7 Mistakes Ladies Make When They Like a Guy | Kingsley Okonkwo

I realized that many ladies have wrong ideas when it comes to meeting guys and how the process of knowing them should go.
So I decided to help out with 7 Mistakes Ladies Make When They Like A Guy.
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[@Jennie_el]

I laughed so hard when Pastor K. said don't fantasise about the wedding because some of us have fantasised to the point where we are already naming our future kids😭😭😂😂😂

[@KingsleyOkonkwo]

True o!

[@yiskah8467]

All of my five kids including the twins are already named. Remains only the husband. Even him, I have already named him. Lord have mercy....

[@Jennie_el]

@@yiskah8467 you have already named the husband too?😂😂😂😂..I can't believe this😹😹

[@thesoulfoodpodcast]

@@yiskah8467 LMAO

[@OluchiMbah]

My dear😂😂😂😂

[@LuvMiwrite]

#1 Not doing anything #2 doing too much #3 not being ready to walk away #4 fantasizing too much #5 forgetting protocol #6 falling in love before getting to know him #7 cutting off accountability

[@victoriakludze5612]

✅💯❤

[@MISS_SHERRY]

Ty

[@johnsonhappiness4040]

Thanks 👍

[@rugiatudainkeh358]

Thank you so much for saving my time not watching the whole video

[@olorunfemiibukunoluwa4159]

Thanks for the summary

[@MelOkunbor]

Overfantazing affects your emotions....so true!

[@echanahelizabeth]

I was toomuch him in my last relationship, but I am learning now not to make that mistake again, God help me.

[@harrietacquah2545]

I love the 6th point. I always say I have never been to a wedding where the bride made vows to the man's money or the man's house or the man's car. The bride makes vows to THE MAN/GROOM. Make sure his character is what you want. Nobody eats icing without the cake but you can eat the cake without the icing. Icing can never replace the cake. So ladies we need to focus on what is important...the character.

[@oyekunleoyeyinka7470]

Am always ready to walk away at anytime. And I noticed guys that left me always come back to say they have never seen someone as good as me. And I do leave most of them based on character and those demanding for sex before marriage. Ladies God will keep helping us. But we should always set boundaries. The one that will stick will stick. And d ones that leaves,will still crawl back. God will keep strenghting us. Amen!

[@rebeccaobewu5980]

Exactly 💯, they ones that will stick will stick ,sex isn't love .This world has actually changed the way we love they think if you don't have sex with them you don't love them

[@tolusayanfe6844]

This your Brochure is full ooo 😂

[@nellieetemesi338]

Ameen

[@victoriakludze5612]

Amen🙏❤

[@agnessnkupama18]

Amen

[@je39981]

#8 Pray, you can strategize anything in life but God can only give you guidance about the things that you cannot see. Pray, pray, and pray.

[@mabelamahagan2793]

Thanks Sir.

[@positivesoul.9490]

The best and final !!!

[@kome_fashion]

Our men also needs to know how to manage women, all of the relationship messages from pastors are always focus on women. If we the ladies are exposed to all of this and the men are still ignorant, I feel it will still not work. Both genders needs to learn how to make a relationship work. Nice message tho.

[@ernestinatawiah5248]

Exactly..well said

[@stephaniematheri5625]

Correct ly

[@abigail_anderson]

Exactly. A lady is taught how to be a good wife all the time but there's little resources on how to be a good husband.

[@rachelkharigus2553]

He has other messages about guys. This is simply about ladies. I understand that most of the time women are the ones being taught. But there are a lot of material on men too. They just ignored that’s why before we say yes we should know what we are getting ourselves into.

[@ijeomanwichi1242]

You are absolutely right.Most men end up been lazy,working on themselves.They end up been baggages you have to deal with

[@stellaprah375]

Pastor K was speaking about me when he said don't walk too fast, I am Bolt. And when he said fantasy, who else is like me?

[@adibeemmanuel5738]

Lol sister bolt

[@lindakosi24]

U are bolt 😂😂😂

[@stellaprah375]

@Linda Kosi I need to start learning to walk slowly.

[@Liya_Gambs]

Same here, I walk toooo fast n my friends do complain about it.

[@ezinnejuongwa1139]

If fantasy was a person, it would be me

[@adasylvia2984]

Even without knowing all these, these are exactly how I operate.....I love myself and can't for any reason stay where am not enjoying..... I make no mistake in all these..it's just automatic, if you love yourself wholeheartedly and Sincerely wants the best for your future ,you won't dare settle for less.

[@Tatianarain]

That first advice is so true. I was made to believe if a guy sees you says n does nothing then he is not interested. I met a guy at a friend's party n the same night he requested me on ig n liked my pictures. I waited about a week for him to officially enter my dm but nothing happened. I decided to message him in a friendly way and initiate conversation. To my surprise we had a nice flowing decent conversation which ended up with him asking for my number and months later we are a couple. There are decent ways to start conversation with a man that will seem harmless and not desperate n not make him think u are after him romantically. For example asking him for help with something. If ur in public ask him for the time.

[@treacyjane2889]

Whatzapp for help

[@treacyjane2889]

[phone]

[@akinbayotemitope8416]

Hmmmm “don’t give him money” noted, don’t stalk him 🤧🤭

[@deborahbenjamin310]

I realize not falling in love before getting to know him is central. That way, you won't do too much or do nothing at all cos you're afraid of losing him. Also, you won't cut off accountability or fantasize to stupor; you will be ready to walk away when you have to.

[@sapisurpriseministry]

🤣🤣 don't walk too fast. Don't laugh too long. 🤣🤣Some of these tips are so hilarious but helpful. Thank you Pastor Kingsley Love from SA🇿🇦

[@sylviaubom5800]

Dear Pastor Kingsley, May God bless you and keep you. It’s like you were talking to me😅. I did too much with a guy I just met because I really liked him and I had been praying for a while and waiting on God so when he came, I thought he was the one. Turns out he wanted something else, never asked me about my dreams or aspirations.. God didn’t let me fall into his trap of bedding me😂😂. I found the strength and I walked away. I’m the one in control😌. I’m waiting till marriage and I’ll wait for my husband. May God bless you from Zion.

[@rachaelbempomaaapenteng4888]

I'm with you my sister

[@gloriajjackson5035]

Sylvia Ubom......awesome; wait on your king! He shall come forth! 🙏🏾👍🏾

[@sylviaubom5800]

Thank you so much. I believe in God, Chastity isn’t old fashioned ❤️

[@lilianadaeze7885]

@@sylviaubom5800 You're right dear

[@idongesitjoshua1553]

Thought I was the only one on this table..I'm encouraged

[@deerealvee4125]

Before I ran away and I was advised to stop which I did. Now, I began to give a welcoming attitude and I'm being taken for granted

[@ooreoluwaokunade5698]

You said "Allow your paths to cross. Ladies, you know how you do that." So funny, yet so true!

[@nomthailoetv]

Your emotions have no self respect 🤣🤣🤣the accuracy

[@debrah_104]

Honestly 😂

[@chizobaosadebe1681]

Be ready to work away when you are not getting what you want Thank you sir , you directly talking to me

[@ritaouma116]

This has touched me deep

[@ayopetv]

You are being subtle and you buy him a full car. My ribs 😂😂. As for fantasy, hmmm it is well. Very insightful and practical tips. Thank you PK ❤

[@obinneoma3383]

"This is what they do as a hobby.. Chasing women" took me out🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@dumebihenriettaonyeayana3529]

I walked away from my narcissistic fiance... I never knew I could until i started listening to PK's messages...God bless you always.

[@KingsleyOkonkwo]

Wow

[@thegreenerland9618]

Me too...His teaching helped make that decision.

[@KingsleyOkonkwo]

@@thegreenerland9618 Great!

[@sunitaugwuja9367]

Ooh I'm happy for you. Did same this year, and that's what I'm most grateful for this year.

[@hummingbird4335]

You just saved yourself years of pain. Wish I could help spare my mum from a narcissist even if that would mean not being born 😕

[@julietlicious4306]

After the guy giving u attention and won ur heart.. He change totally expecting me to chasing him cus he knew I love him.. I'm happy for now peace of mind matter in my life..

[@Lizzy_Onyekwere]

Pastor what do we say about this😭

[@ogechikeziah3213]

Forges such men they truly don’t like you from the start , all he did was just draw your attention to him

[@ufademefilani3101]

Being able to walk away !!! That’s hit deep 🙌🏾 . Honestly this really wasn’t for girls . More grace sir

[@Sarahpelz98]

I listened to one of your videos few months ago and I must confess it was really helpful.... I'm finally healed and out of the emotional bondage... To the extent that the guy came back begging, but funny enough have moved on 😅 Thank you Pastor K for your words.

[@jenniferfrimpong9525]

I was so much into him and made him aware, not knowing it was going to end in tears

[@Kiitand0]

Pele this advices would help for next time

[@onoyimannaemekajohnmike4459]

Sorry dear. Like he said. Do not initiate relationship or marriage. Just initiate a conversation. If he is interested he will take it from there. If not, it ends there. Don't do too much. Just at least initiate a conversation!

[@agukamsee9864]

My current situation right now,I made him realise how much I fell for him and now I'm in tears

[@uphamedum2279]

This is actually my first time watching your video sir and I must confess this video is an eye opener.. It felt like you specifically made this video bcos of me. Recently I met this guy.. and I just realized I've made all 7 of these mistakes. But thank God for this message. God continue to bless you sir.

[@AbumereDotCom]

Sometimes I feel sorry for women sha. So many videos and posts online about what they're doing wrong. I wish there were as many for the men too. But anyway I guess it makes sense since a happy relationship/marriage is typically something that women desire more than men.

[@ruth_adewole_o]

I have always shared this sentiment. It's quite sad

[@mariamajiboye1011]

@rebeccamay me sef no understand o

[@ministerchee_]

What are you even saying?

[@stephaniematheri5625]

So true how to keep a man is he a pet

[@sunshinegoodness3720]

Please don't feel sorry for anyone, no one is crying,

[@preciousadenugba4309]

I can imagine still laughing 3 hours after everyone has stopped laughing.. 😂😂😂

[@aysianduchess2492]

Ahhhhhhh I was team do nothing gang oh. Chai!!! Now I have learnt something new.

[@absolutedrey8642]

Lol the fantasising part😂😂 it’s so true. We’ve already done the wedding in our heads

[@valendredorlean7721]

🤣🤣🤭🤭 Don't forget about naming the kids

[@vidadebrah1073]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@noblethoughtsandbibletime2231]

😂😂

[@magodejoshua]

I know ryt🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@aghomablessing2506]

😂😂😂😂❤

[@Nikiwe_mostlybooks]

Overly excited 💀💀 yoh this is what I struggle with and later get disappointed when it’s not reciprocated.

[@aropmaureen7898]

Thank you pastor K! Your teachings have helped groom my life from my teenage age till this moment 🤭🤗, and i am grateful to God for sending you to this generation as a blessing .💯🙌💃💃

[@jessicaajuonuma7211]

I didn't do anything at first, then I did too much. 😪 I really saw this a little too late.

[@inyamajoy9155]

Same with me

[@MakomaKgatla]

You didn’t have to expose me like that😂😂😂am so greatful for this teaching, am guilty of all of them and am so thankful to God because my life is about to change after this❤

[@damilolaorebiyi9155]

"Whoever is willing to walk-away (if the mutual-interest won't align) gains the control or momentum" ✍🏽 Bless you PK 🙏

[@oyekunleoyeyinka7470]

You are so right sir. More wisdom. God Bless u more sir. Thanks!

[@okekechidinma4747]

This is my first time

[@issyo957]

Word!!! It also shows the person respects themselves 💫 self love and dignity is rare!!

[@jangestherseokmee698]

Falling in love with marriage and not the guy or before the guy 💯fact. One bitter truth some ladies doesn’t accept that they do it in their current relationship🤦‍♀️ Pastor K🙌🙌💯❤️

[@bestofmylovewhoahwhoah3239]

Thank you Pastor, this felt like a father to a daughter. I received your counsel.

[@AmateurAthleteAllDay]

I would think one of the mistakes would be not praying or seeking God. He alone knows the guy and what’s best for you.

[@halalpolice7544]

Wow I really love your comments Maasha Allah 👍🏾 well said

[@abynasleek2681]

Exactly Woman of God!!!,after doing what is needed physically,the important one is to pray for his intentions to be known and his personality been seen before any further period is built

[@shawwilliams2346]

This really works out for me I can recommend you to a man who helped me to get my ex back to me

[@shawwilliams2346]

Text him now on Wha'tsApp okay 😊🙏

[@gbengao.michaeloyinloye1393]

How can someone who is not even a clergy frivolously miss out on your point?

[@dau-poweimercyegbekun9319]

Can't believe one person can be guilty of all these! But yeah, I am one person 😀😀. Thank you Pastor K. This was really insightful.

[@nforlauraberi3022]

I just so love your teachings pastor,you have mentored me from my single status and now in my matrimony. God bless you

[@ethercellybesoyo4355]

This message is for me. Thank You Lord

[@mojilawson6581]

You didn't have to expose me like this now 😭😭😭 but I really needed to hear this before I make a mistake. Thank you very much.

[@oghaleonosakponome7237]

please can you do a video on healing for heartbreaks for ladies, cos we women in faith needs to know what to do to heal

[@Hair_affectionist]

Just like mourning the death of a loved one, there is no shortcut or easy way to healing...you just have to let it hurt until it no longer hurt any more cos the more you try to avoid that pain, the more it will keep hurting, and the slower the healing comes...All one can do is pay less attention to the heartache and let time and events bring the healing.

[@cnongwa]

Listen to RC Blakes here on youtube. Search: 'RC Blakes healing'

[@ayakira6862]

I would advise to forgive totally and let ho of bitterness...for yourself

[@sharonalanyo6992]

This message is divine,I love Learning never stops

[@oyekunleoyeyinka7470]

Everybody have finished smiling long ago. You are still smiling really got me o. So funny sir!

[@ezinneerhirhieneeukaogo1439]

So No 1 works My friend pretended to have a meeting in Lagos so that she could meet a guy she was introduced too He was a shy ' efiko' brother. She dressed appropriately ,beautiful and like a smart wife material. They are married now. If she had waited for him to chase her like in the romance novels ,she for still dey single now

[@joyofem3629]

I can't do without your teachings, till the end of time, pastor K... You are a blessing to my world.. more unction to function, and more oil for wisdom, may the heavens open doors in your life and ministry Amen...

[@leahtochi2766]

This is so simple yet powerful How do you retract your steps when you've already broken one or two rules

[@chinyereanyanwu2226]

This message is particularly meant for me. Thanks for the wake-up call pastor K

[@theyouleadnetwork9109]

This message has my name written all over it! Enlightening!!

[@frankfrankie983]

I'm here for u

[@selahbon]

Some guys too do not appreciate ladies years after coming together. Their attitude changes,starts to yell and embarrass us not remembering how comfortable we've made them years ago. This has led so many ladies grow high in temper. So, there's no longer peace in the relationship.women needs to be regard and honoured. Its like women are the ones who always strive to make a union work.But two heads are better than one

[@FatitiGaila]

Pastor K’s Videos boosted my self confidence. God bless you❤️

[@chikondemusompo7442]

I should have watched this when I was a teen. Quite accurate.

[@aworstella9453]

I walked away from my married , but at first I never knew that i would do that, thanks you so much for this great knowledge it reminds me

[@kristenjoseph3959]

Pk keeps blowing my mind each time I listen to him. How do u know women so much? 🙌

[@christabellmoses1068]

Right Timing !! I was confuse, I Came here to listen to your advice.. am Blessed after listening to you !! More Anointing Daddy 🙏🏻🙏🏻🔥🔥🙏🏻

[@emyemyy9000]

Am immaculate from Uganda, I really like your teachings ,they have changed me emotionally, physically and spiritually, more wisdom, more blessings pastor Kingsley okonkwo

[@KingsleyOkonkwo]

Great! Thank God

[@alfonsinammwandwe1141]

After listing to this words am so happy and changed l love u my Papa and Mama may God bless u both

[@annechiamaka2600]

Thank you Pst K... So much wisdom received

[@uchechiiyeghe1699]

That accountability part! Truly gets ladies

[@mercydamilolaoguntade5938]

Thank you so much for this. I actually made some of these mistakes in the past and this video has helped me to see myself like a mirror would. Thanks sir. By the mercies of God, l won't make these mistakes again.

[@myfunworld2498]

Thank you Pastor, I really needed this. God bless you

[@vivianapode4209]

I'm vivian from Ghana.. I love the way you teach... I can never skip your videos.. God bless you and your family and increase your anointing.. Amen

[@jenniferfrimpong9525]

I did what pastor is saying. I was too much into him

[@michaeldavid8564]

I'm waiting for 7 mistakes guys make when they like a girl

[@chiomaipere7514]

😂😂😂 e no go come

[@mercyaleke7276]

😂🤣😂wait forever

[@KingsleyOkonkwo]

Hmmm should I tell you ?

[@SonofaBlacksmith]

He's not going to say. I have never heard him say anything to encourage guys in a relationship. In a world where women already have a strong hate for men, we still have guys like this.

[@abisolaasabi8396]

@@SonofaBlacksmith actually, he is nor coming from a hate position. He is talking more to ladies because he's a man. He is literally telling ladies what mistakes men see women make. It is more realistic that way. Want to learn what mistakes men make, a woman minister will be in the best position to relate. My thoughts though.

[@victoriaemeribe]

Thank u pastor Kingsley for enlightening me❤

[@mbenggilain8608]

50% of this video is describing me Thank you so much for sharing this with us

[@ifeilupeju7546]

This message was very timely... throughly blessed as always ❤️

[@sharonobi7272]

I really learnt so many things from this lesson.... God bless you pastor K❤

[@adesolasijuwade7729]

Wow... Pastor this is so much on point. Thank you so much. More Grace and wisdom.

[@awosikaroyalty7518]

I was really blessed by this video... God bless you pastor K

[@emajames498]

Thank u, the part about not being ready to walk away,was all about me

[@virtue1495]

What a wake up Call!!! God bless you!

[@marketingcommunicationswit1607]

Thank you so much Pastor. this is just all i need at this point. God bless you more sir

[@kanyanadebby9357]

Needed this at this exact time,God bless you Pastor Kingsley 🙏🙏🙏

[@v.chioma]

This is very helpful information. Thank you Pastor Kingsley

[@kayscenes6542]

Thank you very much Pastor Kingsley. I was very blessed and I love your jovial nature. Thank you for your counsels. They bless more ladies than you can imagine.

[@kayscenes6542]

It was helpful Pastor K. Thank you very much for this.

[@LonjeMarie7]

Ladies what’s the number one way to weed out Players , con artists, manipulators ,and men who have bad intentions? KEEP YOUR LEGS And MOUTH 👄 CLOSED! That and time reveals EVERYTHING!

[@stalkersty2224]

I get the legs but I don't understand the mouth. How is not speaking or speaking less supposed to help?

[@steyybrown]

I have a video on this on my channel! Have to learn to how let the trash take itself out!

[@keikei1943]

@@stalkersty2224 let the guy speak most of the time yes she's right

[@paballoncube9238]

@@stalkersty2224 if you limit too much talking you are giving them the lead their too much expression in talking will make them revel who they are

[@positivesoul.9490]

@@paballoncube9238 yes i agree , open mouth means disclosing too much information about yourself. They can use that information to act accordingly. Example : if you tell him the kind of a man you like, they will act accordingly until they fully get you trapped.

[@adaeze11]

Thank you pastor. I needed this

[@cynthiaonuegbu4308]

Thank you Sir for this timely advice. It is refreshing to know that God always wants me to walk in the right direction. This sure is for me.

[@justinakelechi6823]

Wow this words just opened my mind to so many mistakes I have being doing thank you so much sir may God continue to bless you sir

[@simonjennifer5301]

I'm so happy seeing this, came at the right time. I'm down with all seven points. Made my decision to dust up and make a change before seeing this video. God bless you. Too many mistakes.

[@jullietwanjiku2683]

I am from Kenya. And all I can say is that this messages are really helpful. Am afraid I might end up downloading all your videos.

[@tabithawangui116]

They are very educating and inspiring.

[@KingsleyOkonkwo]

Hahahah why are you then afraid ?

[@KingsleyOkonkwo]

Thank you very much guys

[@elizashiko3771]

I have learnt a lot, will apply it where applicable, God bless you Pastor for always giving such great advice.

[@pheaceolis4845]

This message came at a time I needed it, thank you Lord 😇😇. God bless you PK 🤗

[@ehichioyaaugustina9110]

I really love listening to u pastor k. Full with so much knowledge to pass to other ... Thank u so much

[@michelleonuma5957]

Thank you pastor this is an eye opener for me 🙏

[@obalokunbisola2639]

Thank you so much for this powerful message... More grace sir

[@ogbajejessica3512]

Thank you for this piece. Its educating and helpful

[@adaofcharles1217]

So eye opening Sir, God bless you so much.

[@preciousoboite6467]

Thank you so much for this teaching

[@chidinmaogogo3808]

I wish I watched this 3 months ago when it was posted... But then, lesson learnt and amendments I must make... Kai!

[@adagloria5698]

Thank you Pastor Kay, I really needed this🙏🙏

[@asongbertila6511]

Bless you sir .Awwww this is really amazing .We appreciate more Grace

[@maameakuanketiah9285]

Thanks Pastor. Just what I needed. In fact I'm guilty of #1 especially living right after church service and I walk damn too fast. Mostly I'm the first to live. 🤦🤦🤦 I'm repenting already 😃😃😃

[@edetoluwadamilola7557]

We live in the same walking zone. Probably because I once lived in Lagos and you gotta be very smart to sustain my environment.

[@Linetkalendi]

I walk too fast too damn 🤣🤣

[@finance-up7232]

“Don’t laugh too much”. Pastor this is how Japanese ladies show they’re interested in a guy. Otherwise the guys won’t know🤣🤣🤣

[@ceegeebeloved8158]

😆😁😁😆😆😁

[@tealifewithgiftedteju6794]

😂😂

[@Nzunghe]

Korean girls too! 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@barbarasingini8788]

😂😂😂😂

[@deborahoniyitan3302]

Haha😂😂😂

[@blessedkenue]

The no.1 shocked me me 😃 Not the usual I used to hear. Thanks so much Sir🙏

[@mulenganonde9410]

Thank you. This has hit home

[@jenniferfrimpong9525]

When he told me can’t go continue cus he need to focus on his education, I couldn’t accept it. Because all of a sudden