7 Signs That You Are in a Narcissistic Relationship, Their Actions Never Make Sense to Us

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[@angelerodrigue1843]

Thank you for investing your time to become a channel of blessing for others.

[@CaliCoast805_lovin_life]

Thank you for this therapeutic content! May God bless us and heal us all!

[@billiepocius6032]

❤

[@brittanywilliams4174]

When you cross your soul with a narcissist you are giving the devil the ability to touch you. It’s important to break this bond. It’s extremely painful because that’s all the devil wants is for us to suffer.

[@patriciaburgess6342]

I was married to a narcissist. When we moved away from my family to live far away, I cried at the airport 9:03 . Quite a normal reaction but my husband said in an angry manner, "Stop crying. You're making me look bad." No empathy for me. Quite the opposite. We had a son and tension in our family worsened as my faith grew as my husband continued to reject Christ. I left him after 31 years and years of Christian counselling. My relationship with my son suffered. I continued to pray for both of them. Last week my son and I reconciled after many years. God answered my prayers that my son would not become a narcissist. He is the opposite to his father and is a far better father. God answers prayer in His own time and way.

[@danishaferreira7796]

“The Lord is close to the broken hearted and saves those that are crushed in spirit” Thank you so much for your compassion and undying love dear God. 🙌

[@Katarina4567]

The narcissist can insult you and two minutes later, strike up a conversation about something about themselves. 😮😮😮

[@Sally-z8q8g]

And try to destroy you emotionally,they thrive on this.

[@MariaAbela-fe2uk]

Narcs suffer from depravity of love - the devil nurtured their spirits with lies for self preservation - evil of this magnitude needs deliverance - GOD IS THE ONLY ONE THAT CAN DO THIS -LORD DELIVER NARCS FROM EVIL

[@karunavalliyajjala7598]

Amen

[@alemayehuwoldemichael585]

@@MariaAbela-fe2uk absolutly!they need deliverance from demons.

[@BecamePneuma]

Grew up in a narc family dynamic. Emotional torment. Emotional damage. At age 36 God spoke to me and rescued me from my past. God is good. Jesus is Lord. I’ve laid down my life for him. Praise him. God Bless

[@raymondredding212]

Praise God you now realize your worth thru Christ, not your value the narcissist have stolen from you and lied to you saying that you are the problem.... all your fault. It's not and never been your fault. Praise God!! Rely on His truths not their lies....

[@alloysa]

Same🙏🏽

[@sylvihelenesundgot4552]

❤Yes, I keep Hil close

[@sylvihelenesundgot4552]

❤Yes. I keep Him close

[@thirstonhowellthebird]

Same here. Horrible toxic family, and because that was the only dynamic I was ever exposed to I chose that same dynamic in all my friendships and my work life. It took me decades to realize but just this week I finally severed ties with the last of those relationships. 30 years of friendship and none of them were my friend. Users and liars. The thing is, just like this video says I knew it deep inside.

[@frances655]

Amen🙏 Narcissistic Parents can cause immense pain and trauma for their children that continues throughout their adult lives-May Jesus heal and bless and restore all the years that the ‘locusts have eaten’ for all who have experienced this in their lives ❤

[@valerierosproy1255]

Agreed. Amen 🙏🙌

[@anneboyle2240]

Amen ❤ my life has been destroyed by them, family and a husband for the past 14 years. Pretended to be a Christian for the past 6 years. I'm broken and crushed but the Lord is near ❤

[@catwheeler819]

I'm in agreement with your prayer, in Jesus name 🙏🏻 Amen

[@parinazaz4044]

Amen

[@AnnMcGrath-j5q]

Omg People do what they are taught God help my children Help me learn and embody these teachings so my children’s children get a break in this action 🙏

[@juliebrown7268]

When they won't drive you to the hospital when you can't breathe, it can't be a denied.

[@Katarina4567]

Oh , Julie, I can tell so much....I had a mental breakdown for three months....that he caused ....no help....I almost died...THE LORD brought me through. They are just ungodly. 😮

[@Myrrhandroses2497]

@@Katarina4567 So glad to hear the Lord was faithful to you. He is with you. Hope you are out of danger now. May you live free and enjoy the blessings of Peace and Safety all the days of your life, in the Mighty Name of Jesus, our Redeemer, Salvation, and King.

[@cmbhalupowski]

I drove myself to emergency with chest pains

[@DaughterOfGod247]

Or leave you in a car when you’re having chest pains at 12am at night. Step over while you’re having a panic attack. Or tell you that you’re an unless worthless woman for having miscarriages while also threatening you to be happy and not show emotion during said miscarriage. Yes, definitely milestone for him as he pushed me into those miscarriages as he became more abusive. And when it was confirmed a miscarriage, he stop being as abusive. Sick evil people

[@Myrrhandroses2497]

Julie, my heart breaks for you. I hope you're out of it and beginning to heal. You are worth loving, I hope Jesus makes that real for you.

[@evelynlust2747]

Narcissists pass their pain to their children.

[@mooncat4965]

I don’t think they have pain. But, they certainly inflict it!

[@zippyustar6350]

☹️

[@Saltygrunt777]

Pray for your children. Pray for my daughter as well who is in the throes of a narcissist as we speak.

[@Warriorbride11]

It can be generational

[@tdayy31]

​@@Warriorbride11yes that's what it is. I totally agree

[@arlenebayron2448]

I wouldn’t wish this on anyone. Be vigilant of who You meet. The enemy is working OT🙏

[@cbak1819]

I just heard 1 out of 10 people have sociopath disorders. Slow down and use boundaries.. good people love them.

[@sabrinapetersen5358]

In the last days, jesus warned us about the last days about meeting narcissists, in the last days men would be 'lovers of themselves and of money !'

[@lorireed2604]

I was married to a narcissistic person. I left him because it became dangerous to be with him. I thank God for getting me out of that situation. It was one of the best things that's happened to me.

[@NBnNC]

Not to be impertinent, but can you recall feeling any kind of unction from the Holy Ghost to not marry this person?

[@savedbygrace4580]

This sounds like me. He kept telling me “God told me to marry you” After 25 years of extreme trauma and torment I learned he was a sex addict who slept with prostitutes in my bed and every country he visited…and slept with me. A complete and utter demonic psycho who’s lauded by people as a brilliant doctor and politician. I had no idea satan hated me so much that he went before God and had a conversation about me. Praise God I’d trusted Christ Jesus as my Savior early in the pretend marriage The Lord Jesus supernaturally Healed me! Glory to Jesus forever!!! I serve Jesus The Christ alone

[@DvCM]

@@NBnNC If she was naive, accepting and tolerant of flaws, like I was, the answer would be "No". Never saw it coming, was totally baffled how or why anyone could behave this way, finally ran when my child was threatened. God taught me a great deal while carrying me through to safety!

[@NBnNC]

@@DvCM God the Father through Jesus Christ is so KIND to deliver us out of the messes we get ourselves into 😭. I too am guilty of that shortcoming.

[@Myrrhandroses2497]

@@NBnNC Everyone is. It's part of our fallen nature. We all need the Grace and Mercy of God.

[@sanv3769]

After LOVEBOMBING me, I married this man. Turns out he has narcissist traits. 26 years still married to him. Yet, I am a child of God and remind him that my LORD & Saviour will always fight him for me. I grew up following the words in the Holy Bible about all the wifely duties and behaviour. Sadly, I have NO respect, neither love for this man, the type of love a woman feels for a man. I feel nothing for him. I do pray everyday for Almighty God's blessings on him and for his healing and I also pray for forgiveness for my trespasses just as I forgive this man of his trespasses. I put all my faith and trust in God who loves me, who died on the Cross for me.

[@DSW-dq5bx]

I've been in your shoes. Please read 2 Timothy 3:2-5. God NEVER wanted us in this situation. These people will never change and will die alone and miserable. They chose evil over goodness. Turn them over to GOD to handle. These people are NOT our burden to bear.

[@brendarewan7441]

Pray for God to lead him to repentance ONLY.

[@dianaballiet3661]

It is heartening to know God does not sanction a union of Light with darkness. The King delivered Abigail from Nabol, and He will deliver those who have been tricked by false believers.

[@sanv3769]

My problem which is a big problem is that I left my birth country to move to his. My utter stupidity is to give up my citizenship of my birth country. English is not the language spoken in this european country. I am nearly 65 years old. The only thing I can do is pray to our Father through Christ The LORD to rescue me.

[@windkind64]

​@@dianaballiet3661not in every case...

[@user-qg9kk2kt3t]

I tried to make it work for 30 years until one day God removed me. I finally have peace in my life.

[@loriannsecciani6345]

So true how they concoct unbelievable & completely absurd explanations when they are caught betraying you. Amazing that they will stand on these lies even when no one else accepts them.

[@solk-nm6br]

I have been there but I found emotional healing, peace, love and strength in God. To God be the Glory 🙏

[@dawntowler8183]

30 plus years, i am still young, beautiful inside and out. The right person brings goodness, the wrong one, i am with hes evil, he has no heart. He does not care about our family. He's very controlling, which in return has put me in a bad situation. I wish i had left so very long ago, yet I'm still here. We're all still very miserable. I can only pray for things to come through for me so i can provide for my family and myself after years and years of mental bad bad mental abuse. I pray God will continue to walk with me and keep me alive at a young 50ish to heal and enjoy life again. In jesus name i PRAY

[@davidmorrison3211]

Keep praying regularly and listen to Judy Jacobs singing "days of Elijah "as I'm sure the rapture is very close. Also listen to "I've got to go now "?.....Childs.

[@janpignanelli7153]

It will take courage, Dawn, but God WILL be with you. I understand (unfortunately). Pray for that courage and direction and let God work on your heart to trust Him through this messy situation. Hugs 🙏

[@evelynbarton6349]

The physical and verbal abuse is getting worse after 43 years, so much pain, please help me pray for God's wisdom 🙏

[@KathiOsborn]

I had to leave, there wasn't any physical abuse but the behavior (cheating, lying and controlling) I could not take it anymore and it was so blatant but everyone around us seemed oblivious to a lot of it, even making excuses for his behavior...I don't miss any of it. I thank God everyday for helping me get away from him....I hope you find peace, physical abuse is too far over the line and you deserve better. Sending you prayers🙏❤‍🩹🙏

[@brigittaspelthuis2343]

@@KathiOsborn I agree. I was discarded after 16 years , but the blueprint is the same, it is a disorder and because of the blueprint a specialist Doktor can diagnose it. Narcissist personal disorder is not possible to heal even when they go therapy . Borderliner have more chance.

[@brigittaspelthuis2343]

Ps and if you stay , you need therapy... they will not go or convince the therapist that you are the problem

[@patriciamacnichol5061]

Dear Evelyn, I believe God is imparting wisdom to you by the fact that you found this channel. God is giving you a support system that can share experiences and empathy that you can apply to your own situation. I was in a narcissistic relationship for 48 years, 40 of those married. My divorce was final this past March. I know God walked me through it because I had no human capabilities left; I was too depleted and broken. I surrendered. Gave it all to Him one night when I was feeling that my will to live was vanishing. God will answer. Believe He will answer. After decades of abuse, I woke up the next morning and I know as sure as I'm texting this, that the trauma bond was broken. Please don't misinterpret that it was all bliss moving forward because there were, and still are, challenges. However, the scales were off my eyes, and the wisdom of God let me see the dysfunction in a way that I cannot "not see" it every interaction since. Of course we will pray with and for you, but just know that you are a child of God and not meant to spend your life in abuse. There is peace on the other side. God bless you.

[@SurvivorC]

@evelynbarton6349 please call the National domestic violence hotline or a local shelter for help. Books: Life-Saving Divorce by Gretchen Baskerville, The Emotionally Destructive Marriage by Leslie Vernik. You should remove your name as your name is your handle here.

[@isaackihoro5396]

I am married to a narcissist. My life is hell here on earth, but I thank God I am alive ...

[@kariamarasinghe4808]

Certainly i was married to on too it is a hell Lord deliver your captives

[@Katarina4567]

I know ! Trust in GOD ! HE will guide you ! 😢

[@Sheree-4you]

God delivered my younger children and me from my husband, but the damage to 5 children and myself is done. Unfortunately, is it now going to be a generational curse on my side of the family now. I never knew these people existed.

[@fynnb5033]

I pray for u :) may u be blessed and find a way out, much love ❤

[@Katarina4567]

​@@Sheree-4you It will not be a curse on your family....In my case , I trust in GOD and that is my Salvation...It gives you strength that you could never have on your own ..Only through JESUS. These men are here to destroy us ....but GOD....I will pray for you.🎉❤

[@carolj449]

Ive been subjectet to the abuse of a malignant narcissist for the past 40 years. I married at 19 to a man who was 15 years older than me, and because of his life experience and my lack there of, i fell for a multitude of lies. he led me to believe that everything was my fault...between the shouting,name calling and gaslighting, i ended up in therapy and diagnosed with bi polar disorder. we have since divorced, but i now rent an apartment in a home that he owns.I so desperately want to leave but money issues have held me back. I have prayed for the lord to show me a way out, but nothing ever changes. I am now 61 years old and dealing with a disability. I trust in the lord and believe he wants me to persevere. please pray for me, that may find some peace in my life before its too late.✝️🙏

[@a.n2675]

Oh but to make sure you don't have any money and therefore stay it's part of their plan

[@diwells9233]

I pray one day we will be vindicated.

[@lorettawolfe6274]

In the vehicle with my narcissist parents now heading to the store. Please pray that they find the Lord as I do each moment of each day!

[@assiyaq4346]

Narcissists believe that God is on their side.

[@lorettawolfe6274]

@@assiyaq4346 I know that's right

[@lorettawolfe6274]

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[@bernetajohnson3296]

And I Quote Cursed is the man who puts his trust in man. 🙏Take heed Ladies and Gents.🙏

[@alemayehuwoldemichael585]

Dear brother, I have been with such persons, mother and spouse. They destroyed my life. But God ended their lives and He raised me out of the ashes. Praise the Lord! May God protect our loved ones from such luciferians, confusing , controlling, monitoring persons. God bless you 🙏

[@margarettedouyon7959]

I don’t know what to do or think. My life is a living nightmare. Every words you said that’s exactly my husband life. He’s so evil you see the evil in his face

[@denisewise7849]

I was with someone just like this. I'm so glad I walked away from him

[@genellsampon2469]

Amen Amen narcissist are heartless everything is about them it's called me ! me ! me !

[@roseluvslux]

This was SPOT on!!!!!! It is difficult to believe that people like this exist BUT unfortunately, they do and they cause tremendous damage to their victims!! But we serve a mighty God who will protect us and avenge His beloved! Please don’t allow these people to change you and steal your joy!! Father, give those who have been destroyed by these evil people peace, comfort, and hope! Let us fully embrace and feel the pure and immense Love You have for us! Let us find our value in You! Give us discernment going forward Father, so we NEVER fall into the traps of these people again! As You did with Joseph Father, may You turn the evils they have caused us into good! You are our Protector Lord! Our Defender! “And we know that all things work together for good to them that love God, to them who are the called according to His purpose.” (Romans 8:28). May we find hope, joy, peace, love, and true forgiveness in overwhelming and painful trials. Let our relationship with You Father be more than enough! In Jesus mighty name! Amen!

[@adachukwu3974]

AMEN 🙏🏽

[@pillibindu]

THANK YOU GOD FOR OPENING MY EYES THRU THIS VIDEO, I GOT AN ANSWER TO ALL MY SUFFERING IN LIFE . THANK YOU FOR UNMASKING THE TRUTH OF NARCISSISTIC SPIRIT, THAT CRUSHED MY LIFE . TODAY, I’M SET FREE. GLORY TO GOD🙌

[@molovefive9]

Thank you Lord that my ability to Love is still within me. Always have been, always will be. My heart was not hardened.

[@mvbigmagic4048]

I agree. The evil people can betray me, but they will not break me. I still know how to love, and there are still many people who know how to love.

[@annegoodreau4925]

I was married to a narcissist for 20 miserable years. Every point in this video is spot on. Thank God I got away and now realize what he was doing before my mental health totally broke.

[@steadypace1262]

The nature of a true Narcissist is the nature of the Beast tread carefully around them.👹

[@mysoulwaitsinsilence]

In my darkest hour, I discovered nothing exists at all. Impossible to ignore, yet two years on, God is still sending me messages like this one in an attempt to get the truth to sink in 🙏

[@seekerofjesuschrist536]

For the past few years narcissism has predominantly been the talk of people’s lives, being expressed heavily on social media. If this is something that C.S. Lewis has spoke about in his time, then like they say there’s nothing new under the Sun. Prayer to overcome Narcissism and the abuse that comes with it. 🙏🏽🙏🏽

[@christinereilly8829]

I can’t believe I am not unique in my suffering. I discovered recently that my husband of 43+ years, has a narcissistic personality disorder. Every single point in this video is familiar to me, because I have lived it & am in fact, still living it. I ask Lord Jesus to take over my life completely & to enlighten me on how to come out of this experience stronger in mind & spirit. Thank you Lord Jesus for giving me the hope I sorely needed. Amen

[@justjulie43]

Plan. Be calm and careful. When you leave it's important to have no contact or you'll not heal and he'll continue the torment you endlessly. When he upsets you it feeds his soul. When you get away do things that bring you joy. Start a new hobby There's life after this type of abuse. Pray and ask God to help you through the process

[@KathiOsborn]

Yes, what justjulie suggested. I had to leave the narcissist I just couldn't do it anymore, I think I'm still in shock because it's only been 4 months now since I left also after 40 years of being together....it has been worth it so far, even with all those feelings of negativity, it's easier to heal when they're not in your life daily anymore. You are not alone and you are loved🙏❤‍🩹🙏

[@Priceless16]

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[@julietegethoff4057]

Me too almost 49 years

[@georgiehughes4858]

Dear sister in the LORD, I was unknowingly married to a covert narc for 49 yrs 9 months. I recognized patterns of behaviors, & very problematic experiences , but couldn’t find help, & people didn’t understand at all! Finally, a few yrs prior to his death 6 yrs ago, I began to find a very little bit of info. Then, slowly, info began appearing. Now there are a number of excellent Christian counselors who provide much Scripture with their explanations. Just do a KZbin search for Christian counselors about narcissism. Blessings.

[@Gigi0408]

Listening to this and struggling to breathe. How can someone be so evil? Lord, why can't narcissists find each other and leave us normal people who want to love and be loved to be with each other. So many years wasted.

[@Kryssi709]

Because they need someone full of life to leech from. Emptiness can't fill emptiness.

[@Gigi0408]

@Kryssi709 you're so right.

[@brittanycollins3641]

My ex husband was a narc, my ex boyfriend, and I've recently came to the understanding that I grew up with a narcissist dad. I praise God anyhow. He doesn't allow my suffering without revelation, redemption, and renewal

[@KOBUSINGYEAGNESSHEBA-ti2fz]

Only God can save one from this death seeking relationship!😢Am forever grateful dear Jesus!😅❤❤❤

[@anitarobertson2833]

I am nearing 74 .married to a narcissist. I am at wits end. I have left my first love. God..feeling of guilt and shame. Prayed that the Lord will step in but after nearly 13 years of hurt, shame, gaslighting I have lost myself, my friends, feeling guilty. I am at last creating boundaries which are being met with outbursts or the silent treatment or outbreak of anger, gaslighting... I need to get out of this but how with limited finances.. i am a super empathetic person but am crushed like a wilted dried up flower . I am depressed, drinking high blood pressure pills for the first time, sleeping tablets, calming tablets...i am a walking person in perpetual psychological pain. HELP HELP where is God to show me the way😮

[@codeN_8]

Praying for you. Boundaries

[@justjulie43]

Read "Walking on Eggshells"

[@justjulie43]

Look for, "Boundaries" by Dr Henry Cloud It's hard to find yourself after this type of abuse but it's possible.

[@NBnNC]

Read “Diary of a Confused Christian” - changed my life… praying 🙏🏾 for u

[@sandrathomas2893]

Hard truth is God allows this abuse because we put the narc before God and he becomes your master and you become his servant. Have no idols before me. Surrender fully and submit to God and His Word and He will make all things new for you.

[@valentiadonellyaugustin]

Thank you sir for this channel,you have open my eyes made me understand the most difficult things I have been struggling with for years and I didn't know about it narcissistic abuse I never knew this conditions existed until now.thank you for this channel all the best for the future.❤❤❤

[@NickiDC]

Thank you for your wisdom and insight as well as the thoughtful, heartfelt prayer in the end.

[@richardbensinger6922]

The absolute best on the topic I have heard. There is no better guide than scripture. Thank you.

[@shellik4922]

I have left my husband after 41 years. I couldn’t do it any longer and I was told I couldn’t divorce because biblically I didn’t have grounds to divorce. Adultery or if he leaves himself. Thank you so much for this video I now know the truth of why he was the way he was. Oh my it has opened up so much. The minute I left he cut me out so quickly. Pictures are gone of us like we never existed. I just couldn’t understand at the time how could he do that? Boy do I understand now. I am afraid my daughter is the same way. Will be praying for her. I do have a question though do narcissists people have the tendency to be there to help others? To look good to everyone else because that was my husband. He was there for everyone else but me.

[@brendaluchemo]

That's exactly what narcs do, they pretend to the outsiders. Only the insider truly knows who the narc is

[@MB-sg8dx]

Yes; thats called a “covert narcissist” and is exactly what my husband is. Mister wonderful, kind, thoughtful and generous to everybody but me. Nobody would believe the truth about him if i told them. Hes an absolute teddy bear as far as they can tell..

[@Gloria-me3yy]

Yes they always look like nice guys that’s a covert narcissist the worst kind. My husband is on, what’s worse is he acts super godly in church and at home he won’t crack open his bible, I married him thinking he’d change but he’s not changing or I guess he is changing, he’s getting way worse he’ll go in the grocery store talk crap about me and come out and tell me he loves me, he calls me every name in the book then says all I do is call him names. It’s really weird. I’m beginning to hate him because he does this over and over talking to everybody at work about me and says I’m the one causing him to do it

[@Gloria-me3yy]

@@MB-sg8dxright, makes me sick

[@Saltygrunt777]

I am finally ending a seven year marriage nine year relationship with a narcissist. I will say I love your videos and have been watching them quite a bit for the past week or so. She has caused so much suffering and pain in my life. I am truly saved and believed in my marriage and that it would work eventually. She uses things and people that are most dear in my life to harm me. Please pray that the truth is revealed. She is heavily coaching my young daughter on a false accusation.

[@margueritendi7033]

My prayers go out to you 🙏

[@danishaferreira7796]

My mother is a narcissist. And I’ve always referred to her as just what he said, a wolf in sheep’s clothing. I pray to God that he saves the narcissistic soles. I forgive her for all the pain I have suffered. I no longer speak to her bcs she causes me too much heartache. However I pray that God renews her heart and helps her understand why I can’t have a relationship w her.

[@redruby5689]

Yes, I spent most of my life with my ex husband. Now he hates me, every opportunity to hurt me through our children. I forgive him, tried to love him, but I wont let him hurt me anymore. I have become stronger, healed and am happier. That is his punishment. I thank God for taking me out of the marriage.

[@gladyskukeba7925]

🤔🤔 This is really thought provoking. While thanking God for His Grace and mercy that sustained me through the decades of abuse, I'm still praying and holding unto hope that the same God's mercy and Grace would bring my narc relatives to genuine repentance and deliverance in Jesus mighty name🙏🙏 😓 😓

[@DJ-yj1vg]

This is my bro. Used my compassion and mums kindness after dads death to try and get mum to send money his way. He basically wanted his inheritance before she died. Which is equivalent to wishing her dead. 8ts the most evil violation of our human spirits. He tried to persuade me to put her in a nursing home against her will. The mote we felt sorry for him, the more we got taken advantage of. May God have mercy on his soul.

[@glimmerphaomei2683]

I felt I have been married to narcissistic person.please remember in prayer for his deliverance. From this cruel evil spirit.

[@RS-ww8jo]

God has got me through narcissistic abuse of a 33 year marriage. He showed me what I didn’t see, he helped me learn about npd and helped me to heal the past 5 years. It’s true there is joy after the storm. Amen It was truly spiritual warfare. Everything is possible with God. This is a very good video❤

[@bornagain07252010]

What a wonderful PRAISE report. 🙌✝️❤🙌 How were you able to recover and receive healing?

[@lindatucker2906]

I have been this kind of relationship/marriage for over 30 years, unfortunately, I didn’t know it until about 3 years ago!! There was such a personality it - and today I’m living my marriage full of these details and even in intimacy the abuse-I’m embarrassed to even share it- because of my ignorance. Thank you for this teaching and the scriptures to know that God also knows and seen all the abuse I have suffered throughout our marriage Unbelievable! Again, Thank you so much .

[@dawntowler8183]

I'm in the same situation. BE STRONG.

[@JohnOakes-mw5ls]

Thank you so much for this enlightening message! I grew up with one primary care giver who was a narcissist and a sibling who developed narcissism too! I truly didn’t understand what I was dealing with!!! You hear so many people say a person is a narcissist when they are simply self centred. But a true narcissist is EVIL personified. I became a person I didn’t like because I was afraid of my sibling. I behaved in such a way as to “curry favour” and get both approval and love from a person who, in truth, was completely incapable of feeling these emotions. In the end I walked away from everything I had ever known and went no contact. I’m completely alone in life because of the EVIL they perpetrated. I am so grateful that God spoke about these people and told us how to deal with them. Trust God, and not man! Shalom ✌️ God bless 🙏🙏🙏

[@mvbigmagic4048]

This is what I went through also. I was bending over backwards to please someone who had only evil intentions towards me and everyone around them. :( I couldn't tolerate that anymore, and I went no-contact with those relatives also. My husband and I are both orphans now. The only difference is, my parent is still alive. Matthew 19:29-30 tells that it's okay to walk away from relatives, even parents, who are committing evil without repentance. God is always the real parent for the parentless.

[@chautran2588]

Thank you for the soulful message of confirmation, comfort, and encouragement. Thanks also for the sweet prayer. ❤🎉

[@mariaeugeniasoto1589]

My sister is a narcist and making my life a living hell, please pray for me

[@sandrathomas2893]

It's a very seducing and twisting spirit. Many of us divorce to protect our children and then lose our children to parental alienation. This battle belongs to the Lord 🙏🙌⚔️

[@margueritendi7033]

I have come to that realization; the battle against a narcissist can only be done on your knees. They're manipulative, liars, seducing and smart. They do know this world 🌎 operates on their true father' ( the devil)s terms and they mostly win in courtrooms, assemblies, society in general. Whether they're aware of it or not, they're highly possessed. So get on your knees and pray. Study the world of the Lord and proclaim it boldly wherever needs be

[@spmoran4703]

Narcissism is definately a evil tbing. If one lives by the laws of God and accepts the compassion oc Christ . There is no room in your spirit for the spirit of narcissism. Pray for those with the evil spirit . But leace them alone .

[@Tina-zh2xb]

... And yet, I still love him. Lord, help me 🙏🏻

[@JesuisLord]

Me too 😢 love his fake self and potential, God has better because they don’t change

[@DaisyKusuma]

Learn about Trauma Bonding and how to heal it. Dealing with Narcissists, knowledge is a power too. May God bless you.

[@untamedtiger657]

Because your trauma bonded by his evil nature the only way for you is to get out ‼️‼️‼️

[@amyburton1225]

God please help me because this is exactly what i have dealt with.

[@cstran3]

That person will leave you lying in the floor for a week and continue to live their life in your home

[@Myrrhandroses2497]

. . . And step over you without a word - just to show you what a nothing you are. Then, in public, act like they are the most loving person imaginable. It does your head in.

[@mvbigmagic4048]

This is true. My father fell at home, and I found out my mother left him on the floor while she talked with the chimney sweep. :( I asked her why didn't she help him up. She said, "He said he was okay." No empathy.

[@Septembersrain1984]

I grew up putting pieces of others into myself in order to do the right things. I naturally only did selfish things, I believed it was normal. I had a lot of terrible influences growing up, looking back I may have been around a narcissist. I couldn’t find who I was, I worry I may be narcissistic all the time. I do not want to be this. I am grateful for even the chiding I get from these videos. Thank you.

[@VeeMay-uy7on]

Sounds like my husband.

[@VeeMay-uy7on]

I'm Praying for you.

[@tdayy31]

This is sad, but true. Experiencing this now. 50 year old mean, surly man. Not wirking just a leech. LORD PLEASE DELIVER ME FROM THIS BEGINNING WITH INDIFFERENCE 😢❤

[@marygraham2440]

God will deliver you, He delivered me.

[@susanjones1865]

I am so thankful for this. I am in the healing process of a narcissist relationship. God is my Shepherd and is leading me. This video is enlightening, inspiring and encouraging. I am thankful

[@debraelramey5254]

Thank you and bless you for this message and for your prayer.

[@APRIL_boymom]

A narcissist took a ton of my money and never paid it back. He was vile.

[@pamelaklingensmith9092]

Thank you, for opening my eyes but confirming to me I am different from my narcissistic husband. Thank you for the beautiful prayer it gave me peace in my broken heart

[@asw36hgl]

Me and my younger brother were brought up by a single narcissistic mother. I have only just come to the knowledge that she was a narcissist and blamed myself. I carry decades of blame, shame and self hate which destroyed my first marriage and threatens my second one. I'm 74 now and still struggle with emotional numbness and only feel at peace when alone. I feel I have limped through life but I fight against self pity yet at the same time can't deny the deep hurt inside.

[@oar-N-oasis]

Sometimes I'm wondering, is there any difference between people who stayed longtime and got out from narcissistic relationship and a person who got out from war zone? None.

[@anitawiesmann1399]

Posttraumatische Belastungsstörungen haben alle daraus gezogen

[@Myrrhandroses2497]

Actually, professionals have created a whole new classification called "Complex Post Traumatc Stress Disorder" to describe symptoms of this type of trauma. Apparently, the damage is harder to recognize, harder to face, and harder to treat. It becomes more deeply ingrained, has longer term impact, and causes greater, more diffuse, longer-term damage to the physical and mental well being and is much less obvious to recognize and understand.

[@Beautiful_Farm]

This channel is a powerful ministry. Thank you.

[@craz4mom]

Thank you so much - met my husband who would go to church talk Christian all the time, we got married and then as time went on there were too many things that I started seeing that were not very Christian - when I asked or said something about his actions and how can he do that and go to church every Sunday he became enraged - at that point I knew we had problems but I didn't know narcissism until recently and to hear the narrative hear makes me even more sure of myself for getting out - we went to marriage counseling and it was a disaster- all he did was lie - in the end it was suggested I leave when he started raging - I still didn't understand until I finally looked into narcissism. The narrative here really helps with not feeling guilty for leaving- yes, I was losing my relationship with God and through my church I had found so much love and Bible instruction - I miss them dearly as I moved out of state, but although hard to deal with - sadness, and some uncertainty- I have only God to look to now and I know he is taking care and guiding my life - thank you for the prayer - I do pray for my husband, but I leave his life in God's hands.........

[@cbak1819]

Be careful God tells it can attach to us. Put on the full armor of Christ.

[@claudeteswank7382]

I am walking way from my narc sister. I suffer so much for years. It almost like she wanted to destroy my life. I am founding help on faith in Jesus Christ to help me to forgive her, heal my pain and be distant from her. Amem

[@writer1986]

After 6 years of abuse (and reactive abuse on my part), my narcissistic ex suggested a separation. I efiled for divorce instead. The next day, he took off his wedding band, scratched off the "forever" sign he made in the garage, and shouted and screamed that he never wanted to see me again. But he's still speaking to me and texting me. (I finally move out in a couple days).

[@jdtamikaadams4855]

Dude u described my ex/kids father to the T

[@rebeccaparker1554]

An excellent presentation well researched. Thank you❤

[@heretoday9975]

Whoever you are creating these videos, I feel so much love and gratitude. I rewound and listened to the prayer at the end many times, and was also so touched by your words following the prayer.

[@SoulfulDevotions317]

We are very happy that you enjoyed our content so much. Our channel is full of wonderful videos that will help you on your spiritual journey and also bless your day. Feel free to explore. God bless you. 🙏

[@dar5686]

After dealing with a narcissist for years, I found it so, beyond difficult. Thankyou for your podcasts. You definitely hit the nail on the head with this one!! I pray for all of those who have commented. God is really, the only one who can get you through.

[@Sally-z8q8g]

Truth .facts.. sometimes we have to yourecognize what is healthy and what us not .love never hurts .Sad..but very toxic to you first,and your family. You have to love you first.Forgive, so you can heal.

[@Georgina866]

Jesus I have enough been through this narcissistic relationship please give me a relief and you can see that this narcissistic person is pretending be a good guy front of the people who I am facing every week. Please I have enough abuse and I am very scared to live with him again please remove him from my life. I forgive him but I don’t want to compromise my life. Jesus name I prayed amen

[@janiceandersson2868]

True love, God's love is patient and persevering. Amen!

[@rhondagross5769]

I just randomly came across this channel tonight. Thank you so much for this video! I have been struggling with the question of "does God want me to forgive the cruelty and emotional abandonment of my husband, who is a covert narcissist." I feel I now have my answer. This video has given me peace and hope. Thank you, too, for the beautiful prayer at the end.I am so blessed to have a relationship with God and Jesus Christ, our only source of genuine true love. Praise God!

[@cherielevinson1537]

Thank you. Sadly, I see parts of my own self.

[@gildamolinar5155]

I think it’s fair to say we all do at one time or another.

[@KathiOsborn]

But you are recognizing it, narcissists refuse to be honest with themselves, if they were then they probably wouldn't be narcissistic anymore.🙏❤‍🩹🙏

[@NBnNC]

Self awareness is the first step 😇… draw nigh to God and he’ll draw nigh to you. He’ll show you yourself and show you ways and give you strength to be better. You’ll be fine. 🙏🏾😌

[@Myrrhandroses2497]

I love all of these replys, all true and all powerfully healing.

[@shawnmarie1912]

I tripped and fell into a campfire, he just sat there, his friend finally got me out. Then he wouldn't take me to the hospital

[@brendarewan7441]

Don’t go ANYWHERE with him!

[@shawnmarie1912]

@@brendarewan7441 thanks, yea I left him over 2 years ago !!!

[@sandymanning-b5o]

Thank you so much for sharing this incredible message backed up with scripture about a narcissist behaviour patterns. I was married to him in early 1980 for 24 hell years. I did not know what hit me as I was so confused and chaos reigned constantly after the marriage. He blamed me for misunderstanding and stupidly I believed him. I am a born again believer in Jesus Christ so was very encouraged to hear the scriptures! He said he was a believer and even went to Bible college for 2 years. All our marriage I supported us. He was constantly fired for getting the hump over silly things or he would just walk out the job no cares in the world when we had our first baby. I truly believe they are demons in a human body only wanting to hurt or destroy and then self pity if they start losing you. I nearly walked out a good number of times but didn’t. Has been 19 years now and he divorced me on emotional behaviour. I signed the papers but it took him 14 months to sign on his side. He was calling my bluff but this time there was no going back. Please don’t stay in the relationship it never ever works out. There is not one good thing about being with one trust me not ONE! Go and never look back! 🙏

[@izrealtruefelicis3309]

Please pray for me. My girlfriend broke up with me around three months ago. I wouldn’t say I’m a narcissist but this video did hit my heart because certain things I did this video talks about. I never cheated but there was just a lot of pain that I caused. I’m not wicked at heart and didn’t enjoy it. I made some mistakes that seem to big for her. She says she’s not sure about the future and maybe we could date again. I just know I need to change. Please pray for God to work on me.

[@babesadams2991]

Praying. And God appreciate your humbleness which narcissists don't have. He will heal you🙏 rest your heart for now and rely on Gods goodness. Only God can restore us. Praying for peace and justice for whatever you're going thru and your Gf. It happens to me and I am hoping my Gf realizss the damage she causes me. 🙏🤍

[@sofinmannypadilla2157]

No one is perfect, whether it derives from generational trauma being passed on or negative patterns picked up from influences. God loves all his creatures and is blessing you with discernment. Make God your center, he will never turn his back on you. Love is the equalizer. God bless brother

[@Saltygrunt777]

Admitting it proves you’re not a narcissist. Owning up to mistakes and displaying humbleness; willing to change. I pray that the Lord opens doors for you that he wants open and closes doors that are not meant for you and the plan he has for you.

[@piotr6744]

Something is not right here. If you were a narcissist you wouldnt recognized it and definitely you wouldnt want to and see any need for change. Are you sure fault is on your side and not hers?

[@brendarewan7441]

@@sofinmannypadilla2157 Be ye therefore perfect even as your Father which is in heaven is perfect. Matthew 5:48. God has a higher goal for us. All things are possible with God. Press toward that goal moment by moment. 😊

[@ninashirley432]

Thank you father. 💚 I stop crying when I am no longer around people with pain and loss. 🕊️ I am in a happier place with God now . Amen 🙏🏽

[@emmazara14]

Thank you for the spirit affirming prayer at the end of the video and for all the videos you produce sharing God's love and teachings

[@genesismytribe1696]

Thank you for this wonderful prayer 🙏 Amen 🙏🙌

[@cstran3]

That's true, my feelings were genuine.

[@bordendonna]

Very good description. Phonies, lying and entitlement. Entitlement is the earmarks to me.

[@melaneymannel5177]

Thank you so much,this is perfect timing. Thank Lord Jesus for all your love and guidance. I am experiencing narsisistic abuse ❤❤❤

[@briancase9163]

I was married to a narcissist for 26 years then she took our took the family home, took all the money took everything else that she could take from me now I have nothing not even my own family

[@margaretelizabeth7900]

Pray to the Lord he will help you get through this God Bless

[@justjulie43]

You have freedom and peace this is highly valuable

[@PianoSession]

Also, the audio and video quality is so much better when it’s coming from the originator Soulful Devotion and not some other channel trying to be like Soulful Devotion. You know who You are.

[@henrietta7753]

Yes & Amen, On point,Let Go and Let God dael with them,Be positive,Do Good,Praise His Holy Name Hallelujah Hallelujah Hallelujah!!!!❤❤❤❤

[@Major003]

Hi, Soulful Devotions! First time viewer here. My mom and I were recently attacked via "flying monkey" through a narcissist ex-friend, and I don't think at ALL it coincidence that I came upon this video and clicked it. Thank you so much for this, and great references from The Screwtape Letters.

[@SoulfulDevotions317]

Thank you very much dear, may God bless you, our channel is full of videos with prayers, feel free to explore

[@fernandagutierrez1946]

Grateful to God for feeling so validated. Please pray for my husband and my 3 toddler aged boys. My husband is a narcissist, I do believe in the power of our God . The word of God teaches us that He is the same as yesterday today and always, His power makes the impossible possible. Out of all the purity and honor to my Savior I fight for my family. Please pray for my boys that our God protects their little innocent hearts and minds. Thank you and may God give every single one of you the overwhelming love your hearts long for and may He abundantly give you all the strength you need to continue this good fight. And as a reminder for the brokenhearted, Jesus is coming back soon, endure alittle more and our Savior will wipe our tears and suffering we will never live again. ❤

[@sdub7045]

My mom is a narcissist and she ruined the relationship I could have had with my sister. Please read up on narcissistic parents so you can protect your boys. Narcissists tend to favor one child and demean the other. That's what happened to our family. My sister was scapegoated and I was The Golden child. My sister ended up passing away and I struggled with anxiety, depression, and suicide ideation until God began a years-long plan to rescue me. Narcissists are people with unresolved trauma who end up traumatizing everyone around them in order to have their needs met... only their needs are insatiable and it never ends. Only God can heal the narcissists heart, but the problem is they are unrepentant because they don't think they have done anything wrong. I am praying for your family.

[@floaretudorache9287]

God bless you He will find a way Just declare and decree passage from the Bible every day and pray that the power of God will do the work I’m married with a narcissist I’m 64 now my kids are grown now and all are awesome and none of them are like him I was the provider in the house (God is my provider)he was helping but cause also problems that I minimize I kept away from from the kids of how he treated me forgiving him all my life I was his pray he didn’t physically abuse me but everything else possible Now when I reflect back to my life forgiving him it made him hurting me more but God always warned me before one time I was driving home and God talk to my spirit Ephesians 6 He gave me dreams he protected me all my life in a way that I don’t deserve I have 7 grown children that are everything I fought for at the same time I was wrongfully enable my husband to have a good image around b people that know us and church, behind the close doors it was everything fake. The kids love him but some of them keep him distant He help the kids with cars and stuff for his own image / supplies He would not if he would have to work to do it. He is not good at anything he lies about everything Why I’m still here I don’t know because probably for years now do to work situation we live in a separate houses God is my everything I only talk to him necessary things, he is kind of quiet now because I told him I’m going to write a book about what he did for the kids to know He would do anything for that not to happen I overcame evil but not alone Only with God help. God bless you

[@Elizabeth-rk3do]

​@@floaretudorache9287 What passage from the Bible do you declare and decree?

[@DJ-yj1vg]

Thanks

[@SoulfulDevotions317]

Thank you very much for the donation, it is always a surprise for us to receive this kind of donation because we never expect it. We are happy that our video helped you so much that it touched your heart to donate this amount. God bless your life 🙏

[@nicholecornes1915]

Im like the nicest person ever! I never ever went back he was schocked

[@Gloria-me3yy]

I love your teachings I’m in love with Jesus and I’m on fire for God however my husband is difficult, but I needed to hear this and I want prayer my name is Gloria, my husbands name is Walter he needs Jesus

[@elizabethandiosa4579]

Very apt title. Narcissist is against god

[@i.sch.4697]

The 'Tares' and the 'Wheat' Parable

[@StartGoNeverEverGiveUp]

Exactly. I'm healing from this.