7 Phrases Every Man Secretly Wants To Hear

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[@Jenny-pr5xf]

Ya...I always say this to him....Your my HERO..MY SOLDIER...He is happy when he hear it

[@Jenny-pr5xf]

In no.3 we sit together to talked we share opinions whatever problem we have or whatever negative I notice about hi thru his actions...and he appreciates it soo much. because.im the one to start to open up and immigately he sit n listened ..

[@MonikaRollingerova]

Does it work even if we're not dating yet?

[@janetswain2354]

Today when my man texted me saying, I love you, i responded with, that makes my heart happy followed by saying i love you too. I told him that because seeing that text really did make my heart happy. We're an older couple who have been seeing each other for 8 months and it's also a long distance relationship. So verbal communication and texts are very important. Hopefully, we'll figure out a way to actually be together. We see each other about once a month for a few days. He is the one doing the traveling. But i still feel very fortunate to have him in my life at this late stage in life. We both live alone and have limited incomes. Nothing about this relationship says long term but at this point in life just having someone to share your thoughts with everyday makes life worth living. Fyi, he's 76 and I'm 83. Believe me when i say, you're never too old to give love and be loved 😍

[@athena1047]

Omg. My heart sings for you. ❤ Maybe I have hope. Thank you

[@ChristinaB-mj3tj]

What a beautiful beautiful story ! And yes you are right you are never to old to love ! I’m in a similar situation but a much more different outcome ! What’s meant for you will come to you ! God Bless you and keep you safe! Christina

[@MyName-qh3pm]

Holy smokes I tried 2 of these this evening and they worked like a charm! This man knows what he’s talking about!

[@NaughtyAutie]

7 You're my hero 6 I trust you 5 Whatever you think 4 I apologize 3 You're right 2 Thank you 1 I feel...

[@TheLilMissLisa]

Explains why I am much loved. Because they are all in my vocabulary.

[@angeloflourdes1235]

Thank you.. I don't have the time to listen to the blah blah

[@julieponce3345]

Thank you

[@madelinelambtalks]

You guys never miss. This is the kind of relationship I have with my husband. The more I trust his lead (he’s very capable), the better our relationship gets. I would be a fool to go somewhere else.

[@szszszsz95395]

Do you EVER get to lead in any area of your life?

[@madelinelambtalks]

@ of course… my husband treats me like a queen, so he always takes what I want/need into consideration… all I have to do is ask/talk to him in a polite way. He’s the most loving, giving person I’ve ever met.

[@BraundaB]

​@@szszszsz95395, ALWAYS, I am in charge of my happiness, I am a very girly girl, but I have respect for myself and I am allowed to do what I like, even if it's by myself. I am a woman 💪

[@michellehermanson290]

I have been trying to remember to let him do things for me when he wants to help. It's so hard since I'm a very independent woman. It has made a change in our relationship😊

[@pathforwardteam260]

I think I told my husband ‘ you are my hero “ a hundred times ! Cuz he really is my hero!

[@janicewitzke9529]

After heartache for almost three years off and on. God finally did it. When I let go. If the man I was with before. What a difference this man I m with now. . I'm so blessed ❤

[@janicewitzke9529]

We are in a distant relationship. What I mean is we are not able to see each other yet. But we are in constant communication. ❤️❤️❤️

[@danilaroche1156]

If he cares for you, he should visit.

[@verycherry4459]

This can work! ❤️❤️❤️

[@chuckchenoweth5261]

I am also in a long distance relationship. My partner is a very busy person. I have seen it. But it should not be that way soon. We have been talking about marriage. There are a couple of issues, which I already knew about. I will be glad to be with my intended partner in life.

[@sonyavincent7450]

You've never met?

[@bonnyedmonds7539]

I have the same thing with my new person. Communicating for 6 months now. Energy very powerful.

[@s.b.8258]

You are my hero, I trust you, whatever you think (you decide), I apologize (not to give him a free pass), you are right, thank you (appreciation), I feel (followed by an emotion).

[@janicewitzke9529]

Yes definitely. Works. God has sent me the man of my dreams prayers. Oh my goodness. Yes it definitely works. ❤️❤️

[@lynj9088]

Thank you again Brody. You are absolutely correct in all of these communication skills. I always remember that I am not perfect so I don't expect JJ to be perfect!! I am truly grateful to have him in my life!! He is such an awesome provider and he works extremely hard to take care of his family and friends!!! He is a great role model for his son & daughter!! I thank God every single day for him!! 🙏

[@vivianamieres]

Thank you!! I feel prepared to accept a good man can take care of me ❤ and to accept his help and love. Im a competent woman but i would love to accept and feel happy with a man loving me.

[@Bolamaxwell-d6l]

I call him my SUPER HERO.He feels so much relax

[@janicewitzke9529]

Yes that's the kind I was with before narcist. He broke off with me I'm so grateful cause if he didn't I don't think I could have done. It. Yes it truly works. ❤️

[@tetonhiker]

When I did say, Whatever you think, he'd get mad. We eventually divorced because he pretty much was mad at me for everything

[@MagnetizeYourMan]

Yes if a man doesn't respond well to these after using our 90-Day or 30-Day challenge then you're dealing with a broken man and you need to walk away.

[@jeannegeiger4750]

Yes I had one of those too sorry I understand!

[@cynthiaklug6020]

Sounds like a mental health issue for him???

[@MaritzaMercado-k3w]

I really appreciate how you word things... I am sure glad that there is people that honestly and genuinely Want to Help people Succeed in general.. the in general since in which i speak of is a man who is listening can learn how to become a better person as well as definitely a female learn how to do a better job and know her place in the TEAM doing a better job to help make a much more happier world.

[@Conscious59]

So good...always useful, important & key content! ALL filed under "M" for memory!! Advice/tips are always GOLD & deeply resonate as TRUTH. Many thanks!

[@BeaniesWorld00]

Forgive me for asking - but what can us women bring to the table (when we are acting low-key like we're a queen) ?

[@HammyGirl999]

Hi Brody! 🎉 -Chelsea

[@isabelleboulay2651]

trust is earned in any relationship. So the words can only be said if he has earned that trust. Letting him lead in a situation means you trust he'll make the best decision possible for both of you. For that, you have to be sure he has the couple's interest at heart. This doesn't happen overnight and it can sound fake if you're not there together. Some of these examples here are antiquated. Men are not heroes nowadays. They might be appreciated for protecting from harm and being smart about organizing trips and endeavors by preventing issues with their knowledge, but there's no knight in shining armor here. A man that needs to feel like he's a hero is living in a fantasy. Women are much more independent today, what she can tell him is to make decisions and make action where he's more proficient than she is. It's about identifying what each partner is great at and allowing them to shine through it while appreciating their involvement.

[@pamelav.5699]

@@isabelleboulay2651 Too many times I hear men bashed everywhere by a lot of women & vice versa about women, but not all of them deserve that name! There are Knights in shinning Armor out there with their own problems within themselves. As long as they're not pedophiles, child molesters, druggies & drunkards that don't give a damn, they can be Nights in shinning Armor that's for sure!!!!! I've learned everyone has baggage of some kind. None of us asked to be born we all have a childhood and a background. There just needs to be more people that will care enough to get through all that and care and have a life together! I definitely agree about the trust issues! It does help to let each other know that trusting and believing in one another is important! I definitely believe in these kind of relationships!!!!!

[@pamelav.5699]

@@isabelleboulay2651 Too many times I hear men bashed everywhere by a lot of women & vice versa about women, but not all of them deserve that name! There are Knights in shinning Armour out there with their own problems within themselves. As long as they're not pedophiles, child molesters, druggies & drunkards that don't give a damn, they can be Nights in shinning Armour that's for sure!!!!! I've learned everyone has baggage of some kind. None of us asked to be born we all have a childhood and a background, There just needs to be more people that will care enough to get through all that and care and have a life together! It's important for couples to know that trusting and believing in each other is important!!!!!

[@pathforwardteam260]

I been saying majority of the stuff to my man!

[@wandering_nomad1]

Be careful when apologizing! Some men take an apology from a woman, very badly. They don’t see it as a woman taking accountability, they see it instead, as a tactic and vicious manipulation.

[@MagnetizeYourMan]

Yes if a man doesn't respond well to these after using our 90-Day or 30-Day challenge then you're dealing with a broken man and you need to walk away.

[@BeaniesWorld00]

How do you handle your boyfriend when whenever you act really happy and skippy and bubbly - he feels upset cos he cannot match your energy (his words) - and he does a couple of things to bring you down a bit?

[@christieedwards304]

Yes! Exactly same with my man!!

[@Michelle-u2y]

He sounds narcissistic...my ex would turn rude or obnoxious whenever I was happy.

[@rachelmaier1057]

T thank you for sharing.

[@ZandreBeau]

Great advice 👍🏼

[@julieponce3345]

Thank you

[@kimclarke3938]

TY!❤

[@MagnetizeYourMan]

Welcome! :)

[@pamelav.5699]

Would this be the same thing to say, You are my night and shinning armor?

[@Oneworld-nc2kb]

Knight in shining armour

[@MagnetizeYourMan]

Yes that's good too :)

[@katherineskrzynecki3347]

​@MagnetizeYourMan I have used that phrase before and he was shocked kinda shy about it yet smiled at the same time

[@janog222]

This is crap. Thinking you can love a man into a better man has been the ruin of many a kind hearted woman.

[@soulinameatsack29]

You gotta start with a decent/good to great man to start off with. It's true, you can't butter up a loser or abuser. But when the man is good & decent, this kind of treatment brings out his amazing qualities. (I've experienced both)

[@laurasandford8955]

Exactly

[@fiorella1021]

The phrases suggested are only effective when honestly felt... they're not meant to be manipulative. Use them if, and only if, you actually mean them. Their magic comes from your honesty. ❤

[@ericataney]

True. Real narcissists and abusers need individual therapy and healing; your kindness can't fix them, and too many women aren't aware of this. I'll add one other caveat: Addicts won't respond in a healthy way to these tender intentions either. Pornography is a HUGE destroyer & corruptor of men (AND women) and other addictions can be relationship wreckers too! Steer clear.

[@dularieragbir4269]

He who insulted & embarrase me & now am staying away from him. He. Pretending he dont care but i know hes missing me.

[@dularieragbir4269]

He is a big liar. About his feelings for.me.

[@atagany]

All men who catch roaches are my heroes!

[@marielim8224]

When i asked my man why he put ❤️ in a female friend 's picture n he said i don't trust him am i doing right..? i know i feels a bit of jealous bcoz i love him so much..what shall i do..?

[@marielim8224]

I always thank him for everything he does n appreciate him..I always tells him I love him n missed him when we are apart..you see we are in long distance relationship..

[@dalostgurl8615]

Would he be okay if you do the same to other men? You can agree on respect others jealousy, can't you?

[@marielim8224]

@@dalostgurl8615 no..I know he is not happy if I put ❤️ on men's pictures but out of respect I don't do that n he doesn't like if other men compliment me...he gets jealous too..he doesn't want me to have men friends in my fb

[@Michelle-u2y]

Only express trust in him if he is actually trustworthy (some will use this against you to reject all accountability. My ex accused me of bad-mouthing and slandering him when I would tell others about his abusive behaviours (after years of keeping it mums hoping that he would change 🙄). He thought that he could behave however he pleased, and he was A-OK, but I couldn't breath a word to anyone or else I was disrespectful.

[@gabriellazagopoelman6445]

❤

[@1tommyday]

Not agreeing with a lot of these

[@blackeneddove]

Yeah, when I genuinely tell my husband “whatever you think is best” hoping that he will take the lead and stop dumping all the decisions on me, he just looks irritated that I won’t just do it all.

[@marthisa5800]

⁠@@blackeneddove you just got your answer “he just looks irritated that I won’t just do it all”

[@aprilkabz5623]

My man usually feels insecure with me, he feels he doesn’t deserve me that I am too much for him. I love him, because he is the best thing that’s ever happened to me as compared to my narcissist expartner

[@aprilkabz5623]

How can I go about this? Attimes I get tired because he is always so apologetic even when it’s not necessary.

[@Lori-g9u]

😀😀

[@BeaniesWorld00]

What if he is a recovering from some narcissistic tendancies of controlling, from his childhood - I fear he will go 'hmm that works' inside and go off to his corner and save it to manipulate?

[@paula280690]

Run!

[@ericataney]

Yeah! PLEASE for the love of CHOCOLATE, RUUUN! He needs therapy, not a woman to wreck.

[@marieklenke2916]

Ew i hate the "You are my hero" 🤢🤮

[@golfingirl3255]

You have to really feel that way to say it!

[@crzellmer]

Instead trying saying "I feel safe with you" or "i trust you" or I really like how you make me feel emotionally safe and protected or something along those lines. Being a "hero" can be many different feelings. Use what works for you and your situation.

[@VictoriaGadd-lx2ki]

It’s a bit contrived and disingenuous to trot out these hackneyed phrases. What you say and how you behave towards each other is what cements the bond. Working down a list of phrases someone recommends you use to with your man is psychological manipulation and therefore has no deep genuine value to either party. Human beings are not created according to a blueprint - we are all different so a formula such as this is … ??? Yes - I think disingenuous and manipulative.

[@vivhiggins5656]

Are your telling woman what too do well a lot off us know that woman take your power back we are being Brian washed,men need a woman more,true it goes both ways a woman was the hunter a thousands off years a go take know notice too what sine men tell you

[@jeannegeiger4750]

Uhm did you even proofread what you just wrote?

[@vivhiggins5656]

@jeannegeiger4750 are don't be naughty now,

[@jeannegeiger4750]

@ 🤭🤭

[@ritaanderson1535]

@vivhiggins5656 … respectfully, spell check and proofreading would have been helpful towards giving your post and thoughts credibility.

[@lorraineamico42]

Your the best you hit the spot ❤@lorraineamicothemakeupartist

[@Bolamaxwell-d6l]

I call him my SUPER HERO.He feels so much relax