6 Ways To Make An ENFP Fall In Love With You

[@jeoplays]

Step #1: Don't do anything. *They tend to fall in love quickly.*

[@Sweeneytv]

True

[@greyvil]

Very true

[@maijapoppanen218]

Lol true

[@acharich]

😭😂😭

[@IsaacV2001]

Sigh. Yeah.

[@Sargaxon]

1. Be an active listener 2. Be encouraging and willing to take risks (be their number one fan) 3. Be independent 4. Keep it simple, be easy going (don't have rules) 5. Be a consistent person, have thick skin (don't be offended easily) 6. Be silly, don't take yourself too seriously

[@TheRealThomas1993]

Bonus points if they're a little awkward - an Enfp

[@acemoises8991]

InstaBlaster

[@kaleb.carvalho]

You skipped the last advice: Sometimes you need to start coming into their face with a flashlight, you really need to get their attention, especially when they got a lot of stuff going on. Don't give up!

[@cory99998]

fine ill just date another enfp

[@joanarodrigues5296]

Omg that list is soooo similar to what I describe as my ideal type, I always say 1- someone I can communicate with (good communication) 2- someone who is not negative all the time, tries to make things work 3- be independent 4- don't be too strict with things in libe 5- knows how to take sarcasm 6- doesn't take themselves too seriously That is actually insane, how accurate that was

[@TheKyoung213]

This is exactly how I (ENFP) fell in love with my husband. He would listen to me and then could repeat back to me everything I said on a later date. He loved going to the park with me and to theme parks without complaint. I’m 42 now and he still does all the childlike things with me. He is also independent. He is seriously my perfect match and we have been together for 25 years. Perfect marriage. You are spot on.

[@Sweeneytv]

That’s fantastic! Congrats

[@wowskaterchick]

Kat Young what’s his mbpt type?

[@acharich]

💥❤💥

[@user-fz7nt5ge3o]

So happy for you. 😊

[@sacredwaters9]

Cool! What is his MBTI type?

[@DanaKrystle]

yup, as an ENFP, boredom is my nightmare.

[@Sweeneytv]

TRUE. DAT.

[@DanaKrystle]

@@Sweeneytv lol, if people only knew ... totally considering sending exactly this video to make it easier to date me, what do you think ? too easy ?

[@Sweeneytv]

@@DanaKrystle Nah. I mean. Why play games right? haha

[@DanaKrystle]

@@Sweeneytv hehe, good point. But I wasn't going to play games, I just feel like no one understand me you know :/ , I didn't realize It was coming across as playing games ....

[@TestaRosssa_]

@@DanaKrystle I think he was saying, "Nah, you're not making it too easy." So I think he agreed that you should send the video, which would be straight up, rather than playing games to get them to give you love how you want.

[@mmonalysa]

i, as an infj, fit all the things you have said. now i just need an enfp lol

[@Sweeneytv]

you have my blessing. good luck in your search lol

[@phoebesanchez8915]

Enfp volunteer

[@realloud999]

As an enfp, Good luck!

[@acharich]

Haha, I keep hearing that they're perfect matches.. 🔥

[@TadTalkss]

There are heaps of us

[@annetownet]

Great listener, encourager, independent etc. , you're exactly looking for an INFJ

[@Sweeneytv]

this pleases me

[@JonasAnandaKristiansson]

Exactly!! It was never a single time in my life where the click wasn't reeeeaal between me and a ENFP, not only "romantically" and such, but in all ways thus far.

[@phoebesanchez8915]

@@JonasAnandaKristiansson really hm I've always had connections with intj I've never met an infj

[@clairedixon5471]

my boyfriend and I have been together for years, high school sweethearts, and it wasn’t until recently that I found out why we clicked so well: he’s an INFJ! We really got lucky just stumbling upon one another

[@yayaahmad6876]

@@phoebesanchez8915 enfps perfect companions are infjs and intjs. I've read somewhere that intjs tend to be possesive towards enfps which made them stressed more, compared to infjs that knows the boundary and usually giving enfps their time they need. It may vary tho i didn't mean any hate

[@gidzboxbox8839]

I'm an enfp. I feel that other people have so much general knowledge that I don't. I am high in emotional intelligence but don't have general knowledge such as street knowledge etc. It's attractive when the guy knows stuff about his area etc. And everything you said is true. Hate rules, hate fake people, I also don't like goody two shoes that look down on rule breakers. I love it when people are fun and badass but in a good way. I love it when guys show confidence in what's right and stand up for themselves actively and not let anyone mess with them. And you're right about rule breaking. I love it when people break rules for us. It makes me get their exciting side out I'm so bored of people who like routine and afraid to step out of it. It's true that thick skin is attractive

[@marianna4066]

God this is so me

[@melo3744]

Sameeee

[@TamakiCherry]

YES YOU JUST EXPLAINED EVERYTHING PERFECT FOR MEEE

[@PGOuma]

I need help from an enfp to break some rules around this town. I don't really like em lol but I'm looked down upon each time I go against the grain. I need a partner in crime, haha

[@gidzboxbox8839]

@@TamakiCherry may we find our men 🤣

[@iknowwhatsup2880]

Sometimes I think my quietness is mistaken for disinterest when really I'm rolling around in my head for days with what people have said.

[@mattr2961]

The being good listener is by far most important thing. You have to love my mind, cuz I love yours. Enfp love is deep.

[@juvilynseva4708]

Agree but I didn't get it in return, very sad for an ENFP

[@Me-rd7po]

as an ENFP I think one thing that makes the realationship better is quality time. I love speading time around someone I love and doing that more it fills me with energy and love :))

[@noh4933]

Yuppp same that's the best thing I can have

[@favoredbookcovers4634]

I the more I learn about ENFPs I'm coming to the conclusion that they're kind of like introvert/extrovert hybrids- much like their mirrored counterpart INFJ. Most extroverts don't even sense people sapping their energy, but every ENFP I know needs time alone to recharge like an introvert and has mistyped as INFJ at times, simply because of a need for more alone time during that season of their life. On the flipside, INFJs though introverted admittedly LOVE people and connections more than most introverts. Before I ever typed as an INFJ I thought I was extroverted, but just extremely shy. It wasn't until I started working as a dispatcher and had to talk to people all day every day that I realized how drained I was after months of minimal recharging.

[@Sweeneytv]

I've been saying ENFPs are the most introverted extrovert. but everyone laughed at me. no ones laughing now... lol

[@IndigoBellyDance]

HB Pen ENFP’s r the most introverted of the extroverts. So yeah we love our research time But we want all our friends in the next room:)

[@katielui131]

totally with you on the "need time to recharge" part

[@sacredwaters9]

Enfp are the ONLY extrovert/introvert according to the Myers Briggs. I 👍

[@marklowery8193]

I’d never have to recharge from people and go think things through if the joy never dies.. that’s when I go quite and get tired

[@TheColdCreature]

My inner INFJ is lowkey proud that most of these things seem to come naturally to me ♡ As long as my ENFP isn't hurt when I try to give advice on their passions- I'll be happy ♡ All I want is for the people I care about to be happy and be the best they can be ♡

[@Sweeneytv]

I bet some of my closest friends are INFJs.

[@TheColdCreature]

@@Sweeneytv Sounds like you've got good mates :) Mind you- I'm bias

[@ladyfoxwf1075]

I'm an ENFP watching this to see what the guy has to say XD Edit: These points are all correct, except, I can see myself with either an introvert or an extrovert :) Some extra tips from me: 1. Don't be afraid of eye contact, because if you are, I will think either you're not interested in what I'm saying, that there's something wrong with how I look, that you're scared of me, or that you won't be able to connect properly in a relationship. 2. Don't do things to impress me that YOU don't want to do, I don't want pretence, one REALLY important thing to me is truth from a significant other. 3. Don't hold back on talking about things you're interested in, just because you think I might find it boring or insulting, I want to hear everything you have to say, good or bad, like I said I want to be truthful, and so I would want to know you properly.

[@marias7328]

Oh my god, the eye contact thing. So important.

[@ladyfoxwf1075]

@@marias7328 Ikr, it's so awkward when everytime your eyes meet, they look away as far as they can and I'm just like... what's wrong? D: XD

[@alu9360]

I spot many Infj's in the comments. I want to meet you in real life, guys and not on KZbin :'(

[@Sweeneytv]

Haha good luck getting em outside

[@voyance4elle]

@@Sweeneytv hahah 😂 good answere 👍

[@Nina21_]

Austin's answer is so funny 😂 but also truue 😂

[@Sweeneytv]

6 WAY Time Stamps (show me dae wae austin plz, so long) yeh I'm sorry ok. I TALK. 1:17 - 1st way 4:08 - 2nd way 6:21 - 3rd way 11:44 - 4th way 16:12 - 5th way 18:50 - 6th way Want more ENFP and Life Advice, playlist right here take a look! kzbin.info/www/bejne/Y3ukkHmohq2Fb9U Check out More Ireland videos here! Playlist just for you: kzbin.info/door/krUbSFjoh-DLohKpQrs2HQplaylists?view_as=subscriber

[@squidward9191]

hi

[@Sweeneytv]

@@squidward9191 yeah I would try to listen more than talk. For starters, if the ENFP is gonna be vulnerable to you, they need to know you gonna listen to them.

[@delll372]

hahaha i like your comment here so much

[@justjenneli6367]

❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@stephynuts3924]

one day I told my fiance I wanted 4 different careers (one being an ASTRONAUT!). I did this because I noticed he was ready to support me in any I dream I had. He, of course, was on board for every single career I randomly picked. That was when I knew he was the one lol

[@dreamluvr1600]

Just Me that’s so cute! 😭

[@stephynuts3924]

@Brooke Testi We just got married yesterday :D

[@kyutiepiejay]

@@stephynuts3924 oh congrats!!! 🥳

[@ladyk131]

My ENFP husband said early on in our relationship that he's looking for a "partner in crime". I take him out in public, release him into the wild, and watch him go! (while cheerleading and feeding into his antics from the sidelines) **

[@Sweeneytv]

That’s all we really need

[@SolidSiren]

INFJs are fiercely committed, also. We want our partner to come to US for their needs. Personal, intimate needs. Also INFJs are VERY able to just go with the flow. Spontaneity with a solid solid foundation.

[@christina2311]

I’m an ENFP dating an INFP. It’s total harmonious bliss. I’ve never met someone who understands me more than him. Perfect match.

[@Alyssa-im8tg]

omg me too!! im an enfp and my s/o is an infp and honestly we literally fit along so well, im convinced we're soulmates.

[@larsswig912]

I'm also female enfp dating an infp! we get along so well although some of our inner values are different. but, we have a lot in common and when we first started dating we both had to say several times, "am I you?"

[@ganapa3350]

I'm an INFP having a crush on ENFP. I feel connected the first time we talked! It's crazy. Just wish me luck guys, please. And what should I do now? Help!

[@KaroGlazerMusic]

Totally true. I'm an ENFP and YES we are really crazy!

[@PS-xb9hc]

Practical? Steady? Consistent? Able to laugh at nonsense ....sounds like INFJ! Hello!😁💕

[@IndigoBellyDance]

ENFP spiderweb of thoughts 💭 😂😂😃😄😁😆 Oh so true!!! I feel bad for people who have to listen to me.... man do we get sidetracked and combine 8 things at once and forget not everyone is in our heads :)

[@acharich]

😭😂😭 I've done this..!

[@TadTalkss]

Same haha

[@TeraHammer]

INFJ here: it is so nice to not need to seek any underlying thoughts of you ENFPs. We understand what you mean with your words, and you put our thoughts/feelings into words.

[@GUYEDITINGS]

HAHAHAHHAHA ME AND MY BEST FRIENDS HAHAH HOLY SHIT

[@AshJae]

🤣🤣🤦‍♀️

[@tishallabrownlee4190]

You are spot on........ My husband and I have been married almost 17 years & he's a ENFP I'm a INFJ I've spent years analyzing him he's my best friend and you sound just like him and you are exactly right with those expectations when you do these things he's a infectious toddler in a candy store but if you do anything that are the don't he can be a nightmare 😂 which isn't him at heart...... Great video!!!!

[@amandawagers4462]

INFJ here, I love this video because these are all things that I as an INFJ just naturally do lol, I've been getting to know and ENFP man here lately and it's like honey to him, or at least that's how he acts (watching some ENFP videos to better understand him)

[@bartz5641]

An overlapping property we like as ENFPs is TOLERANCE , let us be who we are! We fall in love, just let us be.

[@Sweeneytv]

Yes! Just love me already

[@NikiBThatsMe]

The moment he mentioned the spontaneous singing of Disney songs.... Yup, that's me in a nutshell haha

[@CinnamonCorndog]

As an ENFP and type 4 enneagram. I've realized that most of the time I want someone to be my number one fan, and encourage and support me, so that I can tell them they're wrong and disparage myself. Lol I'm working on it.

[@ellier2018]

OMG I thought I’d never find a fellow enfp type 4!! It’s weird, some days I feel like an energetic atomic bomb at a party and then disappear off somewhere to reflect on the meaning of life and death. 🤦‍♀️ pretty unstable combination LOL. Usually enfp are associated with 7’s but the enfp 4 is an interesting combo

[@CinnamonCorndog]

@@ellier2018 thats so interesting that your experience is so similar to mine. My right hand has an owl tattoo with a bunch of esoteric symbols and AASB (as above so below) on my knuckles, and my left hand has a neon flamingo in sunglasses, a neon pineapple and the word VIVA on my knuckles....illustrating the polarity of how I'm wired. Tons of energy, charismatic lover of life, and also extremely introspective, and sometimes unbearably melancholy. Lol!

[@ellier2018]

@@CinnamonCorndog those tats sound rlly 😎 cool. Enfp 4’s switch from Edgar Allen Poe poetry to dank memes so quickly 😆

[@larryclark9380]

Worthwhile video. I was looking to better understand my genius and sometimes off-the-wall thirty year-old daughter. She is an ENFP 100%. I am an INTJ. Have a good day!

[@ganymede242]

So amusing listening as an INTJ. I do all of those things automatically and effortlessly. Come to me ENFPs!

[@thefilipinojoe]

ENFP here.. Extremely picky and not at all interested in having a serious romantic relationship with anyone unless I’ve known them for a very long time and fully know, unconditionally love and trust them, and vice versa. There’s just way too many creepy people in this world to be rushing into any type of relationship, whether work pals, friends, casual flings, or more. Staying single is perfectly fine for me and maybe the best scenario, as my independence, alone time, and freedom are a must. I agree that a life partner would need to be independent and a positive influence, but also always learning, growing and improving, as well as adventurous enough to be willing to join me on my adventures, which are never ending and thus requires a very special person to keep up. Realistically not expecting to meet such a person 😂 and that’s perfectly fine. My life is a fun and fantastic adventure as is. As for my ideal partner, that is an ESFJ (male).

[@nompumelelostoffberg5492]

As an INTJ I always thought ENTP's are the best match for us. Then I soon learned it's actually ENFP... Hoping your channel will enlighten me on ENFP. I am all ears! You doing a great job though very informative!

[@phoebesanchez8915]

Hey intj😸😉🙂🙃

[@nompumelelostoffberg5492]

Hey how are you

[@dreamluvr1600]

I LOVE INTJs!

[@jesssss12]

I disagree. It’s a good match initially, because “opposites attract” but you’ll soon find out ENFPs are much more focused on validation from their external world. That goes very far away from INTJ lone wolf standard. That said I have dated so many ENFPs that I noticed some are more in need of validation than others, it is not a standard. Personality isn’t a standard truly. Entj, Entp or a very relaxed ENFP is a good match. Dig into the person not just the surface face value. I noticed working with personality people come in all flavors and colors, while there are some super independent ENFPs there might be some super dependent ENFPs and match with a certain set of people better than others.

[@gabrielnadia1085]

​@@jesssss12ENFP and INTJ are the mirrors to one another. They are looking at each other from a distance when unhinged and touching nose when matured. That is why they immediately connect when first meet. They recognize themselves. Now they have to go back and acknowledge every part of them that is in their significant other. Accept. And enjoy.😊

[@gidzboxbox8839]

This is the best video ever to describe what an enfp likes. I agree with every video. Never take this video down and keep on posting. New subscriber right here

[@jans.g6033]

Step 1: be a good listener Me: okay... I can do that. Step 2: encourage them and help them even in their crazy passions Me (an INTJ): ....but I'm yet to learn the art of being optimistic.

[@gabrielnadia1085]

You are the perfect match though because optimistic is not lying. You listen to your ENFP and you give feedback. When it is bad, you call it bad or you just wait for the next crazy thought that is generally good. If you communicate your way of communicating IN THE FIRST PLACE, there will be no problem. "I don't condone errors but I love to listen to your train of thoughts. If you say something Amazing I will tell you, otherwise I will overlook with a kiss❤" Come on now!

[@SolidSiren]

Wow communication is really valuable to ENFPs

[@bubbleartlive]

As an enfp I'm very attracted, as a friend or romantic partner if someone adds interesting points and build offs an idea we are talking about..... omg I just wrote that as you said that bahahaha

[@Eponagirl0810]

My intuition and feeling values have never changed over the years. They are the highest possible...like a person on a seesaw without anyone else on the other end...idealism with a large dose of realism attached. My intuition is very strong, and I am grateful for this. Hopefully I will find my soulmate...a true love, like my parents had, one that is not manipulative and without gaslighting. I want to experience the beauty of sharing myself in true intimacy with a trusted loving partner...I more than welcome the thought.

[@bloodrune329]

A friend in my anatomy class once described me as a “tree” because we would be dissecting a cat and I would ask him what kind of car he drove

[@licyawatidewi1327]

he mentioned a mathematician. meanwhile me: an ENFP mathematician 👀

[@Sweeneytv]

You are a God among ENFPs

[@legendzfall]

I think I need to find an ENFP asap. I do all of these things without even thinking about it. (ESTP)

[@phoebesanchez8915]

Well ya wanna hang sometime. Lol. Even if it is via internet haha. 😸😺

[@gracegreyling2472]

Welllll hello! hahaha

[@amanifestasticlife842]

That's so crazy - enfps looking for intjs hehe

[@amanifestasticlife842]

That's so crazy - enfps looking for intjs hehe

[@sacredwaters9]

👀👀👀

[@zozezo9771]

yes as myself an ENFP im trying to watch a video about loving myself

[@maryye3729]

I am laughing about the rule part because as an INFJ there's no rules but we get irritated quite a lot and people sometimes demand that we "lay out the rules" and I am like... uh I am not trying to make you obey any rule... it's just I can sense it when you are not exactly being supportive and friendly, you think I can't tell, I get irritated and you try to accuse me of being unpredictable lol, but my ENFP friends have simply never pressed my button, and I am like "see there's a person who doesn't do rules but doesn't ever press my button, no need for rules hhhh"

[@danad401]

I’m a very extroverted ENFJ that’s been in love with a very extroverted ENFP for years. I know we aren’t ultimately compatible but the feels just don’t go. He’s pretty amazing!

[@Sweeneytv]

Aing and katara are that combo from avatar the last air bender

[@danad401]

Sweeneytv I may have to check that out.

[@gretals9782]

Don't worry if MBTI says you're not compatible. Make that decision yourself☺

[@manojjainism]

I am an enfp and enfj is my most favourite personality type

[@danad401]

Manoj Jain 💕 Oh wow! That’s awesome! Do you have any tips for me since you have some understanding of my personality type?

[@kiznyctslyer6408]

Why does keep seing these comments on how INFJ and ENFP find each other makes me so damn jealous and excited at the same time?🥺🥰😭 Like, where is my ENFP??

[@jaybaeluv92]

You have restored my faith in ENFPs my dude! I'm an INFJ and lately I've been questioning if we actually do vibe like most people say we do. I've only met a couple ENFPs in my life and yeah, we've clicked somewhat. Over time I thought it just might be me, and just decided that it was OK and to move on with the fact that maybe you guys don't like INFJ's as much or maybe my INFJ-ness wasn't the right fit for you guys. But as you gave your points I was like, "DUDE, he's describing ME!!"--maybe minus the silly just a bit. (Going for my doctors in Psychology and sometimes I bypass silly a bit too much when I'm focused and in the zone to help people). And I guess it really didn't occur to me that you guys are basically US but flipped with a bit of different spice!! I was HOOKED when you said, "driving around town in onezies and singing Disney's Hercules!" A person like THAT- is DEFINITELY my ideal type!!! I value listening and nourishing others potential while sometimes needing that extra nudge to let the world see my crazy side too! Thank you for this video!!! You ROCK!!!!

[@Sweeneytv]

haha. Glad I was able to give you the boost thanks for sharing

[@nala1684]

Fellow INFJ here Good luck for the doctors. I'm also going to study Psychology :)

[@jaybaeluv92]

Nala Nala That's awesome!! Good luck to you too!! It's NOT easy!

[@TheCreeperBosses]

Hey, my brother is INFJ, im ENFP, and its literally the best thing ever when were together, especially having grown up together were unstoppable and just keep generating ideas (both being graphic artists) and deep discussions, and stupid reactions and funny spontaneous jokes. Its that the compatibility is on so many different levels, that both share. Whereas other types may just like me depending on a phase or whatevs, my whole person is understood and executed only when im with him. And its a great feeling for both of us ! So feel better, i think INFJ are the best for us ENFP and vice versa ^^

[@voyance4elle]

From my experience as an ENFP with an INFJ boyfriend, I can tell you we are able to bring that sillyness out of you 🥰 it's magical. My bf is always soooo serious but somehow after many months in the relationship with me, he started to let his weirdness come out, his crazyness, his goofyness... All that good stuff was hiding in there all that time 💖 We are so happy 🙏 I am so in love... 🔥💕

[@bananafanalll6651]

I love this video oh so much!! You are too funny!! I’m an enfp woman and it’s so cool to see an enfp man! Everything you said was spot on!! it’s just funny to hear it from a male perspective

[@idyllicallysweet403]

Yesss I seem to be looking into everything of an enfp but the humour won me over! I always get misunderstood when I try to express my kind of humour but it seems to align with the enfp types. :'3

[@EtherealAthena]

lmao fun fact his points on falling for an introvert that suck the energy out of you, and that we hate too many restrictions is why i broke up with my ex Revisiting the video 6 months later so glad i listened to him - i can NOT be your only source of sunshine!!

[@MaxAigner]

I hope you know how deeply helpful your videos are to my life. keep up the great work! #ENFP!

[@Sweeneytv]

I appreciate that! Thank u.

[@Uncle_Jester]

Be the METHOD to their MADNESS. Help your Carebear focus. The things you lovelies can accomplish when you finally find your "THING"..... WOW

[@NaturallyHigh]

I’m an ENFP and I’m developing a knack for spotting INFJs. They’re my favourite people.

[@SirJohnAlexander]

Thank you very much for this content. As an ENFP this gave me great insight in both myself and my current relationship.

[@MKAndreassen]

I married an ENFJ - So far so good. If you want an ENFP, don't be boring.

[@parsajeihoun1125]

You are 100 percent true about the independence

[@24hrdiner]

It's so bizarre that a total stranger understands me so well - ENFP

[@MrZitrex]

You are basically describing INTJ personality...

[@Atlas-ck9vm]

I am an INTJ and I find naturally myself in all of those traits.

[@emolly93]

SO TRUE! One of the top qualities that i look for in a partner is an "active" listener!

[@TheAcrenshaw]

Okay so I'm an INTJ and he's a ENFP. I have five of the six qualities that you explained. I'm hoping you said them in order of importance. But maybe not because that sixth one you listed, must be number for my ENFP because we've gone from dating to roommates, to boy/girl friend, to breaking up, and presently' roomates. Thanks for the video, it was enlightening.

[@txorchid0006]

Sweenytv, you seem to describe my ENFP boyfriend to a T. And guess what? I'm an ISTJ female. He and I are very happy together! Prior to watching this, I was puzzled about why my boyfriend enjoys my companionship so much. After all, aren't ISTJ's too stuffy and boring? lol Now I get it. Sweenytv, your 6 tips describes me. So THAT'S why just being my normal self seems to make my boyfriend so happy! :D It's my mission in life to be his heart's Safe Place. Your honesty about the way ENFP's react made a few light bulbs go off in my head. :) Thanks for helping me to better love and accept my ENFP in the way he needs. Reader, if you want to become your male ENFP's Safe Place, here's some key tips that work for me: --Despite his emotional ups and downs, I always accept him where he's at. --I fully engage in his fantasy adventures and his big dreams. For an ISTJ that takes adjustment, but it's worth it! --I love him when he shines bright--he's like a dolphin flipping through a rainbow. I love him when he gets dark--I simply call him my beloved "Dr. Crow," and roll with it! lol I give him room to be dark about the world. But when he's dark about himself, I listen, and lift him back up again. --I open up to him about my emotions, without him having to ask. It's hard for an ISTJ to make that leap of faith. But it's so worth it! For Sensors reading this, it gets easier and easier with practice. --I keep my rules simple with him. (And yes I do love rules, yet I ditch being a "rule Nazi.") --I accept our polar-opposite interests. As a Sensor, I don't have a love for the abstract. Yet, for my ENFP man's happiness, we talk regularly about philosophical dilemmas, social justice, existentialism, etc. We playfully debate. All this gives me more reasons everyday to marvel at his brilliant ENFP mind. --I listen when he lets me know I'm being too controlling, and we now negotiate much better than at the start. We treat each other as equal partners. --And prior to meeting him, I actively sought to become a better active listener and encourager. Sweenytv, thanks so much for this video!

[@colleen1396]

I have been in a relationship with an ENFP for almost two years as an INFJ

[@carawilliams1506]

Super accurate! Im and ENFP and I love being random and silly. I literally called my bestfriend at 1 am to make homemade donuts then jump on the trampoline singing Disney songs lol...and that was a great night..morning? Ha 😄

[@gretals9782]

I'm the same way! Spontaneity is so fun

[@jasmineadrianolucht]

I'm an ENFP and this video made me laugh. Everything is true for me!!! 😬😂

[@jessicabrandt9611]

I love it 100% spit out my drink with laughter at one point !!! 😂😂☺️🤗🎉

[@Allulathepoodle]

Okay but as an Enfp did other Enfps kept getting distracted by the stuff in the background... I just kept thinking that his garage looked as cluttered as my room after I said I cleaned it lol 😂 ( What I did try 🤦🏻‍♀️)

[@NicoleMalkin]

So happy I found this page!!! So informative, thank you ☺️

[@zakariaslayer715]

the best thing that i'm as an INTJ i do all of that without even thinking of it except making rules . because rules guides us to better result in our works

[@zugarglider3603]

1. Share your opinions and interests with us( BUT DON'T ,I REPEAT DO NOT TRY TO PUSH UR BELIEFS ON US) 2. Be passionate 3. Don't view us as someone who can fix you 4. be mature but don't take yourself to seriously 5. TELL US ( we are oblivious and may not even have noticed you and will tell u straight up if we feel the same, even if we don't like you we will be impressed with your bravery, honesty and communication skills) 6. Be interested in and value what we have to say and what we think about things At least for me personally if I like someone I'll just tell them but ik other ENFPs in my life who don't

[@cassandramessenger631]

As an ENFP, I totally agree about the independent part... I was in a relationship with a guy who I thought was independent and had his own friends- but then he had a falling out with them so when I went and did my own things with my friends he got insanely jealous and couldn’t handle it. It was just a big turn off and I didn’t know how to tell him cause when I tried he got defensive...

[@Sweeneytv]

yup. It's hard when that is coupled with no trust and they are a little co dependent.

[@soulfulspec]

I've been a silent viewer for about 7 months but I can't anymore. I so have a crush on you. Sincerely, - infj

[@robertzsombok7661]

Seeking attention and sapping energy has nothing to do with being an introvert. There just are people like that.

[@Yamengo1]

Everything is right. Rule #4 - nightmare I lived in. I as ENFP was in relationship with ISTJ...

[@Sweeneytv]

I’m sorry

[@manojjainism]

Don't be with istj

[@raratey]

Hahahahaha the Micheal Scott comparison hurts a little but it's true.

[@JonasAnandaKristiansson]

Yeeeeeees another video of you!!! :) And I think you are ON POINT from what I learned and intuited about my favorite type - ENFP. Bless man!!

[@NiiroTenshi]

so true all you say, thanks and have a joyful year 2020!

[@nancycole1128]

Thanks for this video it was helpful. Yes we have the personality types, but then there is the Sun Signs and the moon signs. My last boyfriend was an ENFP Pisces but his moon was in Taurus, so although he was adventurous, he was consistent and highly romantic. Currently I'm interested in another ENFP and he is Capricorn with moon sign of Gemini but this one seems to be a little bit more all over the place, of course because Gemini is an air sign. I am an infj sun in Leo moon in Aquarius.

[@alejandrom.garcia7139]

Wow, this absolutely describes me. You have given me words to understand what I am looking for.

[@klaudiaowczarek1642]

Its kinda sad that comment section is like: INFJ and INTJ have chances And other types who love any ENFP : Life is unfair why I took that stupid test when I was young, now I’m looking at life from MBTI perspective

[@JanKatrinaGuanzon]

Yes. I'm independent and I don't want anyone to depend on me so much like emotionally, physically or mentally. Like we really do care and we can give it freely to anyone who's needing it but when someone always needing us and attending to their needs always can be very draining for us.

[@Professa06]

Everytime I hear info on ENFP's it's so amazing how it speaks to all of my quirky ways. As an ENFP, I have to say the moment I feel like an option verses a priority I'm giving side eyes and eventually I fall off....like Casper sometimes unfortunately.

[@RichAloha]

As an ENFP myself, I can totally vouch for what you say at 10:37 so FIRE! :)

[@nathanielthompson366]

TY recommended: '6 ways to tell if an ENFP is into you' Me, an INPT who recently made an enfp character in dnd: "character study?"👀

[@davidhardy4419]

OH MY GOD! Literally just got read. So true about everything.

[@let_it_sin_kin]

YAS that's what I needed! (I am an infj lol)

[@Sweeneytv]

you are welcome

[@angalarockz]

We hate rules because we hate routines. If you are the type to plan every hour of every day or you like to have a routine, you are a turn off for us (ENFP). We like new and exciting things. We like to go with the flow and see the possibilities. We get bored doing things over and over.

[@zhariaorume7935]

goshh im craying ,...😲😭 i need ENFP asap,.. He is definitely the one for me

[@Clark0907]

As an ENFP this is SO TRUE every single point was on par and as I was watching this I was telling my boyfriend what he was saying and he was like that is so you☠️

[@barbaralyn7019]

Have you ever heard of Alex Paulos? He wrote a book called "Recognizing Faces". He has a personality typing business called "InnerShift". He can tell by facial features, movement, and how a person smiles what Myers/Briggs type you are. ENFP's smile with their whole faces, they have a direct gaze, they are people persons (as opposed to preferring non personal interaction) , and they have curved jaws (no angle in the jawbone).--among other things. I can tell the people on here that post profile pictures with a smirk or a smile are probably on the right track... ;-)

[@micheleaaa]

soooo ENFP and INFP have a good chemistry together? i mean, for a relationship

[@angelagremo2028]

Yes Yes Superiper yes I LOVE INFP!

[@aggelikiap]

Don't give advice, give support Don't try to calm us down when we're complaining, just agree Thank you :)

[@lexiemaep7930]

I'm an ENFP and I have never met anyone like what you described😂. I'm like all the things you described but never found one for myself

[@lexiemaep7930]

@Enrique G he did not describe an INTJ. I was married to an INTJ and work with 2 more. I cant stand INTJ. He is describing an ENFP. So I only date ENFPs from now on.

[@lexiemaep7930]

@Enrique G INTJs stifle ENFPs and they are critical and are too logical. They are judgemental and dont trust anyone. Not good for ENFP

[@lexiemaep7930]

@Enrique G ok thank you

[@lexiemaep7930]

@Enrique G sorry, I guess I am a little bitter about having wasted so much time going for intjs

[@phoebesanchez8915]

@@lexiemaep7930 uhm. maybe you have never considered that you are describing an undeveloped intj and you're letting your emotional centers talk through you. 😐 ENFP talking here. My intj husband of 10 years has learned never to stifle me and actually finds me an inspiration to be more positive and social. He listens to me and I listen to him. They may not trust many but they do trust some. every mbti personality type has weaknesses and flaws and every mbti personality type as undeveloped members. Interested in developing members consistently you may feel a grudge against said personality type. I am so sorry you went through such

[@XaZtheDismember666]

party chameleon just like infj (if they party) xD damn so similar but so different :D

[@mysterroniouscherry326]

Wow that leeching part, so accurate. Knew someone like that before. I really don't mind him wanna be friends with my friends ofc, but I'm ticked off when I see him literally following my every step, talking to who I talk to, and always there wherever I go, like what are u doing bro? 😅

[@sayakchakrabarty]

One and only way: Be an INTJ 😅

[@emmaemma2323]

ENFP: I agree with lots of this: Positive feedback, check. Independence, check. Sillyness- definitely the most important! But independence means that you have a life together and a life separately from one another. I really disagree about the rules thing. I find it more attractive if someone is uncompromising with their values. I think it makes more sense, for all types, to find someone whose shares the same values. Honestly, how is making a vegetarian meat showing love? As an ENFP I expect my partner to support my values and crazy ideas, and so naturally, I want to do the same thing for my person. It seems selfish to say I will only show someone love how it works for me, even if it doesn't work for them. And I have a lot of friends of all genders and if my boyfriend didn't like that, he would not be my boyfriend for very long.

[@ruthlessruth4197]

THANK YOU FOR THE TIME STAMPS

[@tracyolexys8356]

Bro, you’ve got this ENFP situation down. This helps me understand me more 👍🏽 Respect! P.s. We are Sarcastic chameleons 🔥🔥

[@katielui131]

1. yes! 2. yes!! doest mean you're pleasing ENFPs fakely, but this goes hand in hand with 1.: if you're really actively listening and you're being encouraging and if you love them, even if you don't necessarily agree with us, you could still give constructive feedback in a positive tone. 3. yes!! just don't be needy. It's attractive for someone to have their own passion and knows their shit. yes I as an ENFP am very loyal. 4. yes, I am okay to follow rules if they're within my capabilities to do I'll do my best to follow them, and it just has to be "possible" you know. And also it's important to not make a fuss and get into an argument if rules are occasionally broken, accidentally. because if an ENFP loves you, they're trying hard to make you happy so appreciate their effort in learning your rules. 5. yes! well, I am not moody, but yes can be very emotional and look into things very/too much. yeah I actually also think that ENFP is hard to be with another extraverted person, imo. 6. yes don't be so serious. I am okay and do like some serious moments, and it's ofc important for serious quality time, but not like 24/7 sternness.

[@A.R.I.A.N.A.]

As ENFP it is strange that i want to have rules? i mean :/

[@bakamono2630]

Put on a party hat 🤣 That's exactly one of the things that I developed when I met an ENFP.