Signs You're Being Manipulated Without Realizing

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Psych2Go

Psych2Go

Күн бұрын

Manipulators often target insecure, sensitive, and trusting people.
Writer: Chloe Avenasa
Script Editor: Denise Ding
Script Manager: Kelly Soong
VO: Amanda Silvera
Animator: Clarisse Lim Xingyi
KZbin Manager: Cindy Cheong
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@ICEcoldJT
@ICEcoldJT 3 жыл бұрын
“Speak to people in a way that if they died the next day, you’d be satisfied with the last thing you said to them.” 🙏🏽
@yuval1405
@yuval1405 3 жыл бұрын
I need to remember this
@Rey3518
@Rey3518 3 жыл бұрын
That's kinda scary tho
@marsp5636
@marsp5636 3 жыл бұрын
Wow. Thank for the reminder
@SomeSCP--withInternetaccess
@SomeSCP--withInternetaccess 3 жыл бұрын
Hopefully I’m the one who dies first 😅😅😅 haha.......
@yuval1405
@yuval1405 3 жыл бұрын
@@SomeSCP--withInternetaccess you good?
@meenakshisrinivasan9933
@meenakshisrinivasan9933 3 жыл бұрын
When I was younger, basically all of my "friends" were like this. This is the reason why I'm happy having no friends rather than these annoying people🙄😌
@paniniprincess5211
@paniniprincess5211 3 жыл бұрын
But having one friend is good 💛
@janaholzer4334
@janaholzer4334 3 жыл бұрын
I feel you bro most of my friends were like this too
@ena9188
@ena9188 3 жыл бұрын
Same.
@rahmahassaf2275
@rahmahassaf2275 3 жыл бұрын
Great choice !
@AcornSC
@AcornSC 3 жыл бұрын
yea, it is the best to have a one caring, supportive friend, or no friends , rather than a group of fake ones 💗
@QuietlyMagnetic
@QuietlyMagnetic 3 жыл бұрын
“The truth is, everyone is going to hurt you. You just got to find the ones worth suffering for.” ― Bob Marley
@graywalkerjoin3rdparty74
@graywalkerjoin3rdparty74 3 жыл бұрын
Anyone who quotes Bob Marley gets a like from me.
@marykandareli4577
@marykandareli4577 3 жыл бұрын
Holy shit that was deep
@paniniprincess5211
@paniniprincess5211 3 жыл бұрын
Great quote very true as well!💛
@thebeastwithin6978
@thebeastwithin6978 3 жыл бұрын
“Life is one big road with lots of signs So when you riding through the ruts Don't you complicate your mind Flee from hate, mischief and jealousy! Don't bury your thoughts Put your vision to reality” - Bob Marley on Wake Up and Live
@FractalPrism.
@FractalPrism. 3 жыл бұрын
200000% disagree
@cannoli_aoli
@cannoli_aoli 3 жыл бұрын
and this is why i have severe trust issues. i only trust my bed since it holds me when i sleep.
@Shorna6464
@Shorna6464 3 жыл бұрын
Yea I feel you too man 😂
@paniniprincess5211
@paniniprincess5211 3 жыл бұрын
I know how that feels but you can still make friends they're people out there wanting to be friends with you go out and meet them!💛
@sanikakadam4992
@sanikakadam4992 3 жыл бұрын
No worries, we can be friends.
@I_the_Taco
@I_the_Taco 3 жыл бұрын
*_splat_* "OW!"
@null5573
@null5573 3 жыл бұрын
But what if your bed is actually spying you?
@PlanetPsych
@PlanetPsych 4 жыл бұрын
Help from the future: 1. They do the bare minimum in your relationship 0:38 2. They're only nice @ the beginning 1:01 3. They only see you when they feel like 1:25 4. There is an imbalance in the relationship 1:43 5. They intimidate you into agreeing with them 2:09 6. They act differently behind your back 2:36 7. They're not really interested in getting to know you 3:00 8. They don't respect your boundaries 3:25 9. Relationship/ Friendship feels one-sided 3:50 10. They make you pay for everything 4:19 With love :-)
@changedchannels6404
@changedchannels6404 3 жыл бұрын
How wut-
@owens.studios
@owens.studios 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you, kind time traveler
@zzainii
@zzainii 3 жыл бұрын
How is this 2 weeks ago-
@lylm2595
@lylm2595 3 жыл бұрын
Thank youuu! 😊
@misted3871
@misted3871 3 жыл бұрын
@@zzainii early access. I think patrons get it
@not-a-ghost2206
@not-a-ghost2206 3 жыл бұрын
10 signs someone is trying to use you: 1. They do the bare minimum 2. They are only nice at the beginning 3. They only see you when they feel like it 4. Imbalance in the relationship 5. They intimidate you to agree with them (Power play) 6. They act differently behind your back or don't defend you 7. They don't remember Informations about you 8. They don't respect boundaries 9. It feels one sided 10. They make you pay for everything
@thebutterscotchkid2481
@thebutterscotchkid2481 3 жыл бұрын
thanks for the list, stranger!
@cescu2
@cescu2 Ай бұрын
I've seen a lot of these short lists on self-help videos. What are you guys trying to do with these, are you trying to build a defense?
@user-hw6bi5uc1q
@user-hw6bi5uc1q 3 жыл бұрын
"If people don't want your friendship they don't deserve it."
@aurorasa1218
@aurorasa1218 3 жыл бұрын
This just makes me sad to realize that I don't really have any friends 😔
@safieabdullah1072
@safieabdullah1072 3 жыл бұрын
DON'T WORRY.I can be your friend 😀😀
@paniniprincess5211
@paniniprincess5211 3 жыл бұрын
Go make some new ones and cut off the people who aren't your true friends be confident and go get some new pals to hang with 💛
@tannersevern8851
@tannersevern8851 3 жыл бұрын
Lemme guess ur in high school? Same. High school is not real life. I promise you. Same with any schools before. It’s not real life and it won’t stay like that I promise.
@nelliebellie2222
@nelliebellie2222 3 жыл бұрын
@@tannersevern8851 Exactly most of my high school friends are like this T_T
@rahmahassaf2275
@rahmahassaf2275 3 жыл бұрын
Having no friends is better than having fake and using ones ....
@toastyghost0
@toastyghost0 3 жыл бұрын
my ex-boyfriend did this to me. our relationship was one-sided. i did and initiated everything while he just took and took and took. my love. my money. my time. its my fault for not realizing it sooner. i couldn't admit to myself that he was that type of person to use people. he did the same to others around him, it was only a matter of time before i admitted to myself he was doing it to me also. nobody is exempt from users, they only care about themselves. i'm finding it very hard to move on because of the investment i put into him and the way he would make me feel, on top of the world (rarely but it felt special to me). but none of it was genuine. its a hard lesson im learning even at age 28.
@ThePTurtle115
@ThePTurtle115 3 жыл бұрын
Went through the same thing this summer. Perfect time for a narcissist to prey on someone.
@paniniprincess5211
@paniniprincess5211 3 жыл бұрын
That's great that you're getting better. I hope you're moving on and taking it easy for awhile hope you cut that bastard out of your life because there's no place for rude people like that.
@danielesteve8359
@danielesteve8359 3 жыл бұрын
Of course it's your fault.
@maju404
@maju404 3 жыл бұрын
stay strong girl people like him are literal trash and you deserve way better
@thomasgallegos2832
@thomasgallegos2832 3 жыл бұрын
Same thing I went through. We'll be strong and move on !!
@LowJiaJunAcis
@LowJiaJunAcis Жыл бұрын
“Don’t trust people who tell you other people’s secrets.” - Dan Howell
@sammygarrett425
@sammygarrett425 3 жыл бұрын
I need to stop people pleasing.... that's my downfall. The worse part about being used is the gaslighting. I had an ex exactly like this
@Barbara1908
@Barbara1908 3 жыл бұрын
"10 signs someone trying to use you" Me : im finally useful
@ChiChi-ol6qk
@ChiChi-ol6qk 3 жыл бұрын
Nice joke.
@skye5057
@skye5057 3 жыл бұрын
ikr finally
@ashvideoer
@ashvideoer 3 жыл бұрын
Lol
@artificialidiot1654
@artificialidiot1654 4 жыл бұрын
I'm glad to have good friends. Ty Psych2Go
@pineapple423
@pineapple423 3 жыл бұрын
??? H o w ???? 2 mO n t h s ?
@nourwalid5352
@nourwalid5352 3 жыл бұрын
HOWWWWWWW
@somebodieschild6232
@somebodieschild6232 3 жыл бұрын
Pleases teach me
@vivian-zn2hs
@vivian-zn2hs 3 жыл бұрын
HOW ARE YALL DOING THIS 😭😭
@odieig4316
@odieig4316 3 жыл бұрын
I have a f fake fren
@misterwolf3817
@misterwolf3817 3 жыл бұрын
"No one deserves to be treated like this" Parents: *I will ignore that*
@dailydoseofmedicinee
@dailydoseofmedicinee 3 жыл бұрын
👍The conversation is always about them. They always let you pick up the check You always have to come to their rescue. They never say thank you. They're always asking for favors. You start to resent them.
@ll3832
@ll3832 4 жыл бұрын
Hi people We are from future Make sure to take care of yourself Bye
@somebodieschild6232
@somebodieschild6232 3 жыл бұрын
Please teach me how to do this
@vivian-zn2hs
@vivian-zn2hs 3 жыл бұрын
Oh ok human from the future
@rosepose8518
@rosepose8518 3 жыл бұрын
HOLD UP
@carrix-44
@carrix-44 3 жыл бұрын
Tell me what happens in da future 👁👄👁
@somebodieschild6232
@somebodieschild6232 3 жыл бұрын
pls teach me
@Olivia-ep5mi
@Olivia-ep5mi 3 жыл бұрын
Hey you...yes you reading this or scrolling by Just wanted to tell you that You're amazing You're worth it You're beautiful Don't give up on yourself Don't quit on yourself Cuz you know what I love you❤️❤️ Take care of yourself ....alright?? Love ❤️❤️❤️ you
@reelheck
@reelheck 3 жыл бұрын
This was an important video for me to watch. Lately I've been feeling very used, being pulled in all directions to help others when I barely have time to work on my goals. And they don't ever make room for me. My one friend is constantly asking me for help with her college assignments. Last year it went too far and took up too much of my time. And now it was pretty much impossible for me to make time for her with all of my other issues. She's really struggling in so many ways right now which aren't at all her fault, and I care about her. I wanted so badly to help but this time I felt a little like no one cared about me. So I said I would see if I could help and let her know. And she waited for me to respond but I never did, and she did poorly on her midterms. So I actually made a big mistake and hurt her and the situation even more because I didn't communicate, I couldn't say no even though I wanted to so badly. Set your boundaries. And if they seem disappointed in you, you need to just make it a conversation. I care about my friend. Just as I apologized for thinking I could make room in my schedule even though it was unrealistic, she apologized too. She said that having people help her is the only way she feels loved. She said she needs to work on that. I think that having this honest conversation really helped us both. Everyone needs space, self healing, and to find the answers that work for you.
@paniniprincess5211
@paniniprincess5211 3 жыл бұрын
This is a great lesson and you can't help someone else until you helped yourself it's not selfish it's self care ❤
@reelheck
@reelheck 3 жыл бұрын
@@paniniprincess5211 thank you, it has taken me 20 years of life to start understanding that. Thanks for reading such a long comment ahah! :)
@paniniprincess5211
@paniniprincess5211 3 жыл бұрын
@@reelheck I love reading long comments it's like a book and I've seen longer one's than THIS imagine a comment that looks like a 5 page essay 😐
@reelheck
@reelheck 3 жыл бұрын
@@paniniprincess5211 oh thats really cool im glad heheh
@SamElle
@SamElle 3 жыл бұрын
I have learned to cut off one-sided relationships!!! In the past I have kept these friendships because I felt bad for letting them go but I decided to put myself go. They would only talk to me when they needed something from me and I finally put my foot down!
@billybob6604
@billybob6604 3 жыл бұрын
YES
@billybob6604
@billybob6604 3 жыл бұрын
I DID THE SAME
@SamElle
@SamElle 3 жыл бұрын
@@billybob6604 im PROUD OF US
@Ashheartpaw
@Ashheartpaw 3 жыл бұрын
I love it when people are confused ✨
@jamesm3392
@jamesm3392 3 жыл бұрын
I am! 🤣🤣 What the hell how these people posted 2 months ago??
@joannasandquist1599
@joannasandquist1599 3 жыл бұрын
?
@joannasandquist1599
@joannasandquist1599 3 жыл бұрын
How's this from 2 weeks ago?
@Antellars
@Antellars 3 жыл бұрын
Me to :D
@nourwalid5352
@nourwalid5352 3 жыл бұрын
How did you do it
@lumos7988
@lumos7988 3 жыл бұрын
I'm so tired of "friends" who do the bare minimum, while I hold on to them for fear of abandonment. :(
@69_natalia_420
@69_natalia_420 3 жыл бұрын
I was friends with a girl for three/four years. She left me because I wasn't popular enough, and I wasn't pretty enough. Jokes on her I had a glow up and plan on being more social and becoming more popular at this new school.
@curtistinemiller4646
@curtistinemiller4646 3 жыл бұрын
When Someone shows you who they Are "Believe" them......
@jaredberlin2066
@jaredberlin2066 3 жыл бұрын
Had 2 people like this in my life and cut off both of them after I tore my ACL in front of them and they showed zero sympathy. Best thing to ever happen to me. A horrible injury actually has benefitted me so much. Now I have found a great new group of friends!
@nataliamartinez6492
@nataliamartinez6492 3 жыл бұрын
That fact that a friend of many years that I knew was like this to me ..
@Emmbunn
@Emmbunn 3 жыл бұрын
the amount of content you guys publish so constantly is so amazing, wow!!
@Psych2go
@Psych2go 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much! We are trying so hard to push out more content to PsychFam. 💕 Help us by sharing this video if it helped you! - Cindy
@craigmerkey8518
@craigmerkey8518 3 жыл бұрын
You can tell how others feel about you by how genuine their smile is!
@legojjang
@legojjang 3 жыл бұрын
I feel like this could potentially happen to me in the future. Thank you for warning me ahead of time ❤️
@sanikakadam4992
@sanikakadam4992 3 жыл бұрын
Even if someone like this approaches you, don't fall for them. Ask some questions to yourself before making anyone your friend, because not everyone deserves a beautiful friendship- 1. Do I genuinely feel happier with this person? 2. Does this person care for my needs or concerns or is least bothered? 3. Is he just sticking with me for his own benefit? If the answers to these questions are not satisfactory i.e. it proves that this person is either using you or is a fake friend. Beware of such people. Being alone is better than having such fake/toxic or selfish friends. Ask other people around him, about his nature, obviously you won't directly ask them about that person's nature, but indirectly ask them or observe his behaviours around them. Try to find someone who is genuinely considerate and caring and who makes you feel happier when you are with them, life will be beautiful than ever and if you already have one person who is like that in your life, you are the luckiest person.
@mariekay.
@mariekay. 3 жыл бұрын
Man, so many time travelers in the comments today.
@random_youtuber8095
@random_youtuber8095 3 жыл бұрын
ikr lol
@SevCaswell
@SevCaswell 3 жыл бұрын
@@random_youtuber8095 these videos are put up early for pateron subs and them made public later.
@Isaac-0.4
@Isaac-0.4 3 жыл бұрын
They have early access that's why
@dreadedyeti7050
@dreadedyeti7050 3 жыл бұрын
@@SevCaswell I’ve said this as well. It’s pretty easy to realize when you think about it or have been a long time fan of them.
@katieglover1842
@katieglover1842 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks! I didn't know.
@phantom9831
@phantom9831 3 жыл бұрын
so yeah...i was used all this time...(i had this feeling when i broke with her, because i was the only one who showed how i loved her, and the only thing i received in back was "can you help me?" "could you do me a favor?" in the end, i had the feeling that she never loved me thatt was horrible
@im4misfit
@im4misfit 3 жыл бұрын
I've had 9 happen to me a lot, mostly because my parents have taught/raised me to be a giver and sometimes I give so much ex-friends have ended up taking advantage of me because of it. So, then our relationship ends up being one sided
@ui1248
@ui1248 3 жыл бұрын
Sounds familiar
@arielmaule
@arielmaule 3 жыл бұрын
Being used is one of my fears.
@drinasun6984
@drinasun6984 3 жыл бұрын
Never be so nice that you start to resent the people you're nice to. I didn't realize I was being manipulated until I started to resent the people I was helping.
@cvetelinradev287
@cvetelinradev287 3 жыл бұрын
Just remember, you can't be used if you're useless
@giga_noob241
@giga_noob241 3 жыл бұрын
Wow, all of this really did happen to my childhood and I'm always sad. At that for almost 13 years I've been always struggling depression until my family and I moving house because my father have job there. Later I'm choose to be coming introvert and losing my weight after that I'm getting back to normal. And yes right now I'm 18 years old .....in 3 month.
@graywalkerjoin3rdparty74
@graywalkerjoin3rdparty74 3 жыл бұрын
The way people talk about other people to you behind their backs is the way they talk about you to other people behind your back.
@rx_pillx9469
@rx_pillx9469 3 жыл бұрын
Damn they uploaded at the perfect time! I was thinking about this lately.
@pastelgalaxy4079
@pastelgalaxy4079 3 жыл бұрын
Same, my best friend that i've known for about 6 years has gotten ruder and ruder each year. She yells at me constantly and only cares about what other people should think about her. I went on a group call with 5 people (all the people me and her know) and all of them agreed that they hate her cause of her attitude, she deserved it but i wish she could of gotten better, i feel kind of guilty and sick just thinking about how nobody likes her that much and i wish i could of done her good but she uses all her friends. One time she asked me to buy her something and i said i'm saving up but after that she started whining and yelling an screaming at me so i had to agree. I haven't talked to her in a month and honestly i'm real happy cause she was giving me anxiety and making me feel bad about myself.
@lillyafton1923
@lillyafton1923 3 жыл бұрын
PastelGalaxy hope you feel better
@imran4968
@imran4968 3 жыл бұрын
Me and this girl were in a "relationship" but then I started to see her true intentions which was to use me to help her pass our thermo class so on the day of the our 2nd midterm I sent her wrong work and then I was going to help her while she took her exam but then I just said I need to go for a business meeting. She might fail that class because she did bad on the first exam, bad on the second exam and now all we have left is a final, so good luck to her and if she didn't try and used me I would have genuinely help her. 😈😈😈
@ajaneeigharo4937
@ajaneeigharo4937 3 жыл бұрын
I love how there was a solution and plan of action at the end :)
@SevCaswell
@SevCaswell 3 жыл бұрын
My mother is always using emotional blackmail to get me to do stuff for her :(
@paniniprincess5211
@paniniprincess5211 3 жыл бұрын
This made me remeber when I was in 5th grade, and I got bullied a lot. So when someone asked to be friends, I wouldn't hesitate to say yes because of the bullying.But I didn't realize this person was using me I should've got all the hints when she'd ask me to buy her something from the book fair or when she only talked to me for answers to my homework or test. She wasn't a really nice friend either but she made me believe I would be nothing without her so I stuck by her side, until I finally snapped. She was talking about me and spreading rumors that I heard from all my bullies talking about it.So I told the principal everything and she got expelled along with everyone whoever bullied me. It sucks to get taken advantage of because you think the person you known for half of your life actually cared about you. so the message I am trying to convey here is watch for what the person does watch the small little things they do so that you can see if they're using you or not l.To anyone who's gotten taken advantage of I hope you got justice or cut that person off because nobody deserves it EVER. Loved this video as well great job!😊❤💜💛
@minasvho
@minasvho 3 жыл бұрын
I had a best friend for twelve years, until last year. During the summer break, she deleted me on all social media, and I noticed a month later- she unfollowed me before that as well, multiple times. I was always the one asking to hang out, and she never wanted to be at my house. She was often angry at me, but I thought it was normal that people where angry sometimes. I often blamed myself, and when we fought, I was the only one to say sorry even though I did nothing wrong. Once, I lost my completely new phone on my way home from her house, and she didn’t let me look for it at her house “because it was my fault, and it shouldn’t affect her”. She also only invited me to the last part of her birthday partys, where she and her friends would go bowling, eat pizza and slush, and then go home to her house and eat cake, and I only got invited to the cake part, not knowing they were going bowling. I’m actually really happy I’m not friends with her anymore. She was really toxic, and I feel like I’m becoming a better person. I don’t hate her tho. I don’t miss her one bit. It’s kind of strange tho, cuz we take the same bus home from school everyday, and walk the same way from the bus. She often glance at me and quickly looks away. I hope she’s having a great life, even though she was like that. I also had another reeeaaally toxic best friend the first to years of school. I was very little so I didn’t understand what she was doing was wrong. When the bell rang, she would hold me, and hit me multiple times. Especially if I did something she didn’t like and she got angry at me. She often hit me, and got angry. I started pretending to be sick so I wouldn’t meet her, when I was SIX. I understand though, cuz her parents got divorced, but still. That was very long sorry- I just had to get it out. Also, English isn’t my first language, so there might be some sentences that doesn’t make sense. There’s also other things I would like to include, but it’s long enough as it is-
@sammylane21
@sammylane21 3 жыл бұрын
Sign #11. They gaslight you to make it seem like what they ask of you is not what it is. I had a beautiful theater female manager do this to me, that's why I added #11.
@alextzou5011
@alextzou5011 2 жыл бұрын
the thumbnail of the video, looks more like: 10 Signs You're Being Dominated Without Realizing
@hopefullykind
@hopefullykind 3 жыл бұрын
Video : 10 Signs someone is trying to use you Me : OMG I am using people😱😱😱
@nsanity5950
@nsanity5950 2 жыл бұрын
I was just recently broken up with by a girl who manipulated me into thinking EVERYTHING was my fault and making me seem AWFUL for the mistakes that i made, took accountability for, and did what I could to make them up to her. I told friends about the relationship, in which she called me manipulative constantly, and every one of them, even friends her and I shared, said she was being manipulative and I can relate all 10 of these things to specific examples of things she did.
@angelflower176
@angelflower176 3 жыл бұрын
I highly dislike people like this its hurtful and painful especially to an empath like me and a kind loving person
@laluma6890
@laluma6890 3 жыл бұрын
They only see you, when they feel like it and talking bad behind your back because they are secretly jealous of your access, appearance and so on... yes, that's why I left all my 'friends'... :D
@silk62004
@silk62004 3 жыл бұрын
Lol, I already knew this deep down inside. I guess I needed you to help me hear these feelings or thoughts out loud. Thanks for making this video.
@Psych2go
@Psych2go 3 жыл бұрын
Glad to help! I hope you learned something new from this video! - Cindy
@johndoe5432
@johndoe5432 3 ай бұрын
I broke up with my girlfriend recently, I was angry about a bad day at work, anxious about some things related to our relationship, and drunk. After 3 months to heal we are going to meet again to discuss if we want to try again. It is an incredible relief to know I didn't see any of these signs in her.
@anisyoshi
@anisyoshi 3 жыл бұрын
I feel like a bad friend now and that my friends are bad...
@elizasmith5201
@elizasmith5201 3 жыл бұрын
This is why my family is not around at all. This is why there are very few people around. This is a high percentage of people. If you follow your gut feeling it will let you know. Listen to it. These people are everywhere. They are users. I don't people like this around me. I learned the hard way. I never forgot the lesson
@Noratcat
@Noratcat 3 жыл бұрын
I think I had something similar to this happen to me. I was friends with someone who once got me to write a story for them. I didn't want to, but they kept begging me to, and when I kept saying "no", they pouted which made me feel bad and I did it for them. Throughout the writing process they acted really pushy and demanding and was really nitpicky on what went in the story. They also had me write a second story while working on this one, and they used the same tactics: repeatedly beg me, then pouted about it when I kept telling them no. Not sure if it's the same as using me but yeah.
@-ib.3869
@-ib.3869 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you guys, I think it will help all of us one day
@DeliHam
@DeliHam 3 жыл бұрын
Bruh you dont know how many times I’ve been used by my “friends” I fell for the “my dad works at Nintendo” trick the first time and did everything I can to try to go to my best friends house (I was 9 btw). I soon realized after she moved that she took advantage of me for three entire years. I fell for other things even as I got older, and yea... anyone relate??
@devochted
@devochted Жыл бұрын
“It’s not selfish of you to want what’s best for you from time to time.” There’s no “from time to time.” It’s never selfish to do what is best for you, in my opinion.
@theskystarbell9566
@theskystarbell9566 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this video really helps me be more cautious about my friends 😁
@Psych2go
@Psych2go 3 жыл бұрын
No problem 😊 Glad to help! Did you relate to any of these signs?
@personinthecommentsection5385
@personinthecommentsection5385 3 жыл бұрын
I’m just watching this even know I already know
@cindyvargas3796
@cindyvargas3796 3 жыл бұрын
OMG 💔💔 that was so hard
@cristiandavidtobarmontilla1371
@cristiandavidtobarmontilla1371 3 жыл бұрын
I knew it but last night stopped it. I hope you can! :D
@meowmcmuffins8489
@meowmcmuffins8489 3 жыл бұрын
This is exactly what I needed lmao I have a "friend" back in college who I let after shifting majors. She's a bit manipulative like in a very subtle manner,e.g. If she can act cute to get out of a situation she will. She's a bad liar yet she still does it.thanks for convincing me that cutting her off my life is a good decision as I have always felt guilty about it lol
@Antellars
@Antellars 4 жыл бұрын
Time traveling :D
@hahaloser779
@hahaloser779 3 жыл бұрын
Da fawk😃✨
@barbie3444
@barbie3444 3 жыл бұрын
BUT HOW??
@ellqistic
@ellqistic 3 жыл бұрын
2 WEEKS AGO-?
@hooshaw5628
@hooshaw5628 3 жыл бұрын
WOWW THE PATREON RECEIVE THE VIDEO WAY BEFORE
@ShemLunaria
@ShemLunaria 3 жыл бұрын
H-how.
@susankrause107
@susankrause107 7 ай бұрын
Been there, done that, NOT doing it again. My ex-husband did almost everything just as you describe. I finally was able to break free after many torturous years. One good thing about it is that I can identify a person like that very quickly. Once I spot the signs that a person is a manipulator, I make sure to keep them at a distance.
@yourmom-cx9hq
@yourmom-cx9hq 4 жыл бұрын
Hewwo I hope you guys have a good day today ,drink some water and spend some time outside 🌟🤗☀️
@dreaminginhell4047
@dreaminginhell4047 3 жыл бұрын
how do you do this lmaoo
@lillyafton1923
@lillyafton1923 3 жыл бұрын
dreaming in hell I don’t knoe
@yourmom-cx9hq
@yourmom-cx9hq 3 жыл бұрын
@@dreaminginhell4047 go to their channel,click on a random playlist,there will be a little icon on the video to let you know it's unlisted,meaning the haven't posted it to the public yet so yeah
@yourmom-cx9hq
@yourmom-cx9hq 3 жыл бұрын
And you just comment and wait for the confusion
@KEI-z4z
@KEI-z4z 3 жыл бұрын
BOT ALERT BOT ALERT BOT ALERT ITS A BOT
@safieabdullah1072
@safieabdullah1072 3 жыл бұрын
My class monitor's friend is using me to do their work if no,they will report to teacher😔...only this community and my family can make me happy😊😊 💖🎉MERRY CHRISMAS TO EVERYONE!!🎉💖
@katieburke2902
@katieburke2902 3 жыл бұрын
i'm extremely guarded and cautious when comes to love and friendships...it's simply a two way street...give and take...i have zero tolerance for takers...♡
@ARLimon74
@ARLimon74 3 жыл бұрын
Yes is especially true with family!
@Jaxxon123
@Jaxxon123 3 жыл бұрын
The only true friend you have is...YOURSELF.
@yuna_wcat
@yuna_wcat 3 жыл бұрын
fact
@supremeyvfx8299
@supremeyvfx8299 4 жыл бұрын
Hello Fellow time travelers
@infinitelogicmachine8587
@infinitelogicmachine8587 5 ай бұрын
Ye
@chlbr3
@chlbr3 3 жыл бұрын
I feel like my family uses me unintentionally
@mariebelllim6909
@mariebelllim6909 3 жыл бұрын
i think i'm lucky, Even though I have a friend who is grumpy, shipper (holy sh-), annoying, noisy, they were never like that, because I think they know "that humans also have feelings, not just you" "In front of them, maybe they are very positive, always happy, and happy, but you will never know their back" "if they do good to you, then repay with something better"
@myaboothang
@myaboothang 3 жыл бұрын
I have a friend named lily and in online school she always asks me what answer is on whatever we’re doing. Here is story. We were doing math and she asked me what number 14 was and I said the answer when I shouldn’t have then today the teacher wanted to test our knowledge on a test and she asked me what number 2 is. Yes. She talked behind my back before but I told our teacher (that time was in real school) but she keeps texting me what the answer is and stuff and I don’t know if she is using me lol. Can you tell me?
@denisedawson1085
@denisedawson1085 3 жыл бұрын
Some people are going to lose genuine friendships listening to these different videos. No one is perfect. You can't live in this world by yourself. Just love who you love.
@Jaxxon123
@Jaxxon123 3 жыл бұрын
Bullshit, these videos have helped SCORES of people. I bet you're the very type of person this video is referring to...
@ameliaandwatson
@ameliaandwatson 3 жыл бұрын
To whoever read this: You're unique and the prettiest person. Don't judge yourself. Love yourself (I'm a small youtuber looking for help)☺
@I_the_Taco
@I_the_Taco 3 жыл бұрын
🙄
@rajaoktosidabalok9521
@rajaoktosidabalok9521 3 жыл бұрын
Don't do that, don't give me hope
@falliblewonder
@falliblewonder 2 ай бұрын
No they spread rumors about me to justify their bad opinion of me.
@gennybetwana9620
@gennybetwana9620 3 жыл бұрын
the worst thing is i am a people pleaser so it is difficult to cut off such people
@jakeofalltradesmusic
@jakeofalltradesmusic 3 жыл бұрын
My wife. On the point about asking what you want... She asks me what I want, but only to appear like she wants to know... But whenever I say what I want, she makes a scene out of it and tells me how what I want is bad and that I can only want certain things.
@mmmusicstudios
@mmmusicstudios 3 жыл бұрын
This is the first time I time travelled 🙂
@bekahherrington1077
@bekahherrington1077 3 жыл бұрын
How?!
@nourwalid5352
@nourwalid5352 3 жыл бұрын
How to get the membership
@SymbiontUVPlays
@SymbiontUVPlays 3 жыл бұрын
"2: They're only friendly in the beginning" I don't think this is what I was looking for-
@chemicalspill07
@chemicalspill07 3 жыл бұрын
Why does the comments saying "2 weeks ago" omg... A TIME MACHINE HAS BEEN INVENTED
@confusionaur
@confusionaur 3 жыл бұрын
Yeah ik!
@TaylorMango09
@TaylorMango09 3 жыл бұрын
Patrions get the video before everyone else
@chemicalspill07
@chemicalspill07 3 жыл бұрын
@@TaylorMango09 ah I feel like a weaker idiot now
@chemicalspill07
@chemicalspill07 3 жыл бұрын
@@TaylorMango09 Not that you hurted me mentally and verbally, I'm getting weaker by the hour. It's not you
@TaylorMango09
@TaylorMango09 3 жыл бұрын
@@chemicalspill07 ok
@kr0wn.aSSaSSin
@kr0wn.aSSaSSin 3 жыл бұрын
my boyfriend & I just broke up recently. I've known him for many many years, & this was our 2nd try at a relationship. but i always felt like he was just using me. never had money, i had to pay for everything -even his "romantic ideas" i had to pay for, when he earned double what i earn. all he knows is to take, take take & rarely give. he ticks all the boxes here & I'm happy its finally over, coz f that! i deserve better & am actually happier that we're over!!!
@daniellee4807
@daniellee4807 3 жыл бұрын
HAH, No one uses me, I have no worth nor advantage that can benefit literally anyone lmao #SadButLifeHacks 😭😂
@dreamer7636
@dreamer7636 3 жыл бұрын
I had this friend in bloxburg, and she had a cafe and was working on it so I decided to help her. I was working alot and made 1,000 dollars for her every like 5 minutes. Then when I was roleplaying without her she started acting all sad like, "I'm gonna delete this account, I'm sad because my mom and dad divorced." And stuff. It was so irritating since I knew she was pretending so that I can help her again.
@dreamer7636
@dreamer7636 3 жыл бұрын
My sister also uses me
@Why-nv2js
@Why-nv2js 3 жыл бұрын
It just hurts when you try to be one of them but they treat you like an object.
@ΔημήτρηςΚαρυδάκης-ζ1τ
@ΔημήτρηςΚαρυδάκης-ζ1τ 3 жыл бұрын
You just feel so stupid and used after beeing treated that way. I don't know. I just keep thinking about it and get mad at myself for allowing it/not recognising it.
@Rashmimaster610
@Rashmimaster610 5 күн бұрын
My husband is same like this, he is very happy around me and back of my go everywhere and talk bad about me he just use me when he needs anything but when I need anything he’s never there for me and it’s been 6 years now and I strongly want to separate from it but he don’t won’t to he’s very happy getting use all in free cost!!!
@0Iive
@0Iive 3 жыл бұрын
Hi, could you do video on cutting (for any self harm) Are alternatives :) I’m trying to quit and this would really help thank you
@steve_santiago
@steve_santiago 3 жыл бұрын
“Psycho2Go Army” made me a smile.
@StaelTek
@StaelTek 3 жыл бұрын
8 seconds ago Hmm the comments tell otherwise
@yourmom-cx9hq
@yourmom-cx9hq 3 жыл бұрын
Haha back I came just to watch the confusion hehe
@devidaughter7782
@devidaughter7782 3 жыл бұрын
"its not selfish of you to want what's best for yourself from time to time" (5:10). ONLY 'from time to time'? shouldn't we always be wanting the 'highest and best' for ourselves and everyone else?
@Lilluah
@Lilluah 3 жыл бұрын
Hey kid. Psst. Wanna know how to time travel?
@Emmbunn
@Emmbunn 3 жыл бұрын
yes hello hi pls
@sanikakadam4992
@sanikakadam4992 3 жыл бұрын
I hope no one recommends this video to my bestie. I always forget her birthdays and most of the time, I am not able to call her or tell my concerns, now she would say that I am the person in this video 😅😆😂🤣
@samanthat.4281
@samanthat.4281 3 жыл бұрын
I was in the beginning stage of becoming friends with someone. It started out nicely. But then he started texting me incessantly, at all times of day asking me random questions, asking about my schedule, inviting me to go restaurants he wanted to go. He would get annoyed when I told him no. He only wanted to hang out when he wanted to and never asked what I wanted to do or asked how I was doing. I quickly ghosted him, and now we don’t talk much anymore.🤷‍♀️
@jenniferhaynes8625
@jenniferhaynes8625 Жыл бұрын
These signs are the story of my life.
@WarlockChaos
@WarlockChaos 3 жыл бұрын
Hello from the future, hope you all have a good day
@littlesadeo
@littlesadeo 3 жыл бұрын
This is how my dad treats my mom, but hes worse.
@karadiberlino
@karadiberlino 3 жыл бұрын
1. minimum efforts 2. nice in beginning, get rude 3. they only reach out when they need you 4. imbalanced relationship 5. intimidation into agreement 6. they‘re different behind your back 7. no genuine interest in getting to know you 8. they don‘t respect your boundaries 9. it feels one-sided 10. they make you pay
@anapaulamendozadiaz8890
@anapaulamendozadiaz8890 4 жыл бұрын
OMG! As a time traveler I am scared that someone could make me that
@astricate
@astricate 4 жыл бұрын
hello to all people from the future like me?
@rainadatkween7959
@rainadatkween7959 4 жыл бұрын
Hi c:
@ackhually
@ackhually 10 ай бұрын
WHY CANT PEOPLE JUST UNDERSTAND HOW I FEEL.
@evamavridou9179
@evamavridou9179 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this feed... So interesting topic and I really can relate to it... Thanks a lot! 🙏🏿💙🙏🏿
@nicoleonfeels
@nicoleonfeels 3 жыл бұрын
Oof, life’s too short to have these kinds of people in your life!
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