6 Worst Ways Anxiety Shows Up in Narcissistic Abuse survivors

[@246trixie]

You have really helped me to not berate myself for these obviously normal reactions to what i went through. I realise it was the circumstances i grew up in not something inherently “wrong” with me x

[@madelsigmaempath]

I can totally relate. For all narcissistic abused survivor, I wanna send you warm (hugs)

[@kristahackleylmt2064]

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[@jennyt5176]

I thought this was all just me. Thank you Danish. You are setting me free with every video and releasing the doves in my heart. Thank you. Thank you. Bless you.

[@Prabhunathachari]

Narcissist's self doubt was shifted to us😅

[@efsmoore2274]

I remember being like that my whole young adult life. Without realising, I moved from the family home to get away from a narc mother, only to find & marry a narc man. Within 4yrs i had a complete breakdown & was hospitalised. My heart goes out to anyone suffering at the hands of these evil monsters. Please, try to find your way out, one day at a time. You deserve to feel loved & valued.❤❤❤

[@efsmoore2274]

Danish, I pray for all that is good for you. You have a gift & you are helping people of all walks of life & all ages. I personally cannot thank you enough for explaining all the very complex thoughts & feelings in a way that people can understand & learn. I wish the very best of health to you & your family for the coming years❤

[@sonne78]

The short Videos are so clear and making understand everybody who experienced or came in touch with IT. THANK YOU

[@michelleloveday6929]

I feel bad for the times you have suffered so much. Bless your heart 💗

[@dynahmaranatha2954]

Wow....true.😢I wish I could make those closest to us....to totally understand how our experience has changed us in ways that we can not even explain.Thank you for helping us to see things so much clearer.

[@PhillipJackson-p2z]

❤I love this guy he's spot on

[@amber40494]

Thanks Danish, for years I blamed myself for these issues. I thought i was just a big loser

[@jayjellobean]

This one hit hard, friend. It's the random, frequent sobbing in public that really gets me.😢

[@kayodudu5190]

I can relate to a lot of them. Thanks Danish!! 2025 I need to start getting help.

[@epiphanychild3289]

The last one has haunted me for a very long time. These all are so true

[@Rasheens-Story]

I can’t believe this really used to be me because of my narc mother and then I ended up in the arms of another narcissist and had the same behavior until I finally gained the knowledge and common sense to know what was happening to me

[@madelsigmaempath]

Thank GOD for making you aware now❤keep that wisdom with you dear.

[@michelleaththas659]

So strange, this happened to me too. I grew up with a narcissist mother and married an other narcissist and carried on the same problems.

[@aestheticaillies441]

Wow, i feel so damaged. i hate seeing familiar people i know, in a different environment, and when i start to feel my emotions, i end up becoming a big fat cry bby

[@aiesha_23]

This is so me but I’m trying my best to acknowledge it and heal

[@RavinaPande]

Me too

[@ranidubai3338]

Painfully on point, grateful to you!

[@Neemi030]

Wow. You too good Danish. You desire an award too. I had all these symptoms however am doing better now as I continue with therapy

[@KnOfAvila]

My Narc Made Me Invincible. I'll Take On The Whole World If I Have To At This Point. Thank You ADONAI For Making Me Stronger.

[@kristahackleylmt2064]

❤ Yes.. I agree. These devils make me stronger.

[@kimcannon9340]

The truth in this almost brought me to tears Stay safe, everyone

[@b.maaouiamarwa7798]

when you cry over anything...very true ❤

[@SoTheMoviesAreAllComingRealNow]

Im so glad i found your channel. Shocked at how many of these & other things youve highlighted in your videos I was presenting after i got away. Its going to be 20 years in 2025.

[@SnarkNSass]

😢 can't stop crying today

[@AboveAndBeyond17]

The darkest time of the day,is before sunlight ! Hold on,you will be fine

[@jaimemelissa]

I'm so sorry, me too 😢 We're going to make it. ❤

[@KBArchery]

Praying for you both

[@kristahackleylmt2064]

❤

[@Kelli-ru7yy]

I have these signs but just do my best to live through it but the restroom one I was completely unaware of. I do that all the time. I remember shaking when singing for my church. Then I have anxiety over making new friends because of bad experiences with "flying monkeys." I used to eat snacks in the car because it was the only place I could have a snack peacefully. But I got over that when I was single. Started eating my snacks on the couch like a normal person.

[@bhanu.g6763]

Exactly.....I am slowly healing myself. Thank you for letting me know .....

[@HairbyNardia]

Meeting new people is absolutely gut-wrenching especially if we're going out to party or something and someone brings somebody I wasn't expecting to be there I'm like what 🤔 because I've had experiences where people either really love me or they really hat e me and when I really ha te me I've experienced people being very mean and cruel for no reason and they just met me

[@emmasuo272]

Omg it's me I even judge myself for existing and even eating it's now to the point that I don't eat at all literally I'm skipping meals just because I don't have to face my family members

[@petalflowers4765]

Awww…. I wish I could give you the biggest hug Danish for being a true survivor and thriving successfully in your life! 💚💚💚 I’m an overcomer as well! 😊

[@lavidamia9]

For that young lady or men reading this. Know we are here. We care for you. We want you to succeed. We value your life. You are part of what is called humanity. ❤❤❤

[@Kaligaia]

Thank you for your work❤

[@MandaHFunkhouser]

😢 how do I make these go away I miss the old me before I had to spend over a week in hospital cause he stabbed me in stomach with a dagger I continue to shut down every day am by myself can't go out in public no more

[@naturehealing4765]

😢😢So sad to hear that hope you heal from that trauma very soon.

[@Deepa-x9z]

Exactly....i was thinking its the way i was created by god.....but now realised narcissistic parents and narcissistic husband are responsible.....

[@Andro_de_fread7983]

Can you tell us how to overcome these

[@Chandravadancena]

If you know you know. It's actually sad and unfortunate if you can relate to this

[@meritahasani9750]

To anyone reading this stay strong. You're loved. Read get some sun. Get ur confidence up. Control ur emotions.❤❤God never forgets his people 🙏

[@catjustme7473]

Bahir, my mom is a narcissist and I just recognised my whole childhood in this video. I was in a music school and of course we had auditions at least twice a year and I was always shaking never being able to perform as a kid.The eating in front of others haunted me all my life because I am and was overweight and always believed I did not deserve food or I should be ashamed of eating....so many topics you have touched...avoiding people, social anxiety,continous self-doubt...I am aware now, still healing and it is so hard. good job helping me and others appreciate it

[@123Claywalker]

This happens because of Silent Treatment, and it is very criminal.

[@_soupdumpling_]

This is me. Every single day I tell myself to change but I can't.

[@Tee-lady]

Jesus helped me...try Him. Give Him your heart.

[@user-np4ge5wy4o]

Oh Danish .....after 5 years from divorce and all king of torture in court I feel more lost today than ever. It's like I am tired of fighting for my peace for too long and I am totally broke all of a sudden. I don't see any karma yet for him. May the Lord Jesus restore me and whoever is reading right now ❤

[@PavanGangal-uu7zi]

The peace is inside ur mind and demons can't touch it

[@justmemother2]

This explains why my Mom was so anxious and fearful. 😢

[@commentateur6114]

Exactly what I went through for years. Between 1999 and 2003, no self-esteem remained on me. I had a fear of flushing that paralysed my social bonds. Instead of living my life at my best, I was just calculating how to avoid people in order to not flush in front of them. All this social anxiety led me to psoriasis and stomach pain. My mother made me unsafe and almost turned me crazy in order to not turn herself crazy. Last but not least, I am considered as the bad son that hurt his mother what led me to avoid my family. May my witch mother pay the cost in the hearafter for what she did to our family (yes, she performs witchcraft) !

[@ShortcircuitDarling66]

Your spot on with what it feels like and they happen when they want and not always in order

[@petermcgill1559]

The way it seems to affect me is I cry very easily over anyone who's being sincere or anyone who does good in a sincere way I just cry

[@Karin_and_Bim]

you are good. right again 😊

[@ayoeaishiteru]

Honestly , This video is triggered me . I just remember a couple years ago, really strugle with my anxiety and my mind is full of fog, i never knew about NPD. I have no clue about Narc abused 😢 it’s really hurt when i remember how cruel they are

[@paulyisapepper]

Thank for sharing❤, im doing so much better now, without "it"

[@OriginalOne-z1g]

This explains a lot to me . Thank you

[@JoyandBliss_ZenBuddyZ]

So sad 😢😭 life is not a good thing for Us, all the survivors it's a grief, a pain, a tragic episode with a long phase of simply negative and negatives only 😅

[@no-grumpy-old-men]

I break out in a sweat at the slightest stress. Seeing people. Shopping. My face starts dripping. I blame this physical reaction on narcissistic abuse.

[@lynette6356]

Yup. Really showing up now. 4 yrs after a divorce from 41 yrs of marriage. Now my sister has been after me too. I think she’s going to try to use attorneys to harass me. I can’t seem to hide from these kinds of people. Getting afraid to step outside of my home. Becoming a recluse.

[@michellet1354]

So true never realised the affects it has but Ive lived them for years even now❤

[@Julestime88]

The food part really got me!!! 😮

[@cheyenneS4127]

It's torture... then it's embarrassing being seen by anyone when you're triggered and to have to explain "what's wrong with you??" ...I'm fighting a war i hope you'll never understand while trying not to inconvenience anyone around me... so don't be surprised I'm avoiding everyone and you never see me out and about. Alone is safer for me 💔

[@EdithMachuca]

All the cotidiane abilities and skills you once have are just gone and you just can't believe your body is talking to you without you giving it a single command. 😢

[@LRS11B]

Unable to make friends, fearful of eating in front of other people, fearful of seeing someone I know at the grocery store. I had a narcmother and a psychopath for a father, and my brother and grandparents were the flying monkeys.

[@ilamahida977]

Exactly same here, I and my elder son , both are narcissistic surviver and both are feeling same , my son doesn’t recognise these symptoms because still he doesn’t know what he has suffered, he still loves his father , and he obeys all the way his father, anyhow I sent him to foreign contry and he is doing his job, so now he is earning so he doesn’t rely on his father, but these symptoms are there, I can understand, it will go step by step , still I am with my young son and rely on my husband’s money, God please help me 🙏🏻

[@maureenshibley47]

I was the scapegoat of a narcissist mother and I had all of these symptoms as a teenager and adult

[@swarabhumi2486]

Been through it all.... Very painful

[@nuez23747]

Toxic shame shame based acts. I cry at once for no reason and then i realize I'm just so exhausted of having these repetitive patterns of narcissists. the body makes you sick if you don't process

[@ifeyinwaogedegbe3690]

Somehow it's the total opposite for me. Never lost my confidence all the years I was with him which made him even more angry 😂

[@galiabar-kochva3807]

You are a very clever man 👑

[@jnks456]

Yes ..all of them .....ptsd for being married to a narc....now the ex

[@kristahackleylmt2064]

Sometimes it's hard to believe that anyone likes me because my family's been so hateful to me. I look at myself in the mirror and sometimes I go oh my gosh you're f****** gorgeous why don't you feel like this inside?

[@betzabeteta2967]

Before I had it all, not anymore I always talk to myself you are not a victim I am a victorious woman. I am more relaxed, eat better , and am happier. That attitude of victimization made me crazy. I forgave myself for allowing that someone treated that way. .

[@theREALESTrealistUNPOPULAR]

I'm a grown woman and still can't voice my needs it's really frustrating, even to excuse myself to go to the restroom

[@kristahackleylmt2064]

True. I experience all of this.

[@a.quetim6738]

Wow. I have a lot of them. My mother is borderline and a narcissist.

[@OriginalOne-z1g]

Now I have to just wonder what abuse my mother did to put me there . I’ve blocked out so much of my childhood.

[@TamekaBuckley-h8e]

All of these things have happened to me 😔🙏🏾

[@Sirena-p2z]

This is so me, right now 😢

[@meenupawar1001]

All of these I am facing 😢

[@Bestbloxy_rogiel123]

I love watching your videos and sadly I do all of these, except the eating. I have emotional eating disorder bc of narc abuse.

[@lisalove8923]

I love you Danish ❤

[@robbyphillips5251]

This is funny (in a good way) Your last video was awesome I like whe you act like a narcissist I’m not one. I’ve had abuse but it hasn’t broken me Please keep making videos I love them

[@KathyrnCarrillo]

So true that's me

[@amber40494]

First 2 really were difficult for me

[@ybsaan1909]

Very true

[@francesalmanza5747]

So true :( I have no friends because of this

[@sandracameron3369]

I relate to three of these

[@chrislucastheprotestantview]

Wow I had 5 of those, maybe all 6 for much of my life.

[@bettymbugua9788]

Right on point.

[@notbextley6997]

And it feels like garbage 🤮

[@kt47793]

How do I fix myself I feel too lost 😢

[@daveshoemaker7137]

I had a boss ask me who made me doubt myself?

[@ladyofthewoods2448]

That’s spot on

[@idpratiwi4583]

How about someone who over reacted with microexpression?

[@FazFaNahar]

Oh - ALLAH BLESS THEM AND PROTECT THEM - I PRAY DAY AND NIGHT FOR THEIR PROTECTION AND SAFETY - HELP THEM - MAY ALLAH SWT BLESS THEM AND WRAP THEM UP IN A SHIELD OF MERCY AND PROTECTION AMEEN

[@vishwakarma209]

Yes, 100% True...

[@theyrekrnations8990]

actually have been there, before I grew out of it

[@meghathakre6643]

first one always happens with me, my legs shake in front of people 😅

[@Sonder0077]

I have all of these.

[@AlexandraHood]

When will it end

[@Dekuilan]

So much so sad😢

[@MissFunnyBunnyKC]

So true 😢

[@MartinaMartinsova]

So trueeeee☝️

[@effiemaccheyne9101]

I haven't eaten so much as a potatoe chip in front of mine for almost 15 years.

[@Might-l5m]

I did all of these

[@amandaoliver2265]

This is me sadly

[@MaritsaDarman]

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