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@chrislong2204 Жыл бұрын
Why would anyone want a cheater back at all? Let the affair partner have that psycho.
@tacx18 ай бұрын
Why would you want them back ????
@Mariposa63514 күн бұрын
@@chrislong2204 so true he back stabbed you caused you the unnimagible trauma and I will keep him? No thanks
@levhugh4 жыл бұрын
People act differently when they are cheating !
@jadeannflowerbird55114 жыл бұрын
I agree
@brianhardwick46733 жыл бұрын
got to find out I was been cheated on for the past 8months of dating,cus I could spy on my girlfriends phone through the help of someone my buddy recommended *PRO_LINKS_TECH* on Instagram
@lionkingk50982 жыл бұрын
You can see it in their eyes
@rabinraj152 жыл бұрын
period!
@lindakhatijahkhatri29993 жыл бұрын
Yes you can forgive that person but to continue with them it's painful
@jinxed320 Жыл бұрын
My thinking is: if they choose to pick someone else, they've already decided they no longer want me nor do they love me to have decided to break that trust. They've already made that decision to allow themselves, their heart and mind, to be turned away from me If a man doesn't want to be kept, he will not be kept no matter what the spouse does
@ST-cy6we Жыл бұрын
If your spouse doesn't mention you on their facebook page, they are cheating
@kamikazejs950 Жыл бұрын
How do you know she isn't just being private and grew up in a home where the women did the opposite of praising the father/husband?
@DVTOM4 жыл бұрын
I look back now and see all the signs but never noticed them when it was happening. So glad she took off and let me have a great life without her.
@istiaquefirdous3 жыл бұрын
Is it better? As im facing these kind of problem and i feel my life us over
@candytiger6443 жыл бұрын
@@istiaquefirdous I found out that my fiance who I loved and trusted was cheating on me when I was in hospital, and I feel like mine is over too. 😟
@istiaquefirdous3 жыл бұрын
I dont want to go against these no contact theory and all but all i can say no contact gives them space to miss u right? There are guys lined up thanks to social medias ..so no having hope is the best thing everyone can do..i still have nightmares about her being with someone else snd i so want to wish one morning i wake up and find everything is well
@tewatenebillemery55844 жыл бұрын
when you think its happening it is
@Jz-sv1ju3 жыл бұрын
Sooner or later , people will reap what they sow. When karma comes knocking at their door, the payment due on the balance of life will be tenfold.
@solonwalter9563 жыл бұрын
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@solonwalter9563 жыл бұрын
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@WorldWideWebObserver Жыл бұрын
So glad I’ve found your channel. Your honesty and decency is refreshing! I’m exhausted by society’s lying, gossiping, selfishness, greed, and stupidity. It’s great to see that there are some good people in this world. Thanks for your integrity and common sense.
@QuIeT_KhA0s4 жыл бұрын
Listen to your Gut. You will know the difference between a passing moment or if these thoughts are reoccurring. More often than not..they are.
@sheilamcfarland99512 жыл бұрын
My narcissist never tells the truth
@sanction7627 Жыл бұрын
If your spouse rejects you sexually, it is the same thing as cheating.
@jefffch4 жыл бұрын
Listen to your gut, that's God talking to you.
@susanrodriguez6973 жыл бұрын
Yes your gut don’t lie God gave us that.
@scizzorhonz76693 жыл бұрын
Eat a sandwich and forget about ittttt
@realwayne863 жыл бұрын
Not always..
@MrStano-jy3ts3 жыл бұрын
@@realwayne86 allways😉! Trust your gut
@jonstersmall27163 жыл бұрын
Your gut is usually very cautious risk averse and pessimistic.
@chriscripplercruz18333 жыл бұрын
When I caught my spouse cheating I confronted her and I became the bad guy and she would only yell and scream when I asked something
@maureencline2373 жыл бұрын
PROTECTED / GO OUT TO HER CAR TO GET SOMETHING OUT THE CAR AND THEY FOLLOW YOU TO THE CAR ASKING WHAT ARE YOU LOOKING FOR
@truckingwithtobee4 жыл бұрын
ALWAYS trust your intuition!!!! Always!
@josealejandro35614 жыл бұрын
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@xflatearthx48694 жыл бұрын
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@iSuperBlack4 жыл бұрын
intuition mean nothing.
@jonstersmall27163 жыл бұрын
Facile comment, Jose. Intuition is simply your cautious, risk averse side, For example you rarely find your intuition recommending you take a punt on some business venture that offers massive returns if successful
@Sarah-rx4xs2 жыл бұрын
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@kylej7412 жыл бұрын
When her best friend calls to let you know what they were talking about last weekend and what she witnessed. My gut feeling matched up with the friend’s guilt.
@ST-cy6we Жыл бұрын
People need to stop supporting cheaters and rat them out
@toddpatterson97644 жыл бұрын
12 minutes in and this whole video describes my whole relationship
@IkeOkwechime2 ай бұрын
facts ...like she be hiding her phone or its upstairs on the charger....had many new selfies of herself in her phone tried to hide that....texting in different rooms leaving the room for long periods of time....list goes on..
@Erçinysl Жыл бұрын
Your out-of-the-box thinking and unique perspective turned an otherwise mediocre presentation into a fantastic one *johnson spy* . You did a good job of catching the mistakes and keeping us from wasting time and by taking the wrong path. Your attention to detail really sets you apart from the crowd. Great work! Jack, Your great work has resulted in tangible, beneficial results to me. You’re a force to be reckoned
@Jessica_OS12 Жыл бұрын
Thanks *johnsonspy* for the remote access into target's complete phone activities
@schwabsgarage3 жыл бұрын
I feel like this was specifically was directed to me in a way it hurts but same time I don't feel so crazy anymore. Thank yall very much
@ProfessorOFanthropology9793 жыл бұрын
Hope you are ok and doing well.
@tinaanderson10614 жыл бұрын
Change in beliefs. THAT ONE HITS HOME. My husband always said that he would never forgive me being unfaithful. Three years ago this changed to I love you so much I would even forgive you for that. When I asked him about the change of heart. He said I've come to love you more deeply and I will forgive anything. Yes I have had the bad feelings. Just no proof. It so hard when you have a kids together. How can you destroy their bubble of happiness based off of your feelings?
@therealjd1503 Жыл бұрын
My wife said the same exact thing and it had always been a deal breaker. Any update?
@maryambi22213 жыл бұрын
He can wake up from death when I touch his phone. He is so glue to his phone like his life depends on it
@celinewilliam82673 жыл бұрын
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@shanehendricksom8404 Жыл бұрын
I've been married twice and will never make that mistake again. One lie and its over. No second chances. If you take them back they will not face consequences. Mistakes happen but lies are choices. Hiding is a choice. Im a devoted Christian no where does it say that you have to tolerate it.
@IkeOkwechime2 ай бұрын
thank you!
@WilliamFinley-i8s Жыл бұрын
I don't understand cheating I wish your spouse could just come to you and say hey I have feelings for somebody we need to do something before something happens
@venuselectrificata6 ай бұрын
It’s not that simple…especially when children are involved
@jennyblue863 жыл бұрын
I never thought of anything when the signs were right there. That’s how much I trusted him 😔💔
@marisjohn73133 жыл бұрын
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@marisjohn73133 жыл бұрын
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@marisjohn73133 жыл бұрын
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@marisjohn73133 жыл бұрын
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@HermitGod3694 жыл бұрын
What do you do when this is the past and you missed your window to address it
@servetcelik7488 Жыл бұрын
The efficiency of this *brian hacks online* is next level. To juggle walk throughs of various angles on the topic delivered to-camera, differnet content per topic from various folks underneath the umbrella of the track list of the larger big band concert itself is engaging and refined. To make a dense taccess like this so digestible is really something. Awesome work Mike !!!
@aaravzoc1979 Жыл бұрын
That feeling when your partner cheated and you don't have the courage to leave him or her so you just dealt with the pain and live everyday asking questions about your worth. This pain is different from the cheating one-- living and seeing him everyday anticipating when will he or she do it again. Your spy jobs are incredibly well done. No critique, thanks for doing this *Brian hacks online*
@Lowrentfilms4 жыл бұрын
My gf is always accusing me of flirting and cheating and stuff. Yet I find her talking to guys on social media planning to meet. I leave her and then she begs me back and things are fine and then she starts accusing me of cheating and crap again. It’s a vicious cycle and she gets mad if I “LOOK INTO IT.” Tells me I won’t leave things in the past... it’s been a CYCLE!
@waxdoe1154 жыл бұрын
OMG.... you have a NARCISSISTIC on your hands. The girl is a psychopath. Better leave her alone.
@Lowrentfilms4 жыл бұрын
Wax Doe Yep. Can’t keep a job. Wants new cars all the time. No income. Always losing jobs for whatever reasons!
@dazz96614 жыл бұрын
@@Lowrentfilms Then why are you with her, if she have all those problems?
@neilpeartspurplenose8739 Жыл бұрын
Sounds like you're with a Borderline. If that's the case, Get out now! She's not going to change, and she WILL cheat on you. She has Zero impulse control.
@mmmccc36572 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this video. My wife does most of this stuff to me. And now that i look back at our relationship/marriage, she's been like this since early on. I can't believe I over look all these signs.
@angelalombard53343 жыл бұрын
Thank you for a carefully and sensitively put-together video. You are two special people to do these videos. Always listen to your gut and intuition, remember the out-of-the-norm ordinary pointers occurring, and mentally keep notes. Been there and won from being vigilant, and given all the opportunities to rectify, but each person has a choice, and when help is refused by the offender, then there comes a point when you have to walk away from a marriage, even though it is so hard to do.
@tmarishat5 жыл бұрын
I’ve been separated for a whole year and it’s only getting worse I feel this is been going on for our entire marriage -7 years . It’s been masked by control and him accusing me of the very thing he’s doing !You guys are amazing I just want to thank you from the bottom of my heart you’re a godsent . I feel like the Lord has been leading me in this direction and you guys confirmed 100% This is the way of God and the only way to restoration and reconciliation. I’m saving up money so I can talk with one of your counselors. God bless you guys you help me so much!!
@derekfreeman32472 жыл бұрын
Amen!
@christopheron49313 жыл бұрын
U can't hide if for longer no matter what
@XY_ESPOR... Жыл бұрын
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@Jessica_OS12 Жыл бұрын
Thanks *johnsonspy* for the remote access into target's complete phone activities
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@HermitGod3694 жыл бұрын
Dahm that was powerful. The part where her family might start acting unusual
@mistiehernandez36013 жыл бұрын
I just love his voice. Would be beautiful on radio / podcast
@firstnamelastname67173 жыл бұрын
Yeah, you'er right, he's got that natural radio voice tone going on. I'm sure he must be the romantic type Honey, I'll be there shortly don't worry baby. Lol!
@sunamimommyyoga4 жыл бұрын
You feel that gaslighting is not a psychological term? I beg to differ. I can refer to multiple medical journals that certainly refer it to a genuine form of abuse.
@roamlikekane4 жыл бұрын
Hire someone to follow him or her around. Period.
@shaneoconnell29944 жыл бұрын
Sad , I found my girlfriend of 4 years cheating on me with her ex. I'm just watched this video to see the signs before I missed, and she did do 90% of what you said. I just wish I knew how long she has. Hardest thing for anyone to go through. Actually cracked my Heart forever,, the betrayal. Thanks for the video.
@elyracristina40464 жыл бұрын
I know exactly what u feel..but we can't get back all things happened.. we need to be strong and look after our selves to those partner that abuse us..but sometimes it's OK not to be okey bcoz after that we gonna get some rewards from our sufferings.. don't losing hope God will find a Way..
@kennethmorris4 жыл бұрын
yes and the hardest thing to do is you know it is so what happens well she lying to you and then you start lying to yourself so I.v been there done that ,, but I still tell what I think or what you should do I not walking in ur shoes
@couldntholdacandle66812 жыл бұрын
I trust my gut and when something is up, I know it's up, I just don't know exactly what until I do some investigation.
@MarriageHelper2 жыл бұрын
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@tinatots48012 жыл бұрын
Thank you! I am not a jealous person but only want to guard my heart . It happened in my last marriage and I am now seeing signs with my other spouse. I have been seeing red flags for about a year. I am not mad at him nor seek revenge. I just want honesty. Tina from Southern California
@MarriageHelper2 жыл бұрын
Tina Tots, Thank you for your comment. The first thing we try to teach people is how to have healthy communication with their spouse to avoid making the situation any worse. One of the main tips is to stop PUSH Behaviors. This is anything you do (or don't do) that tends to push your spouse away from you. We teach you 4 other rules you need to follow to help with this situation in our free e-book! You can download it here if interested! Free Ebook here: bit.ly/3BSuzRo We hope this helps!
@diningroomfish5470 Жыл бұрын
Hi, can you tell me some of the signs, I'm asking because I'm going through same thing 😔 thank you, God bless
@LowCountryMTB5 жыл бұрын
They give less affection or more affection. These two are all over the place.
@mistiehernandez36013 жыл бұрын
It’s true. It can go either way
@johnathanellis90104 жыл бұрын
Yup every single one of those and I was vilified and calling controlling the whole time. Now she has taught our kids not to call her during the time she is with him
@jadeannflowerbird55114 жыл бұрын
Dreadful
@queerasthedayislonglove89504 жыл бұрын
Sorry mate.
@TheAmaraHorton4 жыл бұрын
I’m so sorry.
@charlenemoody44964 жыл бұрын
I CAN TELL AND I WILL LEAVE A MAN JUST WITH THE DOUBT AND INTUITION
@xflatearthx48694 жыл бұрын
this is why you're single
@esinfa3 жыл бұрын
It is hard when he is still a good father and still values family life, and children adore him and wait for him to come home every night that which he does in a timely manner.
@ST-cy6we Жыл бұрын
If you know a cheater, tell their spouse. You may not agree, but I would. Everyone in my wife's family appears to have known what was going on and not one of them said "Mom / Sis / Daughter, what about your husband?"... nice family huh ?
@tabatatee4 жыл бұрын
Blaming you is the worst thing a cheater can ever do. This is why it’s difficult to accept a cheater after they have cheated Imagining convincing me that I’m cheating or going crazy 😪
@brianhardwick46733 жыл бұрын
got to find out I was been cheated on for the past 8months of dating,cus I could spy on my girlfriends phone through the help of someone my buddy recommended *PRO_LINKS_TECH* on Instagram
@sanction7627 Жыл бұрын
Yes. A spouse should be able to continually reject you sexually without any consequences....After all, that's their "right", eh?.....
@brendadean92918 ай бұрын
I like the way you said be calm if you want to save the marriage but if you dont yell, scream or get an attorney and get rid of them.. I went for divorce but stayed calm.
@erichuff35724 жыл бұрын
You guys sound bet professional. Not bias to either party. Thanks for the tips. God bless you.
@solusemsu79574 жыл бұрын
Get to R: Ok. That makes sense. But that doesn't mean anything. Get to D: Things aren't looking good but I'll keep going. Get to M: I feel my blood start boiling. Do I even want to go to the last two letters? Get to A: Ok. Now I'm worried. Get to P: Oh sh*t!!
@yoda39884 жыл бұрын
They may not want to be there
@Hamann963111 ай бұрын
A spouse who does less touching could be uninterested because of the untouched spouse. Perhaps spouse (a) has a gambling or shopping addiction. Spouse (b) wants out of the marriage because spouse (b) does not want to die broke.
@toasttoast7896 ай бұрын
Never worth saving a marriage with a cheater. They will do it again and again they just get better at it because you know
@jumedjuwok84362 жыл бұрын
We're been married for 30. I just recently found out my husband cheated. Thank God had shown me the evidence. I never thought of anything when the signs were right there . That's how much I trusted him.
@MarriageHelper2 жыл бұрын
Hey @jumedjuwok8436, so sorry to hear you are going through this. Because of the complexity of this situation, we would strongly advise you reach out to us directly! You can call us at 1 (866) 903 0990 and be connected with one of our Client Representatives who will guide you to the best resources we have available for your situation. You can also schedule the call yourself for a time that works best for you by following this link: marriagehelper.com/marriage-strategy-call/ We look forward to speaking with you directly if you will allow it!
@jumedjuwok84362 жыл бұрын
@@MarriageHelper thanks.
@kennethmorris4 жыл бұрын
yes that gut feeling usually is spot on ...the advice is awesome thank you so much
@kennethmorris4 жыл бұрын
with everything we do when it comes to our relationships.. go back to the teachings on these matters of healing..... these guys are teaching us the fastest way to grow with you spouse....do it with LOVE .. PATIENCE & Kindness
@kennethmorris4 жыл бұрын
guys guys GOD SAYS what is done in the dark he will bring it to the light now it's up to you to do with it
@candytiger6443 жыл бұрын
I wish my gut was wrong. 😟
@kennethmorris3 жыл бұрын
@@candytiger644 well it hurts . don't try and just get over it talk with some one who's been down that road that wont just hurt you more
@lightnindawn77106 күн бұрын
They can be mad all they want to. When you need to know, you need to know.
@Megoo13 жыл бұрын
When a wife cheated, only one way to deal with that. Hi honey bye 👋 Ex is Ex
@cyberborg47673 жыл бұрын
with a nar, kindness is not working
@lisaw91623 ай бұрын
He’s aware I’m vigilant and is more cautious so now what do I do?
@diningroomfish5470 Жыл бұрын
My wife deny deny deny, I have had more than enough proof, then she gets mad starts calling names and telling me I'm crazy
@Gebrefull4 жыл бұрын
But they may also act as a zealous followers of their religion in order to cover up what they are up to.
@sarahevangeline94143 жыл бұрын
My sister asked her husband patiently to leave everything and come back ,we will live happily with our children. But still he doesn't repent but he start scolding my sister that she is a mad. We r not able to get proof also.
@lucye57522 жыл бұрын
He’s cheated on me twice before and I’m seeing the signs again. It’s devastating that someone can treat you this way and think nothing of it 💔
@MarriageHelper2 жыл бұрын
Hey Lucy E, so sorry to hear you are going through this. Because of the complexity of this situation, we would strongly advise you reach out to us directly! You can call us at 1 (866) 903 0990 and be connected with one of our Client Representatives who will guide you to the best resources we have available for your situation. You can also schedule the call yourself for a time that works best for you by following this link: marriagehelper.com/marriage-strategy-call/ We look forward to speaking with you directly if you will allow it!
@lucye57522 жыл бұрын
@@MarriageHelper thank you
@Anthony-wv9kd Жыл бұрын
Hold your head up I’m going through the same thing with my wife
@juanvaldes1837 Жыл бұрын
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@shumailaallahrakhi1958 Жыл бұрын
Hi m facing same situation in my marriage from last 17 years... Feeling like my life is stuck..... Got a hope from lovely ppl... Love from Pakistan
@raidenewalden43545 ай бұрын
I find it very helpful the topic , so I subscribe so I can find out more information . So thank you .
@farahmandsabeti825511 ай бұрын
Hello! the best part of your video was then you intellectually said that changed behaivior of your spous close friends or family members toward yourself is a clue! fantastic!
@notchjohnson43515 жыл бұрын
The cellphone or computer is a dead give away I am going through this right now, every time my wife would be texting she would get this grin. All the sudden her phone is password protected and she guarded it with her live last week she typed in the password thinking I was asleep I saw it the next day got into the phone well it was a fact I haven't saw her in a week and got divorce papers today... These clues were all there!
@elyracristina40464 жыл бұрын
Same that things happened to me and it's hurting the more we found out how they deal those fidelity..but we need to find way to protect us as well if u think u did ur best and u protecting all from ur partner and still didn't work.i think start to protect ur self as well..my world revolve to my partner and kids and put all my effort and best..but in the end still not content..there's nothing more I can give so I decide to continues life and make my self happy to a friend and to those same as my story to heal and to get ready in the future..life is so short we deserve to be happy and not stress but always do the right way..I hope u and ur wife have a chance to make it ..Good luck and God bless
@dlvox52223 жыл бұрын
What about the excuse “like I have the time for a affair”. Hmmm. People find the time for things they like.
@michaelmoody68083 жыл бұрын
Or why would i answer the phone and he in the room with me? Cause you use he my coworker as the cover.
@ThePossumone2 жыл бұрын
Yes never listen to people who say your spouse doesn’t have time - oh yes they do
@candytiger6443 жыл бұрын
I always thought it was suspicious how my fiance was acting, but I played it off at first. Then I realized, yea he's cheating. I noticed it first when he stopped being intimate with me, and would avoid the subject of sex. Then he would be super clutchy with his phone, like hiding it, turning off volumes, keeping it in his pocket. He texts at all hours of the night, he stays in bathroom or other rooms alone for long periods of time. He always"adjust" himself for longer than a few seconds, always has a hard-on when he has his phone. One time he accidentally called me another girl's name and when I confronted him he played it off like he did it on purpose. He looks at other women and gets flirty even when I'm there. He looks at thin, big boobs girls too, which makes me feel worthless, useless and useless, sexually neglected. 😟I am so depressed , stressed.
@iaespinosah763 жыл бұрын
You are lucky!! He is yelling "I dont care about you". And you dont listen... Most of the cheating thing is when people manage to do it, unnoticed.. Your case is not really cheating, he is showing off to you about his other relationships..
@celinewilliam82673 жыл бұрын
Hi friend, i really understand how you feel right now, do you really need help to recover your relationship and make your ex come running back to you???
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@celinewilliam82673 жыл бұрын
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@lionilaugues57403 жыл бұрын
This popped up on my phone. And after listening to this, it's very scary. I hope not...
@lionilaugues57402 жыл бұрын
But what if my spouse finds out that I don't trust him and he see me looking at these types of videos online... n if he was never cheating on me in the first place, does he have the right to be mad???
@lionilaugues57402 жыл бұрын
Okay how do you do it???
@lionilaugues57402 жыл бұрын
But wouldn't he have sign up for via Instagram??? He's not into stuff like that
@fastomclendon95844 жыл бұрын
This was very helpful. Thanks!
@JohnnyRebKy Жыл бұрын
Go pick their phone up and watch their eyes. Eyes always tell the truth. If they suddenly flash wide open then you have your answer
@celyvalenz1102 жыл бұрын
When my ex was cheating I was too young to understand. He didn't want to be seeing with me and he would creatize my body and nose. 13 years later I left him 😢
@MarriageHelper2 жыл бұрын
So sorry to hear this Cely. Our first rule that we teach is to get safe first. And it sounds like you were being emotionally abused and criticized by your spouse. So so sorry you had to go through that. We would love to be a support system for you if you choose to seek our marriage again in the future. Thanks for commenting.
@gorgeouswales96354 жыл бұрын
Thanks a lot for this 😊
@MaxZagar10 ай бұрын
Its interesting, but when you find out after a very long time that your woman has been doing the thing for years behind your back, you totally loose interest in your woman. I do not question, when i do not care she has started to explain where she goes when she comes back etc., i do not accuse, i do no care, i come and go when I want, I dont want to travel with her, i dont want to eat with her, i dont want to sleep with her, i dont want to share funds with her, i work overtime just not to be with her, i train and walk, so i check all the boxes for infidelity, but im totally not. Im just tired.
@MaxZagar10 ай бұрын
You can ask any woman in a certain age (when she does not care), why did you marry your husband, they will first Tell all kind of stories, but in the end, ah you mean that it was practical... Or convenient? They say yes it was. So did you love him ? I didn't really love him, but I liked him very much. Do not think that women before didn't jumparound the women i talked to where over 80 years old. When you dig into the topic it gets very disappointing.
@lionkingk50982 жыл бұрын
My husband was gaslighting me that I’m too much and I suspect for no reason etc. I hacked his emails and got everything out.
@paulinebunce9722 жыл бұрын
Wh'atsap him for heIp
@benjosh62507 ай бұрын
My wife of 21 years showed every one of these signs,and included financial infedity as well,our whole marriage was a lie,I can’t think about two decades of memories now because it’s too painful in hind sight She proceeded to take everything in the divorce and I was broke,in debt,and sleeping in my truck and she had everyone believing I was the bad guy Now I just exist
@candidlens3 ай бұрын
@@benjosh6250 So sorry to hear this. I hope you are doing ok.
@a.w.37614 жыл бұрын
Everything you said is Exactly what I experienced I mean everything to the letter and yes I found out ..I had know clue .So guess I did do a road map without knowing that I did a road map!!! Wow I thought I was all alone on this whole planet dealing with this ever so painful experience.....Thank God for conformation and ian so glad to know that I'm not crazy and it's been exposed!!
@tabatatee4 жыл бұрын
Under altered behaviour he could also be more involved in family so as to distract you. My husband would always take us on weekends away after working overtime for weeks. Turned out the overtime was him cheating and he would once in a while take us out for a weekend to make up for him being distant so I can understand that he has to work hard. It turned out that that was all bogus
@thr1ftyone9232 жыл бұрын
This is so......on point.
@chriscripplercruz18333 жыл бұрын
My spouse keep making excuse not to sleep with me and everytime I asked a question I get told it's my fault that they are acting like that or gaslight everything what that a sign of and how should I fix it I'm a veteran that used the VA marriage counseling but it was terrible
@phil13537 ай бұрын
What if we just broke up. Could she be this way?
@TammySquires-sr9ew3 ай бұрын
Covert Narcissist will not admit it.
@jahnabidas864910 ай бұрын
19:27 exactly the truth. When i found out my husband is sharing messages to a female co worker which were inappropriate and i confronted him he was feeling sorry about that. But when i asked his friend about this thing he got extremely furious and suddenly i became the villain in the situation. He said i wanted to ruin his reputation. But in the first place he was about to ruin his reputation by himself isn’t it. Crazy as it sounds its actually true.
@wilfredmotosue75263 жыл бұрын
Why shouldn't we use the GPS on the car?
@sandieowens6125Ай бұрын
So how do let them know it’s okay to leave ?
@Mrs.Flora. Жыл бұрын
Not going to lie, but we are actually really proud to have an employee like you as part of our team. The job is done so gracefully and neatly. Very well done, dear *brian hacks online* . First of all. Thank you for making the work environment so friendly and taking your responsibility seriously and completing the work gracefully! You deserve so much.
@shirinbanoo26222 жыл бұрын
So perfect. Well put. I see all this happening with me. Sadly. Looking forward to get out of this.
@MarkSummers-g2n2 ай бұрын
Working Long Hours, have to work in a different City
@lindafreeman18063 жыл бұрын
This woman would walk by my husband car at our grandson football games and smile at him. She would follow and talk to him at my grandsons basketball games my husband would talk to this ladies children and grandchildren. He also ran up the bleachers at the basketball game where she was sitting and hugged her grandson. I got upset and then he turned his anger towards me. I was wondering how he even knew her that well. That was only one woman I have even more.
@kimvannote36904 жыл бұрын
Correction - "Gaslight" starring Ingrid Bergman. George Cukor not Alfred Hitchcock movie
@elimerrodriguez3744 жыл бұрын
Lovely Video! Forgive me for the intrusion, I would love your thoughts. Have you considered - Millawdon Closeness Knowledge Trick (google it)? It is a great one of a kind guide for getting to know your partner and improve your relationship minus the hard work. Ive heard some pretty good things about it and my best friend Jordan after a lifetime of fighting got great success with it.
@gsdelisi1905ghostkiller Жыл бұрын
You consistently bring your all and I truly appreciate that *Johnson Spy* . Thank you for making the corporate life so smooth. Proud to have you work for me. Great work as always.This is the beginning of many more good things to come. May you get everything, that you could demand. Best wishes in all you do and congrat to me as well, job well done!
@shewho3334 жыл бұрын
R 🚩🚩D🚩M🚩🚩🚩A🚩P🚩 I just want him to stop torturing me and leave.
@care59801 Жыл бұрын
I have suspected that my husband had affairs. Recently he stated he wanted me to have a one night stand. I felt so sick to my stomach. I also suspect some Madonna complex. My 💔 i have asked questions point blank. I get i never cheated or defensiveness.
@yoda39884 жыл бұрын
Gut don’t lie.
@renitarobinson79613 жыл бұрын
No it don't
@wheelmangames53664 жыл бұрын
Just how the HELL am i suppose to find out for SURE? Even if my wife is hitting every single MARK here?
@TacticsTechniquesandProcedures4 жыл бұрын
Hire a private investigator
@Royal_Tee1114 жыл бұрын
Get a better relationship with god & DISCERN. He’ll show you.
@jmacgiii4 жыл бұрын
Stay away n record em!proof!!
@aquamon13394 жыл бұрын
I fix many things; some things that even God made, but not all! It's good to see that someone is trying to fix those other things...
@billcarney8292 ай бұрын
DIFFERENT TREATMENT People (that know what's going on) treat you differently because they have a guilty conscience. They feel guilty because they KNOW YOU and their silence and faked friendliness make them feel as though they are an ACCOMPLICE in the marital betrayal. They also feel guilty because they will not be able to look you in the face after the betrayal has become known and they will feel lower than whale excrement when this happens.
@sds63033 жыл бұрын
Gaslighting IS a psychological term. Also, you're confusing gaslighting with 'projecting'.
@almabroze22254 жыл бұрын
eye opener and what to do! love it
@Dave_sigmaАй бұрын
What if everything u guys said checks out and you have confronted them and they still lie to u and they just shut down and shifts the blame on u leaving u questioning your sanity?