7 Signs You're Outgrowing a Friendship 🥀

When you’re trying to become a better version of yourself, don’t feel guilty for outgrowing friends. The mentality that you need to hold on to every person in your life will hold you back from getting better. Have you ever had to “let go” of some people?
♡ Please be kind.
Enjoy! Thanks for stopping by! ✿
TIMESTAMPS:
↠ 00:00 - Intro
↠ 00:35 - Signs you’re outgrowing the friendship
↠ 00:40 - #1: Old version of yourself
↠ 01:12 - #2: Reminiscing
↠ 01:44 - #3: What if you met them today?
↠ 02:14 - #4: One-sided friendship
↠ 02:37 - #5: Happier without them
↠ 02:51 - #6: Different wants
↠ 03:53 - #7: Negativity
↠ 04:46 - What to do
↠ 06:20 - Random quote
↠ 06:50 - Final thoughts
↠ 07:25 - Outro
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[@goodstory5890]

I left many of my relationships because I knew that I was the “complainer” and didn’t want to dump on anyone anymore till I can fix my own life.

[@Arifumiko]

I definitely stand by The Negativity part. It's always so exhausting having to be there for a friend who never sees the goodside of anything and just drains your Energy all the time making you as their journal and putting all their stress on you.

[@adia990]

THIS IS ME RN. I need to leave

[@Slymation]

This was scarily accurate. I’ve had a best friend for nearly a decade, and we’ve been there for each other when nobody else was. But now, I think the friendship has run its course.

[@kierredestiny2]

Same here

[@Jean-ni6of]

Don't give up on old friends.

[@Toohot2handle758]

@@Jean-ni6of sorry, but I am ❤❤❤

[@theresahau5991]

Yes, yes, yes!!! After graduating college, I find the theme of outgrowing friendship a reoccurring thought in my life right now. I needed to find videos like this to validate my feelings on outgrowing friends.

[@KaitlinDigrispino]

Outgrowing friendships can be really difficult to accept! Whatever you're going through - you're not alone. ♥

[@MomentsWithChrissy_]

I’m so glad I found this!!!! Needed to hear every single point here. Friendship grief is just rough especially as you get older :( Thanks for your honest thoughts!!

[@afridajahan2004]

What a nice a video!! I realate a lot w 7th one. They'll always make fun of high ambition or success, always focus on what's going wrong, a total pity party, always gossiping about celebrities, what's viral etc. I feel so drained ! Loved your video , love you ❤

[@knowledgeberakah1728]

I dropped many after having a stroke n i outgrown alot of people! I saw they was too negative and i saw me putting in too much in the friendship.

[@dominichill1492]

I agree with all the 7 signs that you gave. I always love you're prospective on subjects as well. People need to learn that a friendship is build off trust, and honesty. If you don't have trust or honesty in a friendship it can make two people grow apart, and go on their separate ways.

[@KaitlinDigrispino]

Yes! Trust and honesty come from communication in my opinion. That's why I'm a firm believer that communication is key! :)

[@transittown7891]

Hmm this is great advice. Thanks for posting this😊. I’ve had this experience before with a teammate of mine after leaving the sport we were both in together. It just got harder to share common interests or find things to talk about after that no longer being in the same sport together. But I guess from what you said about if you’re not losing friends, you’re not growing up is true. Losing friends I guess is just part of life.

[@user-dr6ov3sk8b]

I'm so tired of being the only one who listens to my friends problems. I love to listen but no one ever lets me talk. Fuck that. I'd rather be alone then drain my energy that fast.

[@michelle-pm8yn]

This video was honestly the best out there! Thank you x Initially I wanted to break up with my best friend of 7 years but U think your 2nd to last point of being clear about how the friendship should move on is better. She is a good person but honestly I'm tired of feeling drained. Thank you again xx

[@KaitlinDigrispino]

Ahh! I'm so happy you found this helpful. :) I'm wishing you the best with your situation. Please take care of yourself. ♥

[@Green_Cloudsz]

Are you feeling better? Have you left a friend? I want to know because I have outgrown a friend of mine that is in my class.

[@JJaddme]

refreshing! subscribed :)

[@wantonhoops]

Amazing vid, keep it up

[@andrewmontgomery8428]

I know we feel this way at times, but I think it would be kinda crappy to toss a friend out that was with you during tough times.

[@tronalddump2444]

I keep them in distance.

[@Lonewolfalchemist]

Youre soo pretty, i love your vibe and thats good advice!😁💙

[@Idk-kg4cv]

OMG THANKS I RELATE TO ALL OFVTHEM

[@johnonyango3166]

100% agree on the outlook on life point.

[@melissabeingmelissa]

Thank you 🥺 you made a big difference by making this. Thank you for helping me, sincerely. It’s such a hard time but I have to know I’m making the best and healthiest decision.

[@bryanblackner272]

such an amazing video i enjoyed it

[@atiny4life368]

Thank you

[@KaitlinDigrispino]

Hope this could help you in any way. :)

[@____jrob]

This popped up in my recommended, maybe This a sign

[@daniellee1722]

Apparently a certain friend needed me to stay miserable at my job, continue self medicating with alcohol and not work out because as soon as I chased a professional dream got sober and became fit it messed with our friendship. Bro no one put a gun to your head and made you settle for a job spending all your free time on escapism✌

[@sumedhay]

The 3rd sign is spot on. Would you be friends with them if you met them today? That's the only question we need to ask ourselves.

[@blackthornbark]

tried searching something on youtube and this video randomly popped in - oh my, you have no idea how much i needed it!

[@KaitlinDigrispino]

I hope that whatever you're going through passes quickly. :) We're all here to support you!

[@Ihavemadeit999]

Girl what is ur camera😻love the video but your quality as well!!

[@KaitlinDigrispino]

Canon EOS 77D :)

[@Sheisme120]

I know this is off topic, but I love those earrings!😍

[@Jean-ni6of]

I don't like her or earrings.

[@laradara7175]

Yes

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Hey girl! where did you get your top from? looks really nice! xx

[@KaitlinDigrispino]

Hiii! It's actually a romper! I got it from Marshalls ❀ LOL But if you search 'white and red floral romper' on Amazon, you'll get two very close options!!!

[@rosthomson6590]

@@KaitlinDigrispino Oh nice! thanks :)

[@snoggingmoise668]

I agree with the quote. It doesn't say 'if you're not losing ALL your friends'.. You wouldn't have made this video if you would still be friends with all of your friends, right? 😃

[@deltahomicide9300]

I recently had a "movie montage" moment and saw a friendship filled with moments of being used. Yeah peace out. 22 years down the drain but that's okay. Btw they still owe me $475 🤷‍♂

[@DeKcuRiN]

let's hang out

[@KaitlinDigrispino]

Wanna come over