7 MISTAKES first time horse buyers make and HOW TO AVOID THEM

I share my tips for how to avoid 7 common mistakes that folks make when purchasing their first horse. Start enjoying your new horse from Day 1!
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TIMESTAMPS:
0:00 Intro
0:19 Mistake #1: Forgetting that horses are a lot easier to buy than sell
1:42 Mistake #2: Being flexible about the wrong things
3:20 Mistake #3: Buying a horse that won't be ready to ride for awhile
4:55 Mistake #4: Trying to save money by buying a young/inexperienced/green horse or a horse with health issues
6:42 Mistake #5: Taking the seller's word for it
7:26 Mistake #6: Neglecting to consider worst-case scenario
8:56 Mistake #7: Purchasing your dream horse before you're ready
11:02 Final thoughts
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[@HappieronaHorse]

Check out the follow-up video on Horse Buying DO's and DON'Ts here: kzbin.info/www/bejne/pZvOaoqodtGtqJI

[@guestuser1671]

There's an old German saying "Always match an experienced horse with a green rider and a green horse with an experienced rider." Don't fall into the trap of thinking you could train a green horse yourself unless you're very experienced and riding at a very high level! You will make mistakes that might lead to behavioral issues or even soundness issues. And let's not even talk about the danger you put yourself in... no matter how nice that green horse is, it is definitely NOT save! A well-trained experienced horse is always the better investment in the long run.

[@HappieronaHorse]

Amen! Having made this mistake myself, I can definitely testify it is a hard, dangerous price to pay. Thanks for your comment.

[@gkseeton]

Way true! I chose MUCH better for my youngsters in a honest, experienced 13 hand gelding who likes children and is careful around them. As a youth I loved athletic, talented, hot horses. I’m a creaky 50+ who lives by weekly chiropractic as my result. Don’t regret them but can honestly say they were not, perhaps, the wisest choices. Chose better for my kids. And bought a weanling for me and I’m having a blast but I loved her dam and the stud was my second choice so there were sound reasons. I call in a trainer I admire if I hit a snag with her. I’m challenged but not beyond what I can do with help and my background. While my kids are likely the last the old boy will be able to train, my filly and I have a bright, long, driving future.

[@anita83music]

I agree and disagree. What about those experienced horses that were trained to be still with fear for so many years? That when you buy an "experienced" horse you are buying a green horse. There is no guarantee that the the horse with more experience has had a good horsemanship.

[@JacintaColvin]

@@anita83music What a lot of people seem to do though, is they get a young green horse so they can grow up and learn together. That very rarely works. The saying green on green = black and blue definitely applies. You can't expect a green rider that doesn't know what they're doing, to efficiently teach a green horse who also doesn't know what they're doing. It can be done, but usually requires a lot of experienced outside help to achieve, and when it's all said and done, would have worked better and been safer to pair an experienced, well trained and mannered horse that already knows their job, with a beginner rider that needs to learn. Not all well trained horses are beginner suitable, but few green horses will be at all.

[@0soobean0]

I had a lady come to adopt a 4 y/o tb I started August 2023, this was February 2024. She has been working on leads and balance while riding since she is still recovering from being severely malnourished. She said that she had started riding about 4 months prior and could walk and trot somewhat confidently. I said no upfront. Green + Green does not mesh (their trainer told them to get this horse, and they were also pissy that they couldn’t adopt her…)

[@jupiter970]

My first horse was trained by the Amish. The most dead broke girl I’ve ever met and she tought me so much, but I had to put over 200lbs on her when I got her. So rescuing from the Amish is not a bad idea

[@HappieronaHorse]

Good to know, thanks for sharing!

[@elenacaddell3639]

I’m SURE she WAS DEAD, Calm. Poor Animals

[@aharder5765]

Also remember that's hard to rehome a horse with health problems.

[@HappieronaHorse]

Very very true. 👍🏼

[@Arclight3983]

@Layne Adriel It might be a bot, I saw it on another video.

[@untamed_seal]

@@Arclight3983 it is a bot. Saw one for Roblox too o-o

[@specialauntie8792]

A rescue horse is definitely not always the way to go. I trusted a rescue with information on a horse I adopted and he damaged my mind and body for a year and a half before I sent him back. Research research research... and like you said in your video don't take their word for it... demand to see everything and say no and walk away if it doesn't feel right. Great video!

[@HappieronaHorse]

Thank you so much! Oh man, I’m sorry to hear you had such a traumatic experience, that’s really tough. I hope you found a better fit. Agreed, research is key! 👍🏼

[@guestuser1671]

A rescue horse CAN be a good fit but you always need to remember that your rescue horse comes with a painful history (that's why it needed to be rescued), a history that probably left physical and mental scars. You can end up with a sweet horse... or end up with a traumatized horse that has trust issues, behavioral issues, soundness issues, you name it. As much as we all want to save these poor animals, I'd never recommend a rescue for a rider with limited experience.

[@pjk1714]

@@guestuser1671 A reputable rescue would not either without a trainer in place. Not all rescue programs have the network or knowledge to be one. HP or PT have those resources and knowledge.

[@stephredmond]

Make a part 2 please! I’m in my 30’s and have always wanted a horse... I recently decided that I want a Draft horse and found your videos. I had a few months of lessons when I was a teen and leased some horses in my early twenties. I’m starting to entertain the idea of owning my own horse one day, specifically as a pet and trail horse and I’m so grateful for your videos and your energy and delivery style. Keep up the good work!

[@HappieronaHorse]

Wow thank you so much! Super excited for you...drafts are so fun! Happy to be of service however I can, Part 2 in the works! 🤠

[@ShogunHull]

@@HappieronaHorse SUPER!

[@willowstar157]

This video: very good, sound, logical advice that any reasonable person would and absolutely should follow, 100% of the time Me: *still 100% dead set on adopting a fresh mustang for her first horse*

[@HappieronaHorse]

😂😂😂 funny & honest, I love it

[@kayleeskorral3196]

You are such an amazing horse owner and youtuber! You have helped me so much from your videos!

[@HappieronaHorse]

You made my day, thank you! So happy to be of help. ❤️

[@scottaddison8071]

I had a pair of bay colored draft mules that were full sisters one year age difference. I sold them 2 years ago and I regret it everyday. They were 17 & 18 years old, broke to ride and drive in traffic. They were wonderful and so good looking. You should tell your audience to think hard before letting someone talk you out of a great animal. This man told me he wanted them for his retirement and I found out he sold them for a sizable profit a few weeks later. I miss Babe & Bell.

[@DS-ky9dl]

Great advice for everyone to follow... when horse shopping leave your ego at home.

[@bethje30]

I just bought my first horse keeping in mind your video. I found a Irish Cob mare of 14 years old with lots of trail experience. I almost bought another horse less expensive but I kept in mind what you said and I think I made the right choice. She has been with us for 3 days and she is already starting to relax and she is so sweet. I am looking forward to relaxed rides with her when she is well settled. She is so pretty as well with her feathers and moustache 😄. Thanks so much for your video!

[@HappieronaHorse]

You’re welcome! Congratulations!!!!! So excited for you! 🎉🎉🎉🤗🤗🤗

[@1suitcasesal]

Very good video. I would add that having a vet check done prior to buying the horse is always good and including an xray of the front hooves would be good. I almost bought a beautiful Tennessee Walking horse and thankfully I did have hoof x-rays done which showed that he had a rotated cofin bone and would have gone lame.

[@HappieronaHorse]

Great point! PPEs and X rays are super important too. I hope you were able to find a horse with healthy feet!

[@1suitcasesal]

I had a wonderful 17'3 warm blood horse as my first horse. He was my best friend and partner for 14 years, ages from 10 to 24. How my mother let me have a horse his size is beyond me, but I am glad she did. He was a fabulous horse. Since his passing I have owned 10 other horses. I've had horses for over 30 years of my life and have never been thrown, kicked or bit. Horses know I love them and they love me, but of course for safety reasons, I'm the boss.

[@NoThankUBeQuiet]

I also suggest sending foot photos to your farrier. They see things you won't.

[@HappieronaHorse]

@@1suitcasesal Props to you for staying safe and enjoying such a long journey with horses!

[@HappieronaHorse]

@@NoThankUBeQuiet Great idea!

[@jimmyyounger618]

I particularly like the decoding of, "Ready to go in any direction you want to take him," which just might translate to: Ready to go in any direction HE wants to take YOU - full speed - maybe with some crow hopping, maybe not. Spin the wheel and good luck. 😉 Great vid with great advice! I'm surprised how often people will pass over horses older than 10, 11 or so, "because they're too old." In a perfect world, new owners and less experienced riders could easily locate a horse that's spent a decade working cattle, shown in a discipline, etc.

[@HappieronaHorse]

Haha, yes exactly. Glad you enjoyed that bit. Thanks so much! I agree, the 10s and teens are great ages. Reminds me of my years doing dog rescue and how everyone wants a puppy but most folks don't realize how challenging puppies are lol. Thanks for your comment!

[@XxShellyW13xX]

Best horse I ever had was a 27 year old American Saddlebred! He had more fire and personality than most horses half his age. He was my dream horse. That one horse of a lifetime that you hold up on a pedestal. He's gone now, but try as I might, I could just never find a horse that matched him. And that was my loss, because I never did have another horse after that. It saddens me now that I never got to ride again and never seeked the help of a therapist or someone who could have gotten me out of that rut I was in, and still am, even after almost 35 years.

[@ellairax]

I would love to see more videos about this! One thing I would add is to mention the potential of leasing, especially if you’ve never owned a horse before

[@HappieronaHorse]

Leasing, yes! 👍🏼 Thank you! Working on a follow up 🤠

[@flacadiabla3193]

My very first horse was a Paso Fino stallion my father gave me. Knowing this horse was a very difficult horse to manage and no one could ride, he said his intuition told him this horse and I would be the perfect fit because I would understand his personality like no other. Turns out this boy was definitely not for the weak of heart and demanded kind and fearless hands. First ride was him rearing up, (I held on calmly), and running around, yet not as wildly as he would with others. We ended up being soul mates. Best horse I have ever had. He took extreme care of me, and I him. Had to remain a stallion for years due to breeding, but was still very sweet towards me, although not so sweet towards anyone else. My father knew this horse and knew me. We obviously needed each other, and we both were better for it. Getting the right horse is essential, so even if you have to hire someone to help you in the process, it's worth every penny. Horses are not a breed, but a personality. Like a marriage, you're better off alone than with the wrong one. Best of luck to all on their journey on finding yours truly. 😊 I'm now a friesian girl, but will always have a heart for Paso Finos. Truly the most unique and beautiful ride.

[@HappieronaHorse]

What an amazing story. I'm so happy you had such a strong relationship with your Paso Fino. Sounds like your father was a very intuitive man. There are lots of similarities to a marriage, for sure! Thanks for sharing!

[@katherineknapp8838]

I agree all of what your saying…..I’ve come across a trainer that are trying to flip horses. All the horses that are up for sale look really good. 10 years ago these people sold the horses for $4-$5K, in 2019 their horses are now selling for $20-$28K so far beyond most pocket books! Because they’re husband safe or kid safe. Age is between 8-18 years old.

[@HappieronaHorse]

Horses have gotten crazy expensive!

[@rustyboy4266]

You are amazing thank you so much!

[@philippcheyne9987]

Great advice, thanks

[@Annaflickerfoot98]

This was so helpful, thank you!

[@HappieronaHorse]

I'm so glad! You're welcome!

[@touchoflighthomesteadmexico]

thank you for sharing

[@FirewrestlingATV]

Thank you this helped me a lot

[@HappieronaHorse]

I'm so glad, you're very welcome! Thanks for letting me know. :)

[@FirstStreetPets]

Thanks for the great advice! I spent a fortune on my current horse because I had enough experience to know she was best for me. Well bred, well started, from someone I trust. As I get older - I'll be 50 this year -- I am less willing to take risks. The Norwegian Fjord is my breed, so there is not a huge selection locally. It's worth it to find just what you want and be willing to pay for it.

[@HappieronaHorse]

Cheers to you for knowing yourself and doing your due diligence! 👏🏼 The horse world needs more stories like yours. Agreed - when you want something more specific, it takes more time and money. It sounds like you've got some amazing years ahead of you with this Fjord (I love those guys)!

[@elleymiller2563]

Great video, wise advice.

[@HappieronaHorse]

Thank you so much!

[@agnesaj9199]

Yes!!! Part 2!

[@jameslyons1661]

This information will help anyone willing to listen. ❤️🐴❤️

[@GypsyGirl23]

Omg im rapt i found your channel. We are middle aged empty nesters and are wanting a tree change, have our eye on a rural property with stables as we were planning on a rescue horse plus my dream horse a gypsy cobb. I havent had a horse since i was a teenager and have already found a breeder in my state and planning on a filly or colt to bond with as a pet, and grow with it as part of the family until its time for training in a few years. In my head im figuring by the time that needs to be done it will already be used to all the smooching, touching, shoes, grooming etc. Now i have your voice saying 'so that rules out fillies, colts' lol and then your fame is one of my dream horses and you say if he was your first things wouldve been so different. Now im reassessing.

[@HappieronaHorse]

Glad you found the channel, welcome! ❤️ yes I think to have done things over with Fame properly, to have avoided my concussions and given him a more solid foundation, I would have needed to be in lessons and full time training with him for a couple years +. I know that sounds like an insane amount but there is so much to putting a good foundation on a horse and so much to learn as a rider. Plus they still have baby brains until they’re like 8 😂Your dream is lovely! Perhaps you get your own horsemanship to a more advanced level and then bring in a trainer to work closely with as your filly or colt matures?

[@kathyberger6650]

Great video!!! ❤

[@HappieronaHorse]

Glad you liked it!!

[@horseandogs]

I have binged pretty much all your videos, you popped up in my recommended and I am so happy you did! You make great quality videos with great info! Keep it up

[@HappieronaHorse]

Thank you so much!! So glad to have you here. 🤠

[@pjk1714]

For someone starting out, they may want to network with horse rescues. They will receive guidance of what they need before, the age and level they need and better understanding of cost and network for training. In the process, they saved a life and have a place that will take them back to keep out of auctions. You provided some excellent points. People get emotionally wrapped up in a breed or photo not realizing fit matters for a long relationship. It's worth learning and taking the time to invest in a bright future for both the horse and rider. Thanks for sharing

[@bored2033]

Great video and advise. I would add that it is way cheaper to take as many lessons as possible from a competent instructor with good lesson horses to learn as much as possible before buying your own horse. You may still get the wrong one but the chances of finding the right one goes way up.

[@HappieronaHorse]

This is a great point! thank you for sharing!

[@kristaboscoesheher7222]

I am so grateful for your transperancy, vulnerability and honesty. Truly enjoying all the videos I am finding on your channel. Wonderful work and sharing of your experiences.

[@HappieronaHorse]

You’re so kind Krista, thank you!

[@walkinfaith123]

Do one about what to look for or out for with drafts or draft mixes.. when buying

[@kate_likes-horses6626]

How do your videos not have more likes dude also fame is SO cute! I used to reeeaaly want a gypsy horse and still do lol

[@HappieronaHorse]

Aww you're super kind, thank you so much! Gypsys are great, I'm rooting for you to get one!

[@MBrusaZappellini]

Good sound advice! I know I was super lucky to get a fantastic first horse when I was a kid.... my large pony QH “Elrod” was originally a pony jumper, and was “retired” as a lesson horse, where I first met him and fell in love. I had him for about four years, until i sized up to a larger, more advanced eventing prospect, who also was my “C” pony club mount. In all my 40 something years of riding I’ve had numerous horses, but those two first ones (when I was a kid) were the most influential. I’m in my 50’s now (yikes) and riding a few days a week at a riding school where I’ve earned hacking privileges....and I’m contemplating getting another horse of my own... I watched your video to refresh myself on the potential pitfalls of horse shopping. Definitely good advice, thank you!

[@HappieronaHorse]

You’re welcome! I’m so glad Elrod gave you such a great start in horses! Best of luck in your shopping! 😁

[@laurenkifer9145]

This is perfectly timed I’m hoping to be able to get a horse later this year and it will be the first time I’ve had my own in six years I’m hoping to get a younger one that knows the basics to get the care it needs like to stand tied trailer basically that has all the groundwork but doesn’t have much done undersaddle I started a mare this summer to make sure I could do it and I’m sooo excited

[@HappieronaHorse]

Excited for you, best of luck!!

[@PaulThorpeOfficial]

Just discovered your channel, loving it! Always been had a love affair with horses. Sadly nowhere near enough time in the saddle. Love your passion for these wonderful animals

[@HappieronaHorse]

Thank you and welcome!

[@briehoblin8478]

Such good advice there--a truly terrific video on buying a horse, especially your first horse. I would argue that sometimes good temperament and good history wins out over the perfect age, but I think the majority of the time your advice to buy a more experienced horse is good. I bought a 2 yr old Curly as my third horse, with no idea how to train him, simply because I had severe allergies to horses. It turned out just fine because he was a saint. But I think the story of folks getting overwhelmed is probably a more common one. Thank you so much for making this video.

[@HappieronaHorse]

Good temperament is huge definitely 👍🏼 yeah certainly there are stories like yours out there (and how awesome is that!) but you’re correct, mostly I’ve seen/heard the opposite when it comes to young horses and novice riders. Thanks for sharing!

[@ariannahawkins5945]

Thank you for the great tips. I just came from your video of trail riding with your drum horse, these are very very helpful. I will be a first time owner soon hopefully, and these helped so much. What horse breed do you recommend for trail riding?

[@HappieronaHorse]

So glad you found this helpful! Exciting stuff, planning for a first horse! It depends on what's important to you; I'm working on a video this week talking about this more. If you like size, drafts are so fun. Speed? A gaited horse is a BLAST. If you're a more social rider a quarter horse or QH cross could be nice since most trail riders (at least around here) ride QHs and you can keep pace with them. But there are exceptions to everything!

[@kirrah.8547]

I’ve leased finished horses and semi finished horses, I’ve also ridden a lot of not so broke horse and done some groundwork with them too. I have been riding for a while and I just want to train my own horse because I always feel like I don’t deserve to win on a broke horse because I didn’t put the work in, but I don’t feel like I’m experienced enough and I would have a lot of help but I just feel like I’m falling behind learning and progress wise🤷‍♀️ I eventually want to be a trainer I’m just stressed and don’t know what to do

[@ShogunHull]

YES PLS. WHAT ARE THE POINTS ABOUT A TRAIL HORSE. I AM PLANNING ON OFFERING TRAIL RIDES IN THE NEAR FUTURE. I WOULD REALLY LIKE TO HEAR ALL YOUR HOT TIPS AND WHAT TO EXPECT. I LOVE TO RIDE BUT I AM NOT A PRO RIDER...YET.

[@lizz1286]

I agree all great points I learned you have to let the owner put a halter and lead rope on the horse, watch the owner walk them to you or walk in the pin see if the horse stops in any point in time, backs up or rears, is there a limp, or is it an easy walk,(the reaction between the both of them thats what your looking for) I also learned that when its your time to pet the horse after the owner check for any scratches, bumps, look at the horse and watch for the hooves you do not want to get kicked also do not be afraid to ask how the horse got the nicks sometimes its minor and it was just from being a horse out in the field and then there are others.

[@shelbysmith4066]

I made almost all of these mistakes as a first timer. I trusted the trainer that sold me the horse. I needed a beginner safe horse, had a farrier look at him, tried him in an arena with lots of other horses etc and he was good. What I didn't do was a full vet check. He went lame a couple months later and it turned out his hind suspensory was fully blown and damaged. He has been barely sound for riding since. Three years later and today I got the diagnosis of DSLD and he is no longer rideable at all. He is 11. I have maybe ridden my boy 20 times, at a walk. I paid a lot of money for him as well as he was sold to me as trained in dressage etc. So for all of you thinking of buying, do your homework. There are a lot of nasty people who will take advantage of trusting people. And yes, I am keeping my boy and giving him the loving care he deserves because to me he is too important to just pass off on someone else just for my own benefit of riding.

[@HappieronaHorse]

So sorry to hear this! You have a big heart. ❤️

[@blaiseducdaumont1280]

I would have sued that trainer!

[@IceRiver1020]

Not lookng to buy a horse anytime soon, but someday that is the dream. I have been lucky enough to have a few years of riding experience, about 7 or 8 I think? But if I were to buy I horse now I would still want an older, experienced horse. Though I'm a competent rider, there's still a ton that I have to learn about horsemanship in general. My riding instructor put me on one horse for a year (until mid 2020), and he was still a tad green when we got started. Not too green to use in lessons for someone with a few years under her belt, but enough to be more of a handful. I loved him to bits, but he was definitely the most challenging horse I've ridden, and by far the one that I fell off of the most. I can handle riding a horse like that, but just riding is different from owning and training.

[@HappieronaHorse]

You're right, owning and training and riding are all their own game. Lots to learn! Sounds like you are doing a lot to prepare yourself for your dream horse when the time comes! 👍🏼

[@bartender4877]

A trick also is to pinch the horse right above the beginning of the tail, high up were the back ends. If the horse reacts let it be and don’t buy. Reactions could be a kick or turn trying to bite with ears back, and any negative behavior. If the horse doesn’t mind ( caution you should NOT hurt it just irritate it a bit) you can buy it. It’s a old Icelandic trick I learned. I hade a Icelandic mare imported from Iceland she got to be 34 years old and never was a day sick in her life. Also she never bucked or got buck wild running off with me or someone else on top of it. She could walk by tractors 🚜 and bridges and everything in any type of weather. She was the best and gave me a foal who got to be 18 he unfortunately died of colic 😢but I will never forget them❤ I was the first to ride and break him in at 5 years old. Icelandic horses are a little bit slower to develop with their body so he got to be a stallion on a nature reserve until he was 5 and than he came back home. Riding him in was so easy I just put a saddle on top of him and could ride😅 he was docile and never bucked he was ready because I did some ground work first and let him get used to tacking and such before

[@lucylohan8894]

Yesss please do one on what makes a good trail horse. I’ve been showing for 18 years of my life and didn’t realize I didn’t have to show in order to ride. So I’ve quick the shows all together and looking for a wonderful trail horse!

[@HappieronaHorse]

How exciting!! What kind of showing did you do? Working on the trail horse video, stay tuned. Thanks for your comment!

[@lucylohan8894]

Happier on a Horse I did jumping when I was super young then started going to an Arabian barn. Then made the switch to sport horse and horse in hand. I didn’t enjoy it ever I just wanted to ride but trails were not existent where I was at the time. Did that for 16yrs. After I left that barn I got a spunky 16hand Arabian (yes he was full arb)! But he was way more go then whoa lol that’s how I got into endurance. And that bad boy can go the distance lol thank you for sharing your videos! Much love and happy V-day

[@HappieronaHorse]

@@lucylohan8894 What a story, I admire your persistence! And that is one big Arabian lol. Super cool, thanks so much and same to you!

[@10nycav]

Brilliant, and excellent advice! After having done a lot of horse shopping myself, and helped many others (no commission, just as a friend) I would also add that a mature, sound, well trained, life-experienced horse SHOULD be expensive. It drives me crazy when first-time buyers tell me their budget is $2,500 or less. It's a good way to drive reputable trainers and breeders out of business. I tell them that such a horse should be going for at least $10,000 (and that's not even talking a premium for special aptitude or athletic abilities for particular sports). On the other hand, you can pay a lot for a horse that's unsound, untrained, or unsuitable for your experience/skill level, so as you say, "never take the seller's word for it."

[@HappieronaHorse]

Thank you so much, I really appreciate your feedback. And I love your point about cost. I'm with you - I want lots of people to be able to enjoy horses but it's also unfair to expect a ton of things at a rock bottom price. Some people get lucky (and unlucky as you mentioned) in either direction but it's true, there's often a strong correlation between value and price when it comes to good horses. Thanks for your comment!

[@MichaelJ1951]

I am 70 yrs of age and had my first sit on a horse at 2mths old. Thank you for interesting, thoughtful well presented and very appropriate information. I hope anyone thinking of buying their first horse has the good fortune of watching and learning from your video before starting out. CONGRATULATIONS and all my very best wishes to You!

[@HappieronaHorse]

I’m honored by your compliment, thank you!

[@leealexander3507]

I wish every nexperienced person I see struggling to handle a green horse they are terrified of had listened to this before buying. Good advice for anyone looking to buy their first horse. Well done.

[@HappieronaHorse]

Thank you so much Lee! 🤗

[@luckyrainbowrose]

Can anyone please recommend any other channels like Stephanie's? I really love this channel but it hasn't got very many videos just yet, so soon I will have seen them all. I love this type of horsey content. And I'm not asking for recommendations with any of these specifics I'm about to go on about. Just any good horsey channel recommendations please! But I especially love watching stuff like this of down to earth horsey people, especially strong women out there living the dream, trucking and riding and caring for their own horse and sharing it all with us. I love watching ALL of it, every aspect of horse ownership. My dream is to do what Stephanie does basically. Be a horse owner again one day. But would have to use stable facilities like her and truck to riding destinations and would have to do alot of the work all on my own. Being the only horse person in my family. So seeing just every day people not necessarily people with multi million dollar stables and horses and high level competing and all that, (which is alot of what I get when just searching horsey content on here) honestly standards unattainable for the average horse loving girl who sees what Stephanie is doing as her more realistic dream for the future, so love seeing every day people who own like one horse and are actually out there living and doing my dream, showing how it is doable, strong women showing all aspects to non billionaire horse ownership and good kind riding in the modern world of right now, my true dream of horse ownership. Please any recommendations of inspirational chanels like this for me to watch while I work towards this dream life goal.

[@Adversaire]

Green and green makes black and blue ;)

[@HappieronaHorse]

Lol I hadn’t heard this. So true! 😂

[@kellyhopchin2922]

I got extremely lucky with my mare. She was about $1500 and extremely safe, friendly and loving. She's a senior now and I'm extremely interested in finding a draft or draft cross that is like her. Only problem is that I have a real small budget

[@lindataylor1947]

Really good video. I am sick of seeing horses for sale that ‘will make’ a fabulous ABC or horses that are safe in traffic/ hack everywhere/ show / jump / dressage divas and they are 3! Sooo tempting but I just think how is this possible? I would like more videos please 💕

[@HappieronaHorse]

Hahaha I couldn’t agree more. Its like 🤯🤯🤯. More vids coming! ❤️

[@sarah-mj9tw]

I tried a horse for the first time after riding for 10 years and I definitely should have watched this beforehand because it totally broke me how unprepared I was to ride a semi-green horse. I'm definitely going to wait until I have a bigger budget to get a completely finished, or at least more finished horse (also pro-tip don't rush into getting a horse so that you can bring them to college)

[@HappieronaHorse]

It’s tough having your confidence shaken, I get that so much. Sounds like you have a smart plan though! 👍🏼

[@robbymcintosh9069]

Enjoy your truths...God bless

[@TheMalena99]

I bought my first horse last year and she was 17, a lot of people asked why i bought such an old horse, but she is just so experienced (from a rescue tho) shes a bit hot outside but best horse for my experience.

[@HappieronaHorse]

Props to you for choosing a horse that suits you. Glad to hear she's a great fit for you!

[@brookeswiftwater6277]

tbh - tip 6 just saved my butt from getting in over my head, buying a 500$ horse (because i have patience and experience but no money) and honestly, thank you. for indirectly talking sense into me lol

[@HappieronaHorse]

Glad it helped! 👍🏼

[@kathingerson]

Please make a follow up video.

[@natahlthomason3425]

Yes, follow up please 🙏🏻

[@HappieronaHorse]

Will do, thanks for the feedback!

[@bastonero7572]

True! I did not listen to my horse vet. I chose our 2 horses based on the color I like. So I bought 2 retired race horse. Im now spending more for a horse trainer to convert them into riding horses especially that its my kids who are going to ride them.

[@HappieronaHorse]

Props to you for investing in training! Thanks for sharing.

[@Karen_DNP]

Hi Great Video! Hope your video plays on KZbin KIDS (as hopefully, the parent watches what their kids watch). *I would try to emphasize what a potential buyer can look out for on the outside of a horse, to gauge a bit about a horse’s health, ie: hooves, top line, swollen &/or hot spot areas, esp in legs;; tender spots of a horse-but note: the horse’s response to say pain will be extremely slight. Like if you’re palpating/moving your fingers slowly down the horse’s spine, IF your finger(s) touch a painful area along its spine AND You notice the horse quickly “blink an eye”, “twitch an ear, swish its tail, etc” = that area of the horse’s spine is painful & this will affect the areas this area of the spine controls, from: head, neck, ribs-breathing to its legs functioning.. If sore/tender over hip area-poss SI problem(s) to the position of its fetlocks, esp of hind legs. Do they seem to drop more on one side esp w/movement? Could be sign of DSLD (tech. It’s now called ESPA-equine suspensatory proteoglycan accumulation).. yada yada 😉 Just rambling. 💜✌🏼🦋🐎

[@Karen_DNP]

Forgot to mention that one’s own body weight & height DO affect what type of horse one should buy. Plus, no horse comes ready to ride & do show events and won’t be. One has to build a bond w/trust with a horse for it to perform its best. Getting to keeping a horse happy & healthy should always be your top goals.👍🏻

[@MrHolyhellisgod420]

Where was your channel suggestion a month ago? This video could have saved me a bunch of money and heartbreak had I seen it before buying my first horse. Keep up the good job, for you are doing God's work. 🤠

[@HappieronaHorse]

Aww I’m sorry to hear your first purchase didn’t go well. I hope you’re able to find a better match! Appreciate your feedback!

[@MrHolyhellisgod420]

I learned a lot from my naivety, and I now have more experienced people to help guide me. Thank you for your well wishes.

[@RebeccahRodriguez]

I've just discovered your channel and am binging all your videos, so I don't know if you've covered this topic yet, but if not I'd love to hear your thoughts on when you think a person is ready to buy their first horse. I'm quite a few years older than most first-time owners, and I admit, the thought of having to go through a handful of 'first' horses before being able to buy the horse I actually want is very disheartening. If I were younger I think I'd be of a different mindset, but as it is, I feel like I'm running out of time to do the things I actually want to do!

[@HappieronaHorse]

Hi Rebeccah! Thanks so much for your comment, I think that's a great video idea. I came to horses as an adult too, so I get the frustration about the learning curve. I've noticed that timelines often depend on how quickly someone can grow her skills and what her available resources are. Lessons, leasing, horsemanship education, a bigger horse budget - all of these things can help someone accelerate. What's your dream horse? 🤠

[@RebeccahRodriguez]

@@HappieronaHorse Wonderful! I very much look forward to possibly seeing a video from you on this topic :) My dream horse is a Fjord! They're quite few and far between here in the states, so I keep trying to convince myself to look at horses with similar qualities that are easier to acquire, like Haflingers or Gypsies, but despite how lovely those horses are I can't stop the yearning for a beautiful Fjord instead. I love them!

[@HappieronaHorse]

@@RebeccahRodriguez Ahhh I love Fjords, the mane alone is sooo cool! Have you tried connecting with some Fjord associations or groups on Facebook? A lot of times with specialty breeds you have to do some digging to find horses that might not get listed on major sale sites.

[@RebeccahRodriguez]

@@HappieronaHorse OOh gosh, I've followed every single Fjord group I could possibly find on Facebook! At times, sales are definitely posted, but most are for auctions which I don't feel I'd be ready for as a first time buyer :( But I'm still keeping my fingers crossed that my unicorn will show up someday!

[@HappieronaHorse]

@@RebeccahRodriguez Auctions! Interesting! I'd be reluctant too. Well when you're ready to buy it doesn't hurt to reach out to breeders - it seems a lot of them know each other and someone may know someone who knows someone. :)

[@janakracmarova7843]

I must say those are good points for first horse purchase, BUT in my opinion it's not good idea to buy your own horse if you are green rider, rider with less than 5 years of experience and riding, teenager or child (if parents are thinking about purchasing a horse for you). As rider you need to learn many things first, try different horses, different riding styles, probably more than one trainer and maybe even change stable at least once. You need to have experience with different horses and their behavior under saddle. You will improve our riding style, technique and your knowledge about care. It's also good meet and work with horses with health issues, because it will give you valuable experience. Also if you are teenager or child, you will very likely change your interests over next months and years. Especially in teen years you can quickly change interest from horses to different thing or probably move and have less time when you go to different school (social life, trends,...) So there is no need to buy your own horse so early. You can enjoy more horses in riding school or stable, find yourself and find out what kind of horse is your ideal while you pay only for training classes instead of paying for all your horses needs. I ride for 11 years on my friend's horses and I plan to buy my own horse in 2 or 3 years. Because I'm more experienced rider I can buy young horse and train him myself in few years. I don't care if I will not be able to ride my horse for year or more until be will be trained, because I want to care about horses not just ride. And that horse will be my beloved pet, not just an animal I ride a can sell again when I'm bored.

[@ruthieharrison2609]

I’m 16 and bought a 16 year old quarter horse (Dakota) I am a very experienced rider but wanted a good horse that would do everything I asked I work at a ranch and need a good horse + I need to tech my family how to ride😆🤣 my Second horse is probably going to be a young horse that I can work on

[@HappieronaHorse]

Props to you, sounds like you really thought things through! And FUN working at a ranch! Dakota is a great horse name. 🤠

[@dolphinleary3777]

it's the double digit aged horses that are for the ''team work make the dream work'' probably upon check out is 2k outside my comfort zone raising was scary to me now fresh out my 20's we ready for the road at almost 547lbs expected from me ...yikes

[@charlottecomeau1266]

I agree with the last point, but I'm curious; what happened to your two previous horses if you don't mind me asking? My trainer also says that I should "compromise" on the type of horse I want for my first one, but I'm curious what happens when you get good enough for your dream horse...

[@HappieronaHorse]

If people aren't able to keep multiple horses, they often sell, re-home or lease them. I was fortunate to be able to re-home my guy, I wish I could have kept him though. It's a tough decision and you're smart to be thinking ahead and talking things through with a trainer. 👍🏼 This is another reason why I think leasing first can be a great way to 'level up.'

[@riverbank4126]

I will add a comment as someone with 60+ years of riding experience that started with me 'walking Polo Ponies' to cool them out when I was nine years old so that I could afford to take 'riding lesssons' all the way to getting many years of training from a female trainer in a European Cavalry School who had trained every level of rider from beginners to cavalry officers, Dressage Specialists and International Jumpers. I've taught beginners and experts and I've seen, trained, bought and sold a whole bunch of horses over the years. I've come up with some basic rules for deciding which horse to buy. These are not "all the rules"; they are just a few of the 'rules' that are quite often forgotten or over-looked! 1. Don't buy a horse that you don't like and get along with well no matter how beautiful or well-trained or "just what you need" they are. The relationship between you and your horse is really important and can help keep you both going when "the going gets tough" for any number of reasons. 2. Don't buy a horse or even accept a free one that needs training that you can't give them. A well-trusted trainer may be able to help you and your horse 'grow up' together and develop into a wonderful team but if you don't already have lots of personal experience with that particular trainer, don't take their word for it. Too many people end up with horses that are just "too much" for them and trainers who don't really know what to do to help a rider and horse turn into a 'team'. Good trainers sometimes cost a lot of money but not everyone who charges a lot of money is a "good trainer". 3. Find a good vet before you buy your horse. You want your own vet to thoroughly examine the horse that you want to buy - and that vet should not be the vet who is already responsible for the health of the horse you want to buy. Take the vet's advice! Before you buy a horse, do the very best you can to educate yourself about horses, horse care, horse training, and the costs you could face owning your own horse. Take lots of lessons, help out in barns, speak to lots of horse owners about 'owning a horse' before you ever consider getting 'a horse of your own'. Even if you already ride well, remember that 'riding' is not the same as 'owning'. Take all the advice you get (even mine) with 'a grain of salt'! You don't need to own a horse to ride one, or to love and care for a horse, or to learn more about horses. There is a 'lifetime of horses' ahead of you. Enjoy every day of it.

[@HappieronaHorse]

Wonderful advice!! Thank you for taking the time to share your experience. 💗

[@deloresgreene848]

I am pretty sure I bought a horse that is too much for me. My horse riding trainer of around 12years sold him to me and then warned me not to ride him because I was too weak and I would flop around on his back. Soon after, I fell and broke my hip (I'm 70), and now I am scared to get on him. I bought him too soon after my beloved very broke and well trained horse died. I had him for 33 years and he was so safe. I mourn for him every day. It is important to remember that you can get hurt very badly if you don't get the safest horse for your level of riding. I'm thinking of giving up riding altogether. It has become a sad thing for me now instead of the exhilarating fun I used to have. Be careful in selecting a horse.

[@svenjaasahi7266]

After seeing this video i felt offended😂 But I must say I would do this mistakes all other again. We rescued our horse when he was age 21, he was depressiv and aggressiv, many health issues, could not be ridden. And we just wanted to give him one or two good last years. Well after half a year he was pissed from the groundwork. We bought a tailor-made saddle and i started riding him. With now age 28 he is really muscular and and he jumps over every tree trunk that lies on the trail. He acts more like he is 10 than 28 and he has become the friendliest horse i know. He also taught me so much in these years. I am 18 now and he i learnt more from this one horse than in every riding lesson i had. (My riding teacher said that my horse was to old and ill for riding lessons... that was 1 year ago. Now we are at a privat stable with the horse (24) of our best friends and we ride 3 - 4 times a week 1-2 hours and well these two like it so much.) And i met many horses because of 5 change of stables, and all this horses were very aggressiv. I would go and do this all over again just so that i can see how much life you can put in a horse who had gave up on itself.

[@HappieronaHorse]

What a wonderful story!!! I'm so glad to hear you and your horse have such a happy ending. It sounds like he has found new life with you and you with him. Congratulations on such a remarkable journey.

[@kallasusort2986]

Great info - I wish I knew someone like you when I bought my horses - however you were not born yet LOL Thank you

[@HappieronaHorse]

😂😂 glad you enjoyed it thank you 🙏🏼

[@Deej496]

I suggest leasing a horse for a year. That way you can completely understand all the work and costs that is actually involved in horse ownership. AND especially if you live in the colder states. Experiencing winter horse chores will let you know if horse ownership is for you or your child.

[@HappieronaHorse]

Great idea 👌🏼

[@mattjones1578]

make video on indian horse please

[@evuteferret7541]

Hey, Ive been planing to buy a yearling, cause its cheaper and I feel experienced enough, but I just want to see some other peoples views on this, Ive ridden for almost 7 years, jumped up to 100 cm, and ive ridden a young horse a lot that liked to stop at jumps, what do you think, could I do it?

[@univlearn3150]

For first time buyers how much should I save up to buy a horse and have saved for cost that goes into boarding, food, medical bills? Just to be prepared and have an idea. Thank you!

[@HappieronaHorse]

That can vary a ton depending on your situation and area. Personally, I would start by researching the cost of board, farrier and regular vet care in my area. Then start shopping sale ads on horses that have the appropriate experience and training for my needs. Hope that helps!

[@NhemF]

What's the Honda civic of horses?

[@dobetter4410]

I hope it’s not too forward to ask but what happened with Jake? How many horses in between Jake and Fame? Thank you for your videos. You have me thinking about so much! 🙏🏽

[@HappieronaHorse]

Jake was rehomed with a woman who wanted to walk only. Fame is my second horse. Glad the videos are helpful, appreciate you watching! 💗

[@michelleford7392]

I’ve made my horse decision with my “heart”

[@michelleford7392]

Not my “Head” and definitely paid the price in terms of training setbacks. My first horse was a well-trained 10 -year-old and much more ready to enjoy right from the start!

[@HappieronaHorse]

So glad you were able to enjoy your trained horse right away! You're definitely not alone with the 'heart' vs 'head' thing!

[@brendareed8412]

I would like to know what stupid things you did with Jake. I bet I would learn a lot.

[@HappieronaHorse]

Good video idea, thanks! 👍🏼

[@louismoore4607]

Really liked your video. My wife and I ran stables and a small riding school for over 40 years, and I so wish people will learn from this and your other videos. As a practical matter, we would look at dozens if not hundreds of horses for every one we bought. If you have the time, when you are shopping for your first horse, I'd suggest going to a few auctions AND NOT BUY a horse there. Just look at lots of horses and how they look in the stalls and as they are shown. Have a knowledgable friend show you the good and bad conformations, as well as various types of behavior and what they may mean as you grow with them. Another thing we saw way too often were husbands or parents buying inappropriate horses for their spouse or kids. One poor woman was given a horse (kzbin.info/www/bejne/rKG6e4N_d5ahmMk) for Christmas who had a PRCA quality buck. Fortunately she was talented and my wife helped her learn how to train him and convert bucking into jumping. He was, of course well started and had 30 days training :-) Please, never buy a horse for someone if you yourself are not an expert unless the horse recipient has had a chance to try them.

[@HappieronaHorse]

This is fabulous advice. Thank you so very much for sharing your experience!

[@scottjohnston9672]

Understand that the cost of purchasing the horse is fairly insignificant when it comes to the expenses of owning a horse.

[@HappieronaHorse]

Exactly!

[@johannadahlbergberglund8658]

How do you know what horse is right for you?

[@HappieronaHorse]

Great question! Short answer: depends on your ability, budget, type of riding you want to do, etc. I have more videos on it here: kzbin.info/aero/PLDBYSOJ_V4i48hje3BSAp6D-XuSJOkMmZ

[@mish3560]

Some pointers on a good trail horse would be awesome!

[@HappieronaHorse]

You got it, thanks for your comment! ❤️

[@thruthelensofscripture4919]

Mistake number... An expert horse rider, or horse trader in this case, can make a stick of dynamite look like a bomb proof horse. And an inexperienced Rider can make a very good horse look like a stick of dynamite. Be very careful buying a horse. Too many horse traders making bad horses look good.

[@HappieronaHorse]

Yes, the rider/handler has tremendous impact! 👍🏼

[@chevyblock6862]

Depends on the car!!! 😂

[@HappieronaHorse]

😂😂😂 so true!

[@gypsy..loves..gaming..2358]

What horwe do ypu have

[@JacintaColvin]

Do not EVER buy a bombproof beginner's horse sight unseen unless you can have an independent person assess it for you for both soundness and suitability. (Online sales are so common at the moment.) Get a vet check. A lot of people don't bother because the "horse is cheap" so why pay for a check up? A cheap horse will cost you just as much in money and heartache if it is unsound as an expensive one will. Do not assume a horse is "bad" if it plays up soon after getting it. A lot of horses need settling in time. You've just uprooted then from everything they knew and this can be very traumatic for a herd animal. Also beginners often cause behaviour problems in horses through lack of knowledge, it's not always the seller lying. Some horses know exactly how far they can push a human, or will go "bad" through in appropriate or inconsistent handling. If you have a horse that is misbehaving that seemed fine when you viewed it, consider getting a good instructor or trainer to assess the situation sooner rather than later identify what the issue is and either help you fix the problem before someone gets hurt or the horse is unsellable, or advise you to move the horse on to a more experienced home if it's being what you should be trying to safely deal with.

[@HappieronaHorse]

Very well said. Thank you for sharing! ❤️

[@mkdkandola9994]

Nyccc

[@ggnevaloses]

You(and everyone else): no young/green/inexperienced horses for first time owners Me: buys a 4yo OTTB

[@trickedouttech321]

I say your horse is green until about 2 years under saddle with an experienced rider.

[@NoThankUBeQuiet]

Rule 1) Consult your farrier. Good feet are vital. Doesnt matter if they are the best horse in the world if their feet suck

[@HappieronaHorse]

Great tip! 👍🏼

[@thewierdperson9879]

Is a 7 year old gelding that has been trained worth 25.000€ or would this be a scam??

[@HappieronaHorse]

Could be legit. Depends on breed, lineage and training. Better be a gorgeous and amazing horse for that price. Never pay a deposit to hold or see a horse.

[@nicolecampiglio6119]

I ran into rushing buying the wrong horse

[@sushii18]

I disagree with some of these points, a colt or filly can be bought and should be bought. they get purchased ALL the time to experienced riders, just cause its your first horse doesn't mean you should have a bombproof one, I have been riding for 8 years and my first horse was a 5 year old welsh mountain pony with a ton of spunk and I helped brake her, these points really only work for the inexperienced riders, beginners/novices!

[@HappieronaHorse]

You sound like a dedicated horsewoman! 🤠👍🏼

[@khtirishhobbyhorser1404]

I'm looking for my first horse shes 15.2 hands and she is 4 I might not buy her

[@sambur6480]

I rescued a horse, it can be heartbreaking as they are often not good options for anyone. If ever we had to part, euthanasia is the only surefire way he won’t end up abused, neglected, or slaughtered in Mexico. I’m an experienced handler, and knew what I was getting into, he is unsafe for even an experienced handler. Lately he is coming around, but he is unlikely to be a safe horse, ever. I would never recommend a novice rescues, and of you want to get your monies worth out of a horse, it isn’t a good idea.

[@HappieronaHorse]

Thanks so much for sharing your experience. Your rescue horse is fortunate to have a knowledgeable owner like yourself.

[@lisabek72]

And NEVER buy sight unseen. Never.

[@nansifyanimations]

You: get a horse that has a lot of "value" so it can be sold easier...or a horse that many people want or ask for. Me watching you just because I want to get a draft horse: well...I just wont sell it in the first place but- 👁👄👁

[@HappieronaHorse]

I hope you get one, they’re a blast!

[@gypsy..loves..gaming..2358]

What horse*

[@olliszon8015]

Me bareback, halter, trail riding on 3 yo horse started month ealier 👁️👄👁️

[@HappieronaHorse]

Happy trails! 🤠

[@anj3595]

I , for the life of me, do not understand why so many videos require background music. It is very distracting.