Homes With Domestic Abuse

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Home-Start Bedfordshire

Home-Start Bedfordshire

Күн бұрын

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@ellensunden2778
@ellensunden2778 Ай бұрын
It's heartwarming to see the mother and daughter escape, but the father can and will take it out on the innocent dog. It's cruel and brutal how shelters won't allow you to save your pets as well.
@VenusForever-u3l
@VenusForever-u3l Ай бұрын
In some cases they won’t, but that’s rare 😞
@SK-rs1hu
@SK-rs1hu Ай бұрын
Craigslist pets. It's not a guarantee of a good home, but it's better than them getting left behind or euthanized at a shelter 🐕
@princessenyy
@princessenyy Ай бұрын
cruel? brutal? yes, it's sad that they don't allow pets, but they're already doing alot for abused and traumatised women, child and even men..for the young and elderly.
@mallagallabumbum8209
@mallagallabumbum8209 Ай бұрын
​@@SK-rs1huRight, you live in a country were animals get euthanized at a shelter. We don't do that here.
@kosquo4328
@kosquo4328 Ай бұрын
But imagine trying to stay at a shelter full of dogs too
@fablethewolf825
@fablethewolf825 Ай бұрын
It doesn't even have to get that bad. My parents yelled, threatened and accused - I vividly remember one night when my mother stormed out of the house threatening to kill herself and leave my dad with a house full of upset kids - but there was rarely hitting. All you need is the threat of violence and the possibility that it could get turned on you, a small defenseless child with nowhere else to go. I can relate to the flood or fear that comes with a door opening, in case it's them. If it's them, even if they're in a good mood, you don't feel safe when they're present.
@burgerbish
@burgerbish Ай бұрын
Agree
@AliHAWLI
@AliHAWLI Ай бұрын
Don’t say that alll it needs is forgiving and loving. God damn ur so negative. HAVE SOME LOVE KID❤
@felyneinavaultsuit
@felyneinavaultsuit Ай бұрын
​@@AliHAWLI "oh its okay!! Its so fun hearing my parents argue!!" Ahh comment
@palecandy
@palecandy Ай бұрын
i feel you. i hope you're doing better now and you are away from all that.
@silentdata
@silentdata Ай бұрын
​@@AliHAWLI bait
@ZeeNastee
@ZeeNastee Ай бұрын
I was taken away from my mother at 13 after her severe abuse, my father is a good man and has always been loving and supportive of me. I wish these videos showed the mother as the abuser more often.
@karu4115
@karu4115 Ай бұрын
My mother would start fights and constantly provoke everyone whenever something didn't go her way, she abused me emotionally, physically and verbally constantly. I also wish they'd show mothers as abusers more often
@dash0mysh
@dash0mysh Ай бұрын
I think the reason they generally show the mother as the victim is because it is statistically more probable, but you’re completely right
@MP-mw2kd
@MP-mw2kd Ай бұрын
@@dash0myshit literally is not. Thats what society wants you to think, and it’s working. Men may be more PHYSICALLY abusive (sometimes) but women are often the emotionally abusive psychopaths.
@blameitoncapitalism
@blameitoncapitalism Ай бұрын
The reason why they dont show it often is because statically its not often that its happens. 9 out of 10 cases of severe domestic abuse is man propagating it against women and kids, so... I'm sorry for what happened to you, really i am, but you have to recognize that your case is an exception. for the vast majority of time it is male violence, so its only fair that its the portrait that's seen more oftenly. advoce for more representation of women abusers, well there IS representation, just not as much (in accordance to reality) wont help because it pretends like it a "both sides" thing when its just not rhe case, and it work for villainizing the groups thata more likely to be the victim.
@PureEnragement
@PureEnragement Ай бұрын
Woman can be just as abusive as men, but men are more likely to be the abuser. That's probably why a lot of PSAs show a man in the abuser role. Condolences for what you went through. Anybody can be an abuser sadly.
@Girl_-fs6nx
@Girl_-fs6nx 8 ай бұрын
My household had hundreds of unreported domestic abuse…
@violettepastel7198
@violettepastel7198 5 ай бұрын
My household didn’t have that, fortunately, but my friend’s one did, her father was physically and emotionally abusive towards her and her mom may didn’t hit or yell at her but she didn’t do anything to stop the abuse so she’s an accomplice by inaction !
@Milly_and_Emileo
@Milly_and_Emileo Ай бұрын
My home had cases that were reported, it didn't make it any better when i saw both parents taken from me..
@hira-f5v
@hira-f5v Ай бұрын
@@violettepastel7198 u are so lucky
@debraethan8920
@debraethan8920 Ай бұрын
Mine too. Terrible.
@nimanixo
@nimanixo Ай бұрын
Same girl
@violettepastel7198
@violettepastel7198 5 ай бұрын
I can’t believe people still think hitting your child is a form of discipline…people are sick !
@Parasite890
@Parasite890 Ай бұрын
My mom ☹️
@ChawKyalsin
@ChawKyalsin Ай бұрын
Bro that's normal wdym
@violettepastel7198
@violettepastel7198 Ай бұрын
@@ChawKyalsin so hitting Your child is ok but hitting your Partner isn’t ?!
@ikeda-ren
@ikeda-ren Ай бұрын
​@@ChawKyalsin"ermm ackshually its norma-" *the dozens of studies proving the negative effects of physical abuse or "discipline" on children*
@AdorbsxAriel
@AdorbsxAriel Ай бұрын
​@@ikeda-renand the kids grow up to be good, right? It works.
@UnpopularAdvisor
@UnpopularAdvisor Ай бұрын
I’m glad I left when I did. My son was about 9mos in 2015. We’ve endured nothing but Peace since then..it feels amazing ✨🌱💛 No one deserves to feel belittled or small. A fresh start can be a blessing. New beginnings are good. It’s okay to start over, this time do it for YOU.
@xCaptainCapybarax
@xCaptainCapybarax Ай бұрын
Yas KWEEEEN!!! ❤
@J05TI
@J05TI Ай бұрын
No. Do it for your child. If you have children, they're more important than you.
@UnpopularAdvisor
@UnpopularAdvisor Ай бұрын
@@J05TI Yourself and your child. I don’t believe in neglecting myself. My child will be good if I’m good. That’s my personal take.
@akissweatyballs
@akissweatyballs Ай бұрын
​@@J05TI they're doing it for them and the child
@Cerial_K1ller
@Cerial_K1ller Ай бұрын
@@J05TI?
@sararask6775
@sararask6775 Ай бұрын
When the girl looked down at the dog's collar, that really hit close to home. When i was yunger my dad in a drunken rage, Beat and hit our family dog to death💔
@PuppyDog1525
@PuppyDog1525 Ай бұрын
Oh my gosh, I'm so sorry. That must have been absolutely heartbreaking, I hope you're in a better place now. 😥 If you haven't already, maybe it'd help to get another dog? That way, you can shower it with all the love you wanted to give to the other one. 🥰 At least, that's what helped me when my dog passed away. Much love to you. Also, cute profile picture. :)
@Mitoji
@Mitoji Ай бұрын
😢
@RedditgoldX
@RedditgoldX Ай бұрын
I’m so sorry 💔 hopefully they’re in a better place now, and you too
@youareworthalot1228
@youareworthalot1228 Ай бұрын
Billy Graham, as well as myself believes that our pets are all yes in heaven waiting for us. If we go to Heaven and our pets will be there. I believe all animals actually go to heaven, of course.
@AliHAWLI
@AliHAWLI Ай бұрын
I hope the police catches him this time it was his fault because he is drunk
@EstellEstrell
@EstellEstrell Ай бұрын
I was 4 when I had the first of many memories of my father hurting my mother. I stepped in front of her to protect her. This scene has been repeating in my head for years. This is traumatic, for sure.
@junkabella6324
@junkabella6324 Ай бұрын
I am so sorry for you! Sending healing virtual hugs. You seem to have had a sense of bravery and justice from a very small child. I hope life has treated you well ❤
@EstellEstrell
@EstellEstrell Ай бұрын
@junkabella6324 thank you so much. ❤️
@CélioMazuziJr
@CélioMazuziJr Ай бұрын
😢
@CélioMazuziJr
@CélioMazuziJr Ай бұрын
​@❤junkabella6324
@Omega-AlphaStudios-lh1rz
@Omega-AlphaStudios-lh1rz 18 күн бұрын
@@EstellEstrell Your father is the reason you exist tho. You should have love for both.
@hannahduggan3599
@hannahduggan3599 6 ай бұрын
I have abusive uncle. His name is Scott. Despite his age, he is physically violent towards his wife and children. My cousin, his daughter, even got two black eyes from him. When I was just a newborn baby, I immediately knew that there was something wrong with him. When I was 5 years old, I was playing on the stairs after church. Scott came up to me and said, "Howdy," in a chilling tone. I asked him if he could go to another location, which he did. I ran up to Daddy and said, "That guy scares me!" Daddy then said, "He's just your uncle Scott. He won't hurt you." When I was 6 years old, I was studying the Greek alphabet after I saw it in a dictionary. When I went to church, Scott wrote the Greek alphabet from alpha to omega on paper and gave it to me. I was still deathly afraid of him, though. When I was 7 years old, Scott drove me and my little brothers home from church. He drove through the backyard, literally driving on the grass. I was still deathly afraid of him. When I was 8 years old, I asked my aunt Susan, Daddy's older sister, Scott's wife, where Scott was and why he didn't preach church anymore. Susan said that her husband has always been such a mean and abusive man and physically violent towards her and their children. I last saw Scott when I was 22 years old at his oldest daughter's funeral. I was still deathly afraid of him. When I saw him, I nearly got a heart attack. He just said, "Howdy," in that same chilling tone that always gave me nightmares. He then offered me to sit next to him, which I refused. Just in case you're wondering, Scott didn't beat his oldest daughter to death. His oldest daughter died of breast cancer. Anyway, Scott just said, "Hannah, you're my niece. I feel so alone. I'm an old man." He was only in his mid 60's, which isn't even old at all. Except for Scott had already looked like an old man when I was a newborn baby. He was only in his early 40's, which is considered extremely young nowadays. I am 27 years old and will be 28 years old in August. I am still deathly afraid of Scott, who is 70 years old now. Despite his age, he is still physically strong and physically abusive. I'm so glad that his wife, children, children-in-law, and his unborn granddaughter, are safe from him. My aunt Susan and her kids are all kindhearted. Her children-in-law are kindhearted, too. Because of Scott's abuse, his children are all very shy. The daughter he gave two black eyes to neglects her appearance. His oldest son often claims that he is way too shy to talk to people and teach Sunday school. Thanks a lot, Scott. You permanently destroyed your children's confidence. You will never get to meet your granddaughter. You are just a big bully, you know that?! I am ashamed to call you my uncle!
@beckys.8897
@beckys.8897 5 ай бұрын
Dangggg 🤯 I’m so sorry to hear that 😢 Also unborn granddaughter,huh?🤨
@hannahduggan3599
@hannahduggan3599 5 ай бұрын
@beckys.8897 It's okay now because Scott lives very far away from the family. He and my aunt Susan, Daddy's older sister, are still married. Scott believes that divorce is evil and that couples must stay married up until the day they die. He even believes that leaving your spouse is evil. He and Susan got marriage counseling in 2007. One of Scott's daughters, my cousin Martha, is pregnant. She's married and pregnant with a baby girl.
@CatherineBirch-m5r
@CatherineBirch-m5r 5 ай бұрын
I wonder if his daughter's breast cancer was precipitated by his abuse, or maybe was a direct cause.
@beckys.8897
@beckys.8897 5 ай бұрын
Aw that’s nice!,i bet her baby’s gonna love you 🥰
@hannahduggan3599
@hannahduggan3599 5 ай бұрын
@@beckys.8897 She most likely would because babies usually love me.
@kanokwanphuawongphat1021
@kanokwanphuawongphat1021 9 ай бұрын
What happen to the dog is it still alive I want to know?
@kayllenstarships9009
@kayllenstarships9009 8 ай бұрын
Same the sad thing is sw dont allow pets 😢😢😢
@ponganansangpaiboon8602
@ponganansangpaiboon8602 5 ай бұрын
Yes somebody replied!!1!1!1!11!!1!1!1!1!1!1!1!1!1!1!1!1!1!1!1!1!1!1!1
@TommyBurd-e5m
@TommyBurd-e5m 3 ай бұрын
I have no idea, you guys.
@5ubf78j
@5ubf78j 3 ай бұрын
Did dad kill the puppy? 😢
@TommyBurd-e5m
@TommyBurd-e5m 3 ай бұрын
@@5ubf78j I sure hope not
@Jade2343
@Jade2343 Жыл бұрын
This triggers me and I have a daughter who also witnessed shouting like this 😢
@ReetuSingh-rk5ou
@ReetuSingh-rk5ou Жыл бұрын
Are you Okay?
@shayladeshawnn5807
@shayladeshawnn5807 Жыл бұрын
John 3:16 For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only son❤️
@Miku-v6q
@Miku-v6q 11 ай бұрын
I had this to
@kaleastudiosofficial
@kaleastudiosofficial Ай бұрын
I hope your daughter is okay now ❤
@SomebodyRandom39
@SomebodyRandom39 Ай бұрын
​@@shayladeshawnn5807 If I see one more religious comment on a post about trauma, I'll riot
@josephthompson1318
@josephthompson1318 11 ай бұрын
98% of child sexual abuse is by a person the child knows. 60% by family
@violettepastel7198
@violettepastel7198 5 ай бұрын
What about physical abuse and emotional abuse ?! People only care about that when it’s done to an adult or partner that’s sad…
@josephthompson1318
@josephthompson1318 5 ай бұрын
@@violettepastel7198 100%- by carers
@RileyHighBerg
@RileyHighBerg Ай бұрын
That don't add up to 100 percent
@RileyHighBerg
@RileyHighBerg Ай бұрын
​@@violettepastel7198fr no one speaks about PA and EA much
@ducksarecool-yay
@ducksarecool-yay Ай бұрын
@@RileyHighBergThat’s because family members are people the child knows
@laurabedford5095
@laurabedford5095 Ай бұрын
Been there , threw him out , so me and kids were safe , took my pets when moving, all happy and grown up kids . And grandkids , tell someone, get help if in an abusive relationship, hiding it makes it continue.
@ahn2323
@ahn2323 Ай бұрын
In Australia they recognised that people stayed in violent relationships to protect the pets. The RSPCA began a program to assist to save the animals too.
@CanadianMonarchist
@CanadianMonarchist Ай бұрын
That’s wonderful!
@Kiwí-8Urm0m
@Kiwí-8Urm0m 3 ай бұрын
Video:literally trying to make us aware of domestic abuse. Comment section: WhErE's ThE DoG?
@Starryeyyed67
@Starryeyyed67 Ай бұрын
Yea
@opal7197
@opal7197 Ай бұрын
The dog got put in a shelter probably
@terrycross5589
@terrycross5589 Ай бұрын
Not the case … My theory: Yes I’ve heard story’s bout this: The man was a violent man… He killed the dog… Without them knowning (sounds deep but it’s my theory)
@BubbleBassThyFishCorysClan
@BubbleBassThyFishCorysClan Ай бұрын
​@@terrycross5589 And Doggy Deserved It Lmfao
@thea_therian
@thea_therian Ай бұрын
when you're being abused by both of your parents and your dog is the sole comfort you have in life id want to know where my dog is too, why you would mock that i do not know
@thegayestgoth
@thegayestgoth 2 жыл бұрын
Domestic abuse isn’t always physical. It can be financial, psychological, mental, verbal, etc.
@TommyBurd-e5m
@TommyBurd-e5m Жыл бұрын
I have to agree, Domestic Abuse is one of the most traumatizing and shocking crimes ever seen.
@violettepastel7198
@violettepastel7198 Ай бұрын
@@TommyBurd-e5mRight nothing hurts more than being abused by your own parents
@JosueDeerFox
@JosueDeerFox Ай бұрын
this
@neonice
@neonice Ай бұрын
Physical is still the worst I know cause my parents would fight each other badly and our mother would hit us as well
@violettepastel7198
@violettepastel7198 Ай бұрын
@@neonice « Physical is the worst » Sexual : Am I a joke to you ?
@doomngloom96
@doomngloom96 Ай бұрын
0:21 this videos starting off fake, they don’t knock or bother to hide it from their kids lol
@beesnquackers
@beesnquackers Ай бұрын
agree. i also i feel like the unreported thing, while it’s important to state, also ignores how reports also aren’t properly dealt with due to a lack of understanding on what abuse is too, e.g. “of course my mummy and daddy want the best for me” when asked if they think the parents care for them. or not clarify what counts as severe physical or mental abuse. same with stigma of police arriving to neighbourhoods, which may escalate the abuse.
@ThomasB-ck1pg
@ThomasB-ck1pg Ай бұрын
Why always showing men abusing and not women they do it to
@kanokwanphuawongphat1021
@kanokwanphuawongphat1021 9 ай бұрын
Where’s the doggy
@PolarExpress04
@PolarExpress04 3 ай бұрын
Probably in a new home or at a shelter. Or the abuser did something to the dog
@Rtore1245
@Rtore1245 3 ай бұрын
He Hides Bedroom.
@Eira-m4o
@Eira-m4o 2 ай бұрын
@@PolarExpress04 NOOOOOOOOOOO
@Imreal-y1z
@Imreal-y1z Ай бұрын
Bro ded
@user-pukiko19q56o
@user-pukiko19q56o Ай бұрын
He got removed due to being pumpkin wolf cuz the family feels bad,he bitten a balloon
@ekanang7550
@ekanang7550 Ай бұрын
When my father came home from work, everybody went out of sight. To hear the key turning in the lock, was fearful and it was unpredictable what might happen.
@CanadianMonarchist
@CanadianMonarchist Ай бұрын
I’m so sorry that was your experience.
@ekanang7550
@ekanang7550 Ай бұрын
@CanadianMonarchigst I think violence in families in Germany in the fifties and sixties was quite common. All the men, those who survived the war and fascist regime, were mentally messed up, and nobody wanted to hear about the mess, they were coming from
@veeilo-ami
@veeilo-ami 8 күн бұрын
made a friend who's parents are divorced, now im browsing these types of videos to learn more about it :) thanks for spreading awareness and educating people on this, it's important, even if it doesn't happen to you, but so you can support others in these situations
@KatttBoi
@KatttBoi Ай бұрын
Why is this so deeply disturbing to me? It feels so personal, but I can't remember anything like this happening. I can't even remember anything before I was 12, and everything before 15 is foggy because of an unrelated traumatic incident with mental "hospital" staff being very abusive.
@JaeIBe
@JaeIBe Ай бұрын
Not remembering anything before you were twelve is a sign of trauma
@Tazazak
@Tazazak Ай бұрын
@@JaeIBecan be a sign of trauma, not always.
@soci_ni
@soci_ni Жыл бұрын
Hits home
@IHATEMUSTURD
@IHATEMUSTURD Ай бұрын
Im sorry that happened to you :(
@simonhenriksson-w81
@simonhenriksson-w81 Ай бұрын
I was abused by my stepfather, my mother was also being abused by him. I’m glad both of us escaped his wrath.
@whitepeacock11
@whitepeacock11 Ай бұрын
Hopefully you two have much better life later and you will get the happiness your mom wasn't lucky enough to have in her marriage.
@yongqianchen4037
@yongqianchen4037 Ай бұрын
This is horrifying… it makes me sick that thousands of people, especially kids have to go through this. Home is supposed to be a safe place where you don’t have to hide in fear :(
@MishaQuizhpilema
@MishaQuizhpilema 10 ай бұрын
What happened to the dog?
@Randomstuffbloobs
@Randomstuffbloobs Ай бұрын
Sadly went to a better and calmer place just not with his owner
@PardeepSinghReal
@PardeepSinghReal Ай бұрын
That's what you got from this?
@Randomstuffbloobs
@Randomstuffbloobs Ай бұрын
Don't be racist you fucking cow there are problems whi die to domestic abuse every day I can tell you're a domestic abuser Cunt
@DHAdArchivez
@DHAdArchivez Ай бұрын
Probably murdered by the ex husband
@Sarklaser
@Sarklaser Ай бұрын
@@PardeepSinghReal Anyone with a dog got that from this. Mom and daughter are obviously fine/in a better situation. Dog is obviously not. Unnecessary collateral for an ad.
@teenm.t.a.1250
@teenm.t.a.1250 Ай бұрын
I remember the day that my Mom and Dad got into it and broke up while me and my brother had to watch the WHOLE thing unflod. The question I'm striving to find answers to, all the way to this day was and only was "Where did it go all wrong?"
@kizukisjourney
@kizukisjourney Ай бұрын
I asked my dad if I could go to therapy, he asked why, and I said sometimes I feel like when I tell him how my inner feelings or struggles are, he'll either get mad, say to deal with it, dismiss it and say its normal or just completely don't care.
@i3ignorantidelweb43
@i3ignorantidelweb43 Ай бұрын
I feel it same with my parents They love me but they never regulated their emotions and traumas so they can’t deal with mine. They just thought I would turn out fine (but I didn’t, I started hu**ng myself) even tho a doctor said I’ll have emotional cognitive problems in my life. He said I wouldn’t be able to realise nor express my emotions properly. So I’m here now many years later that I follow cognitive behavioural therapy
@traceycrawford9938
@traceycrawford9938 Ай бұрын
My mother and I spent many nights in hotels. But she stupidly always went back to him for more (meaning I had to go back too). I’m 56yo now and still struggle with terrible CPTSD.
@thatskam_butwithaK
@thatskam_butwithaK 15 күн бұрын
my mother went once to my great grandmas to saty for a while and i came very last minute as i ran out to the car and asked to come. just the thought of seeing a mother with bags packed makes me cry.
@pertridgethegamer7986
@pertridgethegamer7986 Жыл бұрын
who noticed the dog looks like brian griffen
@DarkRanger-tj9tm
@DarkRanger-tj9tm 2 ай бұрын
Is that what you took out of this💀
@shedingleonmyberry
@shedingleonmyberry Ай бұрын
I made a snot bubble over this joke 😭
@RileyHighBerg
@RileyHighBerg Ай бұрын
I can't unsee it and the girl was holding a red collar
@GenidoBostil
@GenidoBostil Ай бұрын
99,8% of dogs quit before reaching the end of the video
@ImaginarySpace_lol
@ImaginarySpace_lol Ай бұрын
The heck 💀
@sans-nom8311
@sans-nom8311 Ай бұрын
Can confirm; I tried to show my dog this video and he left the room before it ended
@xerixfiles
@xerixfiles Ай бұрын
this kind of reminds me of my parents. my dad never hit my mom but my mom sometimes would hit him. only recently did my dad start to yell back at my mom when she did it to him. me and my 4 younger siblings still live at home and have to hear their fighting almost every other day when my dad is home. i grew up with the yelling so im used to it, i dont want my siblings to have to do the same
@Artemisarrowzz
@Artemisarrowzz Ай бұрын
Report your mom, film it if you can. People often assume the man is the aggressor, when it's not the case.
@xerixfiles
@xerixfiles Ай бұрын
@Artemisarrowzz she doesnt do it anymore though
@Artemisarrowzz
@Artemisarrowzz Ай бұрын
@@xerixfiles Still, if something happens, she might try to use you against your father and claim he was the violent one. Always remember he wasn't and that he deserves to be treated with respect, say the truth when you are asked about it in the future.
@abcdefJin_biased_m0412
@abcdefJin_biased_m0412 Ай бұрын
00:43 tears in my eyes
@DunaEider93
@DunaEider93 Ай бұрын
As a child i thought this was normal. One of my besties at the time told me was the same at her house so i didnt wonder much more... 😢
@bordercollie3441
@bordercollie3441 Ай бұрын
Commenting to spread awareness!!! The animation and rhe storytelling is amazing and i hope it reaches more people ♡
@bebe_choco
@bebe_choco Ай бұрын
1) I’m glad the girl and the mother are okay now. Abuse is a horrible thing. 2) What will happen to the father? Will he go to jail? Intensive therapy? A psych ward…? Pay a fee?? :0 3) Is the dog still alive ??
@VinhDang-n6r
@VinhDang-n6r Ай бұрын
The father is in the slammer!
@JeLlYbeAnIE-201
@JeLlYbeAnIE-201 Ай бұрын
Im use to hearing my parents argue
@AbdAlHakamJunaid
@AbdAlHakamJunaid Ай бұрын
Damn :(
@JeLlYbeAnIE-201
@JeLlYbeAnIE-201 Ай бұрын
@@AbdAlHakamJunaid neh it might be scary but its very common for them to fight after a few days they act like notting happened
@emeraldmoon209
@emeraldmoon209 Ай бұрын
So ? Parents argue all the time. Yes, sometimes, parents don't have to agree with each other on everything. However, that's only like sometimes when they are struggling to find some kind of common ground in order to resolve it. If the arguments happen at an extremely frequent rate and those almost constant arguments tend to escalate into violence then that's when the family situation finally becomes unsafe to the point where it's bordering on real domestic violence.
@JeLlYbeAnIE-201
@JeLlYbeAnIE-201 Ай бұрын
@@emeraldmoon209 oh sorry my bad I thought they said about parents arguing 😅
@jed0bread528
@jed0bread528 Ай бұрын
@@emeraldmoon209 what if they argue and shout but never get physical? just. lots of loud shouting. and attempts to defuse?: Stay out of it!. (nevermind: 'oh we are scaring our child, we should tone it down or talk later)
@rumahadeline
@rumahadeline 2 жыл бұрын
What his name of the dog
@BOBA2793-c7u
@BOBA2793-c7u 9 ай бұрын
Snoopy
@SAT_0317
@SAT_0317 Ай бұрын
brian griffin
@PardeepSinghReal
@PardeepSinghReal Ай бұрын
You care more about the name of the dog than abuse?
@rumahadeline
@rumahadeline Ай бұрын
No
@Cerial_K1ller
@Cerial_K1ller Ай бұрын
why would it matter oml.
@PrayFirstPlayLater
@PrayFirstPlayLater 22 күн бұрын
Luckily we used to argue when the kids are asleep...now we dont argue. We try our best. When one of us are angry at one another. We never target the children. One often walks out the room and lets the situation calm down. It works.
@Clémmieclement
@Clémmieclement 4 күн бұрын
It happened for a year in my house. My mom didnt do anything because there were other people who had “worse”. I had severe depression and tried “doing” it several times. I hope you all stay safe
@winifredherman4214
@winifredherman4214 4 күн бұрын
The ASPCA ( in New York) took care of my daughter’s two dogs for a whole month when she couldn’t care for them! They did it on 2 occasions! They were bathed, taken out for daily walks ( thanks to volunteers), given toys, fed very well and their medications were given FREE OF CHARGE. Hopefully all states have this.
@Peanut-animations
@Peanut-animations 14 күн бұрын
I wish I could get help too
@tanqrsimp7892
@tanqrsimp7892 14 күн бұрын
@Hispanicwoman
@Hispanicwoman 24 күн бұрын
Trust me, your kids would rather deal with DIVORCE, rather than seeing their parents arguing and fighting day in and day out. It is pure torture for kids to have to see and hear this. Worst thing is as an adult, you are dealing with all the BS from back then, trust issues, etc. Still wondering why the parents never got divorced. Don't 'stay together for the kids', or use that as an excuse.
@VVVVAATTTTT
@VVVVAATTTTT 8 күн бұрын
I understand this situation, I’ve been in one. I genuinely feel bad for ANYONE that went through it.
@BrightElk
@BrightElk Ай бұрын
I was the child in the situation. I promised myself after we left I would never tolerate hitting not even in the context of ‘discipline’ because I knew it would never just be about me.
@a_sea_of_serpents
@a_sea_of_serpents Ай бұрын
The dog most likely is at a foster home and once they get a new stable place, they’ll take them back in.
@Kishla-f4o
@Kishla-f4o 12 күн бұрын
This story needs to be shown in schools
@se3iji
@se3iji Жыл бұрын
Hi, permission to use this video for academic purposes. Thankyou!
@AWZ-3153RB
@AWZ-3153RB Ай бұрын
Yes
@dink-zn7kj
@dink-zn7kj Ай бұрын
LIVED THRU THIS AS A CHILD WITH SMALLER SIBLINGS. IM 80 NOW AND STILL HAVE NIGHTMARES. MY SIBLING TOOK TO DRINKING. WE FINALLY RAN AWAY BUT THE DAMAGE WAS ALREADY DONE.
@thatwierdbilly
@thatwierdbilly Ай бұрын
doesnt always work out like in the video there wasnt someone at our doorstep one day who helped us out my mother was an abusive manipulative alcoholic and my father a severely broken man with serious mental illness my sister was manipulated by my family (from my mother) into moving there where she remains to this day shes not allowed to have contact with us and if theres contact its mostly our mother insulting me or trying to further pick on my father ive seen pictures of my sister she looks empty and i took care of our father he has almost as many physical problems as mental ones still trying to help him
@dollingtonAvenue
@dollingtonAvenue 29 күн бұрын
how tragic that the little girl had to part with her beloved furry friend; that’ll be another level of trauma, not to mention the poor dog pining away for her. these DV and homeless shelters need to start allowing domestic pets… they’re family too.
@Leia1144
@Leia1144 25 күн бұрын
I’ve always whent though this and never realized that some people go through it every day. every day when my parents used to do this, I would cry myself to sleep. My cat always got really scared and scratch on my door to let her in so she can hide under my bed. My parents always fight verbally but never hitting. One time my dad try to push my mom really hard, and that broke out into a really big fight. I would never forget that.
@Jennifer___3w9
@Jennifer___3w9 6 ай бұрын
Taking it one step at a time-refund details and expected actions
@tbbreen
@tbbreen 10 күн бұрын
Is that the Everything You Know Is Wrong by RWappin scene reference!?!
@MK-mt4kn
@MK-mt4kn 10 күн бұрын
Where is this in the US? (UK is so far ahead in such matters.)
@BwaBwabu
@BwaBwabu Ай бұрын
Dont you love it, when sometimes in a relationship people dont try to resolve everything between each other, but rather decide to make a kid instead?
@peggyerickson2549
@peggyerickson2549 10 күн бұрын
Got chills!!!! Never OK
@martawieszczycka2364
@martawieszczycka2364 Ай бұрын
Where is that kid's dog?
@Rosy_1431
@Rosy_1431 22 күн бұрын
What happened to the dog 🐶 😢 1:00
@AleMaia
@AleMaia Ай бұрын
Allow pets to come with the rest of the family!
@eksbocks9438
@eksbocks9438 Ай бұрын
Sometimes the dad will direct it towards the child too. In some families, there's even a sibling who will be laughing in the background. Even copying the father as well.
@baxterbagel-u3n
@baxterbagel-u3n 2 ай бұрын
1:09 is that you?
@Iamyou36912
@Iamyou36912 21 күн бұрын
Grew up seeing my family this way now I see myself struggling this way too Parents please show your kids what NOT TO TOLERATE and to leave if it’s this way
@Beatriz-pz1lt
@Beatriz-pz1lt 9 күн бұрын
I run away. 😢
@crazyedude1846
@crazyedude1846 Ай бұрын
But where did the dog go???
@deannavezina1941
@deannavezina1941 20 күн бұрын
The worst thing is when the abused woman doesn't get help, doesn't report it, all because of ''fear'' of her husband, or boyfriend, my mother was fearful of my father! many years ago!
@TurkHayder.61
@TurkHayder.61 Ай бұрын
1:29 not only women men too
@CocoRoachGAMING
@CocoRoachGAMING Ай бұрын
people think thats not true because men are stronger
@kostekpl9587
@kostekpl9587 Ай бұрын
Well yeah.
@akissweatyballs
@akissweatyballs Ай бұрын
no one said otherwise
@be-dog-free
@be-dog-free Ай бұрын
Men aren’t as vulnerable as women and children. It’s just biology.
@humanlydum_b281
@humanlydum_b281 Ай бұрын
Men can fight off other men because they’re biologically stronger, that’s what yall always tell us when we try to fight back right?
@NostalgiaEdits111
@NostalgiaEdits111 Ай бұрын
Sometimes I can't believe how lucky I am to have such a good mother. ❤ Unfortunately, this is not the case for all children.
@jed0bread528
@jed0bread528 Ай бұрын
its LITERALLY luck based. you cant control who birthed you or raised you. you can only hope for help
@Artemis_the_gremlin64
@Artemis_the_gremlin64 Ай бұрын
I hope they help fathers who are victims of domestic violence as well, but those cases tend to be even more unnoticed
@TaigaMcCroskey
@TaigaMcCroskey 24 күн бұрын
I’m a victim of sexual physical mental abuse my friends who helped me to get out are still my best friends and help me live my life as a trans male
@niviac6723
@niviac6723 Ай бұрын
Que droga! Onde está o cachorro? 😢
@PureEnragement
@PureEnragement Ай бұрын
What happened to that poor dog? He's just going to abuse the dog now...
@QuasarSolarStorm
@QuasarSolarStorm Ай бұрын
youtube algorithm what does this mean
@PurpleRegiGamer
@PurpleRegiGamer Ай бұрын
IS THE DOG DEAD?!
@Aid3nbpl911
@Aid3nbpl911 Ай бұрын
THIS ANIMATION IS FIREEE🗣🔥🔥🔥
@tuanasko
@tuanasko 10 күн бұрын
Where is the dog ???
@poppy2841
@poppy2841 25 күн бұрын
My whole life this is all I've known, I can't even leave as I've developed so many health difficulties due to it :'( so I am trapped here, sick and scared.
@rholloway717
@rholloway717 13 күн бұрын
Remembering the first 5 years .....
@aboutfeddy
@aboutfeddy Ай бұрын
Please, know you're not alone. Also, if you have a pet, charities like cats or dogs protection can help you with your pet too. Please, remember you're not alone ❤
@fortnitecarykh-iq8yv
@fortnitecarykh-iq8yv Ай бұрын
Brian ?
@rocksunjaxindie
@rocksunjaxindie Ай бұрын
Know this b.s. well. But I was not crying in my bed. I was in the middle, fist fighting and trying to break it up. Needless to say, it has had permanent effects on my mentals. So unnecessary.
@SinaSeelenfeuer
@SinaSeelenfeuer Ай бұрын
Where is the dog? 😢
@susan-yl1jf
@susan-yl1jf Ай бұрын
I took was a victim. Fortunately I got out while my boys were still in diapers. And it's true, while starting over is hard, it's THE best thing u could ever do. Both for yourself & your children. 😊😇🙃
@munnijarunde2424
@munnijarunde2424 11 сағат бұрын
I remember hiding in the bathroom every time this has happened. After my mother seperated from my dad , she lived with her family again but there was no piece to , always argument between them and my peace space was the bathroom where I would try to control my panic. Through those days has ended when my mom cutoff her ties with her mother and brother , even now if someone close to me started an argument, my heart starts racing.
@DavidJacoby-p2u
@DavidJacoby-p2u Ай бұрын
I was a victim from my mom and this was when I was an adult now she's at her AA meetings.
@AliHAWLI
@AliHAWLI Ай бұрын
ever since I was 3 my parents have been arguing every single year and to mention it’s been 10 years now. There has been hitting and abuse that this has led to the police 2 years ago but no matter what happens you know what they say “family sticks together” and to mention it’s been very severe but my parents are still married which I’m happy to see. Thankfully 2 years ago after my dad going to therapy for being abusive and going to court. He was good to stay with us and still loves us which I am thankful for.❤❤❤ so guys please take a think of what u do before u do it. My parents are currently married for 14 years and there has been so much arguing but also forgiving. I don’t know where I would be right now if they divorced but I’m happy for my dad and my mum because they figure out things in a day or three❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ so please guys divorce isn’t the right path it’s love 🥰
@hiwall4883
@hiwall4883 Ай бұрын
That maybe ok for some, obviously your Dad wanted to change his ways, and chose to accept help, unfortunately a lot of people don't want to change or take responsibility. In that case, it's better to divorce.
@HawkGirl90
@HawkGirl90 18 күн бұрын
Be sure,there are much more horrible parents than lovely parents.
@Omega-AlphaStudios-lh1rz
@Omega-AlphaStudios-lh1rz 18 күн бұрын
In this age of wokeism absolutely
@EiderDuck-Coot
@EiderDuck-Coot 18 күн бұрын
In the past it was different!
@Ameliasllen986
@Ameliasllen986 Ай бұрын
0:52 feels like home
@mdfarhadhossain7175
@mdfarhadhossain7175 Ай бұрын
Wheres the dog ?
@lolnamelollastname9788
@lolnamelollastname9788 Ай бұрын
Was that a recording of a real case?
@HoneyLemon-1290
@HoneyLemon-1290 Ай бұрын
Omg I’ve been living like this and I’ve never realized how bad this was until I started getting suicidal thoughts bc of my parents and stuff..
@My_life-z1s
@My_life-z1s Ай бұрын
child abuse must STOP. FULL STOP.
@Eira-m4o
@Eira-m4o 2 ай бұрын
yo what happened to the dog?
@Luna_isafk-mp2nr
@Luna_isafk-mp2nr Ай бұрын
WAIT where’s the dog? Btw I feel for people who are in this kinda of mess
@BillyBob_25
@BillyBob_25 9 күн бұрын
What exactly is domestic abuse? I don’t understand it completely
@Prehistoricninten
@Prehistoricninten 2 күн бұрын
It’s all the cringe kids back stories, usually involves alchahol if dad beating kid with beer bottle
@realsaulgoodman72
@realsaulgoodman72 Ай бұрын
this but they never got separated
@Lunaspapa
@Lunaspapa Ай бұрын
Dog lovers will do anything but grant another human being compassion.
@Sarklaser
@Sarklaser Ай бұрын
Dog haters will say anything to make dog lovers sound like bad people.
@humanlydum_b281
@humanlydum_b281 Ай бұрын
@@Sarklaserno one hates dogs but y’all need to show compassion for humans.
@visidiot
@visidiot Ай бұрын
Some people do​, dunno what you're on about@@humanlydum_b281
@Sarklaser
@Sarklaser Ай бұрын
@@humanlydum_b281 The argument doesn't make any sense in the context of the video, people aren't upset the humans are safe/not dead, they're upset about the dog. Why exactly do the two need to be mutually exclusive? Dog haters see any concern for an animal as an affront to humanity.
@heresarandompictureofashih8557
@heresarandompictureofashih8557 12 күн бұрын
Dog haters make having an issue with a literal animal their entire personality. Ooh, look at me. So quirky and edgy because I shit on things that other people find meaning and enjoyment in. That's you. That's what you sound like.
@DHAdArchivez
@DHAdArchivez Ай бұрын
Is everyone just gonna ask where’s the dog? The angry husband probably killed it or it ran away!
@Gutzi_1kq
@Gutzi_1kq Ай бұрын
Where dogy?
@kshrvpz1587
@kshrvpz1587 Ай бұрын
What happen to the dog!?
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