7 Tender Phrases That Make a Guy Fall For You | Dating Advice for Women by Mat Boggs

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[@jkd9573]

1) thank you for taking such good care of me 2) you make me feel so safe 3) I trust you 4) this was a great idea 5) you make this so much better 6) I love the way you ___ 7) can I have a do-over?

[@recoveringsoul755]

I need you, or my life is better with you in it

[@marianneabbott6813]

Thank you for that list for us to remember x

[@ellenroberg-askim1779]

We are doing this together, everything will be fine!

[@wendybecksbraunsdorf6757]

When he tells me he cherish's me...when he tells me he's proud of me/who I am. He's a very uplifting man and I return it to him because I believe in him as well. He's "home" to me...where I'm safe and warm always!

[@rezotydnic]

Lucky woman

[@wendybecksbraunsdorf6757]

@@rezotydnic Honey, it took a lot of mistakes to get here...I am 72, he is 73. He is my blessing for waiting for God to bring His "perfect match" to me...and let me say that, this time, this one, is the best of the best for me!!

[@rezotydnic]

@wendybecksbraunsdorf6757 you're blessed. But those men are rare. I was I a 7 yr long relationship, we are in our 60's. Met when we were in late 50's. All the things he said and promised he'd never do, he did. A player. A liar. A cheater. And he stole years of my life knowing full well he was wasn't the person he made me believe he was. How selfish and stupid is that? I healed and moved on, and I'm 1.5 month in dating man that I'm about to stop dating. It's coming out now that he's holding soo much anger about his ex, and he's definitely not ready as in healed to have a relationship. I realize we all have baggage but seriously deal with it man. I want two people in my relationship. Me and my partner. Not me, my partner, and his ex. Ugh. I want this incredible life and want to share with someone but at 65 I'm beginning to think the romantic, loving, relationship I want doesn't exist.

[@recoveringsoul755]

Beautiful. Everyone needs a home

[@Sbannmarie]

Omg. Love that poetry that woman and man were sharing!

[@Sixthscentshealingcenter]

I love when he said I am most amazing woman he has ever known

[@desireelamarche7149]

Truly listening and not dismissing your thoughts, beliefs, or ideas as insignificant.

[@Mintyeon470]

The most impactful thing my guy has said to me is "you don't have to be blank" (insert insecuritie here) it's like he was giving me the support and permission I needed to not pretend that it was okay, to be myself, because he still cares about me either way and that is so impactful to me ❤

[@Kathleenkelly70]

Hi Mat. I discovered your videos at the same time I started a new relationship. OMG! There was so much I didn't understand about men. Things are going along swimmingly! Your videos are invaluable! Thanks Mat!

[@AvivaSingsOut]

It's so sweet that your wife wrote this whole episode. You love and appreciate her so much... by the way, like with fortune cookies y'all you can add "IN BED" at the end of all of these 😅

[@blackeneddove]

Lol! “In bed” Thats funny!! 😂

[@bektiller1622]

Thank you Mat! It's made me realise, on relationships as well, that my love language isn't touch like I've said before (although that is very important to me)... however my actual love language is through words and communication! ❤

[@bektiller1622]

Also... I was ready to walk away from my ex even though he filled my house with roses I ran out of vases to put them in... everyone that came over and saw was like.... wtf? You need to be with him. However grateful and it was so appreciated... it wasn't until he started writing me poems and stuff in French that I was like wow OK he's different, he's amazing and I married him. ❤

[@lovepeacejoyhappiness]

But now you're not together?

[@bektiller1622]

@@lovepeacejoyhappiness no sadly not, but we share children together now so are stuck with each other for life together still in some way!

[@brendarewan7441]

Roses and poems are not enough to build an “I really like you” relationship. 😢

[@bektiller1622]

@@brendarewan7441 No they're not! We stayed together and got married and had children together because we fell in love and loved each other! The flowers and poems were just acts of kindness which got my attention... I won't go into why we broke up. This is not the place for it. But we still care deeply for each other! Xx

[@bektiller1622]

Sorry Brenda... yeah that's life hey? Sometimes you can be everyone's best friend, sometimes you can't. Lots hugs if this is new for you! It will get better. Xo

[@tamaradoncic1058]

My answer to Mat's question: "You're my favorite person. After Us"😊

[@angelajaables5537]

"I've got you"

[@Ellemckay]

He could thank me once in a while.

[@maria-lena5919]

😁

[@MartineHubbard]

He can say "hey beautiful!! no matter how I am looking to get me to smile!

[@ciaraada1571]

My husband and I have bad history surrounding alcohol where we’ve had major fights and major relationship-ending incidents, but because we were married we just simply swept it under the rug and never really worked through it. Now 2 kids later, my husband continues to drink alcohol socially and it triggers me and I don’t feel safe. But when he’s sober I’m ok and he’s the best husband ever. How can I tell him I feel safe when he’s sober but not safe when he’s drinking, without triggering his feeling that he’s not “good enough” when that’s not what I’m trying to say??

[@brendarewan7441]

Let him read your comment

[@SharonPierce-vm2il]

My guy tells me all the time how beautiful I am inside and out. Also phase like I’ve got you what ever you need. / My problem is I’m always at a loss of what to say back. I’m more of an actions speak louder than words kind of person. I want to have words that I know he needs to hear, but I get lost in how to return an uplifting compliment and I know he craves those comments too.

[@smilez4us]

Have you listened to this video at all? Maybe your maturity is Young but it seems you have not even listened to this video with the comment you have left.

[@Sixthscentshealingcenter]

@@smilez4us mean!!

[@belleofthecamp6530]

I look forward to being able to tell a man “you make me feel safe” ❤

[@D.Rivera-bh6xc]

Thank you for this invaluable information.

[@AvivaSingsOut]

OK men, here are 7 phrases that expand me 1. Take as much time as you need 2. I appreciate you 3. I love when you... 4. Can I have a do over 5. What is your dream date? (then follow through) 6. I love protecting you. 7. I'm here for you (and follow through - returning phone calls and texts

[@ssiegreen5292]

Absolutely amazing! Mat - you and your team simply rock!!!

[@MsLilac88]

Hello Mat, I love your relationship advice videos, it helps me to improve my relationship with my husband. 😊

[@kuiwanguistephanie]

Aww 🥰

[@kuiwanguistephanie]

Aww 🥰

[@janeniesen1547]

I love all your bells and whistles

[@lisagrisewood3305]

My husband looks deeply into my eyes and says “ You know, I really like you. Aaawwww😊

[@viviancovington7813]

When he says “I cherish you”.

[@kimasp7482]

Today you made my heart happier than you did yesterday. I can't wait for tomorrow.

[@r.lynnsteinberg2775]

I say what someone else on here says. I say it often. "You are home to me."

[@BC-ne7vq]

Thanks for sharing these tips with us. When he tells me “I adore you”

[@thejillianleighrose]

“You don’t need to worry. I’ve got this.”

[@littysavior9181]

It turns out that Ive been using these phrases but in my own odd version. Since autism makes words difficult to say correctly to non neurotypical people, I hope that my sayings came across correctly to my partner. [For added context, my partner is partially deaf, has a fully deaf brother with autism, and is very good at reading my body language. Granted, Im also very expressive] 1) I dont say the exact phrase of thank you for taking good care of me, instead I say "Thank you!" with a big happy face and even some stimming from appreciation or snuggles of appreciation 2) I dont say you make me feel safe unless he asks why Im going out of my way to find him on a bad day and he asks why. On bad days I will automatically let him know what happened and seek comfort 3) The I trust you phrase was less of words and more the fact that I was able to try such things like letting him drive me in his car, or riding his, or intimate achievements, since I have been clinically diagnosed with anxiety. 4) Instead of saying "This was a great idea!" I tend to say "That was so fun!" while being extremely happy. Or I will say "Oh! I didn't consider that. Thanks hun!" 5) I always see if I can call him if my adhd is acting up and Im having a hard time with school work. Ive told him before it makes it better. And Id rather have body doubling than go without. 6) I do use this phrase just not always exact. Also, its pretty easy to tell when I loved something 7) I dont say this statement, but I will say "Im sorry, Im really stressed, and..." or I'll say "Can we try that again?" Or I'll say "I dont wanna end today on a bad note.." and we'll continue on the call until we end on a better note Anyone else do similar things?

[@brendarewan7441]

Your responses sound just as nice. As long as it been good for you and your spouse. Keep up the good work!

[@cassandramartin-smith3354]

Love this guy xxx relationship building is a skill

[@bektiller1622]

Òh. I love this so much Mat

[@secretshaman189]

Love your cave-man shot. Do I go east or go west? Fun ending!

[@readwithus6782]

Your the best Mat!

[@bektiller1622]

He chased me until he finally got me... then after 15+years together communication started to wane and I ended up walking away.... 😢

[@seeyalater2953]

I am so sorry to hear that. That is heartbreaking after so many years. Please know that brighter days are ahead. He doesn't know how much he really, truly misses you until now that you are gone. Blessings! 🙏

[@bektiller1622]

Thank you!....I left because i fell for him... and realised much later I should have trusted my initial instincts and left him in the first place! I'm going to cry now...and that's why he still reaches out and tries to control me, even though we are divorced!!

[@sperantaparaeac6684]

Mi sento amata da lui quando mi guarda negli occhi quando ci salutiamo appena ci incontriamo o quando ce ne andiamo via. Anche quando stiamo insieme a casa indaffarati ognuno con le sue cose o ad una festa o in altri contesti e ognitanto mi cerca con lo sguardo come per assicurarsi che tutto va bene e per comunicarmi che io ci sono nei suoi pensieri e che lui c'é lì per me e anche per avere la conferma che anche io ci sono lì per lui e lo porto nei miei pensieri.

[@susannorman4483]

A man I’m dating gifted me a stuffed bunny for Easter. I was appreciative and thanked him. Yet didn’t want it and don’t want to encourage him to get me stuffed animals. Help!

[@roza9684]

Thanks❤❤❤❤❤❤ u amazing

[@zzjustamiragezz]

Matt Boggs, do you have a book or a cd?

[@littlemidwestrebornsdolls]

Hello Matt, I enjoy watching your videos and listening to your advice. I'm 61 have been married twice. First husband and I divorced. 2nd husband died after 20 years of marriage. I'd love to meet someone and share the rest of my life with someone. I certainly don't feel old. I feel like I'm about 40 and have a lot to offer. Yet, I've not met anyone. My line of work does not open for me to meet anyone. The men I meet in the aquarium hobby are in their 30's or are already married. By the way, I've been a widow for over 4 years and am definitely ready for a relationship. Is it too late for me? I've been on dating sites. Nothing came of it. I feel lost and lonely.

[@GloW_Bug1]

I think I just got set up with my match.

[@Tomasinasworld]

Does romance even exist anymore in the modern world??

[@rezotydnic]

I have to ask Matt. Do men really pour back into the woman when she does/says these things? Not in my experience.

[@littysavior9181]

They do. Its in a different way than you might think, but they do And maybe your experiences werent great; maybe they were learning too. Idk But they do give back

[@rezotydnic]

​@littysavior9181 not in my experience. They just get swelled heads.

[@littysavior9181]

@@rezotydnic I- dont know what that means? Is it like they get full of themselves? Cuz that doesnt sound healthy

[@rezotydnic]

@littysavior9181 they are not healthy! They are narcissists. Yes get full of themselves and think they are special. They're special alright. Special a$$holes

[@rezotydnic]

@littysavior9181 yes. Full of themselves. Big egos and then they look elsewhere for all kinds of women because we made them feel special.

[@luckyandblessed]

Wow

[@nplatt91]

❤

[@alma-cp3yf]

What goes on in his mind when a woman naturally tells him all this and he chooses to walk away? The reason he's refusing to turn things around for the better is because he's busy avoiding a deeper connection, I say And that because he's not masculine enough...?

[@ssiegreen5292]

As much as I hate to say this - you are not his ONE! You were a placeholder substitute, until someone or something better or easier came along. Let it go - he was not your ONE either!

[@littysavior9181]

It not because he wasnt masculine enough. Its because hes scared of commitment and isnt ready for such things

[@maria-lena5919]

Agree..... 👍

[@smilez4us]

Copy ....not allowed....not your work...no permission

[@MK-xk7vi]

Wait men do those things?