6 Ways a Narcissist Abuses You Without Ever Touching You

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Danish Bashir

Danish Bashir

Күн бұрын

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@narcabusecoach
@narcabusecoach 7 ай бұрын
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@stephbowler3141
@stephbowler3141 7 ай бұрын
That's exactly why narcissistic abuse is so damaging! It messes with who you are as a person and makes you feel like you're nothing. Most people who haven't experienced this personally have no clue the trauma that can be left behind but it's very real.
@annjohnson8437
@annjohnson8437 7 ай бұрын
So true!
@tabithab33
@tabithab33 7 ай бұрын
💜🙏💜😮‍💨🗣️
@Rockstar_london
@Rockstar_london 7 ай бұрын
💯
@TheRaspberry82
@TheRaspberry82 6 ай бұрын
I am a parent - and I have seen this done to my Adult child…..😢😢
@bintjesvideokanaal
@bintjesvideokanaal 6 ай бұрын
So true. They play with your sense of reality and ultimately self esteem. But don’t blame yourself. At first you don’t notice and before you know you get caught, doubting yourself… Someone who has never experienced it can not imagine what and how strong it is. Till you get the insight… Choose for beauty, break free, develop yourself, bloom. If your still in it: Ask yourself this. “Do I need this?” If not (and hopefully not, love and respect yourself) GO !
@mitragehlot
@mitragehlot 7 ай бұрын
Big hug to all the survivors❤ Our comeback is stronger than ever before💪🏻🦋💖
@skinnyway
@skinnyway 6 ай бұрын
as I watch my stalker drive by repeatedly today... I feel something on the horizon.
@movingsaudade6028
@movingsaudade6028 6 ай бұрын
I want to be able to stop beating myself up for allowing a narcissist in my life and letting all this happen to me.😢
@tammyfitzgerald5336
@tammyfitzgerald5336 6 ай бұрын
♌️💪💪💪💕💕🧨🧨♌️♌️😎😎
@Permenantlyexhaustedghost115
@Permenantlyexhaustedghost115 6 ай бұрын
They’ll even call you dramatic when you react to their verbal bs and act like they didn’t do anything wrong.
@vanessaking5123
@vanessaking5123 5 ай бұрын
So true!!!
@saraswathyhanumankar2509
@saraswathyhanumankar2509 6 ай бұрын
Never praise but extremely quick to criticize.
@ΜΑΡΙΑΠΑΠΑΔΟΠΟΥΛΟΥ-π7ω
@ΜΑΡΙΑΠΑΠΑΔΟΠΟΥΛΟΥ-π7ω 6 ай бұрын
Yes, true. He never harmed me physically.. Never raised his voice , never yelled at me. But it was hell, paranoia, abuse.
@reneehouser2925
@reneehouser2925 6 ай бұрын
So many things i wish i knew decades ago. If youre under 40- pay attention, heal, run! My life is lived, the damage is done. I probably dont have 10 good years left but theyre full of grief and loss at the hands of cruel people. The destruction of every relationship you have will come after they sufficiently destroy you. Get away before its too late. It never gets better, they never get better.
@Jesuslovesme32-m6l
@Jesuslovesme32-m6l 7 ай бұрын
Danish is brilliant, I spent 18 years with my ex husband, all of my 20s and into my 30s had absolutely NOBODY who could begin to understand, what lonely life. Thank God for a life of freedom. God bless you Danish you have been an incredible blessing to me for about a year now.
@aga9618
@aga9618 7 ай бұрын
👍
@jacquelinemarie1078
@jacquelinemarie1078 7 ай бұрын
Ditto!!!
@joseenoel8093
@joseenoel8093 6 ай бұрын
No kidding without freedom life is very draining, I speak my mind, my narc's learning to accept my intelligence, there's worse things in life, unbelivable they'd rather you dumb, makes no sense!
@EstherShawa-ye1gw
@EstherShawa-ye1gw 6 ай бұрын
He has opened my eyes
@cocogomez2278
@cocogomez2278 7 ай бұрын
Yes, they break from the inside out. 😢
@clairedavis8564
@clairedavis8564 7 ай бұрын
I now COMPLETELY understand why my mother was against my siblings and I dating until we formed a full understanding of who we were. We hated her for this then. How foolish were we! She knew the monsters out there.
@joseenoel8093
@joseenoel8093 6 ай бұрын
Great you listened! My daughter wanted her boyfriend to sleep over, no way but his parents allowed her to... After dating 6 yrs he refused to move in with her, she's a way better catch now, I'm glad I said no even though she had a fit, she's 27 now and on a better course!
@MSSHARIII
@MSSHARIII 6 ай бұрын
What a wonderful mother you have!💖
@susansimon4255
@susansimon4255 6 ай бұрын
Great post! Very true was just thinking about how they can never compliment you.
@susansimon4255
@susansimon4255 6 ай бұрын
When I asked him why aren't you making eye contact when I was telling him something,he would say I can do two things at a time
@clairedavis8564
@clairedavis8564 6 ай бұрын
@@MSSHARIII . Thanks 🙏🏼. She was not popular for her parenting style AT ALL. Many people judged her and claimed she was abusive and too restrictive. But, only she knew how immature we were. So, she pressed on.
@carparthero
@carparthero 7 ай бұрын
imo, the absolutely most cruel thing about the narcissist experience, is that narcissist abuse entails 4 layers: a) the abuse itself b) the denial, blame-gaming and gaslighting by the narcissist c) enablers, be it family, friends, co-workers who turn a blind eye/trivialize your lived experiences. d) the accompanying mental and physical ailments that happen during and after the narcissist experience. cheers from southern ontario, canada 🍁
@tabithab33
@tabithab33 7 ай бұрын
Spot on and At the least! 💜😥🗣️
@carparthero
@carparthero 7 ай бұрын
​@Ark-ys2up enablers allow narcissists to escalate to their fake place of superiority. -cheers, steven
@carparthero
@carparthero 7 ай бұрын
​@tabithab33 thanks for your kind words. -cheers, steven
@writeousone8749
@writeousone8749 7 ай бұрын
Top job!
@aga9618
@aga9618 7 ай бұрын
😓
@irenehamilton2981
@irenehamilton2981 6 ай бұрын
They abuse you in small sneaky ways just sucks😢
@jenniferirwin82
@jenniferirwin82 6 ай бұрын
Exactly!!!
@elizabethbowie9753
@elizabethbowie9753 6 ай бұрын
My dad who raised me was a narc. My ex-husband was a narc. After the divorce, I only dated 2 or 3 guys. By the time I was 30, I wrote this poem. It takes a good break up, to really get a Wake up, & Realize the reality of men They're all a bunch of jerks, with the most sincerest quirks. I hope I don't fall for this again.... Then I wrote... They don't love you, they just sex you, They're all a bunch of pigs.... I wrote this poem 40 yrs ago, before narcissism was defined. Then I went to true believer, Christian churches & dated 2 "Christian," guys, at different times, ... Same thing!!🤷🤷🤷. By then, I saw the red flags... & Didn't fall for their garbage. I saw the red flags, bcz I have discernment. Today, I'll be 70 in a few weeks. I haven't dated in 30+ yrs., & I don't miss it. The Lord is the Father of the fatherless, & Husband of the husbandless. He provides for me, physically and emotionally, & financially!! 🌟💗🌟💗🌟💗
@DennisKien
@DennisKien 5 ай бұрын
The Lord is a male. Kaboom! I can appreciate your opinion but that was over the top anti male sexist. Women can be the SAME WAY.
@seameology
@seameology 7 ай бұрын
The very FIRST sign was, taking credit for something I did. Yeah. I should have paid attention to that red flag.
@joseenoel8093
@joseenoel8093 6 ай бұрын
Funny aye and you're too stunned to do much, it's bewildering, you have to wonder how he thought he'd ever get away with that, old pro, done it so often in the past no dought!
@lorenebaxter-e8c
@lorenebaxter-e8c 6 ай бұрын
My ex did the same. I would say something random to him and by the end of his reply he would say...well I thought of that first. These people make your eyeballs spin!😵‍💫😵‍💫😵‍💫
@aldelgado9343
@aldelgado9343 6 ай бұрын
Im a very empathic person i dont know how to defend myself sometimes from these narcisist people, but ive become more self aware of their manipulation tactics.
@CristinaChis-f6f
@CristinaChis-f6f 6 ай бұрын
I hate them! I started to have a good relationship with my parents, after I left my ex malignant narcissist!!! They are not worth talking about. Praise the Lord! ❤ May God bless you and your loved ones 😊
@charlie-girl72
@charlie-girl72 6 ай бұрын
I know y9ure right, but we must make others aware, bless you ❤
@CristinaChis-f6f
@CristinaChis-f6f 6 ай бұрын
@@charlie-girl72 thank you and I agree with you 🤗
@francinelafrance2114
@francinelafrance2114 6 ай бұрын
You're so right. No matter what you say or do, they always know better and everything about anything. Do as i say all the time.
@TheWayofFairness
@TheWayofFairness 7 ай бұрын
I am glad I have a greater power that stops narcissist from harming me. They won’t know what hit them
@joseenoel8093
@joseenoel8093 6 ай бұрын
Sounds wonderbar, they'll still get hit but not you, they can miserable without you it's what they do best, yrs of practice! 😊
@seekerofgrace2058
@seekerofgrace2058 6 ай бұрын
@TheWayOfFairness; What is it?
@dakoderii4221
@dakoderii4221 6 ай бұрын
They say compliments about you to make their insults believable. Drop a compliment, divert all credit to themselves, unload a hail of insults. Fake cry😢. Say they love you SOOOO much but you are SOOOO difficult to get along with and SOOOO ungrateful for all they've done for you. Works every time! 🥴
@SardonischerDean
@SardonischerDean 6 ай бұрын
So true
@joseenoel8093
@joseenoel8093 6 ай бұрын
They're pros, we're aware, stay away and watch them crumble!
@summersled5635
@summersled5635 6 ай бұрын
This was very helpful and confirms my experience that psychological abuse can have a devastating effect on our psyche. I have also experienced attempts to create situations where the narcissist seeks to "accidentally" harm his target where vehicles are used as a weapon. I also suffered a horrific trauma when the perpetrator invited me on a hike and after I asked him for his hand, while I was ascending the face of a cliff, he dropped by hand just before I reached the top of the cliff. I braced the fall by grabbing the root of a tree. He never rushed to grab me, apologize, or express concern about how I was after the incident. Two days later, he denied the incident ever happened and began circulating rumours that he was concerned about my mental health as I was "making up stories" about something that never happened on a hike to the waterfalls. Another major gaslighting incident in my life that has been deeply traumatizing.
@seekerofgrace2058
@seekerofgrace2058 6 ай бұрын
They are evil. No one believes it, unless they live thru it, thank God you are OK 👍
@EvaCFricke
@EvaCFricke 6 ай бұрын
My spouse never complimented me. I used to tell myself in front of him that i am beautiful and he would just give small smile. Now i understand that since he wasnt complimenting me, i was complimenting myself.
@kimberlylamantia7794
@kimberlylamantia7794 7 ай бұрын
My narcissist has put his hands on me many times, I've called the cops, and every time the cops blamed ME! Like I broke my own nose and eye socket....
@tabithab33
@tabithab33 7 ай бұрын
I’m so sorry 😣 Many of us have unfortunately experienced this and it hurts so much… debilitating 💜🙏💜🫂
@kimberlylamantia7794
@kimberlylamantia7794 7 ай бұрын
@Ark-ys2up Thank you!
@SherryWilson-dk7bo
@SherryWilson-dk7bo 7 ай бұрын
So sorry, prayers for protection for you. Stay safe 🙏 ❤
@kimberlylamantia7794
@kimberlylamantia7794 7 ай бұрын
@@SherryWilson-dk7bo Thank you! I belive in the power of prayer. I pray for your protection as well 😊
@jacquelinemarie1078
@jacquelinemarie1078 7 ай бұрын
When I called the police, they were budding up to my ex. because they went to school together. He was choking me and his sister came in and saved me. She called the police and they didn't give a crap about me, it was old home week.
@alternat8771
@alternat8771 6 ай бұрын
I healed from my narcissist father and multiple narcissist partners. I know what to look for and avoid. Now I've had an NPD person in a position of power at work become insecure about me and abuse me with the help of his minions 🙄 At least I know exactly what I'm dealing with and why, so the recovery shall be faster. Sending love and healing to everyone going through recovery at the moment ❤
@damnblam3760
@damnblam3760 7 ай бұрын
She said im a fraud introvert because im not always quiet around her and should learn to be a real introvert and only reply... i was just comfortable around her and she made me hate myself for it 😞 Then whenever i would fall into that closed off self of mine? She would ask "why aren't you talking??" "You're so hard to read" "You're not good at initiating" and shame for me for every trait in these ways! She compares me to her Ex's a lot, especially the last one who left her, "he was calm and quiet" yet she admitted they would also fight a lot... She "never insulted anyone before me" yet that ex called her toxic... She would ask me the deepest and probe like questions and get answer after answer from me and then I would get nothing back... i "couldn't be trusted with her answers" It felt violating opening up so much and then being shut down when I asked about her. She would praise strangers online for the things that they say which I already said! It was shrugged off when I brought it up.
@jacquelinemarie1078
@jacquelinemarie1078 6 ай бұрын
Danish, wow, you hit on their actions exactly!!! You are such a good soul, and you went through so much emotional pain growing up. If you were my child, I would be so proud of you - - - I am now and have never met you.
@EvaCFricke
@EvaCFricke 6 ай бұрын
Yes, Danish has done great with his life in spite of his abusive upbringing.
@f.frederickskitty2910
@f.frederickskitty2910 6 ай бұрын
My husband always says the same thing no matter what when asked if he liked something (i.e., gifts, food I've cooked, etc.): "It's okay".
@charlie-girl72
@charlie-girl72 6 ай бұрын
Horrible, their repeating talks is the first thing I thought' what is this sick thing am I nuts or?' These repeating patterns are so annoying and childish, you start to doubt yourself. Than realize you aren't nuts but see it's Hom or her. Still stuck. I found it like hamsters running in their cage totally confused ' robitc toy or something. Very inhumane scary as hell, bless you ❤
@bagoodhuman143
@bagoodhuman143 6 ай бұрын
Just don’t wait for their approval they r not worth giving your approval
@ActiveSneakers
@ActiveSneakers 6 ай бұрын
The difficult people lost their power when I finally realized that they thought I was seeking their approval. My actions, thoughts, and words shifted to being accountable for myself because no one else will do it for me. I know that the narcissists are not normal.
@rachelhayhurst-mason7846
@rachelhayhurst-mason7846 6 ай бұрын
One outstanding memory I have: I had given birth to our first son only one month beforehand and was pushing him in his pram. We were at a clothing shop. My ex held up a pair of hotpants type shorts in front of a young, perfect looking lady and her partner, while facing me. He loudly exclaimed "See, these are the type of clothes I find sexy, but you can't wear them coz you're too fat". I was 172 pounds at 5'7". Wished I could have been swallowed up by the floor in that moment. One more proof I would never be loved for who I was.
@atianazim3968
@atianazim3968 7 ай бұрын
Yes true he did first thing with my cooking. I spoiled 20years in kitchen to get his approval. Now I know him, I started to believe in myself alhamdulilla .
@joseenoel8093
@joseenoel8093 6 ай бұрын
I haven't cooked for mine in over a decade, even a salad was negatively commented upon, if I cleaned I got do you have to do that now? No no I don't, I don't have to do it at all! (I do though, not me the pig and doesn't he play clean freak😂!)
@stingray0033
@stingray0033 6 ай бұрын
#1 right out of the gate is my mother. She always minimized what i did. and praised others who were doing the same or less.
@Isabela2024-yr
@Isabela2024-yr 6 ай бұрын
He can not humiliate me, especially in public. Otherwise, I will return it to him in the same manner.
@martafrancis2316
@martafrancis2316 6 ай бұрын
Sir, you are such a genius in understanding what a narcissist does. What you describe here, is exactly how I have been treated for almost 13 years of marriage, to the degree that many times he told me to put my diplomas in the toilet as there is no use of them. Anything I cook, he will critisize, i sing, others admire the God- given voice , I play on the piano, he and his mother would say I needed to practice more even though I used to play in a church with more than 160 proplr. He has destroyed me so badly, that I feel no strength to leave him and go. He haa been like an envious monster to me whose only goal of marrying me was to make me suffer, cut ftom my mother until she passed away and family, make me feel like rubbish, and now he is working on estramging my kids from me. Thsnk you so much for your videos as gor 13 years of suffering I was trying to figure out why my life was turned upside down after being so loved snd respected by many people, it came out I was rubbish who can't do anything. 😢😢😢
@sonjabrady1032
@sonjabrady1032 7 ай бұрын
On point oh yes right on
@atianazim3968
@atianazim3968 7 ай бұрын
No.3 he stares at my forhead
@joseenoel8093
@joseenoel8093 6 ай бұрын
It's a way of looking at you without having to actually do so! It's to fool you into thinking he is!
@genesisway01
@genesisway01 6 ай бұрын
Nac are a nobody when they are alone . So gather people & they will behave .
@michaeleckert5877
@michaeleckert5877 6 ай бұрын
This is a great presentation. They ,the narcissist, will go to extreme measures to remain in control.I am impressed by your experience 😊😊
@Julie-e1m
@Julie-e1m 7 ай бұрын
Exactly exactly exactly wow
@renukadevishankar7422
@renukadevishankar7422 4 ай бұрын
My virtual hugs for all dear survivors.. We are all a team. Nevet lose hope. Appreciate and love yourself more for where u have been now. Stay strong and blessed. Never feel alone. Our energy s are same and connected😊
@thinkingclearly24
@thinkingclearly24 6 ай бұрын
Danish, you know my life. Thank you so much for holding narcissists responsible for what they do.
@juliacastilloart
@juliacastilloart 6 ай бұрын
Wow 😮 The monster I've lived with for years did that to me. I am an interior designer, I was doing very well at my job and I was happy, until this monster started to devalue me. I watched a television program about interior design and he sat down to watch it, but it wasn't because he liked it, but to compare my work with that of the program. Some of his words were: you think you can do that, I think not, you don't have the talent to do something like that. He did that with all my projects for years and made me doubt my ability to do my job. and suddenly I started to lose interest in what I liked and quit my job. At that time I didn't know anything about narcissism, but now I do. Thank you for your videos, they are very helpful.
@bagoodhuman143
@bagoodhuman143 6 ай бұрын
We all tend to get the acknowledgment from our partners which is y we get this abuse . I too was belittled more when Infact I was achieving more in profession Pls restart your profession and you r your own approver praiser guide
@tabithab33
@tabithab33 7 ай бұрын
Thankyou for sharing this, Danish 💜😮‍💨😮‍💨🗣️ We wish others would understand this especially care to know. 😥Truly the most important and difficult part and why it takes so long to recognize and recover from.🙏
@charinisrilanka5
@charinisrilanka5 6 ай бұрын
i have felt this from many of university colleagues and own family members
@lovefaith1794
@lovefaith1794 6 ай бұрын
My mother & 30 yr ex have done a complete lifetime of this
@incognito595
@incognito595 6 ай бұрын
All they do is Destroy.
@romanastrasheim5226
@romanastrasheim5226 7 ай бұрын
So so true!!! I have seen this!!
@karenkennedy6331
@karenkennedy6331 6 ай бұрын
Played the piano and enjoyed it very much, and my narc husband told me “ it was not very good” He is a good musician but never plays the piano.
@JasmineDaisy111
@JasmineDaisy111 6 ай бұрын
They hack a persons entire life.
@leestorms2665
@leestorms2665 6 ай бұрын
#6…the Minions!!!! Yes they tag team!
@mamashikua8104
@mamashikua8104 6 ай бұрын
Nothing drains self esteem more than being humiliated in public.Narcs are good in this.
@maryfowler7507
@maryfowler7507 6 ай бұрын
That explains everything I always wondered what and why it all felt wrong but I couldn’t put my finger straight on it . I thought I was going overthinking seeings and hearing things. But no it wasn’t a mistake. He was really abusing me on purpose twenty four seven. I’ve been out of the relationship three months now I have been healing tremendously. Thank you 🙏🏼 danish for your channel.
@bagoodhuman143
@bagoodhuman143 6 ай бұрын
Perfectly said . I lived 18 yrs of marriage with the Narc who never praised for what ever I contributed .. I work , raising two sons and take care of all home chores by myself as daughter in-law wife and mother and he never acknowledged me Infact he always put ms me down and belittled all the time.. which his family also encouraged. I came out of this worst relationship I believe Indian culture is a brooding hub for Narcissists in the name of family system .
@Katiefree
@Katiefree 6 ай бұрын
When he use to do this i would play narc abuse videos out loud normally in the car detailing what he was doing he HATED IT!!! i did in the end have to stop as was becoming to dangerous so wouldn't advise anyone do the same thing! he use to rage out of control he nearly crashed the car like as on numerous occasions as he couldnt control the rage after sustaining such a narcissistic injury truth hurts
@sweepapawahpaxtan2274
@sweepapawahpaxtan2274 6 ай бұрын
they may not cause direct violence on their victims but order others to do it and later pretend nothing has happened
@cosmicsweeper709
@cosmicsweeper709 6 ай бұрын
This nails it Danish - thank you for your commitment, eloquence and clarity 🏆
@Tyndalic
@Tyndalic 6 ай бұрын
I was raised by a narcissistic mother. My brother would do something similar to me and he would get all the praise. I married and divorced a narcissist as well as got with a violent narcissist afterwards. I came home excited for getting a raise. I was told so what! Then I was made fun of for a job that “anybody “ could do. I learned to keep my happiness to myself and only talk about what he wants until I was able to get out of dodge! We went on dates and the entire time he was on the phone. He told me that I was uninteresting when I complained about it. When I was given a gift it was usually something I wasn’t interested in. I had a jewelry business and he gave me plastic earrings. He got me a jacket and said I knew you liked skulls. I don’t. I like roses 🌹 and feminine things.
@massimodanzelmo4607
@massimodanzelmo4607 Ай бұрын
My narc son is violent, kicked my leg with iron tipped work shoes, went to hospital for check up a start up of cancer inside the leg, doc says let's hope it diminishes otherwise we have to operate the leg, luckily the cancer slowed down and went away after a couple of years, I'm still. thinking about it, after this episode he went away and returned after 6 years, it's still the same behaviour luckily for me he has decided to leave , in the meantime I'm strugling badly day after day watching out. For future attacks against me and waitng for that day to. Arrive as quickly as possible
@Liz-Grace
@Liz-Grace 6 ай бұрын
Exactly what they do!
@miawthmeow
@miawthmeow 6 ай бұрын
Danish, thank God I found your channel. Everything about my MIL is finally make sense now. The damage for all her psychological abuse is no joke. We rarely meet, but it's always feel like walking on eggshells around her, and she often treated me like I'm her rival, if not comparing myself with her daughters. Thankfully my husband's always on my side.
@streaming5332
@streaming5332 6 ай бұрын
My mother made fun of my father and of myself. Slhe didn't like people who were smarter than her. My father avoided her, he was hardly ever home. But she never thought for a moment the reason for his absence was her behaviour.
@wenniferjay903
@wenniferjay903 6 ай бұрын
Absolutely true
@NorinneWong
@NorinneWong 2 ай бұрын
Narcisstic Emotional Abuse: 1.Never acknowledge you (only put downs) 2.Abuse by proxy (shaming) 3.Devaluation personalize compare you negatively 4.Talk at you not with you dismissive of what you have to say 5.Accept your gifts half heartedly, nothing is good enough 6.Purposely make group fun of you (target) never loves
@movingsaudade6028
@movingsaudade6028 6 ай бұрын
Woow Danish sometimes I think you were the fly on my walls.You seem to know everything I have experienced,the complimenting random people out of nowhere without complimenting me,,the putting down and devaluing a particular person who is in my field of work,The side ways comment telling me there's a reason people go to school to study for what I do as a hobby(seriously guys if I like singing to unwind and during my free time must I really go to music school just because there's people literally going to school to study music?).To making nasty comments at the gifts I bought for them(this one really stung) and telling me I can't take jokes and I'm too sensitive.
@charlie-girl72
@charlie-girl72 6 ай бұрын
Yes and no , he complemented me on my cooking after a nasty fight so i kept cooking! This to me is the nice guy narc! daring you a while before but still want to make effort on the household skills! Its truly ridiculous! So many kinds of narcs though. Poker face when others arrive into your home. Playing the good waiter at home so others say' oh he is so gentle to us vistitors ' your man is so helpful.. its so imsulting
@skinnyway
@skinnyway 6 ай бұрын
even when they do leave bruises the 'good ole boys club' wont do anything.
@incognito595
@incognito595 6 ай бұрын
We love you Danish. We can't thank you enough for your help. Truly. It's Really Bad for me. Police, Protective Services, The Courts, etc. etc. Thank you for helping me Survive. I'm still not sure I will...
@Queen1111sunshine
@Queen1111sunshine 6 ай бұрын
My mother 100%
@gsuranjana7146
@gsuranjana7146 6 ай бұрын
So much similarity with my experience 😮
@francesmartel7948
@francesmartel7948 6 ай бұрын
Danish, you are so knowledgeable about narcissists-you are so right about the stuff they do.
@TheRaspberry82
@TheRaspberry82 6 ай бұрын
Excellent !!!!!
@thinkingclearly24
@thinkingclearly24 6 ай бұрын
When I earned my M.S. degree, my father said, "Well, my counselor has 2 master degrees." I thought, good for her, with you as a client, she will need them both.
@andreakeener6378
@andreakeener6378 6 ай бұрын
2,3,4,& 5 all happened yes. But 6 was more a very shocking public humiliation of me in front of restaurant staff all women. I knew he said it for that purpose. And all the women present heard it. He denied it of course!
@Paula-mj4xh
@Paula-mj4xh 6 ай бұрын
No 6 narc is a team sports. Def in my family.
@brainnurse5078
@brainnurse5078 6 ай бұрын
My dad never was happy about my academic success. He acts so jealous when I show him my transcript.
@karolinawalter
@karolinawalter 7 ай бұрын
No wonder why I don't chase I replace
@prophet1782
@prophet1782 6 ай бұрын
All true. I exp. It all in my narc family.
@amitad1390
@amitad1390 6 ай бұрын
Thanks, nice, true, deep knowledge of evil human behaviour that how they ruin other innocent person to down them emotionally, mentally n only after that they feel satisfied n superior in their own self.
@theperfectanomaly.
@theperfectanomaly. 6 ай бұрын
Remember you can't lose what was never there.
@NunYa-BizNess4960
@NunYa-BizNess4960 6 ай бұрын
My husband tells people that he is the only one that ever got up with our children in the night when they were sick or had nightmares. He also says that he went to all the teacher meetings and after school events. According to Him he was some sort of Super Dad. This is SO far from the truth it is funny/sad.
@Lina_1517
@Lina_1517 6 ай бұрын
Actually, in the first scenario, I always pick up on the fact that their praise of the other person is insincere and done to spite me, and so I play dumb and praise them along with them 😂
@navneetakumar1814
@navneetakumar1814 6 ай бұрын
Danish you are really brilliant
@KimmyLu-k9u
@KimmyLu-k9u 6 ай бұрын
I am going through this right now.😢
@primitivedogs4638
@primitivedogs4638 6 ай бұрын
The golden child role may change due to years... My mother used to brag about me and my family... My divorse degraded me. My sister married when 48 and got a new golden child role.
@matikramer9648
@matikramer9648 6 ай бұрын
Thank you Danish
@dakoderii4221
@dakoderii4221 6 ай бұрын
My dad wouldn't halfheartedly accept a gift, he would begrudgingly accept it. Now thank him for the gift you gave him or REEEEEEEEEEEEE! The raging begins again.
@Child_of_God320
@Child_of_God320 6 ай бұрын
I financially cannot afford the therapy I need desperately 😪 Getting a little therapy through the state I'm in now.
@leahjoli2327
@leahjoli2327 3 ай бұрын
He threatened, hed bring up outcomes of sinister movies like the movie Phyco, Channeling with Angelina Joli, bringing up others in his life that have a criminal background and some serious crimes. Warning not to piss him off when I'd question him or something he said prior and contradicted it. He'd say, " Everything goes his way, and he is a talented liar,"gifted liar" He also believed God gave him the assignment to punish for sin.
@PatBlack-sj7tg
@PatBlack-sj7tg 6 ай бұрын
I was always told I was a good cook by other people..yet every meal I made for my ex was criticised
@Katiefree
@Katiefree 6 ай бұрын
Ex use to yawn when i spoke to him all the time yet couldn't take the same treatment in return narcs are the biggest cowards.
@LightBrownSugar
@LightBrownSugar 6 ай бұрын
For instance, my spouse would say "that's pretty good" instead of giving me a full compliment. 7:20
@emanuelmakonnen72
@emanuelmakonnen72 7 ай бұрын
Believe me, I’m not thinking about these folks.
@HeyKikihere
@HeyKikihere 6 ай бұрын
I'm suffering from my narrcisstic roomates and I'm the victim since 7 months I've been realised that I become their prey to abuse amd when i try to left the house then they manipulated me and even I'm not comfortable with living them i had to stay nd then in present they've cross the limit they try to involve me in some matter were i didn't even do that , his friend threatened me that I've talking to a girl in college which i never did try to talk to any girl , the girls who i talked they all are my friends, i deep down some how figure out that they got into these by their pre planned work and now i don't want to stay in any further long i have enough of these I don't have enough confidence to fight back but i had to do it for myself I'm leaving my room , i didn't manage to explain the whole thing but I've mange to explained it for you to understand . I want your pov in these I'm i doing the right thing and how i can handling the situation where am in ? Please comment
@Sally237-s4w
@Sally237-s4w 6 ай бұрын
The worst thing ,is they can not stand to take blame ..no matter what it is they’ve done,if they think ur on to them..they go..shall I go,and walk off like sulky child will not speaks for days like kids ..they literally are crazy ,u have better luck reasoning with a pit bull ,who’s not eaten for a week ,trust mine was that bad crazy freaks .
@nagabharathielankula1019
@nagabharathielankula1019 5 ай бұрын
Thank you so much
@zainabahsan6353
@zainabahsan6353 6 ай бұрын
Thanks
@emanuelmakonnen72
@emanuelmakonnen72 7 ай бұрын
I’m not thinking about them like that though…
@ic2241
@ic2241 6 ай бұрын
So true...
@francesbernard2445
@francesbernard2445 6 ай бұрын
A social climber narcissist is exhausting to end up in any kind of relationship with. For example some post secondary students end up in an internship like that when becoming a physician. I met a hispanic mother of a student once who confided in us there about how much her son was going through soon after Mr. Trump got elected. He succeeded anyway. Not everyone has an adequate support system right away to reach their goals.
@christieezekwem5889
@christieezekwem5889 6 ай бұрын
Very good message
@Child_of_God320
@Child_of_God320 6 ай бұрын
X was physically abusive and I thought X was getting better. But the list of abuse hit little at a time. Evil 😈
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