They are extremely jealous & their behaviour is so mean!
@rodneyfarmer67127 ай бұрын
"If they cant take it away from you, they can't snatch it, they will destroy it." A very painful truth. 😔
@melodieperkins70807 ай бұрын
Narcissist take pleasure in destroying you, faith community, family members, former acquaintances and associates, it is a prevailing problem. People don't believe you.
@iononcantomascrivo3 ай бұрын
I went through this with a former colleague of mine. She created such a bad reputation for herself that when everything blew up in her face, she had no one to lean on or save her from the fallout of her toxic behavior. She was a liar, a thief, a con woman, a grifter with zero skills or talent who would have sold her own children up the river to get what she wanted. In the end, she ended up isolated after burning all of her bridges.
@PuzzlerDeb7 ай бұрын
Jealousy and GREED
@vikkiweigel25047 ай бұрын
And extreme entitlement
@billieann26337 ай бұрын
Yes, spot on! Especially siblings!
@puremaledark83057 ай бұрын
I had a rare moment when a narc exposed themselves. “Im jealous of how you can get along with other people” they said.
@miahconnell237 ай бұрын
Some may expose themselves by saying: “I would NEVER DO ______, or ________.” Whatevever oddly specific thing they’ve just denied (spoken often out of context, frequently not the topic of conversation at that moment) will turn out to be exactly what they’ve just sneakily done.
@anneyoung23107 ай бұрын
Thank you, Danish. "You connect with others. You are not robotic like them. You are a heart-centered person, they are not." They can never be. They lack authentic identity. "Massive smear campaigns going on around you because of their jealousy, greed, and addiction to destroying others." The covert narcissist has told me numerous times that she is jealous-v. telling. However, most of the time, she is gas lighting, mind molesting, doxing, destroying, retaliating, sabotaging, condescending, poisoning, and isolating. Very toxic. She has caused so much destruction, covertly. Narcs. cannot feel what they have done because of their archetypal lack of empathy and emotional apathy re: all the things and people they have destroyed and bullied. P.S. I'm pretty sure my kids know the score (I'm not the villain), but since I haven't been able to buy them a cup of coffee, and parents are to support and provide, it's a little justifiable to rely on the one who can pay tuition (via accommodating his father, mind you).
@Theworldhasgonebonkers6 ай бұрын
It's actually an act of pride...they get a kick out of telling you who they really are...mine told me the day they met me they actually saw me as their challenge...with a big smirk on their faces- absolutely shamelessly.
@beverlywelch53247 ай бұрын
You nailed it! They are the most jealous people you will ever meet. They will never ever like you and will try to destroy you. How sad! 😢Run don't walk!
@iriswilmink82297 ай бұрын
them will use law bs to put u stuck wt child so u cant go an more evil wickedness
@incognito5957 ай бұрын
Don't just RUN. RUN VERY FAST AND NEVER LOOK BACK!
@sebony_7 ай бұрын
"Every moment spent with them is like slowly poisoning you" this is a Fact. I'm still struggling in finding myself.
@louisanow7 ай бұрын
This is all true. Their crimes against their own children are especially heinous, and the effects perpetuate the cycle.
@dexy057 ай бұрын
totally agree! one is in dark until he/she realizes that they are the real victims and not the offenders and when that feeling is realized it throws oneself into grief and confusion for sometime, specially when a covert narcissistic mother is uncovered after years of her deceit.
@infinitetrinity24367 ай бұрын
I too realized this horrific traumatizing experience at 47 when she attacked me from behind for no reason and turned my entire family against me then abandoned me….it’s been 4 years now since I have been around any of them but honestly I just see more and more of them now!! They are literally everywhere!!! What’s really going on in this world we live in??? 😮
@nitareckonkeys5 ай бұрын
@@dexy05, so true in my case.
@terridillon30537 ай бұрын
When you wake up, and the tables turn, the Narc is DONE! Get out, STAY OUT ❤️🩹🧚🏻♀️
@elizabethbowie97537 ай бұрын
Easier said than done. I live in a senior housing complex. It's a low income apts. place. I don't have the money to Get Out of here. But, I Do have The Lord, Who will deliver me from this evil. Besides, it's the narcs that need to Go, Leave,... Why do all the sane people have to go to counseling????
@mimisha32537 ай бұрын
Staying out is the problem 😢
@sunnycatc64917 ай бұрын
This is so spot on. My ex took every penny of my salary but didn't like my "better" career. He alienated my kids from birth. PLEASE listen to Danish folks. It's hard to get away, but you can do it. Karma will always come through, I'm seeing it happen, it takes a while, but I don't have to be the bad one... which I never was. Best to you all.
@ediecook84917 ай бұрын
I like you and love your post
@RoseQuartzGemini7 ай бұрын
I see you and hear you.
@clogs49567 ай бұрын
Karma recently came to my Narc, and he’s now my ex.
@jananderson8487 ай бұрын
My narcissistic soon to be ex-husband was SO jealous that my mom and I were so close. He was with me, visiting my parents and I made the mistake of showing him a beautiful wooden cigar box purse that I had made for my mother when I was younger. He grabbed the purse, acting like he was looking at it and dropped it on the tile floor (knowing it would break). He acted like it slipped out of his hands. I was SO hurt and still am several years later. I will never get over that. 😢 It was a gift for my mother and I had put so much work into making it. I ghosted him & have been no contact for over a year now.
@sarahruiz18697 ай бұрын
When I was trying to leave my soon to be ex husband I was extremely sick with pneumonia as were my 2 young children. I was waiting for the sickness to pass and then I was going to run away (taking the kids of coutse). This landed on the week of my 30th birthday, i found 6 newborn kittens and their starving mother in an abandoned building on the property where we were renting. I love cats as do my kids so we would take about 2 trips a day out to see the kittens and feed the momma and get a breath of air away from my ex. He saw how much the kittens encouraged us and even told me, "I havent seen you smile this much in a long time." The next day he took the cats away and dumped them somewhere while I was in the shower. He couldnt allow us any crumb of joy or hope. He had to extinguish it.
@Carolinekatongo7 ай бұрын
This is horrible, inhuman of them.demons
@lans22267 ай бұрын
@Carolinekatongo they're reincarnated demons
@ÖzlemYalcin-d6d7 ай бұрын
They love to make their partners jealous, because themselves are extremely jealous. They devalue, because they in fact feel extremely inferiour. And once you see trough all that fassade, they get rid of you. Let them go and simply thank god, when they disappear. I am very thankful to have found your channel, it helped me to find peace and make my own closure.
@elainebines68037 ай бұрын
They block you because they don't want to be accountable, they cannot introspect
@JustMe-uu3bh7 ай бұрын
Darkness hates the light, baby. that's why. it even says in the Bible..... John 3:19-21 King James Version 19 And this is the condemnation, that light is come into the world, and men loved darkness rather than light, because their deeds were evil. 20 For every one that doeth evil hateth the light, neither cometh to the light, lest his deeds should be reproved. 21 But he that doeth truth cometh to the light, that his deeds may be made manifest, that they are wrought in God.
@Dorcas-777-sh7vg7 ай бұрын
Karma wil come his/her way. Even when they succeed in convincing others ‘they are the best Christians in church!! As long as they realy don’t regret anything, there will be now final mercy!! Probably they only regret the troubles ‘you bring them’ by being honnest!
@IzabelaWaniek-i1x7 ай бұрын
Jealousy and envy are the hallmarks of narcisism. And narcisists have criminal minds. Thank you Danish.
@bonnieromick93977 ай бұрын
Narcissists are natural criminals some overt some undercover covert. This criminality is exactly how I got abused and how I learned to minimize any good thing in your life if you want to keep it around them. They will impress you with cruelty. I almost lost it all because one one narcs jealousy. Happy today. Keep it to yourself especially around multiple narcs. Happiness puts a target on your back. When they see you sad they laugh happily and go the hell on
@lindatallon92177 ай бұрын
A beautiful rabbit from the neighborhood would visit me daily...this morning he turned up dead from poisoning in my driveway...I know this is personal....my neighbors are all covert narcissists and delight in seeing me suffer....
@SpikeLover18637 ай бұрын
@@lindatallon9217 omg, how awful! People who harm animals are monsters! The poor bunny! I'm so sorry that they hurt you like this. 😥
@oliviamiller92677 ай бұрын
By their words, I know people who’ve lived it. Natural criminals, that’s exactly right.
@judyyates27637 ай бұрын
He would get upset when his friends would compliment me. He was like, what about me? I've never seen someone act that way. He also could not stand successful people. He thought they were snobs, even though they worked for it.
@franken-pattern7 ай бұрын
This channel has way less subscribers than it deserves and is criminally underrated. Danish is always so spot on, that when I listen, I find myself just nodding "yes!" throughout the whole video.
@biancaevans55967 ай бұрын
Yess! Same
@dexy057 ай бұрын
I AGREE WITH YOUR COMMENT! FROM THE FIRST WORD TO THE LAST!!
@Carolinekatongo7 ай бұрын
he has all it is about narcs. Me will keep following him
@CodyCole807 ай бұрын
Isn’t he new? I just noticed this channel a couple of months ago.
@nitareckonkeys5 ай бұрын
I share his videos on FB, shamelessly. Spread awareness & maybe in the process irritate the narcs in your circles to the point of exposing themselves.
@roksannastephens43757 ай бұрын
Gosh, I think back on them as you speak, I see they did these things exactly.
@asthasrivastav67367 ай бұрын
This is what just happened with me...unbearable pain which cannot be explained in words 😢
@Maher2bbg7 ай бұрын
The same happened to me literally
@taraarrington22857 ай бұрын
I'm not competitive 😂. I do my own thing. I let people win😂 Really don't care. I don't understand these weirdos.
@ImYourOnlyItGirl7 ай бұрын
My mother has been in competition with me my entire life. She sabotaged us as kids as much as possible. It was insane to me that nobody else in the family would call it as it is. I remember one time around 16, my 12 year old brother tells me “dad tells me how at nighttime mom cries to him about how he’s too nice to you, and he needs to be more mean and punish you harsher”. Then my own dad tells me “your mom is mad at me because she asked me if I loved her more than you guys, and I told her I love my kids more because they’re both of us blended together. We created them. But she feels she should be first over you guys” idk how anyone tonight her trains of thoughts were normal. It’s not normal to be jealous our dad loves and takes care of us well! My mother had a great father and she did everything to try to take that away from us!
@JustMe-uu3bh7 ай бұрын
same here. my mother was or seemed so self satisfied if my dad beat the hell out of us. she would just lay back........all relaxed. she later would get my golden monkey brother to fight physically with her next husband, yeah, really. over and over. my Dad had told me that she loved instigating fights and to see him fight other men "over her" but she was constantly trying to bed other men and often did. serious narc who was so jealous of us girls, I think she actually hated women and saw us as "competition". certainly me, as she was always telling everyone that I was "actually a prostitute" and that that is why "men liked me" which was a bold face lie but she didn't even stop there. I could go on and on and on but it's seriously wicked. yes, jealous.........................hateful and she emasculated men once she had them in her grip (she married for money and power...........never loved anyone). she's in hell now though. I am sorry for her.
@gabrielleg87947 ай бұрын
I feel sorry for you. I can relate with your situation. My mother retaliated us from my grandma that was loving and caring, my mom simply couldn't take it and it took me about 15 years before I could have a relationship with my grandma again which made my mom furious at me when she discovered it that in her cruelty she didn't want me to see my little brother anymore as a punishment. My mom was ready to go any length to cut of all the support from my family of origin. Now my mom is dead but my sister is even worst and as cruel as my mother. God bless you in your recovery.
@sarafarooq17 ай бұрын
So sad😢
@gcwalisile9324 ай бұрын
I believe the parents should love each other more than their children and together they should put their children first, children found you together and they will leave you together so nothing should come between a couple, not even their children
@JustMe-uu3bh4 ай бұрын
@@gcwalisile932 everyone gets to believe what they choose to but I think a mother should put her children before her own self and be willing to protect them at all costs so if a man *the dad, husband, whoever - is abusive, she needs to choose her kids over that abusive person. I have seen too many ignorant stupid women choose to side with a man to keep him and leave their children at that person's mercy. no way, not for me. yes, honoring and respecting their husband and the father of their children IF HE IS A GOOD PERSON, otherwise, she needs to protect her children AT ALL COSTS. this goes for men too. if the mother is a slut or a whore or an abuser or whatever, the father needs to step in and raise the kids himself. studies have shown that kids raised with both parents are of course BEST but following that, kids do better being raised by the dad alone and last and bottom of the pile is by a woman alone. we see the evidence of that in so many cases now, karens *neurotic women, emotionally unbalanced, no morals - raising the kids. "raising" is sarcasm in this case. sorry for the rant, I know this from personal experience. my Dad rescued us and I am so glad he took us from our narcissistic immoral mother, God forgive her. RIP Dad.
@kerrydwyer18797 ай бұрын
To be forgiven we must forgive. However, we certainly can avoid
@lesliem56173 ай бұрын
Most important part of healing🙏
@rahulm28277 ай бұрын
its so true, jealousy is the root of narcissm. and i always felt, its not a normal kind of jealousy that normal ppl occassionally might get. the narcissists jealousy is the basis of their "personality", an extreme form of devilish jealousy. my narc demon father was nothing but jealous of everybody. he was jealous of my mothers family because her family mostly is close-knit and humble, and also traditional and religious. my narc demon father has actively and continuosly tried to stop me and my little brother from mingling with my mothers family. and being children of immigrants, it would have been really important for me and my little brother to be educated and in touch with our culture. everything about my mother's family that was good and worth learning, - exactly that was what the demon used to viciously attack and ridicule: religiousity, humbleness, being a real family. and i'm glad that i did not agree or give in to his attacks as a child. because how is a child supposed to know which information to process in which way and classify in which way? its extremely confusing and harmful for a child. if a child sees things ridiculed and demonized and attacked that should not be attacked, ridiculed and demonized, it takes an enourmous amount of discrimination to tell right from wrong. imagine having a narcissist demonic parent and being immigrants in another country, away from relatives who could have possibly saved you. once we were in india and visiting my grandmother, my mother's side, the demon was in another city. the demon called my grandmother and was so rude and insulting to her and complained to her about my mother not being with him and his relatives. this is something he did very often: complain to my mothers relatives about her. as if my mother would be a small child and complaints should be addressed to an elder person. i felt so ashamed about the demons behaviour and that incident spoiled our entire vacation. and apart from that i've spend my entire childhood seeing the demon trouble my mother with smear campaigns. out of jealousy and out of pure evilness. the demon was also jealous of my mother in every way possible. i remember once my mother was away visiting her brother, the demon used to stand in the kitchen and immitate her. as if trying to take her place. when i did not accept that and did not give him that place, he used to get angry and throw the food to the floor. such a sicko. and sometimes i still see videos on whatsapp where the demon is trying to be something in social situations. he plays a role and doesnt realize how cringy he is being. i also remember him blabbering about how i used to talk to my friends on phone. i didnt know it was out of jealousy at that time. but it creeped me out knowing that the demon listens to my phone calls and analyzes my style of talking. i dont know what kind of punishment narcissists get for the crimes they commit out of jealousy. but with time they cant fool anyone at all. i think they end up being lonely and when they dont have anyone to immitate, they'll have to look in the mirror and see the soulless demon they are in reality.
@jami77727 ай бұрын
Sicko, psycho, sociopath, she devil, demonic, jealous, insecure, grandiose devoid of soul. That's what she did to me. She separated me .... alienated me from my daughter. You summed up this video perfectly Danish. Welcome to my life.
@JustMe-uu3bh7 ай бұрын
there is a part of me that thinks they are possessed of demons. I do. it would make sense to me because there does not seem to be any good in them nor the want to be good at all. so evil. all the narcs I have met. this video nailed it.
@TheScapegoat4207 ай бұрын
Same.
@Islamiciman7 ай бұрын
Psychopaths destroying my reputation for 6 years while committing other crimes against me. People listen to them and attack me on their behalf. I refuse to forget but I forgive. They’re evil and abuse me all the time through social media while stalking me endlessly 24/7. Now I don’t trust anyone and can’t fathom to believe people are capable of that evil.
@TheScapegoat4207 ай бұрын
I'm in the same boat.
@Islamiciman7 ай бұрын
@@TheScapegoat420 Are they falsely accusing you on social media ?
@Islamiciman7 ай бұрын
They also stay outside my house with theirs cars all night, some nights they stay watching a few hours then leave. I cannot believe how insecure and self hating people are. Stalking and watching me while I sleep👹
@TheScapegoat4207 ай бұрын
@@Islamiciman I stopped using social media 5-6 years ago because I thought something was going on.
@Islamiciman7 ай бұрын
Incase you’re living with the narcissist. Stay alert and awake from their traps and poisoning. Narcs are devils in human form👹👹
@basantidevi81857 ай бұрын
I lived with a green eyed monster for twenty long years before separation and eventual divorce. He tried to do everything that you have mentioned. He was successful to some extent with the first two criminal acts that you mentioned. But the third one that is smear campaigns against me actually boomeranged. No one believed him including his own siblings and other relatives. He ended up destroying his own image. I was too naive to realize that he was doing all this out of jealousy and could not fathom the sinister design underlying his obnoxious behaviour. While listening to you I felt as though you were talking about me. Thank you for your insightful presentation.
@henryvanveen53657 ай бұрын
I am so sick and tired of jealous people. It is a sickness of theirs that they try to project on you. There is a definite link with narcissism , jealousy and competitiveness. They will attack you emotionally, spiritually and yes, physically. I have had those moments. Heaven help you if you defend yourself. They scream to the world how they have been attacked. The squeaking door gets the oil. In other words they get the sympathy and you are the bad one.
@victoriam93197 ай бұрын
You have described my malignant narcissistic father to perfection. he has openly told me that he wants to destroy me so that his relatives and friends compare him to me and admire him. Sadly, his crimes are not recognized as such by society. I describe his life-long narcissistic abuse against me as a crime against humanity. Thanks for the video.
@maribethjergens34067 ай бұрын
Thank you so much, Danish. I could never tell people what happened to my family as I was too ashamed. I thought no one could ever possibly understand or believe me. I eventually moved to the opposite coast in the US, changed my name, went No Contact with all of them and began all over again near 80 yrs old. I hope God gives me more life and good years.
@denisemarsack66043 ай бұрын
God bless you
@dianedoyle-mccahon49797 ай бұрын
Thank you God, I am strong, always felt like an outsider. I have kept my core values original self. Been thru hell in my life. Just goes over my head. Thank you Lord
@theladyamalthea7 ай бұрын
Aaaaaaaaamen!! Praying he gets what’s coming to him, and praying my kids see the light before he hurts them too badly. 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
@Tippy2577 ай бұрын
I never tell the narc that I bumped into a friend or neighbour. They get so paranoid and jealous. They say stuff like, next time you meet up make sure you take me with you.
@auralitedivine7 ай бұрын
My father did EXACTLY all of these things to my mother during their divorce 😢😢😢 He didn't care how it hurt us AT ALL. Then he horribly abused us because we still wanted to be apart of her life!!! I’m in therapy & I don't think I can forgive him for these things anymore. I forgave him so many times for horribly beating me and destroying things from my mother & trying to destroy my spirit forever. I no longer speak to him & he still trys to disregard my boundaries😠😠😠
@PrettyMamaPatchwork7 ай бұрын
You are describing my older sister to a T. She is so transparent with her envy and jealousy of me. She gets so frustrated because she can't copy me in my style, my communication skills, etc. I pretend I'm not aware of her envy, but I've learned to keep her at a distance. I am one empath who will not be controlled. She can smear me til the cows come home. Aint nobody paying my bills. Ive been dealing with these demons all my life and have mastered how to handle them. 5 have died over the past 18 years, due to cancers. I told them all that God is watching, they all laughed at me, but I'm the one still standing.
@laurie99937 ай бұрын
My narc sister has 4 marraiges/4 college degrees. Jealous of me because of my looks/healthy simple honest lifestyle. She stole my things then my mothers things when mom died just to hurt me. Tried to steal inheritance but was unsuccessful ❤. There is no such thing as enough to the true Narc Run dont walk, stay healthy and true *
@nafeesakhan35047 ай бұрын
Same here x2 ex sisters and ex brother no contact forever
@CodyCole807 ай бұрын
👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
@RhemaYeshua20247 ай бұрын
i pray may God give them grace to be saved if they seek Him🙏
@GellaHumbug597 ай бұрын
I had a friend years ago who was always mentioning how irresistible she was to men, always the prettiest in the room, etc. In fact, she was indeed very conventionally attractive. It wasn’t on my radar to try to outdo her-or anyone-in the physical beauty realm. As I was an average-looking gal, I remember being puzzled that she would even need to bring the subject up to me. How could she possibly be worried that I was her competition?? Learning about narcissism has helped me understand many such interactions from my past.
@maryzourides8216 ай бұрын
It's all about competing!!
@dianenyc46647 ай бұрын
Danish ---- every one of your videos strikes such a chord with me. My ex-narc completely destroyed me in every way. I was 17 and he was much older. He knew exactly what he was doing. He chipped away at me little by little until I was totally destroyed. 10 years of hell. I'm 62 now and all this time later, I am still not over it, I still have no self esteem or confidence, I don't even know how to be in a relationship with a man because I am on guard all the time 😢 I wish I could meet with you in person.
@kerrytaggart82067 ай бұрын
Keep watching all of the videos. You have sympathetic support with all of us survivors in this group. Do not let an ass destroy you. Time to rebuild.
@dianenyc46647 ай бұрын
@@kerrytaggart8206 thank you
@sineriafrankenstein73167 ай бұрын
My mother (and sister) would never in a million years admit they were jealous of anyone or anything. My mother was convinced she was the best thing there ever was and nothing could ever compare to her value in any aspect of existence. This was very untrue of course, she accomplished very little and deemed herself a princess or queen who shouldn't have to lift a finger because she was so great!!😅😂 It was nauseating. So nauseating just thinning about it!!🤮
@SpikeLover18637 ай бұрын
Such a typical quality of a narc: that over-inflated sense of pure entitlement. 🙄
@cletiawilliams14367 ай бұрын
💯💯💥 lost my identity....didnt feel even human anymore.
@susanstatesheale6 ай бұрын
He spent 9 years convincing me I was a wreck of a person. It’s been such a joy to rediscover my beautiful self. I hadn’t seen her since 2012. Every day I’m grateful he discarded me in such a way I’d never want to see him again
@Vimi-l4b7 ай бұрын
This is so so very true!!! Every bit is completely true! I just can't believe this! They turned me into nothing... completely destroyed me!!
@Holly-d1n7 ай бұрын
If you are smarter than them watch out. They will compete continuously by telling you, you are always wrong.
@melaniehudson86596 ай бұрын
YES!!!!TY 😊
@RoseQuartzGemini7 ай бұрын
100% true. This happened in my marriage, (and then my divorce) I was pretty convinced by the time I got married that I was not good at anything, and could never have a successful career. Yes, my children were alienated from me too, by him and his mother. By the time I left him my children hated me and thought it was my fault, yep, he did have the courts in his corner, 100%. My co-workers caught a private investigator rifling through my car, someone he hired. He did anything he could to find “proof” of what I was doing. He found proof I had a job😂
@MoroccanAmerican-l9t7 ай бұрын
The narcissistic jealousy is deadly they’re always in competition with their children and they back stab them while acting a holy mother
@faymoosa50647 ай бұрын
Jealous..they hate you..want to only destroy you..😢😢😢
@dianedoyle-mccahon49797 ай бұрын
I am caregiver,he hates me clients, bcz he is not getting that attention. So true.
@truthseekerlarge77136 ай бұрын
People need to subscribe to this channel, even if they have never had a relationship with a narcissist, to educate themselves against these demons.
@katesantos84737 ай бұрын
Is like :"nothing´s happening in my life" , but I spent nights and days with a great effort to get something for me thats meaning nothing to him . Oh, "you cant do it, if you do, I´ll leave you!" and he spread lies about me to friends, city, cause he ´s known, and he´s have a various contacts and the same not happens to me. he´s got to the point of stalking me into a supermarket when I didnt at home and later he said the jealous person was me.
@tjtampa2147 ай бұрын
You have some very good videos and this is one of them. I especially like the comment you made that they don't co-parent, they counter-parent!
@elizabethbowie97537 ай бұрын
NO!!! The crazy thing about this competition is, I live in a Senior citizen complex. The narcs here are male next door neighbors. I'm myself. I don't fall for their lies... That drives them crazy. I used to say to my last narc "neighbor," We're Not in high school. This isn't a Competition!!!". Then he harrassed me to no end, for 8 mos. he called the cops on me 3 times on New years weekend... over Nothing. I got a copy of the police report & the Mgr here, made a copy for herself. Even the police apologized to me. I always replied, I'm sorry you had to come here. You have more important things to do on New Year's weekend...
@lonelyplanet20217 ай бұрын
Danish is the best expert on this topic! As far as I can see, no contact or the least possible contact is the only way to cope with this sort of people
@loganpraetorian7 ай бұрын
Sorry Danish you had to go through that. Only someone with experience could explain it like that.
@RRthee17 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for this. My ex literally told me he wanted to come first, before my kids. Mind you, those are not his kids nor did he raise them, my kids are young adults (we are close, too) and his kids can't stand him. There is no bottom for them.
@dexy057 ай бұрын
HI Danish! thanks for doing what you are doing! i have woken up to my Narcissistic parents after 33 long years! Thanks for doing an immense service to society through your testimonials, your videos and through your experiences.
@AnAngelWithHornzzXoxo7 ай бұрын
I'm going through allllll of this!!!
@glendaruiz24777 ай бұрын
The narcissist envies everything about you, that you are a good person, empathetic, that you are thriving, that you have your own family and since they don't have that they make sure to destroy your life and take everything from you, my narcissistic mother did everything in the book to destroy my life, she was so jealous of me, i always felt her hatred and coldness towards me, she can stay with everything i no longer care, im glad i cut her out of my life and don't regret it at all! I should of done it years ago! But back then topics about narcissistic people wasn't talked about, she's a covert malignant narcissist so she fooled me for decades, but is ok i forgive her from far away but i don't ever want to see her again!!! I have been blessed thank almighty God!!! No contact!!
@kathymawer92957 ай бұрын
My narcissist mother, I cut her off-she was furious!-she hated me even more-she died telling family members not to tell me she died, convincing them it was me. She was demonic. Yes, Danish, you are so wonderful, you tell it exactly like it is! and I appreciate you so much.
@nehasable83477 ай бұрын
Its true Danish I am suffering all thise things now I understood all the things I have trust on God He will do everything good in my life
@toriblue70237 ай бұрын
Just to hear this is healing in itself , because thats what I been goin thru for a while character assassination, telling the worst lies on me playing victim and acting like they not more evil than Satan himself , ruined relationships/connections and just every aspect of my life , this is so accurate wow ...I also prayed and told God he needs to put them in the worsts parts of hell 🎯🎯🎯
@RKX_Errant7 ай бұрын
Jealousy encompasses several negative emotions; greed, envy, hatred, anger, selfishness. Basically, ego centric. Spiritual teachings admonish us to wisely tame our egos. Those who have or invite Divine spark endeavor to do so. Narcissists cannot do this. Notice that what they attempt to do is invert all meaning in life. They lack intuition and empathy. They embrace the negative and seek to transmute it into a positive.
@michelleaththas659Ай бұрын
You are so right especially concerning the raising of the children, to make you look like the bad one.
@Shrin127 ай бұрын
Very true healing now from the narcissist ❤️🩹❤💖💪🏾
@Chuckufarley247 ай бұрын
Right there with you my friend. I wish you peace.
@bels41167 ай бұрын
That's it! That's the answer, I have asked myself why, why would he do that,now I know, jealously! It makes sense to why he destroyed everything I loved. Thankyou for this video!
@galhits7 ай бұрын
It's the simple way in which you tackle narcissism that makes it easy to understand. Appreciated.
@larshesthaven58287 ай бұрын
Narc jealousy is of the worst kind and based on getting total control of his/her partner...most people have probably felt jealousy but narc jealousy is a sickness and full of evil, meaness and total destruction of other people...the worst is how a child will also suffer because of this evil jealousy going on around the clock and never stopping...my daughter is stuck with her sick mother and will grow up suffering not only now but also in her future. I am in a position where I cannot save my daughter even I have tried and tried and tried but only running my head into a brick wall..the authorities do not understand what is really going on and how my daughter will suffer being with a jealous and mentally sick monster. The mother is not older than a 2 year old child in an adult and empty body...there is no human being inside the empty shell...only a totally sick devil is there doing harm, and I am 10.000 km away and have almost given up after trying my best to save my daughter and getting her out of her prison being together with her mother in control of the destruction programme going on..its so heartbreaking to experience
@cesarserrano98466 ай бұрын
This is so spot on with what I’m dealing with. I’m so trapped and hate my life with the person!
@williampicton70727 ай бұрын
You're the best Danish! Thank you!!!
@stevec38927 ай бұрын
My grandfather shot my grandmother in the middle of the street while she was walking to the bus stop cause she wouldn’t take him back . This was back in 1962 and narcissism runs deep in my family
@CodyCole807 ай бұрын
😱 Did she survive?
@lynnschaeferle-zh4go7 ай бұрын
I thank God I was going to church, because narcissist wouldn’t go. The people there are the only ones who still know me, after a life time of relationships. Narcissist drove my kids and family away and he’s going to live longer than me so he will still be smearing me. I will have no funeral, He trashed our house because he didn’t want company and he trashed me like a toy he was playing with. I wish I knew about narcissism before I ruined my life. At least now I know what happened thanks to channels like this
@lindatallon92177 ай бұрын
A beautiful rabbit that would show up and visit me every day......showed up poisoned and dead at my driveway.....this is completely PERSONAL..........everyone knew I loved that rabbit..
@GellaHumbug597 ай бұрын
I’m so sorry. That’s such a cruel act and a terrible loss. I am glad the beautiful rabbit and you had each other in your lives for a while… should have been longer.
@lindatallon92177 ай бұрын
@@GellaHumbug59 the demons instinctually knew I was extremely educated on narc bs ...so they could not get past my "gates". So instead they destroyed an innocent "sacrifice" to make me suffer... I need to move immediately....this is sick.....
@JustMe-uu3bh7 ай бұрын
Danish you do great work and for me, this one might be the best one ever as it nails the narc EXACTLY in every aspect. horror of horrors.............unabashedly nailed it.🔨 👍
@consciousequus7 ай бұрын
Discarded after 25 years, of trying to do more, be more, work & do harder,, I had absolutely no sense of my identity, of who I was/am... NOTHING but a black void. .. stripped of absolutely everything . & yes, RIPPED my child from me.. that's what still hurts the the most. You have 💯 NAILED these Demonic evil dysfunctional trols.
@hannapiasecka-shaw25217 ай бұрын
God bless you Danish. Like always, SPOT ON.
@pinkoctober41137 ай бұрын
I watch your other videos but THIS one really touched me this morning. But I've know for quite some time what I'm up against and this battle is so not over. I really appreciate your content. Keep it up.
@rachelhayhurst-mason78467 ай бұрын
It's like you just told my life story. The destruction of my reputation and mental health is secondary to the loss of my children's relationship with their family and their mental health and confidence.
@farahhazzard-IloveConcerts7 ай бұрын
BINGO! NAILED IT 💯! He is absolutely right, hands down.
@lisajones68397 ай бұрын
I just love ❤️ your videos. I look forward to them bc, I learn so much which makes my healing journey more understandable. You are always on point. 💯✔️👍😊
@ChosenOne19677 ай бұрын
A perfect description of my childhood.
@Patricia-nx1so3 ай бұрын
Narcissist do not parent his child he is dog training his child to obey
@prophet17827 ай бұрын
My narc sis on any of my achievment would say " it bugs me ".
@ashleymarshall55027 ай бұрын
Thank you, your insight is very helpful for me, im only just starting to learn about these kind of people and its sad for me to realise that i lost all kind of my identity due to being in these kind of relationships.
@emmaboot52967 ай бұрын
I have a neighbour that is a narcissist, he has accused my husband and I of so much stuff, noise,my husband domestic abuse, we have done nothing the authorities do not believe us as he has used stupid trigger words saying we are violent, not the case and no authority will listen to our side of the story
@Endo20157 ай бұрын
I am glad I don't have kids, but what you said true, when I said you can't put your insecurities on me, they show their demonic form and became violent. My narcissistic husband did not hesitate to strangle me. No one believed his behaviour towards me, as he played the victim. Until I decided to give a secret phone call while he was abusing me and the matter became clear. I am mentally wounded but at the cost what I have been through I am happy that I was able to expose him. Love yourself and be proud of yourself.❤❤
@ediecook84917 ай бұрын
I am trained and i believe in my faith that I have to forgive, so I can't wish bad on my abuser . This is so God will have it in his heart to forgive me of my sins . That's between me and God. I am secure and safe from my abuser. He has trashed my reputation and name. I am free now. Talking to God about forgiveness. Not the abuser who i owe nothing to. God wants us to be healthy. Not forgiving and moving on in safety will make us sick.
@susanmassey36117 ай бұрын
AMEN! God bless you!
@ediecook84917 ай бұрын
@susanmassey3611 thank you
@janetmcbee7 ай бұрын
I'm sorry all of what you went through. You are a very beautiful man 💜
@rossanderson52435 ай бұрын
The fear of not being perfect is jealousy.
@Raven45087 ай бұрын
My ex husband about 5 years into the relationship, looked out of our bedroom window at our next door but two's drive, where they had a new Land Rover - I think he had forgotten I was standing next to him... said ' I don't know what I will do if they get a new Range Rover'...
@CodyCole807 ай бұрын
🤨🤔🤨 What does their vehicle have to do with him?
@shahzanahashmi2317 ай бұрын
A single word is very true .that has happened to me. My husband did not want me to be a normal person 😢
@amitad13906 ай бұрын
Thanks. I suffered all this n now also I am facing the same, I feel soothing my pain by seeing your videos. Thanks.
@quinnlafleur65337 ай бұрын
100% my situation. You hit it completely. Thank you for my validation!!!!!
@chikkivasudha67552 ай бұрын
U r amazing danish🎉
@zobiamubarak43687 ай бұрын
Yes they are never satisfied ...and they keep in trying and trying .. and they use their children to fulfill their own insecurities even if it ruins their life .they have no ethics and moral values
@AnitaSharma-hc3ib7 ай бұрын
After marriage In initial days I want to do the job as I'm belongs from another city and environment and situations r new when i need him to go with me for the submission of form for exam he refused to go with excuse that he is feeling suffocating in public places.Now i can understznd the reason behind it .I appreciate you daish❤for validating this experience ❤lots of blessings ❤
@dianeclayton49367 ай бұрын
He was so jealous of my close relationship with my sister. A systematic devaluing of her (he never even met her) as she was struggling from her own toxic relationship. He told me my sister would come between us and that i needed to cut her off. I was so love bombed that i did it. 2 years later she died. As her big sister, i feel horrified that i went along with him. I dont have him, her or my dreams. Life feels hopeless. A "loving" partner should never come between siblings.
@wisegentle78592 ай бұрын
This was so painful to hear....true tho it is. The suffering deliberately caused by the narcissist was horrible. After decades I realized complete no contact was my only choice.
@raidenewalden43544 ай бұрын
Very jealous they are , this person talks about certain people raving and raging like never ends it’s a day that you thought it’s never end and listening is like putting stress on you .
@aldaindorsey82127 ай бұрын
Thank you for the understanding.
@ruhibanu12707 ай бұрын
My soul mate has all these qualities in him. A big battle going on between us. Want to see the end how it goes.
@a-light4Christ7 ай бұрын
Every single word of this is true, so sad but definitely true 💯 demons are real & they have the capability to possess humans & influence their behavior provided the right doors being opened to them. However I do pray for them because God wants them to be free as with everyone else
@shn57007 ай бұрын
So true. It took.me.so long.to learn that what they say is not reality and to rebuild my lost identity. But so hard to deal with isolation after smear campaign they made