If He Pulls Away or Acts Distant...Do THIS! | Dating Advice for Women by Mat Boggs

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[@chipojane4gloria389]

I have joined and cannot wait for tomorrow.

[@CoilyCode]

I just want to give a big hug to all the ladies who are hurting from a relationship or situationship you hoped would work itself out. But if a man doesn't want you, trust him and leave, don't look back. I understand 10000% but move on because there is a man out there who will recognize you as the one not worth living without. I met my husband after 10 years of staying single, being rejected, and so on. I didn't even have to try. We both knew we were meant for each other beyond a shadow of a doubt. Great video Matt!

[@matboggs]

Well said ❤❤❤

[@hunniexbunnie]

Thank you I needed to see this 😭

[@lynnita321]

Thank you for sharing this. I need this reminder right now.

[@arlenelovelace18]

I’ve been ghosted by 3 men so far, with NO explanation. I was very disappointed and surprised by the 2nd, I felt that we really had a connection. In one week, I’ll be meeting #4. I am not getting my hopes up, and will be cautious with eyes wide open. 😊

[@stephaniec.5851]

How did it go?

[@aeiou0123]

A lot of people ghost these days - be prepared for that nowadays. Unfortunately we dont know who will ghost until they do; so keep an open mind and keep dating until d right one shows up

[@fatimaabdulsalam-bh9cy]

Thank you for this, it's what I needed to hear right now.

[@kimchilds1035]

Thanks for the wisdom and encouraging words here, Mat - love how you say that my desire for a man means he's out there, echoing my desire! xo

[@mariagiakalis4615]

This was an incredible video Matt. I went through a "situationship like the one you describe. There was a huge age difference with which I was not comfortable. I was up front with everything but never received an answer. So I shut him down and moved on. What a waste of life on his part. Not to dare speak his truth. I'm ever so grateful for the protection of the Universe and all the growing I did through this situation. I'm living my dream now having moved to another part of the country and slowly I'm understanding the reasons why the Universe put this situation in my path. Thank you so much for the insight to you. Spirit keep you well ❤

[@matboggs]

Beautiful share, so happy ur on ur right path.

[@jax5318]

This was really helpful for me at this time. I also enjoy the humor and chuckled at the "t" portion lol 😆 thank you for sharing.

[@StKrane]

Thank you so much! ☺️🙏🏻

[@MsLilac88]

Hello Mat, I always feel enlightened by your amazing relationship advice videos, I found your advice beneficial. 😊

[@blackiss75]

Thank you so much for this i needed it!❤

[@Mayfloweralways]

A ton of this is true. But i’d like to add something. If this situation and conversation happened after a year, something doesn’t pass the smell test. It seems most likely that it was more of a situationship than a relationship. The man you spend your time with should be someone who’s a lot clearer, a lot sooner than that. I can only guess there were signs. And i say that as someone who ignored signs in the past. Knowing a man and being a woman who he spends time with doesn’t mean you’re a priority to him. And it’s best not to consider it a relationship until you’re not having the “what are we?” debate with yourself. Because if it just feels kind of nice and less lonely but you wonder how he really feels, chances are he feels comfortable getting needs met, but he doesn’t feel it’s a serious relationship. And once he realized you’re questioning how he feels, he’s out.

[@rezotydnic]

I love your last line. Once he feels you're questioning how he feels he's out. Happened to me.

[@010101Be]

🎶”I was out of your league. You were 20,000 underneath the sea 🌊 waving affections. You were out of my league, at a distance that I didn’t want to see. Wanted you nearer. And True affection floats. True affection sinks like a stone. I never felt so close. I never felt so all alone…”

[@andrearowe4815]

Some good in This..God works all for good..Stay grounded..and See long view ...It takes patience to OBSERVE .... characterI.SEEeach others maturity..

[@JillNebiker]

I really needed to hear what you had to say. It was incredibly logical and hit home for me. Thank-you! Jill

[@MonicaRicciCoach]

Love your reference to Gay Hendricks' Upper Limit Problem. We all have upper limits in love, joy, wealth, happiness, health, etc. So good!

[@amaal1]

Thank you for this I really needed it hear this. I learned the hard way

[@ElizabethMurphy-n6e]

Thanks so much for your great advice mat blogs

[@terryfreeborn3414]

Wow, widowed also...going through this too. So confusing 😕

[@LongExposure-NYC]

I really enjoy all your work and videos Mat. I have learned a lot and I would love it if you could talk about the guys who breadcrumb ladies and how we respond to that.

[@FatmaSamyFAS]

Thank you so much Mat for this great video 😍 what happened with me is that he bought us a little bit closer, I love the guy but I will use the 'O' and 'G' in ghost observe and go 30,000 feet height concept. Thank you again you really opened up my eyes ❤❤

[@matboggs]

Love that you’re going to apply these steps. ❤

[@rezotydnic]

I'm soo skeptical of all men. Thinking they are either just looking for a fling/fwb, or something else that isnt a life long partner. And the last two men i went on dates with were exactly those types. Even though they said the opposite. I don't get being dishonest and wasting someone's time. Life is short. Even shorter at my age. I just want to feel really and truly loved by a man, once in my life, before i die. That's my fear. Never finding love.

[@jackdeniston6150]

The truth is men are looking for something real. None of you are capable, so we settle for minimum. You said it, ´at your age´ You ave completely failed.

[@beluasmr]

Amazing Mat! ❤ thank you so much

[@thechip2727]

This is true for me and im a masculine woman, I feel like a man

[@draganadorcol]

Great one, Matt! 🍀

[@joannguzzo185]

Had a conversation with him abt leveling up ; he claimed to be on board but before I knew it - crickets- what the heck ?!

[@joannguzzo185]

No txt no call no show ... but I secretly caught him stalking me at first but not as much now ...

[@brundadevi571]

Wow what an explanation great thank You

[@priscilanuas1950]

I just love the way you explain everything about the G.H.O.S.T. I am relieved now and trying my best to move forward... Thanks Matt for the great advice. * Pia Dela Rosa

[@anniebattholomew9430]

Thanks for sharing

[@rustyvargas157]

This was wonderful. Thank you so very much. I laughed so hard at the tear into him joke. 😂🤣😂🤣👏👏👏♥️

[@nancyphillips6274]

Brilliant strategies!

[@NancyG-g5b]

Hi, Matt. Does your team at BTI ever counsel men? My partner agrees he would benefit from counseling. I’ve been in counseling and it has done tremendous things for me.

[@HaloMala]

Excellent!

[@jenniferrussell900]

I am not sure there is The One...a guy out there for everyone. I have been looking for decades, and still nothing that lasts. I am fine on my own, but I would like a good relationship. It would be really nice if there was actually a good person out there for everyone that wants one, but I fear that might just not be true.

[@rezotydnic]

You're not alone in that thought. I began to question my worth and if I was loveable.

[@debraarnold5250]

Work on ourselves and allow the right person to attract to us. Because most the time we’re the person we’re looking for 😮 and when we run into someone that draws all our greatest versions out even in conflicts we work through conflict well.

[@snuggleb100]

Hi Matt, when you tell me it’s not me but it seems like I missed every guy that I like pulls away and all the guys I think are OK I’m not really interested in or attracted to are really into me. What is that because I am so confused. Why is it? I can’t have the guy that I’m really interested in I find attractive and then all the guys that are not really good looking. Don’t really have much going for them. They’re interested in me. What am I doing wrong? It’s it’s gotta be me you say it isn’t but it’s gotta be. I don’t know what to 🎉do.

[@TamaraLopez-s3l]

I had a partner that pulls aways from me and when i ask y are u so distance he said he want time alone. I when on your page and every thing u said was wat he was playing out he was just not into me after 11 months of dating So i left.

[@StarKirtman]

What if your husband is pulling away, distancing himself from you.

[@nthatijermina926]

Communication is always the key 🔑

[@StarKirtman]

@nthatijermina926 he's not much of a talker he stays quiet unless he has something to say

[@rezotydnic]

Then tell him how you feel or see things. With I statements. Example: I noticed you're quieter than usual. Or I am feeling some distance, are you OK? I am concerned about you and us, I feel something is off. I've learned if a man loves you and cares he will talk and address your concerns. If he won't or doesn't, that is his answer. Hard to accept but it's his truth.

[@GabiGabi-lc6uy]

Probably "He's " seeing someone else. ( by my experiences)

[@luciazapotocka6997]

Lovely video ☺️

[@averagestudent19]

👌 😊

[@D.Rivera-bh6xc]

the T for tear into him... 🤣

[@PatriciaHinojos-k3m]

This segment was frustrating in its absence of actionable advice. Telling someone not to care doesn’t work.

[@abbeyjanegreen703]

The action was to move on and make space for someone that does care about you

[@hayaanan287]

That was a glimmer of hope 🥹

[@snuggleb100]

Hi Matt, when you tell me it’s not me but it seems like every guy that I like pulls away and all the guys I think are OK I’m not really interested in or attracted to are really into me. What is that because I am so confused. Why is it? I can’t have the guy that I’m really interested in I find attractive and then all the guys that are not really good looking. Don’t really have much going for them. They’re interested in me. What am I doing wrong? It’s it’s gotta be me you say it isn’t but it’s gotta be. I don’t know what to 🎉do.