10 Signs Someone Secretly Dislikes You

[@Psych2go]

So, who's your secret admirer?

[@_gr4yz]

My fans

[@donlert]

Meeee

[@oliverisboring6041]

nobody

[@the0lrazzledazzle]

Absolutely nothing bc I am g r o s s

[@cottoncandy4105]

Idk

[@Ataximander]

People won't hate/love you if you're easily forgettable. Speaking from experience.

[@yumenousagi]

It's weak to run away from hate AND love just because you're scared

[@charzipuddin6129]

Yume NoUsagi but understandable, especially if you’ve already been trounced pretty badly by either thing.

[@yumenousagi]

@@charzipuddin6129 I can relate to that. But still it's not good at all to give up no matter why

[@Altair-El-Haddad]

Yeah, true. I'm always forgotten. No one loves me ;'(

[@Skippercarlos5]

The Heartbreaker - Hate it when I wake up invisible. So annoying.

[@atomheart7907]

it hurts when you realize that someone who you thought was your friend turns out they just kinda mildly tolerated you to avoid drama

[@dalenjurgens6751]

That's how i feel.

[@lydiamurty5586]

So true...I know that feeling...and it's the worst thing you ever feel..

[@warlocks_blade3798]

Yup.

[@chris1428_cars]

I secretly hate this girl since she never knew my real worth and took advantage of me and paired me up with people she didn’t like like some trash that’s why I don’t like that girl and I do some of these signs BUT GUESS WHAT. I’m still nice to her when she cries I ask what’s wrong as much as I hate her I still try to listen and make her day better even though a lot of my tears where shed because of her But she did a lot wrong to me and did the social gathering one too but she doesent ALWAYS avoid me her friend my ex friend and her old bully invites me over there instead of her herself

[@lydiamurty5586]

@@chris1428_cars I know the pain that you're going through. Even though I'm nice to my friends they will always take advantage of me. I'd cry so many times and always being misunderstood by them. I always runaway from the feeling because no matter how much I cried for the pain they had cost me they just don't care..nor yourself and the feeling we have.. She doesn't deserve you.. one day God will punished them and their wrong doings..

[@iamshadowbanned699]

No matter how good you are, someone will always pick you as the villain to their story.

[@codrindobrea1390]

No

[@SleeplessnightSun]

Facts

[@louielemon3098]

@@codrindobrea1390 yeah your opinion is that this isn't true. But what they said WILL ALWAYS BE A FACT.

[@badgirlhollywood9741]

Of course

[@jack-nb9qo]

A terrible one

[@samridhigupta4435]

It hurts the most when your friend whom you always gave the first priority starts ignoring you without any reason

[@livianathani9417]

I was very close with my old best friend but one day she stopped calling me or to hang out togheter. She never told me what she doesn’t like on me. How should I know it?

[@samridhigupta4435]

@@livianathani9417 I think u should ask her once about the problem but if you find that you are right and have given best from your side than just move on becoz its better to leave than staying in a one sided bond. And don't you ever beg for sorry unless it's your mistake .

[@edits_yikes7225]

Happened to me literally in July. I didn't know why she was angry and ignored me. Wrote an apology without knowing what l was apologising for. We made up. Flash to a month later, she did it again after receiving our prelim lit results and she ignored me again. Haven't talked her since because l gave up

[@lookin457]

This has happened to be twice the other way around, there's these 2 people who really didn't like me at school. randomly they are like "hi" or make small jokes or start a conversation somehow lol and just out of nowhere

[@MonikaRaguraman-sq2ke]

@@livianathani9417 Same thing happens to me now...I really don't know the reason behind this. Both of my friends started to ignore me even I haven't done anything wrong.😔 Moreover I was very supportive to them..Also they started to mock me and scold me infront of others ..They blame me for silly things and this made me depressed 😑

[@users4007]

I don’t dislike people, I dislike talking to people because I often don’t have anything to say or talk about

[@CarringtonMorgan3342]

Same for me.

[@jani6227]

Same

[@sillyme7395]

+1

[@johnlagunagamer2700]

Being a writer, I thought” now I have stuff to talk about” but no one cares, so...

[@ms.gachdragony1728]

Ikr...that’s why i they ignore me...am i that boring ;-;

[@abrahkadabra9501]

"Don't accept criticism from people you would never seek advice from". Morgan Freeman

[@123gozane]

Thank you.

[@Fan-qu8jk]

Thanks :)

[@blessingsbest6838]

*Fact*

[@officialreviews7]

That makes so much sense, criticism from people who we don’t seek advice from will end up negative most of the time. People will judge us more negatively and insult us a lot

[@Miraculousdragoneyes]

Thanks I needed this

[@valiantvelvet729]

"If they dislike you, they'll avoid eye contact, cross their arms, and lean away from you." Or it could also mean they have social anxiety.

[@smooth.operatorr]

Valiant Velvet I think I have that.

[@tkcx3]

maybe, but i do that to someone i secretly dislike

[@Evloria]

Absolutely true. I do this out of anixety/fear, not because I necessarily dislike someone.

[@subscribetopewdiepie69]

I do those to be comfortable.

[@drinkingherbalteas6792]

oof not really, well in my case i guess..

[@lazybaby525]

Avoiding eye contact can be a reason of being shy, too

[@elevenhopperwednesdayaddams]

So true

[@AutisticGastrodon]

Or autism

[@Roseyo143]

@@AutisticGastrodonya true

[@kevinerose]

As a shy person, I sometimes get accused of looking at the woman's chest when talking to them. No, I am just avoiding eye contact. I hate being shy and people attacking me on top of that. It is a no win situation.

[@RaysGamingChannel2003]

@@AutisticGastrodonyeah

[@cowzmoo2564]

I have a feeling that people think I don't like them just because I show a lot of these traits when really I am just too nervous to start up conversations or keep them going.

[@lesleycerda9970]

Me Too

[@sleepipix3l]

Relatable

[@chokeonamosquito9651]

Same

[@EchthelionII]

The only thing on this I do is I will occasionally tune people out, but that's because they'll say something that gets me thinking, and when I realize what I did I will apologize and ask them to repeat what they said. It gets annoying sometimes and I feel when it happens I have a vacant look on my face.

[@anascarlet]

Right?... Things like closed off body language come with social anxiety... They should have noted that :/

[@str791]

As I like to say, *”Not everyone likes me, but not everyone matters.”*

[@heistthegoat]

I don't know if that was supposed to be funny or cruel

[@user-nw7qb5vu6q]

*cough*instagram*cough*

[@user-nw7qb5vu6q]

@bish wat *cough* nah *cough*

[@thatskai3070]

Y’all need cough drops

[@user-nw7qb5vu6q]

@@thatskai3070 *cough* i'm good 👌🏻

[@ruralbrick]

Awkwardly seeing more of these traits in myself than others...

[@bobstarzstarz4476]

I did mine for protection but I understand I felt I needed to be around ppl I KNOW dont like me so we both now being fake I've realize I dknt care for how they are so yes we display the traits now u know like you tried to work on that relationship sometimes like the video u still live with them or so so u have to interact in a human sense but yes I admit I display this with my family and some friends because I was just being a mirror

[@irw2ky]

Same here dude (ー_ー゛)

[@jo-jo1835]

The fact that we can recognize some of these things in ourselves speak volumes.

[@analystzorncasteel3047]

Yes you're probably extremely judgemental, and think you would generally handle everyrhing better than they just did.

[@bobstarzstarz4476]

@@analystzorncasteel3047 sooo thats bad or not lol once you see the level of stupidity in ppl u have no choice to do it yourself

[@Geforce-RTX-3020]

I think being openly disliked is better than being secretly disliked

[@misssonyalee6159]

Me too 💔

[@alicewaller2849]

Alternative title: *How to become paranoid in 6 minutes and 48 seconds*

[@Tracey.Marie1981]

😂😂😂

[@graceoartyo]

That should really be the channel name.

[@manuelamejia7670]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@user-kx1ck2kp7j]

I'll teach y'all.

[@salmonvanilla6608]

Yeah. After watching this, I don’t wanna trust anyone ;w;

[@whateverilike1233]

For who , who don't have time... 0:51 1- they're curt with you 1:29 2- their body language says it all. 2:03 3- there's a lack of trust. 2:35 4- they get easily frustrated with you. 3:00 5- their etiquette is forced 3:37 6- they avoid you as much as possible . 4:12 7- they listen to you half heartedly 4:41 8- they don't make the efforts to understand you 5:16 9- they don't invite you to social gatherings. 5:41 10- your gut tells you something is wrong Hope this helps...💗

[@inimene6]

The last one is 8, just if you want to change it. Thank you though! 🤗

[@whateverilike1233]

@@inimene6 I have corrected it and thank you :)...

[@inimene6]

@@whateverilike1233 No problem. 😉

[@realdavebob]

helps a lot, tysm 💗

[@personneici2595]

Thanks!

[@SaMi-w4e3b]

I guess it‘s my turn to do it... 1. They‘re curt with you. 0:49 2. Their body language says it all. 1:27 3. There‘s a lack of trust. 2:03 4. They get easily frustrated with you. 2:33 5. Their etiquette is forced. 2:58 6. They avoid you as much as possible. 3:35 7. They listen to you half-heartedly. 4:11 8. They don‘t make an effort to understand you. 4:40 9. They never invite you to social gatherings. 5:16 10. Your gut tells you something is wrong. 5:40

[@jwx9509]

Jackie Thank you, random kind person in the internet.

[@SaMi-w4e3b]

@@jwx9509 you are very welcome. Have a nice day c:

[@jwx9509]

@@SaMi-w4e3b you too.

[@chocolatebar147]

Thanks!

[@maryshaffer8474]

Every Kingdom hall I've ever been in

[@janetduncan87]

Being disliked hurts. Especially if you really want to be friends with ppl. I remember so many times in my childhood that I was told someone didn't like me. They were never afraid to tell me how they felt about me. I never knew what it was I did to make ppl dislike me. It's been a struggle as an adult to make friends, bc of it. I'd rather be alone than worry about if I said something or did something wrong. I have one internet friend. I've been friends for 2 years now. We have a lot in common, and I think it's why. It certainly helps.

[@venus5553]

Stay strong always🧡

[@kevinerose]

When I turned 20, I decided to be alone for the rest of my life. I was fed up with constantly being attacked by people who were supposed to be my friends. After 30 years, I can say I am alone but not lonely. What I have realized is they don't necessarily hate you or dislike you, they are just indifferent for the most part. I'm sure some do dislike me but most I feel just don't care. Someone said that mean people seem to have the most friends. I'd agree with that. When people don't care about you but then find out that you are easy to criticize or take advantage of, they will do it. Because they don't care and you are any easy target. It is entertainment for them.

[@lkenady52]

My neighbor just ignored me and spoke to the other neighbor that came out as I was going in. I have no idea what I have done but I was certainly ignored! It does hurt but I guarantee she won’t have another chance to snub me because this girl is through with that friendship! I don’t have time for people that run hot and cold and you never know which it will be!

[@miss.weizhi9181]

I'm 22 years old, now I don't make any friends and yes, I have online friends, and they are sweet, I'm happy with that, but it hurts when I think of those friends who hurt me before, it's okay, eventually I'll try to forget.

[@randomcommenter5372]

I was made fun of in school a lot because I had a "big forehead". Its hurts the most when people hate you for the dumbest reasons

[@thatmomentwhen345]

*Every single person with anxiety has entered the chat*

[@debbieczarnota3859]

Yep I agree with

[@sarahmulhearn3403]

I know when someone doesn’t like me and my anxiety tells me that

[@ariannesan8110]

Agree 100%

[@debbieczarnota3859]

@@ariannesan8110 I think your right 😁😁😁

[@debbieczarnota3859]

New topic pls ?????

[@coachevy2851]

A sign someone doesn't like you is they humiliate and embarrasse you in front of others.

[@andi-oop-2840]

My mom doesn’t like me then 😂😒

[@wildyato3737]

Then someone is really close to you is one of them

[@plsstopreplyingtothisaccou5788]

So my friend

[@grape512]

That's a good one! Thank you. Reminds me of my ex-boyfriend (narcissist) who did that, plus 8 out of 10 things on this list -- almost all of them from the beginning while he was "love-bombing" me to keep me from figuring out what was really going on.

[@beanhead7632]

My ‘friends’ are ignoring me completely without any context. I know I’ve done something wrong but could I at least have some background info? Picking up information shared by others is not it.

[@sheryllouis2722]

"If someone dislikes you, they cross their arms" Meanwhile : me crossing my arms while talking to people because I'm suddenly too aware of them and I feel awkward and I don't know what to do with my hands.. Duh

[@hulkman129]

Actually what you described is your disliking about them in other words.

[@sheryllouis2722]

@@hulkman129 😂i don't dislike them. I get self conscious and feel insecure. Worried, if they don't like me if I just sway my hands around like a fool..😂😂 I mean, it happens when I'm with my friends sometimes..

[@VictoriaBe]

TRUE! I never look people in the eye, it makes me so uncomfortable! It never means I don’t like them, it’s just the way I handle conversations. Haha

[@ieatramennoodles9693]

Eunna Won honestly same

[@sheryllouis2722]

@@VictoriaBe Exactly. Two seconds of eye contact starts making me feel like something's wrong. I shy away so easily when its with others.

[@Axch0thrx]

This is exactly the kind of vibe I get from my entire class, yet they act fake and kind towards me. It hurts a lot

[@bhabeshdas995]

don't worry bro You can make friends with people who have the same problem in your class

[@Axch0thrx]

@@bhabeshdas995 I'm the only one in my class who faces this

[@Bashbot-ep2tx]

@@Axch0thrxmaybe try making friends with people in other grades or classes

[@Redbird_]

​@@Bashbot-ep2txit doesnt work that way

[@GabbyKobold]

"Life is short. Cherish your moments with people who love you, and leave the rest behind." I like this quote.

[@123gozane]

Thank you.

[@ayinacho]

yeah, but everyone is too busy being "depressed" and looking at the downside of life. sad :/ but they're just attention seekers. and we HAVE to cherish our moments with the people who love us :) thanks for actually commenting something that doesn't include self-demoting!

[@ayinacho]

@@disgust-d2833 noo i'm talking about the fake depressed people!

[@zakirhossain5702]

Thnx

[@jamesonthomas9583]

yeah but also don't discount the people who have no opinion of you, be open to making new connections

[@Lifetalk849]

Life is too short. Don't waste your time with some who treats you like this.

[@ijeomaiwuala8625]

Sara McGuire any relation to Lizzie McGuire???

[@lexbeltran1354]

Yes, move on

[@darknova2124]

It's hard when there in your everyday life

[@EvalleDeMonaco]

@@pz1007 stop being with people like this. I don't care if you tell them you don't wanna be their friend/like them/ anymore or just leave without telling. leave them they are soo horrible be careful with people you don't need anyone to complete yourself alright queen!? They deserve to rot. And you? You deserve to sit in a throne...

[@pz1007]

@@EvalleDeMonaco thank you also not important but I'm a guy

[@redvalkyrie9551]

Their body language says it all Me, with an online friend:

[@user-my8qj]

Violet Night nothing😂😂

[@oliverhatesyouall6601]

lol

[@ayaw5552]

ur online "friend"

[@hSNHAPP]

Yes so true lol

[@benmorgan8752]

Yuri Villaflores I think almost all friendships are online right now

[@ankomitarashi-488]

Not everybody is going to like you, and you're not going to like everybody - and that's okay. So long as you aren't going out of your way to ruin their day or be mean, it's completely normal to let someone know you're not fond of them (directly or indirectly). I usually do many of these things when I have to interact with someone I don't like - depending on the person and situation - it's better than putting on an act and pretending you like someone imo.

[@nowayout7861]

hi to all reading this: you can never please everyone, so just let it be 😃

[@mubbashirgear]

idk :( :/

[@nowayout7861]

@@mubbashirgear even if you don't, what is the problem? it's their fault if they have a problem with you, you're great

[@mubbashirgear]

@@nowayout7861 Thankx for saying me great you are great too :)

[@mubbashirgear]

@U sUs It does sucks

[@sakikkk]

Thank you but most started to hate me when i started to talking, it makes me stop talking and hide my personality 😐

[@ohokay9420]

I have trouble making eye contact with everyone even family members

[@giannakiszka9136]

Same

[@itsoracle]

LadyChild even family members? Boi get som help

[@ohokay9420]

@@itsoracle yea i do need help

[@chrysalispayne9992]

I hate eye contact! It's like they can see my soul I don't want that

[@yoongicouldsteponmeandidst8994]

i relate to this in a highly spiritual level

[@Leche3]

I’m not one to hate anybody but I tend to avoid eye contact either way... bc I’m very anxious 🥺💕💞

[@quetea7302]

Yes relatable

[@IloveYou-kj6rc]

Same

[@beidoumimujer7783]

#Relatable

[@ezekiellarsdeslate2104]

Same

[@muumuugirl]

Me too

[@daktraveler56]

I'm done dealing with people who don't want to deal with me. I don't have to prove myself to anyone. I don't need to prove I'm worthy.

[@GreeneChakra]

Me Too!

[@rraadd5409]

The fact that my "bestfriend" of 3 years does all of this... I'm glad i ended the friendship.

[@ballers9172]

You made the right choice the best thing to do is find another friend that's the same age as you and born in the same year as you

[@princessmarlena1359]

Sorry to hear that. Had to do the same with some [former] friendships.

[@BOFRDASLEEPER]

I'm glad my friends didn't show this signs,we were a friends since kindergarten

[@Shrooms-g5q]

Let me tell you this I show all these signs of being a bad friend maybe your friend was empty inside dont just let a video depend on your friendship Im not a bad person I just feel alone and I kbow that that person will leave me in the dust like the other ones so if your friend is showing signs investigate more before you make your move.

[@radioactivplayzrblx8781]

I have a best friend for nearly 6 years and after this I won't wanna be friends with them

[@Adamsjourney20]

I avoid eye contact while discussing because I'm insecure about myself

[@offsetsface2135]

Same I’m trying my best to fix it tho

[@kawaiinagisa9124]

Same, I can't look into someone's eye for too long, it feels really awkward and I sometimes get embarrassed.

[@nickborlas5282]

Don’t think it about it this way if they say anything or do anything then plug them in the face especially if it’s a feminist or Karen

[@SomeoneThatIsHappy]

@@nickborlas5282 saying is easy but executing isn't as easy as it sounds like

[@grosswuzhere]

same

[@cayy]

*when ur crush shows all these signs.* Feels bad man.

[@musicallychallenged2848]

😂😂😕😯😐😑😢😮😱😨😧😦😥😩😭😭😭

[@azeylacalaty3182]

Who in their right minds could dislike a kawaii potato?! :O

[@notava6601]

Why is that a mood?

[@mnlavam]

I know....

[@icarusix8750]

🤙🤙

[@Eunicebaby113]

It really hurts to have a friend and find out that person secretly dislikes you. My best friend secretly dislikes me because of peer pressure by the wrong crowd and I got to understand that with the help of my friend and this video. It hurts A LOT right now but at least I now know the truth. Thank you 😊😔

[@shanamedley6977]

I don't care about people who secretly dislikes me they're a complete waste of time.

[@spiritualro8677]

True talking to people that dislike you is a waste of time

[@wildyato3737]

They are just wasting time to put someone diwn by creating false.image 🙏 without any investigation..... people likes rumors not thinking 🙏

[@zeflon7498]

i keep em just to annoy them even more🤣

[@wildyato3737]

@@gavinburt1093 Obviously.. some people wre just want to talk otber people forcefully ,while no one want to do that....

[@menow7366]

Id rather die than live with arseholes and narcassists that think they know all but know little. They strip your life out from underneath you and leave your life irreversibly damaged i still to today find no purpose for life when you cant enjoy any of it

[@coffintears5821]

No matter how much you respect, admire, or care for some people. They just simply wont come to reciprocate the same feelings. Dont take it personally just accept it and move on.

[@edborns1563]

I know that's right

[@linma7997]

That’s true, like animals

[@solidsnake8103]

True af

[@EM-wo6wf]

Yeah you’re probably right. I put so much effort, but eventually they always stab me in the back one way or another.

[@xiukai519]

I had an online best friend, we used to be veryyyyy close and always talk abt different topics, but after a while I realized how she loves showing off and other things that indirectly make me feel insecure, saying things that kinda offend me somehow. She's acting like a pick me which I find quite annoying but I know that she is still a nice person and I know I shouldn't feel this way, so I tried to grew out of those thoughts and just get along well with her but I started to have this ugh/uncomfortable feelings whenever I'm talking to her, I can't help it and I feel guilty. So in result, I chat less with her, I replied non enthusiastically to her texts unlike the usual, and now we're officially apart, we pretend that we don't know each other and all, while that and the memories of us used to be so close kind of made my heart ache but I'd rather lose a friend than having a friend who constantly makes me feel inferior.

[@jacobjordan2732]

Crossing arms is BS. That's a self hug many do this for comfort

[@koiet4126]

Jacob Jordan, Crossing arms can mean more than just “hugging” yourself, it could show emotions.

[@_buttercupbby_7166]

I do it either bc I’m cold or it’s comfortable

[@artemischii]

It's comfortable bc it's a defense mechanism

[@chrysalispayne9992]

called staying warm in a freezing building

[@nancy3158]

I can relate to that. Sometimes I don't know where to put my hands, so I cross my arms?

[@leonmott8419]

So glad I’m a loner, I don’t talk to people much but I know when someone dislikes me but that’s life. I don’t even talk to people at work unless A they come to me or B if I need help

[@brookec5371]

“I don’t need friends they disappoint me”

[@sirbenjaminthebold3943]

Brooke c CLAP 👏

[@venexy1986]

👏

[@martaleja9279]

You could stop at 5 or 6 stores, or just one

[@onegaimatte1845]

Agreed

[@ngmp6961]

*points hand to the righy while slapping the knee with the other hand*

[@johnbush8381]

Some of this behavior is also just socially awkward people,

[@ieditfornoreason8523]

john bush true some people don’t trust easily

[@bigress4300]

john bush oh yeah like which ones?

[@PurpleShadow108]

@@bigress4300 me for exemple and i'm not the only one out there not sure about how to talk to people I can spend like 10 min trying to say something to a friend, but i can't find my word and just give up leaving the conversation without answer

[@Ryu99420]

@@PurpleShadow108 that's still something differnt because you still care enough for your friends that you at least try to explain and get a result done!

[@yamatanoorochi3149]

Thank you

[@hifriend7650]

"they shorten the conversation, don't look at their eyes and avoid you" Me a shy person: Oh no I do this! But I don't hate them! I just don't like to talk

[@ifrahjama2215]

Same

[@hairitwinz]

Hi • Friend OOF same! XD but I just smile at them and hide behind a item or my mom and my dad (/;w;/)

[@Iunorrpr345]

thats literally me XD

[@userxenderxxender338]

same here

[@deadchannneldontclick3544]

Same

[@adastasia1758]

It's soo weird that the person sees you as a competition when u see them as family/friends :(

[@Cysubtor_8vb]

This list almost perfectly clash with the misunderstandings of introverts.

[@lifeisanenigma213]

Ya I was just thinking that :/

[@crazypinata9873]

no man I'm an introvert and I wouldn't be so rude ass

[@Koogai]

@@crazypinata9873 they don't mean you'd be rude on purpose most of these are associated with subconscious actions introverted people do to avoid casual interaction

[@kassyyar97]

An introvert not necessarily is like this, I actually feel that classifying yourself in these kind of behaviors is not good because then you would be in this mental box of where you do and dont belong For example, I am very close to the definition of an introvert, but I like to talk, make friends and hang out with people, I just need my time alone as well (almost always) Everyone can be different 🤗

[@hiryujin4974]

yea i don't hate them, it's just, I'm too shy to make an eye contact and sometimes I'd like to continue the conversation but I'm scared they'd think I talk too much lol (or I just actually don't know what to reply 👁️👄👁️)

[@korenxkenshin]

*Audible Screaming*

[@krankerspast769]

Yeah turned out it's everyone

[@TaraConti]

Nah some of us don't understand why certain people just don't get the hint!

[@korenxkenshin]

@@TaraConti HAH

[@hSNHAPP]

Yep

[@x0vvhippedcream0x]

I clicked on this video because I want to know if I am the hater or not.

[@eleveah]

11. When your "friend" only talks about THEIR friends when they are with you

[@ridaamang07]

This hurt me :(

[@cass6628]

That's my friend..

[@levis_wet_cleaning_product7216]

{ Gacha Floof } Ik u r right

[@onlyhuman5669]

This.

[@neesh6362]

I dont claim anyone as mah FRIEND...

[@artsibird6784]

My heart just broke at number 6. My friend I thought loved me and was actually understanding me out of nowhere in the last year decided she wants to make any excuses not to see me. Please, don't put all your trust in one person.

[@novelist99]

Maybe your friend is simply going through something right now and needs some space.

[@mister.meaner948]

This sounds like a lot of my “friends.” Now I’m hella depressed.

[@KikoDoesAnythingYT]

i was always depressed

[@wildyato3737]

Having something in high amount can also make yor life miserable

[@zzone121]

same here m8 dont trust any of them everyone is out to get the folkz like us

[@wildyato3737]

@@alanimustafa9260 Some people are just opposite what they seems to be...hard to believe anyone....

[@TheLovelybbe]

I'm always depressed it just doesn't go away sometimes you can be happy and other times it just hits you I know people don't like me mostly people I thought were my good Internet friends I tried everything to be a part of there group again but after seeing them post stuff like " I need my best friends over here" and them tagging each other and then keeping one word conversations with me I now know I was never liked just tolerated it hurts a lot but I just have to move on

[@mragankmanitripathi3302]

Remember "You are not born to impress, You are born to express"

[@MissBeeMarie]

“Work for a cause, not for applause. Live life to express, not to impress. Don't strive to make your presence noticed, just make your absence felt.” - unknown

[@mragankmanitripathi3302]

@@MissBeeMarie 👍

[@slayer7965]

Kinda gæ

[@mragankmanitripathi3302]

@@slayer7965 is that a problem?

[@m_cb]

​@@mragankmanitripathi3302 yes

[@chocoholic832]

I'd rather not have friends than having people who think they are when you know they're not. Cannot stand 2 faced people.

[@mitzithompson6585]

I don't have friends because I do trust anyone. Classmates and childhood friends aren't to be trusted either. They will turn their backs on you or act like they don't know you in my experience. That's why I'm a loner. They better not come to me for help because I'm not going to help them. Im sorry but that's how I feel

[@chocoholic832]

@@mitzithompson6585 you can't help how you feel. I just hope you have close family around you for the love & friendship you need. Stay strong x

[@mitzithompson6585]

@@chocoholic832 yes. I have a very strong family support . I just have many people in my circle because of being betrayed ,hurt,disappointed. I don't get back what I give which is loyalty.. im content it just hurts sometimes when u don't vibe with other that don't share the same with u. Thanks for your words

[@chocoholic832]

@@mitzithompson6585 so glad you have a loving family around you. I got rid of a couple of so called close friendships as I felt used but I don't miss those friendships at all & I only have those people i love in my life now. Keep smiling 😁

[@chocoholic832]

@Jane MG 🤣 Me too!

[@chicken_soup3]

The last two were true for me once. To keep it short, I found out from another friend that a girl I thought I was friends with secretly disliked me. I was a little disappointed, and I did have suspicions before finding out, but said nothing because I had no way to prove my claim and I didn’t want to start internal drama within the friend group. Now, i’m paranoid/anxious that the people I meet and become friends with secretly dislike me. I know it's not really great to care so much on what people think of you, but it really hurts when you find out that someone who you thought was your friend isn't.

[@boppop8703]

To those who reads the comments: Not everyone needs to like you. It’s going to be okay. *hug*

[@sunio0o]

*hug*

[@ginthemaid112]

*hug*

[@snipuhh__enthusiast2736]

Why thank you, now I feel even weirder but still *hug*

[@roku_5469]

*hug*

[@tinglingtingles7408]

hug (っ•.•)っ

[@shawngaming481]

It feels like all the mean people have friends and the people that are nice and care about others don’t have any friends

[@salmalam2748]

Yeah

[@pumpkinpooper]

@@salmalam2748 all evil PPL have friends and we good PPL are always lonely and made fun of. PPL always ignored my existence even when i just loved all PPL i met. Nobody ever talked to me in real life they look at me and laugh at each other.then they avoid me

[@edclark6543]

​@@pumpkinpooper I feel you're likeable

[@mistletoees]

ikr :(

[@edclark6543]

@@pumpkinpooper you're likeable 🤗

[@Mengzhen-c5o]

When I go to school I feel like people talk behind my back and say I’m ugly and all that shit.

[@thatguybehindtheglass]

In my 35 years of life I've found that if you feel people are like that, it's because they are. We humans are, mostly, gutter trash, nearly a half step above guests on Jerry Springer. We'll steal your shit and make you feel guilty for catching us. Don't let those that bullshit you get you down, they're not worth the effort and strain.

[@vanguelder]

@@thatguybehindtheglass same age, same thought

[@rosettepeligaria1391]

yup, I know how it feels because they think that I dont deserve to get a higher grades and talking 💩 about me and shaming my body. It hurts, but I have to keep strong 'cause no one cares about me except myself.

[@inblu_murrina]

The G.O.A.T I do too...

[@lucidmoth1023]

@@rosettepeligaria1391 I hope it gets better for you.

[@Amusenent]

wow. You just explained my ‘best friends’ in this video…. Thanks for letting me know

[@silverrain530]

"Being misunderstood can be alienating" Story of my life

[@savannahjones299]

your not alone. i get this too.

[@akiraptoroo4288]

S a m e

[@astoldbynickgerr]

_hello_ _darkness_ _my_ _old_ _friend_

[@imposter6935]

Yeah ur just so unique and edgy no one will ever get u

[@godfirst7452]

@@imposter6935 I know right 😕

[@unknown-cv9dh]

*When you realize that friend who you once trusted so dearly did all of these things while you told them your deepest secrets. Yeah, based on a true story. There was only one word I described how I felt: numb.*

[@katiuskamoure5312]

I feel yah

[@eloise980]

I totally understand, the same thing happened to me but she’s got a new “best friend” so now I don’t need to deal with her lol

[@clay8565]

i completely understand how u feel, im so sorry that you had to deal with that ):

[@leibniz4455]

Not unless you leave them

[@crabbaby4016]

hey I get it completely. One of those friends who turned from being your best friend to acting like u were weird and annoying every second week

[@angiejones968]

Yep, I know no one really wants to be around me. I just stay away . It makes things easier for us both.

[@GregBurch]

From a depressive: be honest, not evasive. If I am not your cup of coffee, so be it. Leading me on is awful.

[@kiamaria331]

Yeah, but there is no way to say 'I don't like you' or 'You irritate me and I don't want to be around you much' without coming across as an asshole.

[@GregBurch]

@@kiamaria331 That is still tolerable to being led on for a half decade.

[@arospec2712]

Idk how to tell this girl I've been friends with for years that I've moved on. We even stopped taking for like 2 years but I'm being forced into it by her and my parents. Can anyone give advice? Also she's very very sensitive, and can get sad and cry at small things. Idk what to do

[@GregBurch]

@@arospec2712 "We have grown apart. Sometimes that is a part of life. I want nothing but the best for you but personally I need to end this friendship.

[@hxney2253]

*cup of tea

[@michaelclark4043]

When anyone dislikes you for whatever reason sometimes it's a blessing in disguise because they're not worth your time or energy anyway. A one-sided situation is a terrible thing to waste your time on.

[@wheelchairgeek]

Just walk on by.

[@bunniesandroses499]

its a blessing, and theres always a silver lining, and chances are they were drinking and can't think right!!!!!!!

[@59thanks61]

Well, if someone doesn't like you, then just give them their space and leave them alone. No worries. 😽

[@astalatata]

Yeah right, not everyone has good taste

[@ashleyh6918]

True.... and I've also learned the older I get to just not care if they like me or not.

[@crissyglamdoll8346]

Exactly! I don’t want any trouble

[@boredd_isa244]

What if they’re constantly around you and it’s a friend group and it’s just happening to you? 🙃

[@austinverburg313]

I'm glad that the person I am right now, as I discover this video, has already gone through the painful growth necessary to not be bothered by people giving me these signals, and knowing when to stop making an effort with someone who isn't returning the same.

[@starqazinqq_]

Quarantine had me seeing everyone’s true colours and questioning everyone even my best friend

[@hiitsme9958]

Even my family

[@zaxtaylor7640]

Everyone I met in my life

[@marinasplanet255]

It made me question my family and friends

[@marinasplanet255]

I have fought with so much with my best friend. I thought I would get to know them better and enjoy being around them more but I realized they are insecure and they boss people around

[@raheenm.1664]

Same :( my bff endid our friendship on Friday :( and doesn’t even talk to me idk why

[@patriciabilinkas3911]

Usually the people who don’t like me are the people I don’t like. Gotta keep my distance.

[@Calidore1]

That’s great, I have that too.

[@wildyato3737]

But what someone who kust sneek in ... forcefully...

[@JasminHLo]

Then the feeling of dislike is mutual. Been there too!

[@jaylenrebollar7776]

Ur not alone I have that to im a happy person and thats why people hate me but I still like them as a friend even if they hate me I think I'm a person that loves everyone and I love being happy

[@rhondabitler2461]

Exactly

[@artistoast7909]

People treat* me like GOD They forgot my existence until they need me ;-; (Edit : I *don't* own the sentence)

[@musicallychallenged2848]

Facts... Love your analogy

[@danimato1833]

Facts, true facts!

[@lav_027]

I think that same thing all the time😕

[@godofwar234regi5]

It's like a wise clown said: "They need you right now, but when they don't, they'll cast you out, like a leper."

[@artistoast7909]

@@godofwar234regi5 true T^T

[@abbywood3403]

It hurts when someone doesn’t like you. As humans, we search for validation. It’s what we do. But not everyone is gonna like you. I’m sure there are people that you don’t like, and I’m sure you have your reasons. Someone doesn’t have to do something wrong for you to dislike them, they can just have a personality that goes against what you believe. You’re not wrong for not liking someone, and someone else isn’t wrong for not liking you. If you know someone who does these things to you , keep your head up before your crown falls and go find people who want to be around you. You got this ❤

[@l.i.l.y3836]

I used to have friends, but they started hating me, calling me ugly, rude, and they starting hanging out with other people. I developed a crush but he hated me as well. Sometimes i feel like no one likes me.

[@abluehairedgirl3487]

Don't worry You're gonna find great people

[@tnnetnattninuttn4627]

And are you rude or something that can be interpreted as rude?

[@meganbohland791]

You are beautiful and there are nice people out there! Hang in there!

[@inspirationalshanae5129]

I understand. Consider it a blessing. People that do Not like me, use me

[@senkachitra346]

I guess we're all too similar to one another, with same sadness...

[@mcplatterpig]

My anxiety says everone doesn’t like me but my depression tells me no one cares enough about me to not like me

[@freehugs9040]

Same

[@好吧-h6k]

deadlock

[@ian3525]

Stay strong guys, we can get past trough this, I hope you are doing well.

[@yohannspider9001]

Same my anxiety tells me that everyone thinks im annoying

[@celestegarcia3148]

Hey! Don't you guys dare to give up on yourselves. Ok? Who cares what undeserving people think??? They're the ones missing out on what an amazing person you actually are. C'mon now! Remind yourself every day that you have value. No body is entitled to make you feel worthless. Take away their power over you by making yourself be the happiest person alive. After all, those who doesn't want you around them are the bitter ones who never will be happy because no one is good enough in their eyes. You keep on looking forward for a new happy day. God is our hapiness! Blessings!

[@jstmarton]

Gets tougher when someone who used to like you and had great chemistry with you made an effort to be around you .... Turns the table on you and now does everything in their power to avoid you and bad mouth you.

[@RATATALEE_2]

Same

[@arospec2712]

Im somewhat stuck in this situation, but on the other end. This girl I go to school with was my best friend, but for years and years I wanted to stop talking to her because I just don't want to be her friend anymore. We have different interests and I have new friends, but shes still holding on. I don't ever bad mouth her, but she constantly talks to me and it can get very annoying (especially when I'm a maladaptive day dreamer and often get broken out of my day dreams by her). Idk what to do because I still respect her a lot and don't want to break her heaet, but I've very much moved on from her. Does this make me a bad person?

[@crystalwaters8581]

@@arospec2712 I was in your situation a few years ago and now I have the feeling a friend doesn’t like me anymore so being on both sides my best advice is to rip the band-aid meaning be honest with them, yes it will be hard at first but it is so much better than having to fake a persona, and on the other side have someone be fake to you. And no it doesn’t make you a bad person to think that way, not all friendships are meant to stay forever this stuff happens and it won’t be the only time it happens either. Just please understand it is much more hurtful to your friend to not tell them and make them figure it out because it will make them contemplate and wonder what they did wrong when they didn’t do anything it just wasn’t working. So basically just communicate, I know it’s easier said than done but in the long term it’s totally worth it

[@LAUGHINGBUDDHAVORTEX]

brush your teeth more often

[@jstmarton]

@@arospec2712 I'll be honest here ... you can't say you Respect her if your not honest with her now I get you don't want to hurt her ... but by letting it go on you are infact unintentionally leading it on ... she probably does not know what to believe and probably is drawing the wrong conclusions. I'd say for you and for her it be best if you were honest discreetly of course ... she matters to you doesn't she so you don't want to hurt her, but if you claim you respect her you need to treat her as such no matter how hard things may get.

[@ft7504]

Excellent video, it helps me a lot! A comment: I have read it on numerous sites, it is advisable to respect those who dislike you, I mean you should avoid them too. Cheers up for the background music, it is super, I love it! Thank you for the upload!

[@eugene9133]

Ah crap, i constantly avoid eye contact and i don’t smile much when i talk to other people, its not because i don’t like them its because I’m awkward-

[@alt_3025]

;-; oof

[@lindahollander3588]

When I used to be shy people thought I was stuck up,I was just scared to death of people cause I was bullied

[@testinguser9311]

*same*

[@jg1709]

Aw that’s so sad. Try practicing eye contact and smiling more. You deserve to have a good friend.

[@eugene9133]

@@lindahollander3588 that stinks

[@caffeinatedjpg]

me, who accidentally does many of these things: oh n o

[@xs2196]

I want my dad’s side of the family to watch this video

[@donnawoodford6641]

It's not accidental, but either planned or subconsciously executed to avoid the unpleasantness of dealing with you (not you personally). This is my basic understanding. And I probably send off the same signals to some of those who I think mistreat me or "rub me the wrong way".

[@ashleycortez929]

I alw a ys cross my arms but I dint dislike them O_o

[@ashleycortez929]

@DAVO CAMPBELL lol

[@ashleycortez929]

@DAVO CAMPBELL I guess they are

[@gurpreetkaur5802]

I feel so bad for whoever even decided on clicking this video. :(

[@Mochi_Kiti]

I searched this up.. Two of my best friends seem uninterested in me, and I have no one else to hang out with :(

[@thurrsday]

Me too...

[@eryyyy_y]

@@Mochi_Kiti We can talk someday if you'd like to! Don't worry, I'm sure you will find great friends someday!

[@midnightsky254]

@@Mochi_Kiti i will hang out with u😊

[@lightlydark416]

This video is horror show but factual.

[@kiskakuznetsova503]

To me, the real problem is that people find it so necessary to tell you that they don't like you. I don't take people who act this way seriously because they aren't creative or thinkers, they are petty reactors who just gossip and complain and taunt others and get something out of that. I don't get anything from doing that except guilt and shame for being abusive and people who waste their time this way are perplexing. Why do they think their opinion is so important to share?

[@ZoeLeviathan101]

I tell people, but only when they give me a reason to. I'd rather just be honest than watch them waste their energy on me. I'd want other people to do the same.

[@kiskakuznetsova503]

@@ZoeLeviathan101 Yes, I'm this way, too. But, otherwise, I have better things to do than batter someone else with my disdain. I dunno, it seems like something personality diordered people do in order to get a reaction which gives them "fuel" and regulates their feelings, which are always askew, due to the personality disorder.

[@lilyungpeepee]

Ahhh wonderful! 10 more things to add to my list of insecurities

[@thingsnstuff7526]

j u s t b r i l l i a n t

[@notiancel]

Hey you random person on the comments. *dont you worry. i like u* If they don't, well *i do*

[@goaway737]

Thanks 😂

[@kermitthefrog6147]

No, you don't. I'll give you the like you want so much anyway.

[@cam4354]

Thanks😅😅😅😅

[@xo4570]

Omg THANK YOU! UwU

[@koishikomeji1395]

Aww thank you 😎😘

[@Lxllipxpity_Official]

It hurts the most when you thought you had a bestie, and then they change and hate you.

[@likklej8]

If people don’t like me then that’s their problem not mine.

[@shelbypog9402]

Maybe yes, maybe no.

[@8izzy]

same, ill just be talking with whatever someone was talking about and id join in and they all just say why im talking so offtopic and then just ignore whetever i say.

[@kaiba-boi4256]

come into my van usually I mock those who dislike me just so they can actually have a reason to hate me

[@meat.]

likklej8 I already don’t like you from this self righteous comment lol

[@lordfuzi7168]

likklej8 after u evaluate your behavior and think it thru and decide that there is nothing wrong with it, then yes its their problem. Charlotte Bronte says : ‘If all the world hated you and believed you wicked, while your own conscience approved of you and absolved you from guilt, you would not be without friends.

[@rebeccanotfinbin2080]

When you realize your family and friends hates you. Feelsbadman

[@muwahibahmedidriz7869]

I feel ya everyone hates even my parents just better to not live

[@sarahtalone7031]

@@muwahibahmedidriz7869 thats not true. No one deserves to die. You don't know if they really dislike you, which is unlikely. Maybe thats just their way of expressing themselves, but everything can change, starting from ourselves. I have problems with my parents too, but I find that if I would just make a little more effort to be a little more agreeable, than things would be better. Just have a little patience and hope. God loves you, and He is the One who's never going to give up on you. Ever. Trust Him.

[@yohlahGo]

@@muwahibahmedidriz7869 yea, and i dont dislike you either, dont take your life away just because of other's it's stupid

[@inhle1688]

Becca Raefin ya, even my mom dislikes me. yikes.

[@theawkwardcurrypot9556]

Hugs

[@d4450]

Im more scared of showing these signs myself and not even noticing it even though i want to be friends with people im just super awkward and tired sometimes

[@rondorock2563]

I can relate to everything you just said. I don't think I'm a bad person... but sometimes being friendly fails me, and I just end up being exhausted and awkward around people and just generally having nothing to talk about.

[@sofvckingtired]

same here. whenever i wanna make a small talk with someone, most of the time i stop myself from doing that at the end. i just feel like they wouldnt be interested or ignore me. what do i do omg.

[@joycethiery2488]

I have one person who can piss me off in .02 seconds. She is my sister. Shes a very giving person. But she is also two faced and a hypocrite. I do NOT want to dislike her. Ive told her that she was two faced and a hypocrite and even that I dont like how she is. On the other hand, ive always felt like I was a terrible sister BECAUSE my sister ticks me off so much, and I dont like her.

[@SuspiriaX]

My mom

[@polusdike7459]

Actually I do all of the things (of course excepted the 10th) when I dislike someone. I feel read inside

[@realaussiemale567]

It doesn’t matter if some people don’t like you, chances are they’re despised by others and they’re just projecting their issues on to you. Be yourself, don’t think about those who seek to bring you down, their issues aren’t your problem.

[@1983simi]

For normal social connection the same as for love interests applies: DO NOT WASTE YOUR TIME AND THOUGHTS AND ENERGY ON PEOPLE WHO DO NOT WANT YOU If you feel disliked or underappreciated, let those people be and move on. there's nothing else to it.

[@moontrucker8939]

Yes. They're not worth your precious time.

[@ayeKnow]

Some people just have they're own stuff going on. You may have a difficult past which can make these things triggering/anxiety inducing, but just because someone doesn't particularly LIKE you it it is unlikely that they wish you actual harm.

[@NeoCulexor]

I wanted to add: NEVER HELP THEM EITHER! What is the point of helping those who despise and want nothing to do with you only if they still want nothing to do with you? Give them the same energy.

[@sparklenights5421]

Yeah, thanks :3

[@alishatanner8634]

My mum: How was your day at school? Me: Good Also me: wait do I secretly hate my mum? Me: Nevermind mum my day was so great I had so much fun....

[@romanminaster5180]

Your Mom: yeah mine was too. Roman was just here

[@jeresa7968]

Alisha Tanner you have shown a mirror to my behaviour

[@alishatanner8634]

@@jeresa7968 Lol I think I have shown a mirror to nearly everyones behaviour 😂😂 Even my own....

[@jeresa7968]

Alisha Tanner lol u r funny

[@alishatanner8634]

@Bettina Puskás haha😂 the age of a typical teen

[@elliQaz]

This is basically *How To Not Be Too Obvious While Hating Someone* for me

[@thenextbobross7402]

XR Sera I hate everyone.

[@elliQaz]

@@Eric_P2823 Not telling someone I don't like them is being a pussy? Basically half the population then.

[@burningflower1]

​@@Eric_P2823 Based on your replies in this feed, It's honestly really sad you tell every person you don't like that you don't like them in such a manner, for example, if you and your best friend fell out, for you to tell them that they're a bitch and a dumbfuck most likely would've scared that them away by now and if you do that with every single friend of yours you probably will be left with none. It's very easy for you to call someone online a "pussy" for not telling someone else that they don't like them but you don't know who the person they dislike is (it could be a or their boss), the things that they have been through and the reason that they are avoiding them, which is the reason why your version of someone not being a "pussy" is to me, very ignorant and to be honest with you, quite immature.

[@fredbmurphy]

...Not crossing the street to spit on someone whose on fire?

[@fredbmurphy]

@@elliQaz for some people, the other half lets you know it. LMAO!

[@TrinkBruder]

1. Gaslighting 2. Gaslighting 3. Gaslighting 4. Gaslighting 5. Gaslighting 6. Gaslighting 7. Gaslighting 8. Gaslighting 9. Gaslighting 10. Gaslighting

[@ellen-fs3pl]

sometimes cutting the conversation short is because people don't want to talk at that moment but it doesn't mean they definitely don't like you

[@DoctorMGL]

i agree , i don't know about others but personally sometimes i cut the conversation because he/r either start talking shit about something that he accuse without true knowledge "happen alot , like those racism/religion phobia" bringing stuff they saw on tv or facebook then trying to tell others that those are facts without checking the real source , i don't listen to this type of ignorant conversation so i prefer to cut the conversation or ignore it. - or he/r start talking about stuff that are outside the subject while there is a need to stay in the subject , - or he/r start talking nonsense like completely nonsense - or he/r start acting negatively toward himself or others , other then this i listen to all what they say

[@abdououadoudsanga9552]

No , they mean when that person always do that

[@wilczycazksiezyca4796]

I guarantee you, there is no human being that does all these things to everyone they dislike.

[@lunamoone5231]

Creative Creeper that’s true tho!

[@rose_yts]

that's true. It could be lack of time.

[@Jose-Mendoza]

"It hurts to know if someone doesn't like you." Me: Not really......

[@Artsi152]

If someone who is an very important person in your life doesn't like you it actually hurts a lot

[@blackgreece2702]

Only a pitiful loser says how much it hurts for someone not like them. That's why it's important not to care about what other people think of you!

[@blackgreece2702]

@@charnightt Cool. Bruh, to tell the truth haters is what helps me grow as a person and strengthens my resolve in life further. So when I know that these "haters" need me, I can simply just brush them off like they didn't even exist and turn my back on them like they did me. Lol

[@blackgreece2702]

@@charnightt moral of the story is: don't go seeking validation from haters. Go with your gut feeling and find out if they hate your guts.

[@blackgreece2702]

@@charnightt nobody is saying I prefer to go with ma'am... but okay. Anyway I don't know what you mean by a Jefferson because I don't know who you're talking about 🤷🏿‍♂️

[@bobbs6149]

It would help to talk to someone about this, but I find it hard to open up to people I know… This has genuinely been the worst year of my life. I have never felt so lonely and depressed, and I couldn’t tell you a single thing I like about myself. I try to always be kind to others and often get compliments and a positive reception, but I find it hard to make any long lasting friendships and fully include myself in a group environment. I really just want to know what’s wrong with me. I want to know what people think and what is sometimes stopping them from fully including me. I’m part of a theatre group and when we do meet up they have the kindest words to say and say stuff to me like “you’re the only person we don’t talk shit about” and “everyone loves you” but will really never ask me to hang out or anything… I feel so lonely and that everyone’s lying to me. I don’t know what to do, I just feel hurt and my confidence is on the floor. It’d be nice to speak to someone who’s been through a similar thing.

[@alewallet]

“they never invite you to social gatherings” man no one has ever invited me lmao

[@ZertoXMaroc]

Same for over 17 years no one invits me

[@hello.stangncd600]

For me it’s bc I don’t go that no one really bothers to invite me lol

[@ZertoXMaroc]

@@hello.stangncd600 no one invited me once or proposed me

[@RUBY-rd6ql]

MOOD

[@ZertoXMaroc]

@@wierdsk8ergirl331 thats hard i hope it will be better for u

[@SamuelSamuelSamuel1]

Damn I’m homeschooled and all my family shares these traits with me :( I hate myself

[@hedgyyysko5932]

U are probably an highly sensitive person which means the least thing some1 and especially some1 close to u can say, it’ll hit hard, try to talk about it

when you live with anybody it puts a strain on your relationship so don’t overthink it lol my brothers used to live with me and my mimi and all four of us would fight like cats and dogs but now that they live with my other grandma they all get into arguments and think my mimi is the best person , but me and my mimi get into arguments quite often but it’s just because a lot of times people need personal space or only want to interact when they feel like it

[@kittipongas]

oh...I don't know how to support U. But I just want U to feel better with urself

[@user-ud8ee4kc1w]

Don’t hate yourself just because someone else hates you

[@levis_wet_cleaning_product7216]

Love yourself it’ll make u feel good and no one who says bad things to u will bother u when u love yourself

[@pluto7052]

I act like i dislike everyone then huh I swear I'm just socially awkward

[@spectralmystery7048]

People misunderstand a lot when I’m having a conversation with someone because it looks like I’m not listening at all 😔

[@whateverman2757]

@@spectralmystery7048 maybe because it`s true and you don`t care, but that doesn`t necessarily need to be a bad thing...

[@whateverman2757]

It may be not ok if it`s with people close to you, that might not be that okay, I don`t know, though...

[@spectralmystery7048]

Movies ain`t shit. Thing is, I’m actually listening and adding my own thoughts into the conversation ;v;

[@whateverman2757]

@@spectralmystery7048 Then what`s your issue?

[@donnyetta]

"Are you wondering if someone secretly hates you?" - what a destructive question to feed paranoia. Who even cares? Labelling people as haters isn't going to help. Maybe they avoid because they feel "less than" whenever you are in the room - Maybe they are just moody. Maybe we should all do a confidence course and end up veering towards people who can help make us a better version of ourselves ❤

[@robertpace901]

One thing I learned in corporate America was how to tell if your co-worker or manager was supportive of you or working against you was by watching how their spouse reacted to you in those rare occasions you'd meet them.

[@lorireed8046]

Amen !!!!

[@robertpace901]

It also works in other associations too, but mostly in business/office relationships where politics and power dynamics rule.

[@lorireed8046]

@@rosacortes5074 Did you realize something? People, actually, do know. 😉

[@janeyd5280]

@@lovescoffee7189 I have a neighbour like that cum friend. That's the giveaway when his family don't want to know. But they are not the full deck. Lol

[@royferguson3909]

@@janeyd5280 ' not the full deck ' I like your words .

[@Morrisseys7thFriend]

It's the most heartbreaking feeling when you realize someone you care about and look up to hates you, and there's nothing you can do to change it after they've already made up their mind about you.

[@grizz865]

Yup

[@rutujabedve2773]

but why do people even like somebody without any reason it's annoying it seems like a creep

[@islamhamidi374]

​@@rutujabedve2773 not only that but they expect you to like them back , jeez its weird , bruh if i dont like i dont like you find people who do like you and chill away , a hi is enough as a relationship some times

[@rutujabedve2773]

@@islamhamidi374 fr then them being ugly creepy stalker if we reject them

[@infinitedeath1384]

Idk hate is a strong word. You'd surely have to of done something to directly affect them negatively or said something very offensive for them to hate you. If someone dislikes you for a reason you can't think of, then sure. That's their problem, not yours.

[@rooeykamishiro]

I do half of these things because I’m socially awkward. .-.

[@based_dragon_0110]

Stop with the relatable circlejerk

[@tayconner]

Same

[@user-il4ec9iq9m]

this vid made me wonder how many ppl must think i hate them 😩

[@jiashanuhai3222]

Yeah

[@Minx-4321]

Yeah same

[@entrapta8049]

I don't need to know if someone "secretly" hates me, I already know just by looking at them.

[@Wikiwi]

ah yes, just the thought provoking video I need before bed time to make me stay up late and think everyone hates me

[@rosexthermite]

ah yes, just the thought provoking video I need as soon as I wake up on a Monday morning and to think everyone hates me.

[@canni8l]

oh i already do that

[@lttddnulph98]

ah yes, just the thought provoking video I need before bed time to stay up and wonder if I secretly dislike everyone without even knowing it...

[@blitz4506]

Im doing exactly that while reading thiel

[@rinsoka]

me: gets a boyfriend my whole recommended: why someone hates you, is he cheating, why you’ve been ghosted for 3 days me: *panics*

[@wingardiumleviosa9830]

RIP

[@nikkohayashi5182]

Recommendation*

[@lunalechevalier6471]

Frick you Jonathan madi roblox

[@cassandraaldridge1042]

@@TheLetterJ13 mabye you shut up, we don't need your opinion on gays. So just take your sorry ass and leave

[@imahumanperson8374]

Jonathan Madi Roblox Ew, a homophobe.

[@ebd813]

My depression clicked on this

[@emiletonos3873]

Same ;c;

[@elijahthesungod682]

I agree

[@noxlimitsofficial503]

ssame

[@voiezblue6021]

Lol same.

[@watermarqkiki6972]

My anxiety did

[@ChaosHunter]

No matter if someone dislikes you, show them You are the first and ferocious person ever. They'll take you for releasing their inside-anger, if you keep telling them "let's be friends" again and again they'll take advantages of you being soft. If they don't wanna talk to you leave them and focus on the ones that care about you and you care about them. Slowly When You don't talk to them and be silent you will be very attractive thus everyone will come around you. Just let this negative cowards go on their path you carry on your own life.

[@spitfire8539]

It's better to be hated for what you are, than loved for what you are not

[@aldreifernandez5175]

oh🙁

[@zombies4evadude24]

No… just no. No one likes rejection, *ever.* Also for any growth you have to start somewhere. Fake it til you make it you know. 🤷🏾‍♂️

[@mikejohn0088]

OH...............perfect!!

[@BijesZaPonjet_Bend]

-Kurt Cobain

[@Artnotforthesakeofart]

THIS.

[@Ctrl_Alt_Elite]

Most people: Why would you even want to go to someone's birthday party when you know they hate you? Introverts: why would you want to go to a party?

[@donnafranks-oldpathhome]

JESUS CHRIST IS THE ONLY WAY TO EVERLASTING LIFE 🕇🕇🕇

[@mariaangelesalonsocarrasco2259]

I am introverted and I like parties if they are a week spaced

[@donnafranks-oldpathhome]

@Hannah Wen Heaven will be a continuing joyous celebration. Honor Jesus Christ, then you can rejoice , for real. FOREVER 🕇🕇🕇

[@Ctrl_Alt_Elite]

@@donnafranks-oldpathhome for real for real?

[@rschl1917]

Me: *sees comment* Also me: Here we finally have some relatable shit--