The FBI agents do well at giving us what we need... They see what's going 9n behind them sssscccrrreeennnssss
@rematr14775 жыл бұрын
Lol me too
@chilitocluclu5 жыл бұрын
@@rematr1477 me too
@harmonizing86275 жыл бұрын
SAME
@ghitaeloufir50585 жыл бұрын
1-They might say I love you too soon 2- It's always about them 3-they're not sure what type of relationship they want 4-they're nice but it seems fake 5-they're ghosting you 6-they play the victim 7-they might just be confused
@mr.nonymous20245 жыл бұрын
thx for saving my time
@ghitaeloufir50585 жыл бұрын
@@mr.nonymous2024 my pleasure
@ahhwe-any74345 жыл бұрын
I feel like... If you're a female, you hafta be real "crazy" to contiously chase after a male. He's an asshole & a bit narccistic if he enjoys that attention. Also, a bitch. I just don't think it's generally that natural for a female to try harder. If you don't chase, & he still acts funny, you put up w/ it ( maybe do your flighty things as well ), then you "settled." If you ignore a male (not really bc you're playing. You just simply ignore), they somehow always wanna come back around. Even if it's way later on. Or try way harder. I'm too "a.d.d." to do a push & pull thing for too long. & I have no shame in that. But thx for the summary. Also, I thought they were gonna do some psychological video study thing about "here's what your choice says about you when you selected that certain colored pill."
@SelenaLaVonne5 жыл бұрын
@@ahhwe-any7434 ong like so I have crush on my friend or my "husband" (cause we call each other wife & husband)and he knows abt it and like lately I been just wanting to cut him off or to distance myself because he got rumors goin around abt him and it was really overwhelming for me cause girls and my friends will be tellin "hey ____ with that girl alexis again" or "he's flirting w this one girl but I think he dropin her today cause of something" and I told my crush this and I was really upset in sad way and we in hall alone and he said "At the end of the day it's either true or not true" and I couldn't look at him cause I was overwhelmed but he kept sayin look at him and I did then he gave me a little tight hug and I hug him back alitte
@ahhwe-any74345 жыл бұрын
@@SelenaLaVonne oh thx for sharing. You're so traditional 🤗👊
@allmakotosarebestmakotos42615 жыл бұрын
Me : *Has a crush on someone* Psych2go : 10 signs signs they're leading you on Me : *Sweats nervously*
@unicornsnowflake9545 жыл бұрын
Me too I have a crush rn but don't want to date and so forth I don't flirt but I still worry I'm leading them on
@vminisfuckingreal9985 жыл бұрын
I have a crush and i cant even talk to him because im a fucking anti social
@shoemaker_0075 жыл бұрын
Yeah the same thing on me I was pooping my self
@viphersniper5 жыл бұрын
BRUHHHH MEEEEE
@GHOUSTTM5 жыл бұрын
Hahaha Don't worry chump, just wait for a year and then confess, like me, i had to wait for one long year to tell him but i still haven't Just hangout with them for a while, make sure you actually DO like them, and then confess uwu :V... Or you can just eat ice cream
@HumansOfVR5 жыл бұрын
*_I'm not a fan of playing games of leading on or not_* just be straight with me
@randomanimefan01545 жыл бұрын
Same i want a guy to be man enough to admit that they actually love me and are not just leading me on.
@MikhaelAhava5 жыл бұрын
Good call!
@chantalichompachompa78455 жыл бұрын
HetaliaRussiaFan 01 That’s literally #1 on this list-
@AK-dh2mu4 жыл бұрын
Life Progress - virtual reality interviews right! Like .. we all all grownups. It may hurt but I like hearing it straight. It’s easier to move on that way. Funny thing is .. they always come back.. it’s like nah I’m good lol
@shutit40244 жыл бұрын
A K omg yes this guy that I dumped because he was just using me and lying to me tried coming back a month later I said hell no 😂 sad thing is some women would go back
@starz_create5 жыл бұрын
Love how this was posted the day I got dumped
@deadrainbow39045 жыл бұрын
Are you ok? I mean, do you feel ok now?
@starz_create5 жыл бұрын
@@deadrainbow3904 yea... I'm actually really happy so so thanks😊
@deadrainbow39045 жыл бұрын
@@starz_create oh, great! Wish you luck ^^
@sheebainu24355 жыл бұрын
Damn that sucks, all the best to you!
@starz_create5 жыл бұрын
@@deadrainbow3904 thank you
@aft52643 жыл бұрын
Isn’t it crazy how they lie and lead you on to “keep you from getting hurt” because they care about your feelings so much yet they don’t believe that you deserve honesty.
@ThugHuntersOfficial5 жыл бұрын
Thx for telling me I’ve been bamboozled.
@dashin97465 жыл бұрын
*Me clicking on this cause I’m wondering for my relationship, then wanting to click off incase I actually see all the signs..*
@lxvelyhxney5 жыл бұрын
Oh hello-
@cck65915 жыл бұрын
you could also think for yourself, instead of watching shiet
@shitnotagain94925 жыл бұрын
@@cck6591 but sometimes you just can't decide what's right or wrong..
@srishti62743 жыл бұрын
Same 👀
@BeanieTunezz5 жыл бұрын
I've been in this situation before and it's very confusing, especially when it's longterm. I'm the type of person that loves too quickly in the relationship and it's difficult to know if it's reciprocated or leading me to fail. I'll definitely be watching for the signs.
@iznaxs5 жыл бұрын
How to get a crush’s number (if they are in your class and your too scared to ask them individually): Start a class group chat.
@autumnnova21055 жыл бұрын
You Are Reading This That’s smart!!! I might actually try that
@xxaidanxxsniperz64044 жыл бұрын
Or just ask them?
@xxaidanxxsniperz64044 жыл бұрын
@Brandon Postel fax
@Demi_God4233 жыл бұрын
No that's not a good idea. Go talk to them directly. It seems creepy when someone from the group chat takes your number and texts you.
@srishti62743 жыл бұрын
@Brandon Postel 😉say them your phone is missing, call me so that I can find it👍🏻
@starlesssaint5 жыл бұрын
This happened to me just last year this guy made me believe that we would become a serious thing but he ended up being a jerk about it in the end. I'm glad you guys made this video so that other people won't have to experience this.
@spitsomefire3644 жыл бұрын
I feel you, sis
@shutit40244 жыл бұрын
I went through this 2 years ago dude was lying and using me it’s still taken me time to heal
@Gwynhyvr5 жыл бұрын
8: They're asexual or aromantic and you're misreading the entire situation.
@BirdboysUmbrella5 жыл бұрын
Always make sure you ask if you think this might be the case. Everyone's different. I'm an asexual but I'm def. not aromantic. Sometimes people confuse the two and assume the worst.
@jnghn005 жыл бұрын
@@BirdboysUmbrella SAME
@BirdboysUmbrella5 жыл бұрын
@@jnghn00 Nice to see someone in the same boat as me lol (It's esp. weird when you're biologically male as people assume sex is something you're after - I'm NB though)
@sienna8295 жыл бұрын
What if I don't see myself dating anyone at all? Does that make me an aromantic? Enlighten me please
@BirdboysUmbrella5 жыл бұрын
@@sienna829 People don't have to be aromantic to not want to date another person. There's a variety of reasons for someone to either want to or not want to. An aromantic person typically means someone who doesn't experience romantic attraction toward others therefor it's not something that interests them.
@katthetheaternerd51585 жыл бұрын
Speaking from experience.. they lead you on as a second option they almost always like someone else... But don't want to be alone so they play with your heart take my advice please! Ladies if he does any of these things. Don't try to keep a friendship speaking from experience it's just torture and you keep getting hurt. Hope this helps someone 🙃
@BEATmyguest3110 ай бұрын
Like guys don’t get fucked with constantly. Y’all go over d-bags then come crying in the comment section
@fukumakimosok41215 жыл бұрын
Why is this video unlisted? ;-; This video is really good!
@srishti62743 жыл бұрын
Exactly 👀
@loganmansiongames5 жыл бұрын
I call playing the Victim Palpatining because in Star Wars: Revenge of the Sith Palpatine pretended the Jedi were hurting him so he could rule the galaxy. Edit: 104 Likes thank you.
@julie5775 жыл бұрын
uh ok
@krishnab71585 жыл бұрын
My recent relationship was exactly like this from the beginning till the end, I was the only one making efforts for us and he just had to tell me that he loved me in a text message, for me to forgive everything, I was so needy and demanding attention from him, after he ghosted me my heart took a long time to heal but now I can think more about what’s right for me. And what kind of people will be allowed to be part of my life.
@stephsparkles12374 жыл бұрын
Krishna Lucien 🥺 something similar happened to me too
@ladennayoung29394 жыл бұрын
That is good. It is a blessing that you received the lesson from the situation. It's a blessing that you didn't allow it to make you bitter. May God continue to keep you on your journey in Jesus name.
@KeybladeMaster99135 жыл бұрын
Do you guys have a video on how not to "latch on" perse in a relationship, If not would it be possible to make one? I've unfortunately have had a very rough life full of abuse, toxicity and next to no love of any kind to the point where, in lack of better terms, I pretty much crave it. It makes me worry what could happen if I ever get into a relationship.
@starz_create5 жыл бұрын
Fuck.. . I felt this
@SpectacleSpark5 жыл бұрын
@@starz_create sAME
@Dakota_kody5 жыл бұрын
KeybladeMaster9913 don’t worry about things out of your control
@gaufehansguaf5075 жыл бұрын
Dakota Denton it is in his control. Don’t give up like that. Make sure your controlling ur own life.
@gaufehansguaf5075 жыл бұрын
KeybladeMaster9913 Hey man. Really felt this comment. By no means am I an expert, but I’d suggest that you work on fixing yourself first. I always tried to fix my problems by trying to find the perfect relationship that will, not understanding that I’m the one who has to fix. When you are whole and love yourself, other whole people will do the same.
@biblequotesdaily66182 жыл бұрын
getting led on fucking sucks. it turns hope into a weapon against you.
@rigeluvyr23685 жыл бұрын
There are times that she makes me feel like I'm leading her when in reality, I'm the one being led on :')
@dylanmaxwell99935 жыл бұрын
Ive come across a girl like that... she had me in her grasp for 8 months, be careful of manipulative woman
@rigeluvyr23685 жыл бұрын
@@dylanmaxwell9993 Yeah, To be honest. I have led someone, and I know how it feels like. I was like that because I couldn't get the attention from the person I'm expecting to have it from, that's why I tried to fulfill my satisfaction from other people and I found it amusing... But when they left me, I regret it so much...
@isurehopeso76895 жыл бұрын
@Dylan Maxwell , yeah and men lol
@dylanmaxwell99935 жыл бұрын
@@isurehopeso7689 hell yeah
@anonymouslee20834 жыл бұрын
I totally relate to the just confused one. I feel myself often fighting the urge to run away. Particularly over certain health problems my GF has that could make it harder to have kids or force me to become a caregiver, limiting my career when we get older. But I don't think I can give up on her, too much about her and me lines up just right, and I warm up to alternative solutions to my concerns about her medical conditions when I think about it more. I feel it would be foolish to pull the trigger on our relationship over problems that could be solved if we work smart enough and hard enough at it. It doesn't mean the urge to run for the hills isn't there, though.
@MB-xv7er2 жыл бұрын
She deserves a guy who isn’t afraid to provide and be a caregiver. I hope she wakes up and realizes there are men willing to do that
@mercyveritas112510 ай бұрын
U sound like a weak man tbh, if u can't be a caretaker then u shouldn't be in a relationship in the first place
@alondraarmenta85595 жыл бұрын
I just realized that I was leading a few guys on because I was so so scared of being hurt and I still am tbh
@sienna8295 жыл бұрын
Same :(
@walinut64435 жыл бұрын
It's ok, you're never gonna find love if you're not gonna take any chances. Don't string them all along, if you want a relationship pick one partner and show them that you wanna be more than friends. For the others, stop stringing them along and politely friend zone them by being a genuine friend, no more than that ❤
@sienna8295 жыл бұрын
@@walinut6443 what if i told him that we're better off as friends but he doesn't want to accept. And everytime we have that talk, he would say that I should answer the phone, if not, he's gonna do something bad to himself...
@walinut64435 жыл бұрын
@@sienna829 if he's gonna harm himself, go tell his parents because hurting himself is very bad. Meanwhile, don't bring up that topic. Him telling you to answer the phone means he might be a bit controlling/doesn't know or have much experience in a relationship.
@sienna8295 жыл бұрын
@@walinut6443 thing is...we met online. And yes..he is a bit controlling. One time i wasn't able to text him all day bc I was busy with my family and when i opened my phone..what i saw was a text message saying "how come you didn't text me when you woke up?" and tbh i got a bit scared when i saw that.
@witchby93625 жыл бұрын
I just got in a relationship, so I'm watching this with the hope that everything is okay. But he is the one who first showed his feelings, he also said that he's felt like it for a while. So this is probably not what he's doing. But I love these videos anyway. If y'all wanna know something that's even cuter (in my opinion) he was my secret admirer, he gave me notes but pretended it was someone giving him the notes to give to me. I wrote my phone number down so he'd be able to talk to me more, and I could ask more questions. Well, he made a cypher in one of his notes, and I tried figuring it out for over an hour. He eventually did a video revealing his face and sent it to me. We're going to a Halloween dance at my school also. I really doubt he's doing this because none of these things are things he does.
@mitchu14335 жыл бұрын
Or he's genuinely attracted to you
@witchby93625 жыл бұрын
@@mitchu1433 I meant to say not what he's doing, but Autocorrect stepped in.
@ghostofsilence26975 жыл бұрын
hopefully it works out for you two
@witchby93625 жыл бұрын
@@ghostofsilence2697 I'm sure it will. He's a great guy..
@KillerRose05 жыл бұрын
2:52 See! I've been telling everyone about the relationship that I used to have. I thought I was going crazy! I thought I was being a bit clingy and they needed some space to relax. But it's been ongoing and it rains the hell out of me. Thank you for agreeing that this is one hell of a sign!
@addeychetry5287 Жыл бұрын
It happened to me....
@steele_heart775 жыл бұрын
8: Their name is either Kristina, Jack, Max, or Lucas. *_N O , I A M N O T O V E R I T ! ! !_*
@lvans0105 жыл бұрын
Sorry...
@steele_heart775 жыл бұрын
@@lvans010 Not you. I'm the one whose sorry, I didn't mean to make you sad. :(
@steele_heart775 жыл бұрын
@Chris How about I accept I'm a freak, and butcher my genitals because I'm a woman?
@OceanAce5 жыл бұрын
Before I read your name I thought Kristina was stealing all your bfs and also thought "what if she's bi and doing this so you're only stuck with her?"
@fatalos68555 жыл бұрын
@Chris Don't be intolerant. Accept that she sees herself as a woman since, whether you like it or not, she isn't hurting anybody, and insulting her can't change that.
@steijnvanb46345 жыл бұрын
if someone is leading you on, that person is afraid of commitment.
@danielc52055 жыл бұрын
The last girl I dated didn't go very swimmingly. I came on too strong and she was emotionally unavailable. I told her that I that wasn't interested in having a platonic relationship with her and she ended our relationship right then and there. I loved her very much, and I was heartbroken when she left. But, I've been in too many one-sided relationships before, and I didn't want to hang around in her friend zone. Life is too short to chase the unchaseable.
@witchnessp5 жыл бұрын
I love you guys' videos. Today I'm going through some relationship stress and part of me needed confirmation that I'm doing everything I can, right, and not like this. And if you are feeling like this is going on or you're the one initiating it, and want to make a change, do it in whatever way feels safe for you and for your partner. Communication is the healthiest thing in any releationship, dating or not.
@hello.myles245 жыл бұрын
i feel like this popping up on my recommendations is already a sign 😔
@sienna8295 жыл бұрын
Same :(
@sriramchandramouli3945 жыл бұрын
This was so on point. My ex has been leading me on many many times. I realised it quite late. I'll not soothe or massage her ego anymore. Thanks Psych2Go!
@nocturnerequiem47565 жыл бұрын
You guys should make a video called “How to flirt if you’re shy” or “How to stop liking your friend”. 🤠
@StephanieRZ4 жыл бұрын
Lol honestlyy. I feel like I personally invested so much into my close best friend, and really was a romantic love at first to a platonic love to it always redirects romantically. It's the worst cause they were someone I grew up with and had my first love with. They reciprocate a very little bit & then tell me things like, they're of a different sexual orientation (which honestly is so questionable because they behave so very fluidly like bisexual but say they're gay but are likely straight in person: cause they can act another way online but be diff. in person). They're so indecisive & fickle. Overall just really did too much wrongs towards me but suddenly it's like, yesterday out of the blue I was subconsciously joking & it kind of led to seducing, he reciprocated but then turned it down because he said he's more of a one person kind of guy, and that he talks to others (I accidentally forgot he's been talking to other people regardless of him mentioning it to me weeks before 😪 we've been close & intimate for nearly 9 years). Anyway, seems like the best option is just to leave them but it's not easy when you had love for them & partially don't want to face being alone completely. Even bothers me that they know this. It leaves me battling with anxiety & just sadness at times over how wrong they had me, to where I'm seeing it as maybe I just allowed it (I was young & it's not easy to handle leaving said person). Another option was to just apologize, and move forward from it. Which I'd likely be doing but it's just turmoil at times.
@squamousthomas32675 жыл бұрын
Damn...I’m the bad guy. And I didn’t even know
@soulplexis5 жыл бұрын
Duh
@sadyoshhours27694 жыл бұрын
@Arthur Cribben dude im a woman and this behavior describes how i treated him in our relationship and shows how im an asshole.
@bittertastesgood3 жыл бұрын
Same bruh
@nataliek.43215 жыл бұрын
Im watching this evan though im sad. Single, and to young to be in a relationship Yipee
@MikhaelAhava5 жыл бұрын
Oh…lol, how old?
@anotherks72975 жыл бұрын
FBI OPEN UP!
@martaminano5 жыл бұрын
I'm 9 Pls dont hate on me
@createphone505 жыл бұрын
I felt that
@its_tamm04875 жыл бұрын
I’ve been struggling with this me and my bf and im unsure if he actually likes me or not. Thank you so much!^^
@rociogallegossanchez4 жыл бұрын
He's so gentleman and nice with me, and he clearly is interested, but I'm unsure because he's recently gotten out of a relationship and we don't speak/chat very often. I don't know if he's just busy or ignoring me. I don't wanna be a paranoid but I feel like I chat more with any other person than with him :c
@akilina_4 жыл бұрын
Rocio may i know what's the development now and are you happy with the development?
@IamC.M5 жыл бұрын
*I feel so guilty watching this*
@anzed88385 жыл бұрын
This was frighteningly accurate wth. Even if you feel it in your gut making a definitive decision of ending things is hard when the other person is confused and unconscious, things never go as planned 😅
@originalname8816 Жыл бұрын
Most of us searched for this. Romance is confusing now, because you can never know if someone likes you, or just likes the idea of you being obsessed with you…
@balan47747 ай бұрын
500 days of summer fucked is up real god
@G0dspeed1015 жыл бұрын
Recently broke up with my girlfriend and she had all these signs
@LexMex-gx5pz5 жыл бұрын
I recently experienced this situation. Thank you for confirming my suspicions.
@curtistinemiller15605 жыл бұрын
Another sign is thier action does not match what they say.....
@hunterhamilton98245 жыл бұрын
I wish I saw this earlier, still great lessons to learn as always!
@Ghx4hg2 жыл бұрын
This just happened to me today. The guy told me that everything he said to me was a joke and laughed at my face. It felt sad yet very comical
@sharkstriker15 жыл бұрын
Yeah. My last relationship was like this. He was definitely the second though, confused. Still a rude move but.. definitely confused.
@yuathetsundere24825 жыл бұрын
That moment when you crush told you to leave him alone today and this pops up...
@ISoloYouRelax4 жыл бұрын
On number 2. When first meeting someone people feel the conversation went better the more they talk about themselves.
@melodydc27014 жыл бұрын
This reminds me of my ex. He makes me sick. I’m so glad I found someone who really loves me.
@DieDude7435 жыл бұрын
It always seems like this channel uploads exactly what I need, when I need it
@nazekpurplesyou97395 жыл бұрын
One girl that I used to be friends with, was exactly like what the video described. Asking boys if they want to date after a few hours of meeting then saying that they kove them, then playing hard to get, creating drama, being polite to then only to leave them and then playing the victim to her friends (including me) about how happy she is the one day and how bored she is the other, always complaining about how hard is to have a decent relationship. I stopped hanging out with her, she was a really cringey person
@seanoreo67395 жыл бұрын
I just used this video to check if one of my OCs was leading their partner on, which is what I want for plot, and they are. That's reassuring from a writer's standpoint
@dashin97465 жыл бұрын
Hey Psych2Go can you make a video on how to not let bad past relationships affect your new ones please??
@bbqchickenlemon4 жыл бұрын
yesss
@chikinluvver41235 жыл бұрын
It can be hard to know what you want from someone. Often times people ask the “what are we” question too soon. It throws off the whole balance and then there’s expectations from the person who asked the question.
@hollysmyth27044 жыл бұрын
I've been on the "leading on" side of things, but not intentionally. I was confused about my feelings, and wanted to take time to feel things out. I was super back and forth in my head, it really depended on the day. I was waiting to know exactly what to do, and I just got to a point where I knew an answer wasn't going to appear in the sky. It was really hard, but I knew that I couldn't let it go on. He was hurt and confused, but handled it really well. He's still one of my best friends, and he doesn't hold it against me, but I still feel awful about it. I didn't do anything intentionally to hurt him, but I still did. As much as it sucked, it was a valuable learning experience.
@lonedolo6443 жыл бұрын
this is exactly what the girl I’m talking to right now is doing but if I say something about I’m the fucking bad guy right? Shit is so stupid. She plays hot and cold all fucking day but when i bring it up I’m the bad guy right? Ok.
@hollysmyth27043 жыл бұрын
@@lonedolo644 it’s not out of pocket to say something. Some people are super hot and cold and don’t realize they are or they don’t realize how it is impacting the other person, if I were to do it over again I would definitely handle things differently. I don’t think it makes you “the bad guy” if you say that you need more consistency or some sort of commitment if you’re going to continue seeing her. If she makes you feel shitty about it then that’s on her.
@afrozenazneen62154 жыл бұрын
Sometimes it could be someone could be heart broken many times and then trust becomes an issue.
@gurudra5 жыл бұрын
Love has the power to heal the mind , body and the soul )
@cake37725 жыл бұрын
True
@KristenMiner33 жыл бұрын
As someone who has stringed people along, “not ready to be with us” is so true. Its about wanting them there WHEN IM READY. Could be because I’m not ready to break up with who I’m with, I feel like I haven’t gotten my shit together, not ready to move, list goes on.
@peteryeung1114 жыл бұрын
Yes, I was leading a relationship far longer than I should. And regretted for ten years after the breakup. She was the most kind hearted person I've ever known. That's why it's hurts. The last part of this video pretty much describes what I was. If I have one regret in life, Hurting her that way would be it. Don't hurt anyone's feeling, whether you love them or not.
@averagesong3605 жыл бұрын
I have been heartbroken over this lately. Thank you for this video! :)
@RajasaurusIrl5 жыл бұрын
Love is for the weak point blank PERIOD
@Eziyah5 жыл бұрын
professional Spongebob fan LMAO 😭
@MikhaelAhava5 жыл бұрын
Yeah.
@letsnotdothat9755 жыл бұрын
You're either young or really lonely trying to find a way to cope
@RajasaurusIrl5 жыл бұрын
@@letsnotdothat975 how fucking dare you I am offended
@RajasaurusIrl5 жыл бұрын
@@enilah me
@debbiemoore27475 жыл бұрын
Yup had this done a lot. Put the brakes on with the last man I interacted with. I had to distance myself because he had very little respect for my boundaries and didn't listen.
@Mateo-fy7oo4 жыл бұрын
Got lead on by a girl and she really made it seem like she wanted something w me but things didn’t go the way I thought... it hurts a lot because I really liked this girl still do and I miss her. Didn’t know her that long but timing don’t matter in my opinion it felt like I knew her forever. I thought we had something going there for a little bit. But turns out I’m not what she wanted after all... I never did anything wrong I was nice and was there for her when she needed a shoulder to cry on I was there for her. Because I genuinely care for her and still care for her. I don’t think she realized what she had with me. What she could’ve had. Never had any bad intentions. Just good. I do shit outta love. I wanted to make her the happiest girl alive. I felt like I could’ve. But ya know I just have to accept what happened and move on. It’s hard to move on because I really like her. Everything happens for a reason tho. But I do believe deep down that I could’ve made her happy. Because I know I’m a great person with a good heart. I don’t wish any bad on her for doing me dirty like leading me on. I wish her the best and I hope she finds someone else who makes her happy. I genuinely mean that too. I hope one day someone actually will appreciate me and not lead me on and actually want something with me. I keep having bad experiences and it’s starting to scare me. I’m like starting to get scared of falling for people and getting feelings and all because I always end up getting hurt :( might build a wall and just be with myself. I got attached to this girl. Loved her personality loved a lot of things about her. She had her faults. She has her issues and problems like every other person out there. I accepted her and all her pros and cons tho That’s how much I like her. Would’ve done anything for her. This experience made me realize tho that sometimes no matter how great you are no matter how Great of a person you are Nice you are Gentle you are Kind you are Sweet you are Caring you are Open you are Loving you are That sometimes being all of those sometimes isn’t enough for some people. Sometimes you’ll never be good enough. Sometimes people don’t see your worth sometimes people get bored and suck the life out of you and then spit you out like you never mattered. They get what they want from you and go on to the next. I cut her off a week ago because I couldn’t handle being her “friend” after all that. It hurt me. Bad. It hurt me everytime I’d see her on social media. I had no other choice but to cut her off from everything. I miss her a lot every day but I did that for me because I felt like it needed to be done for my inner peace and my mental health overall. It’s been taking a toll on me. I hope one day she’ll realize what she could’ve had with me :/// maybe maybe not. Who knows. I’m gonna get through this tho. I know I will. To anyone who read this all the way I hope what ever you are going through I hope you get through it too. 💙
@mifasola15 жыл бұрын
Ghosting is also someone who just doesn't call you in between seeing you. They go for weeks and you don't hear from them.
@Psych2go5 жыл бұрын
Would you like a video on ghosting?
@kimberlyjavier82535 жыл бұрын
I'm being lead on by my bestfriend :'
@kimberlyjavier82535 жыл бұрын
@@reina8284 i don' rlly know
@dummy33005 жыл бұрын
Well know that you know it's up to you to stop yourself from getting led on the only persons actions and behaviour we can control is our own, we can't expect others to treat us good but we can choose to treat ourselves good.
@WesternDragoon4 жыл бұрын
Considering my relationship there is one thing that I feel must be said. Always take the "Ghosting" segment into context of your own relationship. My boyfriend has to hide the fact that he is gay from his parents, and his parents also (at least until recently) watched him like a hawk, so he had to stay off the social media we use to connect at certain times. Always clarify with your partner about your feelings concerning this ghosting. If they can't give you a real, concrete reason, that is when you should be suspicious. Especially so when grouped together with other behavior in this video.
@macadamiabond93815 жыл бұрын
LOVE AT FIRST SIGHT DOESN'T EXIST!!!!!! ATTRACTION MAYBE, BUT IT ONLY EVER FEELS LIKE LOVE THE FIRST TIME 'CAUSE YOU REALIZE YOU LOVE THEM LATER!!!!!! I REST MY CASE.
@ellipsis-5 жыл бұрын
I was in this situation few weeks ago, I'm glad I'm over it now
@artful_alicat5 жыл бұрын
I’ve lost a lot of friends due to “leading them on,” even though it’s just me turning down romantic advances and still being nice afterwards. So moral of the story is, you’re an ass if you’re a nice person and try to keep your friends. 👍🏻
@bananian5 жыл бұрын
I would love to stay as friends with my ex but I just couldn't do it for the moment. Sometimes it just hurts too much.
@sushiix66095 жыл бұрын
same..
@NexLegacyAccount4 жыл бұрын
How they take romantic rejection isn't your fault. It would have been worse if you'd agreed to a relationship you didn't want. You made the right choice and if they aren't mature enough to handle it, they aren't really a friend.
@cekinci4 жыл бұрын
I wonder if you led them on by ghosting them and then been fake nice to them when you encountered them. If so nobody would care to have a relationship with you because they would stop trusting you.
@pianoclasesstgo66003 жыл бұрын
Playing the victim card
@chlosmith81524 жыл бұрын
This video is very helpful. Thank you. 7 was how my last partner was but I don't see him as a bad person. I can see it from his perspective but I need to move on.
@atrixtussand23693 жыл бұрын
This is litterary the history of my love life. Being constantly attracted to the those whose like to lead on. Luckly, i figured the signs after 2 failed attempts to eastblished a relationship. What dissapointed me and made me give up, is the fact that I have a shit luck and always stick on those girls with such personality. After 20+ attempts of dates that clearly showed the signs of leading on. I just gave up. On dating, on even attempts of dating as in general and whole. I guess iam a what is called "a hopeless case".
@victori23354 жыл бұрын
OH MY GOD... THIS IS THE LIFE I HAD WITH MY EX... he still torments me to this day, thought...
@yasenfareed25735 жыл бұрын
For that one person who disliked Edit:oh my fricken God 105 like 0-o Hello
@beelzebub335 жыл бұрын
yousif gaming dont fucking ruin comments with edits like: OMG THANKS FOR X LIKES
@imgonnacry30565 жыл бұрын
if you think you led on someone, tell them the truth, it's hard but it'll keep away misunderstandings. be mature guys, dont start relationships you can't handle.
@matttakahashi82835 жыл бұрын
If they pull the “ghosting” bs on me I call them out on their cowardly ways. Insult them as a person and their intelligence. That usually gets a rise out of them, then I “ghost” those clowns 😎
@letsnotdothat9755 жыл бұрын
Or you could just accept it and be the bigger man instead of insulting them. Yeah it's rude to ghost somebody, but it's even worse when you decide to be aggressive towards them.
@dummy33005 жыл бұрын
Whats the point of not ghosting to abuse them then ghost them after haha, yea ghosting is a trash move but don't think we always need to abuse to drive a point sometimes just being honest and saying yo I don't wanna reply because I'm not into you is enough.
@Racso88e4 жыл бұрын
a very ironic statement. You by default called yourself a coward right after you get the rise out of them. Good luck.
@meryanneb5 жыл бұрын
This appeared on my nf and it has blown me away, cause i am like this. -I always talk only about myself. Often asks question about him. - I sometimes go ghosting him. I dont reply a day or two suddenly and sometimes worst, just block and unblock him. - I dont know what relationship i want on us, sometimes just a friend, sometimes more than just a friend. -I am confused whether i really like him or nah. I think i need to go to mars. I am too much for him but he loves me a lot and he keep sticking on me. -
@winnieye50175 жыл бұрын
Amazing video
@xalynkx4 жыл бұрын
i was recently being led on... every time i was with this girl it felt like there was a connection between us but for some reason anytime i hugged her it felt like i was being poisoned, we shared nothing in common, i'd shower her with gifts and she'd willingly take it, but she could do nothing for me, i was trying to be a better man for what i thought was a great girl, but she wouldn't even try to help me improve, after all this time it turned out that she didn't want me to change because the person i was is just what she wanted! i was a frikkin tool to this girl, in the end when i confronted her all she said was "i'm sorry!"
@Yullenator5 жыл бұрын
"everyone knows that love at first sight is a real thing" what? dude what? did you read wrong?
@dillonwarner45343 жыл бұрын
The worst Is getting lead on after a brake up with that same person you once had everything with it sucks that people say they love you but then can’t be honest with you Being honest about everything saves so much unneeded pain and suffering as once a person goes threw this they will forever have trust problems and will strive to live the rest of there life alone so they don’t get played again it’s fucked
@Underfell_sandd5 жыл бұрын
I knew it. It was all fake '"-n- But I was too dumb to realize it. Now I have depression☹
@ninjamonkey5085 жыл бұрын
I knew I was being lead on because I figured out these signs long ago. It's just hard to want to let them go
@maduck8995 жыл бұрын
Two weeks ago, i got back with my ex but it felt weird when suddenly "I've changed"... So she left me, i realized just now, that she was leading me on and playing with my feelings and thoughts. Lately i felt like crap but oddly i act as if northing ever happened and go on with my day. I have to admit i put on a philosophical mask to hide my anger/sadness, i laugh more than usual but im empty inside. Ive noticed that i try to keep myself busy to change my thoughts but... I just can't help myself every once in a while to think about her. Also i like music, but lately every song pisses me off of has a different meaning to me, my taste in music went from happy/kwirky to depressed (joji btw) i just need help in general please. People are starting to see that im acting weird for someone who's going through a breakup. Thanks
@andrewwilson79395 жыл бұрын
Same here bro.
@StephanieRZ4 жыл бұрын
♥️ I'm so sorry to hear. Do lean in to people who you do feel close to, spend some healthy time with yourself doing your favorite things. Take care of yourself more, do deep breathing belly exercises every once in awhile (really helps relieve the stresses that comes with it). And if needed, there's a great page on Instagram, or even youtube called @The.holistic.psychologist or the holistic psychologist. Really helpful. :)
@solitarylady_144 жыл бұрын
My relationship with him only lasted for like 5 days. My classmates are even making fun of me over a break up while them having a “break up with their boyfriend” they get all the sympathy and pity and I only get an insults and teases. And lesson learned, I’m not going to make another mistake when It comes to this.
@eugeniocontreras24285 жыл бұрын
Me: *cant emotionally love someone* The annoying girl I wanted to try dating because I was looking for something serious: *dO yoU lOve mE yEt eUGEne* Me: god damn this witch with a capital B just doesn’t get it
@walinut64435 жыл бұрын
XD
@YoonchiYa5 жыл бұрын
#2edgy4U 😂
@_You_Are_Not_Him_5 жыл бұрын
Watch this if you overthink so you can overthink some more.
@Star-Man5 жыл бұрын
The first one feels like a shot at Ted Mosby 😂😂
@kotaleartist5 жыл бұрын
this is why i make sure no to show signs of interest to people i think possibly like me in order to avoid leading someone on without noticing.
@midnightsarrow1605 жыл бұрын
I fall under the category here of ''wtf am i doing and why??'' I'm in a relationship and I do care and love the guy I'm with but-- kinda worried i am leading him on now ;-; Why does he trust me? I've told i could hurt him w h y
@introvertedsoul63755 жыл бұрын
This has all the signs. Thanks so much Psych2Go! You make such great videos!
@19ade895 жыл бұрын
MA CRUSH LIKES MEH BAK- He moved away. ackk
@Eyes-of-Horus4 жыл бұрын
Simple, you're being told what you want to hear all the time.
@EchthelionII5 жыл бұрын
The one good thing about being single, you don't have to worry about this problem. Man being single sucks.
@Demi_God4233 жыл бұрын
A guy tried doing this to me, but I told him, he needs to learn how to take care of himself.
@renitymoon34715 жыл бұрын
Phew thank god my crush don’t have any these signs ☺️
@Psych2go5 жыл бұрын
That's good to know. How are things going for you? :)
@renitymoon34715 жыл бұрын
Psych2Go It good how about you ^^
@jamesvinson39982 жыл бұрын
When people try to play mind games with me, I just tell them to go away and go bother someone else because I don't want to waste my time with that nonsense.
@Hazyphern5 жыл бұрын
How are there comments from 3 weeks ago???
@bhavya14734 жыл бұрын
Ok...this video saved me from the guilt I was feeling after rejecting someone.
@LanishaJanae5 жыл бұрын
This was targeted for 8th grade me lmao
@kirirolls Жыл бұрын
i’m sorry if you’re going through this. it really does suck 💔
@lovepeaceisneverguaranteed73855 жыл бұрын
Bold of u to assume anyone's is leading towards me but ok😅
@antigonmkd72455 жыл бұрын
You helped me a little of boosting my confidence and i think it's all in confidence and honesty