7-Month UPDATE in Singapore 2023: UK expat life after moving, Singapore rental market exp, New Year

[@fahmidamiah]

Are you currently living abroad? What have you learnt so far? Share the country you're living in and your experiences here ❤

[@fahmidamiah]

@@user-fr9yo7sx6h London will always be home, I love my city so much. For now, we are undecided about the next phase so we will stay put until we make a decision. Travel will always be part of our lives though ❤️

[@commentatorxyz5514]

Love your storytelling. I moved from Woking (Surrey) to Sydney. Sure you can have as much planning and control in your life as you want. But make sure you have some friends in Singapore, who you can meet for having good time. Otherwise, the next time you go back to London and meet your friends, you won’t feel like going back to Singapore again.

[@lizziemcbizzierobin]

@@commentatorxyz5514 this happened to me when I lived in nyc for 6 months.

[@tutiens7943]

I have lived in Singapore for 38 years. I have friends from Australia & USA who intend to migrate to Singapore, thinking it's a small city state in Asia, where an expat will be highly valued. They thought, we need English teachers, we still live in jungle, and since it's part of Asia, it must be cheap. I told them : Give it trial run, at least 3 - 6 months! They were shocked at how modern it is, almost everything runs on auto & digital. Their wives & daughters are safe back at the apartment at 2 am after dancing at the clubs, took taxi. All these infrastructure cost money, so is safety. Heck, Singapore was even once import drinking water! Singapore's cost of living is high. Employment is tight & competitive. Somebody from China, Vietnam, Malaysia, Indonesia, Philippines, Myanmar will be ready to do your type of jobs, for lower price. Since the pandemic, when most of workforce chose to work from home, the rental of apartment has been skyrocketing. It's what it's. My take is: You can't be poor in Singapore, life will be miserable.

[@Bella-wp7wz]

Your take is accurate

[@vrinda.nambiar]

What about a family of 2 having total 10K sgd? Can we save if we cook food by our own?

[@tutiens7943]

@@vrinda.nambiar Singapore has diverse residential area. $10k a month for 2 persons is good enough, if you know how to budget properly. Eg. Stay at suburban, where the apartment rental is cheaper. Supermarket products are cheaper - this is where the locals shop. The wet markets are plenty, where you could get fresh produce eg : meat, vegetables, fruit, etc. Restaurant prices downtown is expensive, but many cafe & food court & fast food joints are relatively cheap. Don't worry about transport, Singapore is an island, everywhere is connected by MRT (train) and buses. These public transport is cheap. Don't buy car. Car in Singapore is 4x the price in Europe & USA.

[@mothratemporalradio517]

I just wrote an equivalent assessment of Sydney based on your honesty but it turned from a dirge into a novella. In my case i was sizing up the impact of living conditions on personal connections. The short version is Sydney was recently voted the third least friendly city on earth and although I'm not widely travelled, this rang true for me, when this definitely wasn't always the case. I think this is a place where the impact of changing economics on culture and interpersonal relationships is stark. To the extent that even relative wealth, as well, is arguably not enough to sustain you here. It was once a place where you could still have an interesting life with warmth in it even if you were not wealthy. I miss those days terribly. It just became incrementally less and less like that. I've sometimes said that living in Sydney feels like living with someone you've broken up with. It's like you need to grieve but instead you can't distance yourself, all the time. I don't know if that makes any sense, I've never lived with an ex. I've also said it's like living with a ghost city superimposed onto the one you see, where you're haunted. It sounds a bit emo and gentrification in cities is common, I'm not as young as i was, and i am also depressed. Which is why when i saw that vote of unfriendliness it was like a revelation. It's hard to put my finger on things that might be universal rather than my particulars, at least without waffling. I can almost explain it like an infection where you could almost unconsciously start to become part of an atmosphere you hate just by trying to subsist and get by. If we take the idea of avoidance of eye contact on public transport as a reference point, it's both super unfriendly and there's also reasons this behaviour is learned over time, until you may practice it yourself unconsciously without a second thought. I think one of my biggest worries about this place is that it hardens people and arguably you will be in some degree of danger here if you cannot foster this trait. It's a dog eat dog world and if you tend to get anxious under stupid amounts of pressure, please stay far away if you can, I feel like joyful people could wind uo leading a joyless existence here. It could still change again, but it could be argued the city has always had traits from its colonial inception that are rotten to the core. John Birmingham who wrote He Died With A Felafel In His Hand wrote a history of the seamier side of Sydney called Leviathan, and this is a reminder to myself to read it.

[@superlynnie]

@@vrinda.nambiar As a total salary, that would be the middle income. If you mean sgd 10k in saving and no income, then it's easily gone in 2-6 months depending on your rent and lifestyle. Rent would be your biggest expense.

[@kwpf]

Learn to adapt. Expect the unexpected no matter how well you have planned because there will be factors which are not in your control. Simply put, the world is not perfect, and we all live in this imperfect world. As long as you moderate your expectation and loosen up a bit in your strive for perfection, you will find life less stressful and acceptable. It's all in the mind. Sometimes, just accept reality as is. It is what it is. You would probably be happier. Look for the sunshine, not the rain. Be optimistic.

[@fahmidamiah]

Thank you for sharing your wisdom ❤️ wishing you the best for 2023!

[@aazznnaa]

So true, thanks for the reminders.

[@oliviaw3397]

That is true.

[@jimmyteo7065]

You look like such a “private” couple, yet took the time to share your lives with us. So, thank you. Acceptance is the key to keep moving on. It is said that one’s happiness is inversely proportional to one’s expectations. Enjoyed your video. You are so talented. Stay happy.

[@santochow]

Great videos! I used to work and lived in Singapore. I then return to my hometown to start my own business. I have since travelled back and forth to Singapore frequently. This tiny little country holds a special place in my little family’s heart. ❤

[@fahmidamiah]

So glad you enjoyed it. And I completely agree: Singapore is a tiny country that makes a big impact. Congrats on you business and I hope you get to spend more time here with your family ❤

[@guruchoykokkee]

Don't think too much. Keep moving forward. When we are aware that each moment of each day, each gesture and step we take, is truly mystical and full of wonder, we will live our lives with greater thought and care. We will also have greater respect and appreciation for the lives of others.

[@fahmidamiah]

This is so beautiful to read, especially “we will live our lives with great thought and care”. This rings true for me. Appreciating every day as it comes. Thank you for sharing, happy new year, wishing you a beautiful 2023 ❤️🥰❤️

[@margaretlim2002]

A really beautiful and honest video. Happy you have no regrets now. Singapore welcome both of you. Hope things will eventually fall into place as planned. Good luck, blessed 2023.

[@fahmidamiah]

Thank you so much for watching. We really love Singapore. Hoping for a better, steadier 2023 for everyone. Happy new year 🥰❤️

[@goddanner]

That narration voice is fantastic, and the pacing for this video is excellent, teaching us to slow down and appreciate what we have in the midst of our hectic lives.

[@fahmidamiah]

Thank you so much for seeing the video’s theme, and for being here ❤️❤️❤️ Your comment means a lot to me. Wishing you a wonderful 2023 🥰

[@krisztinafoo27]

Strangely calming. I enjoyed this. Wishing both of you peace and happiness 💖

[@fahmidamiah]

Thank you for watching ❤️ happy new year 🎉

[@hychua6452]

Your voice and narration are absolutely of a different level. Very calming and poetic. Love it.

[@fahmidamiah]

Thank you! ☺️ Your comment is so encouraging, I appreciate you watching the video and being here. Happy new year 🥳 🥰❤️

[@Veron80303]

Thank you for sharing. Great video❤ And, welcome to Singapore🎉. Just want to say not only in Singapore, everyone in any corner in this world has their own issues to manage. It’s the mentality how you want to handle it. Stay Positive 🎉

[@fahmidamiah]

Thanks for watching the video and taking the time to make a lovely comment. Happy new year and wishing you a wonderful 2023 🎉🥰❤️

[@leewn2319]

Sg is branded as the most expensive city to lived in due to bias reporting based on expat living their full western lifestyle without adapting to Sg local lifestyle. Cars ownership are purposely made costly to limit the need to expand roads infrastructure in limited land in this small island. But this is grossly compensated by the public transport (trains & bus & taxis ) systems. Housing rentals has escalated in 2022 largely due to the huge surge of expats, foreign companies and Chinese relocating to Sg from China & Hong Kong. Also the downturn of global economy coupled with the Ukraine / Russia war affecting EU countries, UK and US, many westerners plus some Indian nationals also relocate to Sg due to Sg’s stability. This aggravated rental market chasing the steep rise. The cheaper way is to rent and live in our HDB flats which is much more affordable than condominium and landed properties.

[@fahmidamiah]

Yes, spot on! It's definitely multi-factorial causes; rent hikes and general cost of living hikes occurring globally. I really pray it'll get easier for everyone. Thank you for watching and for taking the time to comment :) happy new year ❤️

[@leewn2319]

@@fahmidamiah Most Welcomed. Happy New Year too. Hope Sg will ride out 2023 GMA Al economy uncertainties & storms. I believe it is possible. We did it before and will do it again. May God bless u with peace, joy & strength for each day.

[@bell-xk5dd]

@@fahmidamiah Don’t rent condominium or private house. Rent a HDB flat, it’s definitely cheaper. Eat at our food courts or local markets, buy groceries from Supermarkets like Giant, NTUC or Sheng Siong, stay away from Cold Storage. The best bargains are from Sheng Siong. If you live like a local, you’ll find everything is affordable and not expensive at all. Take public transports, buses and MRT are also very cheap.

[@androsc1418]

@@bell-xk5ddBut renting HDB properties will further exacerbate the cost of living for native renters waiting for their own BTOs or who can’t afford a HDB.

[@Bohosapien1]

@@bell-xk5dd HDB are also expensive to rent ..for 2 bhk hdb agents are asking between 3k to 3.5k …most of the owners have drastically increased rent .. almost 50% with in a year ..

[@michaeltham9914]

Your narrative is superb and hope you enjoy your stay here in Singapore 🇸🇬

[@fahmidamiah]

Thank you so much! We are enjoying Singapore, Christmas was lovely and felt really festive and the new year celebrations everywhere were so much fun. Wishing you an amazing 2023 🎉❤️

[@androsc1418]

Happy New Year. For me, the best KZbin content on Singapore in recent times. 👍🏻🙏

[@fahmidamiah]

Oh wow, this is such a highlight to the week 🥹🥹🥹 thank you for your kindness. Wishing you an incredible 2023 🎉🥰❤️

[@androsc1418]

@@fahmidamiah Your “Part 2” made me search out your earlier contents. Not disappointed at all.👍🏻 Living in a beautifully renovated shop house is a rarity even for the locals or other expats. Enjoy your time in this land. 🙏

[@fahmidamiah]

Thank you so much, from both of us ❤️ It makes us so happy you’ve enjoyed the videos 🥰

[@Neil-clare]

What a wonderful ending! I love Singapore it’s a beautiful country with beautiful people……..I’m happy for you that you had no regrets in the end……what an amazing thing to do spend a year there…I’m very envious…..good luck 🇸🇬❤️

[@fahmidamiah]

Singapore is a wonderful place for sure 🇸🇬 thank you for being here and watching the video. So glad you enjoyed it 🥰 Happy new year! 🎉

[@potentialreality]

This was exceptional. It felt like a well made professional documentary. I even liked your singing. You have a great voice and ability to present. I also liked the way you tied the initial question into the answer at the end. Have a wonderful day.

[@fahmidamiah]

Thank you so much for your incredibly kind words about this video (even my terrible singing hehe). It really means a lot ❤️

[@reeeyou]

I chanced upon this video, and i am extremely impressed by the quality. Really loved your narration and writing. Reminded me of writing daily journals when i was younger. It’s a really beautiful piece of work, and i look forward to watching more of your content ❤

[@fahmidamiah]

I really appreciate you watching the video and taking the time to comment ❤️ I also love that you mention journal writing because this channel is mainly based on some of my journalling ❤️ I hope you’ll enjoy more videos to come. Thank you so much for your supportive comment!

[@mothratemporalradio517]

Not only is it a pleasure to listen to your soothing accent (so smooth - you would be amazing at bedtime stories for adults!), the responses you have evoked here from locals who are proud of their home are genuinely interesting to stumble across as a neighbouring Australian. Enough to forgive you for that click bait! Wishing you and your husband as well as your viewers all the best. Finally, as an aside, to the Singaporeans that are struggling to find a home in the current atmosphere, you are in my thoughts now that i know. i hope it gets better. I appreciate the pride you have in your country in spite of this difficulty, it's quite heartwarming as well as your hospitality to expats even with the housing market in the state it's in. We have similar problems in Sydney yet it looks like the system set up by government in Singapore is very different, so that's really interesting. As an Australian, we don't always hear a lot about Singapore in general so i enjoyed seeing lots of comments by locals, especially outside of a political subject. And Meta, you were able to evoke this commentary, more please (: Cheers! ✌️

[@mustafawahidi8241]

This lady deserves an Oscar

[@tohth2011]

yes, the video make like watch a movies show

[@fahmidamiah]

Oh wow, thank you so much 🥹🥹🥹, you are too kind. Wishing you an amazing 2023! 🎉❤️🎉❤️

[@fahmidamiah]

Thank you! Your words mean so much to me! Happy new year 🥳 🥰❤️

[@leongyet9896]

I just came back from Malaysia after visiting some relatives. Inflation there is crazy. For locals,their daily necessities is way more expensive for locals earning ringgit. Even their so called subsidise petrol is 😅 In fact,normal people like us,no matter where,Inflation hit many of us. As for housing in Singapore, like what some mentioned,the housing market is crazy because of many expats moving here which pushes up the rental market. One more thing is that during the last 2 years covid,there was not enough manpower building new houses. Now manpower is back,the building of new houses is starting to get back into shape,so hopefully in a year or 2,the market will be lowered or at least stabilise. There's always light at the end of the tunnel! Keep going👍

[@fahmidamiah]

Thank you very much for sharing this ❤️ Yes, indeed, it’s very difficult for so many, too many, in fact. I am hoping that over the next year or two, things will ease for everyone, especially those struggling. I am definitely praying this is not the “new normal” and feel the same - there is light at the end of the tunnel, for sure 🌈❤️❤️ Happy new year ☺️

[@glorytruthlove]

Agree

[@midnightsun1728]

I love how you ended your video with such a warm and lovely tone. May you find the rest of your stay in Singapore as delightful and refreshing as the tropical rains.

[@fahmidamiah]

Thank you so much, I'm so happy to know you enjoyed the video. We are excited for what 2023 will bring 🤞🏽 ... wishing you a wonderful new year ❤

[@Glide71]

Love your story telling style, your voice is very calming too. Hopefully u can settle down soon. Don't be afraid to find local friends!

[@fahmidamiah]

Thank you for your kind comment ❤️ I am feeling very hopeful for 2023 ☺️ These past months to rest have been so enlightening! Singapore has been wonderful. We’ll be joining art and photography walks with groups (hopefully soon) and really looking forward to meeting more people and CNY 🎉🥰❤️

[@SmiileySmiiles]

Glad to hear that you are settling into the country ! ❤❤❤

[@fahmidamiah]

Thank you! We have learnt so much from this huge, amazing move 🇸🇬❤️ Happy new year, wishing you the best for 2023! 🎉

[@Cuhsidy]

Absolutely stunning videography and narration. Got me hooked throughout the entire video

[@fahmidamiah]

Thank you so much for watching, and I appreciate you leaving such a kind comment! I hope you’ll enjoy more videos on the channel and more to come. ❤️

[@c.dean-chen]

You have a main character quality about your voice. I would watch a docu series narrated by you. The writing in this was poetic, moving, complete.

[@fahmidamiah]

Thank you so much! We hope you enjoy exploring the other videos across the channel and our future videos too ❤️❤️❤️

[@cadencellchen7915]

@@fahmidamiah Subscribed!

[@fahmidamiah]

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[@songbirdnest6299]

I enjoyed listening to your thoughts. Lovely. When you’re in Singapore, forget the roses but smell the durians and get beamed up to heaven! 💕

[@fahmidamiah]

I’m so glad you enjoyed the video, that means a lot to us 🥰 Speaking of delicious durians, we think you’ll like the next video coming soon ❤️

[@rachellek51]

Ur voice is so soothing. Almost therapeutic🧡

[@fahmidamiah]

Thank you so much for watching, and what a lovely comment :)

[@lizai]

Thank You for sharing this beautiful life with us. Singapore is happy to have you both !

[@fahmidamiah]

We are so happy to be here 🇸🇬🥰❤️ Thank you for watching the video and for your incredibly kind words, we hope you had a lovely Xmas and happy new year 🎉🎉🎉

[@tc691kiing9]

we live in Singapore and we settled our roof at a village near HuaHin..every moment of our life is fighting between options and choices. keep going and stay happy of every moment you have.

[@fahmidamiah]

We just googled HuaHin... Wow! 😮😮😮 We hope you are settled there, happy and having the time of your life :) Thank you for watching the video and for your lovely comment. It is so encouraging. We wish you a wonderful 2023 in HuaHin and wherever else life may take you ❤️🏖️

[@jerytor]

Very calm and peaceful narration. Well done, you kept me throughput the video, could have watched more and more 😊

[@fahmidamiah]

Thank you so much, this means a lot. I hope you'll enjoy the channel and more to come ❤️

[@fadzanuar4962]

Rule of thumb: (1) work in singapore, (2) live in Malaysia and (3) party in Thailand.

[@fahmidamiah]

Haha I think I’d replace your rule number (3) with read books on Seminyak beach (Bali)

[@princeeunus2891]

🤣

[@BlueWithoutBiu]

I love your video. It was so soothing, calming and I don't know what it is but it really gave me peace of mind 🥰

[@fahmidamiah]

Thank you so much, I’m really glad you enjoyed it. I hope you’ll find this channel will continue to do that 🥰 happy new year ❤️

[@BlueWithoutBiu]

@@fahmidamiah Happy new year to you too! Hope you are settling in Singapore well. Enjoy your new journey 🥰

[@KushMandarin]

This is a beautiful little short video. I too moved to Singapore for higher education last year with big plans and a dream. Things didn’t go as per plan and I’ve always had to redirect efforts and change the course of action. What I loved about your video is how you’ve been able to still make sense of it all despite the obvious disappointments we do face. We can only truly hope for the best but ultimately what’s written will manifest, the rest is just our emotions, thoughts, anxiety and fear that’s holding us back or clouding judgement. Moving wasn’t the easiest but I don’t regret taking the plunge and I suppose life is what you make of it but also what’s in store for you. However through it all, it’s important to take each day as it comes and appreciate the time we have and be happy in the present which is a much more healthier way to go about life. Deep underlying messages and I’m glad that I can relate to this and that there are other people who are also going through the same feelings and emotions.

[@fahmidamiah]

Thank you so much for sharing your experiences. It means a lot and I know it will mean so much to others who have or are going through this anywhere in the world. Everything you wrote resonates with me, and exactly why I made the video to share, so thank you so much for being here 🙏🏽 I’m sorry that life didn’t turn out as expected, life is so funny like that, especially when we feel so sure of things and have dreamt it for a long time. I truly believe: What's meant for you will never miss you and what missed you was never meant for you ❤️ So I am wishing and 🙏🏽 that the path you are on now, created by your experiences, leads you to success, great love, rest and peace ☺️ Please take care ❤️

[@zenweaver]

Just remember, Singapore is a good place to travel to many places in the region like Bali, Phuket and so many other places whenever you need a change of scenery.Glad you found that peace you have been seeking.I guess part of it is just gratitude for what we have.

[@fahmidamiah]

Oh you’re so right about this, Singapore is amazing for so much travel ✈️ we also feel there’s so much we still have to explore on the island too!! ❤️Thank you for your lovely words, for watching the video and sharing. We are so happy to be here and looking forward to the rest of 2023. Happy new year 🥰❤️🎉

[@MD196x]

With correct mindset, u can go very far! Congratulations 🎉and a happy 2023

[@fahmidamiah]

Absolutely, yes! Happy new year 😊🎉

[@cryptorama287]

Most people who move to Singapore do not really understand the related costs of living the same lifestyle as back home in US or UK or Australia . Once they try to settle down here they realize it is very different ( cost , culture , location etc ) and have to adapt fast to what they have been given or regret . " The secret of being happy is accepting where and how you are in life now and making the most everyday whatever card you are being dealt with...the good, the bad and the in betweens "

[@fahmidamiah]

Thank you so much for watching. Everything you ever written is the main reason I made the video ☺️❤️ I appreciate you sharing your thoughts too. Wishing you a wonderful weekend!

[@csweez]

It's true, men proposes, but God disposes. We can plan as much as we want, but ultimately God decides our successes or failures. Happy New Year.

[@fahmidamiah]

So beautiful and true, thank you for sharing your thoughts ❤️❤️❤️ And happy new year, wishing you the best in 2023! 🎉

[@bennnnft]

This is the first video I've seen on your channel and am already falling in love with the style it's being shot and narrated. As a local, I understand singapore can be extremely expensive, but it can also be really affordable if you don't over indulge. Apartment rentals have indeed skyrocketed and it is the same for HDBs, condos or houses. I hope 2023 will be better for you and your husband. Interesting to see many areas around clarke quay being captured, as I work in this area as well. Also love your channel name, metalove. It was late last year when I went on a 10 day vipassana meditation course and also learnt about meta and giving back. May all be happy.

[@fahmidamiah]

I appreciate your time in watching the video and leaving such a wonderful comment. Thank you! ❤️ Singapore is certainly expensive, but beyond that, we love it. For us, it's just mainly been the rental market that's been the biggest "shock" to the system (and for others too). I made the video to help people, but it's so wonderful to have locals in Singapore message me. I am truly touched by the Singaporean spirit. I appreciate your feedback on the channel name too, this is beautiful to know :) Btw, you may enjoy the following video too: kzbin.info/www/bejne/aputgIOedsd1ndU Thank you also for your well wishes. We are wishing you a beautiful 2023.

[@melwee8511]

Really enjoyed your narration- so poetic from start to finish. Love your soothing and beautiful voice, it makes like good medicine for the soul.

[@fahmidamiah]

This is such a lovely thing to say, thank you so much! I really hope you’ll enjoy our future content too 🥰 we hope you’ve had a great 2023 so far, wishing you a great year ahead 🎉

[@sweeyeo9330]

Such a moving poetic life adaptation...regrets turn into wonders ! Cherish the beautiful outcomes.

[@fahmidamiah]

Love your comment, thank you so much ❤️❤️❤️ wishing you the absolute best for 2023 🥰🎉

[@myafelicia]

Sounds to me that you arrived at the right place at the right time in your lives. Beautiful and inspirational ❤. May you continue your journey with all the blessings❤

[@fahmidamiah]

Thank you so much! ❤️ This is exactly how we feel. We appreciate you seeing this 🥰 We hope you’ll enjoy more videos to come. Take care ❤️

[@myafelicia]

@@fahmidamiah You two as well. And also thank you for your monologue in this video because it touched me deeply.❤

[@davidaulia1595]

Thank you for the beautifully made video. The composition of pictures are very good. The language spoken is proper and elegantly. Good ending. Really enjoyed watching. I was in Singapore during Christmas 2022.

[@fahmidamiah]

I hope you had a good stay in Singapore ❤️ We loved Christmas and new year here 🎇 Thank you for watching ☺️

[@mystique1633]

While watching this I inadvertently reached out for some tissue paper. Your narrative is so wonderfully poetic it moved me. Living in such a fast-paced country can be quite daunting, but if we learn to slow down and appreciate the little things … life will take a shape of their own

[@fahmidamiah]

Thank you so much for your lovely comment 🥹 it means so much to me that you enjoyed the video. I really hope you will enjoy future videos. Thank you so much for being here and taking the time to explore the channel ❤️ I hope you have a wonderful day.

[@whatever5756]

The script is very well written, the cinematography is perfect. Hope you'll create more videos like this :)

[@fahmidamiah]

Thank you so much for watching the video and for your kind comment! ❤️

[@gratefultess]

I agree 😊

[@lawong1]

It's beautifully narrated and inspiring. Goals are far, but small steps and looking back make us enjoy the journey better. Thanks.

[@fahmidamiah]

Thank you for your lovely comment, it really made me smile. You’re right, “small steps”. I love that. Take care and happy new year 🥰❤️

[@butterbatt3r]

I’m a Singaporean who moved to London six years ago. The tropical thunderstorms are what I miss the most, and when London skies are generous enough to provide a little shower, it almost feels like home. All the rain footage in your video brought lots of comfort (thank you!) and I’m glad that you’re finding joy in some of it too. I grew up learning to work around it - to clock in a good nap, enjoy the indoors, or linger a little longer at the coffee shops and order a second teh tarik. I hope you find some form of home and what works for you in singapore. It already looks like you’ve managed to over the course of a few months, which is commendable. All the best ❤

[@fahmidamiah]

I love hearing from Singaporeans living abroad! How are you in London? I hope you’re enjoying my beautiful city. I hear rents have been wild there too, hope you’ve not been affected too much and still enjoying the UK. Thank you for your kind comment and so happy the Singapore rains part gave you a little bit of home. I’ve always hated rain, but not in Singapore ❤️

[@butterbatt3r]

Thank you! It’s not been 100% smooth for sure, but I’ve definitely experienced some incredible things here that I wouldn’t have been able to in my safety net. Rent’s been wild here too - albeit not as bad as Singapore - and we’re definitely feeling the pinch in other areas. Also, random suggestion, do try a kayaking trail whilst you’re there! Our mangroves are really unique (and fading) and it’s quite calming being in the middle of it all at sunrise. I try to join one whenever I’m back for Christmas and it’s a really special experience you can only get in the tropics :)

[@hairulnizam85]

What a great video and narration! I can totally relate that Singapore is a bustling and beautiful city. Yes it's expensive but that's mostly due to being in the Central or city Area. Try staying in outer region or the heartlands and it's just as bustling and rents are way affordable. Heartlands are still well connected to the city easily. It all depends on your wants and needs. If you can financially sustain during your short term stay here, then go for it! Best wishes to you and your hubs and hope you enjoy it here more!

[@fahmidamiah]

Thank you so much, we absolutely love Singapore 🇸🇬❤️ We appreciate your recommendations so much! We are looking forward to what 2023 has in store. Wishing you a lovely day, thanks again for watching ❤️

[@hollanda500]

I tried the Heartlands before leaving Singapore. It's just as expensive maybe only about $500 cheaper than central. It's not worth it (for me anyway) because it's too far out for people who need to be in the office some days, have friends in central and the time in unsheltered walk to MRTs aint worth it. I also hate Grab in Singapore. But Singapore is a great place but Rental market has really made people think twice

[@fahmidamiah]

@@hollanda500 agreed regarding HDB rents, even in the Heartlands, are not much better as we and many others have been looking. In our opinion, this rental market is unsustainable, for both foreigners and locals.

[@qwertyz212]

Love it....i just moved here from America 8 weeks ago and am still moving around...might be moving to a Shophouse myself to continue the Home Search like you.....good luck!

[@fahmidamiah]

Hi Jason, thanks so much for watching the video, and a big Welcome to Singapore! We hope you’re settling in well ❤️🇸🇬 It’s a tough market but we are Wishing you the best of luck in your search for home ☺️🤞🏽happy new year ❤️

[@Nik-mv5hr]

If budget is your main concern, perhaps you could try experience lower cost cities like Bangkok, Manila or Kuala Lumpur, Penang 1st? Maybe try living there for 1 month or so. Few years ago, I often go to Singapore for work. It is a beautiful & safe country. I do like Singapore a lot but I know I can't afford a luxury lifestyle there. Singapore is great but if a comfortable/luxury lifestyle we are looking for, we either have to earn more or choose a lower cost country. I will still love to travel to Singapore for sure.

[@Knowledgica]

Your video style is really excellent, love the narration and cinematic style. Very interesting, good luck with your future in Sg! I recently visited, it's a special place 🇸🇬

[@fahmidamiah]

Thank you so much for watching and for such kind words! We really appreciate you being here. I hope you had a wonderful time during your Singapore visit.❤️

[@ew6004]

I'm glad you have no regrets and you look more relaxed now. God bless.

[@fahmidamiah]

Thank you for your support, Eleanor! Wishing you an amazing and beautiful 2023, from both of us 🥰❤️🥰

[@hollanda500]

I just watched the video again, and I love the way you ended it. It’s like watching a film 👏

[@ChengGuan01]

Your presentation of a life perspective in this vlog is fascinating to watch. Where have you learnt this skill from?

[@fahmidamiah]

Thank you for this kind compliment. I tend to reflect regularly in my daily life and I am learning the art of presenting this in film. I believe we are all artists. I appreciate you watching the video. ❤

[@duimui5180]

your narration skill is splendid...

[@fahmidamiah]

Thank you so much, we really appreciate this ❤️

[@melongoh1909]

I like your video, it has a calming vibe! haha!!! Well....I came across Matt and Julia's channel. They have a video whereby they interviewed Chris, an expat from UK who lived in Singapore for 5 years. He talked about his salary and his job here. And how he felt he couldn't fit in here in Singapore initially and where he stayed. And later how he managed to adapt. I thought it might be helpful to connect with other expats and share experiences. It will be great too to know the locals and make new friends to get helpful tips. It's always comforting to have friends around in a foreign country. ;) Happy New Year to you both and Fighting!!!!💪😂

[@fahmidamiah]

Happy new year! 🥰🎉 Thank you for watching and taking the time to comment 🥰 We have a few friends in Singapore now but always want to meet more people but I just don’t film them (yet lol). I tend to do my filming and writing privately 🙈Having friends has been very helpful and you’re right, community and support is so important. This video is about my expectations vs (an evolving) reality in the face of making plans, and I’ve learnt a lot as the market changed quite quickly in a short space of time (grateful for life’s teachings), which is affecting people in different ways. But we are looking forward to what 2023 brings and feel so happy to be in Singapore. We loved the festive season and can’t wait for CNY! 🎉Thank you for your lovely, supportive comment - you are very kind. I will check out the video you suggested. Wishing you the best for 2023 🥰❤️🥰

[@jonasestacio9531]

Congrats on 1k subs! Love your narration voice and script, quality is like a short film. Do more, pls!

[@fahmidamiah]

Thank you so much! Your comment means a lot to me. We are ecstatic to be here, and also pinching ourselves... is this a dream? 🥹 We wouldn't have ever dreamed of such wonderful people subscribing and enjoying our channel. So thank YoU so much for being here! I hope you will enjoy more videos to come :)

[@ceciLOVEtaco]

Singapore is an interesting choice if you want to RELAX.

[@fahmidamiah]

If I had a cent for every person who said this… hehe 😊

[@gsuren999]

beautiful storytelling and video edit❣️👏🏽 but i cannot figure out what’s your regret🤔 … is it because you’re experiencing too many changes and tackling them all alone? connect with good friends and all “regrets” will be gone! me and my wife are living here in singapore ! happy to be of help. blessings 🙏

[@fahmidamiah]

Thank you so much, you are so kind! We appreciate your lovely comment and watching the video. Regarding regret: this was a reflection on the word itself ☺️ For me, I find when we try to plan and think thinks will work out as exactly planned, it can make us lose sight of the wider picture ❤️ Wishing you a wonderful 2023 🎉🥰

[@brandonchia3457]

My family and I moved to New Zealand from Singapore. I can resonate with the feelings that you experience. It's always a mixed feeling. We are enjoying our time here in NZ esp with the greenery and mountains. Hope you will enjoy Singapore as I did growing up in SG. Looking forward to more videos :)

[@fahmidamiah]

Congratulations on your move to NZ! I am very jealous of the greenery and mountain’s you’re able to access - this is coming from a LOTR fan 😂. Thank you for your comment and sharing your experience. Moving abroad is definitely one of the best experiences of our lives and we hope you and your family continue to enjoy your time there. Singapore is a wonderful place and we are really happy to be here despite some twists and turns ❤️

[@kadeeeartiaga]

this is soooo beautifully presented! love the heartful message you are trying to convey here. so inspiring, too, in some way ❤

[@fahmidamiah]

Wow, thank you so much for such a kind comment and for watching the video. It means a lot to us ❤️❤️❤️

[@nivashinig]

Just a bit curious are the locals really that friendly? I think most are immersed in their phones and in their own world, Most of them don't even smile or say hello ...sometimes it does get lonely here if you are a foreigner but if your an introvert you will enjoy the place

[@fahmidamiah]

We have found locals to be very friendly :) I think immersion into phones is a 'city person' trait and you do find this in Singapore for sure, as well as London etc. Singapore is sometimes described as "reserved" and Singaporeans don't tend to talk to strangers, and as a Londoner myself, this is no different from city life back home. But I do think people are just busy, so I can totally understand why people might feel lonely; it's understandable. I have found it's been easiest to make new friends by doing more local activities and classes through hobbies. I also believe real friendships can take time to develop - years even - so with that in mind, I tend to just ensure I spend *quality* time in certain spaces rather than just being "anywhere" for the sake of it. Time is precious to me :)

[@nivashinig]

@@fahmidamiah thanks for taking the time to reply, do suggest some activities that you think is worthwhile...

[@9288antong]

Glad to see that you are settling down well here and enjoying each moment of your life. We welcome you. If you are planning to settle down is Sg, do consider buying a small condo unit as money paid for a property will always be your own money unlike renting one.

[@fahmidamiah]

Thank you for your lovely comment, we will hopefully look into these in the future 🤞🏾 we are proud to call Singapore home and for welcoming us 🥹🏡 thank you for watching the video and happy new year ❤️🥰🎉

[@audreyang902]

Absolutely right. SG is a safe and living here. Have quality of life and greater economic opportunities. Cost of living much lower than in UK and Europe. The annual average cost of living in London for a single person( one bedroom ) is over £36,000O. Our shophouse rental units and condo with facilities are much lower than in big city in London. Our utilities bill, hawker food , taxes are lots more lower,too. Glad you enjoy living here.

[@fahmidamiah]

Hi Audrey, thanks so much for your comment, happy new year 🎉 It sounds like you’re in London now? my hometown! ❤️ A lot of my family and friends are there, some rent, most own. The cost of living in London for a single person has definitely gone up, but the rental opportunities are different because there are other towns and cities too, which is good for remote workers. I’d say this is the biggest difference regarding (specifically) rental when one compares Singapore with UK. What’s also interesting is that majority of renters don’t live in the more expensive central areas of London, so the average rent is taking this into account. It’s important for anyone moving abroad anywhere to be aware of their finances and possible economic changes in 2023 especially if they have families and dependants to look after on a single salary ☺️ I hope this video is useful to them. And that even if a place has expensive housing, there are other wonderful pros there, like in Singapore!! 🥰❤️ Hoping for 2023 to be good to everyone 🙏🏾☺️

[@ignatiuschua5268]

Wow, such a beautiful narration and video. Very impressed.

[@fahmidamiah]

Thank you so much for watching and taking the time to leave such a kind comment 🥰 happy new year ❤️

[@jasonjack1093]

Hi , why not move to Kuala Lumpur, Malaysia ? It's HEAVEN on EARTH ! Food haven , much cheaper accomodation , English language friendly , friendly people , so much to explore ...... , great infrastructure , diversified culture ...... This list goes on , and on , and on . MUCH , MUCH , MUCH CHEAPER than Singapore.

[@fahmidamiah]

Hi Jason, thank you for watching the video. You are not the first person to mention Malaysia, which is definitely interesting ☺️ I have to agree that it’s an amazing place. We lived in KL for a few months pre/pandemic and we have so many great memories. I also want to spend time in Malaysian Kampungs too some time 😍 Thank you for sharing your experience, no doubt it is helpful to us and will be to many others 🥰who read through the comments section. Have a great day! ❤️

[@Sunshine-zi4nq]

Higher crime rates ,insane traffic. My sister lives there, I lived there for a year. I prefer Singapore , much safer and more organised.

[@fahmidamiah]

@@Sunshine-zi4nq oh look, here you are again, another bitter comment. The person above is sharing how wonderful Malaysia is, they’re not saying anything “bad” about Singapore. Why are you leaving bitter comments on my channel, especially when elsewhere you are telling others not to comment on Singapore. You’re a hypocrite, racist troll.

[@Sunshine-zi4nq]

@@fahmidamiah I was merely providing info to ignorant viewers who might be misled.

[@suninarnhem8738]

Most articulate travel journal on YT

[@fahmidamiah]

Thank you for watching and leaving such a lovely comment. You already made my morning ❤️

[@sychia2830]

Just like to give you a little bit of heart for this lovely video. I know it seems tough, and I came across your video as I am a Singaporean man myself who have made a move to Canada during the pandemic. It's really profound to watch a reversal of roles. And to understand human beings are all trying to enrich their lived experiences. My home country may seem relentless and nobullshitty - but if you do make some friends along the way, I want to implore it will be less alone and tiresome. I love the title - and the narration - it was your way of expressing your art so please continue being you!

[@fahmidamiah]

Hi Sy! I always love to hear from people who are or have also experienced moving abroad and starting from scratch elsewhere. It is such an incredible human experience, both hard and enjoyable simultaneously, and it really tests our openness to others and the world ❤️ Your comment here and compassion really shows that - thank you for being here and leaving such kind words with understanding of what my channel is about. It means a lot. Also, I love the word nobullshitty. I shall use this from now on! 😁

[@hummit]

I'm glad that at the end of the video you said you have no regrets :) Seriously, Singapore is one of the safest places in the world. Transport links via MRT and buses to everywhere - you don't need a car. Here there are no natural disasters, no typhoons. Weather is like summer all year round - no freezing cold winters. Can jet to neighbouring countries for holidays on the cheap. In Singapore, everything is so convenient. If you are hungry, just walk downstairs to hawker stall. Of course there will always be other factors like increasing rental to contend with - but you need to understand why this is so - there are many others like you coming here to take advantage of the job or business opportunities and personal safety they cannot find back home.

[@gothqshq]

I thank you for this video it actually made my day

[@fahmidamiah]

Thank you very much for watching and leaving a lovely comment. I hope you have a great week ahead ❤️

[@natureadventurist956]

Nice narrative! Shout out from a Singapore viewer.

[@fahmidamiah]

Thank you for watching! Wishing you a wonderful New Year 2023 🎉❤️❤️

[@MiloTinCan]

Great story-telling Great narration Great cinematography Great editing Great music By the way, you could open the cookie packaging with the croissant knife 😂

[@fahmidamiah]

Thank you for watching and taking the time to leave a comment. ❤️❤️❤️ I’m so happy you enjoyed it, I always have sweaty palms before a release and your comment means so much to me. Hahaha someone else also suggested using the croissant knife too, doh! We had a bimbo moment on Xmas day lol 🤪. Happy new year 🎉🥰

[@gratefultess]

💯🙌🏽❤

[@fazer8511]

With that voice and talent for making video content, you should be making documentaries. Perhaps start off by shooting the Marina Bay and Bishan Otter families? Enjoyed your video and hope you guys have a great 2023!!

[@fahmidamiah]

Oh wow 🥹 that’s such a nice comment, thank you. I don’t know if I could ever pull a documentary off, but I appreciate you being here and watching the video ❤️ I have really enjoyed filmmaking in 2022, but then again, Singapore is so wonderful and is the real magic 🇸🇬❤️❤️ Wishing you a wonderful 2023 🥰

[@summerapple7062]

Love your narratives, just like listening to podcast in Spotify.

[@fahmidamiah]

Thank you, you are very kind❤️ happy new year! 🎉🎉🎉

[@liteo57]

Happy New Year! Wishing you both a happy & healthy 2023!! There's nothing wrong with planning, it's knowing when to let go... don't try to control situations that are beyond your control. And just remember that life's a journey... enjoy the highs & learn from lows.

[@fahmidamiah]

Happy new year! Thank you for your beautiful comment. I love your words of wisdom and I’m so happy you and so many others are sharing them 🥹 I’m sure it’s super helpful to those who need a hug through words. Wishing you a wonderful 2023! ❤️🥰

[@tmnprlsaicntr]

Both of u make such an adorable couple! I hope that the bond which you both share continues to grow stronger & sweeter as the years go by! True enough - life is all about facing challenges & attaining the triumph through it to shine brighter & inspire those around us! Lots of Love to the two of you!!

[@fahmidamiah]

This is such a touching comment, thank you for watching and for your beautiful words 💕❤️💕

[@AyushMathurworld]

I can relate so much to this when i moved to SG last year. Good life to you guys. Cheers!

[@fahmidamiah]

Thank you so much for sharing, you are definitely not alone ❤️ Many foreigners have this or similar experience unfortunately, but I do hope you are settling in now. Lately, I do know of many foreigners now choosing to leave due to the rental issues, and some planning to leave next year as they have school aged children to consider. I’m not sure what what 2023 is going to look like. Wishing you a great year ahead, full of ease ❤️

[@Roaming_junkie]

For a moment I got lost and it felt like I was watching some nicely made Natgeo documentary. Wish you good stay in Singapore. However London has its own charm

[@fahmidamiah]

Thank you for watching the video! Your comment means a lot to me 🥹 And completely agree, London has its own charm, as does sunny Singapore. Thank you for being here! happy new year ❤️

[@jolau1383]

There are two types of ppl here. Super rich or those born here. One has a choice and one has no choice. Keep up or left out. That is our lifestyle here. Once my friend planned his retirement in Australia and flew back just after 6 months. The reason is that it is too slow there, he retired as a taxi driver instead.

[@fahmidamiah]

Thank you for sharing. I'm kind of... sad 😔 to read you feel "one has no choice". I am learning the dog eat dog lifestyle here, it's the same in most busy cities. But, I like to believe we all have a/some choice, in one way or another, especially in our lifestyle. I couldn't tell from your comment, but is your retired friend happy to return to Singapore? Btw, Nothing wrong with taxi driving, this was my dad's job when I was young. I have the utmost respect for those who make our societies run. They deserve the real riches in life 😊

[@ginpiss1]

If you are not Oriental looking they remove the rental property from your reach, some ads do say Chinese only.

[@fahmidamiah]

Rental racism does sadly persist in Singapore. I am glad that many landlords are sickened by it as well as property agents who do their best to challenge it. It is still hard for many, especially those who aren't considered "Expats" at (literally) face value, who don't typically look for and live in the condos and luxury apartments and who have big salaries. I do know it has improved lastly over the years, but of course, still a long way to go... Everyone deserves a good home :)

[@Bella-wp7wz]

I really like the editing and storytelling!

[@fahmidamiah]

Thank you! I appreciate you watching the video and leaving such a lovely comment ❤️❤️❤️

[@HermansSubscriptions]

I stumbled upon this video by chance, and thank you for sharing this. I am a local who decided to move out of my mum's place and live independently five years ago - something that is uncommon amongst the locals. Just as there were ups to having my own space, there are certainly downs that come with it. Those down moments made me feel regretful at times for moving out and the thought of moving back to my mum's place is, for lack of a better word, embarrassing - despite her lovingly keeping the option open for me. Recently, life has it that I got into a dispute with my then-landlord that forced me out of the apartment and settled in another unit that, to quote your words in this video, is far from perfect. I have spent the last few months desperately trying to find a space that would be more long-term for me but that has not been successful. I felt lost and desperate until I decided to slow down and appreciate what I have now and funny how life just got brighter and lighter then. My point is, I felt I was alone in going through all that until I saw this and, so, it is always a good reminder that when you think you are alone, you are not. No regrets. Only life experiences to live and remember by :)

[@fahmidamiah]

Thank you so much for sharing, it was truly insightful to read the experiences of renting from yourself as a local. You have really helped me understand renting in Singapore more from your perspective. I am so sorry that you've experienced these downs and hope you are doing okay now? We are sending you lots of love and well wishes to find home. Because that's what we all want and need, whether it's our own property (mortgaged) or we are renting, we as human beings need home. For physical shelter and for our general wellbeing. I hope you have found it and feeling much more rooted and stable now in life ❤️ I've had my fair share of bad landlords too (as well as good ones), so I completely relate to your experience of needing to leave a place because of them :( But like you have said, life is a journey and our experiences truly make us stronger and wiser. I am so glad you have no regrets. Thank you so much for sharing, it has meant to much to me! I would also love to hear from you and see how you are doing. If you'd like to email me, that would be amazing. You can find my email in the description :) I hope to hear from you soon ❤️

[@fahmidamiah]

p.s. mums are the best 🥰

[@WorldAfterCovid19TV]

Happy Blessed New Year 2023! Life just began for me...stay safe!👍🎉🎊

[@fahmidamiah]

If life has just begun for you, then we wish you a wonderful life going forward 🥰 happy new year, thank you so much for being here 🥰❤️🥰

[@gryff8400]

I've moved twice to new countries, know Singapore too. Cities are tough. Stick it out as you settle in. Join any kind of local group and I mean *local* -small, close and close knit - so you have a chance of seeing these friends in your neighbourhood. Use your local shops regularly so you get known and talked to. ❤️

[@fahmidamiah]

Thank you so much for watching and for sharing! It's so lovely to hear from fellow travellers and reading about your experiences. Cities are definitely tough!! And I couldn't agree more, finding local places that feel like home have really made a difference to us. ❤ I'm curious to know where else you've lived? 😊But I see you are in Singapore now, so I hope you've been having a great time here and enjoying everything the red dot has ❤

[@flyhighxxx7264]

Can you help me understand on how to get a work pass in Singapore?? Thanks

[@Robotjam112]

This is such a well articulated and resonant video. It's so refreshing to hear your experience narrated in a calm, genuine, and rhythmic way. I also wanted to say I am equally susceptible to planning and over-planning and at present I have mapped out the next 3-5 years of what I want/ expect my life to look like, recognising the risks that come with trying to plan so far ahead. I cannot be certain where I will end up in the coming years, but I hope wherever I am, I am without regret. :) P.S - I will be looking up the works of Mahmoud Darwish now

[@fahmidamiah]

This is such a beautiful comment, thank you so much for watching and for sharing your experience with planning. Mahmoud Darwish’s writing is absolutely mesmerising, I hope you will enjoy the works ❤️

[@wongfamilyfavchannels5488]

Love the videography. Your title was certainly a click bait for me! Haha. Absolutely agree that while it is important to plan ahead, one must still be able to embrace spontaneity and change because we cannot control anything except our choices!! Home is where family is. And wherever you and your husband go, as long as you are together, it will be warm, fun and safe.

[@fahmidamiah]

This is such a beautiful comment to read. Thank you so much for your kindness. We hope you’re having a great start to 2023 ❤️🥰❤️

[@Vistacraft82]

I hate click baits, just deceitful in my opinion.

[@himanshukr8237]

Beautiful video. Thank you for sharing !

[@fahmidamiah]

Thank you so much, I’m so happy you enjoyed it ❤️

[@ew0211]

in Singapore you must mix with the locals and the only way to do that is live in the hdb estate. u can find very nice hdb units in singapore. if u live straight in orchard road u will be lost and wont see singapore as a whole. singapore is also expensive. most of my expat friends agree with it. so make sure u have enough before you come over.

[@fahmidamiah]

Hi Eve, thank you so much for sharing! 🥰 I think a lot of choices in location is around access to people’s offices and work, so people choose more central places for this reason. And currently HDB rents are also very similar to condos although only slightly cheaper. But You are right though, to really know a place, living amongst locals is key, it’s why airbnb is very popular for travellers around the world, but of course airbnb wouldn’t work in Singapore. Thanks for watching! Hope you’re having a great week so far! ❤️

[@nivashinig]

Just a bit curious are the locals really that friendly? I think most are immersed in their phones and in their own world, Most of them don't even smile or say hello ...sometimes it does get lonely here but if your an introvert you will enjoy the place

[@leonieodey]

Wow, this was so beautiful to watch! ✨💚

[@fahmidamiah]

Thank you so much for watching and leaving a comment ❤️ I appreciate you being here!

[@saronahjorgen5845]

As someone who moved here recently with my husband , if you don't look oriental/chinese they will treat you a bit differently. My husband is white and I am tanned. First two months I was here I noticed Singaporean especially the elderly love to stare and its so uncomfortable for me but I was being optimistic and thinking maybe they just being curious, till I encountered something that hurt my feelings. One of our neighbours came to our house, to say hi, and they thought Im the maid. They just love to stare at us, I think its very rude. Apart from this experience i think singapore is lovely.

[@mamamememoo]

So sorry that this happened to u. My cousin is Eurasian and sometimes gets mistaken too. It’s a genuine mistake by the elderly locals. The younger ones are less tactless and they are more cosmopolitan. I really feel bad for your experience but I hope we’ve been nice otherwise. Every country has its ups and downs. My friends and I were mistaken for being Jap in England and got spat on by some elderly people there before. That was in the 90s, so those were vets who knew Japan to be cruel at war. None of us were Jap, but they couldn’t tell us apart. ^^”

[@XiXai]

What’s wrong to be the maid? Maids are humans and make money. I’ll be offended if anyone thought I was a criminal, pedo, rapist, thief but nothing wrong from being the maid. I’m a Latina and they think I am Philippine although Koreans apparently can tell the difference. I’m brown and have no problems other than men’s approaching in romantic ways which I just ignore! But yeah nothing wrong to be the maid, shouldn’t hurt your feelings. Perhaps wasn’t even the skin color perhaps was the behavior and attitude.

[@saronahjorgen5845]

@@XiXai i didn't said its wrong? But how they just assumed im maid based on my skin colour that's wild. Staring at people just rude.

[@XiXai]

@@saronahjorgen5845 I doubt it was not based in your skin color it was based on the vibe you gave to the person who knew could get into your nerve, insecurity by pointing your skin color. It’s not the first time it happens? Is it? It’s something that bother you and others can read it. Start by being ok on your own skin, by knowing you’re a child lox god like I and even the person who thought or poke you into calling you a maid, This person was vibing low and so were you with your skin color insecurity. I’ve been before in my ignorance thinking I was better to the ones who were few shades darker than I. It’s just a reflection of our own insecurities. Anyone secure of itself will take it as a simply mistake, well I was confused as the maid so what how do that lower my value. Realize brown, blue or violet you’re a child of god, a mad or a doctor or lawyer you’re still a child of god. Do go and no harms even to those who bother you, just move on from it as they most probably received otherwise how would they know it and use it as a weapon. Our world is upside down and we continue to fight, not ascend to a more loving energy. I repeat, maid, doctor , a freaking presidents it’s still our same creator, Muslim, catholic, Jewish it’s still the same god. Leave behind the insecurity child of god. Be always blessed.

[@vetiverose128]

@@XiXai If you're not a local, don't even bother commenting like u know the situation. Casual racism is common here. The racist aunties here often "mistaken" brown skinned women for being a maid. It's often intentional.

[@stagada4592]

There are no regrets in life. Only learnings.

[@fahmidamiah]

I love this ❤️

[@nilsmada]

HAPPY NEW YEAR 2023 & MERRY CHRISTMAS (for the remaining few days)!!! 😁 So glad that you've managed to overcome all adversities and gradually let yourselves slowly but surely return to normalcy. 😁 I won't comment further as it seems almost everyone had their say here and my thoughts are almost similar. Never like to repeat what has been here. Just wanted to wish both of you the very best for this new year and that eventually all dreams, and plans, will slowly be realised. By the way, you do know that you don't have to wear mask anymore whether indoor or outdoor in Singapore. Right? With the exception of riding in the tubes (MRT) and buses. 😁

[@sanifoo]

Love your script, beautiful words. (Perhaps you may want to venture the heartlands and find a "cheaper" niche there beyond the naturally expensive city centre. If you haven't. It's not perfect but where 80% of Singaporeans called home).

[@fahmidamiah]

Thank you for your kind comment and for watching the video ❤️ and for the recommendation. We did initially look in the Heartlands, but it was around the time we wanted to give ourselves a break from the search… so we will get back onto this in the near future 🤞🏾it would be really great to experience it! 🥰 thank you for being here.

[@jaypann]

I just wanted to apologise for the comment I made above. I jumped to a conclusion which was not right nor fair. I watched your video a few times again and understood your message about regrets in the context you wanted to convey. I have watched your other videos and have appreciated them and enjoy your voice presentation style and soothing voice. They are also quite informative. Am sorry if caused any hurt by my comments, maybe I was not in a good place at the time. I wish you luck and happiness in your new ventures in life and applaud your resilience and courage to do what you are doing 🙏

[@fahmidamiah]

Thank you so much for your comment, it is very kind of you. I appreciate you giving the video a second chance. And no apologies necessary and no hurt caused whatsoever. Your message means a lot to me so thank you again for being so open. Wishing you the best my friend ❤️

[@SuzushimaChin]

Born and bred here I thought life was all this rush and race till I left for study overseas. I want to say that there is always a choice even for us Singaporeans. But a slower pace probably means a lower pay too

[@fahmidamiah]

Thank you for sharing your experience. I have to agree, with the way this world functions, when we slow down something has to give, and it’s usually pay. But I do believe, if one has the means (even modest means), it can do wonders to slow down, leave the rat race (even if temporarily). We were never designed to work in that way. In case you’re interested, I talk a little about this in my earlier videos: Moving to Singapore (part 1) and a silent vlog from 2021 titled Working from Home. Wishing you the best for 2023 ❤️ thank you for being here ❤️

[@crimedogs]

Holy smokes! Your editing is sublime! I am hooked!!!!

[@fahmidamiah]

Thank you so much!! It was so nice to wake up to your lovely comment. Thank you for watching the video ❤️

[@BienvenidoMarquezBacsal]

Whoahh i love ur storytelling! Keep posting.. Been living here in Singapore for 10 years now.. Prices might be crazy here especially the rental.. but given the choice ill still choose Singapore becoz of how safe and efficient it is to live here.. not to mention that most Local Singaporeans are kind and very welcoming.. 😊😎

[@fahmidamiah]

I definitely agree about locals, we have met some wonderful people 🥰

[@kngsm]

I love your voice and how you film the video. Being a local, yes Singapore is an expensive and stressful country and if you are not born here or live here for long time, the feeling will be stronger. But slowly you will find the beauty of Singapore, try to mix with some locals to know more about Singapore. Hope you find more happiness to stay in Singapore as no country in this world is perfect.

[@fahmidamiah]

Thank you for watching and for leaving such a kind comment. Singapore is a truly unique and fascinating place ❤️🇸🇬

[@Jinke888]

My wife and I moved from Singapore to Hong Kong to shanghai to singapore to shanghai to singapore to London and we have just arrived in Bangkok with a 5 year visa.

[@fahmidamiah]

Oh wow, you are truly living the nomadic life. I hope all your travels and stays have been full of wonderful memories. Bangkok sounds incredible! I hope you’re settling in well. Please let us know how you get on, it would be wonderful to hear about your Thailand adventures. What a beautiful country!

[@kokkiongang5965]

Thanks for sharing… Hopefully 2023 rental rate will easy with more new housing available in market..

[@fahmidamiah]

I hope so too, meanwhile, we are counting our blessings including experiencing this amazing island. Thank you for watching the video.. Wishing you the best for 2023 🥰❤️🎉