6 Things Black Women are NOT Doing in 2024 🙅🏾‍♀️

[@highlvlbarbertalk]

Hello , I am seeing the memberships listed as $169 Standard & $259 premium is that the black friday deal?

[@StephaniePerry]

No, that's the regular price. Use code BF2023THS30 to make sure the discount is applied.

[@tiffanyross4266]

I watch a lot of true crime shows and this can be dangerous. Housing insecurity makes people lose their minds there have been too many deaths caused by people that have moved in other people's homes.

[@jeanclarke-mitchell2845]

Thanks for the information!

[@OpinionatedGlobalCitizen]

@@tiffanyross4266 took words out of my mouth. Don't do airbnbs either for similar reasons.

[@Khemre]

not letting someone else's disorganization become my emergency.

[@allgoodthingsjamaican]

Achilles heel of black women

[@fdoctor79]

Yes, everyone's crisis is not YOUR crisis.

[@solinspired4428]

Yes

[@janine8843]

Love this!

[@naturespleasantries]

This!

[@livefromtheground7274]

In 2024, I will speak less! I am tired of offering up solutions to the voluntary long term suffers. Some folks love "going thru it".

[@Nekole1]

Same

[@livefromtheground7274]

@@Nekole1 Welcome to Peace my Sister, Welcome.☮

[@gayanngodfrey2824]

Yes

[@nishamack586]

❤❤I love this

[@cwil7934]

Yes, indeed. I decided to adopt this mantra early in December, because I am tired. 🙂

[@Sasha-eo6jz]

I am not going to work myself into the ground in 2024 or ever again!

[@FloraMBrown]

A big one: Not supporting grown people, especially relatives!

[@yolandawestbrook8240]

I stopped doing that years ago and do not feel bad about it

[@lornanazon7234]

Amen to that. I’m done with that. Especially siblings 😢

[@RespectfulCicada]

Especially with emotional labor they aren't willing to deal with, but are trying to shove onto me. Peace is Thee Priority

[@lisareed5669]

Disagree

[@mayesdirecttalkministry8317]

Ohhhh...you hit the nail on the head. I am not renting a uhaul for a relative to drive....not no moreeeeee.

[@mts43]

I am not going to feel ugly because I don't align with the beauty standard

[@solinspired4428]

This!!!!

[@Nekole1]

This!

[@doll.ov.poetrii4682]

Make yourself the beauty standard for yourself. That's what I did years ago and it improved my self esteem like crazy.

[@Nekole1]

@@doll.ov.poetrii4682 Same! Omg I did the same thing. I feel so liberated!!

[@niquelamar7973]

SAME!!!!

[@NkemOnyeka12]

Not tolerating passive aggressive behavior OR gaslighting OR disrespect….from ANYONE. GOING TO TRAVEL THE WORLD ❤, with my twins! Not spending ANY time with people who have shown me how NOT important I am to them.

[@OpinionatedGlobalCitizen]

Bravo

[@soblessed4844]

I will not collude in my own self betrayal by staying in relations with people who drain me or don’t value my presence.

[@angelahines]

As a black woman, I’m not gonna not gonna care what other people think about me!

[@daners-o3w]

"Use your love language on yourself". This never occurred to me. I looooove this; thank you!

[@jan854]

This is a great idea!

[@Mini-ge9sm]

I’ve been doing this & it’s amazing!!!

[@disco_b1465]

I'm not going to be disrespected for a paycheck. I resigned in June of this year, and even after my manager read the resignation letter she didn't believe I was serious. Pure definition of a fool.

[@disco_b1465]

I guess managers don't believe that a Black woman would walk away from a $150,000 salary. WRONG answer 😆😅😂

[@shaht7905]

yes to this! I just had to let some folks know who i was and who i was not!

[@OpinionatedGlobalCitizen]

Claps

[@terrilhill1024]

I 😘 that you shared this. I am so over being disrespected on these jobs & " biting my tongue" to keep my employment! It has gotten me physically sick! I'm done with it!

[@disco_b1465]

@@terrilhill1024 Yes, all of the constant disrespect made me sick too. My doctor diagnosed me with stress induced high blood pressure, and had a heart attack at work defending myself against my manager. It wasn't worth it, but I had to take care of my two daughters. Be blessed 🤗

[@dorismoton7108]

We are not letting anybody “anybody“ tell us what’s best for us! ✌🏽

[@JamesBrooks-hj3dz]

Only the wm can do that

[@teetime3421]

I’m decluttering but keeping my house because I don’t want to be homeless, or at the mercy of corporate landlords.

[@ebonywaite9101]

Not being help to people when there is nobody helping you...just because I've been responsible the majority of my life does not mean I have to be the go to. I struggle with this being an empathetic person. I fill cups when mine is on empty.

[@Queen221-u3u]

Wooow this is exactly what I’m dealing with now!😢

[@amart1086]

Same here

[@angiejordan6454]

Same here!!! But be prepared for the anger and disappointment and envy when you put your resources into yourself and shine.

[@deedyjohnson-reid3035]

Same here! I’m trying to figure out how to get out of things that are taking away my joy.

[@zerotolerance2026]

Decluttering is a big one for me! I find myself cleaning constantly. I want to spend my weekends relaxing and enjoying life!

[@sherocks915]

Not being a slave, maid, chef, to a man

[@Nekole1]

This is a good one. I live by not doing this.

[@jagthediva351]

Not worrying about things I can't control. Being intentional about having a good time! 💃🏾💃🏾

[@DollysParadise]

2024 will be the year of self care!!!🎉

[@Avigailthementalhealthcoach]

Whew tired of raising grown adults! im done too sis!

[@livefromtheground7274]

You better tell it!!!

[@Khemre]

not people pleasing anymore 🎉

[@cuomakingchoices]

Dear Stephanie, I am subscribed to your channel and I thank you for your content. I am a black woman of African Canadian national born and raised in Nigeria who have worked in depression to take care of others for over two decades. Listening to you and your calming delivery style gives me ease. Thank you and your channel is making a difference in my life.

[@Rrashestone]

I just found this channel and it’s fantastic but has anyone else noticed the striking resemblance between her and Wanda Sykes ?

[@Miss_Cali]

Hello 👋🏾 she’s talked about that several times 😀

[@brownesugarandspice4253]

And her voice sounds nice and soothing sounds like Shirley Strawberry 🍓

[@ronavery7116]

Her inner beauty and love for her sisters shine through ❤

[@acajudi100]

I am 81 living in Queretaro since 2021. I am a widow with a daughter 43, who teaches English around the world, currently in Bali. I showed her how t travel from 11 months young. Travel is the very best education and I started at 20 with Mexico, mainly Acapulco, I do speak Spanish as a second language from age 14.

[@ms.rivera7898]

Oh wow! She’s teaching in Bali? I saw teaching jobs there, but the salary was quite low.

[@Heypreppy777]

As a black/brown woman. I needed to hear this. I am known to start things, and talk myself out off it or find several 100 reasons why I can’t. I will see it through. Whatever encounters or opportunities come. Love you dear sister, Thank you for encouraging us to follow through until we reach our dreams.

[@aprilwhite5990]

Hello! I turned 50 August 12 & planned an extended weekend in New Orleans, my favorite American city. Ended up having a group of 12 and it was a TIME! I started pre-planning (researching vendors, etc) 4 years in advance and for real planning (bookings, etc) 1 year in advance. Shortly after my 49th birthday I got a great promotion. Before my 50th I lost it to budget cuts. I almost canceled my birthday celebration but my sister talked me off the ledge. Completely changed my perspective on my work life. Making moves to stop my traditional working life sooner than I originally thought I would. I’m prioritizing living my life for my comfort, peace, and enjoyment. Your channel has been such an inspiration.

[@elaibesummers906]

I booked for South Africa 2024, from the UK , cant wait. Love your videos Stephanie ❤💜I definitely want to do things before I kick the bucket, lol. I remove negative people from my life, dont want that energy around me. Only positive vibes only.

[@RecoverywithMissWilliams]

I’m in the UK and thinking of/ researching Gambia. All the best ❤

[@karensparks7863]

You are amazing. The Harriet Tubman of our time. Not shrinking down to make others feel better

[@skabeads]

Not bringing my 12 year storage unit into 2024

[@shoot4themoon406]

Please save your money! I spent nearly $10K on storage over a 10 year period. Rooting for you! You can do something else with that money.

[@FranchattaBlack]

I'm 53 years old you are HELPING ME !!!! Your age is great 👍🏾 No forgetfulness here or there😊

[@cerinaflemister]

I am enjoying the replay. I want to say with the banning of books with people of color, please give/sell the books to other people of color so our history is not erased.

[@RespectfulCicada]

In general, I believe in having a family that helps each other thrive. So, for me, not helping grown family members only applies to when it puts me in hardship or perpetuates toxic patterns. Like constantly stepping in to help a family member that obviously isn't helping themself. Or taking on the emotional baggage when someone is putting little to no effort into healing themself.

[@AleciaRenece]

STEPHANIE!!!! Omg!!! 🥹🥰🫂💛 Thank you so much!!! Wow. I'm honestly honored and grateful. Thank you so so so much!!! That's so kind of you. So kind of all of you. Thank you.

[@OpinionatedGlobalCitizen]

Love the Afro! You are glowing. Great message 👍👏👌.

[@jenniferdouglas6636]

Greetings little sis, fellow cancerian❤ I plan on being in Gambia and Senegal for my 60th and purchase land Just discovered it's rainy season at that time but hey-o!! Dancing in the rain ☔ 😊

[@ayelefit]

For me what so attractive about Europe is the ease of getting around by train (when there is no strike)! Train travel through Europe is so convenient.

[@StephaniePerry]

I'm so jealous of that! 🚊

[@ygb5955]

Great show. It brought me back from depression and I thank you. Refreshing

[@HollijoyJohnson]

I show myself compassion 😷I know my love language and will demonstrate it to myself 😊I bring my dreams and desires into fruition 😉I follow through

[@earthzone85]

I love your hair oh my so beautiful and your skin so clear. I enjoyed this video as well. Thank you ❤

[@newlifecurator9071]

I didn't make the live this morning, but I will be listening to this over and over again. You were speaking to me! I'm NOT going to start a nonprofit organization. "If money can solve the problem I am trying to solve, then I need to make more money.

[@donaldamccarthy9002]

I’m not staying silent when Black folks demand to collectively pray to their own deity when it is not possible to leave the space or room. I didn’t leave the United States’ to have heavy-handed Americans vomit their culture all over me out here, too. It’s also especially egregious for Black folks to ignore the wishes and silence the voice of a fellow Black woman. If *you* want to pray for me, thank you. But that doesn’t give you the right to pray *at* me if I’ve shared openly that it is not my comfort zone, preference, or happy place.

[@solinspired4428]

I just need to learn how to make more money so I can do more of the things Id love to do. I'm no longer working a 9 to 5 and have a healing business. It's been slow but i need to pay basic bills. I did the work a job thing full time social work for 20 years + and they all dogged me out and I was left exhausted mentally, physically and emotionally.

[@LifeUnfilltered]

This live freed me on so many levels. I love when we go DEEP! 😮‍💨😮‍💨😮‍💨 Black women… BE FREE

[@sage-in742]

Inspiring 🎉 message. These are worthy goals for 2024!

[@Vblack907]

Not wasting money on trivial items. Do not waste your energy visiting, calling, people who don’t do the same for you.

[@abutler4267]

This was very timely. I signed up for TH yesterday and look forward to getting started on my travels. I’m starting local to build up. It’s part of my vision towards my sabbatical in 2025. Chapter 59 is a year of letting go, discovery and learning the new me God created. I listened to this on my headset as I had a root canal performed. Your voice is soothing even when I can’t hear every word. I appreciate you and everyone taking action to their personal freedom. My hubby is supportive. 🥰

[@SunSpotGrasshoppa]

one love to us, black women♥

[@livefromtheground7274]

In 2024, I AM/WILL NOT spend time offering up correction or saving my 19 year old daughter. In her words "Mind your business and let me find out on my own." Yeah, she bout to ... cause Momma dun opted out.

[@shiningstar4885]

Facts. My 19 year old daughter keeps reminding me that she’s grown.

[@CaramelCali]

Lol they gonna learn

[@sherwoodla6535]

How are you gonna opt out of taking care of that grand baby?

[@livefromtheground7274]

@@shiningstar4885 Let her go on with her bad self . . . she's clueless. You and I can /will pray for them both.

[@livefromtheground7274]

@@CaramelCali Indeed. Peace

[@joiperkins7243]

Im not going to go along to get along

[@terrilhill1024]

I am planning a trip to Thailand this year in Sept. I am also looking to be hosted somewhere while I'm there through Trusted House Sitters! I know this experience is gonna beautiful! ❤

[@newvision101]

September has always been my New Year as well! I am not living with a false sense of urgency in 2024.

[@solitudewithmichelle]

Loving this video. Stephanie you're so honest & I appreciate that. Your knowledge is vast. Love Love Love this channel.

[@briquarles4176]

Just loovvve it. I'm not gon' do all this work-myself-into-the-ground stuff anynore!!!!

[@MaxandLiz-27]

In 2024 I’m not going to force things. No more trying to kick open or force open doors closed. No more forcing relationships if something isn’t meant for me I need to stop trying to force it or making situations fit ❤

[@Bee-gf8gn]

“I am a gifted emotion feeler” was such a moving affirmation for me to hear! I have been told that I’m too emotional/needy my entire life. Thank you for this opportunity to undo the harm that messaging has left on me.

[@LisaSoulLevelHealing]

Im absolutely loving France. Everything about it.

[@jasminonelove]

Hi Stephanie! I just love you! Thanks for doing these videos. You have given so many women hope and the confidence to make this exodus dream come to fruition. Your content is priceless. Hope to attend one of your conferences soon. My dream is 3 -4 months at a time twice/year in the caribbean. Three years to go! I live on the east coast and hate winters.

[@alexiskellis6402]

I love these two thumbnail blurbs. LOL. WHAT BLACK WOMEN NOT GONE DO IN 2024 BLACK WOMEN AINT GOT TA LIVE LIKE THIS Perfection? No. Brilliance. YES. These were good. GOT TA was a much better choice than GOTTA. They make me giggle whenever I see them. 😊 I enjoy your channel.

[@benatural49]

Learn how to make more money...thank you! I was looking to start a Cancer Foundation in support of a friend I was helping with cancer. I saw a need.

[@Devy7814]

I bring my visions to fruition and when I need help I ask for help.

[@toolsofthepodcasttrade]

Lol! Been traveling since I took your course and just got back to reduce my "stuff". Great video!

[@graywyn1909]

Thx for mentioning foundations. It’s a great way for us to build/preserve money & help folks too. I’m in the midst of establishing one & you don’t need as much money as you think and it’s not very complex.

[@LisaSimmons-mn2sr]

“#1, Budget…” You cracking up had me cracking up.🤭😊😁😂

[@ClaudetthSamuels]

Good morning. Just hearing about your podcast

[@nalignmentwlifehealinglife]

I'm looking for a housesitter travel buddy.

[@truckerette]

I'm available!

[@livefromtheground7274]

What state are you in? Me NJ

[@nalignmentwlifehealinglife]

@@livefromtheground7274 I'm in illinois

[@truckerette]

@@livefromtheground7274 I'm in Florida

[@bigupyuself]

Good idea

[@DrCrystalHarris]

Love this topic!!!! 🎉❤

[@dwalker6868]

I so love you, Stephanie your heart is a giant you really love and care about us

[@SunSpotGrasshoppa]

❤I bet on me today, no longer do I energize the visions of men; I take my energy back, my magic back, my love back, and put it all in to ME🎇

[@jaderoyale-brown]

Greetings and early morning, watching the replay while at work, current time 2:35am EST😊

[@funkyredhead1]

I've been binge watching your channel. When is the next Get 3 Clients challenge in 2024?🤞🏾🙏🏾

[@mts43]

Your afro is beautiful

[@dwalker6868]

I’m so excited for you you’ve been talking about Fiji for a while and now here you go yay❤

[@mayesdirecttalkministry8317]

Hello Stephanie and my sista Queens. I am watching in the replay🎉

[@ronavery7116]

I travelled abroad 3 times in 1 year. I have not totally unpacked! I have clothes in 4 closets in my 3 bedroom home. Seriously I am drowning in my CLOTHES😁. Solution: I am switching to a uniform like a monk; using 3 outfits. Anybody ready to join me ?? Love you Stephanie 👏

[@Africanbeautyy93]

Love your hair! You’re gorgeous, I absolutely love your content and I’m so glad I found your channel ❤

[@AliciaOgburn-yv6cu]

❤ Amazing love it ❤

[@Hello_Pri]

We stayed in the over-water huts in the French Polynesia and it was absolutely beautiful. I relaxed the moment I walked in. Everyone there also looked like me (I’m south Asian) and they spoke to me in French and I just loved it ❤ I tried to tell them in my broken high school French that I’m American. Anyway, it was a beautiful experience and I cried when we had to come back.

[@nicolem2877]

Where did I stay specifically. It sounds so lovely.

[@Hello_Pri]

@@nicolem2877 we were at the Hilton Moorea Lagoon Resort & Spa and the Intercontinental Bora Bora. Both were fantastic.

[@Kee22lifeper]

I feel called out haha, especially when you got to number 4.💚✨️I am giving myself permission in 2024 to let go and GO!

[@kims9256]

Hey 👋🏾 from AUSTRALIA! You know I hate that I missed the live!

[@IsaacNYC212]

33:04 a lot of missed return flights 😉🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@AliciaOgburn-yv6cu]

❤ Fabulous ❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@jr9941]

Love you Sis! Blessings and thank you for always encouraging so many Nubian sisters. Yes, let's continue setting goals for ourselves and walking in purpose. And most importantly, giving ourselves grace! ❤

[@ClaudetthSamuels]

Good morning

[@nelliehyder8303]

Good, positive and encouraging information. Thanks for sharing.

[@philchow-wee8855]

My nieces are not settling for waiting for Black men to return home and them using their love for women of other races as an accuse for hating women who look like their own families. I tell Black women, just send our handsome BLACK brothers, uncles, and nephews our blessings. Some will never want a BLACK WOMEN and never have. There's a CHANGE COMING! In 2024. Love your BLACKNESS.

[@livefromtheground7274]

I save my blessings for the worthy! They are under witchcraft

[@mahalaishealingconstantly]

Facts. I don’t even talk to my dad, brother, or uncles. I’m convinced they hate us. I live with my mom and sisters now. Their hatred has become too much for me to handle mentally.

[@felicialagrant9410]

Hello Stephanie! I am new here and l love your podcast! Since listening to you, l have been traveling quite a bit, some solo, and some with family. Your podcast has been thought provoking in so many ways. Like making more money!!

[@casebycase7750]

LMAO the title is everything 😂😂😂

[@juanitasmartofremaxexcelle5080]

Being from Figi is a person's nationality. They can also be Black, Chinese or of European descent. So he was Fijian & Black.❤

[@gretchenking5952]

I would love to see an episode dedicated to updating us on the woman who was given money for a sabbatical to do art in I think it was Rwanda. How did the experience enrich her life, how did it turn out? I think seeing how successful that experience was might encourage others to give more for the next person you select.

[@YogaBlissDance]

She shared she will do a video with her!

[@YogaBlissDance]

OMG... Steph I just started watching Myron Golden too. and yeah some truths (he's brilliant about how to look at earning money his 4 levels) and some things way of base in my feelings and I have to discard.

[@denisejo10462]

I am a make it happen person!

[@patriciaallen9495]

Not tolerating emotional abuse and control

[@gnettetwin439]

We own nothing!

[@co_7523]

Thank you for talking about prospecting! I hate doing this and I find it to be very ineffective and inefficient.

[@mrs.rogersneighborhood]

Re: School, Read the book, “”Dumbing us Down” by John Holt.

[@susanmasters2140]

Yes!

[@basicbutcute]

I turn 55 in April!!! I'm in California. I'll join yoy!!!

[@virtualcreativecollaborations]

♥️ Beautiful Blessings

[@brownesugarandspice4253]

Not to allow my 9-5 to delete me

[@tamathagilbert5816]

🌼🌼🌼 Good Morning:)

[@somebodycomelistentothispo7217]

Fiji is on my bucket list. How do we contact u again?