6 STYLE SECRETS | How to always look good | STYLING FROM THE INSIDE OUT

[@tracybownes7612]

WOW ive never heard more humble honest words in all my life ! love love love this video and everything you say is so true. x

[@FashionStyleEdit]

Aww thank you Tracy:) That means a lot. x

[@tejimogu]

Me too

[@firehorse1518]

I agree!! 😘

[@WhatIsThere-WIT]

I want every young woman to see this! Or anyone, really. Such words of warmhearted wisdom.

[@FashionStyleEdit]

Aww that's so nice of you to say, thank you:) I really do appreciate that x

[@jocampbell6962]

Absolutely 👌🏾

[@allthingdranabeauty]

I’m here take a notes

[@laurenhpulie9259]

Yes, “Say something nice to another woman, OUT LOUD!” It will make you both feel wonderful! 🙌

[@FashionStyleEdit]

Absolutely:) And it's infectious..that one little compliment might just spur them on to do the same to someone else. Have a great week Lauren x

[@hailey0975]

Lovely. I’m senior leader in a corporate role that hates the TMLewin (pencil skirt, jacket and shirt) look that woman think they have to subscribe to. I’ve made beautiful dresses work for me in the corporate world.

[@FashionStyleEdit]

That sounds perfect Hailey and good for you:) I hate conforming to what people 'think' I should be, or wear, or behave. Life is way too short for any of that nonsense! x

[@Sarah-cu3ek]

You are the loveliest. I think the story you told demonstrates how important words are. What would it have cost that woman to try and get to know you and build you up instead of break you down? Especially when you were young and trying to find your feet in a new environment. That being said, it is wonderful that you were able to use that pain you felt to drive personal growth and it's now just one of the many stories that have gone into building a strong woman, who cultivates her confidence from the inside out and uses it to uplift other women.

[@FashionStyleEdit]

What a beautiful comment, thank you so much Sarah:) I really appreciate that x

[@fionaH101]

That woman was jealous of you; of your external beauty and your kind gentle spirit Jess. I think all women, especially young women, need to hear your message. As a 57 year old woman I find it sad that so many young women don't have confidence and feel insecure about the way they look and feel about themselves. It seems the inherent beauty of their youth passes them by and they don't appreciate all they have. It was so inspiring hearing you talk about your epiphany at the tender age of 18. Powerful stuff and it's served you well by the looks of it. Fiona x

[@FashionStyleEdit]

Hi Fiona, it's really sad isn't it. I've heard women say they can't bear school drop off because the clique group of women who make them feel inferior:/ No-one should ever feel like that, and certainly not once we've all got past teenage years! I really hope if people take anything from my videos it's a little confidence in themselves more than anything else. Happy Sunday Fiona, and thanks so much again for watching x

[@joanvogelland3627]

Thank you for this inspiring video! In my twenties I lacked everything! I admired friends who could dress in a way I thought I could not do. I envied collegaes who were not shy to give their opinion in meetings. When I turned 40 a neighour asked my my age on the day of my birthday. When I gold here it was 40 she told me: "I don't know how you do it, but I would love to have some of it". That's the day I looked a little bit longer in the bathroom mirror and asked myself who I am. I am 62 now, know what I like, even on a dull day I like to look good. It took a while but indeed: 'fake it till you make it'!

[@FashionStyleEdit]

What a lovely story Joan, thank goodness you got there eventually! I spent so many years worrying what people think that when you finally realise you need to change the cycle it feels liberating! If only we could tell our 20 year old selves these things hey! Happy Sunday Joan x

[@VanityAndMe]

I often admire all the cool girls and their cool looks. I’ve tried it and it just doesn’t suit me! I discovered early on that classic styling is built in my genes. You be you. That’s why you’re doing so well! X

[@FashionStyleEdit]

The 'cool girls' are often stood there with their own insecurities running round their head! It sounds like you got lucky and figured out what your personal style is early on. It's such a liberating feeling isn't it. x

[@paulineballam5945]

Bravo Jess 👌... loved that, I can relate so much, when we moved from Scotland ( age 18) I was so nervous, because of my accent I was constantly teased ( put politely).. it took me ages to at least fake confidence but it does work, even now , I tend to talk constantly when nervous. Having a child with autism has made me more confident as I fight so hard for him and forget my own shyness. I now have my own style, I think, and love your videos and styling tips, your confidence is wonderful, you are quite inspiring. Hope you’re having a great weekend. Love Pauline ps.. still have a Scottish 😉

[@FashionStyleEdit]

Hi Pauline, hope you're well lovely and thanks for watching:) That must have been hard moving at 18 and upping and leaving friends but thank goodness you had that 'fake confidence' tactic in your back pocket too. It really works! I'm totally with you on fighting hard for your kids. It's amazing what parents can overcome once little ones come along isn't it. And baby groups can be harder to walk into than any high flying meeting! Haha! Big hugs lovely, love that you fight away the shyness for your boy, that will have such a positive effect on him:) x

[@lesleypickersgill7935]

Absolutely be true to yourself. I'm 54 and I wear shorts and mini skirts because I want to! I've got a great pair of legs and nobody is going to stop me! You should wear what makes you feel good and not what you're "expected" to wear. Fashion very rarely suits everyone. We all have different shapes so realistically something that might be the height of fashion might not look good on you.

[@FashionStyleEdit]

Good for you Lesley!! You know if I thought I had a great pair of legs I'd absolutely be doing the same! And I totally agree, trends come and go and all of them will not suit everyone each season. This Autumn Winter for example I've totally discounted fringing from my wardrobe, it might have been all over the catwalk but I look a bit of a plonker in the trend! Always, unapologetically wear what you love and what you believe suits you:) x

[@mariebluett4937]

WOW! Just what I needed today. Am about to turn 63 and was worried about the 'mutton' thing. Your insightful words (and the way you said them) has really helped. Thanks Jess xx

[@FashionStyleEdit]

That is so nice to hear Marie:) I'm genuinely so chuffed you liked it x

[@americafirst9144]

I think that body shape and size dictate the fashion you can wear more than age. I once had a friend 20 years older who could wear "younger" styles than me because she was a size 2.

[@mimiandthemuse]

I turned 63 earlier this year and and I realized it's a crucial time in life. Not yet 65 but no longer 60. Meaning time to take stock of who you've been and who you want to be in that last third of life. It can actually be fun reinventing yourself. :). Cheers!

[@FashionStyleEdit]

@@mimiandthemuse I couldn't agree more lovely:) x

[@FashionStyleEdit]

@@noolie62 Haha absolutely! And you know what, if you love wearing skinny jeans then go ahead and wear them! I actually think it's old fashioned when people say things like that. 'Oh not at your age' was a thing possibly in the 80s but these days thankfully we've all realised that's just a silly and outdated idea. Why would anyone, with a love of fashion, not want to follow the trends a little because of the age a birthday card reads?! x

[@katymcdonald5481]

As a woman who constantly hears things like “why are you so dressed up?” It’s so important to encourage young women to own their style no matter what anyone else thinks. No one who is happy and owning their style is going to criticise anyone else.

[@kimberlyperrotis8962]

I get that, too, constantly, because I wear more skirts and dresses. No matter how casual they are, T-shirt dresses, denim skirts, etc., always bring these put-downs.

[@FrenchTwist]

Bravo.... Ir took me decades to have the confidence to be able to compliment others without putting my own light out.

[@FashionStyleEdit]

I totally get it Linda:) And liberating once you're out the other side of it! x

[@gloriasaliba3395]

You’re my kind of gal Jess hands down - kindness and compassion can make the world of difference - I have a dear dear friend who is doing it so tough over there in London atm - things got just too much for her - thank God a friend in Aus contacted the authorities in her county they made their way to her just in time - she’s recovering and rebuilding herself with the help of some amazing professional at the Priory Hospital just spoke with her a few moments ago xx

[@FashionStyleEdit]

Hello Gloria, first of all please accept my apologies I'm only just getting back to you:/ I reply in the back end of youtube and sometimes they don't go through properly so i'm sorry about that:( I'm so sorry to hear about your lovely friend, I really hope she received the help she needed. Sometimes a little kindness and love is just what people need isn't it. Life can be tough sometimes, and I think this year has been especially hard for people. Thank goodness for wonderful friends to pick us all back up again. Sending big hugs Gloria:) x

[@angyliddy]

Hi Jess. I've followed you for some time but never commented before. I've just turned 67. I thought I must be your oldest subscriber but happily see that's not the case. Your video is so genuine and heartfelt and true. Thank you so much for you.

[@FashionStyleEdit]

Hello, thank you so much for following my channel and I'm so pleased you like the videos I create on here:) x

[@cristinafrancisco6773]

Such a beautiful and inspiring video ❤️there were many points that you made that brought happy tears to my eyes. I’ve lacked confidence in myself for years. I’m now remarried to a gem of a man who allows me to be my quirky self and shine. As I rediscover myself and my style, a world of possibilities has opened. I am trying new silhouettes and choosing colours that bring me joy 🌻🌸🌺

[@FashionStyleEdit]

Hi Cristina, thank you so much for watching and letting me know you liked it:) It sounds like you've got your mojo back with a good partner who builds you up, which is fantastic to hear. You found your Mr Darcy:) Discovering your own personal style should be fun and I'm so pleased it sounds like that's where you're at with it:) Happy Sunday my lovely x

[@yvonnebooklall3136]

Beautiful video, thank you so much for the motivation

[@FashionStyleEdit]

It's honestly my pleasure Yvonne:) Thank you so much for watching x

[@susanmcgillivray3535]

A truly inspirational woman. Beautiful inside and out 👌🙌

[@FashionStyleEdit]

That's such a kind thing to say thank you Susan:) x

[@princessjulia5646]

Hi hope your building work is going well for you. Mine starts tomorrow !. Your entirely right about giving another women a compliment i often give others a compliment. It makes another person feel good and also makes me happy that I've done something good. The other day I bought myself 2 bunches of roses in sainburys as I walked back to my car a elderly lady was getting into her car and said oh arent they pretty so i gave her a bunch (my fav colour as well)! Lol but omg she was so pleased and that made my day. Sorry I do ramble on dont i. ! Enjoy your week. X

[@FashionStyleEdit]

Hello lovely, please accept my apologies taking so long to get back to you:/ I often reply in the back end of youtube and I've just realised some of them haven't gone through:( Sorry. Anyhow, love that little moment you had with the elderly lady, I bet you made her week! I'm a firm believer in karma so I'm hoping you're surrounded in that kindness too:) Hows your building work going? Ours is very nearly finished...a few straggly bits to do but then ill film a house tour so i can see what you all think. Happy Sunday lovely x

[@lisalynn6780]

Loved your video and all your helpful comments, I totally agree. I have always believed that it is your imperfections that make you beautiful. How boring it would be if we were all identical. I have always brought my two girls up to say that it is lovely to be beautiful on the outside but far more important to be beautiful on the inside. I remember my daughter said to me recently when I asked what her type was. Was that it was difficult, people who she at first glance thought beautiful, the more she got to know them , in some cases, the uglier they got. And people she at first hadn’t noticed, on more conversations, suddenly became more beautiful. So is lesson to us all from a girl of 20 years old. Don’t judge a book by its cover and only radiate out into the world, what you would like to come back and you won’t go far wrong. Thank you for your lovely video and sharing your experiences, you are always a pleasure to watch. Speaking as a Mother, I’m sure yours is very proud. Wishing you lots of happiness, Lisa, Aimee and Anna 🌈

[@elizabethsmith1803]

What you said about put downs is so true. For a lot of women, those put downs come from their parents, and especially their mothers. I know it sounds awful but I will never forget some of those carping, nitpicking criticisms and now there will never be any more. It’s as though a weight has rolled off my shoulders; I dumped the dowdy clothes I wore to visit her the day she passed away. PS The Sezane boots do look lovely. Western boots are so comfy, please let us know how you get on with them if you do treat yourself - I’m a half size so would be grateful for input as returns can be a faff if you’re in the sticks.

[@bridkelleher53]

Words of wisdom but said with such compassion. Your point about encouraging other women was so motivating and in ways more proactive for me personally .I have no difficulty admiring/complimenting small children but am afraid that with an adult it appears like there is an angle. When friends moving on leave you feeling down because the time you invested in that friendship seems wasted some will respond with stop thinking of others and focus on yourself but it's nice to be nice and a kindness from a stranger or acquaintance is such a welcome surprise.Its about striking the balance. Your friends and family are so fortunate to have you in their lives. I will quote you moving forward and bring joy to someone else's life.To quote you: ' you're doing great...'.xx

[@FashionStyleEdit]

I think lots of women are the same. Not that you don't think nice things about other people but perhaps are too shy to say them aloud. I can honestly say that if it comes from somewhere genuine I don't think any woman would feel there's an angle, you'd just give them a sprinkle of confidence instead:) Here's to a lovely week hun and thank you so much for letting me know your thoughts x

[@DJDaveSeamanOfficial]

Beautifully said ❤️

[@FashionStyleEdit]

Thank you 💛

[@maryellenbecker9166]

So eloquently said and so true. I love your post, it’s so genuine and helpful. I’ve always loved fashion but as a young girl my family had the funds to buy new clothes for four kids. My grandmother was a seamstress in a wealthy area and would bring up bags of very expensive “hand me downs”, and I would make these amazing outfits out of them. Even though I couldn’t wear the cool outfits all my friends were wearing, I felt confident that what I wore was unique! I’ve tried to instill your belief in my two granddaughters- to be yourself and have fun with your clothes! Thank you.

[@FashionStyleEdit]

Hi Maryellen, what a lovely story of your childhood, I bet you're a wizz on the sewing machine! And I love the idea of that uniqueness shining through, better than any trend led piece in my humble opinion:) My childhood was filled full of hand me downs too, not only with an older sister but an older cousin too! I'd find I'd have the same dress in my closet for years just a bigger version! But it certainly makes you appreciate clothes when you get older:) Happy Sunday Maryellen and thank you again for getting in touch x

[@beedee4427]

Thanks so much for the reminder Jess! I've always been a "individual" or "quirky" dresser and as I face turning 50 very soon I'm trying not to lose that sense of "me" yet be a little more age appropriate. After working in the music, tv and film industries for years I was just seen as the quirky "arty" type. Now I'm very much a soccer Mum etc it's harder to strike the balance. I'm never wearing the same as any of the other Mums which used to give me confidence because it was me. Now I'm not sure. Anyway, the point is, I really enjoyed this video, so many sensible things said and all were appreciated. Hope you've had a lovely weekend with your family! Cheers x

[@FashionStyleEdit]

I love quirky, it always makes me smile in a really positive way:) I see people like you and truly think 'you go girl' it's inspiring. I really wouldn't worry about fitting in with the whole "soccer Mum' thing, it sounds like you have that true individual style which is enviable, never a negative:) x

[@SusanAfter60]

This is the best video I've ever watched on KZbin. Well done!

[@FashionStyleEdit]

Oh wow that is so kind of you to say:) Thank you Susan that is really lovely of you and I do appreciate it. Have a wonderful week, fingers crossed the suns coming back now:) x

[@terribowman1035]

SusanAfter60 i so agree with you!

[@eijaananda2539]

First you look absolutely stunning! The white blouse, gold jewelry and your eye makeup, love it all. Secondly, thank you for this talk, I needed to hear it. I lost my job beginning of this year, first time ever and it was a shock. At first I took care of myself, but as the months got on, less so. I’ve been making my self small and invisible and of course guarantee had helped staying away from everything. I’m slowly turning my situation better financially, but my emotional side needs to strengthen. I have wonderful supporting family, so I have nothing to worry about, but still I’ve stumbled. It’s time to be me again. ❤️❤️❤️

[@FashionStyleEdit]

Hi Eija, thanks for watching lovely. So sorry to hear you lost your job, that can really knock your confidence I know. And I'm sure there's lots of people in the same boat at the minute. Please don't hide yourself away, you have the strength to pull yourself back. No job is worth losing that little bit of you for and it's sounds like with a wonderful family having your back your on the right track:) I know when my Mum died I literally wanted to hide under the duvet and make the world just fizzle away but at some point I just forced myself up, into the bath, put some nice clothes on and essentially pretended to be okay. A bit like my 'fake it till you make it' theory from when I was younger. Eventually I realised I wasn't pretending anymore, I was okay. Getting 'you' back will feel wonderful and I promise you it's totally within your grasp. Sometimes we just have to fight a little to get it back. Sending you big hugs my lovely and oodles of strength x

[@eijaananda2539]

Thank you so much❣️I actually ordered the blouse and pants from Mango that you had on the video, because I just loved the look of them on you. This was my first clothing purchase this year, so I’m so happy to break this lack mentality. I’m home alone for few days so it’s a perfect time to concentrate on self care and happiness. 💕much love, Eija

[@linedallaire9631]

BRAVO! What a nice uplifting video.....Thank you so much......love your parprika coloured ensemble :) so lovely....Love from Canada xxxx

[@FashionStyleEdit]

Thank you so much Line, I'm so glad you liked it:) And I love you naming the shade Paprika!! I need some more of that! happy Sunday lovely x

[@karendarlingartist]

Great video Jess 😊♥️🇨🇦

[@chrissengemmill1488]

I often use the fake it till you make it. I am one of few academic women in a world of white men. So I wear heels...as a surrogate for that "manhood". I also have imaginary "thick skin suits" that I "put on" when needed...some made of kevlar. LOL.

[@FashionStyleEdit]

Haha I love it Chrissen:) It sounds like you've got that one down to a tee! x

[@chrissengemmill1488]

@@FashionStyleEdit my mom taught me well...passing it on to my daughters I hope. thank you for your positivity and encouragement. Women supporting women :-)

[@ybe7011]

I love it! I love that you aren't a "brand pusher". There are soooo many luxury brands out there that are making really ugly and unflattering clothes. People fall all over this stuff. I dont get it. I think the absurdity of couture and luxury fashion is almost mocking to those who have money but no sense of style. I don't fall for it. One of my favorite shops often has sales of $10 for tops, but its really cute stuff! I try not to buy it unless i really intend to wear it, so as not to be wasteful, but i have no problem buying cheaper items if the fabric feels good and i really do like the piece. You can be in fashion at any price point, you just need to stay true to what you like and what flatters you best.

[@FashionStyleEdit]

Haha so true! And they stick a big fancy label on it and people think that's 'style'? Not for me I'm afraid. I do see the quality in lots of designers, and often pieces can be like works of art, but I'd never buy something 'because' of what the label reads:/ Totally agree with you lovely, true style is not what you spend but how you wear it that counts. Happy Sunday lovely x

[@ybe7011]

@@FashionStyleEdit 😘 100%

[@sweetopia]

Such lovely words of fashion wisdom, so encouraging, thank you Jess!

[@joanhaughton3391]

Fabulous...and just what I needed. Thank you so much, Jess. P.S. Don't debate any longer...Get the 'Blush' Will jacket....it has your name on it. x

[@FashionStyleEdit]

Haha thanks Joan, I think I might have to treat myself today:) x

[@naomipomphrey824]

Truly the one EVERYone needs to watch. Trying to fit in and be someone I am not has always left me feeling inadequate and as if I am falling short. Throughout the ages we are constantly evolving and learning. Lockdown has helped me in some respects as I needed a breather to reconnect with myself and re-establish who I am and where I am going looking forward. As I am 50 next year I am trying to negotiate the the changes and really focus on health, wellbeing and happiness. Much love, we've got this!! Xx

[@FashionStyleEdit]

Hi Naomi, thank you so much for watching and getting in touch:) I think 'fitting in' is overrated, being original makes us all special. I tend to warm to people like that too, I'm not one for being in the 'cool' gang , it's all a bit mean girls for me. Surround yourself with goodness and it makes for a much happier and positive life. It sounds like the enforced reset has really helped you gather your thoughts, it's felt good hasn't it. Sending lots of love and hugs on your exciting new wellbeing journey Naomi x

[@juliannebelmont6182]

Loved these words from you Jess. Being confident in who we are is so difficult for many women. Spent years trying to work out my style and not there yet after 50 odd years... Others comments and looks haven't always helped... But I realise now it is my opinion that matters and feeling good in my own skin.. Thank you. X

[@FashionStyleEdit]

Absolutely Julianne. There's so many other things at work when we receive mean comments. It could be as simple as someone having a bad day to them just not being very nice! But ultimately it's truly 'their' issue not yours at all. It sounds like you're on the right track now feeling good in your own skin which is absolutely the best place to be:) x

[@gaillind8249]

there is ALWAYS something you can find to say that is positive about the other person...sometimes you have to look very hard, but it is do-able...and good practice for all of us ( I am a 72 year old personal trainer, and most of my clients are older, and I always give positive feedback...it is soooo very important!) Thank you for your videos...I enjoy...

[@FashionStyleEdit]

100% agree my lovely:) If we all try to see the good wouldn't the world be a lot nicer place too! Have a lovely week Gail x

[@macjrc]

❤️ This! One question please, I love a boho style and dress this way all the time with sandals and maxi dresses, kimonos, cutoffs and times are the beach. However, at work I love a preppy classic look. I love pencil skirts and blazers, crisp button downs and pumps. They both seem to be my authentic self but every time I watch a style video it’s always promoting knowing your authentic self. Am I being untrue to myself. Should I try to incorporate these two together?

[@FashionStyleEdit]

Hi lovely, thanks so much for getting in touch:) I would say both styles are probably genuinely you, and that's absolutely fine. Why limit yourself to one?! I have days where I like dressing a little bohemian, and others I want to feel more feminine or elegant and both are very much my style yet both very different. I think if it 'feels' right to you and you feel nice in it, then that's always right:) x

[@marthabrodie4099]

Love your style!! Personal and fashion!!🌸🌺🌹🌷💐

[@FashionStyleEdit]

Thank you Martha, I'm so glad you enjoy what I DO ON HERE X

[@blackcatmoon1916]

Beautiful advice! Thank you for sharing 💖

[@FashionStyleEdit]

I'm so glad you liked it, thank you so much for watching x

[@silviasauc8570]

Very touching, very honest, a great video! Congratulations and thanks!

[@FashionStyleEdit]

Thank you so much Silvia:) x

[@cinn7862]

Hey Jess, 100% agree, it's so important to be true to ourselves and in our style. It sounds easy enough but it takes time to discover who you really are, i just turned 40 and still trying to figure it out. I will be sharing your video with my daughter when she is old enough, your words of wisdom; and something i wish i knew when i was in my 20s/30s. You have inspired me in so many ways, i am truly grateful - thank you xx ❤❤

[@FashionStyleEdit]

What a lovely comment Cindy, thank you so much:) You've all inspired me so much since I've had this channel in so many ways. It does take time to really discover your personal style and I think it changes along the way a little too. We like certain things as we get older or a trend appears that really fits how we see ourselves. But it's such a lovely feeling when you get to that point, or even have a hint of it appear. Sending big hugs Cindy and thanks so much again x

[@sallyannryder]

What a fantastic video thank you so much.....you are glowing today too xx

[@FashionStyleEdit]

Aww thanks lovely:) Hope you're having a fab weekend so far Sallyann x

[@TheBurrowByTheCreek]

Jess, I just want to hug you! Your best video to date!!! I don’t know why we don’t talk about this topic more amongst ourselves. If we as a gender were more supportive of each other this world would be a completely different place. BTW, you and I know that woman from your teens was like that to you because she had a thing for your then boyfriend.🙄

[@FashionStyleEdit]

Aww sending you a virtual hug lovely! It's something I've really felt over the last couple of years and hopefully expressed it properly in this video:) Have a wonderful week lovely x

[@SK-lw9ku]

Loved this! I bought that tan Sézane shirt you wear because of you! Please do a video on dressing for body shapes, I’d love your style advice on dressing for inverted triangle shape? Modern fashion though, every time I google it comes up with empire dresses or palazzo pants which I’m not a fan of. I prefer a oversized shirt with skinny jeans look. I’d rather make the most of my broader shoulders or slim legs rather than hide them! A video on body shapes using today’s trends would be fantastic though! X

[@FashionStyleEdit]

Great idea for a video thank you so much:) I shall add it to the list. And with lovely slim legs I reckon absolutely show them off! If I liked mine a little more I'd definitely be buying more mini dresses:) x

[@ritagoedecke6574]

Thank you for this wonderful video, I enjoyed it much! Excellent choices.

[@FashionStyleEdit]

Thank you so much Rita, I really appreciate that:) x

[@halinameson2946]

You are positively beautiful and amazing. Plus your hair and makeup looks great in the video. ;)

[@FashionStyleEdit]

Aww thank you Halina that's so kind of you:) x

[@heathercosh5582]

Thank you for sharing such supportive messages - so many of them rang true for me. I'm at an exciting juncture of life right now (I hope) with having made the decision to retire early from my current place of employment after dedicating 20 years to it but I truly needed to remove myself from an environment that has been such a toxic influence and which has had a very negative effect on my sense of self-worth and confidence, despite being highly accomplished personally and professionally. I can't wait to have some breathing space to focus on rejuvenating my 'mojo' and moving in new directions that inspire me and those around me. Have a super weekend!!

[@FashionStyleEdit]

Hello Heather, so sorry I missed your comment but how exciting is that! A new path ahead for you and wiping your hands clean of a toxic environment. I salute you gorgeous:) And I'm imagining once the dust has settled it'll feel like the best decision you ever made:) Big hugs lovely and congratulations x

[@mimiandthemuse]

Hello Jess. This video is actually so important and relevant. Thank you for posting this. I've been a subscriber for about a year now and love your style and content. I've been in a similar situation as yourself with an older group of people surrounding me. I think I knew who I was but was afraid of being missunderstood or belittled just by virtue of being the youngest and prettiest. Other women are often mean to pretty girls. I found my voice and use it fearlessly! lol.

[@FashionStyleEdit]

Haha thank goodness you found your voice eventually my lovely:) It's liberating isn't it x

[@zenabraithwaite1934]

Great advice. I like lots of different looks- i like what i like. Unfortunately my jobs have a fairly modest, set, practical need clothing wise and in most downtime i'm walking the dog, i suppose the real me comes out when i dress on holiday, days out or nights out, though i do my makeup every day apart from the beach or when i am ill- my makeup is my armour.

[@FashionStyleEdit]

Hi Zena, thanks so much for watching:) And thankfully you have those moments where you are truly free to just be you and dress in what you love:) And you're so right, make up is another brilliant way to express your true style even if you're not able to do it with your clothes at work. Happy Sunday Zena x

[@deborahkilleen4841]

Your just so uplifting. I to have the same attitude about complimenting females, some feel very surprised by the compliment, I just smile.

[@FashionStyleEdit]

Isn't it lovely:) Genuinely passing on the love so to speak can really make someone feel good. It's infectious! Hope you're having a lovely Sunday Deborah, the sun is finally out here so we're off out to celebrate! x

[@fredaharris3340]

I'm so happy I found you. You're lovely inside and out. I'm obsessed with your blue and white bohemian shirt, where did you find it?

[@FashionStyleEdit]

Hi Freda, I'm so happy you found me too lovely:) That shirt is quite old however it's from a brand called Sluiz Ibiza. They haven't got the best website, the pictures really don't do their clothes justice but in my experience everything i've ever bought from them is gorgeous! And lasted for years in my wardrobe:) Hope that helps lovely and Happy Sunday x

[@michellecomens1279]

Very sweet! Such great advice! You are lovely! So glad I found your Chanel and this video was great ❤️

[@FashionStyleEdit]

Thank you so much Michelle:) I'm glad you found my channel too lovely x

[@bikiblond]

Just stopped by to say how much I loved this. Almost every single piece you linked was something I would love to wear. I am going for a job interview with a tech startup and had lots of good ideas now. ❤️

[@FashionStyleEdit]

Hi Biki, thanks so much for watching and apologies I'm so late replying:/ I hope the job interview went well and I gave you a little spring in your step with my waffling! Happy Sunday lovely x

[@kseniadrzazdzynska26]

You are inspiring! I needed such words especially today for mental purpose

[@FashionStyleEdit]

I’m so glad you liked it Ksenia 😊 X

[@pamkirby4390]

Great video, enjoyed so much Jess! My grandmother had that same motto. 🙌🏻🇺🇸😊💛

[@FashionStyleEdit]

Thank you so much Pam x

[@lindacaffalette8927]

Such a breath of fresh air to hear you mention, dress in what suits your own individual style regardless of the price tag and labels. I am so totally in agreement with that because it's very obvious when a person tries too hard and it feels forced. Sometimes it actually detracts from the entire outfit. Wanting to impress others with brand names & labels is certainly not my thing but that's only my own opinion, each to one's own personal taste & style!!! 💟💜💟

[@FashionStyleEdit]

I totally agree Linda:) Lovely kind women are what inspires me, not the label in the back of their clothes! Or the money they've spent on them for that matter:/ Happy Sunday Linda, I hope you've had a wonderful weekend so far x

[@myaccount2604]

Wonderful style and advice. Such a classy lady. Bravo!

[@FashionStyleEdit]

Thank you so much x

[@ccchoe3171]

I’m so glad I found your channel. It’s inspire me to rethink my clothing choices to not only make me feel better but better for our planet! Your ideas are so timeless, classic and beautiful.

[@FashionStyleEdit]

Aww that's so lovely to hear:) Well I'm so chuffed you found me too and to hear you're finding my ideas helpful makes it all worthwhile. Have a wonderful week lovely x

[@supersophie777]

By far the best and most humble KZbinr. Another great video Jess xx

[@FashionStyleEdit]

Aww bless you for saying that Sophie, thank you. I'm so glad you liked the video:) x

[@Fiyin1000]

You are amazing and thanks for this. My daughter must watch this.

[@FashionStyleEdit]

Aww that’s so kind thank you😊 I truly wish more women could get that sprinkle of confidence back we often had in our 20s. Happy weekend lovely and thanks again for watching x

[@alexnewall8864]

Jess what is so lovely about you is you are stunning but a lovely person also 🥰 This video was very helpful and I agree with everything you said , thank you xxx

[@FashionStyleEdit]

Aww that's kind of you to say Alex, thank you:) I'm so glad you liked it x

[@lynneblamires9285]

Great advice Jess. Be who you are and as you say if you can't say anything nice don't say it makes you feel so much better about yourself. You are such an inspiration and I am old enough to be your mum but just love watching your videos.

[@FashionStyleEdit]

Aww thanks Lynne:) Age is but a number on our birthday cards and I've taken to start counting mine backwards anyhow! I'm so pleased you found the video helpful, I feel very lucky to have such a nice group of like minded women on this channel:) Happy Sunday Lynne x

[@gegeschannel8836]

I have been a mentor for both men and women. But everyday, I will tell a total stranger that I like their hair, dress, or other things. When I do,they always smile. Makes me happy

[@FashionStyleEdit]

It's a lovely feeling isn't it:) x

[@starlasell5698]

Such a beautiful message...beautiful you!!

[@FashionStyleEdit]

Thank you so much Starla x

[@barbarade8651]

The best video I’ve been seen on KZbin from very long time . Thank you 🙏🏼 for that honest words this a great message for all of us .

[@FashionStyleEdit]

Thank you so much Barbara, I truly meant every word:) x

[@susanchaney5059]

I had just watched a "style" video and was feeling uneducated and confused about all the "rules." THANK YOU. I love your attitude and kindness and you put it all in a new perspective for me. I do know who I am but (as a Gemini) I often feel different on different days and so go in different directions. I guess that's ok? I also have a horse so have my western barn style as well. Love the look of the English dressage equestrian but that's not me. You are a gem.

[@FashionStyleEdit]

That's absolutely okay Susan:) We are all a bit like that I think, especially Women. And I think that's an important point to just flow with your mood. I filmed a new video the other day and one item is a lovely red dress, a little bit sexy but understated. And on that day if felt nice wearing it but it'll be one of those dresses you have to be in the mood for! Happy Sunday lovely x

[@ren8240]

Great video! Where is your black/grey & white shirt from at 2:00 mins in?

[@FashionStyleEdit]

Thank you:) That's an old one I bought from a place called Sluiz Ibiza. They do have a website thought their pictures aren't amazing, I've always thought the quality is great:) x

[@mstamouli508]

I hope all your younger followers really listen to your wisdom! I really love how you extend the term 'fashion' into another level. Keep up the great videos! x

[@FashionStyleEdit]

Aww thank you so much lovely:) If all my waffling gives just one woman a little sprinkle of confidence then that makes me very happy x

[@lesleytonks2594]

Thanks, loved it. Fashion with compassion❣️🌹👏

[@FashionStyleEdit]

Thank you so much Lesley:) Have a great week lovely x

[@janettecavallaro5643]

You must be Virgo..if not I luv your advice and armour style❤

[@FashionStyleEdit]

I'm a Pisces:) Daydream believer who likes to try and help everyone and anyone! haha, thanks so much for watching Janette, I'm so pleased you liked it:) x

[@erinhatton519]

Dont no how i missed this video, o my god wat a great one it was u are just such an great inspo my god thank you again for this great video # bestyoutuber ever xxx

[@FashionStyleEdit]

Hiya Erin, what a lovely comment thanks so much hun. I was a little nervous posting this because it's so personal but I reasoned if it could help someone along the way it was absolutely worth it:) Hope you're well lovely x

[@SimplyMaria23]

💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕

[@FashionStyleEdit]

Hello lovely, hope you're having a wonderful Sunday:) x

[@paolagrassi658]

Lovely video Jess and such inspirational words. Thank you so much for sharing this!

[@FashionStyleEdit]

Aww it's my pleasure Paola:) It's something I'd really wanted to talk about for a while but couldn't find the right words so I'm glad it's come across as I meant:) Have a wonderful week lovely x

[@karenwest116]

Truly great video and important to say these words out loud. Thank you 🥰🌸

[@FashionStyleEdit]

Aww thank you so much Karen:) These little tips have really helped me over the years so I'm hoping passing them on will help someone else too. Hope you're having a lovely weekend so far x

[@dawson1ize]

I’ve been there, so many times. This is a fabulous message. 🙏🏼

[@FashionStyleEdit]

Aww thanks hun, glad you liked it:) Thank god I don't have to sit through those dinners anymore!! x

[@tejimogu]

One of the best fashion videos I have ever watched. It will still make sense in 50yrs time .

[@FashionStyleEdit]

Aww that is so kind of you to say Tracy, thank you:) I really appreciate it x

[@beatrizs2236]

❤ Thank you for the video Jess; Good job❤

[@FashionStyleEdit]

Thank you so much Beatriz x

[@TheEvitagirsang]

Very wise, yes to all the tips that you are saying. I really like this video :) and you looks gorgeous.

[@FashionStyleEdit]

Thank you so much Evita, I'm so glad you liked it:) x

[@tracyrender1595]

👌 And Lockdown has been the perfect opportunity for me to shop my wardrobe find me again and then online shop of course for missing bits 😉 I’ve rediscovered what I love and the best thing of all is not having to even think what people think as we’ve not seen anyone and by the time we do no one will remember what you wore anyway 😀 so lockdown silver lining 😊

[@FashionStyleEdit]

Haha so true! Lockdown has given us all a chance to reinvent our style if we wish! So glad you've rediscovered 'you' again, that's the most of the battle right there:) x

[@TheZeyre]

Thanks! I passes this on to my gal pals here in Canada. 🌏🌹🌹

[@FashionStyleEdit]

Yes! Spread the word, everyone is gorgeous just the way they are:) That's the hippy in me I know!! Haha, hope you're well lovely x

[@leahcardzansi3924]

It amazes me how something that happened to you in your teens can resonate in that a few years back I was going through certain time of my life that shook my confidence that I only just started to come into and it was someone I held very dear to my heart and looked up to as the sister I did not have,they was encouraging me for a long time see what they saw that I am good looking women I only came to that conclusion 4 years ago I'm in my late 40s it's been a journey of self discovery but when it did finally click that person turned on me it felt like a rug was pulled right from under me but in so doing I have learned that you have to learn to love and rely on that inner voice that we tend to ignore most of our lives that is for me my confidence telling you are doing fine yes you are looking stunning today I like how you are rocking that dress that colour looks awesome on you I now don't need someone else validation to feel good in my own skin if I want to dress as if I'm going to a garden party for instance on the rare occasions we have good weather in the UK 😌 and I'm just going to Tesco then I do so it is a part of me I love fashion I have all my life and I will continue to thank you for your honesty words they did resonate stay blessed because you are 🙏😊

[@FashionStyleEdit]

Hello Leahcar thanks so much for getting in touch and sharing your thoughts:) It sounds like you finally realised the true issue at the heart of that situation and used it to build yourself back up. I know how that feels, more than I can say on here but I'm so glad you got there. Love the idea of you dressing up for Tesco, and why not if that makes you happy! Love it:) Have a fab week lovely and thanks again for watching x

[@leahcardzansi3924]

Thank you i will be honest i have relapses now and again doubts but I think shaking it off each time just makes me stronger 💪 🤗 and reinforcing that I am rocking it🤗 stay blessed because we are all blessed 🙏🏼

[@andreab9351]

Genuine and heart felt. My mum said the same thing to me when I was growing up, “If you don’t have anything nice to say, say nothing.” Another thing she said if I was feeling sorry for myself was,” There’s always someone worse off than you.” Xx

[@FashionStyleEdit]

Thank you so much Andrea:) I follow your Mum's motto as well, especially important to remember this year. Happy Sunday lovely x

[@sharronboxenbaum7392]

Many great messages here!! Thank you

[@FashionStyleEdit]

Thank you so much Sharron, I'm so glad you liked it x

[@lorraineriley6393]

Mornin jess. Awww your so lovely and genuine and your words are inspiring. Sat here in baggy Jean's n shirt not feeling my best. So I am now going to shower and get spruced up to visit my sis. Your a breath of fresh air.xx

[@FashionStyleEdit]

Aww thank you:) Well here's to a lovely catch up with your Sis Lorraine, enjoy lovely:) x

[@adeline8442]

Thank you so so much !! I love your style 💖

[@FashionStyleEdit]

Thank you so much:) x

[@shelleyj7944]

This was a lovely warm positive and oh so honest inspiring video Jess, such lovely true words, I am a woman’s woman and we need to uplift and support each other.....💕🥰😘

[@FashionStyleEdit]

Absolutely:) It's an infectious feeling when women support other women, I love it! Have a fantastic week Shelley, is it feeling more normal out there now? x

[@shelleyj7944]

Fashion and Style Edit Hey Jess, no unfortunately not, think it’s only the beginning sadly, all very strange in the shop, a lot of frustrated and ticked off ladies and then you have the lovely ones who are obviously a bit scared but just happy to be out and treating themselves lol....The funny thing is they have no compassion or understanding what it’s like for us being in the shop all day , all they are concerned about is having to return an item and not being to try on, we didn’t set those rules the government did so not my fault, I would personally love to mange the clothes myself and see my ladies happy but hey ho.....I am a very positive thinker so just doing my best...🤪😂😂😂....Enjoy the sun gorgeous....P.S The garden looks amazing and the DJ was rocking it for his kids...lol...xxxx

[@bethhelen574]

This is the most valuable utube video ever🌸

[@FashionStyleEdit]

Aww Beth thank you so much for saying that:) I'm so happy you liked it x

[@janette6]

Bravo Jess. 👏👏👏 What a great start to the new week.

[@FashionStyleEdit]

Aww that's lovely to hear, thanks Janette:) x

[@emskit9344]

Hi Jess Thank you for another great video. Beautiful tips, so true. Lovely outfits 👌 have a great weekend xx

[@FashionStyleEdit]

Thank you so much, I really appreciate that:) Fab weekend to you too hun x

[@emskit9344]

@@FashionStyleEdit I love the mango blouse your wearing, is the sizing true to size? Thanks xx

[@kkouz45]

You are amazing, Jess. Best life advice. All your points resonated so very much with me. You nailed it!

[@FashionStyleEdit]

Aww Karen thank you so much my lovely:) I'm genuinely so chuffed you liked it x

[@kkouz45]

Fashion and Style Edit 🤔had to google chuffed! 🤣

[@sherryedwards695]

Great tips and great video on a very important topic.

[@FashionStyleEdit]

Thank you so much Sherry, I'm so pleased you liked this video. x

[@64Biina]

A lot of warm and fuzzy packed into this video Jess! Thanks so much for reminding us of what is real and that life is not a series of Instagram photos and videos. Cheers, Tiina xx

[@FashionStyleEdit]

Aww thanks Tiina:) A lot of Instagram is smoke and mirrors, I can't believe anyone's life is that perfect! Haha, the state of my house right now would shock the home bloggers that's for sure! Hope you're well gorgeous. Are you in lockdown again I hear? x

[@64Biina]

@@FashionStyleEdit Luckily your state of disarray is short-lived and the payoff will be worth it! The state of Victoria is in lockdown, yes. My sister-in-law + her husband have been stranded there since March (assisting my 95 year old mother-in-law). The borders have been shut and we are praying that the virus doesn't make it's way back into South Australia.

[@Mtns-qx1by]

I love this video! Please make more that are similar

[@FashionStyleEdit]

I'm so glad you liked it Jessica, I shall have a think about other ideas on these sorts of subjects:) x

[@merry6117]

This is just fantastic. Thank you

[@FashionStyleEdit]

Thank you so much Merry:) x

[@AB-du2wf]

Thanks for your honesty!

[@FashionStyleEdit]

Thank you so much Alessandra x

[@gailsnow7375]

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[@JoR00ke]

Wonderful video Jess but it also brought a tear to my eye. I've always struggled with my self image, spent my whole life feeling self conscious and have never really found my style. I pick up clothes in shops that I love but put them back cos I don't think I could wear them and buy something more conservative. Strangely I think the lockdown had helped a little as its put things into perspective but I wonder if I can keep the mindset going when things are more normal and life takes over again. Your lovely words are in my head and I shall keep thinking of them and take little steps to change my attitude. You're a star Jess xx

[@FashionStyleEdit]

Hey Jo, I'm so sorry hun I seem to have missed your reply:/ I really hope my words are still in your head hun since this video! If in doubt try and look at it as a game. Dare yourself to stand out from the shadows just once and wear something you truly love but usually would say no in fear. What's the worst that can happen? And hopefully when you realise nothing bad happens you'll do it again and again! Even if you do get a snarky comment, does it matter? I really try to not let things like that effect my day and I so wish everyone could too. I heard a really interesting quote the other day that most people are fundamentally so self absorbed they barely notice what everyone else is doing let alone wearing! It made me laugh and I do think there's some truth to it. Everyone's worried what everyone thinks of them, a group of women could all being stood together worrying about the same thing! So try it Jo, throw caution to the wind and just have a go, I promise you once you get used to it stepping out from the shadows will be the most liberating feeling:) x

[@JoR00ke]

Lovely Jess, you have to be the most conscientious KZbinr out there, thank you for responding to this even though you don't have to. I will try, I will, I will, I will 😁 😘 x

[@FashionStyleEdit]

@@JoR00ke Never give up trying my lovely, one day it'll all just click into place:) x

[@rosihoogeveen4620]

This video is soooooo beautiful 💖

[@FashionStyleEdit]

Thank you so much Rosi:) I'm so grateful to hear that x

[@Olivia-vp6is]

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[@945ads1]

you nailed it Jess! in every word, it was exactly what I needed to hear! thank you!

[@FashionStyleEdit]

That is so nice to hear Angelita, thank you so much:) Here's to a wonderful, positive week lovely:) x

[@945ads1]

@@FashionStyleEdit thanks😊