9 Proofs That They Only Wants You When You No Longer Want Them - Stoicism

[@bikramjamo]

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[@vanessaulacia424]

Link please

[@kimberlyknight3083]

I deserve better

[@jazmynevans9301]

I Deserve better

[@erikagreathouse4418]

I need this book.

[@GoWithDaFlowMo]

Value me when I'm still there and still care, once you've shown me you don't value me I don't care if you miss me or want me or whatever, I'm gone... With no regrets or looking back... Cause I value me..... ❤

[@UltimateStoicism]

I'm seriously impressed by this video! It's refreshing to see such a bold take on self-worth and attraction. Definitely a game-changer for anyone struggling with unrequited affection.

[@powerfulstoichabits]

Your mindset is powerful, and it speaks volumes about your self-worth! 💯 Valuing yourself first is the ultimate act of self-respect. Once someone shows you they don’t appreciate you, walking away without regrets is the best thing you can do. It’s not about being cold-hearted; it’s about knowing your value and not settling for less. Keep shining and never look back! You deserve nothing but the best. ❤️✨

[@anthonyperez5970]

Would you happen to be a Capricorn? Because this is me as a Capricorn down to the T!!!

[@stoicdeed]

Your video was incredibly insightful! It’s amazing how you broke down the psychological dynamics with such clarity. Ever wonder why these truths resonate so deeply with us? 😮 What’s your take on how Stoicism plays a role in maintaining that balance?

[@GoWithDaFlowMo]

@@powerfulstoichabits thank you... What a heartfelt reaction, it truly warms my heart... Keep doing the amazing work you do for all of us... It's highly appreciated..... 😊❤️

[@krishnachaithanya6971]

Pain is inevitable suffering is optional... But once pain ends... And focus on goal... You are on the right track ❤

[@powerfulstoichabits]

Absolutely, you're spot on! Pain is a part of life, but how we respond to it is entirely up to us. By choosing to shift our focus towards our goals and personal growth, we not only overcome suffering but also set ourselves on a path to success. Keep that focus strong, and you're definitely on the right track! 💪❤

[@Metalhead2323]

I deserve better

[@stoicexcellencepath]

No. 1: The Power of Absence No. 2: The Shift in Dynamics No. 3: The Allure of Independence No. 4: The Rarity Effect No. 5: The Contrast of Confidence No. 6: The Pain of Regret No. 7: The Mystery of Uncertainty No. 8: The Reversal of Roles No. 9: The Fear of Finality

[@user-hl1jh6nn9g]

So true ❤

[@marisolvaniabonampak359]

Thank you 🎉

[@stoicsecrets-101]

Distance often reveals the true nature of relationships!!

[@Oz.greatBritain]

I totally agree. At first he used to say, miles wouldn't matter to him. After a few months later He has admitted mileage did the matter for him . I've made huge effort used to go see him over 200 miles .Then I realised he is not happy with my presents at all.. So, I gave up on him all together. Now. I'm focusing on my career with my work and trying to get back to my old activities that I've used to do. So, " I shall not love again "

[@Amylynnklh900]

He’s not coming back this time. But I don’t care anymore, one you’ve hit rock bottom and are tired, you start to hate them and you know it’s TIME ✌🏻

[@Ian-jr2wl]

Don't hate. Forgive him and move on. ❤

[@GoWithDaFlowMo]

I'd rather call it resent them, hate is such a strong word... But whatever you call it don't hold on to that feeling, it's like drinking poison and expecting them to die... You only hurt yourself with it, heal and move on... You're worth more than that... Lots of love..... ❤

[@SusanSummer]

Exactly 👍

[@nicolajames5037]

If you hate them then you will hope he/she comes back. Instead love and you be able to let them go

[@godsavedmemorethenonce]

Ty

[@angrymotorman1237]

I deserve better, I WILL get better! And with that said.......I WILL GET MORE SELFISH. I over extended myself to others. Time to POWER UP EVEN MORE! 💪🏿💯

[@powerfulstoichabits]

Your mindset is on point! 🙌🏿 Putting yourself first isn't selfish it's self-care. When you take care of your own needs and set boundaries, you’re in a better position to give your best to others without losing yourself. Keep powering up and leveling up! 💪🏿🔥 You deserve every bit of that energy you’re reclaiming!

[@AssuntaWarde-or9fo]

It is so true once you focus on yourself it seems like you are definitely missed

[@vivianmcalexander9999]

I deserve not only better, but the very best.

[@princepage3964]

I need to put all my energy into making myself the best version of myself I can

[@Sherry-ul5yg]

I deserve MUCH BETTER❤😮😊

[@MelissaDavis-s1f]

Truth..I second that 🎉❤..

[@chrisshowering7357]

You're already the best version of yourself for putting yourself first.

[@arleneambersley8431]

I DESERVE BETTER!!!!! Im going through a situation right now where I've allowed someone to take advantage of my presence. Ive decided to take my power back by stepping back. If they should call im not going to answer. By listening to this its AFFIRMATION Im going into the right direction!! I needed to hear this. Thank you!! It's like the universe is telling me to do what I need to do!!!!..❤

[@GoWithDaFlowMo]

I'm with you... Lots of love..... ❤

[@powerfulstoichabits]

Thank you so much for sharing your journey! 🙌 You absolutely deserve better, and I'm proud of you for recognizing your worth and taking that powerful step back. It's amazing how the universe sends us the messages we need right when we need them, and I'm glad this video served as the affirmation you needed. Keep trusting yourself and stay strong on this path-your value shines brightest when you stand firm in your power. Remember, your absence speaks volumes, and those who truly value you will take notice. Keep going! You've got this! 💪✨❤

[@julyguynj]

❤❤

[@arleneambersley8431]

@CalmAmidstStorm exactly 💯

[@arleneambersley8431]

@@GoWithDaFlowMo thank you

[@shahidakarimullah2485]

Nobody feels the loss, it's a gain for both. Space and opportunity being provided for both to self analysis and move on. Always wish the best. Be optimistic always, always. Firm faith has a lot to play in achieving the best outcome. My personal experience. Always enjoy and gain a lot from your motivational words

[@shahidakarimullah2485]

It's great. Self development means stop others to take you for granted. The best is both parties get the best in their own rights.

[@AnnetteCarolanFourie]

At my age 63 I've learnt the best lesson for them is God is love yet won't allow nonsence and such behaviour so once you no longer exist they wont be able to ever have or see you

[@powerfulstoichabits]

Thank you for sharing your wisdom and experience! It's so true that knowing your worth and standing firm in your values is incredibly powerful. At any age, understanding that love doesn’t mean tolerating nonsense is a lesson that can change the way we live and interact with others. Your perspective is a reminder that when we remove ourselves from toxic situations, those who took us for granted may never have the privilege of seeing or experiencing our presence again. Keep shining and setting that example! 🌟

[@anncriezl4301]

I deserve better❤ and this is happening now.

[@FatimaZahra-oe6br]

I deserve better ! ❤

[@DonaldBrooks-r3l]

This is so true when it comes to relationships and dealing with narcissistic people.

[@carmenkay4483]

Stepping back also reveals that they were never that into you, especially when it has no impact on them.

[@dbf17]

Well said…”Your presence is a privilege.” #powerful #stepback #focusonyourself #someoneworthmissing

[@user-td9rk3ey5m]

You know you you blow my mind every time I hear you but I have to listen to you cuz you're so smart

[@ivydune4185]

I never had anyone craving my attention after I moved on. Or before. They dump me and move on as if nothing happened and win in life. Anything they want, they get.

[@goodietequila4228]

You are not alone Sis

[@eugenieadolphe5631]

I admitted my defeat/ rejection. Still wish them the best ❤

[@WiseEldersyt]

I am 85. these lessons are amazing. thank you for sharing

[@powerfulstoichabits]

Glad you like them!

[@hi-dz3zl]

How do you know how to work internet.

[@stoic_park]

People usually don't prefer taking you seriously unless they see any beenfit coming from you.

[@powerfulstoichabits]

That's a great observation! It's true that some people tend to value others only when they see a benefit in it for themselves. This mindset often reflects more on them than it does on you. The key is to stay true to your principles and not let their attitude affect your self-worth. When you focus on your own growth and maintain your values, you'll attract the right kind of people who appreciate you for who you are, not just for what you can offer. Keep shining!

[@stoic_park]

@@powerfulstoichabits Exactly, staying true to yourself is the only big motivator in this cruel realm.

[@joaniezagorsky5735]

I do deserve better and he never really cared in the first place. I just didn’t see it

[@cricket88671]

I deserve way better! 21 years and now I’m questioning every year of being here! So many lies and cheats! I’m over it and deserve Better!! Learning to love myself first again. Narcissistic cheaters will never ever stop! They are the evilest people ever

[@powerfulstoichabits]

Thank you for sharing your experience. It takes immense strength to recognize your worth after all those years, and it's clear you're on the right path by choosing to prioritize yourself. Remember, self-love is a powerful journey, and leaving behind toxic relationships is the first step toward a better life. You absolutely deserve better, and by focusing on your own growth and happiness, you're reclaiming your power. Keep pushing forward, and don't let the actions of others define your future. You've got this!

[@GoWithDaFlowMo]

And yesssss we all deserve so much better... Lots of love..... ❤

[@QuoteQuest_world]

True love of wisdom.. Brilliant content. I am learning new skills every day. Thank you 🥰🥰

[@tammyfitzgerald5336]

I absolutely deserve better ❤❤❤🙌🙏🙌

[@tuhuyhuy]

This was so well put together. You're a true pro at this! 🎥

[@powerfulstoichabits]

Glad you liked it!!

[@shahidakarimullah2485]

Stated to understand the meaning of Value and the importance of time and confidence.

[@RealStoicEgo]

the insights on the power of absence and confidence are game-changers for anyone looking to reclaim their self- esteem and control

[@divine.logic.45]

We all deserve better

[@Oz.greatBritain]

I Deserve Better ❤❤❤

[@jeremywaldrop-798]

I always deserve nothing but the best !!

[@hildanuake]

I deserve better 😢

[@huvandirwamakaza3582]

Yeah

[@miked8236]

YOU are not required to set yourself on fire to keep other people warm........

[@Lee-v1j]

I KNOW I DESERVE MUCH BETTER!!!!!!!!!

[@JamesCummins-v9u]

@@Lee-v1j we both do .let's respect that come correct swallow ego or move on .deal

[@lesa9358]

Your video is a validation of what should be done when a person doesn't want to realize your worth because their so busy making everything about them. Totally not wanting to realize all you bought to them getting NOTHING IN RETURN. NOT ABOUT GETTING THEM BACK, BUT YES REALIZING YOUR OWN WORTH, AND THEM GIVING TO YOU WHAT YOU TRULY DESERVE.Even if you don't get back with them, letting them know what they did to you is totally not EXCEPTABLE TO DO TO ANYONE, AND THAT THERE ARE CONSEQUENCES FOR THEIR ACTIONS. Disrespect to one who was always there to help them in all that they did, or achieved !!!👏💯😤😡😖😉☺️🤗💪🙏✊️

[@powerfulstoichabits]

Thank you for sharing such a powerful message! You’ve hit the nail on the head-it’s not about getting them back, but about reclaiming your worth and standing up for yourself. Stoicism teaches us to focus on our own actions and values, and sometimes that means making it clear that disrespect has consequences. It’s about recognizing your own strength and knowing you deserve far better than being taken for granted. Keep rising above and staying true to your worth-your strength and resilience are inspiring! 💪🙏👏

[@marylevrault5217]

I know I'm valuable I am a child of the king ! Jesus!

[@bilgebilgin6349]

11:00 this is the question in my mind right now : this is what i cannot comprehend. what is the use of them thinking of me, missing me or valuing me as they should have AFTER i am done with them. ın order to be able to withdraw myself completely, i should be in a state of not caring about them, not missing them, not looking for their company, etc. so how are these lessons gonna help me if i receive all these after i lose my interest in that person.

[@khushi_prabhudessai]

I deserve someone better who will love me the way I am and respect me😁

[@marylevrault5217]

Stoicism is a good information love it!

[@powerfulstoichabits]

Glad you think so!

[@grisselday905]

Thank you. I'm coming out of a narcissistic relationship, and I'm so tired and feeling defeated. The truth is I don't care what he's doing; I do need to learn how to be more patient with myself. Any suggestions are welcome.

[@lilyluzon9964]

I deserve better, to be valued.

[@coraljacobs5742]

I deserve better. Much better.❤

[@stellameacher3075]

I’m gone no more contact I am going to take all the love he doesn’t want and give it back to me

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I deserve better 😊

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I deserve better!!!!

[@melissadoss4621]

I deserve better!!

[@kristeneades8888]

I deserve better.

[@Ian-jr2wl]

I DESERVE BETTER. 👍💪🙏

[@user-hl1jh6nn9g]

Iam confident ❤ i know my worth ❤🎉

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This really worked like magic

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I deserve better!

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I deserve more than better ❤😊

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I deserve better ❤

[@AnnetteCarolanFourie]

I value me I love me I appreciate how God made me and I care about what he says about me he loves me and doesn't abuse or use me or say hurtful things to me his plans are good not bad

[@powerfulstoichabits]

Thank you for sharing such a powerful affirmation! It's so important to recognize our value and embrace the love and care that we receive from God. Remember, your worth is infinite, and no one has the right to diminish that. Keep holding onto these truths and let them guide you toward a life filled with peace and self-respect. You are loved, valued, and deserving of all the good plans He has for you! 🙌✨

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I deserve better 😊

[@jennb6510]

I always deserve better!

[@cecilb.brooks2739]

Amen ✝️ 🙏🏻 ✝️ I deserve better❤️ 🕊✨️🕊❤️

[@midlifecrisis1537]

I deserve so much better

[@CoastDawn]

They didn’t deserve you, look at it that way❤

[@RTalks_7]

Love the video

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I deserve better

[@caronlee1111]

I am unforgettable ❤

[@Libra1111.]

I deserve better!💕💫🙌

[@AnnetteCarolanFourie]

So very true

[@ianhenry7715]

I DESERVE BETTER!

[@layliesmaeilian7909]

Thank you so much💐💐💐

[@AnnetteCarolanFourie]

AMEN 🙏 🙌 yes I do because Jesus died to give me the best life

[@patricecookes1753]

I truly deserve better!!!!!!!

[@AdelaineSylvieBeru-et4kn]

So amazing and powerful, I love it

[@chikaosanebi1775]

Thank you so much

[@powerfulstoichabits]

You're most welcome

[@healtheworldwithlove1]

I soooo DESERVE THE BEST...I AM ENOUGH

[@ingridvanhoof8430]

I was chasing, now I am not answering all his texts anymore, answering the next day...He texts me every day but no calls since one year, I deserve better! I go text him that I deserve better communication, and then take a step back,

[@powerfulstoichabits]

It sounds like you're making some powerful moves by prioritizing your own worth and setting boundaries-good for you! 👏 You absolutely deserve better communication and it's great that you're standing up for that. Taking a step back is a strong way to make him realize that he can't just keep you in his life on his terms. Remember, silence can speak louder than words sometimes. Stay strong and keep focusing on what you truly deserve! 💪 #YouDeserveBetter

[@ratics29x]

i don’t think be many women looking where i went.

[@erikagreathouse4418]

He left me no choice had to love myself ❤

[@lydiababarinde15]

I deserve so much better.

[@Lee-v1j]

Where are the darker Machiavellian psychological strategies found?

[@patchris1994]

Brilliant video Brilliant words 👏

[@powerfulstoichabits]

Thank you so much 😀

[@user-os1ru8ey5k]

I DESERVE BETTER 😌

[@tuff3lt]

I deserve better amen🙏🙏🙏

[@AuraTexfab]

I deserve better and the best ever!

[@Junaid-x6s]

The fact that nobody talks about the book whispers of manifestation on borlest speaks volumes about how people are stuck in a trance

[@powerfulstoichabits]

You’re absolutely right! It’s amazing how certain books like *Whispers of Manifestation* can fly under the radar, especially when they offer so much depth and insight. It just goes to show how easily people can get caught up in the mainstream and miss out on truly transformative ideas. Thanks for bringing it up-more people need to wake up to these hidden gems!

[@penniroyal4398]

I deserve better 😊 and my energy will be missed

[@GugulethuZulu-to9rh]

I deserve better 🙏

[@marisolvaniabonampak359]

I deserve better 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉

[@erikas15]

Miss me when I’m in your presence

[@moumitabiswas1801]

Subscribed your channel because I love the content. They are very inspiring & are helping me in my spiritual journey. Love & gratefulness in my ❤ Please make seperate videos about ways/activities to strengthen feminine & masculine energy

[@powerfulstoichabits]

Thank you so much for your kind words and for subscribing! I'm truly grateful that the content resonates with you and supports your spiritual journey. It means a lot to hear that the videos are inspiring you. 🙏❤️ I love the idea of creating separate videos on strengthening both feminine and masculine energy-such an important and fascinating topic! I'll definitely add it to my list. Stay tuned, and thank you again for your love and support. Sending you lots of positive energy on your journey! 💫

[@faridadoumari1927]

I deserve better ❤❤❤❤

[@dbf17]

I deserve better. 🙌🏼

[@user-qh8jp1qv4e]

I deserve Better!!!

[@lightfoot2002]

Yeah but it's no power when they come back and then go back to being the same as before 😅 I've learned now. Immature people just obsess over & want whatever they can't have, leave that type to their own devices & find someone more grounded.

[@powerfulstoichabits]

You're absolutely right! There's no real power in having someone come back if they just revert to their old ways. It's like a cycle that keeps repeating itself with no growth. Immature people often chase what they can’t have, but once they get it, they lose interest and fall back into their old habits. The key is to recognize that pattern and not get caught up in it. Instead, focus on finding someone who values you for who you are and is mature enough to grow together with you. You deserve someone grounded, not someone who just plays games. Thanks for sharing your experience-it's a reminder for all of us to choose wisely!

[@lightfoot2002]

@@powerfulstoichabits exactly 🙌 It's a shame it takes so many repeating cycles to learn, but the lesson is valuable 😅

[@malabikachakraborty1046]

Brilliant👍

[@T.LajuanSmith]

I deserve better ❤💯💪💝

[@user-cz7rr8qg6v]

💯💯💯Just Do It!

[@juanitadyer6445]

I deserve better absolutely 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽💜💜

[@lyndsaymcgregor9529]

❤❤Thank you❤❤ Luv❤❤

[@S.MK_96]

Why does it bring my stressful chest-ache pain again while listening to it.. Maybe because i really loved her that i don't feel like doing all his with her but this is important. Sadly a very painful situation to handle.

[@powerfulstoichabits]

I’m sorry to hear that you're going through such a tough time. It's completely normal to feel that chest-ache when dealing with something so emotionally heavy, especially when love is involved. It shows how deeply you care, and that’s not something to be ashamed of. Remember, taking these steps isn’t about hurting anyone; it’s about protecting your own well-being and creating space for both of you to grow. Sometimes, what feels painful now can lead to healing and clarity down the road. Hang in there-you’re stronger than you think.

[@pmd1933]

I deserve better. I deserve better. I deserve better