7 SNEAKY Reasons Why Women Friendzone Men! (Why RESPECT Get's You Nowhere!)

[@gameraddictz9010]

I got friend zoned because she’s not use to good. After hearing some of her past, she was treated miserably from guys in various positions of power from young age to now. She even told me early on she sabotages relationships. I pray she finds peace and happiness within herself and that she deserves

[@Euphoryaaa]

This just happened to me. Listening to her pasts it sounds like she’s never been treated well so I think subconsciously she thinks she doesn’t deserve good treatment so she got the ick

[@-KorruptionOfLight-]

Are we talking about the same friend here?

[@josephtreadlightly5686]

The key to not getting friend zoned is to pay attention to who's giving u attention. If she's attracted to u then u need to set yourself up for her to chase u. Be confident & positive & if she digs your vibe then eventually she will develop an attraction & even a connection with u. Be a RIZZ & not a SIMP in her eyes while becoming the mysterious gent in her life. If u can get a couple of gals to go for u then the competition will stop the friendzone from even entering her mind. U know the chase is working when she has a gaze focused on u with open body position. Just make sure to keep that interest by respecting her boundaries as well as respecting her effort & appreciation in you. U don't want to parade another gal around in front of her. That's cruel & could be one step too far if she respects herself as much as she likes u. 😮

[@ericdavis681]

I got friendzoned, so I walked away.

[@azmike3572]

If you didn't learn anything from this, you lost.

[@Icythot-m6i]

No such thing as friend zone, either she likes you or dont, simple as that, yall wanna be the sucker to try your hardest to try to turn the head of a person who didn't even want you in the first place, l lesson here is GO WHERE YOURE WANTED AND NEEDED 💀

[@kennethkunz2449]

yeah- word, man - WORD!

[@terrywilliams2349]

Agreed!!

[@mikyl-fo8rh]

There is no physical affection in the friend zone.

[@dandaman9009]

I’m #7, I have no women in my life and I don’t dare make a move or I’m a creep or going to jail, I have emotional intelligence(my therapist confirms this he says I’m not on any spectrum. ) So I stopped approaching women at 25, I don’t flirt, I don’t have any female friends, so I cannot be friendzoned. I am invisible, the difference is now I’m invisible by my own choice. I watch your videos, and just get angry and bitter. Not only do I not trust women, I don’t know how to have fun with women. At 32 I don’t even feel human.

[@azmike3572]

Maybe it's time for some professional help. Good luck!

[@robertwilkinson8421]

This is some Important info! I like the delivery, it's very to the direct and to the Point!

[@ApolloniaPonti]

Glad it was helpful!

[@nobodysperfect06]

One social meet up group I attended lately, one of the guys there told me he sadly didn't get his very first girlfriend until he was 30, while he is happy about having a girlfriend now, he still gets kind of depressed and bitter and resentful over having been single that long. Feels he didn't grow up having a normal youth because of being single that long. Causes him to envy and feel resentment and feel bitter when he sees couples out there younger than him. He has the mindset that he feels if he had been born a woman at least an average plain-looking woman, then there is a guarantee he would not have been alone or single that long. Since women are always guaranteed attention or dating options because for all time women have always been on the receiving end of sexual attention. A lot of guys hate and resent how nature and reality dictates that men have to make the first move all the time and be the initiators and do the pursuing but unfortunately there's no other way. Yet people think men still have the better end of the stick in the dating world than women do, especially when men are far more likely than women are to be single that long, be alone or single longer, or to have a lonely journey, yes men and women each have different difficulties or different issues to deal with but being alone or single later than normal is normally never an issue or never a problem for women. He says he feels angry and mad whenever people and Society say that he should feel grateful that he has a girlfriend now and that he has no right to feel angry and bitter that he was single and alone that long. Or why get angry and upset about what didn't happen in the past. Well he has a right to feel how he wants to feel. Probably because women are just a guaranteed options and attentions for just existing and breathing or having a pulse but it's not true if you're a guy or a human male. Men have to learn all of these skills or behaviors or know how to talk and behave a certain way or act a certain way, women however since they play a passive role that doesn't require any learning or I just don't see how it requires any learning. But yeah I get very angry whenever people think men have it better than women do in dating

[@wwu21]

In a nutshell - you fall in love with the woman, she falls in love with the way you fall in love with her. Spot the difference?!😊

[@darrickbrisco5016]

One thing I’ve noticed with women if she really into u she won’t have u guessing she wants it to be east as possible no thinking at all what’s my next move she will make it easy for you

[@dandaman9009]

I exist in the friendzone so I gave up on dating relationships and having a family, women don’t like me so I leave them alone, 9 years later, I’m not in the friendzone Do you understand that what you said it takes is INSANE!!! This is to much!

[@mrdilligaf1968]

I don't get into the friend zone thing. Just treat her bad and don't respect her. They like that

[@pianoLee-sx9dx]

Another great advice..

[@-KorruptionOfLight-]

I have to admit, I'm a dunce when it comes to flirting. I never know when women flirt, because I don't pick up on subtlety. I only have two modes of extremity, friendly and playful and direct and to the point, so the reaction I get is 'friendzone' or 'dangerous'.

[@backyardrailroader]

Been there. Experienced that. Changing my middle name to initials F.Z. The main problem for me even though I have many qualities that women are looking for, I am not the type of guy that they envisioned and dreamed of being with in a long term. It is similar to the experience I have when I go out Tango dancing. I have limited mechanical dancing skills while on the dance floor, plus my coordination and balance is not so great. I go out there and do the best that I can. And while that may be nice to dance simple...so women say...women want to dance to the skill level that they can do, and since I am not able to dance to their 'standards'.. It may be nice, but....

[@ApolloniaPonti]

This is the classic case of logical attraction vs. emotional attraction. I actually have a video about this. I would highly suggest for you to book a free call as this is something we can help you with instantly and you will start getting results. Many men think this was and logic only opens the door but never gets the home run. :-) Also, make sure that you believe your deserving .xoxo - APollonia www.apolloniaponti.co/aoa-presentation

[@backyardrailroader]

I appreciated the offer Apollonia. I am rewatching this video intently without any background noise I had during the first listen. The main reason I am having problems is that I have lived almost all of my life doing things by myself. Looking back as a child, I can not Remember one time...NOT ONE TIME...any kid coming to the front door asking if Tom can come out to play. It has continued throughout my life. In baseball games, two kids picked who was on their team alternately. 14 kids in line. I was always one of the.last to be picked ( except once). Reserved a booth at a night club to celebrate my 25th birthday. Told all of my 'friends' there what I was doing the next week and invited them to join me. No one showed up. Party of one. I get no one sending an intial.message to me now. They only send a message to me as a response back to me. Not even my relatives and siblings...only my sister does it once in a while.

[@kman0120]

You are so incredibly inspiring

[@ApolloniaPonti]

Thank you so much!

[@CHill-tj4gw]

Great video AP

[@ApolloniaPonti]

Thank you so much for watching!

[@davidmcquaid7862]

The best way to not get friendzoned is to make a move right away and the best way out besides avoiding it in the first place is to make a move on her friend or another girl in front of her

[@TomFox1]

She turned me into a monster, ap. 😳

[@Jumpmaster1990]

Same here brother, my philosophy is if you don't want to respect me, then you can learn to fear me.

[@TomFox1]

@@Jumpmaster1990 😳😈 you a demon bro.. 👌

[@Euphoryaaa]

Appolonia, in the past whenever I’ve been too timid or hesitant to make a move, it’s usually because the girl is giving me NOTHING to work with. I’ve had my moments of confidently seducing some women and then there’s some that I act like a shy guy around. The girls I’m confident with are usually reciprocating my energy in some way whether it’s touching me back in small ways, little words of affirmation here and there, or positive reinforcement. Idk it just adds to sureness that she’ll respond positively if I make a move. The girls that I’m always too shy to make a move on tend to have this standoffish body language. Even if we’re sitting close, they feel far away. They don’t appear comfortable with my touch no matter what I do and they usually get instantly turned off when I do what has been advised by many women online: “Ask if you can kiss her instead of just going for it” I’ve done that a few times and every single time it’s like it kills all the tension. It’s the dumbest advice. Women don’t find it cute at all, it feels like you just spoiled a magic trick for them. Like you revealed the cards too early. It’s wild because some gorls will be super into me when we’re flirting over text but in person, it feels like from my pov, they don’t anything to do with me. At that point, if I make a move, it feels like grape and I’m not into that. That’s why I wish more women understood how to RECIPROCATE. It feels like I’m doing all the work maybe to the point of overthinking.

[@TomFox1]

Lost my respect, you not a threat. - Drake

[@shilohenry5481]

YOU know I Love you Sis

[@ApolloniaPonti]

Thank you so much for the support!

[@shilohenry5481]

@@ApolloniaPonti Of course!

[@ausbren]

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[@EricGarrett-s5s]

In my opinion if women aren't attracted to men that are persue for a relationship they shouldn't go out with them I'm amazed women will want the good men or nice guys they over looked to pay for what the jerks players and bad boys have gotten for free. Fellas don't be to nice with out boundaries it's all about being a responsible assertive dominant strong leader more than being a self-centered irresponsible jerks players and bad boys also don't be the clean up man fitting the bill for another man's kids and irresponsibly.

[@erikbergum2586]

I have put myself out there to meet women. All they love to do is break my heart.

[@geronimocroes3928]

I'm friend zone to much

[@Jackietreehorn-z5e]

I'm 59. Everything going for me except I'm jaded on women. They love money. Most are damaged due to exes treating them like crap. It's just too much energy to please women. Stay single...and stay off dating sites. Women on there who are 5's looking for a 10 guy.

[@TomFox1]

so true, much younger then you.. and i agree. they all the same

[@florind93]

Yup, 90% of the women on dating sites are avoidant, narcisist, gold diggers etc

[@JohnM...]

Ex’s who they CHOSE….

[@nickus51]

Basically play games, pretend you are someone you are not, dare not make a single mistake. Where did building a genuine connection go? It all screams emotional immaturity to me. I am out.

[@TomFox1]

Make a mistake, you lost the woman because she is ungrateful.

[@JohnM...]

It’s because women are all so primitive they crave emotional turmoil. They STUPIDLY believe that a man who makes them ‘feel something’ is worthy of box more than any other man.

[@archniki_]

The good tip is not forgetting your own goals and needs

[@marcalampi5036]

The success of relationships is like lottery. It's just an odds game. Woman want interest from men but not to chance her. Turn's out puas are correct half way. However player's should be a turnoff to woman remember lot's of women are not mentally emotionally mature and healthy. Relationship's shouldn't always be about romance or appealing to women's feelings. It's not All about the woman. Just be you naturally. The right woman should want you. If it doesn't work out guys don't be too concerned

[@johnjunior7873]

I don't deal with women anymore.

[@michaelallard2640]

It's the same OLD thing... A thousand things men are "supposed" to do but I never hear anybody talking about what women are "supposed" to do. Spell it out Apollonia !

[@johnjunior7873]

To women I'm ugly.i can't get women at all.ive been friendzoned since I was in junior high school.i done with women for good.

[@secretsquirrel8903]

Make them laugh,women love that, not all about looks, hit the gym get in shape if your not already.👍

[@johnjunior7873]

@@secretsquirrel8903 thanks I'll hit the gym and get in shape.

[@Napolean46]

​@@secretsquirrel8903funny recommendations 😅😅

[@craigr1966]

Q for the ladies: do you prefer holding hands with a man with fingers locked or full hand? Hey I'm just curious 😅

[@what1769]

Just let them know you’ll make them feel like they’re seeing heaven while they’re saying oh God.

[@OthelloBlaq]

You ever noticed how a lot of these people describe "masculine and feminine", but no one can ever tell you how the other sex receives the interpretation of those acts the same? A lot of men get friend zoned because of fear and utility from the woman. That choice is ultimately hers, and she more than likely made that decision before you ever started. 😐

[@johnjunior7873]

Women don't want me at all.

[@brownmoss7048]

You women's nobody's understand you that's the problem to be honest