#6 Why the Feminist Life Script Makes Most Women Miserable: w/ Joy Pullmann-The Suzanne Venker Show

[@emilieberkman57]

All I ever wanted to be was a stay at home mom but my feminist mom and misguided dad pushed me to find a career. Nothing resonated for me so I worked as a nanny. They didn’t guide me in how to find a good man or be in a healthy relationship (cuz they were divorced and toxic and didn’t know how). I eventually found a man in my mid 30s and fortunately got pregnant right away. But we’ve struggled financially because neither of us had proper guidance and just “had fun” our whole adult lives leading up to family. I’m now 38 and dying to get pregnant again, but have struggled with multiple miscarriages last year and difficulties getting pregnant this year. My 4 year old is adamant that she wants 6-9 kids when she grows up, and obviously this might change as she gets older and has a more realistic view of life and motherhood, but my partner and I are dedicated to guiding her to find the right guy and start her family young if she consistently wants to be a mommy (which I hope she does).

[@carmgenuardi1738]

I spent my twenties going after my career because I too thought that's what I was supposed to do in our society these days. I was happy but I regret not having my children when I was younger. I totally agree with everything being said here and wish all young women would listen and learn from this wisdom. I totally would have done things differently. I am too old now to change anything, but I worked full time for 6 years while my children were very young and I regret not being there for them. Only now that I am working from home due to the pandemic do I see what I did wrong and the many blessings motherhood brings. Thanks for sharing this with us.

[@michaelsix9684]

my late mom who had six kids, had the same concerns you do, relax, you can only do what you know, when you know more you can do more or better, relax and forget the past, it's done, focus on today and the future

[@carmgenuardi1738]

@@michaelsix9684 thank you 😊 Agreed. I count my blessings and focus on making the future better.

[@advocate1563]

Life is an autobiography - don't let others write the script. Spend time with yourself to know.your deepest desires and less time with others comparing notes.

[@whydoesitworryyou2547]

wow, thats very cool, thanks

[@lccp690]

We also have 5 kids and I have been stopped so many times when we’re out by elderly people. I really feel like they truly appreciate children and family. I’m never stopped by women my own age.

[@louis-vd3ur]

women your age are bitter and trying to prop up their empty barren lives with their "careers". I find women over 30 nauseating and truly disgusting.

[@cherry6609]

I'm a 21 year old woman, I've been studying the feminist waves, MGTOW and just human biology and philosophy when it comes to gender and sex for about 2 years now and I stumbled upon your collaboration with Stefan Molyneux which I thoroughly enjoyed it. Now I'm gonna have to binge watch your videos. Thank you sincerely. You now have a new subscriber, listener and book reader.

[@donotresuscitatechannel7257]

What are your thoughts on MGTOW? I’m not trying to bait you with that question. I’m not mgtow, but I can see their frustrations.

[@cherry6609]

@@donotresuscitatechannel7257 My thoughts are, the men have every right to be frustrated. Some men were lied to about a woman's nature and that led to have a false idea of romance. Some had mothers who were toxic therefore they dated toxic women. Others simply were toxic themselves and dated/married toxic women, then blamed the woman for being evil. I think the MGTOW community is extremely diverse in bitter and sorrow. I've changed in the year since I wrote my previous comment. The men I follow now and look up to are George Bruno and Elisha Long. To me, they acknowledge women's nature but they are masculine and secure in themselves.

[@donotresuscitatechannel7257]

@@cherry6609 I agree. I’ve been aware of the red pill idea & mgtow since ‘01, I was 21 yrs old. Even since I was a teen I was very interested in social dynamics & what men/women were attracted to. I’ve always adored women & didn’t take it personal when they act harsh or cruel but it can be frustrating. I enjoy watching all varieties of these channels but I don’t get sucked into the extreme jaded mind set (which can be Very difficult at times). Can’t just blame the women, the guys have been deceived also. I’m thankful for women like Suzanne. And good luck to you.

[@cherry6609]

@@donotresuscitatechannel7257 I had to detox and stop watching most of them because like you mentioned sometimes you can get too jaded. I was beginning to hate myself and wish I wasnt a woman. I had to then change amd watch feminine videos that encouraged healthy femininity. Good luck and bless you. We're gonna need all the luck we can get.

[@QED_]

@@cherry6609 Props. Relationships are such a complicated issue . . . that I find most discussions fail to consider one or another major aspect. For example, relationships are nothing less than an inquiry into the meaning of Life -- which few people are competent to approach. Breaking the age-old relationship model that we still had in the 1950s . . . was a "Chesterton's fence" level mistake. It's not easy to fix in a short time. I'd bet against it being fixed . . .

[@andrewking9435]

Why are women so easily and strongly manipulated by culture that they allow it to superseed their own thoughts and goals in life?

[@regulardude7961]

I agree, but I think the men fall for it too. Maybe not quite as much at the women, but who knows. From what I understand women are more susceptible to group think for biological and survival reasons.

[@Akm72]

@@regulardude7961 Possibly, but it is also the case that women have been subjected to a much more intense propaganda campaign than men have, since the 1960s.

[@johnmills3163]

BECAUSE WOMEN ARE FAR MORE LIKELY TO ' COMPLY ' & they want to ' BELONG TO THEIR SOCIAL GROUP OF OTHER WOMEN ' !

[@regulardude7961]

@@Akm72 good point. As with virtually all things, especially related to people, there are multiple causes. There are likely more causes then even the ones we mentioned. And sometimes they work together. For example, perhaps it is because women are more susceptible to propaganda and group think that they were targeted more (with propaganda) in the first place.

[@Akm72]

@@regulardude7961 Again, that is very possibly true. However I think the rationale given at the time was that women get to influence their children more than men do so if you want to change society in the long term you focus on 'educating' women. It might also be the case that women tend to be less sceptical than men however it is clear that the people who were seeking to change society didn't think they would be able to influence women via their husbands. Maybe women tend to be more likely to uncritically accept information they get from 'official' sources or from other women than information they get from their husbands. :D

[@michaelsix9684]

40 % of all children born in America now are born out of wedlock, this will lead to bad outcomes for many children in adult life, we now have the lowest marriage rates ever recorded in our history, these are not healthy trends for our society

[@louis-vd3ur]

@user-bs7gz9ff6h it used to be against the moral law hence orphanages and swift marriage.

[@Daisylilly_]

@user-bs7gz9ff6htrue and very true

[@mariobrito427]

New subscriber here! Just found out your channel and am currently binge watching on your videos. It's frankly refreshing to hear a discussion between two bright women who don't follow the feminist / intersectional / SJW bandwagon. Thank you so much for doing this!

[@coiledsteel8344]

What REALLY MATTERS is are you aware of MGTOW? 🤔

[@xyzct]

I heard an absolutely hilarious joke! _Once upon a time, a woman put down her phone._

[@jeradblazek677]

Modern feminism= women should be more like men. Men= very few of us are attracted to other men. Moral of story, be who you are, man or woman, not who others say you should be.

[@michah321]

Actually, what I learned from feminism is that men should be more like women.. but that probably doesn't make it any more popular in this conversation...

[@michah321]

I totally agree as far as be who you are not what others say you should be. I think that's the best way to summarize any of these discussions.

[@countryboyred]

@@michah321 And furthermore, why is it not ok to just be a man in today’s society? Does my existence threaten you just because I’m a man? Why should I have to be more like a woman? Why can’t I just be a man?

[@michah321]

@@countryboyred I agree. I was kind of being hyperbolic. I just meant I think it's good for guys to let themselves feel feelings and stuff. But most guys do feel comfortable with that anyway

[@countryboyred]

@@michah321 You seem like a cool person. I don’t have a problem with feminism, but keep in mind that a lot of the same feelings you have about MGTOW (it being toxic) are the exact same feelings a lot of regular people have about feminism. Try to see things from others perspective. And extremes are bad on either side. I don’t advocate for MGTOW or feminism because to me it seems like both of these ideologies rip the sexes apart from each other. But that’s just my personal opinion.

[@teblogger8475]

Thank you, Suzanne. Keep it up.

[@coiledsteel8344]

YES, but Don't Fall for it, and get married to ANY Women still influenced by Feminism!

[@andreaadams3062]

I agree with all of this and do wish I had started a family a little earlier than I did. I always wanted to get married and start a family young (and understood the value of that), but life just didn't turn out that way for me. Now I am glad I didn't marry the a**holes I dated in my 20s, and am happily married to the most wonderful man. I think it's important to acknowledge that life doesn't always go according to plan, and that's okay too. I also just have to say that being older doesn't automatically mean you're going to have a difficult pregnancy. I live a healthy active lifestyle and at 34 years old, my pregnancy has been a breeze.

[@robbyhorse6379]

The more progressive the the country gets the more unhappy everybody is. That doesnt seem like progress at all

[@saureco]

They will never reveal toward what they want us to progress.

[@michaelsix9684]

you're right

[@emilieberkman57]

My teenage nephews expressed wanting to be dads when they grow up and their mom was trying to convince them that lots of people are happy without kids. I was so bothered by her trying to convince her sons not to be dads (she’s woke). So I passionately told them not to waste their time and wait to find the right girl and start their families in their early to mid 20s. SIL was very uncomfortable with it but somebody needs to tell these young boys how to love their dreams of fatherhood!

[@kristenmoonrise]

I know this wasn't the point of your comment but it irks me how white liberals and the mainstream overall hijacked what "woke" means. My community (Black Americans) made up the word generations ago regarding being aware of systemic social injustices. It has nothing to do with teaching your sons to not be dads. So please use the correct terms - she's simply a misguided feminist.

[@wendymtzc]

@@kristenmoonrisethe word’s meaning has evolved and is no longer exclusively used the way you mention by AA, language evolves, there’s nothing wrong with that

[@kristenmoonrise]

@wendymtzc if everyone has a different definition of one word and you dismiss its origin then what meaning does it have? Misguided feminist still seems like a better fit for the person she described.

[@wendymtzc]

@@kristenmoonrise that’s what I’m trying to explain, its origin is irrelevant because the word has evolved, if you’ve been on social media you will understand what I’m saying, everyone is using the word in the same way as she is using it

[@kristenmoonrise]

@wendymtzc well I'm changing it back since there's 1000s of different definitions. A crazy white feminist isn't the same as a woke black person. Stop trying to make it so. We are not the same as you. That's clear as day whether social media or in real life.

[@sonofthesOUth77]

I can’t tell you how many times I was called “needy” or “desperate” because in my early 30s I dated with the purpose of wanting to get married and have a family. Now I’m my mid 40s following a divorce brought on by an unfaithful wife, I’m done!!!

[@louis-vd3ur]

you need to chastely court younger women who do not have college degrees and believe in God. That is the only hope of marriage in the future. Godly virgins are the ONLY women capable of happy marriage and motherhood.

[@michaelsix9684]

everything comes at a price, I'm 65, and began dating late mid 30s, the few women I found weren't happy, interested in kids or marriage, I quit dating at 46, it was too disappointing, and many women I knew even from high school never married or had no children, it's an okay choice, but I can think of five women I would have married had they been available or interested, I think so many ppl of 70s my generation will end up lonely

[@saureco]

The gender war will have casualties. We'll give them just as much sympathy as they've given us.

[@michaelsix9684]

dating is a huge nightmare now, so sad since we're only young once, and I've seen so much pain and loss in dating, marriage, and our society suffers

[@kinnish5267]

this is something that is so needed

[@amandafrench6214]

Love this! I had two kids immediately after marrying at 19. Now they’re teens and I yeah we could’ve had two more. She said no downside to having a big family, but we’d have to each work 2 jobs to afford five kids.

[@elmateo77]

I definitely wouldn't say there's no downside to having a big family, it might well be worth the sacrifices to some people but it definitely requires sacrifices especially if neither partner has a high income. It's possible to support 5 kids on one partner earning 70-80k per year in most places (not in big cities) but you won't be eating out or going on vacations or buying new cars and the kids won't be going to ballet class or wearing the coolest clothes or having mommy and daddy fund their college.

[@NWYVR]

I'm so glad i discovered this podcast! The topics are all so interesting and relevant. Each one that pops up on my screen I'm like: download! Download! Download! I have so much listening to do :)) So excited for my stroller walks now.

[@ifh4030]

Thank you both.

[@BG-sq7zf]

1st Take: "My advice to women is date all of them: the bad boys, the cool boys, the commitment-phobic boys, the crazy boys. But do not marry them. The things that make the bad boys sexy do not make them good husbands. When it comes time to settle down, find someone who wants an equal partner. Someone who thinks women should be smart, opinionated and ambitious. Someone who values fairness and expects or, even better, wants to do his share in the home. These men exist and, trust me, over time, nothing is sexier." Yours sincerely, Sheryl Sandberg, chief operating officer of Facebook 2nd Take: “My music is always going to make a woman feel like a bad bitch. When you make a woman feel like she’s the baddest bitch in the room, to me, that’s female empowerment.” Decently yours, Cardi B. My Humble Take: What most simps, feminist fe/males, white-knights, betas and conservative guys fail to realize: bad boys provide excitement, novelty, unpredictability and fun (fear, roller-coaster drama) to a new level. In other words, stability and commitment (no longer) won't cut it for today's 🦄. Why is that? Before she was your girlfriend, wife or lover, she already had been "run through" so many guys. And each time she slept with someone (both wo/men), she lost a part of her psyche, well-being or mind/soul/spirit. In other words, she is no longer able to have emotional attachment in a healthy or committed way. *Silent Weapons for Quiet Wars: An Introductory Programing Manual* by Anonymous *The Rational Male Series* by Rollo Tomassi *The Manipulated Man* by Esther Vilar *The Myth of Male Power* by Warren Farrell *The Feminist Lie: It Was Never About Equality* by Bob Lewis *Anatomy of Female Power* by Chinweizu Ibekwe *Men on Strike* by Helen Smith Isaiah 3:12 *Childish* leaders oppress my people, and *women* rule over them. O my people, your leaders mislead you; they send you down the wrong road. Proverbs 31:3 Don't give your strength (attention, resources, mental point origen) to women, nor your ways to that which destroys kings.

[@mrc2432]

@20:50 same. this is everything.This is excellent information.

[@garypierce7380]

Marriage isn't 50/50, it's 100/100.

[@wmhhealth2018]

Amen

[@saramoh8971]

I like that👌

[@jacobjones3916]

I just started listening to these videos over Christmas break. While I agree with Venker's views, I find it hard to believe that progressive/feminist/leftist women are miserable to the point of change. I think it's important to make that distinction. Yes, they may be miserable, but what good does it do anything if they project those feelings of misery by blaming others and hurting others? Moreover, are those women really facing the consequences of their choices or are their behaviors continually excused, covered up, or abetted?

[@577jrock]

Good point. They are validated at every turn, by every major cultural institution except for conservative churches. Why would they change? Even most men are afraid to hold women accountable for their behavior, let alone other women (they generally cover for each other). Loads of men, old and young, think that if they bend over backwards to be 'nice' to women that they will get laid. So they hold them to extremely low standards of moral character and behavior, and these women never mature morally. We are a culture of simps and brats

[@saureco]

Accountability is female kryptonite. Projecting onto men is the failsafe. So long as they can always blame men, they'll never have to be accountable and change.

[@thatsfunny2051]

I would have loved to have been married in my 20s, but it didn't happen. I'm 33 now and have given up, but I'm building a life that I can find meaningful in any case.

[@GrnXnham]

You're 33 and you've "given up?" You're still a baby!

[@thatsfunny2051]

@@GrnXnham Meh. I am basically resigned to remaining single. I don't know any Christian woman who has met her husband after age 30.

[@LisaS483]

@@thatsfunny2051 I got married at 40 and got pregnant naturally 4 months later. Nothing is impossible with God. Don’t give up!

[@thatsfunny2051]

@@LisaS483 that's an amazing story! Thank you for that

[@joshuahanenburg1580]

Marriage is a bad deal for men. That has to be acknowledged as well.

[@beebobox]

Today yes, it didnt used to be.

[@ready4sea301]

Women can withhold what they brought to the table, but men cannot. Then, women can walk away from their marriage, men cannot. They indefinitely have a dependent stuck to them, taking half his earnings and assets. This is the raw deal that is causing men to go their own way and avoid marriage altogether.

[@EnterTainment-vv1qs]

How is it a bad deal?

[@MrSheymie]

Divide and conquer. Who wins? Not women and not men.

[@dwaynejoyce1357]

Your opening monologue is a fantasy world in which a very very small minority of people primarily women would listen to in what i see as the epicenter of feminism and wokism that is North America. These insidious ideologies are well entrenched in modern society and will unlikely be put under any meaningful scrutiny in my lifetime.

[@ianmiles2505]

As the culture teaches.........who is dictating what the culture should be?

[@alistairbolden6340]

The schools mostly. And they tend to get shifted in there stance by young activist groups.

[@t.o.o.smooth5870]

The feminist programming is no joke. I really wish the majority of modern women could listen to this podcast. 90% of them have a sad future awaiting them. 😢

[@Financegirl12345]

I love your channel and appreciate the free content and I mean this from a really positive place as constructive feedback. The ad breaks make this unwatchable. I have KZbin premium as well so it’s only the sponsor ads that I’m even seeing. It might help to not play the music and do the “welcome back” and reintroduce your guest after every break because it feels like have the show is ads and transitions.

[@SocraticMethodGuy]

Too many commercials, i quit.

[@EnterTainment-vv1qs]

😂

[@douggraham8825]

Smart phones have made some of us unintelligent intolerable crazy idiots

[@grepora]

"The culture" presents a variety of options. Culture doesn't tell you which ones to choose. You choose which options are acceptable to you. Taking away a woman's right to make her own decisions about her body and her health is disrespectful, harmful, and arrogant. Women need to make decisions based on their values and by being informed. Choosing to have or not have a child is a right a woman has in modern America. Having a baby in your twenties is both the best and worst time. In your twenties, you are healthiest, more energetic, more resilient. Unfortunately, you also have the least resources: lower income, less knowledge, less experience. That is the quandary young women face. There is a large divorce rate because couples choose a partner for the wrong reasons and expect too much from another person or don't communicate positively. People want relationships, but they don't know how have a successful relationship. We think we do, but we don't. It is very complex. There are many factors to understand and manage.

[@vincelorino4394]

1 of the big problems is ; guys are actually okay if a woman wants to be "modern OR traditional" but nowadays theres a " half of column A half of column B. " method that us guys dont want to play ball with. We're fine with equality , we just dont like equality " when its convenient "

[@darkmanx8497]

I like the fundamentals of her advice. However, the *emphasis* she constantly puts on men and the income they provide rubs me wrong. A man... a husband, should be seen as far more valuable than his income. In another article she goes as far as to state that it’s his “identity”? Sure we need money to live, but that should not be his identity, or what he bases his worth around in that relationship. What about emotional support? Having her back through good and bad. The intimacy they share? Those are the things at the end of the day that should be most important. Without that you have nothing. Of course a mans work and being able to provide is very important to him. But marriage should be a hell a lot more than that (and he certainly better hope it is) as all too often women have a nasty habit of “loving” men, under the condition of what he provides at the time. How many women end up leaving (or emotionally disconnecting) from their good husbands after losing a job?

[@endthefed1448]

Dude you are spewing what women want to hear, a man's sacrifices lead him to an early grave. Live for yourself.

[@yarnarrutor9418]

You don't have to be a feminist to support women having easier lives than men. The red pill prepares you for tendencies just as you describe (women's love of men is more conditional than men's love of women). There is a subtext of Suzanne's message that women should enjoy their disproportionate privilege.

[@ct4074]

Don't fool yourself. Hypergamy is all about money...

[@rationalmale6265]

You are spot on. Well said.

[@QED_]

Relationships are such a complicated issue . . . that I find most discussions fail to consider one or another major aspect. For example, relationships are nothing less than an inquiry into the meaning of Life -- which few people are competent to approach. Breaking the age-old relationship model that we still had in the 1950s . . . was a "Chesterton's fence" level mistake. It's not easy to fix in a short time. I'd bet against it being fixed . . .

[@christiancdeb8308]

I don’t think that being a parent/mother should be an intellectual exercise.

[@saureco]

Which is why it was easier to make it a full time job in and of itself. But the boomers ruined it.

[@happyd1479]

All the money they put towards the free daycare why not just give it to women or families so mom can be with the baby at least until school

[@susansmith493]

If we're paying less in taxes (that's where the "free" everything comes from) you'd HAVE more money to stay home. FREE stuff is not the answer, not even for stay at home mommies.

[@chrishnah]

​@@susansmith493I agree with original commenter but your point is so valid as well. Especially since most government programs end up doing thw opposite of what they claim mitigate.

[@happyd1479]

I understand it comes from tax payers but honestly I support this ,over a lot of what taxes is currently being used for it kind of makes no sense to me for women to leave babies and young children to work to simply pay for daycare that needs to be subsidized by taxpayers for her to barely bring home anything at all ,makes more sense to just stay home or for the money they give to daycare just be used for that since early development is so crucial

[@susansmith493]

@@happyd1479 That's the point though. You'd HAVE more money if you paid less taxes. YOUd get to choose how to spend your own money. Demanding free stuff is not the answer. But ... people will continue to support things that raise our taxes, by demanding free everything. We're not only supporting all the free programs for citizens but hundreds of billions for citizens of other countries. People keep voting for higher taxes ... money that each family could decide how to use for themselves. I think one parent running the household and raising children is great but people keep basically voting AGAINST the American family by supporting folks who want us to support everyone else's everything. And quite frankly, women vote for this more than men, thus screwing themselves, because they refuse to learn the very basics of economics. Women lead the fight for "free" everything.

[@happyd1479]

@@susansmith493 I agree with you ,it's offensive to me when our tax dollars go to helping people who aren't even citizens while Americans needs are ignored and go unmet in my household if no taxes were taken from income it would be an extra 1200$ a month then you figure they tax just about everything so you would be saving money shopping etc I agree to many people aren't educated on basic things like civics ,economics,etc

[@NineInchTyrone]

Taxes shd aid one income families

[@hannag6546]

They don't get it lol

[@erwinbrubacker7488]

WOW, I married for love. 😥

[@damienbates]

Fundamentally Marriage is a raw deal for men in our current legal system. Women, especially career oriented women, are a huge risk as the get the children 90% of the time and bail out of the marriage, filing for divorce 70 to 80 percent of the time.

[@johnjohnson2137]

Too many ads, thumbs down. Otherwise, brilliant discussion.

[@NataliaNalitkina]

It's fantastic to stay home with your baby. Unfortunately, not every woman, who is married or not, can afford it. Maybe you should talk more about paid maternity leave?

[@ct4074]

More communism... Isn't that convenient!

[@maxcorder2211]

If you can’t afford children, don’t have them.

[@stallionshark1726]

Yeah, give me more tax payers money because I have the tingles to have a baby. GTFOH. Why should I pay for your feelings?

[@beans9499]

Most countries have paid maternity leave US is so FAR behind the rest of the world

[@577jrock]

Sacrifice. Don't have children if you aren't ready to sacrifice your standard of living for them. Kids don't require money, they require love. This whole notion that you need to have a certain amount of money in the bank per baby is just selfish, foolish garbage. Only feminists believe that nonsense, and men should stay away from feminists at all costs--not marriage material. Men go out and work, women stay home with kids. Unless you live in Manhattan or San Fran, 1 income can provide at least a working class/middle class lifestyle. If thats not enough for you then the problem is you being greedy.

[@davidjohnson2908]

All comments are by men. See the problem?...

[@iraneko6326]

More than that, I find the men in the comments bashing women hilarious as if the culture hasn't influenced them at all. From where I come from, divorce is not common, in fact, happens very rarely. Yet the men have been commitment phobic, constantly looking for a better catch or focusing wholly on their careers. I think that feminists and woman bashers are basically one and the same. I did marry the man of my dreams at 25 a couple of months ago who is on the same page as me.

[@saureco]

@@iraneko6326 "divorce is not common" Still around 50%, and 80% of those are initiated by women. So you have a 40% selection of women (2 out of 5) that will destroy you. That's not an inspiring statistic, nor an incentive to enter into a legally agreement with her and the government.

[@nessparadis6948]

@@iraneko6326 , I agree. MGTOW men and feminist women are different sides of the same coin.

[@LisaS483]

@@saureco 70% of first marriages are successful

[@saureco]

@@LisaS483 at what? Successfully taking a man's money and he gets no family in return?

[@russellheyns1846]

I am impressed by what she says. But she’s still very young. I wonder how she will “feel“ when she hits perimenopause. and Suzanne, I know you do not agree with her about the baby boomer versus the millennial selfishness. She openly admits that she had more kids for more elderly age support. I mean, come on.

[@susansmith493]

Women created, supported, voted for, applauded most of the societally damaging events going on right now. It's almost laughable to hear womrn whining about the trans identity politics mess when women mastered (feminist) identity politics. Women basically showed thevtrans community exactly how it's done. All of a sudden Women are saying "b b b ut we're different and need our own groups, teams, spaces," when in reality they'd have called anyone a sexist who stated that about boys and men.

[@callmeishmaelk767]

This is why they weren't allowed to vote.

[@adrianrose7703]

Fascinating reply.

[@fightfiendmiggs7473]

@ 27:05. Sexual marketplace value (SMV). I first read about it in the book The Rational Male.👍🏽

[@IvanAntolic]

What cc 2-3 Years betwen kids ? Ha? If you are in good health and adequate birth age, it’s 6months between births

[@callmeishmaelk767]

This guest, it's still all about her, she's having kids so she can post pictures of her brood on Facebook and care for her in her old age. Sounds like with her unplanned first pregnancy she realized having kicks provided better narcissistic supply. I don't hear anything special or traditional about this woman.

[@TP51JGF]

"Women need to be told this", as if they couldn't figure this out on their own over a short time frame. Weak role models in their lives/families and a sense of inflated ego and I can do it all on my own attitude. Most all realize that's not what they really want later in life.

[@prestonthomas5399]

Read through the comments, almost all men here haha not suprised but a shame

[@thereisnosanctuary6184]

We are all equals. We all spread coldcheeks and drop logs in a toilet. No betters. No ladies. No gents. Just people eating, talking, shitting.

[@jove1155]

No.

[@countryboyred]

That’s disingenuous. There are important distinctions between men and women that should be acknowledged and even celebrated. I don’t want every body to be exactly the same, that’s boring.

[@michah321]

I'm a feminist, and I'm really happy, and I have good self esteem and no one manipulates me. It sounds like it's underrated. It works just find for me.

[@paultacoma8282]

michah7214 how many cat's do you have?

[@michah321]

@@paultacoma8282 I have two beautiful cats. 🙂😺

[@michah321]

@Adam Bell I'd adopt 4 peeing yorkies before I'd EVER get another boyfriend... that's the truth! Being single is very underrated, I highly recommend it.

[@sokrechannel4217]

@@michah321 - " I'd adopt 4 peeing yorkies before I'd EVER get another boyfriend... that's the truth! Being single is very underrated, I highly recommend it." - that essentially makes you a dickless MGTOW

[@blobtv7444]

it may great now but it wont be as you get older, by that time you built up a toxic hateful personality so nobody will go near you