7 BOUNDARIES MEN SET THAT ACTUALLY TURN WOMEN ON

[@FITXFEARLESS]

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[@joshallen7169]

Be a year June first my wife left. Didn’t eat for week was already skinny for 30 year old. I was 5”11 119 Lbs at my lowest after she left. Found this channel early September watch them here and there and learning a lot. Also was to skinny to hit the gym so I bought dumbbells. Almost in a year I’ve gained 50lbs. Now weighing in at 165-170lbs I can say I feel my best look my best. No more looking skinny.

[@onetake_sun6915]

Way to go!!!

[@_brandonn8516]

Respect💪💪

[@SamsungGalaxy-ib7dy]

Good job bro

[@SamsungGalaxy-ib7dy]

We've been lied to our whole lives when it comes to vvomen. The redpill(including blackpill) are massive eye openers.

[@SuperDetroit9]

@Josh Allen716;man,I looked at a picture of me in 1993;I looked like a SKELETON,after my childs' mother dropped me!! Today ,I'm 5'11 218 pounds SOLID with a near-400 pound bench-press!! A Mike Tyson prototype!!

[@thedeanogaming]

Setting boundaries is what every man should do with relationships. Without any boundaries, you will tolerate numerous disrespect from anybody and people can sense that you're not all that.

[@socer451]

Same thing I’m gone tell my daughters

[@extrabaron]

Good boundaries will show you have self respect and will keep certain types of women away.

[@malone4735]

No lies detected

[@Kbkillz]

Facts my boy!

[@meme-zv7kw]

Be yourself don't try and be stoic don't try and change who you are for anyone. Put yourself first and don't tolerate disrespect from a women or anyone. When you stand up for yourself you get respect

[@BlueDreamBeats97]

Default Stoicism is better than absolutely no emotional control and calling it “being yourself”

[@omarmsai2081]

Thank you! I am a 77 year old man and I wish that I had seen this video 30, 40, 50 years ago. What you say is so true. I was a successful software engineer as a young man but because I did not have my game together, my life with women was a constant disaster. Oh well, better late than never! Thanks again!

[@nattiemania]

Boundaries have never been a problem for me. I have low tolerance for BS, and I cut them off very early. But guess what, they always want to come back. I never take them back because I tell them the same phrase. "If I ever leave you, we are done forever, get yourself together," 😅 always terrifies them

[@disandestiny3655]

This is wat I want to do also I allowed my ex back too easy and when we Set into the relationship she started giving other pipo time esp men and the mistake I did Was talking abt that shit and ended up apologisizing for them there by being manipulated.. There was a time when we were together and we had ordered food with her and a Text I never saw popped in when I came back with her 4ne from picking the food we had ordered may be I looked at her with some curiousity to which me as a person didnt intend.. Then bitch was like u checked my 4ne to which I denied and was true but the insecurity she put up and pressure on herself and explain Ing to me that the guy meant nothing to her it showed me that she was really playing me I was cool let it go but then the worst happened. She started now denying me time so u would guess more time was awarded to maye be the dude in question so I looked at all that and descides to pull away without shouts or nothing before I watched this Chanel that is now agrt help to me and making me realise that had made a grt descion as a man. It's been now a while and we dont talk but am glad I walked away from disrespect. Thnks for the channel

[@nattiemania]

@disandestiny3655 Sorry bro. You enabled it. 1. Women are instruction followers once you set the boundaries early and you effectively to be in dominant role all round to lead them especially in these westernized countries 2. She has to respect you enough to know fully well that she can not take your kindness or sweetness for granted. You will constantly have to learn to switch up sometimes 3. Don't fall in love with a woman but love her regardless, don't fall for the Hollywood romantic lover boy too deep because women are prone to doing stupid shits out of boredom, abide by your logical instinct and don't be too emotional over anything. 3. Get your finances and fitness together to command more respect and handle most of the responsibilities. A woman can not love you without any form respect towards you. 4. She is replaceable. Never tell her that, but let her constantly see it that other women can easily take her place, and she will lose out. However never cheat on her, it breaks them emotionally. Stand by your words and principles and she will see it. 5. Be on your grind, it will help you get over any girl. There is always a new chic somewhere cuter, younger, smarter, and not promiscuous. Remember that

[@disandestiny3655]

Thanks bro

[@alexj1897]

Women like men who are strong. And if that comes with the fact that you disagree with them, they can still be turned on. - Keep communication unpredictable but sweet. (Iri) - Be direct when setting dates. You're not a guy that can avoid to chit chat for a week about nonsense with a girl. You prefer to get to know a girl in person. And it's a legitimate boundary that's gonna make her respect your time more. Even my mom - most important person in my life - is a daily, constant texting/calling/having-my-attention relationship. - Call out behaviors you won't accept; reward behaviors you like. Humans learn like this - associating pain with behaviors we shouldn't do, and associating reward with behaviors we should do. Compliment her when she's being a good girl... when she's supporting you... when she's going above & beyond for you. Not when she isn't doing squat. This is how you get her to become the girl for you. Now she knows - these are things that if I do them, I'm not gonna get what I want from him... which is his time, energy, presence. But when I do these other things, he tends to give me more love/time/attention/affection. - Draw a line between romancing her and babying her. Keep the scarcity, mystery, charm, dominance, boundaries, frame.

[@School-of-Milo]

Boundaries (alongside authentic communication) are definitely the most important things in any relationship. With that said the way a lot of women are in 2023, the best approach is to avoid them completely and focus on your purpose in life!

[@jpowell2603]

Exactly brother!!

[@ronroyes2375]

Just came across your channel today. I value the way that you don’t give quick fix tips; you provide mindset and lifestyle changes

[@navp3452]

Drawing a line between romance and babying - bro... You always hit the nail on the head. Love it

[@ericdavis9210]

Fit i been listening to u for a few months now. Already getting results. We going up!

[@AljPropertyServices]

Bro, 5 day on my new journey! Self care, fitness, strong. Diving deep into your channel. God bless you!

[@ampersand6375]

Boundaries are not rules & terms for someone else to follow & you punish that person for violations; Boundaries are for your own self-esteem, physical & mental health.

[@zinknot]

Texting is a big one for me. Some women really expect constant texting sometimes. I wish I had set that boundary from the start.

[@vitorfernandes6747]

What are you meaning

[@tom23j]

This video was so needed in my world. Plus I now realize where I went wrong with some ladies. Thanks dude!!

[@SamsungGalaxy-ib7dy]

Same here

[@JeffersonRah]

When I finally made an attempt to get in a relationship, I let my guard down and get lead on by a girl. Back to my purposes. I met more women that way and I stayed focus.

[@BoogieSmurf_]

Fit x is right you gotta learn them now before success look at all these rich rappers and actors ruining their lives over women

[@VaughnMcGregor]

Boundaries are vital for all types of relationships with women, children, family, friends, associates, neighbors, business associates, etc. All of the above. No boundaries leads to a low quality of life for you.

[@greencrocidile6246]

Fitx make a video on what things to reward and how to reward things

[@Allen.Rosales]

This is what ppl should think of red pill more… this is where the real game is at.. purpose > pleasure, females, complacency etc…

[@fitforfreelance]

Its all about building the healthy, fulfilling life of YOUR dreams

[@jaykennedyy]

Nothing buy straight facts here 🔥

[@arthurkos9965]

So much value provided by you, bro! So much love for what you doing, keep rolling!!

[@omarioroberts9335]

They are backwards ass hell they don't know

[@papijetlife]

Can you make a video on how even successful athletes can be simps. An NBA player named Jordon Poole just spent 500k on ice spice Doesn’t matter if you have money or whatever if you don’t know game, you don’t know game

[@ericdavis9210]

​@kingdomhouse3318I would say a mix of that or trick ass mfs 😂

[@donaldhutchison4652]

500k on a girl who’s getting ran as we speak 😂crazy

[@ericdavis9210]

@@donaldhutchison4652 500k on a girl 😂

[@fitforfreelance]

Can you mind your business instead of gossiping 😅

[@donaldhutchison4652]

@@ericdavis9210 facts facts. I’m just saying to make matters worse

[@RackeddUp]

Best boundaries I ever set was 1. cancelling and telling them we ain’t ever Finna link if they try to cancel or reschedule the first link, ESPECIALLY if they was posed to come to the crib( they literally immediately give in every single time ) … 2. No disrespect 3.stay tf out my business 4. Any girl That says she wan come over but don’t wanna smash I politely tell her that’s cool but you ain’t comin over here I don’t jus chill w bitches . Sorry

[@Bruceisthemask]

You might be missing out on cheeks by telling girls no sex no hanging out, especially if they were planning on coming to your place, a lot of times they don’t want to seem like a slut, they want to feel like you are emotionally invested somewhat to be comfortable sleeping with you, I’ve had countless girls say they wanna hang out with me in private but don’t wanna have sex and I’m in those cheeks the same night.

[@amazinggrace313]

You obviously don’t talk to respectable women

[@RackeddUp]

@@amazinggrace313 Nigga I talk to pretty girls and baddies . I’m not really looking for a wife. Long as she clean , Idgaf cus I honest to god don’t care to be w no woman rn I’m looking to find a business partner and when I meet a hustler ass female we gone make each other rich . We may never fuck idk i just know when I see the hustler I’m looking for she got the best chance of being treated like a woman . Everybody else a good time

[@amazinggrace313]

@@RackeddUp females with self respect don’t just give in to mofos cuz you threaten not to chill with them if you ain’t smashing lol.. clown ass nigga. U wish bro.

[@RackeddUp]

@@amazinggrace313 ima use a female to make millions my nigga . See niggas don’t realize you don’t gotta pimp her to pimp her or possibly make her a partner . Women make music sell, women make niggas act tuff, women make the final decision on whether a Nigga is fly or not , women decide whether or not you have sex or not tbh. Women literally have a big upper hand over niggas who are naive . And women are the biggest market in the fucking world . Women will buy while men sit and lie about coppin . Women will spend 600 for a wig and a dude will think twice about giving you 150 for a hoodie he can wear forever damn near . Wake uppp

[@MeganMichelleTimeLapses]

If a guy I’m interested in doesn’t text me often or tries to go on a date right away with zero text/phone rapport I always decline it cuz I don’t wanna waste my time going out without knowing if we vibe already

[@easterislandhead9579]

Text flirting and real life are two very different things. Always go on the date cos within minutes you’ll know if you click. You won’t get that from texting for weeks half the time. Seriously you could be missing out

[@deepsoundrecord3096]

I don't do text till we meet. If we can't why the fuck am I wasting my time texting someone I just met.

[@MeganMichelleTimeLapses]

@@easterislandhead9579 I FaceTime before meeting also. The ft and phone calls def can tell me the vibe. It’s just too much of a risk to waste time going out in person I’m busy lol

[@MeganMichelleTimeLapses]

@@deepsoundrecord3096 if it’s a dating app

[@darrinwalker9044]

A man..I checked your video out to see how my game has been in regards to other g's..And I got to say that you are on point on everything you talk about! Great video!..you keep it real! 👊😎

[@greencrocidile6246]

Agree don’t neglect women

[@bigneiltoo]

I set boundaries as a joke. "I'll take you to dinner if you promise to wear a nice dress and braid your hair". "For your birthday I was going to consider dropping the braided hair requirement for our next date". "If you PROMISE" (eye roll for effect) "not to use too much tongue, we can go make out". "I'll give you my number if you promise not to stalk me".

[@drecoracing]

Im thanking the youtube algo for sending you to my feed.

[@yofinance1777]

Facts. Love it

[@TheodorusRex]

So much truth delivered here.

[@SwaggaJonez1]

This man gets it ‼️‼️

[@stanmoney8470]

Some guys have joking personality, but doesn't mean I'm weak, I will check you with a smile on my face😂

[@Jus-Too-Smoove]

And the Church said “Amen” this man was preaching facts!!

[@mufasaunleashed]

I like this guy . Thanks for speaking the facts i really needed to hear. Now its time for the rise. Just be careful of the fall gentlemen.

[@T2Master01]

Theres another reason for setting boundries. It allows the woman to have a means to demonstrate respect towards you and thus a type of work that you can reward by filling up her box with your junk.

[@scottaragon2613]

This is legendary truth. Can be put in different ways , but brilliant. Thank you.

[@absolute_abundance]

No drama , that is best

[@dgrayman43]

Another banger fit, salut🤝🏾

[@LimitlessVibrations]

Following this advice starting now🔥🔥🔥

[@titan1bumper374]

Bro you the greatest

[@johnuja6805]

Ng every time I see you standing I can’t taking you serz Fr like thoses scene your walking with Austin , better keep the chat sitting

[@CaliforniaTribalChief]

Between 9:50 - 11:15 PREACH ! That man was preaching the gospel. Lol. Dudes always talking that get on your purpose shit get on my nerves 🙄 Smh. Yes, get and stay on your purpose in life, but you ain't gotta neglect women or better understanding women like the homie said in this video. His message to work on yourself AND get better with women SIMULTANEOUSLY is a much better message to preach to men rather than just to "stay on our purpose"...

[@curtiszambili5661]

If I had a girlfriend and another dude started disrespecting her, me personally I would never let that shit slide and the guy is getting his ass whooped

[@TheMainGoat9]

I Hope she does the same

[@HarveyThomas-q5u]

The only thing I disagree about setting a date right away from past experiences girls just see you as too available. But it highly depends on your status level like fit has said before. Some girls you can just set the date but some you have to make her prove to you why she should even get in the date

[@kinged5638]

Say bro I love your content . I been doing so much simp shit it don't make no sense. Thanks for the tips

[@rakimmason8]

Bro looks so much different . Skin glowing

[@zubi5099]

This is good for both men and women 🙌🙌

[@VivaLaFamous]

Sad to say this, but being in shape and learning a fighting skill can only get you so far when you live in a city where everyone walks around with knives and guns! I live in nyc and no matter how big you are or how “good” you can fight. You’re either getting jumped, stabbed to death, or shot dead. And I heard it’s even worst in Chicago. In nyc you’d get into a very small altercation with someone and they’d pull a weapon and wouldn’t hesitate to take your life. And none of us are Bruce lee in a action movie, we aren’t snatching knifes and dodging bullets.

[@Johnny-xj4ki]

Better get a Glock then

[@TheSLashera]

It's not really about that. Point is being trained and in shape gives you different kind of confidence walking around. It doesn't even need to escalate to physical violence. You just have to be prepared to stand up for yourself or your girl (family) and not be scared shitless. And even from just pragmatic standpoint being in shape, trained and so on will give you a better chance to survive any potential dangers, be it a gun, a knife or fistfight.

[@VivaLaFamous]

@@TheSLashera Agreed

[@MagnumTalawah]

Stop making nyc sound so bad... I lived in NYC for decades and never needed a weapon while living in Harlem, the Heights, south Bronx n uptown Bronx. Carry yourself a certain way n ppl won't mess with u......n mind your damn business.

[@MagnumTalawah]

​@@Johnny-xj4kigetting caught with that in NYC is a no no. Kiss a couple years of your life goodbye

[@johnnybgoode109]

Let's go...Let's go...Let's go...Let's go...tnx bro for sharing the positivity, I appreciate that...you are A LEGEND 💪✌️🤙

[@mrbabyhugh]

23:20 all that muscle stuff means nothing, a man will still try you if once he looks at you he can see that all that muscle got no weight. I am skinny as heck, never been to and don't see point of going to a gym, and best believe no man has ever stepped to me, and i get respect from everybody. How you carry yourself is the single most important thing. It is not even that I look like I would buss a cap or I got gangs around, I am solo 99% of the time, but you see that RESPECT, it goes a far way. Both men & women once they look at you they can tell the type of person you are by the way you carry yourself.

[@leevankabonga2827]

But u still feel intimidated when u go out with a dude who has muscles 😂

[@youms237]

Lol you ain't it.

[@joshuablair252]

Bro you would get your ass beat 😂😂😂 Muscles do matter if the guy can fight, you would easily lose I've never met anyone who is strong if they don't work out and they're always the first ones to get destroyed in a fight, I work as a bouncer and see it every weekend 😂😂😂

[@OneLeggedTarantula]

Gold right here in this video! thank you!

[@thetruth7245]

When you set boundries and they call you sensitive, the disrespect is always going to be their get to walking.

[@stanmoney8470]

The same for an ex wife! She shouldn't enjoy the better version of you, if she divorced the lesser version of you!

[@jpa4860]

This good if you just tryna hit, be yourself if you want something authentic

[@yveswisakika2259]

He said we re not trying to go to jail 😂😂😂

[@lilwan827]

If you get locked then how can you run your business? Or how can you go to work? Jail sets you back as a man at least 3-4 steps

[@pheinclewis8644]

Fire video Fit 🔥

[@KevoTalks]

good information ✅

[@di-fulaanijallow7970]

Top content 🔥

[@JosePadilla-zl7hd]

This guys a genius

[@markusnoble5866]

Brilliant video! ;)

[@Euphoryaaa]

Ngl I struggle with setting boundaries. Nobody ever really teaches men how to do it.

[@MrMan-fx3ow]

Or even which boundaries are appropriate

[@blessedone5712]

Ain't no sources for this game. Thats why this channel and others like it are so important. Wish I had this in my younger years.

[@MooMoox5]

Respect yourself n they will come naturally ^^^

[@mattsvoid]

@@MooMoox5Vague as fuck and ambiguous. Might as well not even comment.

[@benhartart9487]

I’m working or I’m in the gym period. My time is my scarcest commodity ❤😅

[@touchme1604]

I love you dude I got my self esteem back because of your videos, appreciate it man now I'm a very motivated man.

[@richardmudie7158]

Yes sir you are correct

[@davidmbegbu]

Thanks man 🔥

[@carlmarc3877]

Yo We really need to listen to this one man, this is probably and arguably one of FITX’s top videos. Keep it comin brutha

[@miltonfogg2875]

This is all good and I got a challenge for this broadcaster because you're listening audience will increase by many if you can answer this everything you've been saying and I I've watched a lot of your videos just this morning how do you incorporate what you say to men who are truck drivers over the road? Who dont live a 9 to 5 life. No lifecoach for some reason will touch that topic. All your advice, knowledge, etc. is something guys don't have out here because we do not live a normal life. So how can your tips help us? Like I said no lifecoach has hit on that goldmine of listeners. How can your advice help us out here day after day?

[@user-ri6kn6pe5b]

Always answer for moms! No matter what! That’s moms. But I’ll let her know I’m busy and I gotta go

[@Tyran_Thompson]

The problem is there's too many men chasing women over their purpose

[@SuperReasonabledoubt]

Many don't have a purpose

[@Tyran_Thompson]

@@SuperReasonabledoubt they do just many don't try to find it...some time we men will use ignorance to hide laziness

[@SuperReasonabledoubt]

@@Tyran_Thompson absolutely

[@Clintelligence]

Fitx on point

[@JoeM370]

Excellent material here. A similar book became my manual for life-changing decisions. "The Art of Saying No: Mastering Boundaries for a Fulfilling Life" by Samuel Dawn

[@sadia4814]

Brothers, I'm currently at the talking stage with a women we've dated a couple of months we're not official, at what point can I set boundaries like no talking to other guys etc, should I say something if we make it official

[@stnslsbryjr0259]

Yes Tell Her Yu don't Commit to Girls Who Hav Guy Friends/Play Bros & Dnt Commit 2 Females who Do Drugs or Won't Let You see all the Pictures in Her Phone/ watch Her pull Bak/ Save YorSelf sum💔 & $ Debt. 👍🤙

[@ssway28]

Dating a couple months but not official? Idk if I'm getting old but how are you not official but claim you're "dating".

[@YondaimeApproved]

Thank you 🙏🙂

[@tonrickharris7730]

Fitxfearless that's what you talking about bro👏💯⭐🌟🔥🔥🔥

[@emmanuelced12]

That bleep bruh 😹

[@VakoCavender]

what to do if you catch your girl staring at the same guy more than 4 times and you tell her that you don't like what she is doing? i have experienced the same issue over and over again. they always reply with "i wasn't looking at him, i was just looking in his direction" which is completelly BS to be honest

[@s.h.229]

Dump her Bro. She‘s probably having fantasies with that guy and when the chances come she will cheat on you

[@BeginnerCyclistNetwork]

Just realised that FitX sounds exactly like 2Pac.

[@alexandercrush]

8:28 Awkward moment when you are toxic and cause the drama.

[@buildwithbless88]

Please try to make a video on your daily activities or a day in your life videos please 🙏

[@B.Swan4]

I hear u bro

[@ro7850]

My man!

[@don-pl2rj]

I’ve been on my purpose for 10 minutes, where the girls at Fit 🤣

[@AndyHoward]

8:36 if there is no drama or controversy to be had, women will make shit up.

[@DivineAffirmationnow]

@Fit how do you manage LONG DISTANCE 💗 relationships????

[@carlosteixeira6109]

You right

[@alexmarkov5097]

Your videos are great, but the music in the background is VERY annoying!

[@tonyp333777]

Damn this is gold content.

[@rod9943]

Thank you 🙏🏾

[@mrbabyhugh]

2:18 women need their emotions stimulated, and she gets that when she spoke to you, so she calls/text. What happens is, the guy doesn't have much to him, so the more he talks the less interesting he gets... that is how they start to lose interest. That does not happen with men who have an abundance of ways to stimulate her through conversation. So telling her you are busy and you prefer to talk in person so as to keep mystery, simply means there is not that much to you, so you have to preserve what you have.

[@garybrown8980]

Yeah if the guy has no personality and is boring .

[@Tikitorch523]

9:28 Real question. What do you do when the girl refuses to leave or doesn’t allow you to leave? I’m talking full on tantrum and blocking exits physically. Obviously these girls are not long term relationship material but just curious what you would do.

[@adrianshaw4639]

Make sure you record so she can't use it against you to play victim. Call the cops and show them the tape that she refuses to leave or won't let you leave.

[@Ginuwine3839]

I’ve been in this situation a time or two. It’s actually more frightening than it’s sounds. It instantaneously lead to a so small physical altercation between me and this chik. She was simply trying to physically overpower me with physical aggressive behavior. Luckily for me in both cases cops we called by neighbors and both the times they showed up.. the girl was in the act of physically attacking me. Did she get arrested? No! I’m sure things would be different if it was the other way around. This was about 7 years ago. I now no longer let random chiks come over to my place, nor will I go to there’s. Only public meetups or hotel action for me!

[@adrianshaw4639]

@@Ginuwine3839 Yeah the frightening part is they're capable of crying. Everyone will believe her story and off to jail you go. Be careful to those types of women because I have known people who has went back and forth to jail because she gets a kick out of it.

[@Tikitorch523]

Women definitely use the option as a weapon when they don't get what they want. They know you can't touch them. It's difficult to keep frame when you have asked calmly multiple times to leave or for her to leave. I think you are all right though, seems evidence is the best option. I know next time it happens not to give second chances if she doesn't comply.

[@TheSLashera]

Honestly I imagine best option is to pick her up and get her out of the way preferably without injury. 😄

[@mrbabyhugh]

23:37 SHAKE MY HEAD... masculine frame has NOTHING TO DO WITH THE WORK YOU DO IN A GYM. I am NOT against the gym, but that is NOT what makes you have a masculine frame. It's how you PRESENT YOURSELF. If you need muscle to present yourself as masculine, YOU ARE NOT MASCULINE BY NATURE, you are BUILT to FEEL or give the perception that you are masculine. Women ALWAYS feel protected around me because they feel my ENERGY, they KNOW no one is gonna step towards me.

[@bradhodges8833]

You’re hard 😂

[@mrbabyhugh]

20:35 i tell them STRAIGHT UP, do NOT call me daddy... best you call me zaddy, cause I ain't gonna pet ya cat, I'm a beat that up.

[@klevarhymes-fe8fu]

Every time you guys keep saying ignore your woman, let's say you are in a serious relationship and somehow you are out of town for work. Is it bad to keep in touch and at least talk on phone or text for few hours when you are free? How does a distance relationship for instance survive without firm communication? I'm not talking about a new girl you just met and wants to smash

[@vc4228]

Don't text or call every day once we are after a couple of days, and I move on

[@Robert-3691]

I'm deeply impressed by this. I had the privilege of reading something similar, and it left a deep impression on me. "The Art of Saying No: Mastering Boundaries for a Fulfilling Life" by Samuel Dawn

[@popo-yq5je]

Whooooooooooo.....weeeeeee... You should add that intro of you vid..

[@chinonsoagu1464]

Bravo 👍