SHOP THE LOOKS HERE: LOOK 1: QUINCE BROWN LEATHER BLAZER XS: go.magik.ly/ml/26ire/ QUINCE TAN KNIT TANK XS: go.magik.ly/ml/26irg/ BLACK JEANS 24: go.magik.ly/ml/26irh/ QUINCE BLACK HANDBAG: go.magik.ly/ml/26irj/ LEOPARD HEELS: go.magik.ly/ml/26ddx/ BLACK BELT: go.magik.ly/ml/26irq/ GOLD BAR NECKLACE: go.shopmy.us/p-8167188 LOOK 2: QUINCE CAMEL CARDIGAN XS: go.magik.ly/ml/26irx/ BROWN BODYSUIT IN COCAO XS: go.magik.ly/ml/26iry/ FRAME JEANS 24: go.magik.ly/ml/26isa/ BROWN HEELS: go.magik.ly/ml/26isf/ LEOPARD BELT: go.magik.ly/ml/26isl/ GOLD BAR NECKLACE: go.shopmy.us/p-8167188 DIAMOND TENNIS NECKLACE SIM: go.magik.ly/ml/26ism/ LOOK 3: QUINCE BLACK CASHMERE CARDIGAN XS: go.magik.ly/ml/25say/ QUINCE BURGUNDY SLIP DRESS XS: go.magik.ly/ml/25saw/ BLACK AND GOLD STUDDED BELT: go.magik.ly/ml/25sbh/ FOR LESS: go.magik.ly/ml/25sbj/ BLACK HANDBAG SIM: go.magik.ly/ml/25t08/ LOOK 4: QUINCE BURGUNDY LEATHER JACKET XS: go.magik.ly/ml/25sal/ QUINCE BURGUNDY SLIP DRESS XS: go.magik.ly/ml/25saw/ BLACK AND GOLD HEELS SIM: go.magik.ly/ml/25szy/ VALENTINO GOLD CUFF: go.magik.ly/ml/25t07/ FOR LESS: go.magik.ly/ml/25t06/ QUINCE BROWN LEATHER JACKET XS: go.magik.ly/ml/25sal/ LOOK 5: QUINCE BURGUNDY CASHMERE SWEATER XS: go.magik.ly/ml/25sar/ QUINCE BURGUNDY CASHMERE JOGGERS XS: go.magik.ly/ml/25sau/ LOOK 6: QUINCE BURGUNDY LEATHER JACKET XS: go.magik.ly/ml/25sal/ QUINCE BURGUNDY CASHMERE SWEATER XS: go.magik.ly/ml/25sar/ BLACK JEANS 24: go.magik.ly/ml/26irh/ BLACK BELT: go.magik.ly/ml/26irq/ BURGUNDY HEELS: go.magik.ly/ml/25szu/ QUINCE BLACK HANDBAG: go.magik.ly/ml/26irj/ LOOK 7: QUINCE BLACK CASHMERE CARDIGAN XS: go.magik.ly/ml/25say/ QUINCE BLACK CASHMERE TANK XS: go.magik.ly/ml/25sb4/ COH WIDE LEG JEANS 24: go.magik.ly/ml/25sbq/ BLACK BELT: go.magik.ly/ml/25szt/ LEOPARD HEELS: go.magik.ly/ml/25t00/ ALSO LOVE THESE: go.magik.ly/ml/25t02/ CHAIN NECKLACE SIM: go.magik.ly/ml/26dcu/ PERFUMES: TOM FORD LOST CHERRY PERFUME: go.magik.ly/ml/26j1r/ FLOWER BOMB PERFUME: go.magik.ly/ml/26j1u/ ANINE BING PERFUME: go.magik.ly/ml/26j21/
@lindamcandrew12292 ай бұрын
Love your perspective ..either you break the pattern or the pattern breaks you. TRUE. I am experiencing this and know first hand.
@kayjohnson55242 ай бұрын
I agree ! ❤ I love to mix & match.
@stefanierodwell61502 ай бұрын
I love your videos, Heather! Thank you for showing me how to style the Quince slip dress. I’ve had a navy one for a year and keep trying it on but haven’t worn it because I couldn’t figure out how to style it. The cardigan with the belt looks gorgeous on top of the slip dress. Do you think the chocolate brown cardigan or the oatmeal color would look better with the navy?
@GBFragrances2 ай бұрын
Lost Cherry is the best cherry fragrance on the market ❤ 🍒
@lindamcandrew12292 ай бұрын
I agree 100%. Please put yourself first and listen to your awareness it is powerful allow it to support and protect you. Bravo to you! 💝
@zerenamafdet2 ай бұрын
Loved the looks! ~And love your courage to share your dating experience with us all! YES you are right- break the cycle and see what the universe sends your way! The worst is behind you and you deserve the best!
@amysmithssportsandmakeup13973 ай бұрын
I think you would like Replica By the Fireplace perfume. It's so nice in the fall!
@OnASpiritualLevel3 ай бұрын
Love that one!
@kayjohnson55243 ай бұрын
I love the gorgeous cashmere sweaters I bought. $50 is a steal !!! So soft & comfortable . Thank you, Heather ❤
@MichelleDailey-p4n2 ай бұрын
I appreciate that you are staying true to yourself in the dating world too. And if no one has told you today "you are beautiful, you are worthy and I love you just the way you are."💕
@OnASpiritualLevel3 ай бұрын
Lost Cherry is one of my faves ❤❤❤
@michelleforsberg57692 ай бұрын
I love your style, Heather!
@sl86053 ай бұрын
Speaking of scents, after I took a bath last night, I sprayed on my very expensive perfume, just to lay on the sofa and do nothing. It really elevated my mood.
@amygerges69743 ай бұрын
My favorite colors to wear in the winter is definitely burgundy, chocolate, emerald green,and ivory. I would like to find more deep rich purples because I think purples are so regal.
@mpbeautyinsight3 ай бұрын
You looked stunning in the maroon slip dress .. that was my fav outfit 🖤♥🖤
@momzel21793 ай бұрын
I agree Heather, you know your love language. You have figured it out, and being your best self and what will work best for you. Be patient.❤Love your fashion style.
@jodenabeale43553 ай бұрын
Heather, I loved you in all the looks. The burgundy dress was gorgeous. I did read a comment that “fashion is suppose to be fun”, well fun is something that we would express as enjoyable and you enjoy being classy and stylish, so stick to your signature style. That is the main theme of your videos is how to look stylish over 40 and I appreciate them and you, so thank you. As for Mr Austin, I have said before there is something strange about a man that can only be there once a month. I may very well be wrong but it just sounds like he is offering you an affair. I am so glad you realize you deserve more in a relationship than monthly visits. Stay classy and true to you. ❤
@AnneBodell6 күн бұрын
What sunglasses are you wearing? Are they cost friendly? 12:30
@MariaAstridQuilario-cj5sh12 күн бұрын
Classy and eye catcher style always si justine.
@Starmoongal3 ай бұрын
Hi Heather! Sad that the burgundy leather jacket is sold out! Should have got myself one when I had the chance! Looking fab as always and I agree about never settling for less than you deserve. I know exactly the feeling you described! You shouldn’t feel that way in a relationship, your person should be by your side since that’s the point of a relationship. Everything will work out as it is meant to and it’s like you said, if it is meant to be, you’ll cross paths or it will just work out on its own without any effort, work or sacrifice on your part!❤❤❤
@HeatherAndersonFashionOver403 ай бұрын
Thank you so much!! Your kind words mean the world to me!!
@allie94623 ай бұрын
1x a month is perfect!
@danahahmad32663 ай бұрын
Camel with gray i like this color combination
@dianesilvas60022 ай бұрын
Love your channel. I appreciate your honesty in fashion, especially dislikes. You have great taste and it’s very much like my own. I rarely see you wearing something I don’t like. Mr “Austin”sounds like Your Prince Charming. I know you’re a believer, I hope you pray to the Lord that he would bring you the man he intended for you. His will in your life, not yours. Who knows you better and wants the best for you if not him❤
@carolcoughlin75123 ай бұрын
I love this video❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
@Rollergirl19803 ай бұрын
I love wearing cranberry. I wish I could wear more jackets but I live in Miami. Lucky if we get a couple of cold days a year
@sl86053 ай бұрын
I got a real leather blazer jacket from one of your favorite places to shop, it's not labeled as brown, it's mahogany, I got it on sale for four hundred dollars less than its original cost. It's my new favorite piece.
@ceciliam10073 ай бұрын
I think he might be physically unavailable but maybe not emotionally. I'd try long distance and see where it takes you! You never know!! All the best to you ❤ Watching in Argentina 🇦🇷
@bobbijoeastman3223Ай бұрын
Do the clothes you review come in tall sizes? Not just the pant length, but the sleeve length. THAT's my pet peave!!
@lisarossiter98093 ай бұрын
Great video!
@angelakeep52383 ай бұрын
Also, I'm curious what Mr Austin's Love Language is (what his primary-Two L-Languages are). I guess, if neither of his Top Two are Quality Time, that could definitely be challenging. Or, as you mentioned, something/someone that might need to be released.
@robinl25962 ай бұрын
That leather moto jacket is never available in burgundy... it's not even an option. I would love to get it because I've seen it on several of your videos. Do they still make it?
@rosatedesco72413 ай бұрын
If u really like this man … i will move closer to him … 😍
@SusanWillans-b9q3 ай бұрын
A lot of clothing has cheap, plain buttons. I buy more expensive, classy looking buttons to upscale the garment and make it more personal. Easy to change for yourself or have it done at your local tailor shop
@bobbijoeastman3223Ай бұрын
Your Shitzu is camera-ready. Cute. Cute. Cute!
@michelleforsberg57692 ай бұрын
Long-distance relationships make it really tough to see how the person really is in daily life, too
@CarolynandherClothes3 ай бұрын
Ok. Here is my 2 cents at dating game. You are rushing-you want commitment too fast or you don’t want him. You should talk to him to see if he can meet you 1x/month and you can go to him 1x/month. Then see in a few months how you both feel. Is the excitement to see him still there/worth your drive? What about him, has he bailed out at all?
@angelakeep52383 ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing your thoughts and feelings, Heather ! Your 'cyber' friends appreciate you and are prayi🎵g for you. It sure is challenging, to wait upon The Lord, no doubt about it. I think God understands our loneliness, 100%, since He was like-us and experienced it {during His earthly journey}, Himself. With your Love Language being QualityTime, I can see why you are wanting to tread with caution. Do you think Mr Austin could-be/might-be talking with or flirting with other women (in his area), or that he might possibly be in-a-relationship/living deceptively? ❤❤❤🙏🙏🙏 Your friend, Angie/Angela D TRUMP 2024⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️
@bethlane34112 ай бұрын
Emotionally unavailable & physically unavailable are not the same.
@joeyperez44533 ай бұрын
Yes girl, fix your picker.
@abigailelizabeth77292 ай бұрын
I've been wearing Quince since they started and now everyone is finding out about this secret!!! Ugh!!
@cherylsoderstrom73913 ай бұрын
Oh sad. I hopped it would work out this time for. Could you move closer? Just asking.
@leahcone3 ай бұрын
Sorry about Mr. Austin guy. Why don’t you move to Austin? Maybe a change would be good… I hear Austin is great!
@roniisablake3 ай бұрын
I don't know, Heather. If this man makes you happy, more than the other men do, maybe you should find a way to make it work...
@marieoliphant83053 ай бұрын
I’m thinking the guys real girlfriend is a flight attendant and works the weekends he has free for you. 😩 One weekend a month isn’t a relationship. He would move mountains if he was all that interested. Sounds like a waste of your time Heather.
@melissagriffin75153 ай бұрын
Heather, you wear the same things over and over again. Pant, Tank, Jacket/sweater or Skirt, tank, jacket/cardigan or dress, heel/boot. I have never seen you wear silk, ruffle, chenille, boho, plaid, polka dot, floral, pinstripes, bold color, etc. I can go on and on. So why do you limit your fashion so much? Fashion is supposed to be Fun! Adventurous! Go to the edge and jump sweetheart!!!
@HeatherAndersonFashionOver403 ай бұрын
Maybe I should try some more color in my wardrobe! But I do have a definite signature style which is why a lot of what I wear looks similar. I've always been told that I have a certain look and I love it! Thank you for your comment and for watching. xoxo, Heather
@cristinanedelcu93283 ай бұрын
Don’t know if you watched the whole vid…but she literally wearing silk/ silky dress in this video in a very vibrant color too- that burgundy looks stunning!❤
@ceciliam10073 ай бұрын
I agree!!! ❤@@cristinanedelcu9328
@loveheals28283 ай бұрын
@@HeatherAndersonFashionOver40 I love your looks and I love the new you!! Your fashion has become more relatable (to me anyway!) and so have you! The vulnerability and insights you are sharing are matched by a more approachable look in your clothes and personality!! I just started watching you again. There is definitely more of a warmth and approachability coming from you. You will have a wonderful man! I'm glad you are giving yourself the opportunity to shine and share!!
@marieoliphant83053 ай бұрын
I’ve been wishing she’d branch out as far as her wardrobe. She looks basically the same week after week. 🤨 My style is pretty much the opposite of hers. I’d never wear any of her outfits, but enjoy the dating stories. 😂
@lindamcandrew12292 ай бұрын
Heather, You described my childhood perfectly, both parents were emotionally unavailable and abusive. Married much to young and still married to an emotionally unavailable person- empty and difficult.