning]

Especially if they don't regret it or show no remorse or worse, if they blame you for it. Recognize toxic people when you see one!

[@debscornercanada]

May I also add- They will also take vacation days (you dont know about)- AND leave early OFTEN (keep an eye on the cashflow and hours worked if you can) They typically conduct this during the WORK DAY. Also they will make up "courses" they have to take. They will pre empt a "getaway" story (your gut will be off) it will have TONS of details or be VERY vague)...something like " oh ya I have this course they want me to take next October (but Im not quite sure if Im going or not yet" )..-this is so they can check the other persons schedule if it matches AND throw you off "suspicion" by telling you ahead of time its for "work" - also they will begin working weekends out of the blue and lots in a row. . Improvement of hygiene, listening to different types of music or different movies they never liked before or going on a diet - oh and I got this one 2 days ago ( his new "Co worker" stopped in (LOL) and gave the owners wife (On a Saturday..... so she wasnt even "WORKING"-also Im told the male owner is the ONLY one there on a Saturday) - some bread she made AND he said "Ya Ill take one too" (basically baked goods given by "customers" / or "co -workers" ) - basically he wanted to eat her "baked goods" (in MY house) and made up an excuse ahead of time where he "got it" (which probably was NOT at "work")- Also- different kinds of alcohol than they usually drink (they will tend to MIRROR the other persons language as well).

[@BradBrowning]

Hey thanks for sharing!

[@missyanderson459]

I start arguments, but I'm not cheating. I just want my husband to spend more time with his family. He makes excuses to leave the house and won't be back for hours when it used to never take him that long. He's being very distant, very emotionally withdrawn. I ask him if there is someone else he hesitates. I don't know what to do. We've been together for 5 years we have a 16 month old son. It's hard.

[@BradBrowning]

It is. This video is for you: kzbin.info/www/bejne/nYnQgJJue5iXfcU

[@bevanbuckwheatshea5520]

Sadly I dont thnk he wants to stay with you

[@ramassist2]

He wants a one sided open marriage

[@brightpage1020]

Strong, confident, positive outlook… right. Got it. Hold on. I’ll just get off the floor from my puddle of angry, screaming tears and get right on that.

[@BradBrowning]

Yup, do these things after grieving.... but try to secure proof first! Sometimes, misunderstandings can happen and you're crying over nothing! :-)

[@jamesoconnor9042]

People who have character don’t cheat. If your word means little, then marriage vows are pointless. Such partnerships inspire callousness, and a callous partner couldn’t care less about anything but themselves. ❤️

[@BradBrowning]

Thanks for dropping by. Yes, there is a tad of selfishness going on when one cheats and it's very hard to recover from. This is why both people, especially the offensive party, in the marriage must be willing to make sacrifices and devotion if they ever expect to work it out again.

[@nikkiallen1500]

@@BradBrowning umm, more than “a Tad”, Brad! Infidelity is the ultimate callous selfish act, stabbing your partner in the back.

[@NewyorkNewyork57]

Best thing is to Walk away, and block the partner and his/her family members, and remember don't keep on forgiving and hoping that they'll beg and want to make up again.....because they will cheat etc. Again 1000000% its disgusting especially when you never did nothing wrong yourself

[@lichanyanthan5684]

8 years now. Am stuck. Totally destroyed.

[@GypsyQueenEnigma]

It's not because the lie is good, but that you want to trust eachother(that is the point of marriage)

[@BradBrowning]

Thanks for your input!

[@mr.b9650]

Mine was interesting, my wife gained a new friend but it became a situation where she became acting in a really good mood, when before she was tired, or having depression issues. Then it was chatting into the night, to then her being secretive with her phone. The appearance thing def happened though.

[@SixStringsCovers]

If your spouse was having sex relationships before marriage and before meeting you it is difficult to not having an affair while being married. You only think how is going to be with a different person and continue to compare sex partners all the time. But if you only loved one person all your life then it is much easier to be faithful,my opinion.

[@DonKhalifah]

You have said what has been on my mind for LOOOONNNG

[@stevenb7964]

This is scientifically proven, if girls have too many partners they lose the ability to pair bond. This is why a ladies past is important

[@royalisrael7475]

Interesting thought. You are right, I never looked at it that way before.

[@ThePratima89]

You are 100% correct , I have seen my friends and the ones that had multiple partners before marriage are having affairs after marriage too.

[@sarahs7751]

@@ThePratima89 not always true. I had other partners and I'm not cheating on my husband.

[@Jude13able]

I will never remarry ever for these very reasons

[@BradBrowning]

I hear you, man. However, I think this is worth a watch: kzbin.info/www/bejne/i6ecdH2dlNN-jac

[@Jude13able]

Brad Browning She is in a committed relationship with another man who is living in the house I formerly lived in. All I'm trying to do is finish the separation and divorce peacefully. I saw your video....we already tried that several times and seven men later here I am. I'm done. But thank you for the advice.

[@robbiefrentz9427]

I never caught my ex cheating. But I always felt she was. She matched several things you talked about

[@BradBrowning]

Take time to observe first and best not to jump to conclusions, yeah?

[@MrDon-jj1cn]

whatt!!!!!!!! if he or she starts fights and easily pissed off and you can't do anything right. This is because they are pissed that they can't talk or be with the other person. or the other person pissed them off and they using you to build their confidence

[@BradBrowning]

Maybe, but that's not always the case.

[@prometheuspredator7971]

Mr. Don, I agree with you totally. I have found for myself is when you start noticing small differences, such as distance, limited eye contact, edgy, smug, appears to be thinking of something else when you talk to them and does not respond, like a blank look on their face and you reiterate the question. No intimate exchange of conversation, such as,"are you ok? Is there something on your mind that you want to talk about, or what's going on you seem diffrent." Out of the clear blue they make mean, cruel, and hateful remarks, I knew something was up and they wanted out of the relationship. Time to cut your losses and get out. I went to no contact mode and never spoke to them again. Wasn't even going to ride that marry go round again. It was time for me to let things be and move on.

[@adamwastaylorbeforet.c.b.5032]

Mr. Don it's a sign he's cheating

[@Inlovewithhim-o7h]

My husband is doing the same thing to me he is fighting with me and commenting on anything I buy negatively just to piss me off coz he is pissed off and I dont know why ,now I know

[@audrib-m7737]

This is how I know my husband has talked to his side piece because he takes it out on me when things dont go right with her. Oh the limited eye contact, SOB if I would have known of that HUGE detail we would NOT be married

[@fidelitycheckonline2014]

Our advice is watch out for any unexplained change of behaviour. Don't challenge your partner without proof.

[@BradBrowning]

Exactly! It's best to observe first because throwing a bunch of accusations isn't cool at all.

[@fidelitycheckonline2014]

True, its bad tactics as well, by showing your suspicious she will just take more precautions not to get caught.

[@mariafitts]

If your partner has cheated on you there’s a big chance he’s cheating on you again, never trust a man, you were better off not continuing the relationship if there’s a trust issue

[@BradBrowning]

Good point. For the record, it does depend how trust has been re-established as well as the willingness of both parties to do so.

[@sardonyxcorporation]

Put a tracking device in their car if they are always missing and see for yourself.

[@BradBrowning]

Thanks for the input!

[@asiansensation2251]

I caught my wife cheating on me with her co worker.I saw their messages from her tablet in our kid's room.I finally confronted her when he asked her did you find a hotel yet.She said she would drop everything with him and just remain friends but she still displays the same cheating signs.He is married with kids too.I left a note on his car and told him to stop or I would tell his wife.He told my wife that I left a note on his car.She said what I said to him was embarrassing to her and selfish of me.I said I did because I feel she cannot break it off with him and to save our marriage and family.I told her I did what any man would do and he is a coward

[@BradBrowning]

She thinks you're selfish? She's clearly projecting her behaviour on you. Let her make up for it and don't chase her.

[@masonbetha6805]

Sounds so much of the same! & she LOVES HOTELS!

[@isaiahlasley4668]

Probably because you left a note Sissy, she wants you to squab with him. Oh yeah!

[@GhostSal]

My wife pulled the embarrassing comment on me too. All I could think was, too bad and embarrassing is the least of the emotional roller coaster you put me through.

[@laurapotier9816]

Immediately tell his wife. You wouldn’t want to be selfish and keep that news to yourself.

[@jeremyjones8350]

Well these facts can be mistaken or overlooked. If your spouse is not cheating on you then maybe the cause of changes comes from depression, lack of sleep, stress, or drugs and alcohol. Never judge someone because you can be judged upon yourself each person has issues in their life.

[@BradBrowning]

Yeah, hence, discretion is needed. I'm pretty sure I've stressed that out at the start of the vid. :-)

[@Thefishingcaddy]

Nope they are cheating

[@howlingmadmudduck919]

My parting words to the x were I'm not upset that you lied to me, I'm upset that I'll never be able to trust you again.

[@BradBrowning]

That's understandable. This video may help: kzbin.info/www/bejne/fH_EaaGPo9Wiqa8

[@truthisloud39]

My daughter went over to her friends house and witnessed her friend treating her father and step mother in a horrible way. I sort of brushed it off because sometimes kids are brats. A few weeks later my daughter comes home and tells me that her friends father had gone on a dating website looking for another woman while still being married. It all started to make sense. The worst part is, now my child has been exposed to a cheating couple and the effects that affair is having on her friend. My daughter started to tell me she never wants to get married because men and women cheat and I'm so sad that she has to deal with this adult BS when she's only nine. How do I handle the situation with my child without trashing my daughter's friends parents?

[@BradBrowning]

I understand how you feel as a parent, however, it's important to put trust in your daughter. That incident she witnessed was just a one-off and I'm sure she will experience many more experiences as she grows older, some will be bad but some will also be good. Trust in your daughter to make the right decisions as she grows older. At nine, you're probably worrying too much. But since it's making you uncomfortable, how about setting up her friend to visit your house instead of hers?

[@truthisloud39]

@@BradBrowning that's a great suggestion, I will have her friend to our house. Thanks so much.

[@Jefff72]

My wife gave me a short interrogation last night when I was working out. Why are you all of a sudden working out? First of all, I have been working out and second, I'm trying to do it for her. I'm damaged goods and I doubt another wants a 45 year old wreck with MS. Really, last summer I met someone who I could have cheated with but chose not to. Despite how hard things get at times, I won't go there. I told my wife that I'm after a married woman, her.

[@BradBrowning]

Hey that was smooth! :-) How'd she responded to what you said? I think she's just paranoid of losing you over someone at the gym and is not an indication of trouble,unless you see the rest of the signs here? I still suggest to observe.

[@sheldonmurphy6031]

I have always been the long hour worker. Sometimes.115 hours a work week. I was constantly around men who were actively cheating, college girls, etc. She had became insecure at times. (I always tell her everything) One day, she flat out aked me if there are prettier girls i see all the time. I told her f-no, but their are very pretty girls around. I told her ANYTIME she wants to show up for work, no matter how many times, or how random, to please come to my work :) I told her that she can even call me home ANYTIME she wants. That she is my love, not money, not my boss, there are plenty of boss's out there, but i only have 1 wife !

[@RS-io6vm]

Sometimes its a good sign that it happens to find out about an affair

[@BradBrowning]

Better than being in the dark for sure!

[@ryanturner9979]

@@BradBrowning i caught her last week brad...she was headed to work..inside a convenient store the guy was rubbing her shoulder is this cheating

[@tiasanchez1195]

What is it when they wait until after cheating to mention it ? Guilty conscience

[@joynkindness]

Been married for 30 years. good points. prayers for all. MM arr

[@jackpetersen7545]

Michelle Cox,You are beautiful 🌷🌹,you only need a good man in your life!

[@juniorshakespeen7625]

Aggravation is also a sign of depression. I was guilty of that for 5 years and I was NEVER unfaithful.

[@BradBrowning]

Yup! But all 6 signs combined usually points to cheating.

[@juniorshakespeen7625]

@@BradBrowning indeed! :/

[@carmenlombardi5063]

Thank you Brad for sending your comments to me of your theory on relationships.

[@BradBrowning]

You're welcome! You never know who else can benefit, so if it’s not too much to ask and if you haven’t already, please like, share, and subscribe to my channel so you won't miss any of my upcoming videos. I'd really appreciate it! :-)

[@sergiodeleon860]

I found out the 24th of this month that my wife is cheating me and I don't know what to do I need someone to talk 🙁

[@laurelcordell7287]

You forgot suddenly guarding their phone & or computer!

[@BradBrowning]

It's what I've said in sign #6! :-)

[@oscarwilliamson1264]

Laurel Flippin,you got a pretty smile ☺️😊😍😍

[@JD-zi6eu]

If she stops cleaning the house and washing dishes.. that's when you move on

[@user-xl6vt7ev2s]

Take it with a grain of salt.. unfortunately on my relationship I feel like all of this signs are happening or happened. I faced it directly and came back with a "nothing is happening and you are insecure". However my gut is telling me something is not right. I can feel it and it gives me chills sometimes. It's hard to act on those feelings with family involved... at the end I am a family man and my children come first. It will be my burden not my children's.

[@BradBrowning]

Take time to observe first and once you get enough proof, you can apply the tips here: kzbin.info/www/bejne/i2rShXqkebegqZY

[@critiqueoflife]

Something happened. It's just whether you are willing to admit it, and deal with the emotional consequences.

[@kitbokkharmih2555]

You are 100 percent right .....my wife whom I have love for 22 years ..lately she's trying to act differently now....never spek and avoiding me...yep we do have some problems ..but when i apologize she never listen and instead drive me away.....ya she used to come late from work.....n always busy ..,

[@BradBrowning]

Sorry to hear but like I said, take time to observe first and try not to jump to conclusions too quickly, yeah? Good luck!

[@DEHDON13]

No way, if she cheats it's over. No forgiveness no repairing The reason for this is because you have to teach them relationships are serious and not to be taken for granted.

[@AmySarahSmith]

I agree, mine cheated it was so over. No forgiveness on my part either. Only part is I do not think he could be taught he was too old. I was taken for granted and I think I will stay single the rest of my life.

[@BradBrowning]

It really depends on you both. Most of the time, a lot of people would move on, but a few would still fight for the relationship, so this all depends which side you're on and what your views are. But take into consideration about what I’ve mentioned here, too: kzbin.info/www/bejne/o2OahX-brrqgrck There is no right or wrong answer here because it is your relationship and it's personal to you. Make sense? Anyway men and women cheat for different reasons, but if you think your ex is worth it and if there's been a genuine connection between you two before the cheating happened, then try to see the roles that you BOTH played that led to all this mess and see once and for all if it can be resolved or not, okay? Really take your time before deciding though and be sure not to make any hasty decisions from an emotional place. Take care!

[@KcEverythingg]

Been getting cheated for atleast 9 months could be longer. She lied about taking care of her sick grandma threw the night up to 4 night a week since April and its almost October. I found out from her mom She hasn't stayed there 1 time. She lied and used all her mom's stories about her helping her mom out. Broke my heart none stop lying to my face. Then before that lied about hanging out with her old best friend I found out she hasn't seen in well over a year. Plus lied and about going on a 7 day vacation with her friend. She didn't go with her friend but took the guy she's been seeing behind my back. Plus we have 3 kids together. Worst part I find all this stuff out. She'd says none of that is true and denies it. She's caught red headed and refuses to admit. She crushed me

[@BradBrowning]

Heartbreaking indeed. Sorry to hear you had to go through that. It's time to discuss those with her though. Pick a good time to do so.

[@jonenoh]

💥That's Why I don't have many close friends, just work associates💥

[@bud5084]

If your best bud wants to come over often it probably isn't to see you.

[@Cyberrat617]

Watching this video after finding out my dad was cheating on my mom

[@Jose-df6ii]

you forgot number seven social media Facebook Twitter Etc that's a relationship killer

[@mickcarson8504]

Exactly. That's where it all starts. I hate FB

[@LaidBackLora]

Yep!!!!! Because my ex constantly thought my posts we're about him

[@bykjdus]

Fb, messenger, twitter, instagram, snapchat, etc. should all be banned, actually should be made illegal to have. Destroys relationships with not only couples, but entire families. I chose to leave the social media world as i was just sick of the constant prayer chain garbage. Or poor me, i cant buy my kids christmas presents, when in actuality, these fuckers are sitting on a $500 plus fuckin phone, paying an incrdible internet/service bill, and crying they aint got no money. Social media just needs to stop!!!

[@ronnievaught8975]

Mf right. Be who ever anytime, be tech

[@ryanturner9979]

@@bykjdus so f true..100%

[@amztomahawk7242]

This is so on point, in my relationship

[@BradBrowning]

How long have you been seeing these signs? Sorry to hear but as I say, take time to observe first.

[@brightpage1020]

Love that you start with the disclaimer that signs aren't proof, although that can make things feel more confusing if you're being lied to... It's easy after a binge of KZbin videos like this but not as responsible, to feel certain there is an affair going on... and that makes it really difficult to confront them about your concerns in a calm way, without snapping.

[@BradBrowning]

Lying is a huge dealbreaker indeed. I don't suggest confronting unless you have evidence. But when you do, follow the tips here: kzbin.info/www/bejne/i2rShXqkebegqZY and I also have a dedicated channel made for saving marriages, check it out at: kzbin.info/www/bejne/mqOVe4eflMd2iLc

[@jijipar9028]

[phone]⏯⏯

[@gabegarcia5190]

This can be so deceiving because I have always made sure I look good, I do work late, sometimes i am irritable, etc. but I am not having an affair and never have had one! This is insane and can lead to a divorce.

[@BradBrowning]

Especially if you skip the first 50 seconds of the video. Never cherry-pick information. That habit of yours is dangerous!

[@brianschaefer3851]

This is spot on.

[@paulwilliams7700]

Wife of 35 years showed most of these signs i was oblivious and now am.alone as she walkes out with seemingly no planning or prep. Wants to move closer to her new job. Trust your gut everytime

[@BradBrowning]

Sorry to hear that.

[@SiteSauce]

Ha! My marriage of 20years has shown all of these signs all the way through. Neither of us has had an affair. These could just be the way conflict happens or the way we respond to conflict. Working late for long periods of time, that could just a pursuit of building a business or career and neglecting marriage because life requires you to work hard sometimes will happen. I'm not sure you can point to these things as definitive signs - as you rightly point out. All marriages WILL reach the point where one or more or all of these signs will become real, this is just the way marriage works. Conflict is good for marriage - it is how we become mature people.

[@BradBrowning]

That's actually fact #1! LOL. If you take time to review the earlier part of this very video, I never said this is definitive. It's around the 35-40 second mark. :-) Anyways neglecting your marriage or rather, being complacent towards each other, is very common after being married for decades. But it can actually be deteriorating. So you both have to be careful you don't fall into that rut. Take care!

[@devilope23]

Women, usually, like to focus more attention towards their appearance. Men don’t put on make up, or care as much as to how honed in their appearance is. Should that be a red flag as much?

[@BradBrowning]

Men are more geared towards having a presentable appearance and smelling good. Men who cheat however are known to display more or less similar traits as the ones I've mentioned on this vid as well.

[@yuhand_ayaninura]

Nah. Not looking forward to save the marriage. I've spent the last 5 years out of its 18 doing just that, and the rest was pure unconditional dedication. Now I'm trying to save my own soul, avoiding it from losing its empathy due to constant bruising and breaking from his acts.

[@Modern_day_primitive]

Everytime a argument breaks out my wife says tells me to leave it divorce her if I'm not happy, when all I want it us to bith be happy and fix and end the argument

[@BradBrowning]

Right. Try to pick a good time to discuss your issues, specifically the one you two have been arguing about. Also this video is for you: kzbin.info/www/bejne/qpixeZ59hbV5h9k

[@swilli1223]

1:59 begins 1 of 6 signs

[@norafeher8260]

...#7 they suddenly bring up the idea of an open relationship #8 they start saying things like our relationship sucks these days, but we've tried SO MANY TIMES to fix it and I don't know if it's worth it to try anymore.

[@BradBrowning]

Relationship issues do need to be worked on. Otherwise it gets exhausting to one or both parties involved.

[@Gotoworkkk]

I’m sorry by him bringing up another woman to add to the mix will just be a terrible problem down the line. He’s feeling guilty for feeling that way so he told you. He just wants to feel somebody differently in the bed. Adding some new excitement.

[@GabrielaArredondo]

My spouse has hit every one of these signs. It all started when my brother got him a job working as the head maintenance man at a nursing home. He’s the only young guy (he’s 31) working there amongst young beautiful nurses. I wish I had solid proof.

[@angelapyle7301]

Trust your gut feeling. 98% of women who suspected infidelity were correct.

[@BradBrowning]

Sorry to hear that. You may have to watch this if you're really inclined to believe/trust your gut instinct: kzbin.info/www/bejne/i2rShXqkebegqZY&pp=sAQA

[@wasiemanwar-ali8709]

well this ticks all the boxes my gf is on a hollyday to greece she let me know when whe was on the airport

[@BradBrowning]

Hey thanks for dropping by!

[@mrjamesbailey44]

You will know when he or she is never home and always starting fights and accusing and lack of attention

[@BradBrowning]

In other words, she's projecting her own behaviour to you? That's a red flag indeed!

[@sibelius4671]

I was in a good marriage. Still cheated. Considered leaving. Have stayed for 2 years as I see my spouse is so happy in life and I can’t take that away from them even if it’s to make myself more happy. Cheaters are often people with souls too believe it or not. God knows I need therapy to cope with what I’ve done. It hurts so much looking at myself in the mirror every day

[@BradBrowning]

Going into introspection is always a good thing to do. It helps improve yourself too and learn from your mistakes and one day you'll learn to forgive yourself and do better. :-) As long as you're making a commitment to yourself to try to change your behaviour, it should be all right. Best of luck!

[@Mike-cp5ch]

Interesting videos for sure ,Ive gone through this stuff 2 times and was so in love that i was blind and both x's were real good at hiding and having an affair.... Ive learned that ill be single for the rest of my life..Ok single and sometimes lonely is better than being married and miserable..... If they want a break or so called space by all means give it to them and when they take it you should be smart and go to a lawyer and get started on papers to protect youself....better yet take that time to hide your precious hard earned..$$ and anything else that is valuable to you....Presently when i meet someone I make it clear that this doesnt mean stay for breakfast...Im not mean by no way its instinct of survival....

[@BradBrowning]

I understand where you're coming from, man. Yes, it's best to be single than be miserable despite having a so called wife. Perhaps try to be more choosy with women and don't rush into things IF someone happens to catch your eye again? You know what they say, third time's the charm! ;)

[@Mike-cp5ch]

3rd time OMG shame on me....No way for sure... After all now days i call it entertainment and any funds spent i use as a tax deduction.....I finally got smart....LOL

[@MandipNica-ix2bd]

I have learned a lot from this video. My husband all these six things discussed. Oh gosh I really need help.

[@BradBrowning]

Really sorry to hear that. Consider signing up for my Mend the Marriage coaching program at www.marriageguy.com/coaching

[@sheldonmurphy6031]

These signs are very correct. They start out subtle, then it graduates to your spouse just being a roomate. I had such blind faith and trust, that when the affair was discovered, it shredded me completely. 1 year later, (today) we are getting married again. I take what happened as a blessing, because it took such a horrible event to see how I myself contributed to our decline. I still struggle with trust and suspicions, but that gets better and better over time :) I still feel so blessed to have her as my wife again :)

[@BradBrowning]

Really proud of you of turning a major issue to that of a blessing,as well as accept the role that you've played in it (which is what I always encourage people to do). It takes courage and a very mature mind to do all those things. If you are still struggling, these tips may help: kzbin.info/www/bejne/fH_EaaGPo9Wiqa8 Anyways happy for you, man! Thank you for the comment.

[@santoparfano1910]

Bro...be careful. She cheated on you once and she will most likely do it again. Best of luck but be mindful

[@goudagrishhdoe8925]

Are you kidding man. She cheated on you and by taking her back you are letting her know that that behavior is acceptable. Do not be surprised if she does it again.

[@sheldonmurphy6031]

@@goudagrishhdoe8925 Omg I forgot all about this. Lmao Dec 15th 2019 i buested her again. I baught my new house, and moved in Jan 10th 2020 ! LoL I was that idiot that thought I was that small odd that would overcome. Lol Joke was on me lol

[@sheldonmurphy6031]

@@santoparfano1910 Omg I forgot all about this. Lmao Dec 15th 2019 i buested her again. I baught my new house, and moved in Jan 10th 2020 ! LoL I was that idiot that thought I was that small odd that would overcome. Lol Joke was on me lol She is just a homie now at best. No friends with benefits, just a homie. Our kids are amazing, and never want them to see us hate eachother. I am a pretty humble guy, but this time I can hold my head high knowing im the better person :)

[@steveng1624]

*You're right on Brad*

[@BradBrowning]

I appreciate the support. If it’s not too much to ask and if you haven’t done so yet, please like, share, and subscribe to my channel so you won't miss any of my upcoming videos. I'd really appreciate it, too! :-)

[@babbygirlhaden6991]

Be strong with the Faith that keeps us at perfect ✌ Peace.

[@BradBrowning]

Stay strong!

[@grace4976]

Amen 🙏

[@tinawest2405]

My husband works late on occasion because his job is not a typical 9-5 job. However, some days he cares more about his appearance then others. He does not care if I use his phone the phone is never an issue. However, I get a funny gut feeling that he may have met another female at his job. I have hinted around before in a joking matter that I thought he met someone and he gets annoyed. He really hasn’t given me a good enough reason other then stays late some days to think something is going on but, that gut feeling can be strong sometimes. It messes with ya. He says I’m just insecure and need to stop because it’s annoying. Although, I play the questions off as a joke. Like what’s with the fuzzies on that coat... hug you’re girlfriend today... stupid shit. He sometimes go mia with texts for 2-3 hours during the day or leave mine un read... he’s says I’m just busy. Granted, I go 2 hours after work and he’s like hello... you can’t be busy now that I know you are done work. My emotions go high to low daily and it’s all driving me nuts. I have flat out asked before and he responds you don’t trust me you shouldn’t be with me. Unfortunately, some days seem off and I feel that gut feeling. I can’t pin point anymore what’s what... help~advice?!

[@mathawilliams1865]

Hello

[@BradBrowning]

I suggest to really take the time to observe first because it might be your own paranoia that's eating at you. There will be a noticeable change indeed. It's also important to find any evidence you can if it does boils down to it. So until then, play it cool and make sure you don't unnecessarily accuse him, even in a joking manner because it can get old really fast. Good luck!

[@NATTYAL899]

So....was it a affairs,or just misunderstanding???

[@TacticalDrummer]

My wife is only concerned about the way she looks when we are not hanging out, or out in public. She looks as frumpy as she can when we go out. But smokin hot for everything else. Is audio proof, still proof. I have an audio recording of my wife sleeping with another man, in my house, in my bed. He's fricken friends with my dog's!! I'm so incredibly lost right now. Life literally has lost its purpose and all meaning. Oh, and she will NOT be confronted. She blows up and gets very angry and emotional if I even broach the subject. Being in this situation is the most mentally fierce and evil thing I have ever been through. Praying to Jesus constantly for a resolution, or for Him to just bring me home.....I'm ready, this has destroyed me. Every fiber of my being has been demolished like a skyscraper.....

[@fabianov]

She's not your wife anymore

[@TacticalDrummer]

@@fabianov OH man!!! We actually had it out last night. I confronted her and told her I had audio proof, it's hard to hear, but you can 100% make out sexual sounds over the white noise, and some whispering that is NOT my wife whispering!!! She 1000% denied it!! Like cried in bed for an hour later that night. You are right, she has not been my wife for a very long time. I pretty convinced, that this guy has been coming in my house for a very long time and stooping my wife. The thing is, I've forgiven her. But can never trust her again. The lies are so thick and plentiful, I wish they would stop growing though....

[@BradBrowning]

That's just terrible and I'm sorry to hear you're going through such tremendous amount of trails in life, man. This is how to properly bring the subject up, though: kzbin.info/www/bejne/i2rShXqkebegqZY Give it a try but depending on how she reacts, it may be time to consider the possibility of a divorce if she doesn't stop her behaviour. In life, it pays to know when to keep fighting and when to quit. Take care!

[@benarddosier8706]

Great video. i love this awesome video, very useful

[@brainster13]

Funny, I've been doing all these "signs" to my spouse but I'm CERTAINLY NOT cheating. Never looked at anyone else since we're together. But on the other hand, he did ALL OF THESE to me before and yes, he cheated. Caught him. So my point is, it depends on what type of person you are. If your spouse cheated then, its your call, leave or forgive. 😉

[@BradBrowning]

Watch the first 40 seconds of the vid, I've mentioned something about that.

[@joec2174]

It would be no loss to move on.

[@BradBrowning]

As I always say, the decision is ultimately up to you. You know your situation and your ex best. Sometimes a relationship can be salvaged and worth the save but sometimes it isn't, especially if there's cheating or some other type of abuse involved. It's your life and it's your decision.

[@loveleneosman5239]

Wow everything this guy is saying, I’m going through with this now 😰 but I’m okay I know I was somebody before I got married 🥰😘 Life will be okays

[@BradBrowning]

Stay strong! Like I said, it's best to observe first to see if your spouse is really indeed cheating on you. Don't jump to conclusions, all right? Good luck!

[@juancarlosdelgadomoreno4915]

The music is the key,they change music to their lovers music!

[@ramassist2]

Remember being in romantic head over heels infatuation? Affairs are like that Wanting to tell the world and be free, but can’t. As long as the secret remains the affair continues.

[@juancarlosdelgadomoreno4915]

Yes they are,I know that, but it doesn't last long!

[@BradBrowning]

Hey thanks for dropping by!

[@shashankvakulabharanam3578]

1.9 + million people watched this video .i can understand how many are facing this problem

[@sjcproductionsandmedia]

#5 is ALWAYS a tell tale sign and #1 with everything aggravating them that you do.

[@BradBrowning]

Hence, it's always best to observe first and not really jump into conclusions.

[@Sarah-es2qf]

On point. A friend said her husband started buying new underwear which he never did the entire time they were married. 😔

[@BradBrowning]

That means he's stuck with the same underwear for the entirety of their marriage. They must not have been married for long, then? If they've been married for years, I think it's only normal to buy new underwear every now and then since stuff wears out! :-) I say the probability of him cheating isn't really that high... unless you noticed all the other signs as well.

[@manuelgarciajr5175]

Sarah Irick

[@syedaaneex8982]

Please talk to me.

[@JuanitaPlyler-pc4qy]

I did see him with my own eyes

[@BradBrowning]

That must be really tough and I'm sorry to hear that. How is your spouse handling the issue when confronted? Apply the tips here: kzbin.info/www/bejne/imqqk4WjZq9qo8U

[@exploratour2024]

I like your channel. Good information and advice. Keep up the good work!

[@Spirits2000]

This is how I see it. A Weak person who can’t say to your FACE ITS TIME TO TALK And see someone beyond your back, it’s time to move on .. IM MY OWN BEST FRIEND I LOVE MY SELF AND TO KNOW WHEN TO SAY WHEN AND MOVE ON. Life is short seek joy. I’m so good to know we don’t need someone to make you happy . I can so find joy all around me ♥️

[@BradBrowning]

Hey thanks for dropping by.

[@babbygirlhaden6991]

I was married my has been living the swing lifestyle for morevthan 20 years. I need to move forward and Be Blessed with A Real Man who knows when that will be. It was strong at first because I ignored the signs Just to keep family as normal as Possible. Need to relocate to leave the craziness behind. Peace and Healing ❤ Heart. weak minded People do not care who they hurt. just keep living the same lie.

[@BradBrowning]

That's terrible to merge lives with his indeed. It's become a toxic union. Yes, do what you have to do to heal yourself first. Traveling can help for sure! Take care!

[@simukaijemwa1432]

Babby Girl Haden .

[@mc-oy7lb]

Babby Girl Haden how to tell a Japanese to go fuck herself

[@jessicaweaver8596]

very true stuff here, thank you

[@BradBrowning]

You're welcome! You’ll never know who else can benefit, so if it’s not too much to ask and if you haven’t already, please like, share, and subscribe to my channel so you won't miss any of my upcoming videos. I'd really appreciate it! :-)

[@rohansubba2993]

when a boy loves truely girl cheats on him and when girl loves truely boy cheats on her....😪😪

[@BradBrowning]

That's why both people in the relationship need to truly love each other. But even so, there's no guarantee a spouse or a girlfriend won't cheat on you since there are a lot of factors why cheating happens in the first place, really.

[@kevingreen650]

Hey honey, I know you're being taken to "Pound Town" but I'm here for support ....... Yeah okay 😂 FOH!

[@BradBrowning]

No, as a spouse, you're there to observe things and provide proof so you can discuss where your marriage is going.

[@samrobinson1738]

Makes me sick. Break up then do it....

[@BradBrowning]

I understand where you're coming from. These things are never easy to deal with...

[@carmenlombardi5063]

Sam Robinson yep I agree with you when one cheats and destroys their marriage or relationship with their partner is the wrong tactics in living life. What's the sense of having a soulmate if your soulmate is going to cheat what's the real reason to be with you? When you're single, you can do what one wants to do cuz you are not committed with anyone. I've been married once but I was real lucky to have a good man in my life he did right all the time and I made him happy but now he's in heaven due to the fact that he died of renal cancer. I am so afraid to get married cuz of what I hear of what goes on with other couples that their marriage or soulmates are too busy cheating. They like to have their cake and eat it. So I remain unmarried as a widow that I am I'll stay as a widow.

[@jimp6576]

Forgiveness is key in any relationship.

[@BradBrowning]

True. However there's also some boundary to forgiveness and it's best be set so the offender won't take you for granted in knowing they'd always be "forgiven." So set healthy boundaries! :-)

[@Nazuyaa]

I need advise so hopefully I can get it here. I am 19 years old, yes I know I’m young I’ve been with my boyfriend for 4 years, had my first daughter with him and is now currently pregnant with twins. I have started to seen differences in the way he acts with his phone, everyday and night when he isn’t using it he turns it off, he has different lock codes on all 3 phones. I’ve caught him a few times texting different woman which in case I’ve tried my best to talk to him and tell him I do not like it. He comes home late from the “studio” and still tries to act like he’s not doing anything. I always through a fit but I can never stay mad. It’s just how I am I try to stay busy and not talk to him nor be around him but I don’t have friends/family to do so with .. I don’t know what to do am I am tired.. Please help!

[@BradBrowning]

Really sorry to hear that. There's no easy way to say this but the answer is is to move on, especially if your ex doesn't seem to be regretting their actions and asking to get back together. Most of the time, a lot of people would move on, but a few would still fight for the relationship, so this all depends which side you're on and what your views are. But take into consideration about what I’ve mentioned here, too: kzbin.info/www/bejne/o2OahX-brrqgrck There is no right or wrong answer here because it is your relationship and it's personal to you. Make sense? Anyway men and women cheat for different reasons, but if you think your ex is worth it and if there's been a genuine connection between you two before the cheating happened, then try to see the roles that you BOTH played that led to all this mess and see once and for all if it can be resolved or not, okay? Really take your time before deciding though and be sure not to make any hasty decisions from an emotional place. Someone asked me the same question as you and here's what I told them, refer to the second question: kzbin.info/www/bejne/b3fKlGh8bqiea7M Take care!

[@DDBAMBAM87]

This is spot on facts

[@BradBrowning]

Yes, it is! Feel free to like, share and sub so you won't miss out on any tips!