6 Tips on How To Achieve Your Dream Life & Stop People Pleasing... from a Chronic People Pleaser ❤️

Over the last few years I have been on a journey to try and follow my passions and break free of the guilt I felt doing so because of my people pleaser tendencies. I see so many of us holding back and doubting ourselves when pursuing self care and potentially our dreams and know exactly how exhausting it can feel! In this video I am sharing 6 things that have really helped me as I navigate this journey to living the best life possible - after all you can't pour from an empty cup! ❤️
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[@damienabbott9805]

If ever you need a confidence booster, nobody can inspire you more than Lucy!!!

[@lucylismore]

Aww thank you!!

[@chockid]

Very wise words indeed. 1. Self-care is not selfish. 2. Be careful whose advice you buy (but be patient with those who supply it). 3. Play out the narrative. Ask yourself "And then what?" 4. Trying scary things. 5. You are not who you think you are. 6. JFDI - just freaking do it.

[@lucylismore]

Thank you!🙌

[@Azylys-]

I would add one that helped me a lot : change the inner narrative and treat yourself like someone you love. Talk to yourself like you talk to your best friend, cheering them up, supporting their goals and comforting them when they need it. Takes time but it's so worth it.

[@Elisabethska]

This had so much truth! Think as Pippi Longstocking: "I have never done this before, so I am absolutely sure I can do it" I started hiking and camping outdoors in my mid 30s. Starting off with "only gonna camp in the summer" onto spending a week on skis in the mountains with a pulka and tent - and several weekends in the same fashion with temperatures down to -25/-30 C. And now in my early 40s - as a "failed student" soon midways into my bachelor's degree combined with full time work - and still getting pretty good results. Also gone from "I hate running" to "I LOVE running" and same with weight lifting also. Now you are my inspiration to try to manage a busy life with some more home workouts and getting back into a more active life allthough my shcedule has gotten way more busier than before and finding time to move or exercise is soo hard. Really inspired by your channel, and absolutely sure I can do this! 💪

[@kayv5840]

Completely agree. It’s challenging because my husband & I do not follow social norms when it comes to work. We spend a lot of time around each other because we back each other the most. Family, friends, people around us, etc. do not understand. ___ I FINALLY got to the “just freaking do it” stage. Yesterday. I reached out to potential clients to freelance. 🙏 Imposter syndrome is a horrible lair.

[@juliazimmermann7310]

One of the most important and sympathetic videos I've ever seen. Thanks so much for sharing!

[@JP-ve7or]

It's interesting to me that you've felt bad about being different and adventurous. I actually admire you for moving around and taking on challenges, especially so young! I stayed close to home for probably too long. I have no real regrets as things are great now--but I do sometimes want to do things I maybe missed out on.

[@denissefigueroa5163]

I was so used to get negative responses to my goals that I forgot to listen to the good ones. Now I’m doing what I want little by little ❤

[@lucylismore]

I LOVE THIS! ❣ Well done! xx

[@jemmacollins1855]

I've been trying to have this mentality recently. I went abseiling the other week despite my fear of heights and next weekend I'm attempting a 58km hike along the Jurrasic coast. Just keep asking myself 'why not?' when a new challenge comes up 😊

[@lucylismore]

Incredible, you are inspiring!! Good luck with your run, you will smash it! xx

[@civil109407]

I love your inspirational videos. Today I tried a bar muscle up I was always been afraid because in our gym the bar is too high and I’m short 😅 but today I just f%#*ing did. And it felt so good!! You’re such a ray of sunshine. Love you!! ❤❤

[@lucylismore]

Oh my gosh! I am so proud of you well done!!! Thank you ♥♥♥♥♥

[@colleenrose714]

JFDI is just the advice I needed to hear--thank you! I have heard the similar "fake it til you make it" phrase sooooo many times, and I honestly HATE the "fake it" one. It feels so invalidating of whatever I'm going through, and also has a not-subtle message of "don't let people know you're struggling". JFDI doesn't have that same flavor of invalidation and pretend-you're-fine-ness to me.

[@MelReza]

I’m on my own path to building the live that I want because of an injury; so I’m reading as much as I can about it, and the most surprising thing I learned was that in the end, self discipline it’s just really self love. Thanks for your content Lucy ❤ I’ll have my eyes open for friends like you 😂.

[@jamieashton7285]

Awesome love it 😊

[@sarahh8744]

Just spoke from my bottom of my heart. ❤ if your own path is different as it "supposed" to be seen as "normal", there will be challenges ahead of you. But those will lead to even a greater unique path. ❤ thanks so much for this amazing content/video. ❤ love the way how you explain and pour your heart into this. ❤😊

[@rebeccaw954]

yess!! this came right when I needed it, thank you :) x

[@lucylismore]

❤️❤️❤️ yay that makes me so happy! You got this 💪🏻🫶🏻

[@Johnworkout]

That quote is so true and purity. Thanks for this video and enjoy happy life😇

[@lucylismore]

🥲 thank you so much!! xx

[@katyriched9568]

You are defintly the best motivating youtuber that does exist iv never found someone as good as you When you talk i feel like your words go through me 😂

[@grimnirnacht]

I love this message. I'm going to attempt to dye a doll. I'm into the expensive ball jointed dolls, so its super intimidating to try and change a skin color. I've been putting it off for ages with the excuse of there is work to be done first and then there is never time to indulge in a hobby

[@lucylismore]

Thanks for sharing!! That sounds like a great challenge, let us know how it goes... you've got this! xxx

[@marionayupi5036]

this actually might be one of the best videos that you've recently put out! it got me wondering why you still haven't got your own podcast ^^

[@lucylismore]

arghhhh thank you that means a lot! I keep playing with the idea of a podcast 😬😬😬 x

[@jessWilly365]

You are always an inspiration

[@nataliatamayo8397]

Video on replay when struggling with all of these points. Thank you Lucy Doing more solo hiking trips!

[@Nekteck]

This is very helpful. Always plan how to live longer by having a healthy lifestyle.

[@roxanne3018]

Yay an update!! I've missed you 💖💖

[@lucylismore]

♥♥♥♥♥♥

[@Margoowtjuh]

Thank you for this! I went on a job interview today 😊

[@Elviriela]

This really resonated with me! ❤️ Good luck on both our journeys! 🤗

[@billwalton90]

Thank you for this incredible video

[@lucylismore]

♥♥♥ thank you Bill!

[@varun.v.10]

Thanks Lucy! This is very encouraging!

[@Marie_Mcleod]

So motivational, thank you❤❤❤

[@lucylismore]

♥♥♥

[@nicolettablankley262]

Love this! Life really is too short. Balance is key along with the old fashioned saying, "Everything in moderation." I'd love to hear your thoughts on the intuative eating books you've been reading lately in another video? ❤

[@beerowan5086]

I love this… needed this.. appreciate this! ❤

[@theoisaac9948]

Thank you! 👍👍

[@theoisaac9948]

Welcome

[@ethan-scott]

Needed this today! Great message.

[@lucylismore]

So happy it came at the right time! xx

[@saracas93]

Such an important topic! I think I'm only beginning to learn this now as I turn 30. Better late than never lol

[@aashakaur1517]

Hi Lucy, hope you’re well. I absolutely love watching your videos ❤. I felt the same for a really long time about not living a conventional life. But I would rather live a happy life that is true and authentic to me 😊. Also, I live in the same city. So let me know if you would ever like to meet up for a coffee and a chat 🙂 xx

[@Shaikah420]

I love the watch you’re wearing ? Can you please tell the name of the brand..

[@pamd1659]

Loved this. Thank you 😊

[@kristijan8518]

What if you don't have any dreams or goals for yourself? If there's nothing you want to do or care about?

[@tschoklait]

Same 🤔

[@lucylismore]

If you are content/happy that is all that matters 🌸🌸🌸mx

[@kristijan8518]

@@lucylismore what if you aren't? I guess the default solution would be to change, but what exactly to change?

[@MelReza]

Hi, perhaps you can read about the practice of “Ikigai”. It’s a japanese way of finding your purpose, self-knowledge basically.

[@Tajisija]

Щодо порівняння виникнення раку привикористанні захисту одягом і захисту SPF. Думаю, тут може бути питання, як люди себе поводять після "нанесення" сонцезахисту? Я коли була молодша, думала, що можна нанести крем і жаритись а обід годинами на сонці. Як я розумію, це питання не досліджувалося.

[@crystalmoonstar351]

Hello 👋 🫂 hun I know how you feeling as I am the same about a yh person as its so not easy at times and thanks u so much for this 💗 💖 💓 💕 ❤ 💛 🎉and lots of love xoxo to u hun x

[@lucylismore]

Glad you felt you could relate! lots of love to you too! xxx

[@chen6109]

Thank you Lucy ✨ i am super inspired 🤸🪂 we are a lot alike and watching this one really helped 🙏

[@lucylismore]

Yay, I am so happy it's helped in some way. I'm right here with you! xx